In Part 2 of our ADHD series, Sam Straub, LCPC, and Dr. Melissa Wellner, MD, dive deeper into the lived experience of parenting—and being—a kid with ADHD. This episode moves beyond the textbook and into real family dynamics: the misunderstandings, the emotional toll, the parenting pitfalls, and the opportunities for growth (yes, even when there’s an ice cream bowl in the sink. Again.).
If you’ve ever been tempted to call your kid “lazy,” wonder why reward charts don’t work, or question whether you’re failing as a parent because things feel so hard—this episode is a must-listen.
In this episode, we cover:
- Why “lazy” is the most damaging (and inaccurate) label we give ADHD kids
- The connection between ADHD, anxiety, and depression—and what often gets missed
- How to use structure without relying on complicated reward systems
- Why weekends off ADHD meds may not be working for your family
- Executive function delays—and how to support them without nagging
- What ADHD kids really want their adults to understand
- The importance of celebrating effort, not just achievement
- And how raising a child with ADHD might just be sculpting you, too
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