On Shame: The Sexy Skeletons in my Closet

In this bold and truth-telling conversation, Christa B. Allen and Victoria Daniel sit with the spiritual weight of shame - how it shapes the stories we tell about ourselves, the choices we make, and claiming our worth.

Christa opens her heart to share her journey from working in the unpredictable world of film and television to the intimate decision to join – and later leave – OnlyFans, which she did for a while to make a living in between acting jobs. With courage and clarity, she names the pressures, projections, and internal battles that so many women carry in silence. Together, Christa and Victoria explore how shame becomes a tool of control, how women’s sexuality is policed and misunderstood, and how social media amplifies the narratives we’re taught to hide behind.

Through prayerful reflection and raw honesty, they ask:
What happens when we tell the truth about our desires? Our fears? Our mistakes?
What freedom becomes possible when we refuse to let shame speak louder than love?

In this episode, we explore:

• The judgment and double standards surrounding women’s autonomy
• The quiet ways shame manipulates us into staying small and silentThe healing power of confession, community, and being witnessed
• We also hear a Listener’s stories of liberation, self-acceptance, and reclaiming their personal truth

This is an invitation to meet your shame with compassion, to witness the places you’ve abandoned yourself, and to remember that your “mess” is often the very place your message is born.

Because every day is another chance to come home to yourself.

It’s a daily commitment.
And it’s a date.
A Praydate.

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This show is created and hosted by Christa B. Allen and Victoria Daniel & is Produced Rainbow Creative with Matthew "MoJo" Jones as Executive Producer and Justin Gum as Editor. Special thanks for our studio Visible Audio Studios for an incredible space to film.