Random Thoughts by Jalani

In this episode of Random Thoughts, we’re diving into the big question: Is marriage still worth it? From growing up dreaming about it to now questioning if it even makes sense for our generation, we’re unpacking our honest thoughts on love, commitment, and whether the benefits of marriage are real—or just romanticized.

We talk about what we’ve seen in real life vs. what we were taught to expect, the fear of settling, the pressure...

In this episode of Random Thoughts, we’re having a real conversation about turn offs—what immediately makes us lose interest, what we might do that turns others off, and how we respond once the vibe shifts.

We’re getting honest about pet peeves, dealbreakers, communication styles, and how quick (or slow) we are to cut someone off when the attraction fades. If you’ve ever gotten the ick or been left on read wondering why… this episo...

In this episode of Random Thoughts, we’re two women in our 20s (23 & 24) getting real about not having kids. We talk about the peace and freedom that comes with the child-free life, why we’re not in a rush to become moms, and whether we even want kids at all.

We unpack what would have to change for us to consider it, how society reacts to women who don’t want children, and what we’d honestly rather deal with if worst comes to worst...

In this episode of Random Thoughts, we’re unpacking what it really means to be a girl’s girl—and asking ourselves if we fully fit that description.

We talk through the confusion around the label, how different circumstances can change the desire to “do the right thing,” and whether being a girl’s girl means calling out bad behavior, staying loyal no matter what, or something in between.

We also dive into the roles that jealousy, pi...

In this episode of Random Thoughts, we’re diving deep into what it really feels like to be heartbroken. From the shock, the sadness, and the overthinking to the way it still affects us today—we’re sharing the raw, unfiltered truth about our own experiences.

We talk about how heartbreak changed the way we love, trust, and move in relationships now. We also get into the music that got us through it, the moments we knew it was over, a...

Being single never looked so good… or does it? This week, we’re talking all about the ups and downs of the single life. From loving the freedom to sometimes missing the comfort of a relationship, we go back and forth about what moments feel better with your friends versus a partner. Whether it’s solo adventures, girls’/guys’ nights, or those little reminders of what you don’t have to deal with—we’re embracing the wins and keeping i...

Let’s talk about it—life after college is not what we thought it would be. From struggling to find a job, dealing with post-grad depression, and adjusting when things don’t go how you planned… the transition is real.

We’re getting into how friendships shift when you’re no longer down the hall from your college besties, how some things were definitely easier back in school (but some are way better now), and the pressure of figuring ...

Not all friendships are meant to last forever—and that’s okay. In this episode of Random Thoughts, we’re opening up about the friendships that ran their course.

We talk about the kind of friends we love, the kind of friends we are, and the things we simply can’t deal with anymore. From growing apart to straight-up betrayal, we’re sharing what pushes us to cut someone off—and why it’s not always drama, sometimes it’s just peace.

If ...

We all have our delulu moments—and this week, we’re owning every last one. In this episode of Random Thoughts, we’re talking about the times we’ve been delusional on purpose (and knew it), what “delusional” even means in today’s world, and where we draw the line between manifesting and just plain trippin’.

From texting someone after they ghosted us (again) to convincing ourselves that one IG like meant true love—we’re unpacking it ...

Is karma real—or are we just connecting the dots to feel better? In this episode of Random Thoughts, we’re diving into all things karma: what it means to us, how it shows up in real life, and whether it’s actually the universe at work or just coincidence.

We talk about the satisfaction (and guilt?) of watching someone get what they deserve, reflect on times we’ve tried to be karma ourselves, and unpack the difference between natura...

This week on Random Thoughts, we’re talking about the most confusing kind of “relationship” — situationships. You know the vibes: all the perks, none of the titles… until things get complicated.

We’re breaking down the blurred lines, the unspoken rules, and the “are we or aren’t we?” moments that come with being more than friends but not quite official. From mixed signals to emotional attachment, we’re getting real about what it’s ...