014: Am I the Seed Among Thorns? – What the Parable Revealed About My Life

In this episode, Brett opens up about his personal journey from self-reliance to God-dependence, highlighting the importance of seeking God first in every area of life. Drawing from Matthew 6:33 and his own life experiences, Brett shares how years in the self-help industry led him away from full reliance on God and how a renewed relationship with Scripture—especially through the parable of the sower—opened his eyes to how the “cares of the world” had choked out his faith.

He explores the transformative power of getting outside, noting how even five minutes of sunshine can reduce stress, improve mood, and cultivate mindfulness. These discoveries originally led him to study positive psychology, but as he deepened his walk with God, he realized the qualities he sought—joy, peace, resilience—were fruits of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22–23), not just concepts from psychology.

Brett encourages listeners to take simple steps toward spiritual renewal: listen to teachings like those from Ocean’s Church, dive into Scripture starting in Matthew, and get outside daily to reconnect with God’s creation. Ultimately, true and lasting joy, peace, and fulfillment come not from self-improvement, but from the daily filling of the Holy Spirit and surrendering everything—finances, emotions, health—back to God.

Key Takeaways:

1. The Parable of the Sower revealed Brett’s own drift into worldly distractions and self-reliance.
2. Time in nature boosts mental, emotional, and physical well-being, offering a glimpse of how God designed us to feel.
3. Positive psychology aligns with the Fruits of the Spirit, but true fulfillment is found in God’s presence.
4. Daily surrender and seeking God’s Spirit is essential for overcoming life’s stressors and walking in purpose.

 

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