025: Why I Chose the Bible Over the ‘Experts’ to Parent My Son

In this episode, Brett opens up about his spiritual journey and recent commitment to go “all in” with God. After years of dabbling in personal development and holding back in his faith, Brett recounts a pivotal moment in November when he began immersing himself in sermons and fully surrendered his life—including his marriage, finances, and parenting—to God's guidance.

He shares a vulnerable parenting struggle with his five-year-old son, who has been acting out and not listening. Brett reflects on his previous parenting style influenced by personal development teachings—offering choices and avoiding discipline—but admits it hasn't been working. Turning to the Bible, he finds clarity in biblical discipline and leans on prayer to navigate parenting with love and patience.

A key part of the episode is a powerful prayer that moved Brett to tears, reminding him—and listeners—that parenting is a stewardship entrusted by God, not something to manage by human strength alone. He emphasizes the importance of teaching children to fear (reverence) God and the need to align family life with biblical truth, not cultural trends.

Key Takeaways:

1. Go all in with God – Half-hearted faith leads to frustration; surrendering everything to God brings clarity and peace.
2. Parenting requires biblical alignment – Culture may change, but God's Word offers timeless guidance on raising children with love and discipline.
3. Prayer is powerful in parenting – A sincere, Spirit-led prayer can reshape your heart and bring divine wisdom in hard moments.
4. Parenting is stewardship – Children belong to God; parents are entrusted to raise them in His ways for eternal impact.

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