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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This podcast was recorded on Buddy lung Land and produced
in NAW.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
All right, we're on.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Bring Welcome Back. Today's a juicy one.
Speaker 4 (00:13):
We're going to be reading out some things that people
have sent in some Reddit content.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
So we're just doing like reactions and advice.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
I guess right, yeah, our opinions.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
OK. Here we go on what people.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Do in relationships, how we feel about it. So I've
been sent this clip from TikTok. Basically, it's a groom
holding his wife over for wedding photos and there's a pool.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
Behind her and he drops her in.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
I thought was it an accident, but he's done it
on purpose.
Speaker 5 (00:47):
And then shetes afterwards, what do you think the way
he did it like that is crazy? And then she
read in headfirst.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
And then turned to his mate for glorification like I
don't want.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Your mate and her face.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
Have you seen her face when she gets at the pool?
Speaker 3 (01:06):
No, no, she gets out of the pool.
Speaker 5 (01:08):
Oh my gosh, not her face as she's just sitting
in the pool looking Oh my, I think she's gonna
FID for a divorce.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
What a dear head, poor thing. She looks confused.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
Not only that, but as much she's put into Look.
Speaker 4 (01:22):
Yeah, honestly, look, I it depends what our plans were after.
But I think if Lucky did that to me, I
was like, you fucking filmed that.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
On like professional cameras with microphones and shit, right, Otherwise,
why else would you do that? Why else would you
do that?
Speaker 5 (01:39):
This one you ladies in the comments are all red flags.
She didn't mind. She's laughing. He also jumped in.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
Oh my gosh, some guys are torn deaf. I don't
know how I feel about that.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Would you do that? I would never do it.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
I think, because I think the thing that's most annoying
is that he's like have a joke with his mates
at his wife's expense, Like, dude.
Speaker 5 (02:05):
Like if you told me, oh, yeah, like I dropped
I dropped my missus in the pool after we got married,
I'd be like, huh, that's mount mud.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
But seeing it like like that's it's hard to watch.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
Yeah, it's hard to watch. Hard.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
It's kind of uncomfortable because I think as women, you
just know how much effort goes in, Like if it's raining, dolls,
I've got a jacket and an umbrella over because if.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
It's like, oh, the party's done, now like married and
she's going to go home and get it all done again.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:32):
I would just be annoyed just having to take a
break out of my special day and having to even
go up to my hotel room and like fix up
my makeup, fix up my hair, get changed out of
wet clothes.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Then he's got to wait before hour to get ready again.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
Yes, seriously, he's punishing himself. No, but that is crazy. Okay,
let's read some things that people have sent in. Okay
from Jane.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
Out an X.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
When we moved in together, my ex started asking me
for permission to eat things or do things in this
weird kid like voice.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Oh my gosh, it's like, can I have a snack
like that?
Speaker 2 (03:12):
That's what I'm the guy is.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
The guy is like, babe, can I have em like that? Vibe?
In Crimson?
Speaker 2 (03:23):
But has he just recently started doing it?
Speaker 3 (03:25):
Is he?
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Do you know what that is?
Speaker 4 (03:27):
No, she said, we just moved in together. When we
moved in together, but it's her X.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
My ex started on. Now it's an X. She's said
not together, but she's talking as.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
Like when they Okay, so obviously not together anymore. But
he used to start he started doing that. That is
fucking weird.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
Wait, there's more, there's more, there's more.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
There's not more.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
Or he'd stick out his lower lip like he was
pouting and asked, SI I swear my ovary shriveled off
and fell out whenever he did, Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
My my, Oh there's more.
Speaker 4 (04:05):
It was so bad that I had to create a
code word peanut butter, that I'd say when he did it,
because he didn't realize how.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
Often he was doing it.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
It unfortunately gave me an itck that severely affected my libido.
For him, he was treating me like his mom. He
had to ask permission from My libido never really recovered
from this.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
If that is a definition of an eck? Is that?
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Or I'm picturing like nice guy like I feel like
he No.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
I feel like that's a step and swn to like,
what's it called? Is it bdsm No?
Speaker 3 (04:42):
What's that like?
Speaker 5 (04:42):
When some guys I watched the movie recently the cinemas
and this this guy basically wanted this girl to like
stamp on his fingers and stuff.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Oh like weird shit, okay.
Speaker 5 (04:51):
Baby, think it was called if you haven't watched that movie,
and if you have, you know what I'm saying if
you haven't watched it, because it's that's a step and sworn.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
But honestly, I I've heard of many relationships breaking down
because a man treats their partner like his mom, like,
and you do naturally take on that role of their mother,
like you're.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Doing everything for them, You're washing their clothes, levels to it.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
Yeah, I like being nurtured and stuff, but I'm not
asking for cheese.
Speaker 4 (05:20):
Yeah, asking for sex in like a baby voice to
a woman. I don't think that seems.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Masculine. Is that.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Simply he's just be weird?
Speaker 3 (05:35):
Does that make Does that make me sexist?
Speaker 4 (05:37):
If I say that comment though, Like I don't want
to be sexist because we both take on both both
roles these days in today's day and age. But I
feel like it's always nice to feel like the man's
taking control.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Yeah you know, but yeah, I agree with that.
Speaker 5 (05:54):
I think that's like general consensus, like where like a
guy would sort of like do more of the initiation
sort of thing exactly to say that a girl can't
be like coming on to you as a guy and like, oh,
it's clear then that we want to be into my exactly.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
I think it.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
Yeah, it's easy to tell if one person doesn't want
to or it's what you do with that information and
that body language.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
She sucked him off because of that reason?
Speaker 4 (06:18):
Well yeah, she said, Oh, libido never really recovered. But yeah,
some people you just don't mesh with, Like maybe another
girl would think that's adorable.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
No, girl, maybe.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
He's still single and he will be for the foreseeable future.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
Here's another one from Christy. Why do men follow and
watch porn of women who look nothing like their partner?
I am four, ten kirby, dark haired girl, and my
boyfriend Mayle thirty four will follow girls on social that
are these skinny, blonde, all plastic surgery country girls.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
I look nothing like that.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
I'm a short, nerdy, curby girl. He says, I'm his
tie and he's attracted to me, and I mean we
do the deed fairly often, So why does he continue
to follow and like those types? Am I just being insecure?
Because it makes me definitely feel that way. I've expressed
it many times too, how much it makes me feel,
and I feel like it's still slightly ignored.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
That is so much wrong with that matter.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
I feel really bad.
Speaker 5 (07:21):
That is so much to that, but yeah, you should
not be watching porn period.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Okay, but all men do watch porn.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
Wrong. I have not watched porn since January twenty twenty one.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Oh we're in twenty twenty five.
Speaker 5 (07:36):
Yeah, not all men watch porn or it is bad
for you, and especially if you're in a relationship, and
especially if you're not even looking at anyone that looks
remotely like your missus.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
Okay, so when guys watch porn, they are looking at
the girl thinking that they're the guy having sex with her.
Twenty twenty one, twenty twenty one, Sky, all right, take
you back. That's as long as it's been in my mind.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
I thought.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
Locky always explained it to me. He stopped watching porn also,
but he used to lie to me about it because
he knew I'd rage and be like away because I
never understood it either, because I'm like, why do you
need to watch porn if you can just have sex
with your partner? But he explained it to me. Men
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are very visual, so they just they can't because like
when girls masturbate, I feel like they don't need a
visual They can just lay there, think about what they
want to think about, and do their thing, whereas men
they have to see something because they're so visual, So
he would explain it in the way of like, I
just need to see the action of it. But anyway,
(08:43):
he stopped watching porn too, because it is very bad.
Speaker 3 (08:47):
For your brain.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Yeah, and your relationship. It sucks your relationship, fuck your relationship.
Speaker 4 (08:52):
Well yeah, I mean I think it sounds to me
like he's got a fantasy of like that.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
Look.
Speaker 5 (09:00):
Yeah, like he wants to chop a cold girl. I
feel like the best thing he can do is chop
up a cold girl, be done with it, get it
out of the system, and then just be re loose
missus again.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
But maybe he can't chop up a curl cowgirl and he.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
Needs to get a flight to Texas.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
But he probably isn't. He probably can't pull the girls
that he wants to f U c K. Do you
know what I mean?
Speaker 4 (09:21):
Yeah, I christy, I would be highly offended, yes, And
I mean the porn things such a touchy subject because
in my opinion, I thought all guys watched it. And
to be honest, there's been times where I'm like, to Locky,
just go get your fucking laptop. I'm not in the
mood really not so I don't.
Speaker 3 (09:41):
I'm like, if I'm giving permission whatever, but if I
and I think it's worse, so that if they are
really sneaky about it.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
For me, like porn has no positive effects.
Speaker 5 (09:53):
It only has negative effects people have Remember that one
people watch one.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
People are making porn videws. They are acting that an act.
Speaker 5 (10:00):
If you continuously watch porn on a regular basis, your
perception of what sex is is so.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
Off, so true.
Speaker 5 (10:08):
And not only that, if you think you can go
and see a girl and fuck you like you're watching
these guys fuck on porn movies, she is not going
to be satisfied.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
It's gonna sell up.
Speaker 5 (10:18):
She's Yeah, she might think that she's having a good time.
You might think she's having a good time because you're
watching on porn just but that's not.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
How it works.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
No, that's not how.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
I feel like.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
You lose that sort of emotional attraction and that desire
to have sex when you're just watching porn because.
Speaker 3 (10:33):
You can get it so easily. Yeah, and then that
screws up you.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
And not only that as well, it's it's really addictive.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
It's like drugs.
Speaker 5 (10:42):
It's like a drug because when you get off, you
obviously have this like dope mean hit yeah, and then
it's so easily accessible that you just kill you're done,
and then you'll never have that same dope mean hit
off your missus or your boyfriend.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
But she's saying that they still have sex quite frequently.
Speaker 4 (11:00):
I would love to know more detail to comment further,
but for me, that is weird.
Speaker 5 (11:06):
I don't think there's any reason that you should be
watching porn if you're in a relationship other than potentially
a long distance relationship.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
Yes, So would you classify watching porn cheating?
Speaker 2 (11:17):
I think it's wrong, Yeah, it's wrong.
Speaker 4 (11:19):
Would you classify a man in a relationship buying only
fans photos cheating?
Speaker 2 (11:25):
Correct?
Speaker 3 (11:26):
Yeah? Because they are like talking, it's very personal.
Speaker 5 (11:29):
Yeah, Like, if you are in a relationship and you
want to be with that person and you're in love
that person, why are you looking somewhere else for that
same feeling? Like?
Speaker 2 (11:37):
It's wrong. It shouldn't be a thing it feels, I
would say.
Speaker 5 (11:41):
I would argue that if you're in a long distant relationship,
there's probably a little bit more leeway there because you
know you still have needs. But even then, if you're
really in love with somebody and you're together news, right, Yes,
as a good like as a guy. I've had a
long distant relationship and you know I've had news and
like that is I would consider better than watching a
(12:03):
random person do it.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
Right.
Speaker 4 (12:05):
Oh, I just look up porn and think it's ridiculous.
I'm like, oh, oh, gosh, I can't. It's people's jobs.
Speaker 3 (12:12):
But I don't see how that can be a turn
on for some people, like because you do know they're acting,
so it doesn't feel authentic and I think that's why
I look at it weirdly.
Speaker 4 (12:25):
But anyway, that's a heavy one. Oh yeah, Christy, that's heavy.
I would be telling him to.
Speaker 5 (12:30):
Stop watching it, or ask you the reason why it
is you think you need to watch porn?
Speaker 4 (12:35):
Yeah, ask him some deeper questions and get to the
bottom of this, and then I would say, please stop.
And if he doesn't, then there's probably a problem.
Speaker 5 (12:44):
Yeah, there's definitely a problem. He's missing something and he's
trying to feel something.
Speaker 3 (12:47):
Yeah, fill avoid. Okay, here's one from Kate and Mark.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
Did you want to so good?
Speaker 3 (12:54):
Do you want to read one?
Speaker 5 (12:55):
I try and read a message. It's probably going to
take me, but ten times, so let's just stick to
what we know. You run the message and I laugh.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (13:02):
From Kate and Mark, there was this guy I had
just met who was interested in me. After a night out,
he came over to state mind. We all fell asleep
in the living room. I get major gas in the
mornings and this morning was no different. And since I
really didn't think anything would happen with this guy, I
let a huge one rip. It was so loud, even
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louder than my normal ones. I'm acting like nothing happened.
When the guy looks at me and asks, was that you,
I turned towards him and say, yes, do you mind.
I'm watching his reaction because even I thought this fart
was gross and loud, and because I'm waiting and wanting
to scare him away. Completely unfazed. He says no and
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then proceeds to talk about the plans for the day.
Totally won me over. Been together thirteen years.
Speaker 3 (13:50):
Married for five. I mean, yeah, it shouldn't be a problem,
like I remember levels to it.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
There's like I'm all for like yeah, like I'm very
I don't know, like I'm very like awful about that
stor like I'm not like we get about that ship
because I'm like, it's just normal, right.
Speaker 2 (14:13):
It's normal, but there's levels to it.
Speaker 5 (14:15):
And if a girl was the fight in front of
me that i'd be seeing for a little while, I'd
be like, oh, that's like cute whatever, But like if
she's let until if she's letting trumpets off the first
more the work next to her with no shame bruh,
Yeah that's not cricket.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
That doesn't right with me. This is a madness, ladies.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
It's okay to far. And if if you're in bed
with callum and you need.
Speaker 2 (14:36):
A fart, got like to be the Dutch of them.
Speaker 4 (14:40):
Yeah, let's pray, let's pray. I would trap him under
the blankets and be.
Speaker 3 (14:43):
Like, see a bitch have fun. No, it's okay.
Speaker 4 (14:47):
Don't ever let a guy make you feel embarrassed to fart,
because it is a very normal bodily function. But off
the back of this, this is how shamed I used
to be to far in front of that first guy
I saw who was like fucking.
Speaker 3 (15:01):
Other girls and I wasn't.
Speaker 4 (15:03):
He was so repulsed by girls farting that I was
so ashamed to ever fight in front of him that
I would hold on to them to the point where
I cannot fart.
Speaker 3 (15:13):
Now to you, you will not ever hear me. Far.
I trained my body to fart silently because I would
hold on and release slowly.
Speaker 2 (15:24):
Slow, release slowly, but the silent you.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
Know, yeah, yeah, yeah, but now you will never hear
because I am so ashamed to fart, which is so
bad for your body.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
Yeah, it's crazy, and in.
Speaker 4 (15:36):
A relationship, flocking and I we get into mad fights
about it actually because he's he's bad. Like we'll be driving,
he'll far and leave the windows up, and I'm I'll
look at him and.
Speaker 3 (15:47):
Be like, you're fucked. You are absolutely fucked. I actually hate.
Speaker 5 (15:53):
Yeah, you can't even breath because you've genuinely so about
that you're thinking about me?
Speaker 4 (15:57):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, But I'm like, but it's all the time.
Like the other day, walked upstairs and I'm like, dude,
he just gotten home and from a meeting and I
was in the other house doing content. Came down, came
down to the garage upstairs and I'm like, oh.
Speaker 3 (16:12):
I'm like, did one of the dogs do a ship
up here? And he because he knows.
Speaker 4 (16:17):
I get really angry when he farts now because I'm
like it's I'm like, it's too much, dude. I'm like,
and walk away, like you'll purposely do it close to
me in a confined space like he's evil anyway, walk
up there.
Speaker 3 (16:31):
I'm like, dude, did one of the dogs do a shit?
Speaker 4 (16:34):
He went silent. I'm like, babe, did you far? Because
otherwise tell me because otherwise I'm going to need to
start looking for dog shit. And he's like I did.
Speaker 3 (16:42):
I'm like, oh, may not, just too much, but.
Speaker 4 (16:48):
I mean, I think it's nice to meet a guy
that doesn't care about that, But then you'll meet.
Speaker 3 (16:52):
Guys who do really care and some who don't. But
they shouldn't care.
Speaker 2 (16:57):
No, they shouldn't care at all.
Speaker 5 (16:58):
But there's levels to it, Like if a girl was
to fight in front of me, I'll be calm with
it as if she's if she's with it, if she's
if she's like a little bit embarrassed or whatever.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
It's like acutely like I take the place.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
As of job.
Speaker 5 (17:11):
But if a girl is like in the car, in
my car and she just lift her legs with my
lord ones, I would just be like, you're actually fucking futile,
that's fucking not right, you know, there's like you can
do it in a classy way.
Speaker 2 (17:24):
It's like even.
Speaker 5 (17:24):
Burping, like come on, yeah, but I guess long distance
like not long distance sorry, like long term relationships, you
get more and more comfortable.
Speaker 4 (17:31):
It's like whatever, you know, Yeah, I think it depends
on the person, but also out of respect, Like you're
not ripping out a massive fart the first time you
meete a girl.
Speaker 3 (17:39):
Either, are you.
Speaker 2 (17:40):
Well that's the thing that my maids don't but I do.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
Oh well, then why is it okay for you?
Speaker 5 (17:44):
But I've got I've got science behind it? What science
behind it? Like if I go into a bird's house
and I.
Speaker 3 (17:53):
Rip a fat, you're marking your territory.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
Yeah, I'm linked on the law. Oh my god, the
boy is in towne.
Speaker 3 (17:59):
Absolutely fucking not. Please please, No.
Speaker 2 (18:02):
It's not not to that extent.
Speaker 5 (18:04):
But it's just like if you can just like not
be weird about it, then they're not gonna be weird
about it.
Speaker 4 (18:09):
Girls would never be well, I don't know, some girls
would hate it, but like, I'm not weird about that stuff.
Like when Moki and I first met, he would go
to the toilet and shut the door.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
I'm like why are you closing the door? He's like,
I'm doing a shit.
Speaker 4 (18:22):
I'm like, don't you dare close that fucking door. Ever again,
I'm like, I don't care what you're doing in there,
don't you dare close that door. If I'm living in
this house, that door stays open, Like I don't care
what smells or what's what's happening.
Speaker 3 (18:38):
But yeah, I think good for your husband took it
like a champ.
Speaker 5 (18:43):
If you're not fat in front of your partners after
a long time, I think that's even more weird thane fat.
Speaker 3 (18:49):
And but that's just how some people are.
Speaker 4 (18:52):
Like couples that I've met that have been in a
long term relationship say like, I've never done a shit
in front of my man. I'm like, that is so weird.
I'm like locking I who'll come and brush his teeth?
Speaker 3 (19:03):
Yeah? Or like we're just very comfortable though.
Speaker 4 (19:06):
And I think if you're with someone, if there's two
people in a relationship that are uncomfortable with it, then
the yeah, it's going.
Speaker 3 (19:12):
To be kept private.
Speaker 2 (19:13):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (19:13):
Yeah, some people are just very private.
Speaker 5 (19:15):
If you, as a person are comfortable with it, it
would be easier for your partner to be comfortable with
it too. Yes, if your partner's never yeared you fart,
you're probably not gonna want to fight in.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
Front of them.
Speaker 3 (19:26):
Yeah, exactitely exactly.
Speaker 5 (19:28):
If you just rip off the bundy and start ripping
them away, then it's like, well you viewed it now, Yes,
But for.
Speaker 4 (19:34):
Me, I don't think I would personally feel comfortable to
fight in front of a guy that I've just.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
Met and started. I feel like that's fair enough.
Speaker 3 (19:42):
Yeah, so that's our opinions on that one, guys. But
thank you so much for sending those in. They were
so fun.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
They were actually so fun.
Speaker 3 (19:49):
I want to read more.
Speaker 5 (19:50):
Sorry, can we just put a new request and if
you're going to send a message through, we want to
see how you look as well.
Speaker 3 (19:56):
But some people would want to be kept anonymous.
Speaker 2 (19:59):
That's true.
Speaker 3 (20:00):
Yeah, so this is part of them on the screen
as a happy couple.
Speaker 5 (20:05):
We have like a projector here and we could just
be like, so we have Mark and Mark.
Speaker 4 (20:12):
Big thought she farted in front of him, married thirteen years.
Speaker 2 (20:18):
Oh my god, Oh it's crazy. Now there's no judgment
you guys.
Speaker 5 (20:22):
This is just a bit of ant like, yeah, if
you want to talk like a baby, you can talk
like a baby, like who might say anything?
Speaker 2 (20:27):
You're not in my house.
Speaker 3 (20:30):
So yeah, thank you guys. I'm hoping I didn't offend anyone.
Speaker 5 (20:33):
We just get probably did s guy, Let's be honest,
but when don't we.
Speaker 4 (20:38):
But thank you guys so much for tuning in. If
you have any more things to write in, I feel
like we should do a segment where we do like.
Speaker 3 (20:45):
Sky and Cal's love advice or you know, I want it,
I want it. Those were juicy, but like I feel
like we could get deeper.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
Yeah, we get deeper.
Speaker 3 (20:54):
We could get deep.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
That is a very good start.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
Yeah, absolutely, Thank you so much guys.
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