July 30, 2025 • 24 mins
Did you know there's a secret button on Love Island that the Islanders have to press before they get freaky under the sheets? Callum spills the beans on todays ep and shares it's pros and cons!
Plus have you lied about sleeping with someone? Apparently a few people have lied about sleeping with Skye + Cal!
And is watching Porn and OnlyFans considered a form of cheating??
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This podcast was recorded on Buddy along Land and produced
in Now.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Hi guys, welcome back. In today's episode, we are going
to get frisky, raunchy, and fucking Joe.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
We got forty five minutes, we're gonna need twenty five
gets intro, All right.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
We're on.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Bring on today's episode, we're gonna get frisky, kinky, and ronchie.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
So last episode we had a question at the end
that was sex related and it kind of flows into
what we want to talk about today, which.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Is all things sex nudity.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
Let's talk about sex, babe.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
So we're gonna kick things off with I guess nudity. Yeah,
maybe on TV because obviously, you know, you are pretty
much yourself in those environments and comes everywhere.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
That's right.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
How do you combat like the nudity or how do
you move around the nudity sort of aspect on your
TV shows?
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Like Are You?
Speaker 2 (01:01):
I didn't shower nude at all in the Jungle in
Big Brother. I think I did like a few times,
but mainly swimwear. But back when I did it, they
didn't actually have the uplate segment still running, so I
didn't have to like stress about whether I'd be on
TV noode or anything. Yeah, it was just whether you
(01:21):
were comfortable about like producers seeing you naked and stuff.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Yeah, yeah, which I was just like whatever, Yeah, I'm
the same because I knew that. Well.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Actually, no, I'm not.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Because when I first my first ever show love On
and I think it was like day one, I was
like showering in swimwear in the actual shower. I think
if it was was like day three, I was in
outdoor shower butt naked.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Why what change?
Speaker 1 (01:45):
I don't know. I just feel like you just get
used to the cameras and whatever.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
You don't care.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
It just becomes so uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
You're like, fuck it, I'm not putting my bikini onto shower.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Yeah, you can't get fully. You don't feel like fresh
fresh right. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
But I do think it would have been different maybe
if I had known that they were going to air it.
To be honest, back then, I wasn't a mom. I
would have been like, I really don't care.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Not bothered.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Yeah that was me, not really, But I thought that
on my one that they wouldn't show any of it,
and then like it came out and.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
They could cletely see me with my assholes. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
But they which is good. Yeah, yeah, they blur it
so and even with us going to the toilet, there
was a camera in the corner and it just becomes
so normal, like I didn't really care, and I'm the
very open person, like, yeah, the cameras every no, not
on I'm a celeb on Big Brother. Was going to say, Yeah,
(02:39):
so there was cameras everywhere because they needed cameras everywhere.
It's a Big Brother house.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Yeah. People like to sneak in the showers.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Yeah, so they've got to capture everything, right, Yeah, you.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
Got to just embrace it.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
I think, Yeah, I'm not want to be like shy,
you know, not shy even if I meeting new people
and you know, like I'm just this is me bro,
like it is what it is.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
I definitely think I wasn't like, you know, overthinking it
or anything. Yeah, but like I said, maybe now, if
I did a TV show, I would probably be more
conservative based on the fact.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
That I'm a mom.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
Yeah yeah, and.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
I like wouldn't want my boys to go through anything
due to my actions.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
Right, Okay, they will want to see like a footage
of you Charloton that comes up with the would work
like a few years later.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
And then maybe like the kids in their class would.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
Say, shit, oh my god, look is this your mother's
tits back in the day.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Yeah, Like I wouldn't want that for them.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
So I think i'd be the same. I think i'd
be the same. I've always avoided having like sex on TV.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
Oh yeah, what was it like on Love Island?
Speaker 4 (03:45):
Did they restrict you in any way?
Speaker 1 (03:47):
They didn't really.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
Restrict us, but we do actually have There was like
when you couple up with somebody, you have to sleep
in the same bed as them. So even if you
don't want to couple up with that person and then
just the last the last one, you're forced a couple up.
You have to sleep in the same beds. You can't
really like sleep anywhere else, Like you can go and
sleep outside the garden with wherever you want to sleep in.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
I think it would be that weird though, you're living
with someone and sleeping.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
In Yeah, but if you want to have like sexual
intercourse on TV. On Love Island, there's two little buttons
on the bed either side, and there's them lights, so
you have the lights like the neon lights in Love Island.
There's a heart above the bed, right a neon heart. Right,
so if both button consent buttons are pressed, the heart
(04:32):
lights up, so the producers on the night vision can
see that you've both clicked the button, so you can
actually start get into it.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
But wait, is that like a green light for the
producers to know no one's getting.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
Graped or yes, that's exactly right.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
Okay, but it's not like the button goes dings up
and whatever so they film it.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
No, no, they always filming it.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
It's just a green light so that the producers don't
actually stop you from doing it because it's not consensual, right,
you've got to Yeah, But saying that, like I never
got into bed and was like, right, I'm gonna get
naughty tonight, click that button, click that. But you don't
do that, right, you just get into bed or whatever.
Then you start lips up and before you know what,
you're getting a bit handsy and you're like, pick the button.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
Do they come over this baker and say, excuse me,
you need to both hit the button. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Yeah, and then you you hit the buttons. Then the
flow was stopped in it.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
That's so awkward.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
Yeah, it's like halftime oranges, all right, Breaver, click the
buttons where well we.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Yeah, sorry bit dry now yea.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Yeah, bedtime.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
But it still that they do that because you know,
I think that's something that introduced later on.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
It wasn't always there. Yeah, but I feel like it
is a good thing.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Like should I wonder if there's any been like complications
on the show, some reason for them to introduce that.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Maybe because it's a low violands across the world now,
so maybe. But I think it's really good because you
obviously wanted to be like consensual, and when you're in
bed with a new partner, like somebody could have couped
up with yesterday, and you know, you get handsy, the
girl or the guy might feel a bit uncomfortable. So
it's good that they got that there to make sure
everyone feels like relaxed and at ease.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Yeah, so that people around you to know that, like,
oh yeah, they're both into it.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
They're both into it. The producers get the lens on.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
You know, my gosh, that's so.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
I think it's really good. I think it's really good.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
So on your season, did any of the girls shower
nude or no?
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Not that I'm aware of.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
Upstairs, because there's a women's bathroom and then like a
guy's bathroom.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Yeah, but we all kind of use the same I don't.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
I just showered every day outside because the girls, you,
I know how you majority of you take so long
to get ready. You're shaving your legs, your shit, like,
you know what I mean. I was like, don't get
me anywhere near the indoor shower. I'm gonna go outside
in the garden by myself and shower naked.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
And it was nice.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
I felt like I was connected to the earth, even
though it was astro turf.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Honestly, whenever you were sharing in the jungle, I'm like,
I ain't going nowhere near that. I'm like, I'm a
stay right up here. I'm like, who knows what he's doing?
But yeah, I think we're both pretty comfortable with the
whole nudity thing. So when you've like met up with
(07:12):
the girl out or whatever, and you go back to
the hotel and start lips and up. Has there ever
been any girls who have a certain expectation of what
you're going to be like in the bedroom due to
how you were on Love Island?
Speaker 1 (07:27):
Not?
Speaker 3 (07:27):
Not really, I mean, come on, there might be like
an expectation in their heads.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
I don't know, they've never like voiced it.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
They've never really voiced it.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
They ever said like, oh, I thought you would be into.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
This or yeah, like about some girls being like thinking
that I would be like into it, into it straight away,
when like there's been times I'd be like I don't
actually want to do that tonight, do you know what
I mean? Like where like I think certain times the
girls are like if you know we have we go
back to this hotel or whatever, like you know, I'm
gonna get lucky with Carlem, and like sometimes it's like
(08:01):
it's not otten.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
And then do you.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Think that just because like sometimes you're not in the
mood or you're not really feeling the connection with them,
Like because if you were, say you met like a
pretty girl out and you were vibing and you had
a connection, would you definitely want to have sex or.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
No, it's the opposite.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
Also you want to save it.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
Well, Like if I if I need a girl out
and I think she is like a two stroker porker,
I mean like ten out of ten, I'll be like
you stroker pok I reckon, I'd be less inclined to
want to have sex with her. Because that I'd know
if I have sex with you on the first night,
then that's my fantasy in my head gone of us
(08:42):
having a perfect life and kids and marriage together because
you're a ten ten, whereas like if a girl holds out,
they just become that much hotter.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Yeah, I agree, And I've told everyone this, like all
my friends anyone, like that is my goal to girl
advice is like, don't have sex with them on the
first night, and like, even if it's what the girl wants, Like,
even if I met a guy for the first time
and I was in bed with him, I even even
if I was like so horny, I would not want
to have sex with them because like I could not
(09:11):
handle a feeling used the next day and be giving
that away to a stranger.
Speaker 4 (09:17):
Yeah, yeah, like I don't know, I.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
Would want like a connection first.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
But yeah, but I feel like you learn as you go.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Like for me, like when I was in my younger years,
I would just be like whatever, you know, But as
I've got older, I don't see the value in that.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
That doesn't it doesn't make me.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
Feel fulfilled or like satisfied even then there especially the
next day, you know, and like there's been times where
I've been on holiday or whatever and it happened, and
I would be like whatever, but like I just gone on.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
I've just avoided it more and more. No, like it
never happens, Like never happens.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
That's good.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
That's good because you don't you know, there's some scary stuff. Yeah, exactly,
people not having protected sex. Never know, yeah, you never,
but I would freak out. I'd be like book that
peraps me right now.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
Like I would say to like I would say to
like the girls like oh, Like they'd be like, oh,
you know, like come back or like whatever, or they'd
be like, oh, can I come back? I'm like yeah,
but like I'll tell them like it's not going to
be happening, like if you get that out of your head, yeah,
you know what I mean. And if you come back
and you don't on a card then or whatever.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
Like So, so basically what you're saying is you think
girls have this perception that you're like a massive fuck boy,
and then they're shocked sometimes when you say I actually
don't want to have.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
Sex, yeah, and then they feel shit because they think
there's something wrong with them or I don't fancy them.
But it's just like, no, I don't want.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
To do that.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
Yeah, that's good though, You've got to explain that to
them though, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3 (10:33):
Yeah, because as well, like if you if I always
have like sex with just like somebody after the night out,
like they would gain They gained so much more because
before you know it, the rumors are getting around like oh,
like I you sept with my friends, like and it's
like half time it's even true, and I'm like, I
don't want that they tell everyone.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 4 (10:50):
Like that too, Yeah, I mean have you.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
Ever had this where someone said they've slept with you
and you haven't, yes.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
Not even that long ago, like yeah maybe like I
don't know, like six months ago.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
I haven't had it like once or twice. But I'm
they'll be like, oh this guy, I'm like, who Yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
There's a page. There's a page on one of the
platforms called Tea Time.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
Yeah, Tea Time.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
Have you of it? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (11:14):
I didn't even know what it was until like one
of my booking agents had screenshoted a four of me
sleeping in bed with a girl tooking a selfie right
next to me and saying like like slept with the
king or something like that, and I was like something
along those.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Time, and I was like, yes, because I am the king.
Speaker 3 (11:30):
I was like, there is that didn't happen, but like,
of course everyone's gonna believe that foll or that falla
says exactly what you know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (11:36):
It's just like, were you at like an apartment was
a club appearance?
Speaker 1 (11:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (11:39):
It was a club hears and we all went back
to apartment who was like a suite and I was like,
I just fell asleep and then she's gone into the
room taking a selfie next to me and I'm sleeping
and told all the friends and shit, it's all on
Tea Time.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
Look, I don't know who to believe you or Tea Time.
No joking, I'm joking, but it is annoying. Okay, well
that's good to know. So he's a fuck boy, but
he's not. Yeah, that's just alright.
Speaker 3 (12:06):
Lady boys, what about you and ALKI like you've been
together for like eight years now? Yes, how do you
find like keeping the sexual energy like alive? Like I know,
after a while it starts to get a bit stargnant obviously, right.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
I honestly look at him and I'm like, you're so hot,
Like whenever he's in the gym or like just doing anything,
I'm like stunning, Like I just I find him very
attractive and I know he still has that attraction towards me,
and just I feel like really knowing what your partner
likes sexually helps and he's always willing to like do
(12:46):
what I want and he he's he's not selfish in the.
Speaker 3 (12:50):
Bed, which is But do you feel like after having
kids and stuff, like everything like sort of started to
slow down a little bit, or because I know a
lot of people say that, like, oh, like you know,
I'm stressed with work, I've got on this on, I
gotta take the kids. And then like their sex life
starts to like take a turn for the worst.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
Ah, like he reckons. After Forrest, I was on fire,
and then after Bear he's like not so much. But
I'm like, yeah, but we've got so much going on.
And like there was a period where he wasn't like
he didn't even need sex, Like I would be like, babe,
can we go and he's like nah, just don't really
(13:25):
feel like I know weird, right, So that really fucked
with my head. And now I'm the one that's like, oh,
you know, like I'm just editing this video and like
I really would just love to eat some choky and
watch a movie and not have to do that. And
he's like, what the fuck, We've like switched.
Speaker 3 (13:40):
On my But I feel like that's normal in relationships,
Like you have those periods where like you're more active
than not and you can't let it get to your
heads if you're going through that like non active feast.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
Yeah, I definitely think that it would play on anyone's insecurities,
like if your partner doesn't want to have sex with you.
But I'm like, I'm trying to explain, like it's actually
not because I actually think you're so attractive, I love you,
Like it's not that I actually just feel so exhausted
and it's not really at the top of my priority. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
Yeah, you gotta be like in the mood for it, yeah,
I think.
Speaker 2 (14:11):
And it's easier like by the time we put the
kids down to bed, I'm like just dead.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
I find for me to keep it alive, like a
little get away or like a staycation. It doesn't have
to be anything crazy, but just getting out to that
same sort of routine and like environment and yes, change
it up, it changes it up, and it just sets
you up again, if that makes sense. Like yeah, I
don't know how to word it, but like getting away
(14:38):
from that environment. But it's the same same for a
couple of weeks or whatever, going a little bit of
a holiday like a weekend.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
True actually, because when we went to Thailand, we were
having sex like every day and he's like, Wow, this
is fucking great, and I'm like, yeah, it's great. And
then when we got home, I'm like, oh, it's too much.
Speaker 4 (14:55):
Too much stress is just yeah, all.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
Life shit's coming at me and it's too much. Go
on holiday, you're relaxed, and you're like, well why not
let's go. So yeah, I definitely think that helps. But yeah,
maybe some toys, trying some different positions or places places.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
Oh really, I tuck into this just like what.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
You said, go on a holiday to a different body part.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
Is there anywhere that you have sex that's not in
your house other than like other hotel rooms and stuff?
Speaker 1 (15:34):
Like do you ever like go in the car?
Speaker 2 (15:37):
I remember when oh my gosh, this is so full
and he's gonna kill me because he's.
Speaker 4 (15:42):
Like such a private dude.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
He's like, oh my god, this guy. But we did
it in a I think I gave him h a
D in a park, but that was when we first.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
Started Forests and bad. Playing in the springs.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
Is before, kids, This is before forest and bear what
you doing?
Speaker 4 (16:05):
No?
Speaker 2 (16:05):
No, no, this is before. But he always brings it up.
He's like, used to be so cool and wild, and
I'm like, sorry for borrowing you, babes. But ah, yeah,
I think just keeping it really spontaneous is good.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
Yeah, I think that's really good advice if you're wanting
to keep the spark alive.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:23):
I think that's the first bit of advice we've actually
given that's actually constructive.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
Yeah, totally. You will try to be as constructive as
we can guys in our experiences. Yes, exactly. So that's
based on my experience. How do you keep the spark
live with someone?
Speaker 3 (16:37):
I've actually never struggled in that department because I'm always
traveling a fair.
Speaker 4 (16:42):
Yes, that's the thing true.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
Space. Yeah, space, having the chance to miss one another.
Speaker 3 (16:49):
Yeah, withdrawals makes the heart grow fonder another body parts
for geezos, trust me and so like for me, like
if I'm away for like four nights of the week,
three days, that I am mark, We're on We're on
like a jams gone, and I'm not talking once twice
a day like regular greenlight.
Speaker 1 (17:07):
Yeah, yeah, you know regular. So I think that that helps.
Speaker 3 (17:11):
But then, like you know, I went through affairs recently
where I was not as active. Wow okay, And obviously
the girl I was seeing was used to me being
like a dolt on heat would so then she's like,
why why are we only having sex like once a
day or like you know what I mean? And I'm like,
(17:31):
because I've just spent the last seven days with you,
you know what I mean. It's different when I've had
like four days away. It's almost like we're catching up.
We're making enough time, you know.
Speaker 4 (17:39):
Yeah, that's true that I think I won't.
Speaker 1 (17:41):
Be as active I was in the long like in
a if I live with somebody, right.
Speaker 2 (17:44):
That's another thing, Ladies, I know this is like you
don't want to be controlling and like tell your man's
what to do. But I find that if you don't
watch porn, like for men, it's so much better watching porn.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
Yeah, I think it should just be banned like this, Yeah,
the worst thing.
Speaker 2 (18:02):
Yeah, it's so bad for your mindset, like just that
having that quick always is not good because then you're
probably not gonna want to do it in real life
because you, like, I have.
Speaker 4 (18:13):
To actually work for it.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
Yeah, it was like they were saying it was like
a study and stuff. They were saying that basically it
was like every time you watch porn and get off,
you have a little dorpaman hit. Yeah, so it's like
almost like one somebody loves cake and just eat.
Speaker 1 (18:27):
Cakes and keep thin cake because it makes him feel good.
Speaker 3 (18:30):
So then if you start watching lots of porn, you
keep having these short, little dorp mean hits and it
makes your actual sex life not feel as good, Yeah,
because it feels like vanilla compared to what you watch.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
On online, you know.
Speaker 2 (18:44):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
I haven't watched porn since John Rey twenty twenty one.
Speaker 4 (18:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
Luckie stopped watching porn too, and I feel like that's
why his sex strives so much better.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
Nothing against porn at all, and nothing against anyone who
watches porn, Like everyone's watched porn, but like if they're
doing it and it's affecting your love life with your man's,
I think maybe like it's time to you know, reduce
the screen time a little bit, you.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
Know, yeah, yeah, yeah, And I feel like if you're
in like long term relationships and you have that distunt
even then you don't need to watch porn because like
you can help each other out in the Yeah. Yeah,
if you're in a solid committed relationship, you've been together
for a long time, Like I would rather like my
partner send.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
Me forth all yeah, it just healthy.
Speaker 3 (19:27):
Yeah, because why would any girl want their man to
watch some other girl online get fucked?
Speaker 2 (19:31):
Do you think it's like a form of cheating?
Speaker 1 (19:33):
No, But I just don't think it's right.
Speaker 4 (19:35):
Would you like your girlfriend to watch I wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (19:38):
Yeah, not like everyone's like it's.
Speaker 4 (19:41):
Like not a different vibe.
Speaker 2 (19:43):
I'm like, well that's not really fair to say. Yeah,
I mean like, yeah, we're more emotional and whatever, but
I feel like it's still very.
Speaker 3 (19:51):
I feel like us guys have more of a desire. Yeah,
but general consensus speaking, because I know there's girls that
are like bogs on heat too, but like, yeah, I
feel like general consent is men crave it a little
bit more than women.
Speaker 2 (20:04):
Not necessarily this, really it depends on the person.
Speaker 3 (20:07):
I feel even with women you're not really close to
somebody though it should be like equal. What do you mean, Like,
I feel like if you're like following like your sex
life with your partner to be really good, you should
both want it just as much as each other.
Speaker 2 (20:20):
Yeah, I know, but like you said, that's hard because
sometimes you go through different, you know, stages.
Speaker 3 (20:25):
All right, Well, when I went on the topic of
porn porn, what was your thoughts on only fans, because
I feel like that's becoming more and more popular these days.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
Everybody I know was on it these days.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
Really, it feels I actually opened one to do my
boob documentary and then it just got really fucking weird,
and I was like, no, really I did get because
I'm like, there's many this is weird.
Speaker 3 (20:48):
Right, Okay, So you were going to do it just
for many, just for women that were interested in having
a boob job.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
And just see what getting a breast dougumentation, and like
I wanted to share my journey and like I wanted
to show my nipples, like yeah, and I wanted to
show my boobs. But obviously I'm not going to do
that on Instagram.
Speaker 1 (21:03):
You couldn't do it an Instagram anyway, right.
Speaker 2 (21:04):
No, That's why I open the only thing right, Okay,
So I could like show my before and afters and
like if girls had any questions or if they wanted
to be like show me your tits, I would be
like comfortable.
Speaker 1 (21:15):
Yeah, like what style did you get? How do they look?
Speaker 2 (21:18):
Yeah, it's a different. But then I'm like, oh God,
is this like a guy pretending to be a girl.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
You don't know if it's girl.
Speaker 2 (21:25):
Yeah, you don't really know. Like I tried to suss
as best I could, but I'm like, oh, I don't know,
and then like your shit gets leaked and like I'm
like oh no, no, no, so I just like stopped
using it. Ah, and yeah, I would just prefer to
do my other work. But no, no, shame to anyone
who does a flag. Yeah you got to make your
(21:46):
money's you know.
Speaker 3 (21:47):
Yeah, yeah, I'm yeah. I'm like I'm not against only funds.
I've got friends that do you only find stuff and
they make a lot of money, like a lot of money,
and like, if that's what you want to do, then
like who am I to judge?
Speaker 1 (21:59):
You?
Speaker 2 (21:59):
Do you?
Speaker 3 (22:00):
But for me, like I personally, I couldn't see myself
date in a girl that does only fans.
Speaker 2 (22:08):
So you wouldn't. You wouldn't feel like a girl that's
dating you would want to if you were doing it.
Speaker 3 (22:15):
I mean, like, I know there's girls and guys that
both do it together and as couples and stuff like that.
And I know there's guys that would date girls that
do it and then start to join in and sort
of thing.
Speaker 1 (22:26):
But for me, I mean.
Speaker 3 (22:28):
I couldn't see myself dating a girl that's doing only fans.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
Yeah, I know. But so if you had a girlfriend
and you were doing only friends, what would your views
be on that?
Speaker 3 (22:42):
Well, I mean I can't. I don't know because I
would I could never picture myself doing it.
Speaker 2 (22:46):
Okay, so you wouldn't do it.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
I would never do it. No, I would never do it.
Speaker 3 (22:50):
I wouldn't do it, Yeah, just because I've I've got
other things that I can make money on.
Speaker 1 (22:55):
Right.
Speaker 3 (22:56):
I feel like if there's a time where, like you know,
you're struggling with money and stuff like that, think that's
where most people are just kind of like, oh, I
might as well just do any fans. But I think
the issue is that one girls or guys flick to like, oh,
I'm just gonna need a bit of extra cash. I'm
gonna start up and only fans then they start to see
the money coming in.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
But then I feel like.
Speaker 3 (23:13):
You lose motivation and all the rest of us to
actually do well in your job or like do other things.
Speaker 1 (23:18):
Might have to work, yeah, because you know how easy
it comes in.
Speaker 2 (23:21):
Yes, I could just do that and it makes more money.
Speaker 3 (23:25):
Yeah yeah, yeah, And like if you do that for
like a year, how can you ever see yourself going
back into a normal job that you would make a
fraction of the money that you were doing any fans.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
Like and you had all the freedom exactly, you know.
Speaker 1 (23:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (23:39):
But for me, the main reason why I wouldn't date
somebody on any fans is just because like for me,
it's that's that's special.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
I feel like if.
Speaker 3 (23:44):
I'm meeting somebody and I'm with somebody, it's like that's
something for me.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
You know, I don't want everybody, You've said it.
Speaker 3 (23:52):
I just don't want, like, I don't want to let
everyone to have access to my girls private path.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:57):
I feel like you and you you wouldn't want to
be sharing your stuff around.
Speaker 3 (24:01):
Oh it's secret secrets, sacred, sacred, that's the one.
Speaker 2 (24:05):
Yeah, sacred. We just want like a monogamous relationship.
Speaker 1 (24:10):
The secret monogamous relationship.
Speaker 2 (24:13):
Yes, a sacred monogamous relationship. So that's what you're vibing,
and I totally respect that, and I respect other people
who do it differently, each of their own. So thank
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Speaker 2 (00:03):
Hi guys, welcome back. In today's episode, we are going
to get frisky, raunchy, and fucking Joe.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
We got forty five minutes, we're gonna need twenty five
gets intro, All right.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
We're on.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Bring on today's episode, we're gonna get frisky, kinky, and ronchie.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
So last episode we had a question at the end
that was sex related and it kind of flows into
what we want to talk about today, which.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Is all things sex nudity.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
Let's talk about sex, babe.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
So we're gonna kick things off with I guess nudity. Yeah,
maybe on TV because obviously, you know, you are pretty
much yourself in those environments and comes everywhere.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
That's right.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
How do you combat like the nudity or how do
you move around the nudity sort of aspect on your
TV shows?
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Like Are You?
Speaker 2 (01:01):
I didn't shower nude at all in the Jungle in
Big Brother. I think I did like a few times,
but mainly swimwear. But back when I did it, they
didn't actually have the uplate segment still running, so I
didn't have to like stress about whether I'd be on
TV noode or anything. Yeah, it was just whether you
(01:21):
were comfortable about like producers seeing you naked and stuff.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Yeah, yeah, which I was just like whatever, Yeah, I'm
the same because I knew that. Well.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Actually, no, I'm not.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Because when I first my first ever show love On
and I think it was like day one, I was
like showering in swimwear in the actual shower. I think
if it was was like day three, I was in
outdoor shower butt naked.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Why what change?
Speaker 1 (01:45):
I don't know. I just feel like you just get
used to the cameras and whatever.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
You don't care.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
It just becomes so uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
You're like, fuck it, I'm not putting my bikini onto shower.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Yeah, you can't get fully. You don't feel like fresh
fresh right. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
But I do think it would have been different maybe
if I had known that they were going to air it.
To be honest, back then, I wasn't a mom. I
would have been like, I really don't care.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Not bothered.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Yeah that was me, not really, But I thought that
on my one that they wouldn't show any of it,
and then like it came out and.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
They could cletely see me with my assholes. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
But they which is good. Yeah, yeah, they blur it
so and even with us going to the toilet, there
was a camera in the corner and it just becomes
so normal, like I didn't really care, and I'm the
very open person, like, yeah, the cameras every no, not
on I'm a celeb on Big Brother. Was going to say, Yeah,
(02:39):
so there was cameras everywhere because they needed cameras everywhere.
It's a Big Brother house.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Yeah. People like to sneak in the showers.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Yeah, so they've got to capture everything, right, Yeah, you.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
Got to just embrace it.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
I think, Yeah, I'm not want to be like shy,
you know, not shy even if I meeting new people
and you know, like I'm just this is me bro,
like it is what it is.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
I definitely think I wasn't like, you know, overthinking it
or anything. Yeah, but like I said, maybe now, if
I did a TV show, I would probably be more
conservative based on the fact.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
That I'm a mom.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
Yeah yeah, and.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
I like wouldn't want my boys to go through anything
due to my actions.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
Right, Okay, they will want to see like a footage
of you Charloton that comes up with the would work
like a few years later.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
And then maybe like the kids in their class would.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
Say, shit, oh my god, look is this your mother's
tits back in the day.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Yeah, Like I wouldn't want that for them.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
So I think i'd be the same. I think i'd
be the same. I've always avoided having like sex on TV.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
Oh yeah, what was it like on Love Island?
Speaker 4 (03:45):
Did they restrict you in any way?
Speaker 1 (03:47):
They didn't really.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
Restrict us, but we do actually have There was like
when you couple up with somebody, you have to sleep
in the same bed as them. So even if you
don't want to couple up with that person and then
just the last the last one, you're forced a couple up.
You have to sleep in the same beds. You can't
really like sleep anywhere else, Like you can go and
sleep outside the garden with wherever you want to sleep in.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
I think it would be that weird though, you're living
with someone and sleeping.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
In Yeah, but if you want to have like sexual
intercourse on TV. On Love Island, there's two little buttons
on the bed either side, and there's them lights, so
you have the lights like the neon lights in Love Island.
There's a heart above the bed, right a neon heart. Right,
so if both button consent buttons are pressed, the heart
(04:32):
lights up, so the producers on the night vision can
see that you've both clicked the button, so you can
actually start get into it.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
But wait, is that like a green light for the
producers to know no one's getting.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
Graped or yes, that's exactly right.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
Okay, but it's not like the button goes dings up
and whatever so they film it.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
No, no, they always filming it.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
It's just a green light so that the producers don't
actually stop you from doing it because it's not consensual, right,
you've got to Yeah, But saying that, like I never
got into bed and was like, right, I'm gonna get
naughty tonight, click that button, click that. But you don't
do that, right, you just get into bed or whatever.
Then you start lips up and before you know what,
you're getting a bit handsy and you're like, pick the button.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
Do they come over this baker and say, excuse me,
you need to both hit the button. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Yeah, and then you you hit the buttons. Then the
flow was stopped in it.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
That's so awkward.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
Yeah, it's like halftime oranges, all right, Breaver, click the
buttons where well we.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Yeah, sorry bit dry now yea.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Yeah, bedtime.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
But it still that they do that because you know,
I think that's something that introduced later on.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
It wasn't always there. Yeah, but I feel like it
is a good thing.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Like should I wonder if there's any been like complications
on the show, some reason for them to introduce that.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Maybe because it's a low violands across the world now,
so maybe. But I think it's really good because you
obviously wanted to be like consensual, and when you're in
bed with a new partner, like somebody could have couped
up with yesterday, and you know, you get handsy, the
girl or the guy might feel a bit uncomfortable. So
it's good that they got that there to make sure
everyone feels like relaxed and at ease.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Yeah, so that people around you to know that, like,
oh yeah, they're both into it.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
They're both into it. The producers get the lens on.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
You know, my gosh, that's so.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
I think it's really good. I think it's really good.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
So on your season, did any of the girls shower
nude or no?
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Not that I'm aware of.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
Upstairs, because there's a women's bathroom and then like a
guy's bathroom.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Yeah, but we all kind of use the same I don't.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
I just showered every day outside because the girls, you,
I know how you majority of you take so long
to get ready. You're shaving your legs, your shit, like,
you know what I mean. I was like, don't get
me anywhere near the indoor shower. I'm gonna go outside
in the garden by myself and shower naked.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
And it was nice.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
I felt like I was connected to the earth, even
though it was astro turf.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Honestly, whenever you were sharing in the jungle, I'm like,
I ain't going nowhere near that. I'm like, I'm a
stay right up here. I'm like, who knows what he's doing?
But yeah, I think we're both pretty comfortable with the
whole nudity thing. So when you've like met up with
(07:12):
the girl out or whatever, and you go back to
the hotel and start lips and up. Has there ever
been any girls who have a certain expectation of what
you're going to be like in the bedroom due to
how you were on Love Island?
Speaker 1 (07:27):
Not?
Speaker 3 (07:27):
Not really, I mean, come on, there might be like
an expectation in their heads.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
I don't know, they've never like voiced it.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
They've never really voiced it.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
They ever said like, oh, I thought you would be into.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
This or yeah, like about some girls being like thinking
that I would be like into it, into it straight away,
when like there's been times I'd be like I don't
actually want to do that tonight, do you know what
I mean? Like where like I think certain times the
girls are like if you know we have we go
back to this hotel or whatever, like you know, I'm
gonna get lucky with Carlem, and like sometimes it's like
(08:01):
it's not otten.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
And then do you.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Think that just because like sometimes you're not in the
mood or you're not really feeling the connection with them,
Like because if you were, say you met like a
pretty girl out and you were vibing and you had
a connection, would you definitely want to have sex or.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
No, it's the opposite.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
Also you want to save it.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
Well, Like if I if I need a girl out
and I think she is like a two stroker porker,
I mean like ten out of ten, I'll be like
you stroker pok I reckon, I'd be less inclined to
want to have sex with her. Because that I'd know
if I have sex with you on the first night,
then that's my fantasy in my head gone of us
(08:42):
having a perfect life and kids and marriage together because
you're a ten ten, whereas like if a girl holds out,
they just become that much hotter.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Yeah, I agree, And I've told everyone this, like all
my friends anyone, like that is my goal to girl
advice is like, don't have sex with them on the
first night, and like, even if it's what the girl wants, Like,
even if I met a guy for the first time
and I was in bed with him, I even even
if I was like so horny, I would not want
to have sex with them because like I could not
(09:11):
handle a feeling used the next day and be giving
that away to a stranger.
Speaker 4 (09:17):
Yeah, yeah, like I don't know, I.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
Would want like a connection first.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
But yeah, but I feel like you learn as you go.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Like for me, like when I was in my younger years,
I would just be like whatever, you know, But as
I've got older, I don't see the value in that.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
That doesn't it doesn't make me.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
Feel fulfilled or like satisfied even then there especially the
next day, you know, and like there's been times where
I've been on holiday or whatever and it happened, and
I would be like whatever, but like I just gone on.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
I've just avoided it more and more. No, like it
never happens, Like never happens.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
That's good.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
That's good because you don't you know, there's some scary stuff. Yeah, exactly,
people not having protected sex. Never know, yeah, you never,
but I would freak out. I'd be like book that
peraps me right now.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
Like I would say to like I would say to
like the girls like oh, Like they'd be like, oh,
you know, like come back or like whatever, or they'd
be like, oh, can I come back? I'm like yeah,
but like I'll tell them like it's not going to
be happening, like if you get that out of your head, yeah,
you know what I mean. And if you come back
and you don't on a card then or whatever.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
Like So, so basically what you're saying is you think
girls have this perception that you're like a massive fuck boy,
and then they're shocked sometimes when you say I actually
don't want to have.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
Sex, yeah, and then they feel shit because they think
there's something wrong with them or I don't fancy them.
But it's just like, no, I don't want.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
To do that.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
Yeah, that's good though, You've got to explain that to
them though, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3 (10:33):
Yeah, because as well, like if you if I always
have like sex with just like somebody after the night out,
like they would gain They gained so much more because
before you know it, the rumors are getting around like oh,
like I you sept with my friends, like and it's
like half time it's even true, and I'm like, I
don't want that they tell everyone.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 4 (10:50):
Like that too, Yeah, I mean have you.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
Ever had this where someone said they've slept with you
and you haven't, yes.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
Not even that long ago, like yeah maybe like I
don't know, like six months ago.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
I haven't had it like once or twice. But I'm
they'll be like, oh this guy, I'm like, who Yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
There's a page. There's a page on one of the
platforms called Tea Time.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
Yeah, Tea Time.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
Have you of it? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (11:14):
I didn't even know what it was until like one
of my booking agents had screenshoted a four of me
sleeping in bed with a girl tooking a selfie right
next to me and saying like like slept with the
king or something like that, and I was like something
along those.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Time, and I was like, yes, because I am the king.
Speaker 3 (11:30):
I was like, there is that didn't happen, but like,
of course everyone's gonna believe that foll or that falla
says exactly what you know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (11:36):
It's just like, were you at like an apartment was
a club appearance?
Speaker 1 (11:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (11:39):
It was a club hears and we all went back
to apartment who was like a suite and I was like,
I just fell asleep and then she's gone into the
room taking a selfie next to me and I'm sleeping
and told all the friends and shit, it's all on
Tea Time.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
Look, I don't know who to believe you or Tea Time.
No joking, I'm joking, but it is annoying. Okay, well
that's good to know. So he's a fuck boy, but
he's not. Yeah, that's just alright.
Speaker 3 (12:06):
Lady boys, what about you and ALKI like you've been
together for like eight years now? Yes, how do you
find like keeping the sexual energy like alive? Like I know,
after a while it starts to get a bit stargnant obviously, right.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
I honestly look at him and I'm like, you're so hot,
Like whenever he's in the gym or like just doing anything,
I'm like stunning, Like I just I find him very
attractive and I know he still has that attraction towards me,
and just I feel like really knowing what your partner
likes sexually helps and he's always willing to like do
(12:46):
what I want and he he's he's not selfish in the.
Speaker 3 (12:50):
Bed, which is But do you feel like after having
kids and stuff, like everything like sort of started to
slow down a little bit, or because I know a
lot of people say that, like, oh, like you know,
I'm stressed with work, I've got on this on, I
gotta take the kids. And then like their sex life
starts to like take a turn for the worst.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
Ah, like he reckons. After Forrest, I was on fire,
and then after Bear he's like not so much. But
I'm like, yeah, but we've got so much going on.
And like there was a period where he wasn't like
he didn't even need sex, Like I would be like, babe,
can we go and he's like nah, just don't really
(13:25):
feel like I know weird, right, So that really fucked
with my head. And now I'm the one that's like, oh,
you know, like I'm just editing this video and like
I really would just love to eat some choky and
watch a movie and not have to do that. And
he's like, what the fuck, We've like switched.
Speaker 3 (13:40):
On my But I feel like that's normal in relationships,
Like you have those periods where like you're more active
than not and you can't let it get to your
heads if you're going through that like non active feast.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
Yeah, I definitely think that it would play on anyone's insecurities,
like if your partner doesn't want to have sex with you.
But I'm like, I'm trying to explain, like it's actually
not because I actually think you're so attractive, I love you,
Like it's not that I actually just feel so exhausted
and it's not really at the top of my priority. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
Yeah, you gotta be like in the mood for it, yeah,
I think.
Speaker 2 (14:11):
And it's easier like by the time we put the
kids down to bed, I'm like just dead.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
I find for me to keep it alive, like a
little get away or like a staycation. It doesn't have
to be anything crazy, but just getting out to that
same sort of routine and like environment and yes, change
it up, it changes it up, and it just sets
you up again, if that makes sense. Like yeah, I
don't know how to word it, but like getting away
(14:38):
from that environment. But it's the same same for a
couple of weeks or whatever, going a little bit of
a holiday like a weekend.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
True actually, because when we went to Thailand, we were
having sex like every day and he's like, Wow, this
is fucking great, and I'm like, yeah, it's great. And
then when we got home, I'm like, oh, it's too much.
Speaker 4 (14:55):
Too much stress is just yeah, all.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
Life shit's coming at me and it's too much. Go
on holiday, you're relaxed, and you're like, well why not
let's go. So yeah, I definitely think that helps. But yeah,
maybe some toys, trying some different positions or places places.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
Oh really, I tuck into this just like what.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
You said, go on a holiday to a different body part.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
Is there anywhere that you have sex that's not in
your house other than like other hotel rooms and stuff?
Speaker 1 (15:34):
Like do you ever like go in the car?
Speaker 2 (15:37):
I remember when oh my gosh, this is so full
and he's gonna kill me because he's.
Speaker 4 (15:42):
Like such a private dude.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
He's like, oh my god, this guy. But we did
it in a I think I gave him h a
D in a park, but that was when we first.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
Started Forests and bad. Playing in the springs.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
Is before, kids, This is before forest and bear what
you doing?
Speaker 4 (16:05):
No?
Speaker 2 (16:05):
No, no, this is before. But he always brings it up.
He's like, used to be so cool and wild, and
I'm like, sorry for borrowing you, babes. But ah, yeah,
I think just keeping it really spontaneous is good.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
Yeah, I think that's really good advice if you're wanting
to keep the spark alive.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:23):
I think that's the first bit of advice we've actually
given that's actually constructive.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
Yeah, totally. You will try to be as constructive as
we can guys in our experiences. Yes, exactly. So that's
based on my experience. How do you keep the spark
live with someone?
Speaker 3 (16:37):
I've actually never struggled in that department because I'm always
traveling a fair.
Speaker 4 (16:42):
Yes, that's the thing true.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
Space. Yeah, space, having the chance to miss one another.
Speaker 3 (16:49):
Yeah, withdrawals makes the heart grow fonder another body parts
for geezos, trust me and so like for me, like
if I'm away for like four nights of the week,
three days, that I am mark, We're on We're on
like a jams gone, and I'm not talking once twice
a day like regular greenlight.
Speaker 1 (17:07):
Yeah, yeah, you know regular. So I think that that helps.
Speaker 3 (17:11):
But then, like you know, I went through affairs recently
where I was not as active. Wow okay, And obviously
the girl I was seeing was used to me being
like a dolt on heat would so then she's like,
why why are we only having sex like once a
day or like you know what I mean? And I'm like,
(17:31):
because I've just spent the last seven days with you,
you know what I mean. It's different when I've had
like four days away. It's almost like we're catching up.
We're making enough time, you know.
Speaker 4 (17:39):
Yeah, that's true that I think I won't.
Speaker 1 (17:41):
Be as active I was in the long like in
a if I live with somebody, right.
Speaker 2 (17:44):
That's another thing, Ladies, I know this is like you
don't want to be controlling and like tell your man's
what to do. But I find that if you don't
watch porn, like for men, it's so much better watching porn.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
Yeah, I think it should just be banned like this, Yeah,
the worst thing.
Speaker 2 (18:02):
Yeah, it's so bad for your mindset, like just that
having that quick always is not good because then you're
probably not gonna want to do it in real life
because you, like, I have.
Speaker 4 (18:13):
To actually work for it.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
Yeah, it was like they were saying it was like
a study and stuff. They were saying that basically it
was like every time you watch porn and get off,
you have a little dorpaman hit. Yeah, so it's like
almost like one somebody loves cake and just eat.
Speaker 1 (18:27):
Cakes and keep thin cake because it makes him feel good.
Speaker 3 (18:30):
So then if you start watching lots of porn, you
keep having these short, little dorp mean hits and it
makes your actual sex life not feel as good, Yeah,
because it feels like vanilla compared to what you watch.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
On online, you know.
Speaker 2 (18:44):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
I haven't watched porn since John Rey twenty twenty one.
Speaker 4 (18:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
Luckie stopped watching porn too, and I feel like that's
why his sex strives so much better.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
Nothing against porn at all, and nothing against anyone who
watches porn, Like everyone's watched porn, but like if they're
doing it and it's affecting your love life with your man's,
I think maybe like it's time to you know, reduce
the screen time a little bit, you.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
Know, yeah, yeah, yeah, And I feel like if you're
in like long term relationships and you have that distunt
even then you don't need to watch porn because like
you can help each other out in the Yeah. Yeah,
if you're in a solid committed relationship, you've been together
for a long time, Like I would rather like my
partner send.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
Me forth all yeah, it just healthy.
Speaker 3 (19:27):
Yeah, because why would any girl want their man to
watch some other girl online get fucked?
Speaker 2 (19:31):
Do you think it's like a form of cheating?
Speaker 1 (19:33):
No, But I just don't think it's right.
Speaker 4 (19:35):
Would you like your girlfriend to watch I wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (19:38):
Yeah, not like everyone's like it's.
Speaker 4 (19:41):
Like not a different vibe.
Speaker 2 (19:43):
I'm like, well that's not really fair to say. Yeah,
I mean like, yeah, we're more emotional and whatever, but
I feel like it's still very.
Speaker 3 (19:51):
I feel like us guys have more of a desire. Yeah,
but general consensus speaking, because I know there's girls that
are like bogs on heat too, but like, yeah, I
feel like general consent is men crave it a little
bit more than women.
Speaker 2 (20:04):
Not necessarily this, really it depends on the person.
Speaker 3 (20:07):
I feel even with women you're not really close to
somebody though it should be like equal. What do you mean, Like,
I feel like if you're like following like your sex
life with your partner to be really good, you should
both want it just as much as each other.
Speaker 2 (20:20):
Yeah, I know, but like you said, that's hard because
sometimes you go through different, you know, stages.
Speaker 3 (20:25):
All right, Well, when I went on the topic of
porn porn, what was your thoughts on only fans, because
I feel like that's becoming more and more popular these days.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
Everybody I know was on it these days.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
Really, it feels I actually opened one to do my
boob documentary and then it just got really fucking weird,
and I was like, no, really I did get because
I'm like, there's many this is weird.
Speaker 3 (20:48):
Right, Okay, So you were going to do it just
for many, just for women that were interested in having
a boob job.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
And just see what getting a breast dougumentation, and like
I wanted to share my journey and like I wanted
to show my nipples, like yeah, and I wanted to
show my boobs. But obviously I'm not going to do
that on Instagram.
Speaker 1 (21:03):
You couldn't do it an Instagram anyway, right.
Speaker 2 (21:04):
No, That's why I open the only thing right, Okay,
So I could like show my before and afters and
like if girls had any questions or if they wanted
to be like show me your tits, I would be
like comfortable.
Speaker 1 (21:15):
Yeah, like what style did you get? How do they look?
Speaker 2 (21:18):
Yeah, it's a different. But then I'm like, oh God,
is this like a guy pretending to be a girl.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
You don't know if it's girl.
Speaker 2 (21:25):
Yeah, you don't really know. Like I tried to suss
as best I could, but I'm like, oh, I don't know,
and then like your shit gets leaked and like I'm
like oh no, no, no, so I just like stopped
using it. Ah, and yeah, I would just prefer to
do my other work. But no, no, shame to anyone
who does a flag. Yeah you got to make your
(21:46):
money's you know.
Speaker 3 (21:47):
Yeah, yeah, I'm yeah. I'm like I'm not against only funds.
I've got friends that do you only find stuff and
they make a lot of money, like a lot of money,
and like, if that's what you want to do, then
like who am I to judge?
Speaker 1 (21:59):
You?
Speaker 2 (21:59):
Do you?
Speaker 3 (22:00):
But for me, like I personally, I couldn't see myself
date in a girl that does only fans.
Speaker 2 (22:08):
So you wouldn't. You wouldn't feel like a girl that's
dating you would want to if you were doing it.
Speaker 3 (22:15):
I mean, like, I know there's girls and guys that
both do it together and as couples and stuff like that.
And I know there's guys that would date girls that
do it and then start to join in and sort
of thing.
Speaker 1 (22:26):
But for me, I mean.
Speaker 3 (22:28):
I couldn't see myself dating a girl that's doing only fans.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
Yeah, I know. But so if you had a girlfriend
and you were doing only friends, what would your views
be on that?
Speaker 3 (22:42):
Well, I mean I can't. I don't know because I
would I could never picture myself doing it.
Speaker 2 (22:46):
Okay, so you wouldn't do it.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
I would never do it. No, I would never do it.
Speaker 3 (22:50):
I wouldn't do it, Yeah, just because I've I've got
other things that I can make money on.
Speaker 1 (22:55):
Right.
Speaker 3 (22:56):
I feel like if there's a time where, like you know,
you're struggling with money and stuff like that, think that's
where most people are just kind of like, oh, I
might as well just do any fans. But I think
the issue is that one girls or guys flick to like, oh,
I'm just gonna need a bit of extra cash. I'm
gonna start up and only fans then they start to see
the money coming in.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
But then I feel like.
Speaker 3 (23:13):
You lose motivation and all the rest of us to
actually do well in your job or like do other things.
Speaker 1 (23:18):
Might have to work, yeah, because you know how easy
it comes in.
Speaker 2 (23:21):
Yes, I could just do that and it makes more money.
Speaker 3 (23:25):
Yeah yeah, yeah, And like if you do that for
like a year, how can you ever see yourself going
back into a normal job that you would make a
fraction of the money that you were doing any fans.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
Like and you had all the freedom exactly, you know.
Speaker 1 (23:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (23:39):
But for me, the main reason why I wouldn't date
somebody on any fans is just because like for me,
it's that's that's special.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
I feel like if.
Speaker 3 (23:44):
I'm meeting somebody and I'm with somebody, it's like that's
something for me.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
You know, I don't want everybody, You've said it.
Speaker 3 (23:52):
I just don't want, like, I don't want to let
everyone to have access to my girls private path.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:57):
I feel like you and you you wouldn't want to
be sharing your stuff around.
Speaker 3 (24:01):
Oh it's secret secrets, sacred, sacred, that's the one.
Speaker 2 (24:05):
Yeah, sacred. We just want like a monogamous relationship.
Speaker 1 (24:10):
The secret monogamous relationship.
Speaker 2 (24:13):
Yes, a sacred monogamous relationship. So that's what you're vibing,
and I totally respect that, and I respect other people
who do it differently, each of their own. So thank
you guys so much for joining. Make sure you subscribe
to the podcast. If you want to hear more, follow
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