Growing Up Between Two Homes: The Emotional Reality of Shared Custody

The Shared Custody Experience: A New Chapter in Divorce Education Hosted by Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck | Featuring Guest Researcher Denise Whitehead An Achievement Episode and Foundational Moment for the Soft Landing Podcast

In this milestone episode of The Smart Divorce, we take a profound step forward in reshaping how we understand the real-world impact of divorce on children—especially those who live within shared custody arrangements. This episode stands as an early forerunner to the Soft Landing Podcast, marking an educational pivot toward empathy, research-driven insight, and true child-centered divorce planning.

Unique Storyline: Children’s Voices, Finally Heard

Our featured guest, Denise Whitehead—lawyer, social scientist, and PhD in Family Relations—shares groundbreaking research on how young adults reflect on their experiences growing up in shared custody homes. The episode brings to life not only academic findings but also deeply personal, often tearful stories from the children themselves.

• Insights from adult children who navigated complex custody dynamics and still emerged with strength, clarity, and purpose.
• What children really feel about the fairness, transitions, and emotional labor involved in shared custody.
• How parenting plans must evolve as children grow—emotionally, socially, and developmentally.

Why This Episode Matters

It’s a compelling call to listen differently—not just to each other as co-parents, but to our children, who are often silently adjusting their lives to protect us. This episode doesn't just offer information—it delivers transformation.

💬 Thanks for Listening Ken Maynard Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

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Sarah Bates I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

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Let’s build your soft landing—together. Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca