September 28, 2025 • 26 mins
Stephanie and Pandora discussed their long-standing friendship and Pandora's family history of psychic abilities, as well as exercises to expand psychic abilities. They also explored the role of psychics in providing insight and direction, the concept of twin flames, and the effects of the recent full moon in Libra. Pandora emphasized the importance of personal responsibility, empowerment, and connecting with one's intuition, while Stephanie shared her own experiences of releasing emotions and clearing out space.
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In this soulful sit-down, Steph—who started as a beautiful client and blossomed into a dear friend—asks Pandora all the burning questions she’s been dying to know! From psychic insights to behind-the-scenes magic, nothing is off the table as we sip tea and spill truth.
💫 Ever wondered what it’s *really* like to be a psychic medium? 💫 Curious how intuition shows up in everyday life? 💫 Want the raw, real, and radiant truth from a working intuitive? Steph brings the questions, Pandora brings the vibes—and together, we’re pulling back the mystical curtain. This may just be the first of many heart-to-heart chats… because let’s be honest, Steph’s not done asking, and Pandora’s not done sharing. 😉 🫖 So grab your favorite mug, settle in, and join us for some Psychic Tea. And if you loved this—don’t forget to like, subscribe, and drop your own juicy questions in the comments below! ✨ With love and light, Pandora 🌙 www.pandorap.com
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✨ Steph Asks Pandora to Spill the Psychic Tea | Candid Conversations with a Medium 🔮💬
In this soulful sit-down, Steph—who started as a beautiful client and blossomed into a dear friend—asks Pandora all the burning questions she’s been dying to know! From psychic insights to behind-the-scenes magic, nothing is off the table as we sip tea and spill truth.
💫 Ever wondered what it’s *really* like to be a psychic medium? 💫 Curious how intuition shows up in everyday life? 💫 Want the raw, real, and radiant truth from a working intuitive? Steph brings the questions, Pandora brings the vibes—and together, we’re pulling back the mystical curtain. This may just be the first of many heart-to-heart chats… because let’s be honest, Steph’s not done asking, and Pandora’s not done sharing. 😉 🫖 So grab your favorite mug, settle in, and join us for some Psychic Tea. And if you loved this—don’t forget to like, subscribe, and drop your own juicy questions in the comments below! ✨ With love and light, Pandora 🌙 www.pandorap.com
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Speaker 1 (00:03):
All right, hello everyone, and my name is Stephanie and
I have known Pandora for a number of years. Just
some backstory of how we even met. Kind of a
funny story. We have a mutual friend and I'll never forget.
I was out one night in Chicago with this friend
and I was chatting and I was going through something
in my life and I was like, oh, I really
(00:25):
need to like chat with a psychic or like have
someone kind of give me some direction. And this friend
was like, oh my god, steph, I actually know someone
who that's like their job. And I was like, oh
my god, I wonder for free tomorrow at ten am.
And so like immediately this friend connected me with Pandora.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
I'll never forget. It was like on.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
Facebook, I message Pandora and I was like, Hey, are
you free tomorrow? And Pandora's response was yeah, does tomorrow
at tomorrow at ten am work? And I remember being like,
oh my god, this is meant to be absolutely like
I just put that out there and it is message received.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
And so.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
That was kind of my first introduction to Pandora as
the psychic. And then I mean, I think we've been
friends now for I don't know seven eight plus years.
So I started as a client and then quickly became
a friend and now she's just someone that I chat
with on the regular about all the things going on.
So this is us, just you know, me asking questions
(01:24):
that I've always wanted to ask Pandora the psychic and
not always Pandora the friend.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
So we'll see how this goes.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
So with that, I have listened to some of Pandora's
interviews in the past, and I know that she comes
from a long line of psychic and channelers and her
family which I think is so so interesting, and I
love the story that her mom used to test her
on her way home from school by sending her a
list of things to pick up at the convenience store
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and a way to practice your psychic abilities.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
So kind of my first.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Question to you is, you know what other exercises or
things can we do to expand our psychic abilities in
our in our every day.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Sure we can look at that, but I want to
clarify one thing. So in twenty twenty five, sending me
a list of things to get at the store could
have been like way easier with a cell phone, right
to text. It's true, but she would send it psychically, yes,
before cell phones are even a thing. You're so right, Yeah,
(02:30):
I would get out in my head. Yeah. So that
was one of the things that we would do when
I was a little bit older, But when I was
younger a few years before that, we used to sit
across from each other and she would think of an
object or an item or a color and connect her
third eye to my third eye, so focused energy from
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the center of her forehead to mine so that I
could receive what she was sending me. And it's sort
of like easy with friends to do this, or with
romantic partners or someone that you live with. You can
practice regularly sending that image and it starts to get
clearer because when we're the receiver, when it's the third
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eye is open and receiving, it's sort of like a
movie screen. So if you can visualize a blank movie
screen in your mind, when you're working with someone who's
sending you an image, you just sort of wait until
that image starts to appear. It might be a color
or a shape. At first, you may not know what
it is. It might be kind of a foggy image
until you get good at it, but eventually it sort
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of pops up really quickly. So that's the kind of
stuff that I started when I was four or five
years old with my mom and with my grandmother, also
with my father. So that's something I would suggest doing.
You can dance it a little bit, and you can
expand and don't tell the person whether it's a person
(04:00):
a place. You can give them a whole concept and
see what they came up with. You can create a
whole movie in their mind and see how much they're
accurate with. So it's pretty cool. That was one of
the big ones that we did. I learned how to
read playing cards, so working with divination with my grandmother
at around age eight and also with my mom, so
(04:24):
you can plug in into your intuition through the use
of a divination tool. We started with playing cards because
they you don't get distracted by pretty images, so tarot cards,
images symbols, playing cards, it's a little bit less than that,
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you know, it's harder to get distracted with playing cards.
They're very checked the message.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Especially when you're that age.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
I can see where you'd be like, oh, pretty the
empress and then go on a tangent about being, you know,
a princess or a queen.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
So that makes sense all the way.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Yes, yes, yes, So I didn't get into tarot until
I was like seventeen or eighteen, and that's when I
did a deep dive into tarot. But so, anyway, the
sending messages back and forth visual messages would be a
great way to start working with your intuition and connecting
with your senses. The other thing that I learned was
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to connect to your solar plexus, that feeling in the
pit of your stomach, right, so your intuition for a
lot of people comes through your solar plexus or in
your belly. Sometimes we can confuse an intuition with a
fear so learning to tell the difference that was something
that I worked on a lot with my mother, whether
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this is your fear voice talking or your intuition talking,
because they both can sort of feel like butterflies and
your tummy, you know, like it's good butterflies or it's
bad butterflies. Have you ever had that happen where you
feel that that sense and you're not sure which one
it is?
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Of course, yeah, I can see how you could almost
think like probably because of the doubt that's there that
causes the fear.
Speaker 3 (06:14):
Exactly. Yeah, So it's learning to trust the messages and
learning to trust the language that you have within you,
your intuition and that inner voice, and also knowing that
sometimes our inner voice can be a little critical and
that we need to kind of push that one side
as well.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
So interesting, thank you, Yeah, of course, I guess one question.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
I am curious though, because four years old is so
young when you're sitting at the table with your mom.
Is she like, all right, we're going to play this
game and I want you to think of a screen
or is she just sending this to you and kind
of quizzing you. Yeah, did she's like set the stage
with this practice or did she just do it kind
of nonchalantly.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
It was a little bit of both actually, So, just
like with that grocery list, she would do it intermittently
to see what I would respond to. Sometimes we would
be watching TV together and she would send me an
imager thought to get up and do something, you know,
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whether it was get up and go brush my teeth
before bed or go get my pajamason, and I would
just get up and do it. And then when I
would come back in, she'd say, do you know why
you did that, you know, So she wanted me to
connect with whether it was something that I intended for myself,
an idea that came to me from within, or whether
it was something that I felt that was coming from
outside of me. So that was another way of learning
(07:45):
the stimulus, you know, learning where the message was coming from.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
Wow, that's crazy. I can't imagine. I'm sure my mother
would have loved that.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
She'd been like, all right, Stephanie, go vacuum and I'd
be like, get up and vacuum me.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
And even though I'd be like, why am I doing this?
Like I don't want to.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
I'm sure right Like here I am, I have the
vacuum cleaner. You know. It's interesting. So animals communicate in
images in the same way that we kind of communicate
intuitively and energetically. They have the same movie screen in
their heads. So it's easy for me to communicate with
my pets in the same way that I communicated with
(08:23):
my mom and dad and grandmother. So it's kind of cool.
It's like shorthand when you're training a dog, when you
send them the visual queue and their head psychically at
the same time that you're giving them a command, it
makes sense, I'm sure.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
I always wonder after I always wonder too, like what
language does a dog think in? But if they think
in images, then it doesn't matter what language, right, Like
that would be the soul, So that makes a lot
of sense.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
Actually, yeah, they do think in images. I mean they
do learn the the human language that they're in the
household of. So you know, if it's a Russian speaking household,
then the dog speaks Russian as well, but they predominantly
speak the images visual.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Yeah, very cool. M all right.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
My next question is one that I've just like always wondered,
and I think it's it's a little bit universal. But
do you psychics also have a psychic like I'm always curious.
You know, people go to you looking for maybe some
insight direction, maybe help with what they're going on in
their lives. But are you able to do that for
yourself or is it like almost blocked for yourself because
(09:36):
you're providing it for others or how does that work
for you?
Speaker 3 (09:41):
So, most psychics can sense when there's a warning or
a danger for themselves versus seeing the entire picture for themselves.
So and the same thing goes for the people in
their immediate environments, so they're family members. They know if
there's a warning coming up around someone, a danger around someone,
(10:05):
but they're not going to plug in in the same
way to read for them because we're not supposed to.
So yes, usually psychics will have someone that they go
to when they are really facing a challenge in life
or a crossroads and they want to get some information. Also,
psychics may choose to go to someone who does a
(10:28):
different modality than they do. So if like in my case,
I'm a psychic medium, I do use cards sometimes, but
usually I connect with spirit, So I may go to
somebody who does astrology or numerology because those are not
the things that I utilize on a daily basis to
get information. But I might want to have an insight
(10:51):
from that different kind of view, that different kind of
language if something's coming up for me. Does that make sense?
Speaker 2 (10:58):
That does make sense?
Speaker 3 (10:59):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, But ultimately, like we can't see our
own life, our whole life picture for ourselves. We're not
supposed to because that could kind of drive you a
little crazy, you.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
Know, absolutely.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
I also just feel like that takes away from like
living experience for you if you are always know kind
of what could happen depending on your choices you make.
Speaker 3 (11:19):
So yeah, exactly, and this sort of it's a little segue.
But when someone goes for a reading, so anybody, whether
they're psychic or whether just they're a normal person, if
they go to a reader who they want them to
tell them their life story, they want to sit down
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and say, Okay, what's coming up for me? That means
that they're giving the responsibility completely to the reader. And
that's not the wayness is all supposed to work. Because
we didn't come into this life with a specific script
that we're supposed to follow. We get to choose and
create our own path. So that's why I work with
clients a lot on power and helping them to see
(12:03):
the things that they can do, that they can create
to craft the life that they want, rather than thinking
that they came in with this story. So if you
ever go to a reader and they're trying to tell
you the story of your life, really sit there and
listen to it for a minute and say, but wait
a minute, this doesn't sound like me. I don't want
these things, And who is this person anyway to know
(12:24):
me better than I know myself? Right?
Speaker 1 (12:27):
Yeah? And I always think It's so important to remember
that time is dynamic and things can always change based
on the choices we make. So you know, a reading
may be true for this point in time, but if
you make a different decision the whole you know, trajectory
can be completely different too, And so I think folks
always need to remember.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
That, yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, free will, free will, You
get to make different changes and choices. You get to,
even in relationships, love someone for a time, not for
an entire lifetime, you know. And that's a hard one too.
You can see when you outgrow a situation or relationship
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and that maybe who you were in the past, you
didn't know that it was only going to be six years,
ten years, twenty years, whatever. But now you're there and
you're at that crossroads and you get to choose again
and choose better this time, you know.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
Always.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
I mean, you know, that's the beauty of it, right,
the ability to choose. So totally okay, My next kind
of question really stems from, you know, the hype of
social media TikTok. I feel like every other person I
get on TikTok is always a you know, a tarot
card reader or someone talking about astrology. Or soul ties
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or all these different kind of buzzwords, and I think
the one that always gets used incorrectly is the twin flame.
So I guess my general question for you is, like,
what is a twin flame? How likely is it that
will find a twin flame? Like I always think it's
going to be incredibly rare that it's someone that shares
there as a soul and that it's like split into
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two and that's what makes it the twin But if
you could just provide any sort of insight maybe break
some MythBusters when it comes to twin flames, since it's
always such a buzzword on the social media platforms.
Speaker 3 (14:15):
Oh yes, So there's a few things that people sort
of reframe a twin flame into being like the ultimate relationship,
and it's not really the ultimate relationship. So the idea
is that it is a soul that is split into
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two bodies. What I grew up knowing is that this
soul that was split into two bodies means that this
soul is in its last incarnation on the planet Earth,
the last time that you were going to need to
be in a body. So that means that you your soul,
this soul that is split into two bodies, has learned
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all of its lessons, has achieved everything it needed to
achieve on the earth plane, and will then move on
to sole growth in the great beyond. Okay, not needing
to come back into a body, because ultimately, here on earth,
this is our classroom and we have to slow down
to be here and we have work to do. But
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when we move into soul form it things go faster,
things are easier, and they're not bogged down by all
of this literal gravity. Right, So, twin flame when you
do find one, If you do find one, my belief
is that that's the last time that you are here.
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It also doesn't mean that that's the best relationship of
your life. It means that you're going to be faced
with all of your lessons unlearned that come out in
the form of that other person. It's like a mirror
to everything that is not completed yet. Right. Doesn't sound
so fancy and sparkly does it?
Speaker 1 (16:01):
No park Right because they always think like that's the
ultimate finding your twin flame, like that's what you should
be striving for, But it might actually be very challenging
and maybe disappointing once you get there to be honest.
Speaker 3 (16:14):
Yeah, that's like a really pointing needle in the haystack. Okay,
so like, and the same thing goes like with twin
flames and soulmates. Just because we believe them to be
these things does not mean that it also equals with
little sorry romantic relationship. A twin flame can be a
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family member, it can be a boss, it can be
a friend, So it doesn't it's not guaranteed that it
will be a romantic relationship. Same goes with soulmates. We
can find people who are not attracted to us, who
have all of the things that we need. We feel
amazing with them. It's a completed circle with this person,
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except not the passion part. So people get really confused,
and it's nice to think, Okay, I'm going to read
this description that sounds wonderful in a book, and now
I'm going to need to find this person. And until
I find this perfect one, I'm not going to be happy.
And so it makes love and romance very tough. And
(17:21):
it's tough even without those titles. Right yeah, So so
think I always think about bringing people back to the reality. Right,
let's ground your energy. You want to find someone who's
a good person, who's compassionate, who's giving and loving, who
reflects the energy that you bring into the relationship, and
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find someone who you feel safe with. You know, those
are the keys you know to do a happy life,
happy partnership.
Speaker 1 (17:55):
Right.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
Yeah, so twin flame. People have definitely different opinions about it,
but mine is that it's you're shooting for something that
you might not actually want. So wish for the real things,
the tangibles, and remember that universe will bring you what
you are wishing for and hoping for, and you can
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say I want this or better. So create a list
of the things that the characteristics that you want in
a partner and ask for that list or better for you,
And that way you're going to have a really great
relationship coming to you, rather than shooting for something that
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is going to ultimately bring in a lot of painful
lessons and frustration.
Speaker 2 (18:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
And I think the one thing that you said that
really stuck with me is the idea of finding someone
that makes you feel safe. I think that is something
that we always overlook, to be honest, and that's really
an important piece to any sort of relationship.
Speaker 3 (19:00):
So I think that's absolutely yes, Yes, and I wrote
a book called Finding the Missing Piece Inside, and I
talk in that book about connecting with not only what
you were taught about love, what you experienced about love
around you as a child, the relationships of your parents,
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the people around you, the friendships that you saw, how
people treated each other, and understand that that missing piece
is not actually another person. It's up to you to
create the whole puzzle of you and to be the
best version of you so that you can attract a
person who has also done the same thing, because you
don't want someone who's coming forward with an empty spot
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that you need to fill or one that they need
to fill for you, because then you know it's not
a whole life. It isn't because then you're going to
be attached to this person and needing them and feeling
like if they go away, you don't know how you're
going to live.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
Right?
Speaker 3 (20:01):
Does that make sense?
Speaker 2 (20:02):
Absolutely?
Speaker 3 (20:04):
Yeah, So we sort of got a little away from
the twin flame thing.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
But you know what, the yeah, it's all good because
I think those buzzwords all still are all present on
social media all the time, So it's a good reminder regardless.
I think the last question I'll ask for this segment.
This time is around the full moon that we just
had yesterday in Libra. I've been feeling the effects for
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the last few months, just not only because of this
crazy administration, but also just because of all the planets
going on. Mercury was just in retrograde, Venus was just
in retrograde, and it just seems like the energy has
been crazy the last few weeks months this year, May
I dare I say so with this full moon, you
know what are some things that we can do to
(20:48):
try and make us feel more like ourselves, I guess,
and kind of help us get through the next couple
of weeks, and you know, with the start of spring
and Easter coming, you know what are the things that
we can do right now in our day to day.
Speaker 3 (21:04):
So this one is not an easy one for people
to do, but I feel like leaning into your emotions
right now rather than trying to sweep them under the rug,
will be really helpful. Full moons are great for release
and for endings, releasing things that you've been carrying around.
(21:25):
Moonstone or labradorite are both very effective stones at connecting
us with our emotions and helping for that gentle emotional release.
Versus big and difficult emotions. It's like you know when
you cry and release things and you heal. It's that
kind of emotion that I'm talking about releasing. You want
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to get to the healing part. Okay, So grabbing one
of those stones if you have a moonstone or labradorite.
The other thing would be to look around in your
environment and see what feels outdated. So the concept of
spring cleaning, I know we all talk about it, but
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I'm talking about the energy connected to the items in
your house because clearing out space literally in your home
right now, after we've gone through the retrogrades and we've
got this full moon energy still with us, will really
help because everything has a vibration, Everything has an energy,
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and the more cluttered or stuck your environment is, the
more your emotions can also get cluttered and stuck to
those things that don't belong anymore. So it is a
natural process right now to purge not only emotionally but
physical stuff around us and looking forward. Have some plans,
(22:53):
you know, bucket list. There's another catchphrase that we hear
all the time, But are you really writing things down
on your list? And are you taking any steps toward
accomplishing those things on your bucket list. Give yourself something
to look forward to. After you release the emotions, after
you do the healing, after you release the things in
your environment, start to look forward to something. Give yourself
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permission to adventure and change your life. Don't just do
the go to work and come home, or if you're
a person who works at home, then you're always in
the same space. Don't do that. Give yourself something on
your bucket list that you can you know, even if
you're saving it. You know, you skip your coffee one
day a week, put that money in an envelope, that
(23:37):
bucket list is going to be easier to accomplish, right, yep. Absolutely,
So those are some of the things that I would
suggest doing. I know you are an adventurous person by nature,
and you love travel, and you love being outside. I
know being outside for people is another thing that can
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really be good right now is to just truly connect
with nature and the environment outside of four walls and
a ceiling.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
Yeah. And it's so funny because I have been like
doing some my own spring cleaning, spring organizing, and it's
like I did that subconsciously.
Speaker 2 (24:13):
So hearing you say, like, actually.
Speaker 1 (24:15):
That's good things to do with the moving into spring
and kind of releasing things from the full moon.
Speaker 2 (24:21):
It's like I was already.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
Doing those things subconsciously and didn't even really know why.
So that makes total sense. And then you know, I
feel like, yeah, the emotion thing has been really strong.
I have a moonstone ring that I have to go
dig up and find and wear it for the next
few days. But I also did, you know, feel like
I needed a good cry a couple of days ago
and put on one of my favorite TV shows called
(24:45):
The Summer. I turned pretty very emotional and it was
just what I needed to do, some healthy crying, and
I definitely felt better after that. So all these times wise, yes, yeah,
my body.
Speaker 3 (24:59):
Crying for your own stuff. You were crying to release
because of the movie. It's a great way to transform
and have that release without having to go fully into
your personal emotions or replaying situations that you're carrying, but
you can still let the emotion out. So very smart.
Speaker 1 (25:16):
Hm, I never really thought about that. Yeah, that's such
a good point, is you know. I was able to
channel the emotion from something sad that I was watching
and not having to like re experience my own emotional
things in my day to day.
Speaker 3 (25:30):
So yeah, yeah, very smart. I love it. Well, I'm
so glad we could chat tonight's stuff. This is great.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
Yes, thank you so much. I appreciate you answering my
random questions.
Speaker 3 (25:42):
And I love random questions. So anytime you want to
ask me more, I'm here for it.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
All right, great, Well, I will think of other things,
but I'm always happy to sit down and have a
nice little chat. So I hope the full moon and
you know, the start of the week goes well for you.
Speaker 3 (25:58):
Thank you, same for you too, honey. All right, thank you,
thanks bye
Speaker 1 (26:06):
Mm hmm
All right, hello everyone, and my name is Stephanie and
I have known Pandora for a number of years. Just
some backstory of how we even met. Kind of a
funny story. We have a mutual friend and I'll never forget.
I was out one night in Chicago with this friend
and I was chatting and I was going through something
in my life and I was like, oh, I really
(00:25):
need to like chat with a psychic or like have
someone kind of give me some direction. And this friend
was like, oh my god, steph, I actually know someone
who that's like their job. And I was like, oh
my god, I wonder for free tomorrow at ten am.
And so like immediately this friend connected me with Pandora.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
I'll never forget. It was like on.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
Facebook, I message Pandora and I was like, Hey, are
you free tomorrow? And Pandora's response was yeah, does tomorrow
at tomorrow at ten am work? And I remember being like,
oh my god, this is meant to be absolutely like
I just put that out there and it is message received.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
And so.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
That was kind of my first introduction to Pandora as
the psychic. And then I mean, I think we've been
friends now for I don't know seven eight plus years.
So I started as a client and then quickly became
a friend and now she's just someone that I chat
with on the regular about all the things going on.
So this is us, just you know, me asking questions
(01:24):
that I've always wanted to ask Pandora the psychic and
not always Pandora the friend.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
So we'll see how this goes.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
So with that, I have listened to some of Pandora's
interviews in the past, and I know that she comes
from a long line of psychic and channelers and her
family which I think is so so interesting, and I
love the story that her mom used to test her
on her way home from school by sending her a
list of things to pick up at the convenience store
(01:54):
and a way to practice your psychic abilities.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
So kind of my first.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Question to you is, you know what other exercises or
things can we do to expand our psychic abilities in
our in our every day.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Sure we can look at that, but I want to
clarify one thing. So in twenty twenty five, sending me
a list of things to get at the store could
have been like way easier with a cell phone, right
to text. It's true, but she would send it psychically, yes,
before cell phones are even a thing. You're so right, Yeah,
(02:30):
I would get out in my head. Yeah. So that
was one of the things that we would do when
I was a little bit older, But when I was
younger a few years before that, we used to sit
across from each other and she would think of an
object or an item or a color and connect her
third eye to my third eye, so focused energy from
(02:53):
the center of her forehead to mine so that I
could receive what she was sending me. And it's sort
of like easy with friends to do this, or with
romantic partners or someone that you live with. You can
practice regularly sending that image and it starts to get
clearer because when we're the receiver, when it's the third
(03:16):
eye is open and receiving, it's sort of like a
movie screen. So if you can visualize a blank movie
screen in your mind, when you're working with someone who's
sending you an image, you just sort of wait until
that image starts to appear. It might be a color
or a shape. At first, you may not know what
it is. It might be kind of a foggy image
until you get good at it, but eventually it sort
(03:37):
of pops up really quickly. So that's the kind of
stuff that I started when I was four or five
years old with my mom and with my grandmother, also
with my father. So that's something I would suggest doing.
You can dance it a little bit, and you can
expand and don't tell the person whether it's a person
(04:00):
a place. You can give them a whole concept and
see what they came up with. You can create a
whole movie in their mind and see how much they're
accurate with. So it's pretty cool. That was one of
the big ones that we did. I learned how to
read playing cards, so working with divination with my grandmother
at around age eight and also with my mom, so
(04:24):
you can plug in into your intuition through the use
of a divination tool. We started with playing cards because
they you don't get distracted by pretty images, so tarot cards,
images symbols, playing cards, it's a little bit less than that,
(04:45):
you know, it's harder to get distracted with playing cards.
They're very checked the message.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Especially when you're that age.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
I can see where you'd be like, oh, pretty the
empress and then go on a tangent about being, you know,
a princess or a queen.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
So that makes sense all the way.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Yes, yes, yes, So I didn't get into tarot until
I was like seventeen or eighteen, and that's when I
did a deep dive into tarot. But so, anyway, the
sending messages back and forth visual messages would be a
great way to start working with your intuition and connecting
with your senses. The other thing that I learned was
(05:25):
to connect to your solar plexus, that feeling in the
pit of your stomach, right, so your intuition for a
lot of people comes through your solar plexus or in
your belly. Sometimes we can confuse an intuition with a
fear so learning to tell the difference that was something
that I worked on a lot with my mother, whether
(05:49):
this is your fear voice talking or your intuition talking,
because they both can sort of feel like butterflies and
your tummy, you know, like it's good butterflies or it's
bad butterflies. Have you ever had that happen where you
feel that that sense and you're not sure which one
it is?
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Of course, yeah, I can see how you could almost
think like probably because of the doubt that's there that
causes the fear.
Speaker 3 (06:14):
Exactly. Yeah, So it's learning to trust the messages and
learning to trust the language that you have within you,
your intuition and that inner voice, and also knowing that
sometimes our inner voice can be a little critical and
that we need to kind of push that one side
as well.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
So interesting, thank you, Yeah, of course, I guess one question.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
I am curious though, because four years old is so
young when you're sitting at the table with your mom.
Is she like, all right, we're going to play this
game and I want you to think of a screen
or is she just sending this to you and kind
of quizzing you. Yeah, did she's like set the stage
with this practice or did she just do it kind
of nonchalantly.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
It was a little bit of both actually, So, just
like with that grocery list, she would do it intermittently
to see what I would respond to. Sometimes we would
be watching TV together and she would send me an
imager thought to get up and do something, you know,
(07:23):
whether it was get up and go brush my teeth
before bed or go get my pajamason, and I would
just get up and do it. And then when I
would come back in, she'd say, do you know why
you did that, you know, So she wanted me to
connect with whether it was something that I intended for myself,
an idea that came to me from within, or whether
it was something that I felt that was coming from
outside of me. So that was another way of learning
(07:45):
the stimulus, you know, learning where the message was coming from.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
Wow, that's crazy. I can't imagine. I'm sure my mother
would have loved that.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
She'd been like, all right, Stephanie, go vacuum and I'd
be like, get up and vacuum me.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
And even though I'd be like, why am I doing this?
Like I don't want to.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
I'm sure right Like here I am, I have the
vacuum cleaner. You know. It's interesting. So animals communicate in
images in the same way that we kind of communicate
intuitively and energetically. They have the same movie screen in
their heads. So it's easy for me to communicate with
my pets in the same way that I communicated with
(08:23):
my mom and dad and grandmother. So it's kind of cool.
It's like shorthand when you're training a dog, when you
send them the visual queue and their head psychically at
the same time that you're giving them a command, it
makes sense, I'm sure.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
I always wonder after I always wonder too, like what
language does a dog think in? But if they think
in images, then it doesn't matter what language, right, Like
that would be the soul, So that makes a lot
of sense.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
Actually, yeah, they do think in images. I mean they
do learn the the human language that they're in the
household of. So you know, if it's a Russian speaking household,
then the dog speaks Russian as well, but they predominantly
speak the images visual.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Yeah, very cool. M all right.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
My next question is one that I've just like always wondered,
and I think it's it's a little bit universal. But
do you psychics also have a psychic like I'm always curious.
You know, people go to you looking for maybe some
insight direction, maybe help with what they're going on in
their lives. But are you able to do that for
yourself or is it like almost blocked for yourself because
(09:36):
you're providing it for others or how does that work
for you?
Speaker 3 (09:41):
So, most psychics can sense when there's a warning or
a danger for themselves versus seeing the entire picture for themselves.
So and the same thing goes for the people in
their immediate environments, so they're family members. They know if
there's a warning coming up around someone, a danger around someone,
(10:05):
but they're not going to plug in in the same
way to read for them because we're not supposed to.
So yes, usually psychics will have someone that they go
to when they are really facing a challenge in life
or a crossroads and they want to get some information. Also,
psychics may choose to go to someone who does a
(10:28):
different modality than they do. So if like in my case,
I'm a psychic medium, I do use cards sometimes, but
usually I connect with spirit, So I may go to
somebody who does astrology or numerology because those are not
the things that I utilize on a daily basis to
get information. But I might want to have an insight
(10:51):
from that different kind of view, that different kind of
language if something's coming up for me. Does that make sense?
Speaker 2 (10:58):
That does make sense?
Speaker 3 (10:59):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, But ultimately, like we can't see our
own life, our whole life picture for ourselves. We're not
supposed to because that could kind of drive you a
little crazy, you.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
Know, absolutely.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
I also just feel like that takes away from like
living experience for you if you are always know kind
of what could happen depending on your choices you make.
Speaker 3 (11:19):
So yeah, exactly, and this sort of it's a little segue.
But when someone goes for a reading, so anybody, whether
they're psychic or whether just they're a normal person, if
they go to a reader who they want them to
tell them their life story, they want to sit down
(11:39):
and say, Okay, what's coming up for me? That means
that they're giving the responsibility completely to the reader. And
that's not the wayness is all supposed to work. Because
we didn't come into this life with a specific script
that we're supposed to follow. We get to choose and
create our own path. So that's why I work with
clients a lot on power and helping them to see
(12:03):
the things that they can do, that they can create
to craft the life that they want, rather than thinking
that they came in with this story. So if you
ever go to a reader and they're trying to tell
you the story of your life, really sit there and
listen to it for a minute and say, but wait
a minute, this doesn't sound like me. I don't want
these things, And who is this person anyway to know
(12:24):
me better than I know myself? Right?
Speaker 1 (12:27):
Yeah? And I always think It's so important to remember
that time is dynamic and things can always change based
on the choices we make. So you know, a reading
may be true for this point in time, but if
you make a different decision the whole you know, trajectory
can be completely different too, And so I think folks
always need to remember.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
That, yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, free will, free will, You
get to make different changes and choices. You get to,
even in relationships, love someone for a time, not for
an entire lifetime, you know. And that's a hard one too.
You can see when you outgrow a situation or relationship
(13:03):
and that maybe who you were in the past, you
didn't know that it was only going to be six years,
ten years, twenty years, whatever. But now you're there and
you're at that crossroads and you get to choose again
and choose better this time, you know.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
Always.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
I mean, you know, that's the beauty of it, right,
the ability to choose. So totally okay, My next kind
of question really stems from, you know, the hype of
social media TikTok. I feel like every other person I
get on TikTok is always a you know, a tarot
card reader or someone talking about astrology. Or soul ties
(13:42):
or all these different kind of buzzwords, and I think
the one that always gets used incorrectly is the twin flame.
So I guess my general question for you is, like,
what is a twin flame? How likely is it that
will find a twin flame? Like I always think it's
going to be incredibly rare that it's someone that shares
there as a soul and that it's like split into
(14:02):
two and that's what makes it the twin But if
you could just provide any sort of insight maybe break
some MythBusters when it comes to twin flames, since it's
always such a buzzword on the social media platforms.
Speaker 3 (14:15):
Oh yes, So there's a few things that people sort
of reframe a twin flame into being like the ultimate relationship,
and it's not really the ultimate relationship. So the idea
is that it is a soul that is split into
(14:38):
two bodies. What I grew up knowing is that this
soul that was split into two bodies means that this
soul is in its last incarnation on the planet Earth,
the last time that you were going to need to
be in a body. So that means that you your soul,
this soul that is split into two bodies, has learned
(15:00):
all of its lessons, has achieved everything it needed to
achieve on the earth plane, and will then move on
to sole growth in the great beyond. Okay, not needing
to come back into a body, because ultimately, here on earth,
this is our classroom and we have to slow down
to be here and we have work to do. But
(15:22):
when we move into soul form it things go faster,
things are easier, and they're not bogged down by all
of this literal gravity. Right, So, twin flame when you
do find one, If you do find one, my belief
is that that's the last time that you are here.
(15:43):
It also doesn't mean that that's the best relationship of
your life. It means that you're going to be faced
with all of your lessons unlearned that come out in
the form of that other person. It's like a mirror
to everything that is not completed yet. Right. Doesn't sound
so fancy and sparkly does it?
Speaker 1 (16:01):
No park Right because they always think like that's the
ultimate finding your twin flame, like that's what you should
be striving for, But it might actually be very challenging
and maybe disappointing once you get there to be honest.
Speaker 3 (16:14):
Yeah, that's like a really pointing needle in the haystack. Okay,
so like, and the same thing goes like with twin
flames and soulmates. Just because we believe them to be
these things does not mean that it also equals with
little sorry romantic relationship. A twin flame can be a
(16:35):
family member, it can be a boss, it can be
a friend, So it doesn't it's not guaranteed that it
will be a romantic relationship. Same goes with soulmates. We
can find people who are not attracted to us, who
have all of the things that we need. We feel
amazing with them. It's a completed circle with this person,
(16:59):
except not the passion part. So people get really confused,
and it's nice to think, Okay, I'm going to read
this description that sounds wonderful in a book, and now
I'm going to need to find this person. And until
I find this perfect one, I'm not going to be happy.
And so it makes love and romance very tough. And
(17:21):
it's tough even without those titles. Right yeah, So so
think I always think about bringing people back to the reality. Right,
let's ground your energy. You want to find someone who's
a good person, who's compassionate, who's giving and loving, who
reflects the energy that you bring into the relationship, and
(17:44):
find someone who you feel safe with. You know, those
are the keys you know to do a happy life,
happy partnership.
Speaker 1 (17:55):
Right.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
Yeah, so twin flame. People have definitely different opinions about it,
but mine is that it's you're shooting for something that
you might not actually want. So wish for the real things,
the tangibles, and remember that universe will bring you what
you are wishing for and hoping for, and you can
(18:18):
say I want this or better. So create a list
of the things that the characteristics that you want in
a partner and ask for that list or better for you,
And that way you're going to have a really great
relationship coming to you, rather than shooting for something that
(18:40):
is going to ultimately bring in a lot of painful
lessons and frustration.
Speaker 2 (18:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
And I think the one thing that you said that
really stuck with me is the idea of finding someone
that makes you feel safe. I think that is something
that we always overlook, to be honest, and that's really
an important piece to any sort of relationship.
Speaker 3 (19:00):
So I think that's absolutely yes, Yes, and I wrote
a book called Finding the Missing Piece Inside, and I
talk in that book about connecting with not only what
you were taught about love, what you experienced about love
around you as a child, the relationships of your parents,
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the people around you, the friendships that you saw, how
people treated each other, and understand that that missing piece
is not actually another person. It's up to you to
create the whole puzzle of you and to be the
best version of you so that you can attract a
person who has also done the same thing, because you
don't want someone who's coming forward with an empty spot
(19:45):
that you need to fill or one that they need
to fill for you, because then you know it's not
a whole life. It isn't because then you're going to
be attached to this person and needing them and feeling
like if they go away, you don't know how you're
going to live.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
Right?
Speaker 3 (20:01):
Does that make sense?
Speaker 2 (20:02):
Absolutely?
Speaker 3 (20:04):
Yeah, So we sort of got a little away from
the twin flame thing.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
But you know what, the yeah, it's all good because
I think those buzzwords all still are all present on
social media all the time, So it's a good reminder regardless.
I think the last question I'll ask for this segment.
This time is around the full moon that we just
had yesterday in Libra. I've been feeling the effects for
(20:27):
the last few months, just not only because of this
crazy administration, but also just because of all the planets
going on. Mercury was just in retrograde, Venus was just
in retrograde, and it just seems like the energy has
been crazy the last few weeks months this year, May
I dare I say so with this full moon, you
know what are some things that we can do to
(20:48):
try and make us feel more like ourselves, I guess,
and kind of help us get through the next couple
of weeks, and you know, with the start of spring
and Easter coming, you know what are the things that
we can do right now in our day to day.
Speaker 3 (21:04):
So this one is not an easy one for people
to do, but I feel like leaning into your emotions
right now rather than trying to sweep them under the rug,
will be really helpful. Full moons are great for release
and for endings, releasing things that you've been carrying around.
(21:25):
Moonstone or labradorite are both very effective stones at connecting
us with our emotions and helping for that gentle emotional release.
Versus big and difficult emotions. It's like you know when
you cry and release things and you heal. It's that
kind of emotion that I'm talking about releasing. You want
(21:47):
to get to the healing part. Okay, So grabbing one
of those stones if you have a moonstone or labradorite.
The other thing would be to look around in your
environment and see what feels outdated. So the concept of
spring cleaning, I know we all talk about it, but
(22:09):
I'm talking about the energy connected to the items in
your house because clearing out space literally in your home
right now, after we've gone through the retrogrades and we've
got this full moon energy still with us, will really
help because everything has a vibration, Everything has an energy,
(22:30):
and the more cluttered or stuck your environment is, the
more your emotions can also get cluttered and stuck to
those things that don't belong anymore. So it is a
natural process right now to purge not only emotionally but
physical stuff around us and looking forward. Have some plans,
(22:53):
you know, bucket list. There's another catchphrase that we hear
all the time, But are you really writing things down
on your list? And are you taking any steps toward
accomplishing those things on your bucket list. Give yourself something
to look forward to. After you release the emotions, after
you do the healing, after you release the things in
your environment, start to look forward to something. Give yourself
(23:16):
permission to adventure and change your life. Don't just do
the go to work and come home, or if you're
a person who works at home, then you're always in
the same space. Don't do that. Give yourself something on
your bucket list that you can you know, even if
you're saving it. You know, you skip your coffee one
day a week, put that money in an envelope, that
(23:37):
bucket list is going to be easier to accomplish, right, yep. Absolutely,
So those are some of the things that I would
suggest doing. I know you are an adventurous person by nature,
and you love travel, and you love being outside. I
know being outside for people is another thing that can
(23:58):
really be good right now is to just truly connect
with nature and the environment outside of four walls and
a ceiling.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
Yeah. And it's so funny because I have been like
doing some my own spring cleaning, spring organizing, and it's
like I did that subconsciously.
Speaker 2 (24:13):
So hearing you say, like, actually.
Speaker 1 (24:15):
That's good things to do with the moving into spring
and kind of releasing things from the full moon.
Speaker 2 (24:21):
It's like I was already.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
Doing those things subconsciously and didn't even really know why.
So that makes total sense. And then you know, I
feel like, yeah, the emotion thing has been really strong.
I have a moonstone ring that I have to go
dig up and find and wear it for the next
few days. But I also did, you know, feel like
I needed a good cry a couple of days ago
and put on one of my favorite TV shows called
(24:45):
The Summer. I turned pretty very emotional and it was
just what I needed to do, some healthy crying, and
I definitely felt better after that. So all these times wise, yes, yeah,
my body.
Speaker 3 (24:59):
Crying for your own stuff. You were crying to release
because of the movie. It's a great way to transform
and have that release without having to go fully into
your personal emotions or replaying situations that you're carrying, but
you can still let the emotion out. So very smart.
Speaker 1 (25:16):
Hm, I never really thought about that. Yeah, that's such
a good point, is you know. I was able to
channel the emotion from something sad that I was watching
and not having to like re experience my own emotional
things in my day to day.
Speaker 3 (25:30):
So yeah, yeah, very smart. I love it. Well, I'm
so glad we could chat tonight's stuff. This is great.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
Yes, thank you so much. I appreciate you answering my
random questions.
Speaker 3 (25:42):
And I love random questions. So anytime you want to
ask me more, I'm here for it.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
All right, great, Well, I will think of other things,
but I'm always happy to sit down and have a
nice little chat. So I hope the full moon and
you know, the start of the week goes well for you.
Speaker 3 (25:58):
Thank you, same for you too, honey. All right, thank you,
thanks bye
Speaker 1 (26:06):
Mm hmm
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