Welcome to The Spirit of Dating, your spiritual dating podcast. Do you mistake chaos for chemistry? Are you falling for the conversation, the possibility, instead of the real person? This week, George Dus unpacks the intense, all-consuming experience of limerence—the difference between real love and fantasy—a key step in achieving conscious relationships.
Through the story of Olivia and "Ethan," George reveals how deep text-based intimacy often creates a fantasy that fades the moment you meet in person. He explores how this phenomenon is tied to attachment styles relationships and the core of self-love and emotional safety. This episode teaches you to spot the distortion in masculine and feminine energy that leads to the painful anxious-avoidant dynamic, helping you choose presence over potential.
Practical Takeaways
- Learn the core emotional wound that Limerence is trying to heal through fantasy.
- Discover the key "Screenshot Test" for your most urgent text messages.
- Why does calm feel 'boring' when you're used to drama, and how can you rewire this conditioning?
- The exact ratio of text time to in-person time that proves you're building a real connection.
- How the wounded masculine performs and the grounded masculine proves worth through action.
- The essential practice for dating someone who is actually calm and consistent.
Chapters (Timestamps)
(00:00) – Intro
(04:11) – The Story
(13:53) – Spirit Lens
(18:35) – Polarity Lesson
(26:36) – Self-Awareness & Practice
(32:00) – Truth Telling
(35:39) – Practical Takeaway
(37:52) – Closing
(39:51) – Spirit Whisper
(40:03) – Outro
📚 Referenced Frameworks
- Limerence (Dorothy Tennov)
- Tarot: The Knight of Cups Reversed
- Attachment Theory: The Anxious-Avoidant Pairing
🎵 Music Credits
Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!) By Your Side – Justin Lee → https://uppbeat.io/t/justin-lee/by-your-side License code: V9WDYDGF5FQ8EEQA
What Happens Next – Tyler Edwards → https://uppbeat.io/t/tyler-edwards/what-happens-next All versions licensed via Music Vine: 7TSSZERF0OKIYM3J
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💜 Relationship Support Resources
The Spirit of Dating stands with all who face crisis or abuse in relationships. Love should never harm. If you need support, reach out to a trusted hotline or service. You are not alone.
U.S. National DV Hotline – 1-800-799-7233 | thehotline.org Canada – sheltersafe.ca U.K. – Refuge 0808 2000 247 | refuge.org.uk Australia – 1800 Respect 1800 737 732 | 1800respect.org.au Global – UN Women | unwomen.org · Hot Peach Pages | hotpeachpages.net
You are not alone. 💜
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