A Blessing For The Woman Who Thinks She's Not Doing Grief Right

You are not behind. You are not broken. You are not too much. You are simply... grieving. And that is holy ground.

For the woman who's wondering if she's grieving wrong.

This one's a little different. No long story. No reflection. Just a blessing.

If you've ever wondered if there's a "right" way to do grief... if you've compared your tears to someone else's silence... if you've felt like you should be further along by now or handling this better—this episode is for you.

Take a deep breath. Put your hand over your heart. Let these words settle into the places where doubt has crept in.

Because here's what I want you to know: There is no gold star for "best griever." No timeline that fits every broken heart. No checklist for holy sorrow.

If your grief feels messy, if it shows up as silence or tears or anger or exhaustion—that's okay. That's normal. That's human.

You are not doing this wrong. You are doing the sacred work of loving someone who is no longer here. And that work is not tidy. It's not linear. It's not ever going to be the same as someone else's.

In this gentle spoken blessing, we're creating space for your beautiful, messy, perfectly imperfect grief. Because you don't have to be cheerful to be faithful. You don't have to be brave to be beloved.

Earthling, your love is not lost—it's just learning a new language. The porch light's on, the door's unlocked, and there's always room at this table for your beautiful, broken heart.

My website is coming soon with resources, support, and more conversations like this one. Until then, if this episode touched your heart, I'd be so grateful if you'd share it with someone who needs to hear these words.