Suburban Black Girl Podcast

From sharing Ubers to sharing secrets, the rules of friendship have changed — but are some still sacred? In this episode, we dive into what girl code means now in 2025. We're unpacking the unspoken boundaries, the silent betrayals, and the ways sisterhood gets complicated in adulthood. Is not showing up to the birthday dinner still a betrayal? Does time equal loyalty? And what’s the line between protecting your peace and abando...

Let’s be real — learning to enjoy your own company is a whole journey. In this episode, we’re talking about the real power of spending time alone, not because you have to, but because you want to.As women — especially Black women — we’re often expected to pour into everybody else. But what happens when you turn all that love, attention, and energy inward? What happens when you stop avoiding the silence and actually sit with yoursel...

In this episode of The Suburban Black Girl Podcast, we’re unpacking a conversation that so many Black women need to hear: It’s okay to want more even when everyone around you is telling you to “just be grateful.”We’re talking about the subtle guilt that creeps in when your ambition makes others uncomfortable. The way society polices Black women’s desires and dreams. The constant tug-of-war between honoring your gratitude for what y...

In this episode of The Suburban Black Girl Podcast, we’re getting into the real behind romance, money, lifestyle, and love — asking the question: Should suburban-raised Black women date exclusively within their socioeconomic class?We unpack what it means to date across — or within — class lines, especially when you've grown up in middle or upper-middle class environments that come with access, ambition, and unspoken expectations. F...

In this episode of The Suburban Black Girl Podcast, we’re getting honest about the quiet weight of being “the only one” — the only Black girl in the classroom, at work, in the friend group, or at the table. From early moments of invisibility to the complex pressure of being seen as a representative for an entire community, we explore what it feels like to constantly navigate spaces that were never built with us in mind.

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This week on the Suburban Black Girl Podcast, we're talking about the bold act of being fully yourself as a Black woman in a world that often expects otherwise. From breaking free of cultural expectations to redefining beauty and success on our own terms, we explore what it means to show up confidently—without apology. We also dive into setting boundaries without guilt, owning your voice in the workplace, and dating with self-a...

This week on The Suburban Black Girl Podcast, we’re talking about the bad boy phase — that chapter so many suburban Black women go through. What is it about the edge, the chaos, the “fix him” fantasy that feels so familiar? Is it rebellion? Attraction? Or does it trace back to deeper questions around protection, validation, and identity? We’re breaking down the mindset behind the phase, why it hits so hard, and what it really means...

This week on The Suburban Black Girl Podcast, we’re diving into a powerful and necessary conversation: Colorism in the Black Community :The Unspoken Divide.

In this episode, we open up about our personal experiences with colorism—both within and outside of the Black community. From the classroom to the workplace to the dating scene, we unpack how colorism shows up in everyday life and the emotional toll it can take. We also explore ...

This week on The Suburban Black Girl Podcast, we’re letting you in on a more personal side of us! We’re sharing what inspired us to start this podcast, how we’ve grown and evolved over the years, and our best advice for navigating life’s ups and downs. Plus, we’re diving into our favorite movies, TV shows, and songs, as well as the little things that help us unwind after a long day— and so much more. Tune in for a fun, candid, and ...