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Yo, yo yo, what's good? Gen z Zaden Cruz Here
back with another episode of success Playbook, where we ain't
sugarcoatin nothin today's topic. That pesky voice in your head
that sounds like a broken record player stuck on You're
a failure ever, feel like your mind's an emotional roller
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coaster with no brakes, Yeah, me too. But listen up,
because this ain't about just chill vibes and pretending everything's cool.
This is about straight up conquering those negative thoughts before
they conquer you. First things First, science says our brains
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are wired to focus on the negative. It's like a
built in negativity bias designed to keep us safe from
danger back in the caveman days. But here's the thing, fam,
we ain't living in the stone age anymore. Those same
thoughts that kept our ancestors alive can now make us
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anxious af about missing a TikTok trend or forgetting to
reply to a DM real talk. It's like your inner
critic is stuck in a time warp and needs an
urgent update. So how do we reprogram this negativity bias?
Let me drop some knowledge bombs one, catch those thoughts
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you can't fight what you don't see. Start paying attention
to those negative thoughts the moment they pop up, Write
them down, say them out loud, whatever it takes to
make them visible. The more aware you are, the less
power they have over you. Think of it like identifying
a toxic X. Once you know what's wrong, you can
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move on faster. Two. Challenge the bs. Don't just accept
those thoughts as facts. Ask yourself, is this really true?
What evidence do I have to support this? Is there
another way to look at the situation. You've got to
become your own thought detective, questioning everything and finding the
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logical flaws in those negative narratives. Three reframe your reality.
This is where the magic happens. Instead of dwelling on
what's wrong, focus on what's right. Find the silver lining
even in the most messed up situations. Remember that time
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you totally bombed a presentation, but then discovered your hidden
talent for improv Sometimes failure can lead to unexpected wins. Four.
Practice self compassion. Okay, here's the realty. We all mess up.
Sometimes it's part of being human. Instead of beating yourself
up over every mistake, treat yourself with kindness and understanding.
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Imagine talking to your best friend who's going through a
rough patch. You wouldn't be harsh. Right Five, Get out
there and do stuff. Action beats apathy every single time.
Engage in activities that bring you joy, connect with people
who lift you up, and challenge yourself to step outside
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your comfort zone. When you're busy living life, those negative
thoughts have less space to creep in. Let me tell
you about this legend Emma Watson. You know her from
Harry Potter right. Well, besides being a global icon, she's
also an activist and You and Women Goodwill ambassador. She
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speaks out on gender equality, uses her platform for good
and inspires millions. But here's the thing. Even someone as
amazing as Emma Watson has faced criticism, doubts, and moments
of self doubt. Remember that time she gave a speech
about feminism at the UN. People called her too intense
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and questioned her authority. Imagine being in the spotlight, facing
global scrutiny and still having to battle those inner demons.
But did she let it stop her. Hell no, She
doubled down on her message, kept pushing boundaries, and became
even more powerful because of those challenges. So what can
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we learn from Emma Watson's journey. It's not about being
perfect or silencing those negative thoughts. It's about acknowledging them,
challenging them, and using them as fuel to grow stronger.
Listen up, gen Z. Overcoming negativity ain't just some self
help buzzword. It's a superpower that unlocks your full potential.
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You got this. Remember to catch those thoughts, challenge the bs,
reframe your reality, practice self compassion, and get out there
and hustle. Don't let those negative vibes hold you back
from becoming the damn legend you were born to be. Now,
go out there and conquer the world, and don't forget
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life depends on it, and share it with anyone who
needs a dose of real talk. Stay tuned for next
week's episode, where we dive deep into building confidence like
a boss peace Out. This podcast is created with the
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