The Aloha EQ Podcast
Aloha! I’m Ruth Kongaika, and after 36 years living in the South Pacific, I’ve learned that emotional intelligence isn’t just a skill - it’s a lifestyle. It’s where heart meets science, and where island wisdom helps us raise stronger kids, deepen relationships, and find peace in a noisy world. Join me for real stories, meaningful tools, and a little ocean breeze for the soul.
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I didn't grow up in the islands. I grew up in the land of fry sauce, snow-capped mountains, and "I'm fine" said with a tight smile. Emotions were a bit like Jell-O salad: colorful, but often covered up and served with whipped cream. Then I moved to the South Pacific Islands. Let's just say, it was like going from muted pastels to full technicolor. Suddenly, emotions weren't something you hid in your journal; they were woven into da...
After living in Hawaii for 21 years, I was exposed to Hawaiian pidgin, which I enjoyed hearing. This is a brief preview of some of the idioms and humor heard by parents raising children in Hawaii. Please excuse the very poor accent. I thought it might be fun to get an idea of how some keiki (children) are brought up in the Hawaiian Islands. It is emotional intelligence, Hawaiian pidgin style. Not all people in Hawaii speak pidgin, ...
Introduction to The Aloha EQ Podcast
Welcome back. Today we're talking about raising emotionally smart keiki - our children. In a world full of noise, our kids need more than rules. They need emotional tools. I'll share personal stories, practical tips, and cultural insights to help the next generation grow up emotionally whole.
This episode of The Aloha EQ Podcast blends South Pacific and Mainland American emotional intelligence. In the South Pacific, EQ involves showing emotions that reflect what your community would expect. In mainland America, emotions are mainly centered on self-expression. Although they are very different, both are beneficial and rooted in deep culture and traditions. Islanders show emotions through actions rather than verbal expres...
Today we're talking about the unique emotional wisdom that lives in the islands. Have you ever wondered why someone raised in a village seems to carry calm even in chaos? There's a reason - and it's rooted in cultural emotional intelligence. So, let's explore how island life teaches us to lead with grace, restraint, and deep connection.
Ruth Kongaika
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