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April 25, 2025 62 mins

🎙️ Ep. 5 The Tea in Our Intercultural Relationship

Ever wonder what it really takes to blend families, values, and traditions? In this week’s episode of The Couples Edition, we’re sharing what it’s *actually* like to blend cultures, traditions, and family expectations in our interracial marriage — from everyday routines to the wild drama at our wedding.

We open up about our very different upbringings, how we’ve learned to honor both of our backgrounds, and the hard lessons we’ve learned about boundaries, compromise, and family. If you’re dating across cultures, married to someone with a different background, or just curious about what it takes to build a relationship that bridges worlds — this one’s for you.


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👇 Jump to the good parts with timestamps:⏱ TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 – Episode teaser

00:38 – Intro

02:50 – Our cultural backgrounds

08:12 – Elie thinking independent from his culture

10:31 – Differences between Elie & his family lifestyle

13:28 – Gender norms between cultures

17:19 – Do we have gender roles in our marriage?

19:47 – Navigating family expectations & cultural differences

25:02 – Addressing family drama

26:53 – Unspoken expectations

30:09 – Deep Dive Tea Time: How our cultural differences impacted our wedding!!

33:44 – Buying the bride & traditional Congolese wedding

36:15 – Dealing with uninvited wedding guests & getting a bouncer

41:58 – Lying about our wedding start time

43:50 – Turning people away from our wedding

48:23 – The aftermath of the culture drama at our wedding 54:36 – Intercultural wedding takeaways - what we should have done different


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