The Hardest Job Ever

The Hardest Job Ever

Welcome to The Hardest Job Ever! If you’re a mom trying to juggle literally everything—your career, your baby, your sanity—you’ve come to the right place. We’re here to have the real conversations—about the mom guilt, the mental load, and why our marriages now feel like business meetings. We’ll share the highs, the lows, and the WTF are we even doing? moments with a little humor (bc if we don’t laugh, we’ll definitely cry). This is your space, where you’re seen, supported, and reminded that you’re not in this alone. Let’s figure this motherhood thing out together.

Episodes

June 11, 2025 36 mins

Season 2, Ep 5: After you have a baby, everyone has opinions—and zero respect for nap schedules. From unsolicited advice to uninvited drop-bys, setting boundaries as a new mom isn’t rude. It’s survival.

In this episode, we’re sharing:

• Real-life boundary wins (and fails)

• How we handled surprise visitors and unwanted advice

• The added pressure of cultural expectations (hi, South Asian guilt)

• How to align with your partner and stay ...

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Season 2, Ep 4: Boobs, pumps, nipple shields, breastfeeding supplements—today we’re talking all things breastfeeding with certified lactation consultant Michelle Fassell, IBCLC, who’s seen it all and still manages to make you feel like you’re doing amazing.

In this episode, we’re breaking down:

• How to boost milk supply without losing your mind

• What “triple feeding” really looks like (and why it breaks so many moms)

• The deal with ...

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S2 Ep4: In this episode, Karen takes us inside her meticulous, exhausting, and sometimes maddening breastfeeding journey—from collecting colostrum at 37 weeks to weaning while working full-time.

We cover:

• How she learned to collect colostrum (and why it mattered later)

• Flange sizing, nipple shields, and other ridiculous breastfeeding gear

• The chaos of triple feeding and tube feeding—and how she survived it

• Pumping in office supp...

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Season 2, Ep 3: Two boobs. Two babies. One sleep-deprived mom with a spreadsheet full of milk data. In this episode, Purvi takes us inside her chaotic, emotional, and surprisingly hilarious breastfeeding journey with premature twin boys.

We cover:

• Pumping 9–10 times a day (yes, really)

• Tandem feeding fails and twin Z pillow wins

• The pressure to “exclusively breastfeed”—and what happened when mastitis hit

• Formula guilt, clogged d...

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Season 2, Ep 2: There’s the body you had before baby. And then there’s the body that survived birth, surgery, sleepless nights, and somehow—kept tiny human(s) alive.

In this episode, we’re talking about the weird, real, and beautiful changes that happen to our bodies after birth, including:

• Night sweats, phantom cries, and postpartum hair loss

• C-section scars, stretch marks, and the mental spiral of “getting your body back”

• How w...

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May 7, 2025 35 mins

Season 2, Ep 1: No one warned us that the fourth trimester would feel like being reborn and slightly wrecked at the same time. You’re stitched, swollen, sobbing at everything, and somehow still keeping a little newborn baby alive.

In this kickoff to Season 2, we’re talking about the raw reality of those first 8 postpartum weeks, including:• Physical recovery

• Emotional recovery

• What helped us feel vaguely human again

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Episode 10, Replaying a hit from Season 1: Karen & Purvi discuss the challenges of maintaining social lives after becoming mothers. They explore the pressures of keeping old friendships alive while trying to forge new connections with other moms. The conversation delves into the emotional struggles of feeling left out from pre-baby friendships and the complexities of navigating new mom friendships. They reflect on their past be...

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April 16, 2025 47 mins

Episode 9: Karen shares her birth plan and Purvi shares her lack of a birth plan.

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Episode 8: Purvi shares her twin birth story. What was supposed to be a planned C-section turned into a surprise early check-in. Even though she wasn’t fully packed or totally prepared for postpartum life with her twins, she embraced the chaos and came out the other side with a story that’s equal parts real and reassuring.

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Episode 7: Karen shares her personal birth story. She details her intense birth experience, which began with a plan to avoid interventions but ultimately led to an unexpected emergency C-section. The conversation highlights the challenges of labor, pain management decisions, and the importance of flexibility in birth plans. She also reflect on lessons learned and the need for mothers to share their stories and support one another.

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Episode 6: Karen & Purvi discuss the challenges of maintaining social lives after becoming mothers. They explore the pressures of keeping old friendships alive while trying to forge new connections with other moms. The conversation delves into the emotional struggles of feeling left out from pre-baby friendships and the complexities of navigating new mom friendships. They reflect on their past behaviors towards friends who beca...

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Episode 5: Karen and Purvi discuss the emotional journey following Karen's layoff - exploring themes of motherhood, personal identity, and the concept of the 'Power Pause' as introduced in Neha Ruch's book. They delve into the importance of self-reflection, setting measurable goals, and prioritizing personal well-being amidst the challenges of motherhood and career transitions.

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Episode 4: Getting laid off hits hard when you’re really Type A - your career & academics have always been a huge part of your identity. Add in becoming a new mom, and suddenly you’re not just questioning your job—you’re questioning who you even are. In this episode, Karen is unfiltered and talks moments after she’s laid off. She processes what’s happened - the loss of structure, the identity shift, the what now? and why it’s s...

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Episode 3: Karen and Purvi are taking on the the conversation of one of the hardest things about being a parent: childcare. Nanny or daycare? The ultimate parenting debate. One gives you flexibility, the other gives you structure. One costs a small fortune, the other has a waitlist longer than your pregnancy. Purvi chose daycare, Karen went with a nanny. If you’re in the trenches of figuring this out, this one’s for you!


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Episode 2: Karen and Purvi dive into the invisible labor that keeps their households running and how it’s changed their relationships with their partners. Let’s talk about the mental load!

They love our husbands, but they're basically co-parenting roommates at this point. And somehow, date nights feel like a distant memory.


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Episode 1: Karen and Purvi kick off The Hardest Job Ever by tackling the myth of doing it all. Between work deadlines, daycare drop-offs, and remembering to feed themselves, balance as a mom feels like a joke.


So how do they make it all work as parents, or at least look like they are? Tune in as they get real about the struggle, the mom guilt, and the moments that make it all worth it.

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