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July 18, 2025 9 mins

Hey, bestie! 🫶☕ Grab your iced coffee and settle in, because today we’re talking about something deliciously rebellious but surprisingly gentle: stepping into your villain era without actually being cruel.


In this episode, we’ll spill all the tea on:

🖤 What a “villain era” really is (hint: it’s softer than it sounds)

✨ How to choose yourself without apology — or a 3-paragraph text explaining why

🪞 What to tell yourself on those days when self-doubt whispers, “Am I a bad person for setting a boundary?”

📱 Why your healing might look selfish to others — and why that’s okay


We’ll talk therapy wins, iced coffee rituals, and what it feels like to reclaim your time, energy, and peace — not out of spite, but out of self-love. Because being the “villain” sometimes just means you stopped letting everyone else write your story.

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