The Lady Birds

In this episode, we’re joined by Dr. Nichelle Haynes, a reproductive psychiatrist and co-owner of Reproductive Psychiatry and Counseling based in Austin, Texas. She walks us through the nuances of mental health care during pregnancy and postpartum, from medication safety and identity shifts to postpartum anxiety and baby blues. If you’re navigating mental health during pregnancy or postpartum, this one’s for you—and anyone supporti...

This episode dives into one of our favorite birth topics: VBACs (vaginal birth after cesarean). Jessica and Becky open with a heartfelt check-in about the recent Hill Country floods before shifting into all things VBAC. They walk through the history, break down the real (and rare) risks like uterine rupture, and talk candidly about what pelvic floor PTs actually do to help. From hip mobility to scar tissue myths to provider dynamic...

 In this follow-up to Becky’s pregnancy story, we flip the mic and hear all about Jessica’s experience being pregnant at the same time as Becky. From instant joy to pubic symphysis pain, insomnia, compression socks, and body image shifts, we talk about it all, capturing the contradictions, the surprises, and the stuff no one tells you. We reflect on what it was like to go through pregnancy side-by-side, how our experiences were wil...

Tailbone pain, or coccydynia, is a condition we treat frequently, but it’s often overlooked or misdiagnosed. In this episode, Jessica and Becky take a closer look at what true tailbone pain is (and isn’t), how it presents in pregnancy and postpartum populations, and why pelvic floor physical therapists are uniquely positioned to help. They discuss common contributing factors, treatment strategies, including internal exams and dry n...

In this episode, Becky opens up about her pregnancy journey — one that was medically complex, emotionally draining, and often left out of the typical pregnancy narrative. From gestational diabetes and chronic itching to fetal heart defects and ovarian cysts, this is the story of Becky's pregnancy. Jess and Becky initially meant to talk about both her pregnancy AND her birth but ended up not having time! Stay tuned for Becky'...

In this episode, we’re diving deep into one of the most debated and often feared topics in the birth world: inductions. We’re joined by our own OBGYN and friend, Dr. Romy Ghosh, to talk through the myths, facts, nuances, and personal experiences behind needing (or choosing) an induction. From medical to elective reasons, relative risk to actual outcomes, we unpack it all! Whether you’re prepping for birth, supporting someone who is...

In this episode, Becky and Jessica tackle one of the most requested (and under-discussed) topics in postpartum care: painful sex. Whether you're weeks, months, or even years postpartum, pain during intimacy is common — but not something you have to just live with. They break down the most common causes, what it actually feels like, and what you can do about it. 

🧠 Your brain matters as much as your body Fear, stress, and feeling "t...

In this episode, Becky and Jessica dive into the messy beauty of postpartum routines — or lack thereof. From tracking every diaper to full-on bath poops and unpredictable nap schedules, they reflect on how parenting expectations meet the real-world chaos. It’s a conversation filled with relatable moments, unexpected wins, and the sweet spot between over-preparing and letting go.

In this episode you'll find: 🍼 Navigating the chaos o...

In part 2, Becky and Jessica take a deeper dive into diastasis recti. They unpack what doming and coning really mean, when to worry (and when not to), and why strength — not fear — is the answer. It’s part clinical breakdown, part real-life mom chat, and 100% designed to bust the myths we’ve all been fed about postpartum bodies.

We cover:
🧠 What doming and coning actually look like — and why it’s not one-size-fits-all💥 Hard...

In this episode, the Lady Birds 🐦✨ have an honest conversation about the day-to-day realities of postpartum life: the overwhelm, the constant juggle between work and parenting, and the guilt that sneaks in no matter what you choose. From laundry piles and late-night scrolling to how we divide household tasks and protect the time we have with our babies — we’re talking through it all.

💬 Why “doing it all” is a lie (and why we stopp...

In this episode, we’re breaking down diastasis recti—yep, that thing everyone on Instagram is talking about—and what it actually means for your body.

We cover:

🤰🏼What diastasis recti is (and how to pronounce it without panicking) 👶🏻 Why it happens in every pregnancy🔍 What we’re looking for when we assess it (spoiler: the gap is not the whole story)🤸🏼‍♀️ Why function > aesthetics when it comes to core recovery🧠 What helps,...

This week, The Lady Birds 🐦✨ dive into Jess’s personal journey with fertility and IUI (intrauterine insemination). We talk about navigating fertility as a queer couple, choosing a sperm donor, and all the emotional (and logistical) highs and lows that came with it.

We also chat about her experience choosing a sperm donor, hilarious donor profiles, and the real impact of stress on fertility (spoiler: it’s not easy to just “relax”). ...

In this episode Becky and Jessica dive into one of the most common (and most annoying!) pregnancy pains: pubic symphysis pain. As pelvic floor PTs—and one of us who felt it firsthand—we’re breaking down what it is, why it happens, and most importantly: how to manage it.

What You’ll Hear:

📍 What exactly pubic symphysis pain is

🧬 Why it happens during pregnancy (hint: it’s not just hormones!)

🤔 The difference between pubic pain, light...

This week the Lady Birds 🐦✨ are talking about juggling early motherhood, leaving their babies for their first overnight trip away, and needing to baby proof their house!

👶 What’s Inside This Episode? 

💥 Our first time away from our babies… from pumping to food poisoning, it was an experience!

👶 Baby food drama: allergens, textures, and tiny taste testers with BIG opinions

🚧 Baby-proofing adventures + crawling chaos (our homes wi...

Hey, Lady Birds! 🐦✨ In this episode, Becky and Jessica dive into all things C-section recovery. Whether you’re planning for one, recovering from one, or just love learning about postpartum healing, we’ve got you covered.

👶 What’s Inside This Episode?

🔍 How common are C-sections really?

🤕 C-section vs. vaginal birth recovery – what’s actually different?

👐 Why scar massage is a must-do—even if you don’t have pain.

💪 Strengthenin...

Hey Lady Birds! 🐦✨ Becky and Jessica are back with another raw, real, and (hopefully) ridiculously relatable episode! This week, we're diving deep into the chaos of pumping mishaps (forgot the pump, the flanges, the milk… what didn’t we forget?! 😭) and the highs and lows of sleep training.

🚼 What’s Inside This Episode?
💡 Becky’s epic streak of pumping disasters—will she ever make it to work with all the parts? 🤦‍♀️ (She does eve...

The Lady Birds 🐦 know recovering after birth is no joke, and the timeline isn’t as simple as "six weeks and you’re good to go!" In this episode, we break down what postpartum recovery actually looks like, from zero to six weeks and beyond. We talk about what “being cleared for exercise” really means, the importance of progressive loading, and how everyone’s recovery looks different. Whether you’re an elite athlete eager to return ...

Traveling with a baby is an adventure—equal parts chaos, comedy, and occasional triumph. In this episode, we share our best (and worst) travel stories, including a near-death experience (okay, MAYBE a slight exaggeration) with a bumblebee and a heroic cowboy. We also dive into the unexpected ways babies behave better for literally everyone but their parents and discuss why direct flights are worth every penny when traveling with a ...

This week on The Lady Birds, we're diving deep into the world of push prep. Whether you're planning for an epidural, going unmedicated, or haven't decided yet, we’re here to break down everything you need to know about pushing effectively. From understanding how your pelvic floor works to the best positions for birth (yes, the answer is it depends!), this episode is packed with practical advice, expert insights, and the encourageme...