Fathers and Sons: Sexual Temptation, Biblical Truth, and Brave Conversations

Welcome back to the podcast, men! The enemy is targeting our sons with lies about sex, and far too many are falling silently. This episode equips dads to speak truth early, clearly, and biblically — before it’s too late.

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Raising Sons Who Flee Sexual Immorality

In today’s episode, we’re tackling one of the biggest—and most under-discussed—battles facing the next generation of young men: sexual purity. The statistics are staggering. Over 75% of young Christian men between the ages of 18–24 are actively searching for pornography. And the average age of first exposure? Just 13 years old.

This isn’t just a cultural issue. It’s a spiritual battle. The enemy knows that sexual sin can derail a man’s future, destroy families, and distort God’s good design. And he’s coming for our sons early. If we want to raise sons who flee sexual immorality, we can’t wait until they’re in high school. We must start the conversation now—with wisdom, grace, and truth.

Here’s what we’ll cover in this episode:

1. Why This Matters So Much

Sexual immorality is a trap with devastating consequences. Proverbs 2:16-19 and 5:1-6 paint a clear and sobering picture of what happens when a young man follows the path of seduction and lust. The Bible doesn’t shy away from these warnings, and neither should we. In fact, three of the first six chapters of Proverbs directly address this issue. Solomon knew the stakes—and so should we.

2. Understanding the Enemy’s Strategy

Satan has been using the same tactic since the Garden of Eden: “God can’t be trusted. He’s holding out on you.” That lie still works today, especially in the realm of sexuality. Culture reinforces the message that freedom comes from doing whatever feels good, but Scripture shows us that true freedom is found in honoring God’s boundaries. 1 Peter 5:8 warns us to stay alert, because the enemy is actively looking for someone to devour.

3. Start the Conversation Early

Today’s kids are exposed to sexual content earlier than ever before. Some studies show that 15% of kids have seen porn by the age of 10. That means waiting until the teen years to talk about sex is too late. Proverbs 4:1-4 reminds us of the value of a father’s early instruction. Our sons need guidance before the culture has a chance to shape their understanding of manhood and sexuality.

4. Answer Their Questions With Truth

If your son is brave enough to ask questions, that’s a gift. Don’t shut him down or dodge the conversation. Meet him with honesty and grace. Equip him to trust God’s design, not the world’s confusion. If we don’t answer their questions, someone else will—and that someone may not have their best interests in mind.

Final Challenge

Dads, this is your moment. The world is loud, but your voice can be louder—if you’re willing to have the hard conversations, grounded in Scripture and led by love. Don’t wait until he’s already entangled. Start now. Speak up. And help your