March 10, 2025 • 22 mins
Love, trust, betrayal, and the thin lines in between—we’ve all been there. In this special Midnight Thoughts of the Day episode, we will be giving our opinions on each midnight thought of the day given at the end of each episode on Series One.
We’re diving into the raw, unfiltered emotions behind love, the weight of lies, and the cost of loyalty. Can love survive dishonesty?
Is loyalty always a virtue, or can it become a burden?
We’re unpacking the unspoken truths and personal reflections that make relationships so beautifully complicated. No judgment, just real talk.
Join us as we discuss these thoughts you have had a chance to reflect on.
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(00:00):
assemblies-
(00:30):
It's on now.
Can you take this weird voice off of me?
Get married they say.
Get married they say.
Get married they say.
Yo yo yo it's your boy Mr. Broskiii.
(00:55):
And it's a Poet;s Heart.
I guess we're gonna film the whole episode like this huh?
What they gonna play?
Take it off.
Hey how you do that dude?
Make a ponytail and you ain't got no hands.
(01:22):
Alright y'all let's get into it.
Broskiii I'm here with a Poets Heart.
You know we ain't had nobody talk to us on this series so.
For our anonymous what ifs segment so.
So what we're gonna do is.
Discuss The Midnight Thoughts of the Day from this series.
And we've given y'all some time to think and now y'all get to hear our thoughts and opinions on it.
(01:47):
So with the first episode where the midnight.
Exchange begins sorry.
Our first midnight thought of the day.
I can definitely read baby.
Is does time actually heal wounds or do we just get better at pretending they don't hurt?
So this was leading into our series one love lies and loyalty and this was our first midnight thought of the day to kind of.
(02:15):
Give you something to think about as we led into our series so.
Do you think time heal wounds.
It depends on the situation and what's the.
Was part of it was healing.
By.
Sometimes sometimes sometimes leaving it.
(02:36):
Depending on the situation like untouched for some time.
Can actually make make it worse so you get better at pretending.
So I wouldn't say you get better at pretending that sometimes it get worse to the point where you can't even pretend.
Yeah so.
In some cases time does sometimes does.
(02:58):
Yeah.
I think you sometimes you have to allow yourself to forgive them and if you're hating them you have to you know realize that you know you really ain't supposed to hate nobody.
You got to work through that yourself and how to forgive them and then it's kind of like you know that is what it is I forgave them for myself.
Not for them I forgave them for myself and where I'm going in my journey and I've also experienced the time we're pretending it just don't happen and just forgetting and blocking it out because it hurts so much.
(03:35):
Yeah that's what we think on that one.
You know y'all can give you our feedbacks on these two.
No just hit us up.
So episode one that then line between love and betrayal.
We spoke about betrayal the psychology behind cheating emotional affairs and dishonesty and how relationships truly recover after betrayal.
(03:58):
So our midnight thought of the day for episode one was if you truly love someone what is the point of betrayal.
That motherfucker has itself.
Yeah, there is no no no.
I love you though.
I'm even really you know if no feedback need to be done right there that answer is so.
(04:23):
So, so if you so you can't tell me that you love me this much and then fuck around and betray me.
Hell no.
You're like you can't you can't put love and betrayal in the same really in the same sentence like I love you.
This is why I betrayed you.
What's the worst like what what is like like describe that like is it serious portrayals or like.
(04:52):
What's a little I mean if you can portray us to portray your emotion I don't think someone is a serious betrayal.
Yes.
So that's something that does you don't love me.
Yeah.
Okay.
Well that's it.
I mean you don't love someone.
I disagree.
(05:14):
I don't disagree but I agree but I don't even agree I'm like in between even even in that moment.
Like if you truly love that person or whatever you wouldn't you you would never put yourself there.
I think our anger is what leads us to that like okay I'm not saying like everything can be excused right.
(05:38):
So we spoke about you know the cheating and how that's not ever okay and types of forms and what it looks like.
And I just feel like depending on the situation that led to it like yeah I mean I don't think I mean you love them less but maybe your anger was clouding your judgment.
But by whatever y'all got into like maybe your anger was calling your judgment.
(06:00):
It didn't mean you love them less you just wasn't thinking clearly.
Like I I agree but I don't agree because if you know I it's a tough one because when you allow the devil to bring people your life and tempt you and get you off track from what you were doing before prior you being committed and head over heels and not
(06:33):
arguing kind of like the honeymoon phase and then when she hit the fan it's like oh my god like what is going on.
I don't know I'm just kind of stuck in between right there.
I believe that depending on how bad the portrayal is like now but I do also believe that our feelings cloud excuse me our feelings cloud our judgment.
(06:57):
So in episode two, we spoke about marriage, and we talked about the fantasy versus the reality of marriage.
And we kind of discuss you know what.
And if we were the type of person that wanted to be married prior to being married. What we valued about it, what we wanted in it. The truth. No one talks about a marriage, and also the fantasy that they create of marriage and why marriages don't last in the
(07:30):
struggles of maintaining that love and passion, and also want to fight or walk away from a marriage or love.
And our midnight thought of the day for episode two is, is marriage the fairy tale we imagine, or the reality we create.
(07:53):
We grow up believing in soulmates, friend gestures, and happily ever after, but is real love about magic, or about choosing each other, even when the magic fades.
So Mr. Broce is marriage the fairy tale we imagine or the reality we create
(08:14):
is both is both.
You're going to get to that fairy tale you imagined based on the reality that you've created, based on what you, the marriage that you've created the foundation.
I wouldn't say it's a little bit of both.
Now I do agree it is what you created. That's the reality you surround around your marriage. That's what you're creating. Whatever you put into your marriage, that's what you're creating.
(08:43):
So it's really the reality behind it.
Like, do you believe in soulmates? Like, yeah, yeah, yeah. Friend gestures.
Happily ever after.
We're in our ever after, because this is forever. Ain't nothing else. This is a forever thing.
(09:06):
Lord, if I could watch all he had a forever.
Or, is it about it, is it really the fairy tale, because we continue to choose each other, even when the magic fades.
Think about this fairy tale, think about the standard Disney movie, or whatever.
(09:29):
Think about the standard movie where they get married, they have a house, they have kids, all of this stuff, the basic fairy tale of what marriage is, smiles, giggles, ha ha ha, right?
We create this reality, right? No, no two people are just put together like, oh, you're going to be happy, you're not going to experience anything in life for bringing you sadness or arguments.
(09:57):
You know, you create this reality based on communicating with one another, continuing to choose each other, even when the magic fades.
And by working together to establish your future, working together to make your home happy, your kids happy like that.
The reality you created what brings this fairy tale to life.
(10:22):
I guess you got a point right there.
I guess I got a good one.
I don't believe in fairy tales.
No fairy tales, okay.
Okay, so.
(10:45):
Now we have our last episode of this series, Love, Lies, and Loyalty, where we spoke about the price of loyalty.
We spoke on how we define loyalty, what it looks like in a relationship and in a marriage, in a situationship, whatever you're doing, you know, the sacrifices, the commitment, and when loyalty is taken for granted.
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And we also touched on how you can be loyal to someone who has betrayed you.
Our midnight of the thought for the price of loyalty was, is loyalty proven in the big moments or in the small ones no one notices?
We often think of loyalty as staying faithful during the storms, but maybe it's really about the quiet everyday choices, showing up, keeping promises, and standing firm when no one's watching.
(11:39):
So what do you think?
I don't think loyalty is just proven in the small moments, though. I think it's proven in those big moments, too.
Like, because you can have big moments without nobody seeing it, though.
So loyalty comes from a little bit of both.
Like, you got to be able to prove your loyalty, not only in those small moments, but also in those big moments.
(12:05):
Like, you don't need, like, an audience to show your loyalty for as long as the person who you decided to be loyal to, loyal to, see your loyalty.
And they so you need you need them big moments as well as some small moments.
Now, you might have more small moments than you have big moments, but that's okay. That's cool.
(12:28):
I think the small moments matter the most because you have the big ones.
You know, okay, you can have someone that is manipulating you that's not showing loyalty in the little moments, right?
(12:50):
But they're showing them in the big moments, right?
To me, the little moments is when it matters the most, the time that no one notices.
That's when it matters the most to me because I notice. I notice if you're there for me. I notice if you're going to bat for me.
I notice if you're taking up for me with somebody talking about me in my face, you know?
You can have big moments in silence, too, though, when nobody notices.
(13:13):
Yeah, but I'm saying I feel like the little moments matter the most to me.
Nope. A person who's manipulating you is not going to highlight them small moments no one notices because they don't notice it.
But they're going to make sure they're loyal to you when it matters.
They're going to make sure they're loyal to you when everybody's looking.
(13:36):
But what about when nobody's looking? What about when you got to prove to me that you are loyal to me?
So I think it is proven in both moments, but it's proven the most in those small things.
You may not. Something as simple as, oh, oh, baby, I can't.
I can't do this, you know? Like, OK, take us for example.
(13:58):
When we first started out, it was the little things that showed you like, damn, like she helped me.
Like she got me. Like it's those little things that you don't even.
And it may be the times where you don't even realize you being loyal.
You just being yourself, you being kind hearted.
You like I'm I'm fucking with me, fucking with me. Like, why would I let him go without?
(14:19):
Why would I watch him lose money when I can help him make it?
Are you get what I mean? Like, it's those little times that matter because you can prove you Lord to a person just by being yourself,
just by being kind hearted, generous and just by looking out for something as simple as like, man, if I got it, you got it.
(14:42):
That is a sign of loyalty. I'm not being selfish.
I'm sharing with you whether I'm low on it or not, because why would I watch you go without and I care about.
So to me, those small gestures mean so much more than the big ones, because why be loud when everybody else is looking when you can be loud when I'm looking?
(15:10):
You just say I go to say I think I don't need little always matter the most.
Like, I don't totally I don't totally get you.
And then I don't go to all the way like I'm 50 50 what you say I was with the last one.
Right. Like. So I get what you say.
But on the loyalty could be proven small little or little or big.
(15:35):
Yeah. So we go back to what we said, you know, give all of your loyalty to a person.
It also depends on it all depends on a person like sometimes.
Sometimes if you if the person person you being a Lord to only see only see the little ones that can't see the big the big ones sometimes.
(15:56):
And they only see you doing the big the bigger test being loyal.
They go. They never go see the smaller loyalty things that you do.
So it depends on a person, though.
I think the smaller forms of showing someone you're loyal to them happens when it's y'all.
(16:19):
It's like when it's unexpected. Yeah.
Like you might be around your friends or out together some shit like that, like something as simple as you curving a motherfucker who walk up on you while I'm in the bathroom and we at the bar.
You know, like that's something small. That's nonchalant to you.
Like, now, that's my girl. I guess my wife like, no, I'm good. I'm taking.
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You know what I mean? Something is not as long as that is something small.
I mean, I just ain't nobody else is around. It's just me, you and the way you just curve. That's something small.
That's something between us. But I. But OK, you keep saying nobody around.
But you could also it's always you also have them big moments when nobody's around.
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Like, let me see if I could put in an example.
Yeah, you got to explain that one to me.
Let me see if I could put in an example because big moments, right?
Mm hmm. It was a big moment that you show your OK, which is hard.
Yes. So boom. Right. So boom.
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Say, for example. Do it just spouse.
And all right. Say you and your spouse is in separate homes. Y'all not married yet. No, nothing. Right.
Yeah. But you felt this individual very strongly.
So say, for example, like, oh, like, oh, girl was really getting big.
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Now, you don't have to do this. You don't have to do this.
You don't have to help her out at all. True. So you got your way.
And you like, hey, here's the rest of your remedy so you don't get evicted.
That is a big gesture. Nobody knows. Nobody knows.
No, nobody's there. This is between you two. I agree.
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OK, I get it. Now you know, I get it.
Yeah, it's stuff like that, too. That can happen when nobody is nobody around.
But what if he's only doing the big ones and not the little ones?
That's what I'm saying. Like, you got to have a little bit of both.
Yeah. But what I was saying is you have people. I get what you're saying.
I get what you're saying.
(18:38):
Manipulators that will only do the big gestures to just show you, hey, I want you to think I'm loyal to you.
But we're not talking about manipulators, though. But I'm saying.
We're not talking about manipulators. Manipulators to the side.
To me, I think, no, I'm saying I think to me. Manipulators to the side, though.
It depends on the person. Small is always better.
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No, it's not. It depends on the person. It depends on the individual.
Small is always better. It depends on individual. It depends on that relationship.
Yeah. It depends on them two people.
Agreed to disagree. So small sometimes ain't always better.
It depends on those two people at the end of the day.
(19:20):
OK, so we often think loyalty is staying faithful during the storm.
But is it really about the quiet everyday choices showing up, keeping promises and standing firm even when no one's watching?
Big gestures, big gestures, big gestures.
(19:42):
I believe it's a mixture of all. You have to make conscious, conscious life decisions every day, especially when you're with somebody.
You have to make conscious life decisions.
I believe something as simple as showing up for them for events and stuff like that, or even telling them like, hey, man, I can't get out of work.
(20:05):
You know, sometimes we understand things like that.
Like that time you couldn't come to my thing at the school.
I've never looked at it is like he ain't loyal to me.
I just knew you couldn't get out of work, you know, but there's other times when you don't showed up for me.
I'm like, you know what I mean? Like you've shown it by showing up and keeping your promise.
(20:28):
You know, so I think I think all of those.
Work would be a loyal and if you do those things, it will show in the small and big gestures that you are loyal to a person.
I could go to a man. I can't argue on that one.
(20:50):
Yeah, not this time.
The other one, I was willing to go to talk to which I'm sorry.
But yeah, you guys that wraps up our midnight of the day discussions from our series one.
We hope you all enjoyed our thoughts and opinions on those.
Listen, yeah, pay attention.
Teach you some.
(21:11):
We don't see all for series two.
Yeah, serious to talk about BBLs.
So no, we are not.
Why the plastic that is smart, though, that's a good little natural plastic or plastic.
Yeah, your body, your choice, right?
(21:33):
Mama.
So y'all be tuned in for a series two to take place on March the 22nd.
We look forward for y'all and join another series with us on the midnight exchange of nocturnal ideas.
And on that note, good night.
(22:18):
Thank you.
assemblies-
(00:30):
It's on now.
Can you take this weird voice off of me?
Get married they say.
Get married they say.
Get married they say.
Yo yo yo it's your boy Mr. Broskiii.
(00:55):
And it's a Poet;s Heart.
I guess we're gonna film the whole episode like this huh?
What they gonna play?
Take it off.
Hey how you do that dude?
Make a ponytail and you ain't got no hands.
(01:22):
Alright y'all let's get into it.
Broskiii I'm here with a Poets Heart.
You know we ain't had nobody talk to us on this series so.
For our anonymous what ifs segment so.
So what we're gonna do is.
Discuss The Midnight Thoughts of the Day from this series.
And we've given y'all some time to think and now y'all get to hear our thoughts and opinions on it.
(01:47):
So with the first episode where the midnight.
Exchange begins sorry.
Our first midnight thought of the day.
I can definitely read baby.
Is does time actually heal wounds or do we just get better at pretending they don't hurt?
So this was leading into our series one love lies and loyalty and this was our first midnight thought of the day to kind of.
(02:15):
Give you something to think about as we led into our series so.
Do you think time heal wounds.
It depends on the situation and what's the.
Was part of it was healing.
By.
Sometimes sometimes sometimes leaving it.
(02:36):
Depending on the situation like untouched for some time.
Can actually make make it worse so you get better at pretending.
So I wouldn't say you get better at pretending that sometimes it get worse to the point where you can't even pretend.
Yeah so.
In some cases time does sometimes does.
(02:58):
Yeah.
I think you sometimes you have to allow yourself to forgive them and if you're hating them you have to you know realize that you know you really ain't supposed to hate nobody.
You got to work through that yourself and how to forgive them and then it's kind of like you know that is what it is I forgave them for myself.
Not for them I forgave them for myself and where I'm going in my journey and I've also experienced the time we're pretending it just don't happen and just forgetting and blocking it out because it hurts so much.
(03:35):
Yeah that's what we think on that one.
You know y'all can give you our feedbacks on these two.
No just hit us up.
So episode one that then line between love and betrayal.
We spoke about betrayal the psychology behind cheating emotional affairs and dishonesty and how relationships truly recover after betrayal.
(03:58):
So our midnight thought of the day for episode one was if you truly love someone what is the point of betrayal.
That motherfucker has itself.
Yeah, there is no no no.
I love you though.
I'm even really you know if no feedback need to be done right there that answer is so.
(04:23):
So, so if you so you can't tell me that you love me this much and then fuck around and betray me.
Hell no.
You're like you can't you can't put love and betrayal in the same really in the same sentence like I love you.
This is why I betrayed you.
What's the worst like what what is like like describe that like is it serious portrayals or like.
(04:52):
What's a little I mean if you can portray us to portray your emotion I don't think someone is a serious betrayal.
Yes.
So that's something that does you don't love me.
Yeah.
Okay.
Well that's it.
I mean you don't love someone.
I disagree.
(05:14):
I don't disagree but I agree but I don't even agree I'm like in between even even in that moment.
Like if you truly love that person or whatever you wouldn't you you would never put yourself there.
I think our anger is what leads us to that like okay I'm not saying like everything can be excused right.
(05:38):
So we spoke about you know the cheating and how that's not ever okay and types of forms and what it looks like.
And I just feel like depending on the situation that led to it like yeah I mean I don't think I mean you love them less but maybe your anger was clouding your judgment.
But by whatever y'all got into like maybe your anger was calling your judgment.
(06:00):
It didn't mean you love them less you just wasn't thinking clearly.
Like I I agree but I don't agree because if you know I it's a tough one because when you allow the devil to bring people your life and tempt you and get you off track from what you were doing before prior you being committed and head over heels and not
(06:33):
arguing kind of like the honeymoon phase and then when she hit the fan it's like oh my god like what is going on.
I don't know I'm just kind of stuck in between right there.
I believe that depending on how bad the portrayal is like now but I do also believe that our feelings cloud excuse me our feelings cloud our judgment.
(06:57):
So in episode two, we spoke about marriage, and we talked about the fantasy versus the reality of marriage.
And we kind of discuss you know what.
And if we were the type of person that wanted to be married prior to being married. What we valued about it, what we wanted in it. The truth. No one talks about a marriage, and also the fantasy that they create of marriage and why marriages don't last in the
(07:30):
struggles of maintaining that love and passion, and also want to fight or walk away from a marriage or love.
And our midnight thought of the day for episode two is, is marriage the fairy tale we imagine, or the reality we create.
(07:53):
We grow up believing in soulmates, friend gestures, and happily ever after, but is real love about magic, or about choosing each other, even when the magic fades.
So Mr. Broce is marriage the fairy tale we imagine or the reality we create
(08:14):
is both is both.
You're going to get to that fairy tale you imagined based on the reality that you've created, based on what you, the marriage that you've created the foundation.
I wouldn't say it's a little bit of both.
Now I do agree it is what you created. That's the reality you surround around your marriage. That's what you're creating. Whatever you put into your marriage, that's what you're creating.
(08:43):
So it's really the reality behind it.
Like, do you believe in soulmates? Like, yeah, yeah, yeah. Friend gestures.
Happily ever after.
We're in our ever after, because this is forever. Ain't nothing else. This is a forever thing.
(09:06):
Lord, if I could watch all he had a forever.
Or, is it about it, is it really the fairy tale, because we continue to choose each other, even when the magic fades.
Think about this fairy tale, think about the standard Disney movie, or whatever.
(09:29):
Think about the standard movie where they get married, they have a house, they have kids, all of this stuff, the basic fairy tale of what marriage is, smiles, giggles, ha ha ha, right?
We create this reality, right? No, no two people are just put together like, oh, you're going to be happy, you're not going to experience anything in life for bringing you sadness or arguments.
(09:57):
You know, you create this reality based on communicating with one another, continuing to choose each other, even when the magic fades.
And by working together to establish your future, working together to make your home happy, your kids happy like that.
The reality you created what brings this fairy tale to life.
(10:22):
I guess you got a point right there.
I guess I got a good one.
I don't believe in fairy tales.
No fairy tales, okay.
Okay, so.
(10:45):
Now we have our last episode of this series, Love, Lies, and Loyalty, where we spoke about the price of loyalty.
We spoke on how we define loyalty, what it looks like in a relationship and in a marriage, in a situationship, whatever you're doing, you know, the sacrifices, the commitment, and when loyalty is taken for granted.
(11:10):
And we also touched on how you can be loyal to someone who has betrayed you.
Our midnight of the thought for the price of loyalty was, is loyalty proven in the big moments or in the small ones no one notices?
We often think of loyalty as staying faithful during the storms, but maybe it's really about the quiet everyday choices, showing up, keeping promises, and standing firm when no one's watching.
(11:39):
So what do you think?
I don't think loyalty is just proven in the small moments, though. I think it's proven in those big moments, too.
Like, because you can have big moments without nobody seeing it, though.
So loyalty comes from a little bit of both.
Like, you got to be able to prove your loyalty, not only in those small moments, but also in those big moments.
(12:05):
Like, you don't need, like, an audience to show your loyalty for as long as the person who you decided to be loyal to, loyal to, see your loyalty.
And they so you need you need them big moments as well as some small moments.
Now, you might have more small moments than you have big moments, but that's okay. That's cool.
(12:28):
I think the small moments matter the most because you have the big ones.
You know, okay, you can have someone that is manipulating you that's not showing loyalty in the little moments, right?
(12:50):
But they're showing them in the big moments, right?
To me, the little moments is when it matters the most, the time that no one notices.
That's when it matters the most to me because I notice. I notice if you're there for me. I notice if you're going to bat for me.
I notice if you're taking up for me with somebody talking about me in my face, you know?
You can have big moments in silence, too, though, when nobody notices.
(13:13):
Yeah, but I'm saying I feel like the little moments matter the most to me.
Nope. A person who's manipulating you is not going to highlight them small moments no one notices because they don't notice it.
But they're going to make sure they're loyal to you when it matters.
They're going to make sure they're loyal to you when everybody's looking.
(13:36):
But what about when nobody's looking? What about when you got to prove to me that you are loyal to me?
So I think it is proven in both moments, but it's proven the most in those small things.
You may not. Something as simple as, oh, oh, baby, I can't.
I can't do this, you know? Like, OK, take us for example.
(13:58):
When we first started out, it was the little things that showed you like, damn, like she helped me.
Like she got me. Like it's those little things that you don't even.
And it may be the times where you don't even realize you being loyal.
You just being yourself, you being kind hearted.
You like I'm I'm fucking with me, fucking with me. Like, why would I let him go without?
(14:19):
Why would I watch him lose money when I can help him make it?
Are you get what I mean? Like, it's those little times that matter because you can prove you Lord to a person just by being yourself,
just by being kind hearted, generous and just by looking out for something as simple as like, man, if I got it, you got it.
(14:42):
That is a sign of loyalty. I'm not being selfish.
I'm sharing with you whether I'm low on it or not, because why would I watch you go without and I care about.
So to me, those small gestures mean so much more than the big ones, because why be loud when everybody else is looking when you can be loud when I'm looking?
(15:10):
You just say I go to say I think I don't need little always matter the most.
Like, I don't totally I don't totally get you.
And then I don't go to all the way like I'm 50 50 what you say I was with the last one.
Right. Like. So I get what you say.
But on the loyalty could be proven small little or little or big.
(15:35):
Yeah. So we go back to what we said, you know, give all of your loyalty to a person.
It also depends on it all depends on a person like sometimes.
Sometimes if you if the person person you being a Lord to only see only see the little ones that can't see the big the big ones sometimes.
(15:56):
And they only see you doing the big the bigger test being loyal.
They go. They never go see the smaller loyalty things that you do.
So it depends on a person, though.
I think the smaller forms of showing someone you're loyal to them happens when it's y'all.
(16:19):
It's like when it's unexpected. Yeah.
Like you might be around your friends or out together some shit like that, like something as simple as you curving a motherfucker who walk up on you while I'm in the bathroom and we at the bar.
You know, like that's something small. That's nonchalant to you.
Like, now, that's my girl. I guess my wife like, no, I'm good. I'm taking.
(16:40):
You know what I mean? Something is not as long as that is something small.
I mean, I just ain't nobody else is around. It's just me, you and the way you just curve. That's something small.
That's something between us. But I. But OK, you keep saying nobody around.
But you could also it's always you also have them big moments when nobody's around.
(17:01):
Like, let me see if I could put in an example.
Yeah, you got to explain that one to me.
Let me see if I could put in an example because big moments, right?
Mm hmm. It was a big moment that you show your OK, which is hard.
Yes. So boom. Right. So boom.
(17:28):
Say, for example. Do it just spouse.
And all right. Say you and your spouse is in separate homes. Y'all not married yet. No, nothing. Right.
Yeah. But you felt this individual very strongly.
So say, for example, like, oh, like, oh, girl was really getting big.
(17:56):
Now, you don't have to do this. You don't have to do this.
You don't have to help her out at all. True. So you got your way.
And you like, hey, here's the rest of your remedy so you don't get evicted.
That is a big gesture. Nobody knows. Nobody knows.
No, nobody's there. This is between you two. I agree.
(18:17):
OK, I get it. Now you know, I get it.
Yeah, it's stuff like that, too. That can happen when nobody is nobody around.
But what if he's only doing the big ones and not the little ones?
That's what I'm saying. Like, you got to have a little bit of both.
Yeah. But what I was saying is you have people. I get what you're saying.
I get what you're saying.
(18:38):
Manipulators that will only do the big gestures to just show you, hey, I want you to think I'm loyal to you.
But we're not talking about manipulators, though. But I'm saying.
We're not talking about manipulators. Manipulators to the side.
To me, I think, no, I'm saying I think to me. Manipulators to the side, though.
It depends on the person. Small is always better.
(18:59):
No, it's not. It depends on the person. It depends on the individual.
Small is always better. It depends on individual. It depends on that relationship.
Yeah. It depends on them two people.
Agreed to disagree. So small sometimes ain't always better.
It depends on those two people at the end of the day.
(19:20):
OK, so we often think loyalty is staying faithful during the storm.
But is it really about the quiet everyday choices showing up, keeping promises and standing firm even when no one's watching?
Big gestures, big gestures, big gestures.
(19:42):
I believe it's a mixture of all. You have to make conscious, conscious life decisions every day, especially when you're with somebody.
You have to make conscious life decisions.
I believe something as simple as showing up for them for events and stuff like that, or even telling them like, hey, man, I can't get out of work.
(20:05):
You know, sometimes we understand things like that.
Like that time you couldn't come to my thing at the school.
I've never looked at it is like he ain't loyal to me.
I just knew you couldn't get out of work, you know, but there's other times when you don't showed up for me.
I'm like, you know what I mean? Like you've shown it by showing up and keeping your promise.
(20:28):
You know, so I think I think all of those.
Work would be a loyal and if you do those things, it will show in the small and big gestures that you are loyal to a person.
I could go to a man. I can't argue on that one.
(20:50):
Yeah, not this time.
The other one, I was willing to go to talk to which I'm sorry.
But yeah, you guys that wraps up our midnight of the day discussions from our series one.
We hope you all enjoyed our thoughts and opinions on those.
Listen, yeah, pay attention.
Teach you some.
(21:11):
We don't see all for series two.
Yeah, serious to talk about BBLs.
So no, we are not.
Why the plastic that is smart, though, that's a good little natural plastic or plastic.
Yeah, your body, your choice, right?
(21:33):
Mama.
So y'all be tuned in for a series two to take place on March the 22nd.
We look forward for y'all and join another series with us on the midnight exchange of nocturnal ideas.
And on that note, good night.
(22:18):
Thank you.
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