In this deeply personal episode, Mommy Loi reflects on a powerful mindset shift that helped her visualize the woman she wants to become. Inspired by The Mindset Mentor and Veronica Cisneros’ podcast “What It Means to Do Business Like a Woman,” she shares how a simple reframe — replacing “I can’t” with “I can if…” — can unlock possibility, self-trust, and purpose.
Whether you’re a stay-at-home mom, a working mom, or just trying to find clarity amidst the chaos, this episode is your reminder that change doesn’t need to be loud. Sometimes, all it takes is one brave, intentional step.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
💡 How your habits, food, people, and mindset shape who you are today
🧠 A practical Start–Stop–Continue exercise to visualize your successful self
💬 The life-changing reframe: “I can if…”
💭 A personal story about mindset vs. circumstance
👣 A gentle 5-step challenge to move toward the version of you that you’re meant to be
🌸 A message to Mommy Loi’s daughter—and to all daughters listening
Take Action This Week:
- Visualize your successful self
- Write a Start–Stop–Continue list
- Replace one “I can’t” with “I can if…”
- Create a stop-doing list
- Commit to one small step
00:00 Welcome to the Mommy Lounge Podcast
00:39 A Personal Reflection on Growth
01:41 Visualizing Your Successful Self
02:30 Podcast Update and Intentions
03:20 Empowering Mindset Shifts
03:58 Taking Action Towards Your Goals
04:39 A Story of Mindset and Opportunity
05:53 Your Gentle Challenge
06:38 A Message to My Daughter
07:09 Closing Thoughts and Farewell
Links & Resources
✍️ Read the companion blog “Notify, Then Negotiate”: www.lifewithmommyloi.com/blog
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