The Quiet As Kept Podcast With Shawnti Refuge
Join host Shawnti Refuge, Master Certified Mental Health Coach, author the best-selling book, "Quiet As Kept", and journaling enthusiast, as she introduces The Quiet as Kept Podcast. In this first episode, Shawnti shares her personal journey of overcoming severe depression and anxiety, discusses the purpose of the podcast, and sets the stage for what’s to come. This podcast is a safe space to unpack the conversations we, especially in the African American community, were told to avoid. From mental health and generational trauma to self-love and journaling for healing, Shawnti keeps it real, relatable, and rooted in the belief that healing is possible for everyone. Whether you’re navigating your mental health journey, looking for balance as a professional, or just ready to start thriving, this podcast is for you. Grab your journal and tune in for honest conversations, actionable tips, and guided prompts that will help you rewrite your story.
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Join host Shawnti Refuge, Master Certified Mental Health Coach, author, and journaling enthusiast, as she introduces The Quiet as Kept Podcast. In this first episode, Shawnti shares her personal journey of overcoming severe depression and anxiety, discusses the purpose of the podcast, and sets the stage for what’s to come.
This podcast is a safe space to unpack the conversations we, especially in the African American community, were...
Toxic relationships can drain your energy and keep you stuck, but recognizing them is the first step toward freedom. In this episode, Shawnti shares how to identify toxic dynamics, set boundaries, and prioritize your peace. With actionable tips and guided journaling prompts, you’ll learn how to reclaim your power and choose love that feels like love, not labor.
Shawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Ment...
Colorism has been dividing our community for far too long. In this episode, Shawnti unpacks the roots of colorism, how it shapes our self-worth and relationships, and what we can do to heal from its impact. Through personal reflections and journaling prompts, she invites listeners to confront and rewrite the narratives we’ve been taught about beauty and value.
Shawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental...
Generational trauma is the baggage we didn’t pack but still carry. In this episode, Shawnti explores how trauma gets passed down through families, its impact on mental health, and how we can start breaking the cycle. She shares personal stories from her own journey and offers guided journaling prompts to help you unpack the pain and create a legacy of healing.
Shawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Menta...
Generational trauma is the baggage we didn’t pack but still carry. In this episode, Shawnti explores how trauma gets passed down through families, its impact on mental health, and how we can start breaking the cycle. She shares personal stories from her own journey and offers guided journaling prompts to help you unpack the pain and create a legacy of healing.
Shawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental...
Self-sabotage isn’t always obvious. Sometimes, it looks like perfectionism, procrastination, or staying in situations that no longer serve you. Today, we’re calling out the subtle ways you might be standing in your own way—without even realizing it. If you’re ready to stop making excuses and start making moves, tune in! #PersonalGrowth #StopSelfSabotage #SelfAwareness #MentalWellness
Shawnti Refuge is an Award Winning...
Being strong is celebrated, but the “Strong Black Woman” label can be a heavy burden. In this episode, Shawnti challenges the myth that strength means silence and self-sacrifice. She shares her own experience of redefining strength and offers journaling prompts to help you embrace rest, vulnerability, and self-care.
Shawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author o...
Have you ever felt like you’re running in circles? Like no matter what you do, you just can’t seem to get ahead? You start something, but somehow, you always end up back where you started—frustrated, exhausted, and wondering why the hell you can’t move forward. That, my friend, is self-sabotage. And today, we’re getting real about why you keep getting in your own way.
Shawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certifie...
Money trauma runs deep, and for many of us, it starts in childhood. In this episode, Shawnti talks about the emotional scars left by financial hardship and how they shape our habits as adults. Through personal stories and practical tips, she guides listeners on how to rewrite their money story and build a healthier financial mindset.
Shawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Spe...
Your thoughts shape your reality. If you’ve been telling yourself you’re not good enough, smart enough, or worthy enough—you’ll start believing it. But what if I told you that your inner critic has been LYING to you? In today’s session, we’re breaking down what negative self-talk is, where it comes from, and how it’s holding you back. It’s time to take control of your thoughts and stop letting them control you.
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Alright, we’ve spent all week talking about self-sabotage, and now it’s time for ACTION. No more thinking about it. No more waiting for the ‘right time.’ Today, I’m giving you three things you can do RIGHT NOW to break the cycle and start moving forward.
Shawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author of the best-selling book, “Quiet As Kept”, specializing in guide...
Faith is meant to heal, but sometimes the church becomes the source of pain. In this episode, Shawnti explores the reality of church hurt, how it affects mental health, and what it means to redefine your faith on your own terms. With guided journaling prompts, she encourages listeners to find spiritual practices that feel authentic and restorative.
Shawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coac...
Grief is a natural part of life, but in the Black community, we’re often told to keep it moving. In this episode, Shawnti dives into the importance of processing grief openly and honestly. Sharing her personal experience of navigating loss, she offers journaling prompts to help listeners work through their emotions and find healing.
Shawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Spea...
Your mind is your biggest roadblock—or your biggest advantage. The thoughts you repeat daily shape your reality, and if you’ve been stuck in self-doubt, fear, or negative self-talk, it’s time to shift. Today, I’m teaching you how to rewrite the beliefs that are keeping you small so you can start stepping into the life you deserve. #MindsetMatters #LimitingBeliefs #SelfLove #MentalHealthCoach
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“Don’t air our dirty laundry.” It’s a common saying, but family secrets often do more harm than good. In this episode, Shawnti discusses the impact of secrecy on mental health and shares her personal journey of breaking cycles of silence. With journaling prompts, she invites listeners to process their own family dynamics and find freedom in truth.
Shawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach,...
Negative self-talk can be one of the biggest barriers to self-love and growth. In this episode, Shawnti explores where those critical inner voices come from and how to challenge them. Through personal stories and journaling exercises, she helps listeners replace negativity with affirmations and truths that remind them of their worth.
Shawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Master Certified Mental Health Coach, Keynote Spea...
If you’re ready to stop the self-sabotage cycle, journaling is your secret weapon. Today, I’m walking you through three powerful journaling exercises designed to help you uncover your patterns, face your fears, and take control of your mindset. Grab your journal and let’s do this inner work together! #GuidedJournaling #HealingThroughWriting #MentalHealthSupport #SelfImprovement
Shawnti Refuge is an Award Winning Maste...
Struggling with setting boundaries? You’re not alone. In this episode, we dive into why boundaries are necessary, how they protect your peace, and the best ways to enforce them without guilt. Learn how setting healthy limits can reduce stress, improve relationships, and lead to greater emotional well-being.
📍 Visit ShawntiRefuge.com for guided journaling prompts and Quiet As Kept for deeper insights.
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Do you struggle with saying no? Feel guilty when prioritizing yourself? In this episode, we unpack the roots of people-pleasing, how it affects your mental health, and why breaking free from it is a radical act of self-love. Learn practical steps to stop living for others and start showing up for yourself.
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Saying no isn’t selfish—it’s self-care. In this episode, we discuss why we feel guilty about setting limits, how to reframe the narrative around saying no, and why protecting your time and energy is essential for personal growth. If you struggle with overcommitment, this episode is for you.
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