The Three Petals

In today’s episode we’re going to explore the importance of needs in our lives. Having awakened to the idea that there is more, one of the important challenges we will face is actually understanding what we truly need. We’ve been told by society what we should need, but many of us, especially those of us in the early stages of the spiritual path, don’t actually have any idea what we actually need as a human ...

In today’s episode we’re going to explore the the existential experience we call the Core Wound. It’s an unconscious tension that's been with us our whole lives, living just below the surface of awareness, but influencing everything we do because we will do anything and everything not to experience it.

Episode Breakdown:

Part 1: There Must be More Than This

Part 2: Beginning to Name the Core Wound

Part 3: Core Wounds ...

In today’s episode we’re going to explore the question “Is There More Than This?”. We’re in the first episode of the next series of explorations which I called Beginning the Walk.This monumental question seems to be one of the launching points for our spiritual journey and transformation. It shifts out of Animal Drive for Survival and into the Enlightenment Drive to evolve, the need to expand who we th...

In today’s episode we’re going to explore the audacious question “What if it is just this?” What if there are no higher dimensions, no astral realms, no reincarnation, no divine plan, just this life, this world, these bodies, and the reality we experience through our senses? What if, after all the theories, mystical experiences, and spiritual teachings, it turns out that this physical world is all there is, ...

In today’s episode we’re again diving into one of the most profound, and often most challenging, aspects of our human experience: relationality. This will be the last in this series dedicated specifically on Relationality for a while. Though aspects of Relationality will always be woven into each episode. I’ve done these four episodes to begin to show the enormity of the dynamics within this petal of the work. Tod...

In today’s episode we will be diving again into one of the most profound, and often most challenging, aspects of our human experience: relationality. Today, we’ll be looking at triggers, the drama triangle, the empowerment dynamic, conflict-avoidance styles and touch on non-violent communication.

Episode Breakdown:

Part 1: More on Relationships

Part 2: Psychological Triggers – The Unseen Landmines of Relationality

Par...

In today’s episode we will be diving again into one of the most profound, and often most challenging, aspects of our human experience: relationality. We'll be looking at family dynamics from the view of parenting as well as the psychoanalytic topics of projection, transference and countertransference.

Episode Breakdown:

Part 1: Relationships are Tough

Part 2:The Social Nature of Humans

Part 3: Parenting Without a Map

Part 4: Some ...

In today’s episode we’re diving into one of the most profound, and most challenging, aspects of our human experience: relationality. We don’t exist in isolation. Every thought, every feeling, every identity we hold has been shaped in relationship, with family, friends, partners, communities, and even the broader human collective. But relationship isn’t just about connection, it’s also where our deepest...

In today’s episode we’re going to focus on one of the foundational aspects of this journey: physicality and embodiment. We’re used to the sensations of our physical body, but on the incarnationl side of the dual-non-dual equation, there seems to be a lot more going on at more subtle levels of physicality than we realize. Today, we’re going to explore what it means to be a body on planet Earth. The map we tak...

In today’s episode we’re going to continue focusing on the foundational aspect of awareness. In the last two episodes, we explored awareness through the lens of evolution and those outlined by various spiritual traditions. We examined its increasing complexity within animal species, the phenomenon of collective intelligence, and the potential for awareness in non-animal life forms. And we explored how awareness becomes ...

In today’s episode we’re going to continue focusing on the foundational aspect of awareness. In the last episode we looked at the levels of awareness that arises between species. Today we’ll explore the levels or states of awareness in humans as they are understood across a variety of spiritual and scientific traditions. These frameworks provide valuable maps for understanding the vast terrain of consciousness, fr...

In today’s episode we’re going to explore the foundational aspect of this journey: Awareness. We often assume we’re just aware or unaware, as if consciousness is either "on" or "off." But in reality, awareness exists in levels, like layers of an unfolding mystery. These levels shape not only how we experience ourselves but also how we relate to the world, to others, and even to the greater forces of existence. We ...

In today’s episode we’re going to explore the foundational question: What is Non-duality? This will be an initial exploration into this complex-to-discuss yet so basic a concept. Non-duality might sound abstract or even mysterious, but it points to a truth that is deeply practical and profoundly life-changing. We'll look at the difficulty in describing it as well as common misunderstandings associated with it. And, of c...

In today’s episode we’re going to explore the foundational question: What is embodied awakening? We’ll explore its depth, its meaning, and through this and future episodes we’ll explore how it differs from other forms of awakening.

Episode Breakdown:

Part 1: Am I Really Awake?

Part 2: Eastern Traditions

Part 3: Western Traditions

Part 4: What Actually Awakens

Part 5: Trauma

Part 6: The Further Origins of Dissociati...

This episode of The Three Petals explores each of the petals: awareness, embodiment and relationality in more detail. Together, these three aspects, awareness, embodiment, and relationality, form what we might call the “threefold nature of being.” They are symbolized by the three petals in the Trillium Awakening path, each one essential, and collectively creating a powerful, ever-evolving journey of self-realization. Le...

In this episode, I introduce myself and share my vision for the podcast over the next three years, including the planned number of episodes and the seven major sections they’ll be organized into. I explore the importance of doing the essential "Me" work before engaging in the collective "We" work that so many of us feel called to participate in. I also speak to why I believe this podcast offers a meaningful and needed contrib...