The Women Are Plotting

Did fairy tales teach us how to fall in love—or did they completely screw up our expectations?

In this funny, personal, and surprisingly revealing episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari take a hard look at the “happily ever after” stories many of us grew up believing. From knights in shining armor and damsels in distress to Disney princesses and romantic comedies, the w...

Is age really just a number when it comes to dating—or might a big age gap actually make for a better relationship?

In this candid and decidedly NSFW episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari dive into the complicated, sometimes controversial, and often very entertaining world of older women dating younger men.

The conversation begins with research suggesting that women partnered with ...

Can you build a meaningful writing life while juggling a full-time job, family responsibilities, and the reality that most authors don't make a living from their books?

In this episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari have an honest conversation about what it really takes to sustain a creative life. From the surprising writing habits of authors like Franz Kafka and John Boyne to the financ...

Has social media made us more aware of mental health—or has it made us too quick to diagnose ourselves and everyone around us?

In this thought-provoking episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari explore the growing trend of armchair diagnosing, self-diagnosis, and the explosion of mental health content on platforms like TikTok and Instagram. They discuss the fine line between recogniz...

Have you ever dreaded going to work or wondered if it's time for a career change?

In this honest and relatable episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari discuss the realities of career burnout, changing professions, and finding work that aligns with your passions and values. They share personal stories of leaving stressful jobs, reinventing themselves, navigating the fear of starting over, ...

How common are threesomes—and do they live up to the fantasy?

In this candid, funny, and surprisingly thoughtful episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari explore one of the most talked-about sexual fantasies while sharing their own real-life experiences. From first-time threesomes and unexpected awkward moments to hilarious mishaps and successful encounters, the hosts discuss what ac...

Could you spot a scam before it emptied your bank account—or would you fall for it without realizing?

In this eye-opening and often hilarious episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari dive into the world of romance scams, AI-powered fraud, cryptocurrency schemes, multi-level marketing (MLM) companies, and the psychological tactics scammers use to gain trust. The hosts discuss why scam...

Could you recognize a cult before it was too late—or would you be just as vulnerable as everyone else?

In this fascinating and surprisingly personal episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari explore the psychology of cults, why intelligent people get pulled into them, and the warning signs everyone should know. The conversation examines the traits shared by charismatic cult leaders, t...

Were children's books really meant for kids—or were they secretly designed to traumatize an entire generation?

In this hilarious and thought-provoking episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari revisit the fairy tales, nursery rhymes, and children's books that left lasting emotional scars. From Hansel & Gretel, Rumpelstiltskin, The Little Match Girl, and The Giving Tree to Flowers ...

Who was your very first literary crush—and do you still have one today?

In this hilarious and delightfully unfiltered episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari confess the fictional characters who completely stole their hearts. From timeless classics like Mr. Darcy, Hamlet, and Jay Gatsby to modern favorites including Jamie Fraser, Edward Cullen, Christian Grey, Rhysand, Peeta Mellark...

What is dating really like after 40? Has modern dating made finding connection easier—or just more complicated?

In this candid, funny, and refreshingly honest episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari dive into the realities of dating in midlife. From dating apps and first-date expectations to emotional baggage, sexual compatibility, and finding authentic connection, the hosts share p...

What does it really mean to age gracefully? Is it embracing every wrinkle, investing in Botox, prioritizing skincare, or simply staying healthy and active?

In this thoughtful and often hilarious episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari share their personal philosophies on growing older while discussing everything from Botox, facelifts, fillers, cosmetic procedures, and skincare to sunscree...

What's the worst thing that's ever happened to you on vacation? Lost luggage? Missed flights? Food poisoning? Try adding emergency surgery, international hospital visits, passport problems, and airport meltdowns.

In this wildly entertaining episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari share their most unforgettable vacation disasters—and somehow manage to find the humor in all of them. F...

From anatomy and evolution to dating disasters and surprisingly educational rabbit holes, this might be the most candid conversation The Women Are Plotting has ever had.

In this hilarious and refreshingly honest episode, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari tackle the topic of penises from every imaginable angle. The hosts discuss common myths about penis size, the realities of micropenis, the challenges of unusually la...

Why do some adults throw tantrums over seemingly small things while others never seem to grow up emotionally?

In this entertaining and insightful episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari explore why adults sometimes behave like children—and when those behaviors may point to deeper emotional patterns. From the pop psychology concept of Peter Pan Syndrome to emotional immaturity, narci...

What if the thoughts that frighten you the most are the very reason you know they're not who you are?

In this deeply moving and educational episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari welcome author Kim Conrey, co-author of the memoir You're Not a Murderer, You Just Have Harm OCD, to explore one of the most misunderstood forms of obsessive-compulsive disorder. Together, they discuss what harm...

Why do people suddenly disappear without explanation—and is ghosting ever the right thing to do?

In this engaging episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari dive into one of modern dating's most frustrating phenomena: ghosting. Drawing from psychological research, personal experiences, and plenty of humor, the hosts explore why people ghost romantic partners, friends, and even long-ter...

Sexual harassment is something far too many people experience—but far too few people openly discuss.

In this candid and deeply personal episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari share their own experiences with sexual harassment in workplaces, schools, the military, healthcare, retail, restaurants, and everyday life. Through a mix of heartfelt stories, humor, and honest reflection, th...

Why are some people fascinated by feet while others enjoy BDSM, exhibitionism, or role play? And what exactly is the difference between a kink and a fetish?

In this open, funny, and judgment-free episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari explore the fascinating world of sexual kinks and fetishes. Drawing from scientific research, psychology, personal experiences, and plenty of laughter, the...