If they jump from bed to bed they're for the streets

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
Hi everyone, and welcome back to Uncensored and Unapologetic. I'm
your host, Cassandra Valentine, your space for real talk, no filter,
and hard truths about relationships and dating. Today we're talking
about something every single person needs to hear. If someone

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is jumping from bed to bed, therefore the streets, it's
time to recognize patterns, protect your heart and not get
caught in temporary pleasure that comes with permanent consequences. First,
understanding the pattern. Some people are addicted to attention, thrill,

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or validation, and their actions show it. Jumping from bed
to bed is a red flag. It's not casual, it's
a pattern. This behavior often signals lack of respect for
themselves and others, inability to commit or maintain healthy relationships,

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prioritizing short term pleasure over long term connection. Recognizing this
pattern early can save you heartbreak, drama, and wasted time. Second,
why you should avoid them. Engaging with someone who jumps

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from partner to partner can cost you more than you think.
Emotional drama and instability, physical risk like STDs, distrust and insecurity,
disappointment When promises of commitment aren't kept, your energy and

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peace are priceless. Protect them by avoiding people who constantly
demonstrates this lifestyle. Third, setting boundaries. Boundaries are your armor.
You can't change someone's behavior, you can only protect yourself.

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Try these strategies. Don't entertain relationships with known partners of premiscurity.
If you want stability, observe actions, not words. People can
talk a good game. Communicate your expectations clearly from the start.

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Distance yourself from anyone whose lifestyle doesn't align with your values.
Boundaries are not cruel then necessary for self respect, for
recognizing self worth, your standards reflect your self worth. Settling

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for someone who jumps from bed to bed undervalues you
and your goals. Choose partners who respect your body and emotions,
show consistency in actions and intentions. Align with your long
term vision for love and life. Remember your peace, heart

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and well being come before temporary excitement. Here is an affirmation.
Please repeat after me. I value my peace, my body,
and my heart. I do not entertain patterns that do
not honor me. I attract people who are consistent, respectful,

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and aligned with my values and in closing, if someone
is jumping from bed to bed, it's not a reflection
of you. It's a reflection of their priorities. Protect your heart,
set boundaries, and know your work. The right person will

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honor you, your time, and your energy. Thank you for tuning
in too unsensed and unapologetic said this episode with someone
who needs this reminder. Don't settle for temporary pleasure at
the cost of your peace. Until next time, stay awake,

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stay empowered, and protect your heart. Thank you for listening.
Good Bye,