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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Hi guys, Ander, Welcome back. This is Cassandra Valentine and
my topic is what is your purpose? And I talked
a little bit about it in my last session, which
was gifts and tell us. The question is what is
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your purpose here? Think about it? What is your purpose here?
We all have a purpose. We were all born with
a purpose. Do you know your purpose? Sometimes in order
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to find out your purpose of why you're here, whether
it is to help others, you know, because a lot
of us are purpose here is actually to help others,
those who are unfortunate and cannot help themselves. There's so
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many selfish people in the world, and people who have
a caring heart and a loving heart, they tend to
help others, and a lot of times that is our
purpose here. Trying to think when you begin to think
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about your purpose, sometimes it's best to go into a space.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
It's just you.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
And meditate and pray, and continue to meditate and pray
until you find out what your purpose here is. Because
no one and I'm telling you right now, no one's
purpose here. What ever to be a stripper a whole
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That wasn't anyone's purpose here. That was a choice they
made a drug addict. That was not your purpose here.
A man just sleeping around and giving himself away, becoming
community property. That was not your purpose here. You had
a purpose, and you let all of those obstacles get
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into your way of you not being able to serve
your purpose. So I would advise you to go into
a space, be alone.
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If you're not.
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Married, or if you're if you're just running from person
to person, be celipant, go on a spiritual journey and
find your purpose here.
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Because no one ever.
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Said I want to be a baby daddy, I want
to be a baby mama, I want to be a lesbian,
I want to be gay. That was my purpose here,
to be a lesbian, to be gay, to be a
baby mama, to be a baby daddy. That was not
your purpose here. That was a choice you made. Those
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are all choices. You saw the smooth road and you
saw the rocky road, and for some reason you said
I'm going to go down the rocky road, when all
you had to do was continue down the smooth road.
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So all those obstacles were on the rocky road. Those
were choices because if you would have went down the
smooth road, everything would have worked out just by so
you have to ask yourself what is your purpose? God
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knew you before you were even creating. He knew what
your purpose was. But you fail to stay humble and
on the right path, that you lost your purpose. So
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if you really truly want to know what your purpose is,
you have to go back to the basics, which are
meditating and praying, focusing on self finding your purpose. If
you have to get books, read upon your purpose purposes
here and see if it can spark something with you.
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But I'm telling you, if you want to know your purpose,
meditate and pray and find out what your purpose here
is so that you can you can go down the
path you were meant to go down, find the people
and meet the people you are meant to meet, and
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everything will turn out fine. Doesn't matter what it is,
and it may surprise you what your purpose is.
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But we all have a purpose. My purpose to love people, to.
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Show them love, to show them compassion, because a lot
of people don't have compassion anymore. And every time I'm
around an order person, they always say, you have so
much compassion. So I help people, and I love helping
people because when I help them, I help myself. It
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makes me feel good. I took a guy the first
time in my life, you guys.
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I picked up a hitchecker.
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People kept passing by and passing by, and I saw
him out there with a baby car seat and I said,
there's something wrong. He said, I I need gas. I
was going to a baby shower and I need gas.
And I broke down. I said, okay, those door is
right up the road.
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I'll take you.
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So he got his gas can, he got in the car.
I remember telling him, now, don't try anything, because if
you do, you won't make it out of this car,
not alive. And he was like, oh no, ma'am, I promise.
So I took him to the gas station. He got
his gas and as I was coming back, he tried
to give me money and I said no, no, thank
you and he said no, but I thank you so much.
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He said, because I've been standing out here for the
long he said, nobody would help me. I said no,
thank you. He said okay, So he got out of
the car. He closed the door. I told him to
have a good day. He put the gas in, and
as I was going down to make a U turn,
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I saw him actually leaving with his vehicle. And as
I'm driving. I get to the red light down the
road and something said look over. I look over, and
you guys, he had put the money in the seat,
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like he pushed it behind him. It was in the seat.
This guy gave me two hundred bucks and all I
did was pick him up and take him to the
guys station.
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That was it.
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But then when I told my mother, she said, don't
you ever pick up did you ever pick up anybody else?
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Because that was dangerous?
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And I was like yeah, mom, but something told me
get him, so.
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I got him. I didn't want to leave him there.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
I got him. So that's the first and last person
I have picked up that was a hitchhiker. But I
just couldn't see him just standing there and people just
kept riding by. I felt bad for the guy, but
some of us. You have to realize our purpose is
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here or to make someone happy, to show them again,
show them compassion, and show them not that's a lot
of our purposes. So it's just something for you to
think about, what is your purpose here? Because if you
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cannot fulfill your purpose, why are you here? And I
really do believe a lot of people live here at
such a young age because your purpose that you were
supposed to have here.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
You wann't fulfilling.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
And I really believe that's why a lot of people
live here so so early. And sometimes we are to
help push people, to guide them, to make sure that
they can reach whatever purpose they are here, whether it's
to be an excellent artist or an excellent writer or
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an excellent songstress or anything. We will probably put here
to help help them and push them and guide them.
That's probably our purpose. So don't sit back and let
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yours go toways, guys, And that's all I want to say, and.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
Hopefully, hopefully you will find your purpose here. Goodbye.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
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