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(00:00):
Hey, good morning. This isKidling, the founder of Santric Kidling Consultant
UM. Actually, we were onUM anchor for like the last three years
or so and UM obviously they ourin partnership now is Spotify, and it's
(00:25):
like when we try to log intoour account, we're not even able to
get into our account for some reason. Hopefully we can get that resolved.
But you know, until then,I started using a new platform, UM
and that's the only reason why youknow, we basically open up this new
(00:46):
UM avenue uh spreaker UM. Actually, I think they are also the founders
to speak Pipe and I do usethat little requorder which only allows us to
record like five minutes. But I'mgrateful to be able to use this little
(01:07):
platform until we find out what's goingon, and you know, perhaps we
will just continue to use both.But I'm just giving you an update for
our event planning service, namely thewedding Planning Service. We do have a
new outlet for the Winning Planning Servicewhere we UM basically do pop up weddings.
(01:37):
Some of you were probably on whenwe did our open house the other
day virtually, and if not,you can go back and listen in the
archives. But we are doing popup weddings now basically for Texas. I
haven't looked anywhere else in the otherareas that we service. You come with
(01:59):
your way, a license and toeand basically you're able to get married that
day. That's right that day.Okay. I am a license, um
in our day, minister, soI am certified to perform winnings. UM.
I am also a certified brittle planneras well. UM, also a
(02:21):
makeup artist and all of that.So in that particular, um, you
know, all of you that wedid the other day, we just tell
you guys exactly what that service entails. Now, we also have a family
Academy, you know, basically toadd to that. You know, that
allows families to be able to cometogether, to be able together, to
(02:43):
grow together, to thrive a manaccording to UM the Word of God.
Basically, the Lord has given methe calling to coach families to strength their
families. UM, you know,to counsel families to go in my ministry
calling. Um. You know,I have went to school for Christian counseling.
I have taken some courses through theAmerican Association of Christian Counselors. So
(03:07):
I have been in this niche forover ten years. I have my own
nonprofit organization and I've been ordained sincetwo thousand and nine, and I've been
on a quest for basically advocating forfamilies, and in advocating for families,
it has allowed me to also beable to advocate for families in need of
(03:30):
the elderly vulnerable population, such asthose that are affected by human trafficking.
We do raise human trafficking awareness.We are in partnership with different other organizations
that empower you know, families,empower girls, and you know, we
fight against the child bride crisis.We speak out against you know, the
(03:53):
various things concerning families, you know, the threats in society basically through the
law that threatened families. So it'sa whole conglomerate of different things that I
have accomplished, things that I havedone over the years, and my work
has allowed me to be asked torun for political office in two and twenty.
(04:14):
So I am just grateful for theLord, you know, using me
as an instrument to be able tobuilding strength and families, because families are
the building block of society. Youknow, strong families create what stronger communities
and believe it or not, thethings that we see going on in the
world today in reference to the crime, if we looking background or some of
(04:40):
these people, you will see thatthere were broken homes, there were anger
issues that never got resolved, andthese grow, These things grow with these
people, and you know, itgets to the point that this pressure builds
up, and it builds up andpretty soon if it's not dealt with,
what does it do? It feelsover into society. Sad to say,
(05:04):
this is just the way that itis. Most of the people that you
see during the killings and all ofthese things today, nine times out of
ten, there was a broken structure, you know, foundational with their families.
Okay, So with that event planningservice, we have a lot of
things that we're offering even to familiesto be able to do it yourself,
(05:30):
you know, just little innovative waysthat you can do things with your family,
do things for your family. That'swhy we encourage the birthday parties,
the celebrations and all of these thingshere because, believe it or not,
when people are not engaged in theirfamilies, this is how angry builds up.
(05:57):
Resentment comes as a result of peoplefeeling that though, especially kids,
nobody cares, you know what I'msaying. So yesterday I was listening to
Bishop Noel Jones' wife. She dida tea and actually in this particular presentation
she had like five speakers, fouror five speakers, and they did Gary
(06:21):
Chapman's um the Love Language Quits.So I did post that on our page.
I phrased with page and that isa remarkable way to kind of strengthen
relationships and and vuns, you knowwhat I'm saying, Because if we don't
(06:42):
engage, nothing works. If wedon't work it, you know, it's
like having a child. You knowwhat I'm saying. You don't put in
the necessary step status required for thatchild to rope and help in their development
(07:04):
stage. You don't never engage withthe child. The child just LAIDs there.
You don't play with the child.Child cries. You don't understand the
language of that child when they cry. Believe it or not, kids remember,
they do remember. And nine timesout of ten, the kids that
(07:29):
are growing up today remember when momneglected them, Mom didn't take time with
them, or you know, daddidn't take time with me, or the
family in general. You know,mistreated me. I was a black sheep
of the family, and the listgoes on. And I never had anyone,
you know, to celebrate me.My birthday came in and went.
No one told me happy birthday,No one appreciated me, no one you
(07:55):
know, took the time to buyme a cake to let me know that
this day will spend shoe. AndI see my kids, you know,
other kids rather in the in thecommunity, you know, having the things
that you know, I think thatI should have had birthday parties, celebrations.
That's how I really found out whatbirthdays were all about. Okay,
(08:16):
we don't take the time to dothose things and invest in those kids,
amen, then we're just turning themout to the world, and then they're
growing up cold, you know.And we can get into some deep issues
(08:39):
in which we will get there becauseI've been there before, you know,
and this time that you know,I opened this avenue back up and get
offered to some deep things, umnot surface level issues you know, concerning
our families. And this is whythe Lord has given me this business.
And it's more to it than justhelping you to have a beautiful event,
(09:03):
you know. But it goes deeperthan that, because we want everybody to
understand the purpose of why we dowhat we do. If it was just
to simply be an event planner,um, I mean it's it's tons of
event planners out there, but nobodyis unique like you know certain ones that
(09:24):
have you know you're in your bestinterests in heart, and we come alongside
you to find out, um,why this event is important to you.
Why did you choose us as eventplanners? And what is the purpose behind
this event? What event? Imean, what are you trying to spell
(09:46):
out in this event that you wantyour gets to remember for years to come,
or if it's a birthday party?Um, what do you want your
child or your loved one in generalto you know, feel about this particular
event. Right now, I haveinquiries for a Sweet sixteen part it's one
and four twins. You know whatI'm saying. Those are memorable moments in
(10:13):
children's lives that you know they wantto always remember that my mom and my
dad went out for me for thatparticular moment graduation. I mean, it
matters you guys. And I'm sayingall of this because my daughter grew up
without her daddy in her life.And I thank God that we helped to
(10:35):
you know what I'm saying, motivateher and and strengthen her in that area
where there was a loss, tolet her feel special and know that she's
lived in spite of you know whatI'm saying. So I know what that's
like to be a single mom toraise a child, you know, without
(10:56):
her dad being there. So Godhas shoosed all those various things in my
life to be able to come outhere to do what I do. It's
not just simply just seeing that thisis good idea, okay, and I'm
copying off of somebody else. It'sa purpose behind that. It's a reason
behind what I do, you knowwhat I'm saying. And the annointing comes
(11:20):
as a result of many of thethings that I had to go through basically
for God to give me to thatplace to see that there is a need
for families in this society because wehave what the definition of families being readefined.
Okay, our kids are already confusedenough, you know, as being
(11:43):
teenagers adolests, you know that stagein their life, you know psychologically,
you know, produce confusion because alot of things are happening to their bodies.
A lot of things are happening tothem among their peers, and they're
trying to figure that out. Andthen we have societic trying to come and
redefine God's standard of family by tellingthem it's okay for you know, you
(12:09):
know, genders to be with theother gender, the same gender. I
mean, you know what I'm saying. So they're you know, even more
confused. And you know, Godhas called us to put the stability back
what the stability is supposed to havealways been. You know what I'm saying.
It's not up to us to tryto take God's lines and blur those
(12:31):
lines and define a man or redefinewhat God has already said was good.
When he made you know them,both male and female, a man,
he said that that was good.He didn't say anything else was good other
than what he had created. Sowe came, amen, try to pretend
like we know better than him andredefine his standard and try to put our
(12:54):
own ideaologies on them and say thatthat's good. So God is causing me,
are calling me to unearth a lotof the deep seated issues that are
going on in today's society with thefamily and event planning just happens to come
out of that. So UM,yeah, we have a lot of things
(13:18):
going on, family academies, wehave them fares going on. UM.
Basically that is uh kind of likea community, you know, to help
families to um come together UM andtake their events to the next level basically
(13:39):
to create UM togetherness and UM.We bring everything together in the form of
entertainment, storytelling, UM song UHjust basically just a whole you know,
nine yards of things to give families, you know, things needs to do
(14:01):
UM and things that they can dotogether, you know. UM. So
that's I saw something that we havecooked up. And then it's UM really
reaching people, UM, interesting peopleand trying you know, basically to put
that catalysts in to build stronger familiesand communities UM. Basically in the midst
(14:26):
of what's going on around us,with the killings and with all these other
things that are going on. UM, basically things that are designed to keep
the family uh together and thriving andgrowing stronger and stronger. You know.
UM. Hey, so trying toget to all the hubs so we can
(14:56):
see these scenes are designed to givesomething for entire families to do while getting
an idea. What's what it's liketo plan an event with Nita killing consultant
UM, so you know, it'sjust a whole nine yard you know,
(15:18):
UM event hub. Basically that givesyou the entertainment a man. It gives
you the ability to plan events.You know what I'm saying. If you
need to plan events during the workshopsof different things like that, or you
know, to UM, come withina already planned event with decor and everything
(15:39):
and just bring your birthday girl aboy you know, into what's already going
on and allow them to be ableto celebrate birthdays and other events with other
people. Basically you know, UM, and it's a safe environment, friendly
and family friendly environment. You don'thave to worry about confusion into that atmosphere
(16:00):
to trip us up, you know, because we screen these events with security
basically to feel to UM, youknow, out who's trying to come in
and cause chaos in this event?We have security. Okay, So UM,
(16:22):
where you're looking to make these betterand better UM basically to just um
continue impacting families. When the lawyergave me the idea, we hit the
ground running with it and we're likethree or four months now in in this
and we're just looking to improve moreand more. Um, we have virtual
(16:42):
options as well as physical options.So um, it's a two fall thing.
Okay. So um, now we'reproviding do it yourself options for those
that are looking to say money,We know that inflation and it's causing a
whole lot of things to go up, and so we're looking out for that,
(17:04):
you know what I'm saying. Anyyou know allows us to be able
to create do it yourself options forour families to come in and you know,
playing your own events and different thingslike that, you know, at
a fraction of the costs, youknow, do it yourself and still have
special events that you're loved ones willremember for years to come. So if
(17:27):
you have any questions about anything thatI just said today, please feel free
to just reach out to us andlet us know. Again. My name
is Shanidria Kitling and I am thefounder. So thank you guys so much
for taking the time on this Fridaymorning to listen to what we had to
(17:48):
say. Thank you guys,
Hey, good morning. This isKidling, the founder of Santric Kidling Consultant
UM. Actually, we were onUM anchor for like the last three years
or so and UM obviously they ourin partnership now is Spotify, and it's
(00:25):
like when we try to log intoour account, we're not even able to
get into our account for some reason. Hopefully we can get that resolved.
But you know, until then,I started using a new platform, UM
and that's the only reason why youknow, we basically open up this new
(00:46):
UM avenue uh spreaker UM. Actually, I think they are also the founders
to speak Pipe and I do usethat little requorder which only allows us to
record like five minutes. But I'mgrateful to be able to use this little
(01:07):
platform until we find out what's goingon, and you know, perhaps we
will just continue to use both.But I'm just giving you an update for
our event planning service, namely thewedding Planning Service. We do have a
new outlet for the Winning Planning Servicewhere we UM basically do pop up weddings.
(01:37):
Some of you were probably on whenwe did our open house the other
day virtually, and if not,you can go back and listen in the
archives. But we are doing popup weddings now basically for Texas. I
haven't looked anywhere else in the otherareas that we service. You come with
(01:59):
your way, a license and toeand basically you're able to get married that
day. That's right that day.Okay. I am a license, um
in our day, minister, soI am certified to perform winnings. UM.
I am also a certified brittle planneras well. UM, also a
(02:21):
makeup artist and all of that.So in that particular, um, you
know, all of you that wedid the other day, we just tell
you guys exactly what that service entails. Now, we also have a family
Academy, you know, basically toadd to that. You know, that
allows families to be able to cometogether, to be able together, to
(02:43):
grow together, to thrive a manaccording to UM the Word of God.
Basically, the Lord has given methe calling to coach families to strength their
families. UM, you know,to counsel families to go in my ministry
calling. Um. You know,I have went to school for Christian counseling.
I have taken some courses through theAmerican Association of Christian Counselors. So
(03:07):
I have been in this niche forover ten years. I have my own
nonprofit organization and I've been ordained sincetwo thousand and nine, and I've been
on a quest for basically advocating forfamilies, and in advocating for families,
it has allowed me to also beable to advocate for families in need of
(03:30):
the elderly vulnerable population, such asthose that are affected by human trafficking.
We do raise human trafficking awareness.We are in partnership with different other organizations
that empower you know, families,empower girls, and you know, we
fight against the child bride crisis.We speak out against you know, the
(03:53):
various things concerning families, you know, the threats in society basically through the
law that threatened families. So it'sa whole conglomerate of different things that I
have accomplished, things that I havedone over the years, and my work
has allowed me to be asked torun for political office in two and twenty.
(04:14):
So I am just grateful for theLord, you know, using me
as an instrument to be able tobuilding strength and families, because families are
the building block of society. Youknow, strong families create what stronger communities
and believe it or not, thethings that we see going on in the
world today in reference to the crime, if we looking background or some of
(04:40):
these people, you will see thatthere were broken homes, there were anger
issues that never got resolved, andthese grow, These things grow with these
people, and you know, itgets to the point that this pressure builds
up, and it builds up andpretty soon if it's not dealt with,
what does it do? It feelsover into society. Sad to say,
(05:04):
this is just the way that itis. Most of the people that you
see during the killings and all ofthese things today, nine times out of
ten, there was a broken structure, you know, foundational with their families.
Okay, So with that event planningservice, we have a lot of
things that we're offering even to familiesto be able to do it yourself,
(05:30):
you know, just little innovative waysthat you can do things with your family,
do things for your family. That'swhy we encourage the birthday parties,
the celebrations and all of these thingshere because, believe it or not,
when people are not engaged in theirfamilies, this is how angry builds up.
(05:57):
Resentment comes as a result of peoplefeeling that though, especially kids,
nobody cares, you know what I'msaying. So yesterday I was listening to
Bishop Noel Jones' wife. She dida tea and actually in this particular presentation
she had like five speakers, fouror five speakers, and they did Gary
(06:21):
Chapman's um the Love Language Quits.So I did post that on our page.
I phrased with page and that isa remarkable way to kind of strengthen
relationships and and vuns, you knowwhat I'm saying, Because if we don't
(06:42):
engage, nothing works. If wedon't work it, you know, it's
like having a child. You knowwhat I'm saying. You don't put in
the necessary step status required for thatchild to rope and help in their development
(07:04):
stage. You don't never engage withthe child. The child just LAIDs there.
You don't play with the child.Child cries. You don't understand the
language of that child when they cry. Believe it or not, kids remember,
they do remember. And nine timesout of ten, the kids that
(07:29):
are growing up today remember when momneglected them, Mom didn't take time with
them, or you know, daddidn't take time with me, or the
family in general. You know,mistreated me. I was a black sheep
of the family, and the listgoes on. And I never had anyone,
you know, to celebrate me.My birthday came in and went.
No one told me happy birthday,No one appreciated me, no one you
(07:55):
know, took the time to buyme a cake to let me know that
this day will spend shoe. AndI see my kids, you know,
other kids rather in the in thecommunity, you know, having the things
that you know, I think thatI should have had birthday parties, celebrations.
That's how I really found out whatbirthdays were all about. Okay,
(08:16):
we don't take the time to dothose things and invest in those kids,
amen, then we're just turning themout to the world, and then they're
growing up cold, you know.And we can get into some deep issues
(08:39):
in which we will get there becauseI've been there before, you know,
and this time that you know,I opened this avenue back up and get
offered to some deep things, umnot surface level issues you know, concerning
our families. And this is whythe Lord has given me this business.
And it's more to it than justhelping you to have a beautiful event,
(09:03):
you know. But it goes deeperthan that, because we want everybody to
understand the purpose of why we dowhat we do. If it was just
to simply be an event planner,um, I mean it's it's tons of
event planners out there, but nobodyis unique like you know certain ones that
(09:24):
have you know you're in your bestinterests in heart, and we come alongside
you to find out, um,why this event is important to you.
Why did you choose us as eventplanners? And what is the purpose behind
this event? What event? Imean, what are you trying to spell
(09:46):
out in this event that you wantyour gets to remember for years to come,
or if it's a birthday party?Um, what do you want your
child or your loved one in generalto you know, feel about this particular
event. Right now, I haveinquiries for a Sweet sixteen part it's one
and four twins. You know whatI'm saying. Those are memorable moments in
(10:13):
children's lives that you know they wantto always remember that my mom and my
dad went out for me for thatparticular moment graduation. I mean, it
matters you guys. And I'm sayingall of this because my daughter grew up
without her daddy in her life.And I thank God that we helped to
(10:35):
you know what I'm saying, motivateher and and strengthen her in that area
where there was a loss, tolet her feel special and know that she's
lived in spite of you know whatI'm saying. So I know what that's
like to be a single mom toraise a child, you know, without
(10:56):
her dad being there. So Godhas shoosed all those various things in my
life to be able to come outhere to do what I do. It's
not just simply just seeing that thisis good idea, okay, and I'm
copying off of somebody else. It'sa purpose behind that. It's a reason
behind what I do, you knowwhat I'm saying. And the annointing comes
(11:20):
as a result of many of thethings that I had to go through basically
for God to give me to thatplace to see that there is a need
for families in this society because wehave what the definition of families being readefined.
Okay, our kids are already confusedenough, you know, as being
(11:43):
teenagers adolests, you know that stagein their life, you know psychologically,
you know, produce confusion because alot of things are happening to their bodies.
A lot of things are happening tothem among their peers, and they're
trying to figure that out. Andthen we have societic trying to come and
redefine God's standard of family by tellingthem it's okay for you know, you
(12:09):
know, genders to be with theother gender, the same gender. I
mean, you know what I'm saying. So they're you know, even more
confused. And you know, Godhas called us to put the stability back
what the stability is supposed to havealways been. You know what I'm saying.
It's not up to us to tryto take God's lines and blur those
(12:31):
lines and define a man or redefinewhat God has already said was good.
When he made you know them,both male and female, a man,
he said that that was good.He didn't say anything else was good other
than what he had created. Sowe came, amen, try to pretend
like we know better than him andredefine his standard and try to put our
(12:54):
own ideaologies on them and say thatthat's good. So God is causing me,
are calling me to unearth a lotof the deep seated issues that are
going on in today's society with thefamily and event planning just happens to come
out of that. So UM,yeah, we have a lot of things
(13:18):
going on, family academies, wehave them fares going on. UM.
Basically that is uh kind of likea community, you know, to help
families to um come together UM andtake their events to the next level basically
(13:39):
to create UM togetherness and UM.We bring everything together in the form of
entertainment, storytelling, UM song UHjust basically just a whole you know,
nine yards of things to give families, you know, things needs to do
(14:01):
UM and things that they can dotogether, you know. UM. So
that's I saw something that we havecooked up. And then it's UM really
reaching people, UM, interesting peopleand trying you know, basically to put
that catalysts in to build stronger familiesand communities UM. Basically in the midst
(14:26):
of what's going on around us,with the killings and with all these other
things that are going on. UM, basically things that are designed to keep
the family uh together and thriving andgrowing stronger and stronger. You know.
UM. Hey, so trying toget to all the hubs so we can
(14:56):
see these scenes are designed to givesomething for entire families to do while getting
an idea. What's what it's liketo plan an event with Nita killing consultant
UM, so you know, it'sjust a whole nine yard you know,
(15:18):
UM event hub. Basically that givesyou the entertainment a man. It gives
you the ability to plan events.You know what I'm saying. If you
need to plan events during the workshopsof different things like that, or you
know, to UM, come withina already planned event with decor and everything
(15:39):
and just bring your birthday girl aboy you know, into what's already going
on and allow them to be ableto celebrate birthdays and other events with other
people. Basically you know, UM, and it's a safe environment, friendly
and family friendly environment. You don'thave to worry about confusion into that atmosphere
(16:00):
to trip us up, you know, because we screen these events with security
basically to feel to UM, youknow, out who's trying to come in
and cause chaos in this event?We have security. Okay, So UM,
(16:22):
where you're looking to make these betterand better UM basically to just um
continue impacting families. When the lawyergave me the idea, we hit the
ground running with it and we're likethree or four months now in in this
and we're just looking to improve moreand more. Um, we have virtual
(16:42):
options as well as physical options.So um, it's a two fall thing.
Okay. So um, now we'reproviding do it yourself options for those
that are looking to say money,We know that inflation and it's causing a
whole lot of things to go up, and so we're looking out for that,
(17:04):
you know what I'm saying. Anyyou know allows us to be able
to create do it yourself options forour families to come in and you know,
playing your own events and different thingslike that, you know, at
a fraction of the costs, youknow, do it yourself and still have
special events that you're loved ones willremember for years to come. So if
(17:27):
you have any questions about anything thatI just said today, please feel free
to just reach out to us andlet us know. Again. My name
is Shanidria Kitling and I am thefounder. So thank you guys so much
for taking the time on this Fridaymorning to listen to what we had to
(17:48):
say. Thank you guys,
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