What Your Dad Didn't Teach You

I sit down with my therapist Dave Wright, a hypnotherapist from Amsterdam. Dave helps me unpack the real reason most men feel stuck in dating... and in life. We dive into self-rejection, emotional triggers, setting boundaries, and how to finally feel like you’re enough.

Ramses was one of those guys. Charming, confident, dating like it was a sport. Until he fell in love. What followed was five years of passion, denial, emotional decline, and physical symptoms that doctors couldn’t explain. In this unfiltered episode, he shares what it really looks like to get lost in a relationship that seems amazing on the outside… and how he slowly found his way back.

It’s not about your looks. It’s not about your lines. It's something deeper, and it’s been steering your dating life for years. Dating coach for women Mathijs joins Louis and together they pull back the curtain on what's REALLY been holding you back.

You wanted more real-life stories, so here we go. In this episode, my close friend Niels and I share some of our wilder dating experiences. The kind of stuff that happens when you actually get good at the game. No theory, no over-explaining, just raw, unfiltered stories straight from real life. Enjoy!

Most guys stay stuck in the beginner or intermediate stage of dating because they keep making the same mistakes. Some never escape them. In this episode, we break down the most common beginner and intermediate mistakes. We’ll show you what’s keeping you stuck and how to break free, and burst through to the next level.

Is it time to move on, or are you just addicted to the chase? We discuss the emotional rollercoaster of high-level game, why some guys struggle to settle down, and the mental battles that come with shifting from short-term excitement to long-term fulfillment.

Think you’re just dating? Think again. Women test men in ways you don’t even realize—fake breakups, emotional swings, and subtle challenges designed to reveal who you really are. Are you a leader or a pushover? A confident man or a try-hard simp? Alyne is back to break down the hidden rules of attraction, what women are really looking for, and why most men fail the test before they even know it’s happening.

You know that gut-punch moment when an approach flops, the vibe’s off, and you’re ready to call it a night? Most guys tap out. Ram didn’t. And that’s where things got interesting. From brutal rejections to ridiculous wins, we break down why sticking it out—just one more time—can change everything. If you’ve ever felt like quitting, this episode might just change your mind.

Boxing, improv, and risk-taking... how much do hobbies matter in your dating journey? In this episode, we break down the skills that boost your attraction and expose the hobbies that don’t. Plus, guitar vs. surfboard: which one wins? Find out in this sequel to 'Hobbies That Make You A Better Man'

Some hobbies make you stronger, more confident, and naturally more attractive—others, well… not so much. In this episode, we debate which hobbies actually help you in life and dating, why certain skills make a difference, and whether gaming, salsa, or fixing a sink gets you more points. Plus, we get into why having just a little bit of "gay energy" might actually work in your favor.

Alyne shares why nerds who work out might just be the ultimate relationship hack. We discuss the allure of intelligence, emotional depth, and how to strike a balance between confidence and vulnerability in dating.

What really pulls people in? Bryan's journey takes him from a work-obsessed, socially unsure guy to someone who gets what makes women click. We dive into the unexpected traits that skyrocket your appeal and why doubling down on playfulness might just be your unfair advantage in the dating game.

Re-entering the dating scene? It can be daunting, unpredictable, and even frustrating at times. In this episode, Bryan shares how he transformed from newly divorced to the confident, self-assured man who calls the shots and chooses his connections on his terms. We dive into relatable challenges and surprising lessons that can transform your approach to relationships.

Are men and women just chasing status, money, and looks? In this this episode, join Niels and I as we challenge Red Pill narratives, explore phases of life and love, and asks why so many are drawn to surface-level attraction instead of genuine connection.

Not sure where to meet amazing women? My guest Dan and I have done the research for you! With humor, honesty, and a touch of science, we reveal the top five environments for meeting women and share the do’s, don’ts, and unexpected surprises of each setting.

Ever thought you had it all figured out, only to realize you were wrong? This episode dives into the humbling moments that teach us the most. Niels Paul and I talk about overconfidence, failures in dating and fighting, and how these lessons have shaped us. Whether you’re stepping into the ring or navigating relationships, this episode is packed with insights on growth and resilience.

Feeling overwhelmed by conflicting dating advice? In this episode, Louis Farfields and Daan De Ram break down the concept of bottlenecks in dating. Discover how to identify what’s holding you back and where to focus your energy to see results fast.

In this episode, Louis Farfields is joined by friend and dating coach Niels Paul as they unpack the 'Value Ceiling Theory'—a new perspective on why people often settle in relationships. They share personal stories, psychological insights, and practical takeaways for navigating dating and self-esteem.

Rejection hurts, but it also fuels transformation. In this episode, we share personal stories of overcoming dating struggles, the power of persistence, and how to channel pain into progress.