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October 1, 2025 52 mins

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Jen speaks with Timothy Wienecke, a licensed therapist and Air Force veteran, about his journey from military service to mental health advocacy. They explore the complexities of masculinity, trauma and the societal pressures men face. Tim shares his experiences in victim services, the challenges of addressing sexual assault and the importance of community in healing. The conversation also touches on the evolving roles of men in society and the significance of diverse dialogues around masculinity. Tim's podcast, American Masculinity, aims to provide a platform for nuanced discussions on these critical issues.

Key Takeaways:

  • Tim's transition from military to therapy was driven by a desire to help others.
  • Cultural narratives around masculinity significantly impact men's mental health.
  • The importance of community in healing and personal growth cannot be overstated.
  • Men often struggle with societal expectations of being providers.
  • The role of men in society is evolving, with a focus on balance and connection.
  • Diverse conversations about masculinity are necessary for progress.

Episode Highlights:

[02:24] Tim's Journey from Military to Therapy

[07:51] Cultural Narratives and Masculinity

[24:25] Work, Passion and Purpose

[27:25] The Burden of Masculinity

[30:01] The Role of Fathers in Modern Society

[44:28] The American Masculinity Podcast

Resources Mentioned:

Tim’s Resource Page

The American Masculinity Podcast

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https://www.linkedin.com/in/timothywienecke/

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