When Split Happens

In this episode of When Split Happens, Jacksonville family law attorney Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite answers a question that surprises many couples: Do you have to be legally separated before filing for divorce in Florida? The short answer is no—but Florida’s divorce laws have important rules every spouse should understand before filing.

Jay explains why Florida does not recognize legal separation, how the state...

In this episode of When Split Happens, Jacksonville family law attorney Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite breaks down when and how child support can be modified under Florida Statute 61.14. Learn what counts as a substantial, permanent, and involuntary change in circumstances, how courts recalculate support, and why timing matters more than most parents realize.

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• How income changes, job loss, medical ne...

In this episode of When Split Happens, attorney Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite breaks down one of the biggest misconceptions in Florida family law — the belief that mothers automatically get custody. Jay explains how Florida’s custody laws are gender-neutral, how courts apply the “best interests of the child” standard, and why both parents start on equal footing.

You’ll learn what judges look for when determining ...

What really matters in a Florida family courtroom? It’s not about defeating the other parent—it’s about creating stability for your children. In this episode of When Split Happens, Jay Henderlite of Sasso, Guerrero & Henderlite explains how Florida family law judges decide custody and time-sharing cases based on the best interests of the child.

Learn what “stability” means in Florida custody law, how to show consistent involveme...

Are prenups just for the wealthy or a sign of distrust? In Episode 3 of "When Split Happens," Jacksonville’s board-certified family law attorney Jay Henderlite debunks prenup myths, revealing how prenuptial agreements foster trust and fairness under Florida law. Learn how prenups clarify asset division, protect businesses or inheritances, and simplify divorce, while understanding what they can’t do—like set child custody.

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When can a child choose their parent in Florida custody cases? On "When Split Happens," Jacksonville family law attorney Jay Henderlite answers this in Episode 2. Debunking myths about age-based choice, Jay explains how Florida courts prioritize a child’s best interests over ages like 12 or 16. Learn how judges assess a child’s maturity, why private discussions shield kids from conflict, and what to do if a teen refuses visitation....

Start the school year right with "When Split Happens," your guide to navigating divorce and family law. In this premiere episode, host Jay Henderlite, a dedicated family law attorney at Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite in Jacksonville, Florida, shares expert co-parenting tips for the back-to-school season. Using a simple framework—rules, routines, and relationships—Jay explains how to minimize stress and conflict. Learn:

• Why adhe...