When Split Happens

Filing for divorce in Florida requires more than just submitting a single form. In this episode of When Split Happens, Jacksonville family law attorney Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite explains the key documents required to start a divorce case and why getting the paperwork right from the beginning can prevent delays and complications.

Jay walks through the core forms used to open a Florida divorce case, including t...

Relocation after divorce is one of the most misunderstood areas of Florida family law. In this episode of When Split Happens, Jay Henderlite, a Jacksonville family law attorney with Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite, explains how Florida courts handle relocation cases and what parents must do before moving with a child.

Jay breaks down what legally qualifies as relocation under Florida law, when parental consent is enough, and when co...

Divorce involving military service raises unique legal issues under both Florida and federal law. In this episode of When Split Happens, Jay Henderlite, a Jacksonville family law attorney with Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite, explains what service members and military spouses need to know before filing for divorce in Florida.

This episode covers how jurisdiction and residency apply to active-duty service members, when being statione...

Unmarried fathers in Florida often feel unsure about where they stand legally—especially when it comes to custody, time-sharing, and decision-making for their children. In this episode of When Split Happens, Jay Henderlite, a Jacksonville family law attorney with Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite, breaks down what rights unmarried fathers do—and do not—have under Florida law.

Jay explains why fathers do not automatically receive paren...

In this episode of When Split Happens, Jacksonville family law attorney Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite answers a question that surprises many couples: Do you have to be legally separated before filing for divorce in Florida? The short answer is no—but Florida’s divorce laws have important rules every spouse should understand before filing.

Jay explains why Florida does not recognize legal separation, how the state...

In this episode of When Split Happens, Jacksonville family law attorney Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite breaks down when and how child support can be modified under Florida Statute 61.14. Learn what counts as a substantial, permanent, and involuntary change in circumstances, how courts recalculate support, and why timing matters more than most parents realize.

Jay covers:

• How income changes, job loss, medical ne...

In this episode of When Split Happens, attorney Jay Henderlite of Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite breaks down one of the biggest misconceptions in Florida family law — the belief that mothers automatically get custody. Jay explains how Florida’s custody laws are gender-neutral, how courts apply the “best interests of the child” standard, and why both parents start on equal footing.

You’ll learn what judges look for when determining ...

What really matters in a Florida family courtroom? It’s not about defeating the other parent—it’s about creating stability for your children. In this episode of When Split Happens, Jay Henderlite of Sasso, Guerrero & Henderlite explains how Florida family law judges decide custody and time-sharing cases based on the best interests of the child.

Learn what “stability” means in Florida custody law, how to show consistent involveme...

Are prenups just for the wealthy or a sign of distrust? In Episode 3 of "When Split Happens," Jacksonville’s board-certified family law attorney Jay Henderlite debunks prenup myths, revealing how prenuptial agreements foster trust and fairness under Florida law. Learn how prenups clarify asset division, protect businesses or inheritances, and simplify divorce, while understanding what they can’t do—like set child custody.

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When can a child choose their parent in Florida custody cases? On "When Split Happens," Jacksonville family law attorney Jay Henderlite answers this in Episode 2. Debunking myths about age-based choice, Jay explains how Florida courts prioritize a child’s best interests over ages like 12 or 16. Learn how judges assess a child’s maturity, why private discussions shield kids from conflict, and what to do if a teen refuses visitation....

Start the school year right with "When Split Happens," your guide to navigating divorce and family law. In this premiere episode, host Jay Henderlite, a dedicated family law attorney at Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite in Jacksonville, Florida, shares expert co-parenting tips for the back-to-school season. Using a simple framework—rules, routines, and relationships—Jay explains how to minimize stress and conflict. Learn:

• Why adhe...