"You Asked Her to Marry You, You Better Be Able to Pay for Everything" Featuring Devale Ellis

In this premiere episode of the xoMAN Podcast, host Kiara Walker sits down with actor, content creator, husband, and father Devale Ellis (@iamdevale) for a raw, real, and revealing conversation about accountability, fatherhood, and what it really takes to be a partner.

Devale shares the lessons that reshaped how he shows up in marriage, the unlearning he had to do as a Black man raised to suppress his emotions, and how love without healing can become an obsession. From emotional unavailability to learning how to lead with love, this episode sets the tone for the powerful season ahead.

🔊 New episodes every Tuesday. Watch the full video on YouTube every Wednesday.

🖤 Stay Connected with xoMAN & xoNecole
→ Instagram: @xonecole
→ YouTube: @xonecoletv
→ Website: www.xonecole.com

✨ Host: @kikisaidso
🎙️ Guest: @iamdevale

Chapters

00:00:00 - Grace, Boundaries, and Intent

00:00:43 - Marriage as a Partnership

00:02:09 - Red Flag Green Flag Segment

00:03:36 - Father's Role

00:03:55 - Social Media and Relationships

00:05:11 - Behind The Man Segment

00:53:06 - Love, Life, Lessons

01:03:53 - Hot Takes Segment

01:05:07 - Ask an xoMAN Advice Segment

 

Credits:

Produced by:

Nimmi Mohan

Sheriden Garrett

London Whitson

Kiara Walker

 

Crew:

404 Creators

This is an xoNecole and Will Packer Media Production