We all have needs. But what happens when we stop listening to them, or never learned how to in the first place? In this episode of You Make Sense, Sarah gently guides us through the heart of relational healing: learning how to get our needs met.
With tenderness and clarity, she unpacks how early attachment wounds shape our ability to express, feel, or even recognize our needs, leading many of us into cycles of codependency, hyper-independence, or invisible exhaustion. From the helpers who give too much to the ones who learned to stay small and silent, Sarah explores the nervous system patterns that keep us stuck in survival, disconnected from true intimacy.
Through the lens of somatics and parts work, she introduces a compassionate roadmap toward interdependence: a relational experience where we can be fully ourselves and fully connected. It's not about being needy, it’s about being human.
Episode Highlights
00:00 Intro
00:15 We All Have Needs
03:25 Understanding Codependency
08:42 Different Roles of Codependency
12:41 Hyper-Independence
20:31 Unseen and Unknown
22:07 Interdependence
26:10 Getting Your Needs Met
39:33 Question #1 - How to Reshape the Nervous System
48:08 Question #2 - Hypervigilant Younger Parts with Deep Wounding
57:15 Question #3 - Loving Inquiry
01:04:49 Question #4 - Young Part Bargain
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