My Friend's House with Tanassa Pillow and Christine Foell

We had the privilege of welcoming two extraordinary guests from My Friend's House: Executive Director, Tenasa Pillow, and Fundraising and Development Coordinator, Christine Foell. My Friend's House is a Middle Tennessee organization dedicated to providing safety, structure, and a nurturing environment for at-risk boys aged 12 to 17. Through counseling, therapeutic programs, and an abundance of community support, they help these young men believe in themselves, transform negative behaviors, and set paths toward brighter, more hopeful futures.

Our conversation delved into the heart of My Friend's House’s mission: to offer these boys a safe place to heal and grow, whether that ultimately means reuniting them with family, connecting them with a foster family, or guiding them toward independence. We heard emotional success stories—like a teenager discovering his love for cooking at a local steakhouse, or a young man finally finding a forever family. Their testimonies show us the profound impact of consistency, compassion, and community engagement.

We also learned about the annual Mardi Gras Ball, a major fundraiser that contributes essential funding to the organization, as well as year-round volunteer opportunities—from teaching life skills to donating toiletries. My Friend's House relies on the kindness of local churches, businesses, and individuals who wish to pour into these young lives. Listening to Tenasa and Christine, we felt reminded that truly every gift, large or small, can spark hope in a child’s life.

Key Takeaways

• Mission & Programs: My Friend's House serves boys 12 to 17 who have experienced abuse, neglect, or other challenges. Their structured environment focuses on life skills, therapy, and relationship-building so these teens can eventually reunify with family or transition to foster care or independent living.
• Daily Routine: From structured chores and homework time to weekly group therapy and community activities, the team ensures the boys have consistency, accountability, and plenty of fun.
• Success Stories: We loved hearing about the boy who found employment at a local steakhouse, the budding rapper showcasing his talents at a school pep rally, and the teenager who finally connected with a forever family. Every success reaffirms that care and guidance can alter the course of a child’s future.
• Volunteering: There are countless ways to get involved, whether that’s “Chef of the Night” (teaching the boys how to cook), mentoring, or helping with transportation to extracurriculars. Skilled trades like welding or carpentry are also highly valued, and volunteers go through a background check for the kids’ safety.
• Support & Donations: My Friend's House accepts toiletry items, clothing, and monetary donations. Their “Friend of a Friend” monthly giving program is an easy way to contribute consistently. They also maintain an Amazon wishlist for specific needs.
• Mardi Gras Ball: Held each February, this vibrant fundraiser combines good food, lively music, and a festive Mardi Gras theme. Every dollar supports My Friend's House’s programs, services, and the important day-to-day needs of the boys.
• Community Collaboration: Partnerships with local nonprofits, churches, businesses, and caring individuals make My Friend's House possible. Everyone’s collective efforts remind these teenagers that hope and kindness are within reach.

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