November 22, 2025 • 56 mins
Ready to manifest with more ease, joy, and confidence? In this powerful episode, we dive into how to choose happiness on purpose, elevate your vibration, and trust the Universe (or God) even when your 3D reality hasn’t caught up yet.
You’ll discover the science of happiness, why your emotional set point shapes your manifestations, and how feeling good—before anything changes—instantly accelerates what you attract.
We’ll also break down the art of spiritual surrender, including:
How to detach from the how and when
Why your job is the WHAT and the WHY
How to release timelines without losing faith
Why delays are NOT denials
How the Universe is always conspiring for your highest good
If you've been struggling with doubt, impatience, or feeling stuck in your manifestation journey, this episode will help you shift your mindset,
raise your frequency, and reconnect with deep divine trust.
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You’ll discover the science of happiness, why your emotional set point shapes your manifestations, and how feeling good—before anything changes—instantly accelerates what you attract.
We’ll also break down the art of spiritual surrender, including:
How to detach from the how and when
Why your job is the WHAT and the WHY
How to release timelines without losing faith
Why delays are NOT denials
How the Universe is always conspiring for your highest good
If you've been struggling with doubt, impatience, or feeling stuck in your manifestation journey, this episode will help you shift your mindset,
raise your frequency, and reconnect with deep divine trust.
https://www.loaradionetwork.com/constance-arnold
#LawOfAttraction,
#Manifestation,
#TrustTheUniverse,
#ChooseHappiness,
#PositiveVibration,
#SpiritualAlignment,
#ManifestingTips,
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/create-your-reality-the-ultimate-law-of-attraction-show-for-conscious-creators--1595897/support.
✨ Subscribe and Stay Inspired!
Listen to more powerful conversations on the Law of Attraction Radio Network, featuring top experts in manifestation, spirituality, and quantum success.
🌐 Visit LOARadioNetwork.com to explore shows, read articles, and connect with our global Law of Attraction community.
💫 Create a new life by creating new thoughts.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
You're listening to the Law of Attraction Radio Network. International
success coach and noted author Constance Arnold delivers life changing
strategies through her own spiritual practices as well as with
best selling authors and experts that she interviews. Fink Believe
In manifest is specially designed to empower your mind and
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words to work for you and to bring about a
life you've been dreaming of. And now here's Constance Arnold.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Well, hello, power for Manifesto, and welcome to the Law
of Attraction Radio Network. And of course I am Constance,
our host of the Thing Believe In manifest talk show
for the past seventeen years. Guess what I am so excited,
are so greatful, so thankful because I know that the
spirit of God has really attracted you here so that
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you can receive the download, the insight, that revelation that
you need before the end of the year is waiting
for you today. Well, happy holidays to you. You know,
we in the US we are coming up on Thanksgiving,
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and in the US it is a day where we
practice which we should practice every day, but it's where
we celebrate Thanksgiving is we get together with our families,
with our friends. Now they have a gathering where you
can get together with your friends. So if you don't
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have family, but it's a day of love connection, a
holiday of love connection and getting together. I'm going to
be going to Memphis, Tennessee to spend my holidays with
my nieces and my family. So that's what's going on today.
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Today I'm going to be teaching, and so many of
you are thanking me for teaching because, as I said earlier,
I've never taught seven weeks in a row. But I
decided by the spirit since so many of you say
I love it when you teach, and today, a boy,
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the spirit gave me a download. I'm going to be
teaching on how to be happy and trust while you manifesting.
Whoa be happy and trust while you manifesting even though
it hadn't shown up on the three D plane of
your life? All right? So guys follow me on social
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media TikTok and Instagram. Is at Law of Attraction Constance.
My YouTube page is Constance. Aren't on my Facebook page
it's coach but Constance I go live. You can come
on that. As me questions. One lady started screaming, You're like,
oh my god, I caught you live. Well, yeah, if
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you go on my social media accounts, you will I'm
uploading something really three to four times a week reels
or either I'm going live answering your questions. You know
it's something about going live and answering questions. Or I
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am uploading some three to five minute motivational stuff. So
I want you to check it out. So I got
a question for you before I get started. Are you
at the end of the year. Do you know that
it's time for you to move on from a relationship?
What about move on from your career? You know you
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should be in business, y'all know I've been in business
almost thirty years, by the grace of God. What about
it's time for you to really heal your wound. You
tied of carrying around being angry, being upset with whoever,
not speaking to two folk. You know you're tired of
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not walking in your gifts and talents. Well, I am
really excited because I'm not able to offer my by
now pay later coaching. Isn't that good news? So many
of you have said that while Constance, I really want
to coach with you, When now you can do that
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where you can just make a decision as to which
coaching package that you desire, and then you can buy
now and pay later. PayPal will set it up so
that you can make small installments. You know, I wish
I had had that. When I started coaching. I had
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to take got along. I was that desperate. I was like, God,
I've been investing in my designer clothes, I've been investing
in my travel, you know, just investing in all of
those outside things. And even though I was a therapist,
I still had unresolved stuff. And I talked to somebody
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this week and they were saying, well, I'm born again
spirit feel, but this person still had a lot of stuff.
And I said to them, your spirit is hold and knew,
but your soul needs to be here. Your soul is
what your old patterns, your childhood stuff, your old beliefs,
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your old paradigms, because remember all of your manifestations really
flowed through that. And so aren't you tired of waiting
for your breakthrough when in fact, God is waiting for you.
So one of the best investments that you can make
in yourself. Everybody's talking about Black Friday. For my international listeners,
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Black Friday is the friday before and doing Thanksgiving. So
this is my Black Friday offer to you, and it
is to invest in yourself. It's something about investing in
yourself that brings the rout of the return on your investment.
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You know that loan that I took out thirty years
ago to invest in myself has given back to me
one hundredfold. So if you're ready for change, you already
know my reputation, you already know my process. You already
heard my clients from all over the world. Send me
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an email, Constance at Fulfilling your Purpose dot com. We
can do a discovery call, or you can just go
to my website you already know Fulfilling your Purpose dot
Com and choose your buy now, pay later coaching package.
I'm so excited to be in a position to offer that.
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So we ready, people, I'm gonna talk about I'm gonna
break it out the way down, how to trust and
be happy while you're manifesting. I'm gonna take a simple
water right here, So how to trust and be happy
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why you're manifesting. So I know that some of y'all
are probably feeling while Constance. It is the end of
the year and I still have not manifested that. I
thought by now I would have that, because that is
what would make me happy and complete me. I've been
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listening to you for a year, journaling and scriptures, and
I still don't have that, and I really feel sad
about it. And you know, it's something very melancholy about
the holidays, because we all have aspirations, we have dreams,
we have fantasies about how the holidays should be. I
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get that. Normally people come to my house in Atlanta,
but I'm going to Memphis, and this week I felt
some kind of way. I think I felt melancholy. I
felt a little sad because it's not what it used
to be. But I realized that I had to change.
And now you're gonna hear me say in a minute
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that I could change. I didn't have to that I
could change. So maybe a lot of stuff is happening
in your life, but maybe a lot of stuff ain't happening.
And you said it ain't happening. Well, I'm going to
help you today, all right, So how to be happy?
I'm gonna deal with happy first, everybody, drumroll. You can
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choose happiness on purpose. You can choose to be happy
on purpose. Happiness is a choice no matter what your
circumstances are. And you know, I think what we need
to realize is happiness is not something that's waiting for you.
But every day we can choose to be happy. It's
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not based on our circumstances. It's not based on our moods.
We can wake up and say, this is the day
that the Lord has made I'm going to rejoice, y'all.
See how that's a decision. I'm going to rejoice, be happy,
and be thankful. So even though doing this time maybe
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your manifestation, maybe you said by now I thought I
would have. I've heard people say I'm going to be
happy when I get married. I'm going to be happy
when I make ten K. I'm going to be happy
when I lose weight. I'm going to be happy once
I finish my degree. I'm going to be happy once
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I have my child, once I get pregnant. And what
I've learned is if you don't get happy now, it's
really going to slow down your probability of getting what
you desire. Because happiness is a frequency, y'all. Happiness is
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a frequency and a vibration. So when you choose to
be happy, or you make a decision to be happy,
like I did about every thing that was going on,
you know, in me about my memories during the holidays.
When you choose to be happy, y'all, it puts you
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on that high vibration of abundance. And remember I said,
you make a decision and it really has nothing to
do with all of your circumstances. When I interviewed Marcy
Simoff and her book was be Happy for No Reason,
No reason, But the whole premise of the book was,
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if you can choose, Remember, your choosing, or your power
to choose, is a superpower. God has given you the
authority to choose your mood, choose your thoughts, choose your feelings.
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I know it ain't easy, and choose what you believe.
So even though it's November and maybe what you desire
has not manifested, I want you to make a decision.
I'm gonna choose to be happy. I'm gonna talk about
trust in a minute. So as I said, maybe you
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might be discouraged and you might just be sort of well,
you know, Constance, when are thing's gonna happen, Life's not fair.
I'm looking at everybody else. I feel like I've been
doing everything. Now you can choose that. But every day
when you get up, you gotta make a decision. Am
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I just gonna walk through this day just with an attitude?
You know? Am I gonna say, well, I'm gonna be happy?
You know once I Once I get my new car,
somebody said to me. They saw They said, ooh, I
like your new car. She said, what does it feel
like to drive a Mercedes? I said, I don't, no,
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because I've been driving them for thirty years. Not in
an arrogant kind of way. But a car don't make
you happy, Guys, I forget that I'm driving the Mercedes
because it's a car. A relationship don't make you happy
unless you are already happy. It can certainly bring more
happiness to you living in a big mansion. I have
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clients who live in big mansions. They are their singers,
their rappers, but that doesn't make them happy. So you
gotta make a decision that you understand that happiness is
a choice. And so you got to say every day, God,
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even though I have a universe, even though my manifestation
isn't here yet, I'm gonna rejoice. I recognize that you
made this day for me. I'm still alive, and you
get given me the opportunity to choose this day. The
Bible says when you were in your mother's womb, that
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God was with you. I'm not gonna waste my day
living in negativity. I'm not gonna waste my day just
scrolling on social media all day long. I'm gonna live
this day to the fullest. God, I realized I'm not
here by accident. You could have chose anybody else as
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being as a people all over the world, it's a
lot of people who didn't make it. I have friends
who didn't make it who have made their transition. I
woke up today and I'm gonna be grateful. This is
really a prayer that you prayed. You gotta talk yourself
into being happy. You can say, God, you said you're
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gonna crown my year with favor, and I'm planting that seed.
I'm being open even though my manifestation isn't here, I'm
gonna choose to be happy all right now. See, y'all,
I'm just gonna tell you about me. There were years
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when I just got up every day and because my
manifestation hadn't manifested, I would feel sad, just kind of
like a low grade fever. I would feel unhappy. I
didn't complain, but on the inside, I really did not
take full responsibility for being in faith, happy and joyful.
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And you know I'm getting ahead of myself. Well, one
way you could do that is while this hasn't manifested
in my life, but what has I'm going I'm going
ahead of myself and you can continue to say, God,
you trusted me with this day. It's the day that
I've never seen before, and I'm gonna look for the good.
I'm gonna choose to think and feel that all is well.
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And you're gonna have to choose not to replay your disappointment.
All of the negativity, stay off of stay off of
the news, stay off of negativity on social media, and
you're gonna have to choose to think and feel. You
know something, I know it hadn't manifested. Yeah, but a
bright future is head of me. You know something. I
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believe something good is gonna happen. Uh, you know, I
believe that my good will find me, My good is
looking for me. I'm not gonna deny my disappointment or
my negativity, but I refuse to focus on disappointment. I'm
gonna focus in on all of the good. And the
interesting thing is that when you be happy, when you
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choose to get in that vibration of happiness. Remember, happiness
does not depend on your work, on your outside circumstances.
And so stop letting your circumstances rule you. Stop letting
your circumstances and your emotion jerk you around. Remember you
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are a child of God. Remember all things are possible.
Remember that all possibilities exist, and it's when you focus
in on them. We're not in denial, We're not in
some woo woo world, but we realize we're co creating
with God. We should be happy, we should be excited expecting.
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I hadn't seen it yet, God, but I know it's
showing up. Whatever I need to align it, however, I
need to think. I know that you are here from me,
all right. So God, I'm excited about my future. I'm
excited about what's ahead, all of the unlimited possibilities. I
said on one of my posts, I said, learn how
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to tap into the limitlessness of God and life.
Speaker 3 (18:00):
All.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
There are so many possibilities that exist. It's amazing. God,
you're gonna take me from glory to glory, or from
level to level. God, you're gonna level me up. God
thinks I haven't even imagined. God said he's gonna do
extremely abundant more than you're able to ask or think
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or imagine. So the Holy Spirit gonna move beyond your imagination,
and all you need to do is choose to be happy.
So we know when you think powerful thoughts, okay, law
of attraction, y'all, whatever you think, you're gonna get more
of that. So when you think thoughts of happiness, okay, conscience,
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I don't have anything to be happy about. Let me
give you something happy for no reason. You're listening to me.
You alive, your children are safe, you can drink water,
you have a roof over your head, you have a car,
you still have a job. Those are simp You can walk,
you can talk, you can see. Those are reasons to
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be happy. But it's a matter of choice. The law
of attraction says, whatever you focus in on, you're going
to get more of that. So if you're focusing in
on what had manifested? Oh, what should have manifested? Why
hadn't it manifested? So anything that you need to do
differently or be differently because God loves you. Go back
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and listen to my last three shows where I talk
about the love of God. Remember, the love of God
is here to help you, support you, love you. All
of the light atoms in the universe are here to
love you, support you, help you. You got invisible for you,
got angels that are waiting to help you. And all
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you need to do is change your thinking. Choose to
be happy. Even those stuff ain't showed up. All right,
I'm teaching. I might be preaching a little bit, all right.
And so I remember a story of a gentleman who
was playing basketball with this guy and he said every
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day when they would every week, when they would go
to the basketball court, this guy was just so joyful
and happy. He said. He just never talked to him.
But one day it was just he and the guy,
and this one guy said to him, you're always so happy.
He said, yeah, I am. He said, I love coming
on the basketball court. He said, I may not be
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able to come next week because I'm in chemotherapy. And
the guy looked at him and said, you're in what
he said, Ye, I've been in chemotherapy for three years,
and he was amazed that this guy was happy and joyful.
And the guy said to him, well, I have my life,
I have my children, I have my family. I can
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still play that basketball. And you see how that guy
could have been pitiful, sad, focusing in on his disappointment.
But I guarantee you that that guy really is being
healed or what's here, because we know that really when
you choose happy thoughts, that it is brain chemistry. It
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goes in your brain and releases different endorphins, and y'all
know all those big words, you know where stuff is
released to bring healing into your body. So I just
want to say to you that even though your manifestation
has not arrived on the three D plane of your life,
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you can choose to be happy. We know that sadness
and gloom and despair and all of that you've heard
me talk about is on those low levels, those low vibrations,
and so oh, look at all of the good that
is around you. Look at your children, look at your family.
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See it as see today as a day of new
possibilities for you to go after your dream, for you
to experience God. You know, just in a really big way,
all right, So I want you to get These are
some things I want you to do. I want you
to get in the habit of thinking happy thoughts. You know,
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when you wake up in the morning, that's when you
got to make a decision, because you can go to
bed happy, but then you wake up. It's something about
waking up in the morning, y'all. That's why you got
to prepare your yourself the night before. When I wake
up and put my feet on the floor and go
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and handle my business, I intentionally think grat thoughts of gratitude.
So get in the habits, get in the habit of
thinking happy thoughts, and be grateful every day. Do not complain.
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When you complain, you remain. Now. We are not in
denial about what your circumstances are. We're not focusing in
on them. They're over there staring at you now. But
you're making the decision. I'm one with God. I'm one
with a loving, giving spirit. I'm co creating with God.
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You're making a decision to move your attention away from
appearances and focus your attention on the truth. What is
the truth? The truth is within you. That's where your
attention is. Somebody said that your outside circumstances are a shadow.
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Why would you be afraid of a shadow. It's just
a reflection of what's going on on the end inside.
So can you find well being in this moment? We
know if you want to change anything, it's what moment
by MoMA. So in this moment you could think and
be happy. Wow, I got a bright future head. You
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don't have to know how. I'm kind of getting ahead
of myself. You don't have to know how, because we
know what. We're happy on purpose. We're happy on purpose.
You don't have to know how. Just know that it's coming.
I'm gonna say I'm gonna back a little bit. Don't
let the little thing steal your joy. You know, it's
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gonna always be something where where you can choose. It's
gonna always be traffic, maybe rude people, just people with attitude.
Stuff is gonna come up. You know. I got up
this morning and my water wasn't on, and I'm like,
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what's this? And then I went outside. I went to
my front door and there was a little thing hanging
on my door from the water company. And the first
thing I thought was, oh my God. And then I said,
constant did you pay your water bill. I'm like, I
know I did. And then I ran in the house
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and put on a joggingsuit, and I came outside and
I saw a man working on my water meter, and
he said, man, we're changing out the old water meters
for new ones. But can you see how in that
moment I allowed that thing hanging on my door and
my water not being on to steal my joy? So
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make a decision that you're not going to give your
jaw over to the small things to be upset and
frustrated about and all of that. You know, And as
I said earlier, you know when you were in a
vibration of happiness, y'all, it accelerates your manifestation, so you
can celebrate and be happy about all of the good
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that's in your life. Maybe you don't have that one
manifestation right now, but guess what if you focus in
on the goodness and small things. Your health, like I said,
your health, your family, that you are protective, the favor
of God. Can you breathe? You got breadth in your lungs?
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All of the above, y'all, This is the secret. The
more happy and thankful you are, the quicker stuff will
manifest in your life and all of that. I think
that you really need to move away from complainers, move away,
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stop spending your time with folk that drain you, and
listen to stuff that builds up your favor. You need
to listen to me. You can manifest. I talk one
day one Sunday on the sudden moves of God. You know,
as long as you clear about what you want and
your detection from the how and the wind, I'm gonna
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talk about that later on. God has a minion ways
to get your manifestation to you. You got to change
this whole mindset of why is it happening for everybody else?
Your manifestation is happening for you now, you know. That's
what I would say around that, And trust God that
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your steps are being guided. Even though it doesn't look perfect,
it doesn't feel perfect. Some of y'all are saying, when
God win, the universe is here to support you and
love you, but trust that the right timing. Sometimes I
tell people happiness comes from knowing. When you know my
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life is in God's hand, something good is on this way.
So today I'm just gonna let go of anything that's
weighing me down. I'm gonna realize that God is on
my side, Angels are working for me, light atoms are
on my side. Things are getting better and better for me.
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Things always work out for my highest good. I have
everything I need to be happy right now. Ooh that
is so good. I think I need to go to
commercial on that. I have everything that I need to
be happy right now. So can you understand the power
of choosing to be happy when right now and knowing
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that you are really expanding in your consciousness? You know,
I love what Peter Adams said. He said, Constance, you
never know when that big breakthrough is coming. He said,
you can go to bed one night without any idea
or inkling of what's gonna come to past, and when
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you wake up, your whole life has changed. So before
I go to break, I just want to say to you,
remember the power that you have to be to choose.
You can choose, Oh I'm gonna be happy. You can choose,
Oh I'm gonna be excited. You can choose. I'm expecting
like you do, like y'all know I do. For the
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UPS guy, for the for the fed Ex guy. It's
my birthday month. So every time the fed Ex guy
and us UPS guy comes in my neighborhood. My house
is on the corner. I'm looking expectantly. Is that for me?
And that's how you need to do? And I'm going
to come back and talk about trusting. But can you
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see how just by choosing to be happy even though
stuff has not manifested in your life, that would drastically
change and accelerate your manifestation. This was so good, but
I've got to go to quick commercial break everybody. I'll
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How to be happy and trust God while you waiting
or while you're manifesting? All right, so part one before
the commercial was so good and I want you to
go back and listen to that, so I really emphasize
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being happy. So let's talk about trusting. How do you
trust the universe? How do you trust God while you're manifesting?
Or why are you waiting? And I just want to
make a couple of statements, so you're going to really
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I'm trying to decide where I want to start. I
think that you have to know that while you're waiting
for your manifestation to be downloaded on the three D
plane of your life, even though on the inside in
four and five D you know you already have it.
You got to believe that delay is not denial and
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that just because you haven't seen it on the three
D plane of your life. You know, somebody said manifestation
happens twice. It happens in your imagination, but then it happens,
you know, in your three D physical world. So just
because you don't see it yet in the on the
three D plane of your life doesn't mean that you
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don't have it. It doesn't mean that God isn't working.
And so I always say to my self, ye, because
I used to be so frustrated, I used to choose
to be frustrated. Remember, that's always a choice, and I
had to learn that many times, the perceived waiting season
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was really God behind the scenes, rearranging things on my behalf,
godlining up the right people, the right moments, the right breaks,
the right intros. But it was also me on the inside,
becoming the woman or the person that I needed to
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become to receive it. A great example of that, well,
you guys know my story of really manifesting millions and
then okay, I had it in my three D world,
but my consciousness, which I didn't know it at the time,
or my mindset, was still lack because I was just spending, spending, spending, spending.
I just told somebody, one of my clentiens, see, this
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is one reason why you need to coach with me,
because a coach can tell you in five minutes when
it took her five years. I told her, I said,
you're not spending money, You're circulating. That's a difference. When
you circulate, it comes back to you. I said, So
when you have a wealth consciousness, you circulate and you
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invest money because the hour or either return on investment
will come back to you. So when you buying your
new braids ladies, or your new wig or your new whatever,
you're not spending money. You're circulating that because what you
purchase will bring you joy, and in your joy, you
would be more creative. Okay, guys, when you buy your
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new electric bicycle. One of my neighbors just got an
electric bike and he's like, constant, you need to get one.
I'm like, no, thank you, I'd rather walk. And so
he's not spending money, he's circulating money. He's investing money.
Why because the ROI on that would be I'm investing
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money in my health. I'm investing money in my well being.
So we ain't spending money no more. We're circulating and investing.
I don't know how I got on that, but we
were talking about trusting the universe all right, so you're trusting.
You know, there's a verse in the Bible which was
my father's favorite verse. He said, trust the Lord with
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all of your heart, and don't leank to your own understanding.
And I think the paraphrase of that would be trust God,
trust the universe with all of your heart, all of
your being, and don't be limited by your three your
limited mind, by your three D mind, by your senses.
What you could fee see, feel, and experience what you've experienced,
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and you can't even limit it to your experiences because
all possibilities exist. And just because you have not experienced
something does not mean it doesn't exist. I just told
a client just because you never received or being in
a loving relationship does not mean that it's not possible.
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That possibility exists. So we're moving away from three D.
So how can you trust the universe or God? Why
you're waiting for your manifestation. I'm going to say that
you need to detach from the how and when? How
is it going to manifest? When is it going to manifest?
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Because your position is the what and the why? What
do you want? What do you want? And why do
you want? Why? Why do you want that new home.
What do you want? What do you want it to
look and feel like? Why do you want to be married?
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Why do you want to lose weight? So your position
is to define what is to what, and God or
the universe will handle the how and when. And I
think I'm going to talk about knowing and trusting on
a different level in a minute. But when you stop
trying to control the exact timing, and I'm going back
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to me. I had to learn how to be a
good steward over money. So the second time my blessing came,
I had changed my mindset. My identity had changed, so
the way I handle money received money change. So sometimes
if something ain't showed up, it's a development of your character,
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it's a getting ready for it, it's a developing your mindset.
So when you stop trying to control the exact timing
or method, I love that the method. Okay, everybody need
to journal. No, maybe you don't vibe with journaling. Maybe
that's not you. Everybody need to script, everybody need to
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do a guided meditation. No, maybe you are better at
just listening to theata music and visualizing that way. So
take the restrictions off. So stop trying to control the
exact timing, and you create a space for the universe
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to really deliver it in ways that you never imagine.
God wants to surprise. You take the limits off. You
know you're detaching from how it's gonna come. And so
I always tell people when it ain't happening like you
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wanted to, or when you wanted to. I always tell
my clients this or something better is coming, Thank you God,
this or something better is coming. I also have them
to say, I don't need to know every step, for
it is the work of the spirit. I just need
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to know what my next step should be. Ooh, that's juicy,
all right. So we know delay is not denial. And
I'm gonna say when you know that, it keeps you
in a parture of faith and not frustrated. You're not saying, well,
I'm just disappointment, disappointed conscience. I thought by now I
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would have. But I think that when you're in faith,
or when you're in belief, you can begin to think
those happy thoughts of you know something, my time is coming.
God is on my side, Angels are with me. Whatever
you whatever you feel like, vies with you. So you're
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going to begin to say that Another big point about
trusting is to shift from neediness, Oh my god, when
to certainty because manifestation is less about wanting and desiring
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and wishing and hoping, but it's more about believing. And
I'm going to say it's more about knowing when you trust.
When you know something, you can trust it. And you know,
doctor Nicole and Professor Michael Sebastian, you know, they talked
about knowing is the most powerful thing. When you know something,
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you can trust it. When you know something, you can
sit back and relax in it. And so when you
know that whatever you wrote down for twenty twenty five,
that it is the will of God that the universe
wants you to have, have it. You know, the Bible
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talks about and you've heard me say, what would make
your joyful? When you know that you can sit back
and relax. My good is gonna find me. It's on
this way. You can be grateful for it. You could
thank God for it, thank the universe in advance when
you know you are loved. So I had a client
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just the other day and she was saying, well, I
just feel like by now, maybe it's my face, maybe
it's this, and I told her, I said, you just
need to know two things. Number One, you need to
know that even when you don't have the faith, you
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can trust in the faith of God. I ask her,
does God have all the faith? Yes? Can God believe
for anything? Yet I'm paraframe. There's a verse in the Bible.
It says to put your trust in the faith of God.
So it might look like this with God. You know
right now I'm tripping. I don't really you know, help
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my unbelief. I don't really have it all, but I
know you do, and I'm putting my faith. I'm looking
at you, co creating with you in the faith of God.
The second thing I said is the only other thing
you need to know. We're talking about certainty and knowing.
When you know something, you can rest in it if
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you know your love. So putting your attention and your
faith in okay, the unconditional love of God, unconditional love
of the universe, that the entire universe is conspiring, is helping,
it's supporting. It's a conspiracy, y'all, trying to get your
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highest good to you. And so love, what does love do?
Love wants to give, Love wants to support, Love wants
to help and deliver. So if all you know in
this manifestation period is I'm putting my faith in the
God of the universe because he or she it knows
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all things, and I'm trusting that the love of the Universe,
the love of God, the love of Ohba Father is giving, supporting, soothing,
wooing and helping me. And if those are the only
things that can get you into a place of knowing,
I would say do that. Another thing that you can
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do in learning to trust is, of course I already
talked about just being grateful and becoming emotionally aligned with
So let's just say that if you desired love, it
hadn't shown up. What are some small things that did
show up for you this year. Let's be great for those.
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Let's get excited about that. Let's get some peace around that.
And when something small shows up, you know. Florence Scovershin
says that that this lady was praying for some China
and somebody sent her via mail back in the day,
because Florence show Skovshin was back in the eighteen hundreds
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eighteen ninety something, so somebody sent her client a cracked
plate via mail, and she went to Florence, and she said,
I didn't pray for this, And Florence said to her,
I'm paraphrasing, girlfriend, your cracked plate is a sign that
your china is on the way. And of course she
received that. So my question to you is what has
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shown up in your life this year that would give
you peace, that would give you confidence. What small signs
have shown up, like random opportunities, intuitive nudgets from the spirit.
Has any form of abundance showed up? You know, my
clients have just showed up and showed out for my birthday. Man,
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I have received all kinds of wonderful, juicy surprises from
all over the world. And so what does that do
that increases my confidence? Oh? God, I'm really I'm really
doing what you call me to do. So really, it's
celebrating the small signs that really build patience and trust.
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And it helps you to stay in that vibration of happiness.
It helps you to trust God's timing, It helps you
to stay in that vibration of gratitude. And I'm gonna
say expectancy, because when you know something, you're expecting for
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something to change, you're looking, uh, I know it's coming.
You know like the kids are not getting excited for Christmas.
I think that speaking of expectation, if you can begin
to expect God's goodness every day, expect favor, expect for
open doors to happen, expect answers to your prayers. Even
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when you're waiting, you still can choose hope and live
in expectancy. Can you see that? So when you expect favor,
let's just say you desired for a new relationship, but
you expect the favor on your job and you get it.
That gives you the confidence, It gives you the patience,
and it gives you the hope that what you desire
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you already have it in four and five D is
own its way. And I'm going to say this, if
you know you have something, really you don't have to
really see it in three D. If you know you
have it, but that's another whole whole thing, then I'm
not going to get into So people say, well, if
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it hasn't shown up your concerts, that means I need
to do something. I need to do something to make
it show up. And I'm going to say you need
to be something. And somebody said, it's not another thing
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that you should do. It's another thing that you should know.
So what do I mean by that you should know
that you know? As I said earlier that when you
in the Bible, it says first to seed, then the blade,
then the full ear of corn. So if for decades
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you have been thinking, you know, relationships are right, there
are no good men out there. No, it's only gold
diggers out there. If you've been thinking that, it probably
the probably has been or is being, a reconditioning, a
reprogramming of your mind. So I believe in the spiritual
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realm it's only when we are ready to receive, and
it may be healing your stuff, changing your mindset, knowing
how to be a good steward over it might be
all of those things. And so it's a knowing and
a patience that I can trust this. I can trust this,
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I can trust the universe that waiting isn't punishment is preparation.
Oh that's good. Waiting isn't punishment, is preparation. And sometimes
God is just rearranging circumstances, aligning you with the right mindset,
like I said, strengthening of your self esteem, your self concept,
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your mindset, removing from you stuff that needs to be
released building a strong inner foundation. So see, we don't
see that as manifestation. We're just looking for the thing.
How much have you grown? How much has your character change?
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How has your mind, your mindset change, all of the above.
So we're being happy, as I said at the beginning
of the show, but we are also trusting. You can
trust that love not gonna not gonna hold your good back.
That's a verse in the Bible says, no good thing
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where God would hold from the upright? Are you the upright? Yes?
Are you an air of God? Absolutely? Would you hold
back good from your children? No? And so you see
the power of trusting. So it's a knowing and a
relig and so many people are trying to take action.
It ain't inspired action. Inspired action is in spirit. Whenever
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you act, it should come from a place of knowing.
I believe, after all of these years as a certified
a dream coach and law of attraction coach, that sometimes
you just wait and you marinate in and you saturate
in that knowing of abundance, and then from that place
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one day you take inspired action. I think you need
to become pregnant with the idea embody the idea become
married to emerged into that desire that you have. I
think it was Greg Braden who said, when emotions and
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images marry, watch out for the marrec So this has
been so good, So we're focusing in all the good
that we already have. You know, when you focus in
on that and you are grateful, that puts you in
the receiving mode. When you are not trusting, or when
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you are not in happiness, you're not in the receiving mode.
So it raises your vibration and it helps you to
really see of God working through you with his favor, mercy, goodness.
Have doors been open for you? Have opportunities showed up
in your life. So instead of focusing in on what
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you're miss missing, you focus your attention on the present moment.
And y'all, it is only in this present moment, this moment,
then the next moment. It is only in the present
moment that things change. Are you become a magnet that's
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powerful positioning magnetism that you vibe in in this moment
you know I'm blessed. Next moment, you know I'm prosperous.
Next moment you know I'm wealthy. So if you do that.
Moment by moment, you are expanding your consciousness. This is
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so good. I have taught powerful today. I'm going to
listen to this. You know a lot of times when
I record and I go back and listen, because I'm
teaching you about the spirit, I'm like, wow, did I
say that? So this is just a little affirmation God
or Universe. I release the how and when I trust
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the timing of my life, I trust God. What's meant
for me is for me and is already moving towards me.
And I'm becoming the person who's ready to receive WHOA
That is so good? How to choose to be happy
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and trust while I'm manifesting. Well, guys, this has been
so good. As I said earlier, I would love to
coach with you. You see the wisdom that's on the
inside of me. My clients get all of this juicy stuff,
all of this juicy info, all this juicy revelation that
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they can implement in their lives. And as I said
in Part one, I now have my by now pay
later packages available to you. All you need to do
is make a decision. I am ready and my clients
are manifesting like unbelievable stuff. I mean when they text
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me or when we have our session, their manifestations increase
my faith. I'm like, what, But I'm not surprised because
I have a guarantee. If you coach with me for
a year parentheses and you're willing to do the interrept work,
you won't recognize the landscape of your life. So if
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you're ready to quit talking about it and be about it,
let's do a coaching discovery car. You can email me
constants at Fulfilling youourpurpose dot com. But if you already know, okay,
I just got to talking about knowing, right if there's
a certainty on the inside of me. I had one
lady she watched me on YouTube and I said, how
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long you been listening to me? She said one day?
I said one day. She said yeah, but I knew
when I saw you. The spirit said to me, she's
the one. So when people say to me, well, I
just got to pray about it. Usually that's about money.
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Let when she said you the one, how does she
know that that was a certainty and there was a
knowing on the inside of her. It's called a divine connection,
divine hookup. So email me Constance at Fulfillingourpurpose dot Com.
I want you to know this week how loved you are,
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how powerful you are, how the entire universe is conspiring.
It's on tiptoe. It's waiting for you to change your thinking.
The entire universe is waiting for you to know. You
got angels waiting, You got invisible forces, you got your ancestors,
You have that invisible force waiting to empower you. All
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of the light Adams in the universe are waiting just
for you to send out a signal up. This is
who I am and this is what I want. So everybody,
this is Constance Arnloone want you to enjoy your holiday
and always remember this that you are the creator, editor,
scriptwrit and producer of your own life. God has given
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you the power and authority choose it. Have great week, everybody.
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Well, hello, power for Manifesto, and welcome to the Law
of Attraction Radio Network. And of course I am Constance,
our host of the Thing Believe In manifest talk show
for the past seventeen years. Guess what I am so excited,
are so greatful, so thankful because I know that the
spirit of God has really attracted you here so that
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you can receive the download, the insight, that revelation that
you need before the end of the year is waiting
for you today. Well, happy holidays to you. You know,
we in the US we are coming up on Thanksgiving,
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and in the US it is a day where we
practice which we should practice every day, but it's where
we celebrate Thanksgiving is we get together with our families,
with our friends. Now they have a gathering where you
can get together with your friends. So if you don't
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have family, but it's a day of love connection, a
holiday of love connection and getting together. I'm going to
be going to Memphis, Tennessee to spend my holidays with
my nieces and my family. So that's what's going on today.
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Today I'm going to be teaching, and so many of
you are thanking me for teaching because, as I said earlier,
I've never taught seven weeks in a row. But I
decided by the spirit since so many of you say
I love it when you teach, and today, a boy,
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the spirit gave me a download. I'm going to be
teaching on how to be happy and trust while you manifesting.
Whoa be happy and trust while you manifesting even though
it hadn't shown up on the three D plane of
your life? All right? So guys follow me on social
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media TikTok and Instagram. Is at Law of Attraction Constance.
My YouTube page is Constance. Aren't on my Facebook page
it's coach but Constance I go live. You can come
on that. As me questions. One lady started screaming, You're like,
oh my god, I caught you live. Well, yeah, if
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you go on my social media accounts, you will I'm
uploading something really three to four times a week reels
or either I'm going live answering your questions. You know
it's something about going live and answering questions. Or I
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am uploading some three to five minute motivational stuff. So
I want you to check it out. So I got
a question for you before I get started. Are you
at the end of the year. Do you know that
it's time for you to move on from a relationship?
What about move on from your career? You know you
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should be in business, y'all know I've been in business
almost thirty years, by the grace of God. What about
it's time for you to really heal your wound. You
tied of carrying around being angry, being upset with whoever,
not speaking to two folk. You know you're tired of
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not walking in your gifts and talents. Well, I am
really excited because I'm not able to offer my by
now pay later coaching. Isn't that good news? So many
of you have said that while Constance, I really want
to coach with you, When now you can do that
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where you can just make a decision as to which
coaching package that you desire, and then you can buy
now and pay later. PayPal will set it up so
that you can make small installments. You know, I wish
I had had that. When I started coaching. I had
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to take got along. I was that desperate. I was like, God,
I've been investing in my designer clothes, I've been investing
in my travel, you know, just investing in all of
those outside things. And even though I was a therapist,
I still had unresolved stuff. And I talked to somebody
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this week and they were saying, well, I'm born again
spirit feel, but this person still had a lot of stuff.
And I said to them, your spirit is hold and knew,
but your soul needs to be here. Your soul is
what your old patterns, your childhood stuff, your old beliefs,
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your old paradigms, because remember all of your manifestations really
flowed through that. And so aren't you tired of waiting
for your breakthrough when in fact, God is waiting for you.
So one of the best investments that you can make
in yourself. Everybody's talking about Black Friday. For my international listeners,
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Black Friday is the friday before and doing Thanksgiving. So
this is my Black Friday offer to you, and it
is to invest in yourself. It's something about investing in
yourself that brings the rout of the return on your investment.
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You know that loan that I took out thirty years
ago to invest in myself has given back to me
one hundredfold. So if you're ready for change, you already
know my reputation, you already know my process. You already
heard my clients from all over the world. Send me
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an email, Constance at Fulfilling your Purpose dot com. We
can do a discovery call, or you can just go
to my website you already know Fulfilling your Purpose dot
Com and choose your buy now, pay later coaching package.
I'm so excited to be in a position to offer that.
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So we ready, people, I'm gonna talk about I'm gonna
break it out the way down, how to trust and
be happy while you're manifesting. I'm gonna take a simple
water right here, So how to trust and be happy
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why you're manifesting. So I know that some of y'all
are probably feeling while Constance. It is the end of
the year and I still have not manifested that. I
thought by now I would have that, because that is
what would make me happy and complete me. I've been
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listening to you for a year, journaling and scriptures, and
I still don't have that, and I really feel sad
about it. And you know, it's something very melancholy about
the holidays, because we all have aspirations, we have dreams,
we have fantasies about how the holidays should be. I
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get that. Normally people come to my house in Atlanta,
but I'm going to Memphis, and this week I felt
some kind of way. I think I felt melancholy. I
felt a little sad because it's not what it used
to be. But I realized that I had to change.
And now you're gonna hear me say in a minute
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that I could change. I didn't have to that I
could change. So maybe a lot of stuff is happening
in your life, but maybe a lot of stuff ain't happening.
And you said it ain't happening. Well, I'm going to
help you today, all right, So how to be happy?
I'm gonna deal with happy first, everybody, drumroll. You can
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choose happiness on purpose. You can choose to be happy
on purpose. Happiness is a choice no matter what your
circumstances are. And you know, I think what we need
to realize is happiness is not something that's waiting for you.
But every day we can choose to be happy. It's
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not based on our circumstances. It's not based on our moods.
We can wake up and say, this is the day
that the Lord has made I'm going to rejoice, y'all.
See how that's a decision. I'm going to rejoice, be happy,
and be thankful. So even though doing this time maybe
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your manifestation, maybe you said by now I thought I
would have. I've heard people say I'm going to be
happy when I get married. I'm going to be happy
when I make ten K. I'm going to be happy
when I lose weight. I'm going to be happy once
I finish my degree. I'm going to be happy once
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I have my child, once I get pregnant. And what
I've learned is if you don't get happy now, it's
really going to slow down your probability of getting what
you desire. Because happiness is a frequency, y'all. Happiness is
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a frequency and a vibration. So when you choose to
be happy, or you make a decision to be happy,
like I did about every thing that was going on,
you know, in me about my memories during the holidays.
When you choose to be happy, y'all, it puts you
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on that high vibration of abundance. And remember I said,
you make a decision and it really has nothing to
do with all of your circumstances. When I interviewed Marcy
Simoff and her book was be Happy for No Reason,
No reason, But the whole premise of the book was,
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if you can choose, Remember, your choosing, or your power
to choose, is a superpower. God has given you the
authority to choose your mood, choose your thoughts, choose your feelings.
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I know it ain't easy, and choose what you believe.
So even though it's November and maybe what you desire
has not manifested, I want you to make a decision.
I'm gonna choose to be happy. I'm gonna talk about
trust in a minute. So as I said, maybe you
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might be discouraged and you might just be sort of well,
you know, Constance, when are thing's gonna happen, Life's not fair.
I'm looking at everybody else. I feel like I've been
doing everything. Now you can choose that. But every day
when you get up, you gotta make a decision. Am
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I just gonna walk through this day just with an attitude?
You know? Am I gonna say, well, I'm gonna be happy?
You know once I Once I get my new car,
somebody said to me. They saw They said, ooh, I
like your new car. She said, what does it feel
like to drive a Mercedes? I said, I don't, no,
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because I've been driving them for thirty years. Not in
an arrogant kind of way. But a car don't make
you happy, Guys, I forget that I'm driving the Mercedes
because it's a car. A relationship don't make you happy
unless you are already happy. It can certainly bring more
happiness to you living in a big mansion. I have
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clients who live in big mansions. They are their singers,
their rappers, but that doesn't make them happy. So you
gotta make a decision that you understand that happiness is
a choice. And so you got to say every day, God,
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even though I have a universe, even though my manifestation
isn't here yet, I'm gonna rejoice. I recognize that you
made this day for me. I'm still alive, and you
get given me the opportunity to choose this day. The
Bible says when you were in your mother's womb, that
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God was with you. I'm not gonna waste my day
living in negativity. I'm not gonna waste my day just
scrolling on social media all day long. I'm gonna live
this day to the fullest. God, I realized I'm not
here by accident. You could have chose anybody else as
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being as a people all over the world, it's a
lot of people who didn't make it. I have friends
who didn't make it who have made their transition. I
woke up today and I'm gonna be grateful. This is
really a prayer that you prayed. You gotta talk yourself
into being happy. You can say, God, you said you're
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gonna crown my year with favor, and I'm planting that seed.
I'm being open even though my manifestation isn't here, I'm
gonna choose to be happy all right now. See, y'all,
I'm just gonna tell you about me. There were years
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when I just got up every day and because my
manifestation hadn't manifested, I would feel sad, just kind of
like a low grade fever. I would feel unhappy. I
didn't complain, but on the inside, I really did not
take full responsibility for being in faith, happy and joyful.
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And you know I'm getting ahead of myself. Well, one
way you could do that is while this hasn't manifested
in my life, but what has I'm going I'm going
ahead of myself and you can continue to say, God,
you trusted me with this day. It's the day that
I've never seen before, and I'm gonna look for the good.
I'm gonna choose to think and feel that all is well.
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And you're gonna have to choose not to replay your disappointment.
All of the negativity, stay off of stay off of
the news, stay off of negativity on social media, and
you're gonna have to choose to think and feel. You
know something, I know it hadn't manifested. Yeah, but a
bright future is head of me. You know something. I
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believe something good is gonna happen. Uh, you know, I
believe that my good will find me, My good is
looking for me. I'm not gonna deny my disappointment or
my negativity, but I refuse to focus on disappointment. I'm
gonna focus in on all of the good. And the
interesting thing is that when you be happy, when you
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choose to get in that vibration of happiness. Remember, happiness
does not depend on your work, on your outside circumstances.
And so stop letting your circumstances rule you. Stop letting
your circumstances and your emotion jerk you around. Remember you
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are a child of God. Remember all things are possible.
Remember that all possibilities exist, and it's when you focus
in on them. We're not in denial, We're not in
some woo woo world, but we realize we're co creating
with God. We should be happy, we should be excited expecting.
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I hadn't seen it yet, God, but I know it's
showing up. Whatever I need to align it, however, I
need to think. I know that you are here from me,
all right. So God, I'm excited about my future. I'm
excited about what's ahead, all of the unlimited possibilities. I
said on one of my posts, I said, learn how
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to tap into the limitlessness of God and life.
Speaker 3 (18:00):
All.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
There are so many possibilities that exist. It's amazing. God,
you're gonna take me from glory to glory, or from
level to level. God, you're gonna level me up. God
thinks I haven't even imagined. God said he's gonna do
extremely abundant more than you're able to ask or think
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or imagine. So the Holy Spirit gonna move beyond your imagination,
and all you need to do is choose to be happy.
So we know when you think powerful thoughts, okay, law
of attraction, y'all, whatever you think, you're gonna get more
of that. So when you think thoughts of happiness, okay, conscience,
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I don't have anything to be happy about. Let me
give you something happy for no reason. You're listening to me.
You alive, your children are safe, you can drink water,
you have a roof over your head, you have a car,
you still have a job. Those are simp You can walk,
you can talk, you can see. Those are reasons to
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be happy. But it's a matter of choice. The law
of attraction says, whatever you focus in on, you're going
to get more of that. So if you're focusing in
on what had manifested? Oh, what should have manifested? Why
hadn't it manifested? So anything that you need to do
differently or be differently because God loves you. Go back
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and listen to my last three shows where I talk
about the love of God. Remember, the love of God
is here to help you, support you, love you. All
of the light atoms in the universe are here to
love you, support you, help you. You got invisible for you,
got angels that are waiting to help you. And all
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you need to do is change your thinking. Choose to
be happy. Even those stuff ain't showed up. All right,
I'm teaching. I might be preaching a little bit, all right.
And so I remember a story of a gentleman who
was playing basketball with this guy and he said every
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day when they would every week, when they would go
to the basketball court, this guy was just so joyful
and happy. He said. He just never talked to him.
But one day it was just he and the guy,
and this one guy said to him, you're always so happy.
He said, yeah, I am. He said, I love coming
on the basketball court. He said, I may not be
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able to come next week because I'm in chemotherapy. And
the guy looked at him and said, you're in what
he said, Ye, I've been in chemotherapy for three years,
and he was amazed that this guy was happy and joyful.
And the guy said to him, well, I have my life,
I have my children, I have my family. I can
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still play that basketball. And you see how that guy
could have been pitiful, sad, focusing in on his disappointment.
But I guarantee you that that guy really is being
healed or what's here, because we know that really when
you choose happy thoughts, that it is brain chemistry. It
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goes in your brain and releases different endorphins, and y'all
know all those big words, you know where stuff is
released to bring healing into your body. So I just
want to say to you that even though your manifestation
has not arrived on the three D plane of your life,
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you can choose to be happy. We know that sadness
and gloom and despair and all of that you've heard
me talk about is on those low levels, those low vibrations,
and so oh, look at all of the good that
is around you. Look at your children, look at your family.
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See it as see today as a day of new
possibilities for you to go after your dream, for you
to experience God. You know, just in a really big way,
all right, So I want you to get These are
some things I want you to do. I want you
to get in the habit of thinking happy thoughts. You know,
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when you wake up in the morning, that's when you
got to make a decision, because you can go to
bed happy, but then you wake up. It's something about
waking up in the morning, y'all. That's why you got
to prepare your yourself the night before. When I wake
up and put my feet on the floor and go
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and handle my business, I intentionally think grat thoughts of gratitude.
So get in the habits, get in the habit of
thinking happy thoughts, and be grateful every day. Do not complain.
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When you complain, you remain. Now. We are not in
denial about what your circumstances are. We're not focusing in
on them. They're over there staring at you now. But
you're making the decision. I'm one with God. I'm one
with a loving, giving spirit. I'm co creating with God.
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You're making a decision to move your attention away from
appearances and focus your attention on the truth. What is
the truth? The truth is within you. That's where your
attention is. Somebody said that your outside circumstances are a shadow.
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Why would you be afraid of a shadow. It's just
a reflection of what's going on on the end inside.
So can you find well being in this moment? We
know if you want to change anything, it's what moment
by MoMA. So in this moment you could think and
be happy. Wow, I got a bright future head. You
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don't have to know how. I'm kind of getting ahead
of myself. You don't have to know how, because we
know what. We're happy on purpose. We're happy on purpose.
You don't have to know how. Just know that it's coming.
I'm gonna say I'm gonna back a little bit. Don't
let the little thing steal your joy. You know, it's
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gonna always be something where where you can choose. It's
gonna always be traffic, maybe rude people, just people with attitude.
Stuff is gonna come up. You know. I got up
this morning and my water wasn't on, and I'm like,
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what's this? And then I went outside. I went to
my front door and there was a little thing hanging
on my door from the water company. And the first
thing I thought was, oh my God. And then I said,
constant did you pay your water bill. I'm like, I
know I did. And then I ran in the house
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and put on a joggingsuit, and I came outside and
I saw a man working on my water meter, and
he said, man, we're changing out the old water meters
for new ones. But can you see how in that
moment I allowed that thing hanging on my door and
my water not being on to steal my joy? So
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make a decision that you're not going to give your
jaw over to the small things to be upset and
frustrated about and all of that. You know, And as
I said earlier, you know when you were in a
vibration of happiness, y'all, it accelerates your manifestation, so you
can celebrate and be happy about all of the good
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that's in your life. Maybe you don't have that one
manifestation right now, but guess what if you focus in
on the goodness and small things. Your health, like I said,
your health, your family, that you are protective, the favor
of God. Can you breathe? You got breadth in your lungs?
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All of the above, y'all, This is the secret. The
more happy and thankful you are, the quicker stuff will
manifest in your life and all of that. I think
that you really need to move away from complainers, move away,
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stop spending your time with folk that drain you, and
listen to stuff that builds up your favor. You need
to listen to me. You can manifest. I talk one
day one Sunday on the sudden moves of God. You know,
as long as you clear about what you want and
your detection from the how and the wind, I'm gonna
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talk about that later on. God has a minion ways
to get your manifestation to you. You got to change
this whole mindset of why is it happening for everybody else?
Your manifestation is happening for you now, you know. That's
what I would say around that, And trust God that
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your steps are being guided. Even though it doesn't look perfect,
it doesn't feel perfect. Some of y'all are saying, when
God win, the universe is here to support you and
love you, but trust that the right timing. Sometimes I
tell people happiness comes from knowing. When you know my
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life is in God's hand, something good is on this way.
So today I'm just gonna let go of anything that's
weighing me down. I'm gonna realize that God is on
my side, Angels are working for me, light atoms are
on my side. Things are getting better and better for me.
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Things always work out for my highest good. I have
everything I need to be happy right now. Ooh that
is so good. I think I need to go to
commercial on that. I have everything that I need to
be happy right now. So can you understand the power
of choosing to be happy when right now and knowing
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that you are really expanding in your consciousness? You know,
I love what Peter Adams said. He said, Constance, you
never know when that big breakthrough is coming. He said,
you can go to bed one night without any idea
or inkling of what's gonna come to past, and when
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you wake up, your whole life has changed. So before
I go to break, I just want to say to you,
remember the power that you have to be to choose.
You can choose, Oh I'm gonna be happy. You can choose,
Oh I'm gonna be excited. You can choose. I'm expecting
like you do, like y'all know I do. For the
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UPS guy, for the for the fed Ex guy. It's
my birthday month. So every time the fed Ex guy
and us UPS guy comes in my neighborhood. My house
is on the corner. I'm looking expectantly. Is that for me?
And that's how you need to do? And I'm going
to come back and talk about trusting. But can you
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see how just by choosing to be happy even though
stuff has not manifested in your life, that would drastically
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How to be happy and trust God while you waiting
or while you're manifesting? All right, so part one before
the commercial was so good and I want you to
go back and listen to that, so I really emphasize
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being happy. So let's talk about trusting. How do you
trust the universe? How do you trust God while you're manifesting?
Or why are you waiting? And I just want to
make a couple of statements, so you're going to really
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I'm trying to decide where I want to start. I
think that you have to know that while you're waiting
for your manifestation to be downloaded on the three D
plane of your life, even though on the inside in
four and five D you know you already have it.
You got to believe that delay is not denial and
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that just because you haven't seen it on the three
D plane of your life. You know, somebody said manifestation
happens twice. It happens in your imagination, but then it happens,
you know, in your three D physical world. So just
because you don't see it yet in the on the
three D plane of your life doesn't mean that you
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don't have it. It doesn't mean that God isn't working.
And so I always say to my self, ye, because
I used to be so frustrated, I used to choose
to be frustrated. Remember, that's always a choice, and I
had to learn that many times, the perceived waiting season
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was really God behind the scenes, rearranging things on my behalf,
godlining up the right people, the right moments, the right breaks,
the right intros. But it was also me on the inside,
becoming the woman or the person that I needed to
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become to receive it. A great example of that, well,
you guys know my story of really manifesting millions and
then okay, I had it in my three D world,
but my consciousness, which I didn't know it at the time,
or my mindset, was still lack because I was just spending, spending, spending, spending.
I just told somebody, one of my clentiens, see, this
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is one reason why you need to coach with me,
because a coach can tell you in five minutes when
it took her five years. I told her, I said,
you're not spending money, You're circulating. That's a difference. When
you circulate, it comes back to you. I said, So
when you have a wealth consciousness, you circulate and you
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invest money because the hour or either return on investment
will come back to you. So when you buying your
new braids ladies, or your new wig or your new whatever,
you're not spending money. You're circulating that because what you
purchase will bring you joy, and in your joy, you
would be more creative. Okay, guys, when you buy your
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new electric bicycle. One of my neighbors just got an
electric bike and he's like, constant, you need to get one.
I'm like, no, thank you, I'd rather walk. And so
he's not spending money, he's circulating money. He's investing money.
Why because the ROI on that would be I'm investing
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money in my health. I'm investing money in my well being.
So we ain't spending money no more. We're circulating and investing.
I don't know how I got on that, but we
were talking about trusting the universe all right, so you're trusting.
You know, there's a verse in the Bible which was
my father's favorite verse. He said, trust the Lord with
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all of your heart, and don't leank to your own understanding.
And I think the paraphrase of that would be trust God,
trust the universe with all of your heart, all of
your being, and don't be limited by your three your
limited mind, by your three D mind, by your senses.
What you could fee see, feel, and experience what you've experienced,
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and you can't even limit it to your experiences because
all possibilities exist. And just because you have not experienced
something does not mean it doesn't exist. I just told
a client just because you never received or being in
a loving relationship does not mean that it's not possible.
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That possibility exists. So we're moving away from three D.
So how can you trust the universe or God? Why
you're waiting for your manifestation. I'm going to say that
you need to detach from the how and when? How
is it going to manifest? When is it going to manifest?
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Because your position is the what and the why? What
do you want? What do you want? And why do
you want? Why? Why do you want that new home.
What do you want? What do you want it to
look and feel like? Why do you want to be married?
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Why do you want to lose weight? So your position
is to define what is to what, and God or
the universe will handle the how and when. And I
think I'm going to talk about knowing and trusting on
a different level in a minute. But when you stop
trying to control the exact timing, and I'm going back
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to me. I had to learn how to be a
good steward over money. So the second time my blessing came,
I had changed my mindset. My identity had changed, so
the way I handle money received money change. So sometimes
if something ain't showed up, it's a development of your character,
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it's a getting ready for it, it's a developing your mindset.
So when you stop trying to control the exact timing
or method, I love that the method. Okay, everybody need
to journal. No, maybe you don't vibe with journaling. Maybe
that's not you. Everybody need to script, everybody need to
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do a guided meditation. No, maybe you are better at
just listening to theata music and visualizing that way. So
take the restrictions off. So stop trying to control the
exact timing, and you create a space for the universe
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to really deliver it in ways that you never imagine.
God wants to surprise. You take the limits off. You
know you're detaching from how it's gonna come. And so
I always tell people when it ain't happening like you
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wanted to, or when you wanted to. I always tell
my clients this or something better is coming, Thank you God,
this or something better is coming. I also have them
to say, I don't need to know every step, for
it is the work of the spirit. I just need
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to know what my next step should be. Ooh, that's juicy,
all right. So we know delay is not denial. And
I'm gonna say when you know that, it keeps you
in a parture of faith and not frustrated. You're not saying, well,
I'm just disappointment, disappointed conscience. I thought by now I
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would have. But I think that when you're in faith,
or when you're in belief, you can begin to think
those happy thoughts of you know something, my time is coming.
God is on my side, Angels are with me. Whatever
you whatever you feel like, vies with you. So you're
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going to begin to say that Another big point about
trusting is to shift from neediness, Oh my god, when
to certainty because manifestation is less about wanting and desiring
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and wishing and hoping, but it's more about believing. And
I'm going to say it's more about knowing when you trust.
When you know something, you can trust it. And you know,
doctor Nicole and Professor Michael Sebastian, you know, they talked
about knowing is the most powerful thing. When you know something,
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you can trust it. When you know something, you can
sit back and relax in it. And so when you
know that whatever you wrote down for twenty twenty five,
that it is the will of God that the universe
wants you to have, have it. You know, the Bible
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talks about and you've heard me say, what would make
your joyful? When you know that you can sit back
and relax. My good is gonna find me. It's on
this way. You can be grateful for it. You could
thank God for it, thank the universe in advance when
you know you are loved. So I had a client
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just the other day and she was saying, well, I
just feel like by now, maybe it's my face, maybe
it's this, and I told her, I said, you just
need to know two things. Number One, you need to
know that even when you don't have the faith, you
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can trust in the faith of God. I ask her,
does God have all the faith? Yes? Can God believe
for anything? Yet I'm paraframe. There's a verse in the Bible.
It says to put your trust in the faith of God.
So it might look like this with God. You know
right now I'm tripping. I don't really you know, help
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my unbelief. I don't really have it all, but I
know you do, and I'm putting my faith. I'm looking
at you, co creating with you in the faith of God.
The second thing I said is the only other thing
you need to know. We're talking about certainty and knowing.
When you know something, you can rest in it if
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you know your love. So putting your attention and your
faith in okay, the unconditional love of God, unconditional love
of the universe, that the entire universe is conspiring, is helping,
it's supporting. It's a conspiracy, y'all, trying to get your
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highest good to you. And so love, what does love do?
Love wants to give, Love wants to support, Love wants
to help and deliver. So if all you know in
this manifestation period is I'm putting my faith in the
God of the universe because he or she it knows
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all things, and I'm trusting that the love of the Universe,
the love of God, the love of Ohba Father is giving, supporting, soothing,
wooing and helping me. And if those are the only
things that can get you into a place of knowing,
I would say do that. Another thing that you can
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do in learning to trust is, of course I already
talked about just being grateful and becoming emotionally aligned with
So let's just say that if you desired love, it
hadn't shown up. What are some small things that did
show up for you this year. Let's be great for those.
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Let's get excited about that. Let's get some peace around that.
And when something small shows up, you know. Florence Scovershin
says that that this lady was praying for some China
and somebody sent her via mail back in the day,
because Florence show Skovshin was back in the eighteen hundreds
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eighteen ninety something, so somebody sent her client a cracked
plate via mail, and she went to Florence, and she said,
I didn't pray for this, And Florence said to her,
I'm paraphrasing, girlfriend, your cracked plate is a sign that
your china is on the way. And of course she
received that. So my question to you is what has
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shown up in your life this year that would give
you peace, that would give you confidence. What small signs
have shown up, like random opportunities, intuitive nudgets from the spirit.
Has any form of abundance showed up? You know, my
clients have just showed up and showed out for my birthday. Man,
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I have received all kinds of wonderful, juicy surprises from
all over the world. And so what does that do
that increases my confidence? Oh? God, I'm really I'm really
doing what you call me to do. So really, it's
celebrating the small signs that really build patience and trust.
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And it helps you to stay in that vibration of happiness.
It helps you to trust God's timing, It helps you
to stay in that vibration of gratitude. And I'm gonna
say expectancy, because when you know something, you're expecting for
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something to change, you're looking, uh, I know it's coming.
You know like the kids are not getting excited for Christmas.
I think that speaking of expectation, if you can begin
to expect God's goodness every day, expect favor, expect for
open doors to happen, expect answers to your prayers. Even
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when you're waiting, you still can choose hope and live
in expectancy. Can you see that? So when you expect favor,
let's just say you desired for a new relationship, but
you expect the favor on your job and you get it.
That gives you the confidence, It gives you the patience,
and it gives you the hope that what you desire
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you already have it in four and five D is
own its way. And I'm going to say this, if
you know you have something, really you don't have to
really see it in three D. If you know you
have it, but that's another whole whole thing, then I'm
not going to get into So people say, well, if
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it hasn't shown up your concerts, that means I need
to do something. I need to do something to make
it show up. And I'm going to say you need
to be something. And somebody said, it's not another thing
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that you should do. It's another thing that you should know.
So what do I mean by that you should know
that you know? As I said earlier that when you
in the Bible, it says first to seed, then the blade,
then the full ear of corn. So if for decades
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you have been thinking, you know, relationships are right, there
are no good men out there. No, it's only gold
diggers out there. If you've been thinking that, it probably
the probably has been or is being, a reconditioning, a
reprogramming of your mind. So I believe in the spiritual
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realm it's only when we are ready to receive, and
it may be healing your stuff, changing your mindset, knowing
how to be a good steward over it might be
all of those things. And so it's a knowing and
a patience that I can trust this. I can trust this,
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I can trust the universe that waiting isn't punishment is preparation.
Oh that's good. Waiting isn't punishment, is preparation. And sometimes
God is just rearranging circumstances, aligning you with the right mindset,
like I said, strengthening of your self esteem, your self concept,
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your mindset, removing from you stuff that needs to be
released building a strong inner foundation. So see, we don't
see that as manifestation. We're just looking for the thing.
How much have you grown? How much has your character change?
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How has your mind, your mindset change, all of the above.
So we're being happy, as I said at the beginning
of the show, but we are also trusting. You can
trust that love not gonna not gonna hold your good back.
That's a verse in the Bible says, no good thing
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where God would hold from the upright? Are you the upright? Yes?
Are you an air of God? Absolutely? Would you hold
back good from your children? No? And so you see
the power of trusting. So it's a knowing and a
relig and so many people are trying to take action.
It ain't inspired action. Inspired action is in spirit. Whenever
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you act, it should come from a place of knowing.
I believe, after all of these years as a certified
a dream coach and law of attraction coach, that sometimes
you just wait and you marinate in and you saturate
in that knowing of abundance, and then from that place
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one day you take inspired action. I think you need
to become pregnant with the idea embody the idea become
married to emerged into that desire that you have. I
think it was Greg Braden who said, when emotions and
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images marry, watch out for the marrec So this has
been so good, So we're focusing in all the good
that we already have. You know, when you focus in
on that and you are grateful, that puts you in
the receiving mode. When you are not trusting, or when
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you are not in happiness, you're not in the receiving mode.
So it raises your vibration and it helps you to
really see of God working through you with his favor, mercy, goodness.
Have doors been open for you? Have opportunities showed up
in your life. So instead of focusing in on what
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you're miss missing, you focus your attention on the present moment.
And y'all, it is only in this present moment, this moment,
then the next moment. It is only in the present
moment that things change. Are you become a magnet that's
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powerful positioning magnetism that you vibe in in this moment
you know I'm blessed. Next moment, you know I'm prosperous.
Next moment you know I'm wealthy. So if you do that.
Moment by moment, you are expanding your consciousness. This is
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so good. I have taught powerful today. I'm going to
listen to this. You know a lot of times when
I record and I go back and listen, because I'm
teaching you about the spirit, I'm like, wow, did I
say that? So this is just a little affirmation God
or Universe. I release the how and when I trust
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the timing of my life, I trust God. What's meant
for me is for me and is already moving towards me.
And I'm becoming the person who's ready to receive WHOA
That is so good? How to choose to be happy
(53:07):
and trust while I'm manifesting. Well, guys, this has been
so good. As I said earlier, I would love to
coach with you. You see the wisdom that's on the
inside of me. My clients get all of this juicy stuff,
all of this juicy info, all this juicy revelation that
(53:28):
they can implement in their lives. And as I said
in Part one, I now have my by now pay
later packages available to you. All you need to do
is make a decision. I am ready and my clients
are manifesting like unbelievable stuff. I mean when they text
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me or when we have our session, their manifestations increase
my faith. I'm like, what, But I'm not surprised because
I have a guarantee. If you coach with me for
a year parentheses and you're willing to do the interrept work,
you won't recognize the landscape of your life. So if
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you're ready to quit talking about it and be about it,
let's do a coaching discovery car. You can email me
constants at Fulfilling youourpurpose dot com. But if you already know, okay,
I just got to talking about knowing, right if there's
a certainty on the inside of me. I had one
lady she watched me on YouTube and I said, how
(54:35):
long you been listening to me? She said one day?
I said one day. She said yeah, but I knew
when I saw you. The spirit said to me, she's
the one. So when people say to me, well, I
just got to pray about it. Usually that's about money.
(54:55):
Let when she said you the one, how does she
know that that was a certainty and there was a
knowing on the inside of her. It's called a divine connection,
divine hookup. So email me Constance at Fulfillingourpurpose dot Com.
I want you to know this week how loved you are,
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how powerful you are, how the entire universe is conspiring.
It's on tiptoe. It's waiting for you to change your thinking.
The entire universe is waiting for you to know. You
got angels waiting, You got invisible forces, you got your ancestors,
You have that invisible force waiting to empower you. All
(55:39):
of the light Adams in the universe are waiting just
for you to send out a signal up. This is
who I am and this is what I want. So everybody,
this is Constance Arnloone want you to enjoy your holiday
and always remember this that you are the creator, editor,
scriptwrit and producer of your own life. God has given
(56:03):
you the power and authority choose it. Have great week, everybody.
Speaker 1 (56:10):
Thank you for listening to think, believe, and manifest. Constance
Arnold will be back next week with another great show
just for you. For more information, please visit Fulfillingourpurpose dot
com
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