(Thurs Full Show) Amy Shares A Big Update In Her Personal Life + Does Ray Finally Reveal The Country Music Secret He Shared A Year Ago? + Who Had An Awkward Situation With Another Driver In A Parking Lot?

Today on the show, Amy felt ready to share some very personal and difficult news happening in her personal life... Then, a year ago, Ray shared in his Country Music Secret that a country music couple was getting divorced, find out if he finally reveals it! Plus, someone on the show had an awkward situation with a starnger in the parking lot that got the entire show in a debate. Hear what it is!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
Come on, Welcome to Thursday Show Morning Studio Morning. Alright,
let's go around the room. Oh wait, thank you for
being here. You could be anywhere in the whole wide world,
but you here with us and we appreciate that. And

(00:22):
let's first go over to this guy. He's known for
editing video for our show when we talk, but his
favorite thing to do might be spilling the tea on
lunchbox like that. Here he is producer. Ready, guys, I'm
an idiot. I'm an idiot. So when I go to
the grocery store, I like wearing I like wearing headphones
and listen to music while I shop. Well, I couldn't
find my headphones, so I borrowed my son's air pods.

(00:43):
I've never used air pods. I put them in. I
get my shopping car. I turned my music on and
I can hear the music, but it's kind of faint.
I'm thinking, like, my kids are so dumb, like they're
there skiers are dirty or something, because these things really
aren't working that well. But I turned it up all
the way. I can hear a little bit. So I shop.
People are staring at me and I'm just like, I
don't know what they're looking at. I get to the
counter to check out, and the lady goes, can you

(01:05):
please turn your music down? And I'm like, what are
you talking? I take my ear pads out and like
they weren't even connected. I was playing music from my
phone super loud across the horror rosery store. That's an
old thing, like an idiot, Yeah, that's an old thing.
Have you done that before? No, but I've seen like
eighty year olds to do it on the airplane when
they can't figure out how to do their bluetooth. I'm

(01:25):
so dumb. Are you listening to remember? Like? Also, I dude,
I was like, I went shopping for thirty minutes. No
one said turn that off except the lady at the checker,
and you saw people looking at you. I'm just like, okay,
does he know what's happening? But Eddie was like, people
are so mean to me now on the roads, Like
what do you mean? He goes, nobody'll let me in?
Turn out his blinker was broken. Oh crap, I'm getting old.

(01:47):
I'm doing all the old all that stuff all right. Next,
whereas confidence comes from remains uncertain and you never know
what each day we'll bring with this next person here.
He is Lunchbox. Everybody, let me tell you something that sucks.
The glass Onion, the follow up to Knives Out. It's
so stupid, Like Knives Out was overrated when it came out. Oh,

(02:10):
it's like it was so high, Tuck, it's gonna be
so amazing. Went to it in the theater with my
mom and my wife and we're like, oh, that's fine.
So glass Onions out. Oh, let me check it out.
It's on Netflix. Let me check it out. I started
out pretty good. Then it just got so dumb. Movie
or movie. Oh it is, it's just the movie movie Mike,
did you watch this movie? Oh? Do you think Lunchbox

(02:30):
is wrong? I think lead Clock is wrong. He doesn't
like anything that has any kind of imagination to it
if it's not completely grounded in reality. He doesn't like
it if it's not on the nose. So you have
to figure it. Yeah. I can't figure it out. No, no, no.
I like the mystery part of it, but then the
ending is just oh, don't talk about ending. Don't even
allude to anything happening in the end. You know, I'm
saying the first half, the first half, the mystery part

(02:51):
is great. No ending talk because Amy doses too and
she'll accidentally spoil something. Eddie, you see it. I didn't
finish it. I watched about half of it and then
kind of on there went back. You like it? No,
I just wasn't interested. Again, it's just whatever. It was fine.
The first one was great, though. Did you guys finished
the last of us? Never started it for Forest and
my brother tell me it's great. Yeah, I'm not gonna
say anything about it, but it's over now run the

(03:14):
whole series. Yeah, I'm probably gonna. So you think it's
better than The Glass Onion. I haven't seen The Glass Onion.
That's the TV show versus a movie, so just different. No,
you're saying overrated? What do you give it? One and
a half islands out of five? Right? She has spelled
victim to multiple scamml arts throughout the years, but this
has ultimately led to many learning lessons for her peers.
Here it is, I went wild with magic eraser around

(03:39):
my house. Have you ever used one of those? I
don't know what it is. Okay, it's got mister Clean
on the front. You can buy them in a four pack,
and I bought a four pack in thought, oh, this
is gonna last me, you know, six months. I went
through the four pack in one day. What do you do?
You can? I? I have a lot of white walls,
and there's scuff marks everywhere on in the doorways, you know,
when kids are caring backpacks or shoes or different things

(04:01):
that run up against the wall, or you have pets.
And I didn't realize how many marks we're all over
my walls. And I mean, once you see one, you
clean it, and then you see another and you go
clean it, and then you go see another, and another
and another, and the next thing you know, you're all
around your house cleaning up every skub mark everywhere. And
it's addicting and amazing. And I need to go get
another four pack. You sound, And is it called magic eraser? Yeah,

(04:25):
it's awesome. But here's the truth, guys, it's really so
abrasive that it's just taking off whatever's on there's so
it's the wall, You're taking off the pain, that's what
it's doing. Oh yeah, oh yeah, but my walls look fine.
Sounds like you had a bad experience. No, I just
figured out because I'm like the first ten times, like
this is magic? Oh crazy? And then I read more
about it. I'm like, oh, it's literally taking the stuff
off like acidic or like sandpaper, Like it's so soft,

(04:47):
it feels soft of whatever combination. I had to put
a glove on. And he's like, no, no, it's all good,
except that it burns my skin. Yeah, it's scraping stuff off.
So but you like it magic eraser. Yeah. And then
I have this white coffee table. I got stuff off
at that. I mean, you could listen. It's addicting. We're listening.
Oh yeah, it says magic eraser is a high grit

(05:10):
sand paper. Yeah. Man, it's just scraping off whatever. So
the table you're taking off all the enamel on it. Fine.
My teeth right from Mount Pine in Arkansas. He loves
wearing Arkansas red and after games it's hard for him
to go to bed. Bobby Bones, thank you. Okay, here's
the update on Stanley and his two surgeries, because that's

(05:31):
something to say about it. Both his legs have had
torn acl ligaments, and his knee. The other one he's
ninety percent back, the one from sixty months ago, the
other one from like a month ago. He's doing okay.
But did you know there's dog rehab. We happen to
have one half mile from our house and never heard
of such thing. We were looking up dog rehab like
things that we could do to him, like from YouTube

(05:54):
to get the his just surgically repaired leg kind of
more range emotion. And there's a dog rehab like physical therapist. Yes,
not for drugs. He's good, he's not. So we call
him and they say, well, he has to be. We
called him like as soon as surgery was over, so
he has to be like a month out. So we
finally took him in. They have dog underwater treadmills like

(06:17):
you see athletes doing. Oh wow. We took him in.
He did this little like obstacle ladder, of course, to
see if he could lift the leg up enough. And
I asked the guy, I said, how did you get
into this like dog rehab? I've never heard of it.
And he used to work in sports medicine for humans.
Do you get banned from me? No? He was like,
I don't like working with athletes anymore. They were too whiny.
That makes sense. So then he then he started stuff

(06:38):
and now does animals. Wow. Never heard of such a thing.
They also said, and I kid you not that Stanley
was the best behaved bulldogs they've ever had as far
as bulldogs go. You sure, they'll tell you. I'm not
sure that any But he rolled over on his side.
They were like, we can't get bulldogs rolled over on
their side because he has to do like muscle like
feel his muscles. And Stanley was like, oh, he just
laid over and let him do it. And he was like,

(06:59):
we've never had bull dog I do this before. It
seems like being all good and stuff, which kind of
irritating me because I went in. I was like, he's
kind of how to control sometimes and Stanley was like minding,
and they be now I can teach. I've told him
how to like speak, and he'd be like, he's like
doing all the tricks. Like she was like showing off,
but he's on the road to recovery. But more so,

(07:20):
I didn't know there was dog rehab places, and there's
one right down the road from my house. It serves
like three different things. There's also a vet in there,
and maybe it's like Uber Eats where they go for
Johnny Supreme pizza, but it's really a gas station that
makes pizza. They name it something Yeah, I don't. I
don't think that's it, but it's pretty cool. So if
you have a dog that's been injured, I have a

(07:41):
dog rehabbing your town. No idea. All right, that's it,
thank you. It's time for the mail bag something Ye hello,
Bobby Bones, I heard you talking about something similar to
what's happening. But my daughter's little older. She has our
first real boyfriend. She's fifteen, he's sixteen. He comes to

(08:04):
our house a couple times a week after school. My husband,
her stepdad, works from home and is around them more
than I am. They cuddle on the couch while watching TV,
and my husband makes comments to me about how it
makes him feel uncomfortable. Again, she's fifteen, he's sixteen. I
feel like it's innocent and they're just being teenagers. I've
tried to explain to my daughter how it makes my

(08:24):
husband feel, but she just replies that they're not do
anything wrong. Any advice and had a smooth the situation over, sincerely, Mom,
caught in the middle, Yeah, this is easy. Tell him
to go to her room and shut the door. You
want to go, amy, you have a fifteen year old daughter.
Oh yeah, I'm trying to picture her cuddling on the

(08:46):
couch with somebody, and I'll be like, okay, she did
about part. Those seems weird though too. You just thought
him cuddle. Oh but I have friends in junior high
high school with their parents. Were the stuff they did
in front of their parents, like, ah, it was crazy.
I guess I never had a girlfriend, so that's why
it seems so foreign, But I would I can't imagine
cuddling or right, I guess just having a girl like

(09:07):
me then yeah, I mean when you made that joke
about some of the room or whatever, like I'm like, oh, yeah,
I knew parents like that, which is wild to me.
But I guess I would just say hey, like see,
I feel like if you're like no cuddling, then it
makes them want to cuddle more. So somehow they need
to have like like cuddling before it's boundary type, how

(09:31):
can you cuddle it from far away? If it's really
about the stepdad, you're just gonna make sure he's not
around when they do it. Now, it sounds like she's
fine with it, and if the mom's fine with it,
and even the step dad's fine with it, but he's
uncomfortable seeing it, then you just got to separate those two.
And if he's there, you can't do it the end
or it makes him feel bad. And if he's not,
you guys cuddle away. But I wouldn't say it like that,
like cuddle away, because then that means that's a green light.

(09:53):
That's the end. I mean, you get to do more
than cuddle. But if it's about making the stepdad not
feel uncomfortable, then they just can't do that. That's the rule.
It's the house, it's the adults house, So don't cuddle
like that. You can sit by each other, but there's
no cuddling while he's there in the house. I know
it works from home, but he don't want to see that.
Or if he's in his room when that door opens
and he comes out, get away from each other. So

(10:14):
stepdad needs to say something like hey, separate, separate. No,
he shouldn't be putting that place because then he's you're
making him the bad guy. But it is his house
and he's the one there. Yeah, but he doesn't deserve
to be the bad guy. Sure, because he feels uncomfortable.
It's his house. That's why something in your house, if
it makes you feel comfortable, you just stop it. You
own the house, So what do you do? Separate? I'm

(10:35):
gonna don't make me put a board between you, guys.
I just walked by everything with not no cuddling. Stop that.
Then three strikes in their out. They can't cuddle at
all anymore. That's true if he sees it three times.
But make it fun. Don't be mean about it, because
then they're just gonna go somewhere else and cuddle. Make
it fun. How do you make it fun? Hey? Guys? Separate? Ye?
You can't do the separate thing. No, because again you're

(10:58):
making the stepdad be the bad guy constantly, and you're
making him have to police it when he didn't do
anything wrong. He just feels uncomfortable. You have to police it.
The mom in place it for him. If he's there
in the house or clothes, you can't cuddle, just sit
by each other, it's mom. Yeah, okay, you're the one
letting him do it. You also got to be the
person to go, hey, don't do that while he's there.
If you want to cuddle, that's fine, but you can't
do it while he's there. It makes them uncomfortable. This

(11:19):
is his home. He shouldn't feel comfortable in his own home.
You know what I mean. I see what you're saying.
Thank you come up from person has no kids by
the way, right, yeaparate. I just don't want to make
him the bad guy, and that kid the six year
would always be scared of him because he only knows
him as the person that's coming in making them separate,
Like he's always the bad guy. Man. One time I
went to my girlfriend's house. We were in high school,

(11:41):
and we were in the room and I was just
like braiding her hair, you know, and the day walk
dad walking. He just stared at me for like five minutes.
I'm like, Okay, I'm gonna leave. I think he was like,
how do you know how to break her hair? No,
he was gonna kill me. Does that stand for something else?
Know how to braid hair? In there? Okay, thank you Morgan.

(12:02):
If someone wants to reach out to us and send
an email into the mailbag, what do they do? Mailbag
at bobbybones dot com? You go close it up? And
I was abound to close bobbymailage on phone. Let's go
to Carol in Massachusetts. Carol, what's going on? So I
just wanted to call um last week you were doing

(12:24):
a segment that was like good Decision Week or whatever.
I think it fizzled out a little bit towards the end,
but it prompted me to call you because I bought
and read both of your books, and because of those
I was able to lose fifty pounds from exercising every

(12:46):
day and just changing some lifestyles. And I changed jobs
because I wasn't being valued at my other jobs. And
just because of reading your books and listening to your
show and the positivity that the studio brings, I was
able to just kind of see my own self worth.

(13:06):
So I caused to thank you all for that. Well,
that's very kind of you to say, you know, I
wrote those books, and I was just kind of like, hey,
this is how lost I felt, how lost I didn't
know I was. Where I kind of discovered my value,
and also where it's also like I don't really know
still sometimes my value, so you never quite figure it out.
But yeah, the Week of good Decisions, I gotta say it,

(13:27):
last week, guys ended up pretty good. Good. I did
a whole week of good decisions. Oh good decision. I
just try to get myself back on track, meaning sleep,
meaning nutrients, eating nutrients, not just crap because I'm in
a hurry, meaning relationship wise. And so when someone goes
my new Year's resolution is this, I ain't never gonna work.

(13:48):
It's fun to just say, but you can't look at
it macro like macro goals don't work, like large goals
don't work unless you have micro solutions, which aren't fun.
No one wants to hear the tiny things. But you
can't do anything big. If you don't do the small things,

(14:09):
you know you can't play. You can't go start at
quarterback in the game. If you don't practice, well, you're like, well,
i'll play under the lights. We'll show me you can
play in the daytime, the three pm we're practicing. So
the same situation. My goals that I set that are
big are really just a lot of ladder rungs that
I'm climbing up to get up there, And you got
to hit every one of those. When I run. When
I would run, I was training for Trafflons. I hated it.

(14:31):
I could not run the ten miles if I just go,
go, go go run ten miles, let's go. But I can
run to that tree up there. I could run to
that tree, pass that tree. I could run to that
tree and next thing you know, I'm three miles in
and I'm like, oh, I can do this. And so
you don't like to feel that my books are very
practically written. I'm not gonna win any Peabody or Peltzer. Yeah,
I'm not sure which one in the book plays. I

(14:52):
think the Pulitzer might actually win the Pltzer. But I
appreciate that, Carol. I think we know, we try to
be honest, and some days are good, some day aren't.
And you know, I did a week er good decisions
and oh good decision got myself back on track for
this week, and I hope you're doing the same. I'm
glad to hear that you've decided to live a healthier lifestyle.

(15:12):
If that's what you're up for, and go get it, attack,
go get it. Sometimes you'll have a setback, but that's okay,
you know. Yeah, thank you very much. I do appreciate
you all, just your honesty and with your relationships and
parenting and all of it. It's just helpful and it's
and more thankful for that. Carol, you have a great day.
We really appreciate your listening. Calling appreciate it. Thank you.

(15:35):
But I'll say this week, though I don't have it
calendared in, is a week or good decision? Oh, good decision.
I made a couple of bad ones. I'll try to
pop this it on my head way before it was
Is it bad decision? You shouldn't try to pop it
before as ready because then it's just hurts. Yeah, and
I feel like it's a second head coming off, but
nobody else can't even see it, not at all. Yeah,

(15:57):
I hate to have banks, but you're right. My hair
is so long now, so it's like a weak and
medium decisions good, So I appreciate that call always. Thank you, guys.
It's time for the good news. There's a nonprofit in
Virginia Beach called Connect with a Wish, and what they're
doing for girls to help them get ready for prom

(16:19):
is super cool. Girls age fifteen and older that are
in foster care get a personal shopper and they go
around this room where all these hundreds and hundreds of
donated dresses are and they get to pick out dress, shoes, purse, jewelry.
They have their hair and makeup done. This isn't even
the day of prom. This is just for them to
feel special and look good and know that this is

(16:40):
what they get to look like when they do go
to a dance. They even have a professional photographer there
to take their photo, and then the girls get to
keep their dress if they end up attending a dance,
and if they do that, they'll also get cash so
that they can get their hair and makeup done the
day of and go out to dinner. I want to
go to that. Yeah, that's full great. I just feel
like that's next level. It's not like just girls walking

(17:00):
in and picking out a dress, which is amazing too,
because that's something that they may not otherwise get, but
they just took it next level. Yeah, I want to
go to that. That sounds good. Hey, that's awesome. All
those people to donate their time and their money to
make people feel special, that is what it's all about.
That was tell me something good. I mean, this is
as they would say, savage parenting by Amy. Oh it's hilarious.

(17:25):
But also my wife could do this to me and
I would be like, dang, that sucks, So tell them
what you did today? Well, so I had to gather
all the remotes because I have heard when I because
I'm already at work when you mean controllers, Yeah, it's
called a controller, not a remote. Always took a remote too,
So he took TV remotes and the controller. Yeah stuff,

(17:48):
whatever controls the PS four, whatever controls the TV and
the little place the game like a game boy. But
the what is that called PlayStation? No, no, it's called
a home you've got it for him? Oh yeah, yeah,
I got it whatever that is. Yes, you actually bought
him all of these things. But at the time, he
was a great idea and the Okay, so I hear

(18:10):
that getting ready for work is like or school has
been a challenge, like he's getting on the game. And
so I was like, okay, well I'm gonna nip this
in the bud. So when I left for work, I
gathered everything. So, yeah, he's she came to work with
his controllers, the TV remotes, she's got it all here.
You're all in the front seat of my car. Everything,

(18:31):
And I mean, and I did it. It was sort
of like, uh, I've just I just was so frustrated
when I heard that, because we've had so many talks
of like, hey, dude, you have to turn your lights
off in your room, you have to get ready for school,
you have to make your lunch. There's all these things
on a checklist that must be done before we even
turn anything on. Hilarious, but I would hate it if

(18:53):
it were me because that's that could be used against
me right now too. Yeah I could. She could totally
take away your controllers. Yeah, she would just take the
whole system. Then what does she run out of town
and took her controllers with you? I go buy new ones? Well,
I would go immediately buy new ones, and then then
what I would do is I would hide and get
other new ones and hide them in the house so
when she did it the next time, I'd have a backout.
That's so smart. Yeah, funny you say that, because that's
thought about the dramatic unplugging like this. He wasn't present

(19:17):
for it. Let even take the cable, which is even
harder to replaces with the controller the cable. I shouldn't
tell you this, No, I've already I have enough um
Ways tools in my toolbox to calm down. So I'm
not going to do that because I don't want to
cause therapy later in life. Of like one time different
to every controller remote from the in front of his face.

(19:38):
But no, no, not from his face either. You just
pulled that cable out the plugs from the machine, from
the box to the plug, and it's like, I have
the cable, so well, this is where I'm sharing with
you that there's been times in the moment where I've
been in it's been a thing and I'm about to
walk over and just unplug everything. And so no, I
don't thought about it, slam it, pick it up, slamming. Nope,
thought about that. Get a fake one that's broken, that's

(20:00):
not cheap and mighty. You walk in, You're like, I
am tied, and you take that fake one, you smash
it and then you start kicking it and then you
pee on it, and then you're like, if you want,
these are the things they will remember and it's not.
That's not the healthier. Yeah, I remember that. That's cool,
and I remember that in a good way. Like I
ain't ever messing with her again. She just beat on
my system. Now, I calmly say, hey, we can play

(20:23):
video games, but we turn off our lights before. So
did they know you took everything? Yeah? Or are they
just finding out like right now listening, which I don't
think they are, but I mean, no, A good parent,
bad parent, amazing parent. I love it. Latch Great Parents.

(20:43):
I think it's hilarious. I think it's hilarious too. I
don't like it because I could happen to me. Right correct,
he's probably a walking all around the health right now,
he's probably flipping the couch cushion more time though. Right
now he's like scratching himself. Yes withdrawals, Yes, going through it. Okay,
good parent, a good parents, Amy, you're officially a good parent.
Good job, good parents of the day. What'd you watch?

(21:09):
MG three seventy The plane that disappeared on Netflix? Was
it the Malaysian flight where they just don't know where
it went yet at all? They have There's so many
theories out there, And here's what I thought. I thought
when I watched it. It's a three part docuseries, and
I thought, Okay, we're gonna get some answers, but well,
don't spoil it though it Is this a spoiler where
there's no answer? Maybe? Maybe not? Well, I think if

(21:30):
there were answers that we'd know from the news, right, yeah, Okay,
set us back on what happened, because what I remember
is there's this flight and they were flying over a
lot of ocean. Yeah, and then it was just gone.
So they took off from Malaysia at midnight or one
am or something, and then they were supposed to land,
I don't know, somewhere in China, like six am. A
lot of that is over the water, big commercial flight too, right,

(21:51):
like like hundreds of people, two hundred and thirty nine
or something like that. And at some point over the water,
not too long after they took off, the pilots sign
off from communication because that's what you do, I guess
in the middle of the night, and so you hear
the pilot. It's like TV in the seventies. They played
the national anthem and then just shuts off your radar

(22:12):
and everything still supposed to be on, but I guess
you are like, Okay, good night, and that's the last
thing you hear the pilots say is good night. And
then suddenly they disappear off the radar and that should
not happen, Like there's no that they've never experienced anything
like that. So the Malaysian like air control, all the
people in charge of the airport, they get calls in
the middle of the night. They go up to the airport.
Everyone's confused, try and figure out what happened. And yeah,

(22:35):
it's wild to think that these families just lost all
their loved ones on that plane and they still don't
have answers. Two things I want to say. Number one
is Eddie and I are flying to De Moine later
to watch Arkasa basketball. I don't like here on plane
crash stories whenever I'm about to fly on a plane. Yeah,
the thing is, how do you know it crashed? I
don't or planes disappearing. I don't want to be on
De Moines flight one one one and all of a

(22:57):
sudden we're gone. I don't want to disappear either. So
that's one. Two is that show where the plane disappears.
Think shows up ten years later in manifests, like what
if that plane just all of a sudden came back
in five years and I'll like, they're like, oh we're back.
That's a good and we're all older and they still
think it was their six hour flight? Do they think

(23:18):
that whether aliens? Like, what's the theories here? I've seen
so many conspiracy theories on this. What's the big theory?
I don't recall whether or ailing aliens one of the
big theories was that there was something on that plane
or cargo being delivered somewhere, and someone didn't let that happening.
And so take with you one from that, which seems

(23:40):
really really scary because you have all these innocent people
are just trying to I mean, there was mother's children,
like it's so they some of the family members were
a part of the documentary and it's just so terrible,
Like this one man, I felt so bad his wife
and children on the plane and he was supposed to
meet up with them at the next stop and then
they were all gonna be flying together and they just
never arrived. And then the ocean is so big you

(24:02):
can't find it. Then if that's what happened or anything,
like all the seats float right, but it's the ocean, bro,
I know, really big. Yeah, they find any pirates out
there and sailors and stuff, popeye, No one's finding a chair. Well.
This one woman that is photographer, that is she said
she has a really good eye for things. She pho
the really good eye. But she volunteered. You know how

(24:24):
people on the internet, what are they called them? They
volunteered to solve crimes. The idiots go ahead, I don't know,
so she joyed like there was all these little bubbles
of people across the world that we're rallying together online
to try to solve this mystery. And she claims to
have found parts in the water that look like it,
but from pictures like satellite images, yes, satellite zoom in. No,

(24:46):
she feels like she found very specific parts of the plane.
But then again, she said she really couldn't get anybody
to listen to her to go check it out because
she's whack a dooodle. I don't know, she's s pretty,
the plane floating nice anyway. I think officials, unless officials
were involved in it, okay, but that's the thing. At
the press conferences and different things, families were like, what
you're saying is not making sense, and also you're not

(25:07):
telling us anything, and why does this steel value? To me?
Feels like here's what the order. I rate them with
absolutely no knowledge on the subject, so totally dumb dumb.
Here one, the government did not want something going from
A to B. So you know the government does a
shoot it down, B blow it up. That's one two aliens? Wow,
aliens is a two three grab bag? Could be anything else?

(25:30):
Is that documentary is a good. It's pretty good. I
had it. I went on while I was like cleaning
and doing things. It kept me entertained. But then my
son walked in and was like, what's this. I'm like, no,
because I do not want him to be scared to fly.
I'm scared. We're going to Iowa today. Huh. Well I
fly with him this weekend and I had to like
slam my computer down. Nothing to see here, kids, that

(25:52):
would scare him. Yeah. I could see us being on
the plane and then him being like, what's going to happen?
Is this playing going to disappear? Are we okay? Because
he already thinks at the end of the world's happening
or something. This thing where he saw on TV, like
the news, and so he thought someone's like coming too
the house or oh there's been lots of things, so oh,
it's so common that it could be one of ten things. Yeah,
he's a he's his brain is always on high alert,

(26:12):
which I think is just some of his trauma, like
living in fight flight free. So we try to, you know,
make sure we do our best to keep him like
I think that Russia's gonna bomb us or something as well.
Oh yeah, that's one of them. Yeah, I mean one
of them. Oh no, he thinks we're going into World
War three? Yes, no, I mean there's I probably only
shared a couple with y'all, but in my mind, I'm like, well,
there's every day we're kind of dealing with a new
potential tragedy. Ah. I deals with the same thing with me, honesty.

(26:35):
I mean really it is very similar. Yeah. Yeah. Here
are your top three songs in country music. At number three,
Laney Wilson Heart Like a Truck, I Got a Hard
At number two, Bailey Zimmerman Rock and a Hard Place
between a Rock And that's a good one. Huh oh yeah,

(27:00):
like I out of Nowhere, Out of Nowhere, that song
is like, hey, that's good. Number one. Luke Hombs going
Going Gone. So here's this. I'm gonna play the number
one alternative song and it's from Lincoln Park. But it
has Chester Bennington singing, oh wow, who died? Do you
remember him dying? Or no? Not really refreshment. Well, there

(27:23):
are two leads of Lincoln Park. There was like Mike Shinoda,
the rapper, guy Chester Bennington, the lead singer. Chester died
and so this was a track from an album in
two thousand and three, but they just released it twenty
years later and it's the number one alternative song and
it's called Lost. Lincoln Park was massive back in the day.

(27:47):
For anybody that's like twenty five listening, I don't know
why you're listening. There are much cooler show than us. However,
Lincoln Park was. I mean, they were awesome. I was
never a massive fan, but I could appreciate their big
radio poppy songs, and also I understood why people liked them.
They wrapp Dan saying, yeah, that's pretty cool. We did that.
They had two different lead singers. That was so cool.
And then finally the number one pop song, and this

(28:08):
song is great. It's Miley and Flowers. That's a jam. Okay,
those are your number one songs all across you' Samy's
Pile of Stories. Reusable water bottles like tumblers, are very
popular right now, so much so they have a nickname

(28:30):
Emotional Support water bottles. So many women they don't even
leave the house without their Stanley sexes men to no
adult men can have one. Eddie has something over there
idea right here. I thought when I saw this story,
they meant reusable water bottles like I will use a
plastic water bottle, meaning I'll use it three or four times,

(28:50):
filled up with the water in the fridge. But I
didn't realize they meant those, which if those have that
many germs? How many germs my plastic water bottles unformed use.
Researchers swabbed different parts of the water bottle, the spout,
the lids, straw, the squeezeop everywhere, and it's got forty
thousand times more bacteria than the average toilet seats. You

(29:11):
know me, I always say, toilet seats aren't that gross anyway,
It's much just your butt cheeks. What are your butt
cheeks ever touched? And nothing right? And second of all,
stop swabbing everything, ark swabbing everything. Oh yeah, Ron Swabbin
also lunch boxes a water bottle in the studio. He's
never cleaned once. It's sits your every day. Well, no,
you have some blue light on it that he pushes
it cleans it all out. I don't believe it. I
do clean it. I hit the button and it says,

(29:32):
boom kills nine nine of the bacteria. Look at it.
The blue light going Now, who, why don't we have
a blue light just on the wall. Then we walk
up to it let it clean up. Oh that's a
good idea. I'm just telling you I don't think that
works like he thinks it works, all right. What else, Well,
they're swabbing it to remind people to wash it. Stop
swabbing everything, wash it regularly. You're good. So if you
want to come to work in a better mood, I
have an easy thing that you can do. Drive nice.

(29:56):
That's all you have to do. They say it will
cut down your work stress by forty percent. And if
you're wondering what does drive nice mean? Well, you can
let someone into your lane, you can wave high to
someone at a stoplight, you can avoid tailgating, and you
can just be more patient on the road. Eddie, Yeah,
I like that. No, that's me totally until somebody cuts
me off. Then it's like then I'm stressed for work.

(30:16):
Do you feel like that was a targeted ad right there?
In a little bit, like you're the only one that
actually heard that second, I mean, never looks at me
when she's talking about these segments segment, you're the only
person that's hearing this. Right now, we've now figured out
targeting radio show for things that people need to hear.
But to counter what Eddie just said, if someone cuts
him off, I feel as though he'll arrive to work
less stressed. If you don't react to the person that

(30:37):
cut you off, if you decide to be like, you
know what, they're probably having a rushed morning or a
bad day. I don't know. There's circumstances. I'm just going
to smile and wave then while it won't affect you,
and you've cut someone off accidentally occasionally, yeah, my signal
light wasn't working. Yeah, and I had to know that
with a working signal light actually accidentally, And then I go, oh,
but they're so mad at me, going like that idiot,

(30:57):
but it was an accident. I'm sorry, that's what's up.
Have you ever just waved with someone at a stoplight? No, Bill,
I just realized that was one of the things I said.
And I'm like, I like wave people if they let
me in, like if I thank you, But then I
look and see if they saw me wave, and if
they didn't, I get a bigger wave. Then if they

(31:18):
didn't put more armup the window, and then if they don't,
my head out then I'm turning. It's like a dumb
and dumber out of the side of the car. What else?
Jason Country put out the top saddest country songs of
all time, according to them. We'll see if you agree,
And at number three, Hank Williams I'm so lonesome I
could cry. I'm lot. Yeah, it's very sad. It's so

(31:50):
old though. That makes me just want to get a beer.
Then it feels more black and white than it does
reality side. But yes, it's nineteen forty nine. Yeah, that's
Eddie birth Yer. No, it's the guy. What else? And
then in from nineteen seventy five is Willie Nelson blue
Eyes Crying in the rain Watch cry right. This is
one of my top three, maybe top five favorite songs

(32:13):
of all time. And I know it's sad. I just
it's just normal for it. This feels this songs normal
to me. It's my baseline. It's not even that sad.
I love sad and I don't know. I hear this
and go I'm just so sad. There are songs that
really kick me in then ad sad, These are like
just generally sad. This one makes me want to get

(32:34):
another beer. Well, I'm seeing a theme here. Buzz now
like songs that don't make you feel like they're going
to be sad and then hit you. It's sad out
of nowhere, Tim mcgirl, I don't hate the girl sad
at the end? M. George Jones. Is that number one?
By the way, No, it's no, no number one, We'll
kick you in the or the other one is Reba

(32:57):
and Brooks and Dunne cow Girls don't because the whole
song is about her and her dad and being like,
get up on the horse again. Cow girls don't cry.
And then at the end he dies spoiler alert, and
she's like cow girls don't cry and you're like, oh,
like that to me where it walks you somewhere and
then sweeps your legs out sad like real life. Those
are the most sad ones. What's number one? Well, Vince

(33:19):
Gill started writing this song in nineteen eighty nine after
Keith Whitley died. Yeah, but he didn't finish writing it
until nineteen ninety three after his brother died. And that
that alone right there gives me all the fields and
it's go rest high on that mountain. That's a very

(33:41):
sad song because you know it's played at a lot
of funerals. Vince played it at the Opry last week
because somebody had passed away somewhat. I don't remember this story.
There was a there was like a drunk fight, Yeah,
right up there in front of us. Weird. That's kind
of distracted, yes and so, but yes, that song is
so sad. But still he stopped loving her today. That's

(34:03):
a sad song. Did you know why you stopped loving her?
She died? He died? Oh, he died. That's right. You
go back and listening that. It It means he's loved her
so hard, so hard, and the only time he would
stop loving her is if he couldn't anymore. So he
stopped loving her today. That George and Tammy show on Showtime,
when they do that scene about this song, you guys
haven't seen her, right, No, I don't think i've showtime anymore.

(34:28):
I don't think I've already asked two people for passwords
and it's not working. So and I'm gonna refuse to
give you mine because that is not right. What somewhat
of integrity does No. I think they're smarter than that,
and they're not letting a word might leave it written
on a piece of paper after the show. But I
have nothing to do with that password. And you having it,
you find it, You're you're fine. You find that's my pile.

(34:49):
That was Amy's pile of stories. It's time for the
good news. There's a dog resort and it's in Seattle's
Lake City neighborhood and it caught fire. Now, what's in
a dog resort? Dogs? Bunch of dogs, think so employees

(35:09):
that all the places around saw it, and they weren't
gonna wait for the fire department because they knew they
had to get those dogs out of there. So PSR
Mechanicals one of the places. They started running out of
there into the place, grabbing dogs. There was also a
Mexican restaurant and everybody ran out of that. I started
grabbed the dogs. In the end, they saved sixty dogs. Wow,

(35:30):
not a single dog died in the fire. No humans
were injured. The place didn't do well, it didn't bounce,
you know, it was yeah, but no humans or dogs
died because everybody jumped into action and ran in and
just started grabbing all these animals and pulling them out
of there. That's some bravery to run in after a
dog you don't even know. Yeah, I'd be like, that's

(35:51):
a pretty big fire, Stanley. You good buddy. I'm just kidding.
For sure. I'd run in great story. That is what
it's all about. That was tell me something good. It's
signed for the speed, Corny. Amy gives us one, Corny.
We have fifteen seconds to figure it out, ready, Gay,
come on and action. Morning Corny. Why did the chicken

(36:15):
go to the gym? The gym work out? Lift weights,
lift weights, foul chicken poultry free. Oh we're out the
time you guys see whole chicken chicken flu bug time.

(36:36):
Oh no, no, no, no, what is it to work
on his pecks? Pecks? That was the morning Corny. I
thought when you would you say gobble or google or
would you say I thought when you made some noise

(36:56):
it was you were getting there. That was just me
being frustrated. It wasn't chicken noise is not really gonna
work out his pecks. Though. Sometimes it's mad. Sometimes my
wife we will watch like Last of Us, the Zombie Show,
into the World show, and she'll go like, well that
couldn't happen, like something random and normal, And I'm like,
it's a whole show about zombie everything, and she's like,

(37:16):
but they don't act like that park's real, and I'm like,
you don't. It's like watching Batman with her. We watched
the Robert Pattinson and she's like, why is he a superhero?
I'm like, what do you mean? What does he do
that's super I don't know. He's like saw fights crime? Well,
cops do that, okay, But what's his superpower? What he
like fights? Um? Okay, there are a lot of people

(37:37):
like can fight. Well he has he has all this equipment.
So he's rich, yeah, pretty much. And I'm like, you're right,
he's not a superhero. He's just a rich guy. All right,
thank you. Okay, walk me through what happened to you.
You know, when you're in a parking lot, it's like
Christmas when the car in front of you is not
is no longer there, so you instead of backing out
of the parking spot, you get to dry straight through.

(37:58):
I don't like backing up, you know. So I was
so excited about driving straight through, so I start to
do that. Obviously, I proceed with caution because you know,
parking law drives slow cars could be whipping in the spot,
which is what happened. But I'm already halfway through, like
about to leave, like the belly of your cars halfway

(38:19):
over the line. Yes, you're almost nose to the back
end of the spot. Yes, got it. And this guy
is pulling in obviously, I get it. It's he's thinking
he can park there, but he encounters me, and then
he won't. He won't move, and I'm thinking I'm already like, dude,
just back up a little bit and I can be
all my way and then you can part. Yeah. In fact,

(38:41):
you can probably pull up and have the spot I had,
and that way you can just whip right out when
you're done and you get to leave. He did not
care to think that way, and we just stood there
like downmate, just staring at each other. Yeah, Like who's
going to move first? Yeah? I was like, surely he's
gonna move. How long are you thinking? Well, it probably

(39:02):
was not that long, but to me it felt like
five minutes, okay, because I just thought, why is he
not backing up? This is so bizarre, Like if I
were to pull in and see someone was already doing that,
I'd be like, oh, okay, one sec I'll back up.
But if there's no other spot, I was there first,
but I also understand I might be in the wrong.
That's why I'm bringing it to y'all. And I don't
know if I was being ridiculous or if if he was.

(39:25):
Was he old young? Oh? Probably same as me? Medium?
What are we a real old medium? Okay? He was medium? Eddie?
Have a question? Yeah, was there someone behind you? Like,
was someone trying to get in your spot once you
already went forward? No? Not yet? Okay, yeah, it would
have been quite the predicament and you were just driving
through to that. Okay, Yes, let's go around the room here, lunchbox,

(39:48):
you go first. This is happening. Whose side are you on, Amy, Listen,
you're a terrible driver. You do terrible things on the
road and parking lots, but you're absolutely in the ride
on this one. Everybody. When the parking lot, parking spot
in front of you was open, you pull through. The
guy just needed to back up, because what if you
start backing up a car comes from behind, then you're
stuck between two cars. That guy was in the wrong.
Amy wins this hands down. Wow, that's weird, Eddie. No, no, no, Amy,

(40:12):
you're looking for convenience here, like your job is to
back up out of your spot like everyone else in
that parking lot. But you happen to get lucky. You
went forward and it bit you in the butt. There's
a car there, it needs to come forward. In part,
you should have backed up out of there in one
to one. Okay, well so far I'm on both sides
of them now. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Was a

(40:33):
parking lot full ish, but there were other spots. Yeah,
I feel like the guy maybe what was weird about
that is I would have thought if somebody was doing
that to me, that they were just driving all the
way through to leave, not just a park. So I'm
surprised he didn't back up just to let you like
drive out of the spot, even that's what I was

(40:54):
trying to do. Yeah, but you don't know that. I mean,
you can't communicate. She could easily just be pulling up
to park there too. Point bones, I didn't think about
that because there's some cloudiness there. Is she trying to
park in that spot? I drive through me? No? No, no,
But he doesn't know that. Yeah, I know, he doesn't know.
That's staring and all that. I don't know that. Yeah,
I don't know. I'm gonna go with you should have

(41:15):
backed out. Oh god, now I feel bad. But he
had no idea what you were doing. He didn't know
your intention. He wanted that spot. He thought maybe you
were just gonna sit and hold that spot. Okay, well
guess what I do lose? I did back out. So
I did lose. Okay, good, that's good for you. But
you still made it him and then backed out. Oh
I wouldn't quit. Oh no, even if I know I'm wrong,

(41:37):
I'm digging in and I'm like, I know i'm wrong.
I'mout be even more wrong. But I ain't losing. But
you should have. You did right in the end. You
did right. That's right. That's not your spot. There's a
line there for a reason. That line is supposed to
be a barrier, an indicator. Actually, that's a very valid point.
I was like, otherwise it would just be a straight
through spot or an arrow. I can go on through.
It's a driving lane, okay. I Hey, I can admit

(41:59):
when I'm wrong. You make a big deal out of it, though,
when you backed up where you're like, oh, throw your
hands in the air. No, it wasn't like super dramatic,
but I was like, you give the bird, no, I
have never given anybody that because nobody never I've never
flipping back in a car. When's the last time he
flips someone off in your car? Lunchbox? A week and
a half ago, not that long ago. No, no, But
it was his fault because I'm in the middle lane

(42:22):
and he's in the right lane. He's on his dumb
phone looking at his phone. Cuts over into the middle lane.
I hank, do the brights, and then he goes over
the left lane. Nice, no, no, no. And then he
gets back over the middle lane, back over the left lane,
and I hank again, give the bird. And why give
the bird because he's on his phone. I get it,

(42:43):
and he just get out of the way, right, get
out of my wane. No, okay, go ahead. And here's
the bad part. My kids were in the car and
I pull up at the stop light and he comes
up on my left and I have the windows down,
and he rolls up next to me and starts clamping.
He goes, are you freaking happy? But you have your
kids in your car? You're give us a boy the bird?
They could pull a gun on you. Yeah you didn't
get shot. Yeah, I know I understand that. But I

(43:04):
said get off your dang phone. But I didn't say dang.
We think he made the end of the story up. Yeah,
me too, absolutely, thank you Luox. No, what what part
do you think I made? When you confront somebody in
perk with your kids, they are no. No. He pulled
up next to me and started clapping like, oh, good job,
like I was some he was. I'm like, oh, you're
so brave, And I said, why don't you get off

(43:24):
your blanket phone. I don't believe the end. I believe
the rest, just not the end. Guy, you don't believe
I was there. You can ask my kids, well, what
do you say your kids about that finger? They do
it all the time now. No, my kids said, Dad,
why are you waving at that guy? He was on
his phone. This is the wave you do when people
make you unhappy. Let's go over and talk to Maddie,

(43:48):
who is in Texas. Hey, Maddie, you heard Amy's situation
in the parking lot. What you think about that? Um? Yeah,
so I don't agree with you with Eddie. I actually
agree with lunchbox, which I very rare. But that's not
how driving works. It doesn't matter if Amy's in the
wrong for pulling through a spot or not. She's in
the spot, like, you have to give the right away

(44:10):
to the person who's already there. Doesn't matter if he
wants to keep pulling forward or if he wants that spot.
Amy's already in the spot, like, he has to let
her do whatever she's doing. Yeah, I hear you. I
mean there's a line there for a reason. There are
lines on the road too, for a reason, full lines,
not broken lines. Again, I would have been upset. I

(44:31):
agree with what you were doing. I just probably would
have backed out to give him the benefit of it,
unless he have an eyeballing me hard. I've been thinking
about this. The harder he's eyeballing me, the more airtated
I'm gonna get though. Yeah, you'd rub the engine a
little bit, and then I would steal me too, and
I just want to move. And then when he back off,
I'd get out too. And Yeah, it's not good to

(44:52):
get me in a competitive situation. Definitely not. Yeah, I
hear you. It's there's nuance to it, totally. That's the
perfect Yeah, there's nuances. Yeah, and then we're in a
land at the time we're nuance isn't accepted, but here
we are. What is the nuance mean? It means little
things here and there that change it. It's not fully
black and white. Got it right, because that's definitely the
situation when y'all brought up somebody brought up the line

(45:12):
like I drove over the line, Like if there's a
curb there, I wouldn't be able to do that. Do
you ever hear the saying you cross the line? Yes, don't.
You don't want to cross the line. I mean, hey,
we're gonna do this envelope, So this is what's up.
A year ago, Ray came to us and said it's
a country music secret, and he goes, I heard this
couple's getting divorced. And we're like, really goes yeah, and

(45:33):
I'm gonna put an envelope. Did you like date it
or something? I did. What's the date on the envelope?
Three fifteen, twenty twenty two. So we're a year and
one day after Ray put this in the envelope and
you said to us, what said that? I was given
inside information that a couple's getting a divorce. It's been
kept on the DL not nobody knows about it, but

(45:56):
everybody in the industry knows about it, so it's shocking
it hasn't come out now has It's a year later,
and so I told her, a, we can't just open
it and just be reckless, but I said, I will
look at it, and if I don't feel like we're
gonna get sued, then maybe we reveal what he thought
he knew and he was wrong about by the way,
he was wrong. So do you want to bring me
the envelope? Yes, I'm ab ring it finally does That's good.

(46:20):
They're not sweating music because they're not getting divorced. So
it's a great point. We're doing their vows. This thing
hasn't been opened over a year. Why do you make
sure the camera doesn't see that? I got you just
don't face it forward. He doesn't know which way it's facing.
Well I do. Oh it's wow. I'm so glad they

(46:42):
figured things out and didn't get a divorced Yeah. Oh yeah, okay,
here we go. This is a strong hand is in
the envelope? I mean, I'm just saying things like their
love is what love is all about. Oh, that's a
weird reaction. I don't like this space. Yeah, I don't
one one. I never heard of this and I kind

(47:08):
of know the person. I think you just received an
accurate information. I know, and I honestly will go to
my source and I'll say, you're never gonna tell me
stuff like that again, because I did tell the whole
world and it was wrong. I can't share this right now, though.
What you know the person really well? I would say
pretty well. I've had less than five dinners with them,

(47:30):
but more than two. Oh wow, if I think like
four like like um like not just I'm trying to
be careful my words. I just professional but social. Yeah,
I got you. We're friends. It's a I'll say this,
it's a guy. But both did you say both were famous?
I do not believe I ever said that, because that's

(47:50):
definitely not the case. Let me take a look at it. Nope,
what do you mean that wasn't a deal? Well, I
just that way. I mean you can be Do you
want to see it? I mean no, no, no, I
just asked, no, you'll you have a big mouth? No,
I know you do? You do? He'll spread Actually here,
careful the cameras. Have you heard that? I feel like

(48:12):
I feel like I did, But I always say I
heard it from Ray. Oh he's telling everyone, and he
was also telling it as he was like, but I
never knew that. I'm trying to think who says Somebody
in the glassroom one time alluded to like, oh, I'd
be careful because you do spoilers all the time. That's all.
She stops. Sorry, I don't think it's true, And right
now I don't think we can say it. But we

(48:34):
can at some point, just not right now. I don't
want to get in trouble. Yeah, I don't. I didn't
want to be right. It's like your stuff okay, far
far away. I didn't want to be right. It's like
sometimes you just send in bull crap to get on
the air. Not that. And the person that told me
I'm getting a divorce from them no longer friends. Okay,
that's fair. That's a divorce. We're gonna say then, Ray,
And I remember told him that, So why don't you
just say who told you that divorce? He's married to Bay.

(48:54):
Almost one person really or a couple of people know
who she is, so she's part of the I'm sorry, Ray,
that that is so inaccurate that I cannot Okay, yes,
what are you saying? I know she's like one of
our side friends, so they knew who she is. You guys,
got any friend, real friend side friends with this version,
you don't know her. Okay, very exciting day because the

(49:17):
nc DOUBA Tournament starts today. Oh yeah, well from me,
he's a very exciting three and a half hours or
so it starts and rock and roll, I guess unless
you're on the West coast and like hour and fifteen
hour and twenty minutes or so it starts because you're
hearing this later, But I'm gonna go to Iowa watch
Arkansas play tonight against Illinois. It's three thirty. Though three thirty,
that's not really tonight. But Ray the crazy weather guy,

(49:41):
what's your name on when you do the weather? Crazy
Ray the weather guy? Thank you, he's gonna do the
weather Force coming up in a second, because I'm hearing
it's little Dicey up there. Oh really, we haven't heard
some crazy Ray in a long time. Yeah, So we'll
get to that in a minute. But first let's do
the news. Bobby's story. Making your bed is a vital
part of the day if you want to be successful.
Now here's thing about that, and I'll read you the story,

(50:01):
but I'll give you the real reason as well. They
said the process of making the bed only takes a
couple of minutes and it leads to a more productive
day overall. The study also found that bedmakers tend to
be more ambitious, type a outgoing and goal oriented. This
is from architectural Digests. That being said, here's the thing,
you make your bed. Your day is not going to
be better just because you made your bed. But people
that make their bed have similar traits to people that

(50:25):
do other small things in order to make big things happen. Right.
You don't have somebody who is going through their day
being extremely efficient, going at this, at this time, this,
I'm gonna be most effective here, and then they're like,
I'm gonna leave a bed sloppy. It's just part of
a character trait of somebody who task oriented, goal oriented.
Successful people always do the little things right because if

(50:47):
you can't do little things right, you can't do the
big things right for the most part. So don't make
your bed tomorrow, and they get mad at me when
your day sucks, because that tends to be what happens
in my DMS. I made my bed today, blue. Why
you made your bed at once? Make it the rest
of your life, and in that you will learn to
do little things and some of those traits will carry

(51:10):
over to other parts of your life. That's what it's about.
What do you want to say? I saw you raise
your hand up over there. Well, because when I quit snoozing,
I also started making my bed, and those were two
things that had a domino effect, you said, in other
areas of my life. And I feel so much better
when my bed is made, Like it's amazing now. And
I was never a bedmaker. I just didn't see that

(51:31):
as any like an important step. But like Bobby said,
it's the first little thing that you can do where
you're like, oh, look at me, I did that. Now
I can go do this next thing. It also feels
awesome when you get into a made bed, oh yeah,
instead of one where you like can't find the bottom
sheet and it's all up around your neck. That part's awesome.
Hugging is very important. A study of thousands and thousands

(51:53):
of couples found that women are more satisfied with the
relationships with partners who are affectionate with hugs to want
to hug all the time. Hugging, massages, holding hands is crucial.
To how the women in this study said that they
were shown love. Experts say it's important that if a
person is a hugger that they also get daily hugs.
You know, this just goes to love languages in general.

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And I really was always like love languages, what's that
crap about? But I'd never been in a real relationship
until my wife, and she definitely has a love language
as do I. And just because I feel like it's
a way of love doesn't mean that's her main method
of feeling love. She loves words of affirmation, she loves
time spent like that. To her is how she feels

(52:36):
the most love, probably because it's how she got as
a kid with their family. I, on the other hand,
is so stupid gifts because I never got gifts, never
got stuff as a kid. So if somebody gives me
a gift, I'm like, wow, they must really love me.
And so we have this different love language. And it's
difficult for us because it's not that she doesn't want

(52:56):
to get me gifts, but that's usually not what she
thinks about. When it's like, let me show how I
consistently and constantly love. Yeah, hers is spending time together
and so we have to remember that the other person's
love language isn't ours. Time is hard and we at times,
I know she gets frustrated with me because I work
all the time, or when I'm not working, I'm like,
I gotta somehow, like just take it. Take a few

(53:18):
minutes for myself, and a few minutes turns into two
hours playing video games. But it's it's it's time, it's
words of affection. Have to remind myself that, so hugging
is probably their love language. Yeah, but I never even
knew that was a real thing until I had a
real thing, which is what's funny. You guys do massages?
H Yeah? I rarely get them back neck, yeah, and shoulders.

(53:42):
She has like a neck and shoulder issue. So mostly
it's when they're just killing her and I come in
and try to save the day. But I don't And
I do, okay, but I go way too hard. I
think it's like if the direction said cook this on
three hundred degrees for thirty minutes, if her next at
massage at this level for thirty minutes and be I
could try to go double for fifteen and then she's like,

(54:02):
how wow, stop doesn't work that way. Yeah, so maybe
I'm not the best in that way, but I totally
get the hug thing is just another love language part touch,
which probably hurts. Two. I just like gifts. I love
a gift, never got them. We're all of the shape
by the things that affected us as kids. You also,
but yeah, that's a gift from her to me. Okay,

(54:28):
I do like it. I don't call it being spooned anymore.
I call it hug me. Please. There you go, get
that love. Okay, next story up. You need to know CPR,
they say, but not so much as you have to
go take a class. They would like that, but they
realize most people won't do that. So what they do
is they do one line lessons basically, so while you
should take to class, the two steps are and it's

(54:50):
only two steps one call nine one one yes, first step,
first step And if you don't take a class, two
is it's just the hand ends on the like the
stern on rib cage part of it. Don't go mount
to mouth. I mean, I guess you can. They said
they don't do that anymore. Hey, listen, I guess you can.
What are they gonna do? There? Struggle? They're unresponse, but

(55:12):
they say push hard and fast in the center of
the chest until the person begins breathing or emergency medical
services arrive, and you can do staying alive by the
BGS as uh fed he's down, and I'd be like,
all right, Eddie, we're gonna go mouth to mouth. Eddie
comes alive, right, then he doesn't need it anymore. No,
But then I would think I would go two three,

(55:35):
But that's not the way to do it. No, because
the heart beats to this. Do it again. Here we go.
See I'm worried, though, you forget and start dancing. I
would you in the office when they do this, anybody
starts dancing. Yeah, that's from the American Heart Association. A
monkey appears on a woman's ports in Oklahoma and rips
your air and halfma, that's what I said to Oklahoma.

(55:59):
Huh someone's pet monkey attacked in Oklahoma. Woman who called
police for help, and then someone that she knew shot
and killed the monkey. Oh everybody lost. Brendy Parker said
she was sitting down looking at her window when she
spotted the monkey. This from kokh. I took a second glance, like,
oh my god, there's a monkey on the front porch.
I also would have opened the door. I would have. Yeah,

(56:21):
you got to say, what's up to the monkey? That's
worth the risk reward there totally. I mean the reward
you get a selfie with a monkey that just showed
up on your port d've been awesome. So I also
would open the door. The monkey was trying to get
into her house. It broke off part of her storm
doors handle, So a storm door for me would have
been the screen door to flap indoor outside. She went outside,

(56:45):
officers were there. Officer got out of the patrol vehicle.
The monkey jumped into the back of the vehicle. The
monkey ran towards the woman, climbed onto her and attacked
It crawled up my back, she said. He yanked out
multiple wads of here and then ripped my ear in half,
and it was just hanging. Oh man, those crazy. She
had to be like, what was happening? What? What planet
are we on right now? Am I dreaming? A monkey
showed up in my door? Just ripped my ear off?

(57:08):
A law enforcement officer continues searching for the monkey. They
spoke with the monkey's owners, who also tried to catch it.
They went back to the house and found that a
family member of the victim saw it, shot and killed
the primate. That's from Yahoo. And you know what, it
sucks that monkey was even held and made domestic because
it's not Yeah, that's not domestic. Going to a ports

(57:28):
and ripping someone's ear off. They need to be in
the jungle. That sucked. And then also it sucks that
person had to shoot the monkey. You know, they didn't
want to shoot a monkey. They didn't wake up that
morning go on, oh, show up, monkey shows up saying
shoot and kill it. But the monkey was also in
a bad place and it had to be taken care
of one way or the other. My uncle had a monkey,
my mom and the leg what happened with it? Went
to the zoo, They gave it to zoo, donated him.

(57:49):
I hate they had to shoot that monkey, but who
knows what other ports had have been on, maybe even
a deck. A whole family comes out the ears off
like like kids. I'm thinking when it comes to huge
movie releases, you know, I don't want to go to
the theater and watch a movie, but I love it
when they finally get on HBO, Max, Paramount Plus. I

(58:11):
will watch a movie then, but usually only an hour
at a time. That being said, I've not seen the
ant Man movies. I've seen most of the other Avengered movies,
but the ant Man movies to me always look a
little dumb, so I haven't watched them. But now I'm
totally in because aunt Man three is coming out and
I don't even care so much, but it's in the
news because someone leaked the script on Reddit, and so
now they're going to the courts being like, hey, we
did who did this? Can you please figure it out

(58:33):
for us? And they really just leaked like seventy pages
of a conversation between I think aunt Man and I
don't know Cricket Boy. I don't know who the other
person is in ant Man, but that's what happened. Marvel
Studios is now asked the federal judge to help identify
the people who released aunt Man and the Wasp Quan
Too Mania. The entire plot was posted by someone on Reddit.

(58:53):
That's from variety. Yeah, I wonder whow they get it?
Who it was? Was it someone inside? Were they mad?
Were they doing as a way to get back? Do
they find it? So? What's out now? Aunt Man two? Oh?
It is out? They released it even though it's out.
Who cares? Why is this even going to court? Mike's
a man good yes or no? Hit me? Probably the

(59:14):
least good of all the Marble movies. Why is it
such a big story if it's already out. They're trying
to stop them from leaking more movies, because if they
can do this one, they can do other movies. That
makes the entire plan. So if they set the precedent
of if you leak a movie and you don't own
the rights to this, we will sue you. We'll find
you and sue you protect their further movies. OK. Gotcha,
I'm not interesting that story anymore. I was like, hey,
man three, I thought I knew a little something. Okay.

(59:36):
Truck or dash cam shows a ghost on an Arizona highway.
Here we go. A dash cam footage from a trucker
driving through Arizona is getting attention. William Church was driving
down State Route eighty seven and a brighton glare shows
up on his dash cam. He checked the footage. He said,
it shows the spirit of someone standing near the edge
of the road. Let me look at this thing here,

(59:58):
Church says. No other cars were on the road. It
does look like a small ghost though like a person. No,
it looks like a casper, kind of like that little
ghost shape, have a little tail on it. Or it
looks like a paper bag. You know how Morgan had
a ghost or an alien or something on her. As
it turned out, it was just moisture, or we think
it's moisture. I mean, I'm looking at it though, and

(01:00:19):
as you like zoom, it almost looks creepy like that
girl in the Ring. Yeah, I never saw the Ring, Mike.
When you think about this, you've seen all the pictures
in the video, and a chance you that that's a ghost.
It kind of has like a bluish tint to it
a little bit, don't watch you say it? Yeah, And
I thought immediately, man, that kind of looks like a ghost.
But that looks legit, Okay, drive in it's four twenty

(01:00:41):
five am. It looks like on the date of three
to eleven rights in the merge line. Man, that's crazy
when when they show the actual, like really moving footage
of it, Yeah, because it's not like the truck's going
slow and it looks set up like it's going full
speed down the highway middle of the night. I mean,
it's I mean, but Also, how do we know that's
not like a reflection of something? Yeah, but how do
we know it's not a ghosts or point? But it's

(01:01:05):
on the road. Is the weird thing about the reflection explanation. Okay, anyway,
there's a ghost we'll put up on our Facebook page
if you want to see it. There's a new favorite
dog breed in the US and it's not a lab
for the first time in thirty one years at number one,
the French bulldog. I'm gonna tell you right now, do
not eat a bulldog. I love my bulldog more than
life itself. Well, no I don't, but i'd live. But
I do love them a lot. And they're they're they're

(01:01:29):
not meant to be alive. They're they're bread in a
way that's incestual at times. All their stuff was made
to look cool instead of work. Their nose, like mine,
has had a ton of surgeries. Everybody I know that
has a bulldog in any sort of way has had
to have a ton of surgeries or a ton of work.
French bulldog is at number one. Also, French bulldogs are

(01:01:53):
so expensive too that yeah, keep getting people get you know,
killed over them. So it's like it's the most popular.
It's a favorite, but most people can't get them. French
bulldogs at one, labs at two, Golden Retrievers at three,
German shepherd dogs at four, poodles at five, regular bulldogs
like mine at six. Where's Chihuahua? Not on here. I'm

(01:02:14):
not a big poodle guy, although I like the big poodles. Yeah,
oh yeah, one of the big dogs. It's the little ones.
I guess that I'm not a big fan of as much,
but I like the big food. Well, yours is like
a poodle ish type, right, she's a labordoodle, so she's
a mix those two. But yeah, don't don't get a
French bulldog unless you find one that needs adopted. Then
I'm up. But I just wouldn't go spend your money

(01:02:36):
get one from a breeder that you don't gosh now
because of the demand, Like I'm scared to walk it
in public or something. Well, only one person get shot,
but yeah, there's been more. I would leave it. I
wouldn't leave it out. I don't know that's the high
profile case that was talked about. There's more, you know,
the low profits, you know, more cases of people getting
shot over a Frenchies. Yes, bungling burglar left his own

(01:02:58):
birth certificate of the crimes and finally a burglar who
left his birth certificate of prison ID cards at the scene. Okay,
which has just been jailed. Dumb. Okay, there you go.
That's Bobby's story. Movie Mics movie in theaters this weekend.
If you love superhero movies like I do, check out

(01:03:20):
Shazam Fury of the Gods. Even though DC is hit
or Miss, Shazam is one of their better characters in
this movie is kicking off their new phase. Also in
theater is sixty five Stirring Adam Driver. It's about an
astronaut who crash lands on a mysterious planet, then quickly
discovers he's actually stranded on Earth, but it's sixty five
million years ago and he's not alone. I'm movie Mike
and that's your movie report. Check out movie Mics, movie

(01:03:43):
podcasts wherever you get your podcasts. You know, we love
a lot of our lives here on the air with
you guys, sometimes alongside you. Sometimes we share stuff so
you know, you'll get to know us better. Sometimes we
share stuff because it relates and we think we can help.
You know, a lot of different reasons. We've been doing
this for a long time. I've been doing this since
dang seventeen, eighteen years old, so I've been doing it

(01:04:06):
for a long time. Four hold am I forty two? Yeah,
so we did. We try to share a lot with
you for different reasons, and so that's we're going to
do here. And I would just rip the band aid
off and just go right at it, That's all I
would do. Yeah. Well, so we share a lot of
our lives, and I know listeners have walked alongside so

(01:04:27):
much that we've been through both of my parents, fascinuway,
the adoption of children, you know, the first year of
the show. Back in two thousand and six, my first
year on the show, I got married. And you know,
I've been walking through something for the last couple of
years that it's not a secret, but it's also something

(01:04:49):
that we've kept pretty private so that we could heal
as a family and take care of everyone involved. And
so yeah, talking about it right now isn't easy, but
it feels right like this is the right time. And
Ben and I, that's my husband. I don't talk about
him much. He's always been a very private person in fact,

(01:05:09):
when I joined the show, he was in the Air
Force and we called an Air Force guy because he
didn't want his name, we did on the radio. Yeah,
when we first started dating, you were like, I should
have picked a different branch though, to not be so
dialed on that one. Yeah, yeah, but he wasn't. Yeah. Yeah.
So Ben and I are getting a divorce, and this
is something that was not made lightly at all whatsoever.

(01:05:31):
In fact, it's, like I said, it's been the last
couple of years that we've spent a lot of time
just working towards what is most loving for everybody involved
and really most true to the people that we've become.
And I know from my childhood and now as an adult,

(01:05:53):
how divorce is painful, stressful, it's emotional, and so really
the well being of our kids and co parenting and
learning how to co parent in a way to show
up as the best parents possible for our kids has
been the top priority through all of this, and so

(01:06:15):
I think that's what we've been working through, and I'm
honestly very I'm very proud of how we've as a
family navigated this whole thing. And I guess it's just
it's hard to you know, say it again. It's not
a secret to our people, but just now putting it

(01:06:38):
out there, just so I can show up authentically as
myself in this new chapter of my life. And nobody
wants something like this to happen. I mean, honestly, I
never thought it would happen to me, and my younger
self would have never allowed it. You know. Well, thinking
back to two thousand and six, my first few years

(01:06:59):
on the radio and marriage, I remember so many topics
would come up, and I remember always saying divorce is
not an option, and listeners would even call in and
they probably they had experienced more life than me. And
but again I came from a divorced home. But I
think that's why I was. I held so tightly to
that and ended up in a very legalistic environment for

(01:07:22):
a long time. And I think I just that was
something that was rooted in me that I couldn't see passed.
And I was like that, I will never do it.
And I remember you in lunchbox throwing out different scenarios
about my husband potentially being in jail or doing this
or that. In my head grows out of his but
all kinds of stuff back right and I'd be like,
not an option, right, We'll stay, you know, not an option.

(01:07:43):
Not an option. And so I'm pretty sure it's that younger,
my younger self that's been the most terrified of all
of this, and so I have to I have compassion
for her and who I was then and who I
was even six years ago, Like one of my dear
friends went through a divorce and I didn't know how
to support her, and that, I mean, that's what gets

(01:08:06):
me right now. I mean, we've done the healing and
in our own relationship, Ben and I both and he's
aware we're talking about this right now, and I think
that's what I heard. For how I didn't know how
to understand what other people might be going through, because

(01:08:26):
the reality is you don't ever really know fully what
someone is going through. And I wasn't able to be
there for my friend, and I wasn't able to show
up for her. And we recently, in the last seven
or eight months, reconnected and we're able to repair our relationship,
and I was able to finally see because what Ben

(01:08:46):
and I have been walking through, what she was going through,
and how I just I think because I didn't understand it,
I had some like why can't you figure this out?
Or a little bit of judgment in there that now
I have fully released, thank goodness and and thankful now
that I'll be able to show up for people in
a different way. And we wouldn't be where we are

(01:09:10):
today at all in this process if it wasn't for
the love and support from our family and friends that
have walked alongside us with no judgment, and just such
encouragement and support and wisdom and guidance from therapists. And
I just feel like divorce brings up a lot of
complicated feelings, shame being the number one thing, and so

(01:09:36):
that's what we've been working on releasing, and I feel
as though we're finally there. We've released ourselves from any stigma.
And my hope in sharing this is really that anyone
else walking through this type of loss will also be
able to release any shame they feel around it, because

(01:09:58):
you're not alone in what you're going through. And so
that is where we are and that everyone is doing well.
I was gonna ask, like, how are you? It has
been very it is it has been very hard, But
I'm how am I? Now I feel like we're finally
on the other side. Like we weathered multiple storms at

(01:10:21):
the same time, not even just this, there was a
lot happening at once for our family that almost didn't
seem like how can this happen all at the same time,
But now that we're on the other side of it,
I see actually how divine each thing was, Like one
of the things had to happen for the next thing
to be able to happen, and then for the next

(01:10:42):
thing to happen like and again those are details that
are close to our family. And but I say that
to also, you know, encourage anybody else going through multiple
hard things is to sure you have to process and
deal with it. You don't, but but just somewhere, somehow

(01:11:03):
start to process. Okay, what does this make possible? And
don't waste it. Don't waste what you've been through and
linger in that hurt and pain. Like if you can
process and heal, then you can get to the other
side and see what came from it. And for our family,
so much has come from the last two years that
actually we're now on the other side better people. What

(01:11:26):
do you feel like you've learned about yourself? Um um?
I mean resilient is a word that comes to mind,
which feels weird to say about yourself, but um, all
of us like that were involved. Like there was a
time in probably twenty twenty one that I didn't I

(01:11:53):
mean I wouldn't. I didn't fear for I didn't think
I would do anything to myself. But there were times
where if I'd be driving down the highway and I thought, okay,
like if if I were to just get in an accident,
that would be okay, you know, Like it was that hard.

(01:12:16):
So um resilient comes to mind, because we persevered as
a family. We showed up for each other. We're a team,
we've been and I both our team. Like we went
to therapy about all of this and mostly just to

(01:12:37):
a lot of co parenting, but us trying to figure
out what was happening and where we were going to
go and what we were going to do. And that
was a year. We saw one couple's therapists for a
year every week. A lot of those were two hour sessions.
There was a season where I would leave work and

(01:12:57):
I had therapy for other things that were going on
in our life. That last one of the things was intense,
like five weeks, three hours a day, and that's where
I would leave here and go do that, and it was,
it was heavy. But and I know there was a
time where I was absent from the show during some
of that. And like you said, you know, you've said
many many times before, if you're not in a right space,

(01:13:19):
like go take care of yourself, you don't have to
be here. So I'm thankful for that. I mean, this
work place, this our work environment is part of that
support that I'm talking about from family and friends and
and again the therapists, like I say all that because

(01:13:40):
it took work. You can't just come out on the
other side of stuff like that without really digging deep.
And it was, it was heavy, and it's hard to
do stuff like that. But we we came out on
the other side, and I feel as though I can
see there the rainbow now, like the storms have passed.
And I know in I fall encounter more storms, for sure,

(01:14:02):
but what we've walked through, I just don't think now
I'll grip so tightly to the umbrella like I feel
like I just was holding onto it and I couldn't
see the rainbow. But now now I just have different
tools and I have different life experience. That is now
I think gonna benefit me in this new chapter. And

(01:14:22):
I'm I'm a different I'm just a different person from
it all. Yeah, you've been to a lot. I've been
a pretty heavy eighteen months or so, maybe two years. Yeah,
I think back on the end it all, all of this,
it's probably around twenty twenty a bit, and I know
for a lot of people that happen to be the
year that everybody's lives probably got a little crazy. But

(01:14:46):
none of this has anything to do with COVID it
but it all started that year, So it's just a lot. Well,
I'm proud of you, I love you, we love you,
and like you and I have talked about many times,
not even on the air. A lot of people go
through their version of this and you shouldn't feel alone.
But I think it's something that can make you feel

(01:15:06):
extremely lonely because you really don't hear a lot of
people talking about it in a way like you do.
We're not talking about it at all except saying this
happened onto the next right, And this isn't against not
something that was decided yesterday. This has been well over
like at least two years, well over a year in

(01:15:28):
this decision, but we were, we were taking care of
our family first before it became a thing, And I think, yeah,
I just want to be able to show up here
in segments and like not to have to get have
to dodge certain topics. And you know, Ben and I
are both again in a good place. Like I when

(01:15:50):
I say I'm I'm proud of us, I really mean it,
because it's not easy. And I hope that that's encouragement
to anybody else going through something hard like this, is
that hopefully, and I know not everybody's blessed with two
people that are doing the work and two people that
are getting the healing and two people that are wanting
to continue the work to make it right. Because if

(01:16:11):
you're in this and you're the only one doing the
work and the other person's not, I can't even imagine, honestly,
cannot even imagine. And so my heart goes out to
anybody that's in that situation. But I would hope if
you're listening to this and you're in that and you
may realize like, oh shoot, I'm not doing the work,
I might be the person that's kind of making this
super difficult. My hope would be that you know, us

(01:16:33):
talking about something like this might be that nudge to
get the therapy, get the help, dig deeper, show up
as a person that you know you can be proud
of later they handled it well and well for your kids,
well for your kids, Like that's like for the last year,
we have kept the kids in our house, and I

(01:16:55):
know not everybody has this option, and it's going to
transition soon. We'll to rotate a week on week off.
We're doing fifty fifty custody. But we had an apartment
close by and the kids would stay in the house
and we would rotate. So every week for the last
year we've been packing bags midweek and switching and that

(01:17:17):
was important for us to do that so the kids
could feel like they were stable in their home. And
now they're involved in the process of their dad getting
a new house and they we drive by and look
at houses and they're like, oh, can you get along
with the basement? And you know, so they're they're now
involved and they feel like they've got a little agency
over this as well. Well. They're also very lucky to
have two parents. I love them, Yeah, and we do

(01:17:38):
very much. Yeah, Well, I'm proud of you for talking
about it. It would have come up, and you're right,
we had to dodge some stuff. And you know, it's
got to be tough to come on and go. Young
me was kind of uneducated and this version of me
is better educated. And I hope to help other people too.
And that's what you did and that's what you're doing.
So you know, I say it again, We love you,

(01:17:59):
all love you. Yeah, you know what, worse things have
happened to weaker people, but you'll get through this, be
better for it, and help others and help them get
through similar things as well. I have no doubt. Yeah,
well I'm able to come out and talk about it
now because I feel like I am on that I've
made it to that other side. It didn't seem right
to come out any sooner than now. Well, and also
there are things to our listeners we love ninety five

(01:18:22):
percent of five percent of our listener you can't stand.
But the five percent they want to get on social
media and right like Amy, we know like post stuff.
There's a reason she can't share things that. It can
be legal, it can be kids, it can be there's
a reason literally, And you're the reason we don't like
five percent of you because you want to get online
to be like Amy. We know, we know, we never
see your husband pictures. Amy, What does that even do?

(01:18:44):
There's no reason Amy's a real life human being. Yeah
they yeah, there's just nobob gets so mad. Wro see.
People were like, we know, well, yeah, of course I
think people knew, but they didn't get online and be
like they because their lives were so worthless. They got
to get online and put up of people's crap out there.
Of your listeners, I like six percent, I don't and

(01:19:06):
I'll get mad. But anyway, okay, racist, we have to
get out of this break we're speaking of Ray. I
thought he had my name in that employe. So did I.
I had ait me this morning. I had Amy this
morning because we've been talking about this, we're figuring out
when we could actually talk about this, like legally in
and then the envelope happened to be today and it
takes Amy said, what if your names in the envelope.

(01:19:26):
That's why we did the envelope first in case her
name was in the envelope. It wasn't her name, but
I thought it was Ray. Would you have ever done that? No?
But man, I would have looked like a genius. Okay,
hold on, sorry today this story comes us from Verreau Beach, Florida.
A man that had warrants out for his arrest also

(01:19:48):
had a mess in his yard when the homeowners association
send him a letter you need to clean it up
or else. So he said, fine, So we started putting
stuff in a pile and burning it. Send it up,
smoke signals, big old flames. Our department police show up,
run his name, and they're resting brows warrants. Yeah, we
used to burn trash, which is not good to do,

(01:20:08):
by the way, for the environment. But I understand. You
just can't burn it freely, like light something on fire
and got everything should catch. We would put it actually
in barrels. You were in the country too, like the
middle of nowhere. That is also true. He was the
middle of We also didn't have warrants, so if we did,
because we had a volunteer fire department that would come
and check and make sure that things weren't burning incorrectly

(01:20:29):
and they would find you. And we didn't have warrants
out for our arrests, so he did everything wrong. Also,
that's two fire stories in a row. Can we make
it three? Then we find one more tomorrow. I quite
finish the week with all burned stories. I mean, I
can look, there's a lot of fire. People love fire,
idiots left fire. Yeah, for sure, I'm lunchbox. That's your
bonehead story of the day. Well, Ammy's Birthday's coming up.

(01:20:53):
Oh yeah, I know today's only Thursday. But did you
know her birthday's on Saturday. I'm giving you guys the
heads up just so you know know that I forgot.
I have no idea. Well, and I'll say this, no
idea after what's sixteen years of no idea? What what
day is? Saturday? March eighteenth? All right? But here's the thing.
I'm not big. I'm knowing people's birthdays. I to people

(01:21:16):
to know my birthday date. But I know Amy's because
we've been together sixteen years. April second, that's you. Yeah,
that's me. And I know that my wife took your
gifts well for your birthday too? To your house? Was
yesterday you over there? Yeah? House? But I just want
you to know house from me too. Oh yes, No,
I know you think it's only her because I was
with We picked it out together. We went to all

(01:21:37):
the colors and she was like, which one we did
all of it. I just want you to know it's
for me too, because that's bullcraft. Did you guys get
hold on because my wife is really cool and she
picks that cool stuff. And there's no way that Amy
thinks I was involved. Yeah, I mean I was like,
oh wow, I would have never bought this myself. Another way,
I wouldn't have known about it for you either, right,
because it's it's very cool. But I just want you
to know I was then on the process because I

(01:21:59):
know I I don't need the credit, but I need
the credit sometimes. You know, iddress that you're defending yourself
a lot. Something that I knew. First of all, my
wife on over day Eddie and I had to fly
a little rock yesterday because we spoke at this event
for a group called Vera Lloyd that works with a
lot of kids, underprivileged kids, foster kids. So we go
to speak there and my wife say, can't want he to.
Amy's took her birthday present. I'm like, did you tell

(01:22:20):
her from me too? She was like, yeah, I said,
did you say it worst you would believe it? Yeah?
I heard you just assume y'all are in us. Yeah,
but I know what that means, yeah, all the it's y'all,
I know what that means. But just so you guys know,
you have tomorrow if you're going to celebrate Amy, to
celebrate Amy. I just got Eddie's birthday present in the mail. Hey,

(01:22:42):
guess his birthday's also coming up. It's coming up spaghetti Eddie,
and I don't worry about that. You can figure it out.
Ask around March something. It's all hey, everybody on the
street talking about it. Everyone. It gets to me birthday
season here. I like back to back to back, so
happy birthday two days in advance. But I'm doing this.
Everybody knows tomorrow's your birthday. Saturday's birthday Saturday? Yeah, okay, yes,

(01:23:03):
forty two? Mm oh man, I can someone send me
a text on Saturday? You've been forty two for a minute.
But it's like, oh gosh, I just had a flashback
of ten years ago when I made y'all do the
Taylor Swift thirty two music parody when yeah to her
song twenty two Wow Eddie, and you're what sixty three?
I know next? Only forty four, dude. That's crazy, crazy

(01:23:24):
forty four years ago. As we're getting older, that's nuts. Okay,
look I remain Peter Pan. You do. That's it. I'm
off to de Moine, Iowa, hopefully to watch Arkansas beat Illinois.
And we will see you tomorrow. By everybody, the Bobby Bones,
Showy Bones,