Scrub-aissance

It’s 2023 and time for the Scrub-aissance!! Becca and Tanya are back with big plans for the new year!

Hear all about our big re-brand and what we’re leaving behind in 2022! 

Plus, we reveal a major update in scoring a highly anticipated guest!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya red An I
Heart Radio Podcast. Hello everybody, it is three. It is
a new year, and it is a new era of
scrubbing in. It is a scrub of sonce it is
a scrub of song. What does that mean? We never

(00:22):
discussed what the scrub of songs meant, like, we never said,
like what that entailed? Is it anything? It's a revival,
it's a rebirth. It's a rejuvenation, and it is exemplified
in our what do you call that thing that we
just updated and it is represented in our logo. Well,

(00:45):
the thing is is not us anymore. We are twenty
twenty three scrubbing in. That's right, that's right. Well we
didn't start. I'm glad that's scrubbing It is out. I'm
so glad that scrubbing in never existed, so therefore it's
definitely Outen, scrubbing in is no longer. You're two thousand

(01:08):
and late. Isn't nothing said that? Right? Yes? For you
said about right that pink logo was two thousand. But seriously,
it is crazy because the original scrubbing in photo was
just me. Because it was just me when we started,
and we had that for a while, just me, yeah,
and then we did me and you and that was

(01:29):
two thousand eighteen, and that was when I met. And
that was up against a wall. I remember. We were
like up against a white wall in the break room
right here, back to back in our scrubs, back to
back in our scrubs, and you know, it was cute.
It was like two gals, two gal pals finding their
way around town, you know, romping around town, rumping around

(01:49):
around our scrubs. And those two gal pals have blossomed.
They have cocoons, they have butterflied, and they are women
now in suits. We are women in suits, and you know,
like modern women in suits, modern women in suits, you know,
in um, Like how doctors go from wearing scrubs every
day and then they start wearing like once they get

(02:10):
to a certain level, they were like nice dress clothes. Yeah,
that's what we did. We became attending attending lead surgeons,
no longer interns. I just want you all to know
that when you google my name, it says healthcare professional
next to it, so yes, you can look it up
right now. Someone pointed out on the scrubbing in Facebook group,

(02:31):
it's so good professional and you know, it's funny. And
before I went on The Bachelor, I was a chiropractic assistant,
which no, because like I didn't do anything healthcare related.
Like in the healthcare world they were harshcare adjacent. Yeah,
I was definitely adjacent to the Google schem. Yeah they

(02:55):
should say healthcare professional adjacent. Yeah, but yeah, I just
felt like we needed too. It was just time. It
was time. And you know, you know what comes with time,
change and change, wisdom and change hand in hand. What
do you feel wiser about going into um so many things?

(03:15):
Oh my gosh, had I know now, I probably would
have done everything the same, But I just feel a
lot more knowledgeable now. You would have done everything the same,
probably because I don't regret anything. I like that self awareness. Yeah,
like you know yourself enough to like even wouldn't necessarily

(03:37):
have done anything different, but you would be aware of
the things that maybe you could have done different. Correct.
I'd be like, girl, this storm is not lasting forever.
The sunshine is coming out tomorrow. Yeah. I feel like
that's is that not how you lived your life? Yeah?
There was some dark times sprinkled in. There's some dark moments.
So what is in your mind. I'll tell you get

(04:00):
a drumroll, please, absolutely you can here it comes. Get ready,
and we are one step closer to this project. And
Patrick Dempsey, why was I thinking like your book, like

(04:21):
all these things, and personally there's a lot going on
podcast wise, I think my biggest goal is to get
Patrick Dempsey on this podcast in the flesh in the studio,
back to back. Well, we did have an update on this, yes,
so we have a lead. So we know a guy
who knows a guy who knows no hold on. This

(04:43):
is the connection. This guy he knows the guys who
did like he endorses this water and it's a sister
company to the water that I endorsed at Kiss like
last year or something. And this is real, this is real.
It is legit. And so he said he's going to

(05:05):
tell these people about scrubbing in to get Patrick on listen.
It's basically I don't want us to share his name
because I don't know if he wants me to share
his name. But he works for iHeart Media on the
East Coast. He's like an on air personality. I was like, so,
I was like, how did you know I did that endorsement?

(05:26):
You know, um, but it makes me feel like we're
one step closer to Patrick Depsey Patrick, and it might
just be on literally one step, like I think it's
just maybe one step closer, but it's closer than we
were before that, closer than we were and you know what,
one step closer, just one step forward. It's fine. Oh,

(05:49):
it's progress, progress, and that's all we're looking for. Will
be settled for a zoom interview with Patrick Dempsey. It's
not the goal, right, it's not the goal. But yes,
but get the answer to that, we'll settle. Well. You
know that brings up an interesting point about settling. Oh wow, okay,
I also want to talk about you and Robbie's gas station.

(06:11):
That's what I was going to talk about, because I
feel like when we settle in life, when we're desperate, Yes, smart,
can I help you? No? No No, No, I should make
sure because I was clearing you know we were on
this I was gonna say cross country road trip. We
were not. We were just on a road trip to

(06:32):
northern California. But we were desperate for gas and it
was cold times outside and we were desperate. We hadn't
seen a gas station in a very long time. This
isn't California cold. This is legitimate winter cold. Yeah. Um,
but I mean yeah, you're in the mountains. In the mountains.
So we pull over and this like gas station. The

(06:52):
gas thing is like like making all these those like
it looks like it's going to explode. I'm like, what
are we putting in our cars? This gasoline? I'm not
quite sure. Go into the bathroom. There's no bathroom. That's
a porta potty. There's no toilet paper in there. So
I had to pee in the woods with a napkin
from our own car, from our own snacks that I packed.
And I was like, that was a treacherous experience, and

(07:12):
like crazy. Right when we get back in the car
and we start making our way back, one foot in
front of us is a glorious seventies SI station and
the glorious mobile station with bright lights, welcoming signs, snacks,
functioning bathrooms, And I was like, this is such a
metaphor for life. If you're desperate and you just pull

(07:37):
over to the next best thing that you see, you're
gonna end up at this rickety gas station wiping your
vagina with a rough, rough napkin from sprouts up the
street probably biodegradable, yes, for sure. Or you can have
your standards, hie, and not settle and right up the
road you're gonna get a nice, shiny partner. M hm.

(08:03):
I'm not sure this analogy work. See, I think it does.
I think both of y'all's analogies really resonated with me.
So then Robbie's counter, you know lawyers. They loved the
counter and he loves the counter. He was like, or
is it you're always looking for the next best thing?
You're not happy satisfied. We got gas, our car got gas,

(08:25):
great gas. We're driving, we're on the road. We got
to use the restroom. It's a reliable gas station. We
got what we needed. You can get what you need.
Are you gonna waste your time? Just go into the bigger,
better thing. Which is interesting because your whole thing throughout
the years of this podcast has been steady Eddie. Yes, yes,
that is correct. I want steady Eddie you, but I

(08:47):
don't want rickety Rick. I'm not sure what he's spewing
out of his hose. I don't know what's fine. Y'all
got home. We didn't get home. It happened to be
gas gasoline, but I wasn't sure at the moment. I
was like, this feels I just feel like depending on
where you are in life depends on whose analogy resonates

(09:07):
with you the most, because I've been in both. You know,
I think we've all experienced where we're like, if I
had just been a little more patient, I could have
gotten something maybe better. Yes, yes, in so many ways.
But you know what, those new gas stations are going
to be old one day, and are you going to
be looking for the next newest thing. Yes, okay, no,

(09:30):
I'm just joking, totally loyal, but you know, for the purposes,
for the purposes of this, uh, this debate, Yes, yes, Yeah,
it was interesting. It was funny to see and that
is the most Robbie thing I've ever seen him taking
your hopeful analogy and being like, let me lawyer this
real quick. Yeah. It was funny because I shared a
little bit of a thing in the instagram cut him off,

(09:52):
and so many people were deeming me like I wanted
to hear his side, and I was like, oh, you're
killing what they want. Yeah. You also brought up the
snacks that y'all had, yes, which was a lot of snacks,
healthy pre packed snacks and mostly from the earth. Yeah,

(10:13):
mostly from the earth. I had an interesting experience on
my Haley and I went to Joshua Tree and by
the way, it takes two and a half hours to
get there. Take you six hours. Yeah, with Phoebe car
it was really bad on Friday in the desert. It

(10:34):
was so bad. Well, I don't know people are Yeah,
I think people were just like, I don't know, Vegas.
Is that the same way you go to Yeah, to
get back from Tahoe. Eleven hours from Tahoe. Would send
me eleven hours from Tahoe, I think would send me.
But that's it's like double triple what it should have

(10:55):
been like yours. Yeah, that's bad. Um. But Hailey had
ordered all of our groceries because we just got an
airbnb and like we normally just like stand and cook
and stuff. And it was all from like sprouts, which
in whole food, which is like healthy you know. So
I was like browsing the snacks on the app when
she was ordering, thinking, my god, we're starting off the

(11:16):
new year with organic only. I like, I got like
pizza rolls and bagel bites, but they were like, oh,
natural ingredients so great, So it's like it kind of
made me think like maybe I can do it, like
not not so much. A healthier life's not like a
step up step a step forwards progress. Um, but I

(11:39):
was thinking about how I love road trips and I
love like the snacks on road trips, and I was
thinking about Rob. Yeah, but he's healthy, so he is
he is like he that we are very similar. We're
like food compatible. We do enjoy eating kind of the
same way. But it is funny because I think I'm
I'm like on the totally opposite of the pendulum right

(12:00):
now because of my hashimotos. I'm so aware of like
every little thing that I'm eating and I'm trying to
just eat super like whole foods, not processed, super clean,
and I like throughout all of our plastic tupperware, and
he was trying to like find tupper up for the
stuff and he was like, where's all of her? So
what are you using instead? Glass jars and like just

(12:23):
like glass containers and why is that? For anyone who's
not familiar with the reasons to get rid of their
tupper wear, there's a lot of toxins and plastic anything
and so it's really bad when it's touching your food.
So I donated it to the dog shelter with a
lot of other Sunny's things. I didn't want to just
toss in the trash um. But it was really funny

(12:45):
because he was like rummaging through and he was just like,
where's all of our Yeah, you can use these amazing
glass jars, Mason jars. He was not prepared for, Tanya,
not prepared, but happy about it. Yeah, I'm sure he's
not bumming. He's very willing to go along with all
your things and my antics. Yeah, he's in it for

(13:06):
because he knows they'll probably last for three to six
months and then you're on to the next thing. So
not true, not true. Not with this one. This is
gonna last a full year. Oh good, Yeah, that's how
long I have to give it. Well, I had the
weirdest holiday season I think ever. This is the first,
well there's been one Christmas where I wasn't with family,

(13:27):
but I was just my well I was with family,
just like not my whole family. This is the first
Christmas I wasn't with any family on Christmas? What do
you want to tell us about that? In the second
you mean after a break, yeah, break, Yeah, we can
do that. So I think everyone had interesting Christmas holiday

(14:00):
season this year, with like the winter storm in the
Midwest and the east South flight like, oh my gosh,
we were supposed to fly back from Wisconsin and Southwest
and we panicked and just canceled it and bought a
flight home on American And I gotta say, because every
airline will screw you at some point, it couldn't have
gone smoother. Both flights left on time. Bags were waiting

(14:21):
for us when we got there. It was phenomenal. In
our original Southwest flights that we canceled left three hours late,
led that a half an hour before our connecting flight,
and so I don't know that we would have it.
We may have gotten stranded in Phoenix all night. So yeah,
it was wild. That's why I saw this happening. Were
our trip to Taha was like last minute and Robbi's like,
let's just fly in arena, and I'm like, I am

(14:42):
not flying anywhere right now because this is just mayhem. Well,
I had booked my flight and I was supposed to
get there Christmas Eve in the morning, and then my
sister who's in Denver her flight got canceled going out,
so I was like, well, why don't you fly to
l A so that you're at least with me if
anything happens, You're not like alone in Denver. So we

(15:05):
book her flight on Southwest. The night before that one
gets canceled and I had rebooked us to go on
a flight together, um separate from my flight, So I
canceled my original flight. That one made it to Louisiana.
By the way, I wasn't on it because I canceled
it so that I could be with my sister. She
never made it to l A. The flight the flight

(15:27):
I booked for us got canceled, and so I was like,
you know what, I'm not going to stress about it.
I'm with Hayley's family. Like I'm excited to spend Christmas
with Haley. I'm not gonna like panic. I'll see my
family after Christmas. So I booked my flight to go
home the day after Christmas. I on Christmas Day come
down with the worst sore throat. I am not kidding.

(15:49):
I have ever felt as an adult. I may have
felt bad when I was a kid and had that,
I am not kidding. I cannot remember the last time
my throat felt like this, I had no other symptoms,
just like, didn't you want to speak? Didn't ee want
to swallow my own spit? It was horrible. So this
happens on Christmas night, so I don't even say by
to everyone because I'm so sick that I'm like, I

(16:10):
don't even want to be near anybody. And all night
I was just riding in pain. And I got a
doctor's appointment and went in immediately. That morning, I had
to cancel my flight. I was like, okay, I can't
even speak. Haley was standing outside of the doctor's office
and she heard me talking, but she was like, I'm
not sure if this is Becca's room because that is
not Becca's voice. And the doctor was asking Haley. She

(16:33):
was like, I don't know if she tipped. Is this
her normal voice? And she was like no, I've literally
never heard this before. So she did like a throat swab,
give me a steroid shot, give me antibiotics, and within
the next day I was like significantly improved, but it
was horrible. It was strapped throat, which I got as
a kid, like all the time. I haven't had it
since then, and I'm just so grateful that I was

(16:57):
able to get in and get medicine because I would
have been like it would have been war. So I
might go home tomorrow. I'm not sure. Unexpected thought twist
out of here by, but it was. It was. It
was just like a different holiday, Like it was kind
of weird. It was like hot here. Yeah, it was weird. Look,

(17:19):
so we were going up to Tahoe. The night before
we were driving, I'm up all night, every hour, I'm
going to the bathroom and I'm like, are you freaking
kidding me? I have a U T I The night
before We're about to drive to Tahoe. I was like
texting back at three o'clock in the morning all the time.

(17:40):
But it's been so long. Knock on wood. Yeah, it
was very it was very unexpected plot twist. And I'm
happy that it happened in two because I am not
bringing that energy. No, but I like powered through. I

(18:02):
I like called my Dino right away and like these
doctors are amazing. Like I called her office and then
it was like if it's an emergency, pressed eight, and
I pressed eight. She's like hello, Dr Collins, and I
was like what. I was like, Wow, it was pretty amazing.
I've never had like that before. I was gon urgent care,
you know what I mean. Yeah, but it was not

(18:26):
after hours. I called in the morning, was like nine
am or something. But yeah, it was pretty amazing. So
I got my beds and I was like, you know what,
I'm gonna do this. We're gonna do this. We're gonna
we're gonna get there. We get there. Robbily so excited ski.
He like love skiing, niver Ski, just the two of
us because last time when we had the kids and
we get there. The first day we get there, it's
raining and like I don't know if you don't really

(18:47):
know much about skiing and stuff, but you can't ski
in the rain because it's like it gets really slushy
and I'm not like a good skier, and so everything
was like closed. The wind was crazy, so they were
closing all the whatever the things gondolas that go through.
So it's like it's fine, little ski tomorrow. So we
like played cars, got drunk and just had like a
fun snow day. Right the next day, we don't wake

(19:08):
up and it's like a blizzard. It is crazy. They're
getting they're getting pounded. Nothing is working on the mountains,
so we're snowed in again day two. So that day
we actually went like frolic and like made like did
all that like picture? Yeah, yeah, I got scrubbers. I
heard from saying Tanya needs to stop posting's engaged. Yeah yeah,

(19:31):
so I'm not engaged. I'm not hiding it. Uh would
never hide that. Will be very excited to not hide that, say,
like out of all the people who would hide it. No,
So yeah, so no, I'm not engaged, but you know,

(19:53):
still really just feeling it's just feeling the energy, you know,
just feeling the Bejeweled energy, you know, manifestation. Yeah, yeah,
I have high plan. I have a lot of plans
for three so it's time to get the show on
the road. You know what I'm saying. I'm saying that
I'm saying. I know what I'm saying. No, I didn't

(20:13):
do those plans until we got to Jewel, so you know,
no pressure or anything but pressure. No pressure. Yeah, super chill.
I'm like, I'm basically like Ice Queen, like, yeah, we
so every time we go in a New Years trip,

(20:34):
we typically just do nothing and rest, and it was
this year was we did nothing like Caroline my sister
had gotten Haley this paint by numbers thing for which
is first of all, the fact that your sister got Haley.
That made me emotional. Yeah, it was really it's really cute.
She got it for her in April for her birthday,
and when we opened it, it was so many tiny

(20:56):
numbers that we both kind of just rolled it back
up and we're like, we'll revisit. And so I was.
We were talking about it and Haley before we left,
she was like, we should bringing like a puzzle or
something to work on. I was like, what about that
paint by numbers thing? So we opened it and Haley
is very much like she loves painting, but she doesn't
like any rules or restrictions, so like that was very

(21:16):
stressful for her, whereas I like rules and like borders,
like I always did well in art if I had
like so I just like I'm talking for however long
five days, I just would like sit and work on it,
like while we were just relaxing, listen to music, and
it is the coolest thing. We finished it last night
and I'm going to frame it. But it was like

(21:37):
I had the best time, and I was thinking if
I was if I lived alone, and I was just
like single, and I would make myself dinner and get
one of those things and just sit and listen to
music and or listen to a podcast, and just really
I loved it. I learned a lot about myself on
this trip. What did you What else did you learn?
I also started reading this book called The Untethered Soul.

(22:00):
I'm I need you to read it after I'm done.
Just on chapter. I'm like on the first chapters it's
just about like learning about yourself and like finding peace.
The first chapter is talking about your inner voice, like
do y'all, I'm assuming you'll have like inner dialogue, like
if you're in a situation. I did this a lot
while I was like dealing with difficult things in my

(22:22):
relationship with Haley, like navigating telling people or whatever. I
would have these internal conversations of like how it would go,
and I would play both roles. Do you'll do that?
I'll do this with everything? And it sounds exhausting. I
think you if you're once you're aware of it. I
think you realize you do it. But he's talking about

(22:42):
your inner voice and how if if you personified your
inner voice, like if you like personified that person, gave
it a name, and you pretended that you were hanging
out with him, you would be like, I am so
annoyed by this person. They have a thought on everything.
They're always like doubting or not trusting something, or they
always have like a negative response of some things, like

(23:03):
you should you know? For me, my inner voice sometimes
is like don't do that, Like what what if it
goes wrong? Or what if someone has a reaction to it?
And so it was saying like if you personified that voice,
you would never keep them around. You'd be like, I
gotta get this person out of my life. And how annoying,
how annoying it is, and how crucial it is that
we like listen to that voice so often and there's

(23:25):
no truth to it. It's like our own thing made up.
But it's so fascinating and I can't wait to finish it.
I saw this girl that I love on Instagram, Amber
filler Up, and she recommended and she's like, it changed
my life. I would love to change my life. That's
part of the renaissance past that book on over. But anyways,
I'm I really enjoyed reading. I just loved being I

(23:46):
was on my phone, like I took photos and stuff,
and like I was on social media but not I
like spent so much time off of it, and I
loved it. I had the best time. I love that.
You can't wait to get the book, can't wait to
give it. You know another book is coming out in January. Yeah,
let's talk about it. Should we? Should we take a
break and come back. And I know there's so much
that I feel like, there's so much more that I

(24:08):
want to talk about, because like we haven't seen each
other in like a really long time, and like there's
just so much to get to, Like I don't know
what order to go in, but I guess we always
have next week. There's always next week. Yeah, that's the
good thing. Let's take a break and we'll come back
with the sunshine Mine. So before we went on a break,

(24:39):
we were saying, there's another book coming out soon. There's
another book coming out soon Jante jan three one. That's
four weeks from today. To you and me, it's so
crazy it's happening. It's like so crazy. Because I was
kind of gearing up for stuff around the holidays, I
took time off. I took like a the two weeks

(25:01):
from Christmas to New Year, and I was like, I
really need to get some book stuff done off my
plate because come jan come Jan one, it's going to
be full steam ahead. And I'm really glad I did
that because now it's like not so overwhelming, but it's
like so like we just have so much coming up.
We're gonna do a book signing at the Grove that
is so cool. It's gonna be so cool. So that's

(25:24):
going to happen, and then we're gonna be on Good
Morning America, I know. So it's like just kind of
gearing up for all of all of the fun of it. Um,
the exciting. I mean, all of it's like really fun, exciting,
but it's just the release. The release. It's like so
much build up, so much time, so much energy, so
much effort into this project, and like now it's like here, Yeah,

(25:47):
it's like happening. It's almost like I'm giving birth, you know, yeah,
it really you're giving birth. Yeah, because you've been working
on this for a long time, years and it's finally
come to fruition. It has come to ruition. Three. I'm
going to be a published author New York Times best
Selling Authors, right that's right, fingers crossed. Um. But I

(26:10):
did have a confession to make, okay, So I said
on the podcast, and I was like, I can't remember.
A couple of months ago, I was like, oh my gosh, oh,
I thought you're gonna do the drum roll. It's not that.
It's really not that. Yeah, it's a little bit of
a long run. I think I have more gray hair

(26:32):
than I thought. I never. A couple of months ago,
I was getting my hair and I was like, oh
my gosh, I found my first gray. This is so exciting.
Oh my god, you're excited. Were exciting. Yeah, I cut
it out. I had tawny like cut it out of
my head. I was like, yeah, I save that sucker.

(26:53):
And I did a melt before the holidays to like
give my hair a break from the bleach before I
like ramp up because I'm gonna go full each for
the book release. Yeah yeah, yeah, she's gonna be real
blonde for a book book launch week. But so I
did give my hair a break over the holidays, and
so my roots are like really brown, and I'm seeing
so many more grays in there now. I'm like, maybe

(27:15):
it's because my hair is darker. I can see them
more and I couldn't see them before because my hair
was so blonde. But there's like a lot of grays
in there. Well, I mean I don't even welcome, like
definitely a handful or more. Well, let's yeah, I mean,
I'm sure when your hair is like bleached blonde, you
don't see gray hair. I know. But it made me

(27:35):
more aware of I guess my age because I always
feel like I'm twenty five. Well, I feel seven. That's
like my like age. That's yeah, I feel twenty five
like I feel twenty five. And then I saw those
hairs and I was like, oh my gosh, I'm I'm
in my thirties. We are indeed in our thirties. Thirties,
I am in my mid thirties, and here we are you.

(27:58):
I got my first gray hairs a like twenty three,
So I'm like way wiser than you, etcetera. I'm way wiser,
so way wiser. So that was my confession. And then
I also watched a lot of stuff over the holidays.
What I just remembered? What did you watch? What did

(28:19):
you remember? I watched so many things, like we could
watch we could talk about the Harry and Megan documentary.
We could talk about the Recruit. We could talk about
Glass Onion, Glass Onion, we could talk about Matila the musical.
We could talk about day watched. We started watching the
show you posted about Sisters. Yeah, and then we're gonna
watch Kaleidoscope to Okay, I want to watch Kaleidoscope. The
only thing I watched that you listed was Glass Onion.

(28:40):
I saw that in theaters so lame. I hated it.
I loved the time, the first one, the second I
I had no issue with the second one. It was
really fun. I do have a confession about that movie.
Which one the first on the second, the second one,
the Glass Onion. We saw it um in theaters and

(29:02):
I may or may not have taken an edible before,
thinking like this could be fun. I got so anxious
in the theater and thought, what if I, I literally
I don't do this normally want to take a notedible
because I think I'm just at home, comfortable in my house.
I was like, what if I can't get out of
here in the theater, Like what if I can't get
out of the theater? Like and then we were in

(29:22):
the middle section, like we were right in the middle
of the road be able to get out of the theater.
That's like there's doors. I don't know I could. I
just my brain was like doing this thing. So I
had the worst experience watching that movie. So and then
on top of that, I hated the movie. So I
was just like all of it was like responsible. That's
a good question, but I Haley also didn't like it,

(29:45):
So I wonder if all the expectations, like when you
pay money and go to a theater, you have a
certain amount of expectation. I washed it on a plane
on Netflix on my iPad, and I found the delightful
because I'm just killing time, So that might be a
difference there. Now I watched at home and it was bad.
But I'm kind of like when I go to a theater,
my expectations really, I'm like, I have popcorn and candy

(30:06):
and a drink. I'm chilling, like I'm honestly happy, no
matter what the problem was. I ate all my food
before we were even like halfway through the movie, so
then I was just anxious and like full, what's your
beef with it? Tanya didn't really articulate properly what it
didn't like. It articulated because it's so bad. I'm like,
Eastern You're not part of this discussion. I know. I

(30:27):
loved it. I loved the movie. Yes, I watched it
on Netflix and my wife and I loved it every
second of it. Um. I thought it was such a
fun improvement from the first movie. Fun improvement movement. Interesting,
that was a step up. The tone had changed completely. Yes,
and it was I mean much like the first movie

(30:47):
was making fun of, like old money and stuff like that.
I thought this was a really fun way to make
fun of, like you know, the the teslas and netflix
is and things, the disruptors. Yeah, I did like that
to an air out of those things. Um. I thought
it was really fine. And I love who Done It's.
I love mysteries. I love that kind of garbage. Um.
I love those kind of archetypes, all of those characters.
I had a great time. Alright, well fifty fifty here

(31:10):
in the scrubbing in room, maybe sound off scrubbers, probably not.
Hana was living her best life in her life. She's
living her best life and she was still another podcast. Okay,
well we watch. Let me just say since I think

(31:31):
my attention span has collapsed since I've had TikTok, which
I'm trying to limit as well. Oh yeah, I have
something to I'll get to after you, okay, And um,
so we started watching, and so Haley will start a
series and if I'm not instantly hooked, I can't like
pay attention, so I'll just like play on my phone
or something and she'll watch the whole thing and I'll
just like to jim in when I can or want to.

(31:55):
But we started Bad Sisters. It's on Apple TV, you guys.
It was one of the best shows I have watched
in a very long time because when we watched it,
So we watched the first episode and I was hooked.
I was like, I want to watch it. It is everything.
It has everything you could want in a show. It
has everything that I would want in a show. It
had like the sisters, the sister relationship, which I thought

(32:16):
was so funny. They're all Irish, so like the accents
for Grett. I just love that it's funny, but it's
dark and like it is just incredible. I really like
the first episode. I can't recommend the show enough. If
you have time and want to binge a show, Bad
Sisters on Apple TV. It was Yeah, I'm excited to
finish and like, I think there's gonna be a season two.

(32:38):
But I have mixed feelings about it because I'm like,
it was so good. Yeah. I always get weird about
like sequels and season twos, so it's a little bit
about me. Um yeah, yeah the last the list is
going to go on and on and on, but this one.
Um so in my new person suit of my health,

(33:02):
health is wealth, healing from the inside out. You are
what you eat. Okay, it's my mentality. It's not always
been this, but it's newer because I'm so focused on
like something specific, something specific like beating my hashimotos, like
in a non medical way. So I started. I was like,

(33:27):
I we were in Tahoe and this like pizza place
had all there. They were like, we can do any
of our pizzas gluten free for you. Like they were
so accommodating, and I was like, first of all, I
think the waiter that we had was the best waiter
I've ever had my entire life. That gave him like
the biggest Yeah, oh shoot, tied on no better than

(33:50):
No Boo because he was just so like not just
on it, but like kind and courteous and just like
all I was like, like we literally robbing. I could
stop talking, should shout this guy out? It was too
There was two guys on the he wrote like two names.
I think it was like Brian and Evan on the bill,

(34:10):
so I don't know which one it was, but I
was like we were eating or eating it and we
were like, oh my gosh, this gluten free pizza was
like amazing. It was so good, and I was like, um,
after I've been like doing all this stuff and I've
been posting about it, people are very curious and want
to know more about like gluten free options and like

(34:30):
all this gluten free stuff, and it's like very undersaturated,
Like there's not like I have to do all this research.
I'm just doing it on my own. Like I'm just
buying all the different things and seeing what I like best,
and um so I'm like going to be the gluten
free gal. Might start a TikTok. I don't know gluten
free gal and like rate all my experiences at different
places that I go to about like how gluten friendly

(34:51):
they are best products that I'm consuming, Like I'm gonna
be one of those TikTok ER's that's like rating my
gluten free. I love that for you. I love it
for me too, great idea. I think it's very helpful,
so helpful because I've been doing all this research. I'm
like doing all this research and I can't find anything.
So I'm like, I'll just be the guinea pig and

(35:12):
started doing it myself. And you know what's crazy, It's
like Hioneer Blaze New Child watched the Good Free lifestyle
has been around for a minute, but I love that.
You'll have your own take on it, the Tanya take,
the Tanya take. Yeah, but it was I don't know.
I'm very like into it, like very very interested in
this whole world. Do you know who Alex Earle is? Yes?

(35:35):
Why do I know her? I followed on Instagram? Oh
on Instagram. Yeah, she's blown up on TikTok are you
talking about? She's like young? She was just like on
a yacht somewhere. It has been fascinating because I am
a thirty four year old woman and she's like twenty two,

(35:56):
n't she's like he's young, still in college. And I
find myself watching every video she makes and there's nothing
like it's like get ready with me videos. There's nothing
like groundbreaking about what she does, but I think it's
a fact that she does it in a way that's
very like she's very open about like anything she's had done,
she has, like she struggled with acne. She talks about

(36:18):
her acne shows. You know, she's just very like it
feels like you're with your friend. Yeah, but it's fascinating.
Like she's just blown up. And she did Alive where
she was talking about her breakup with her boyfriend who's
a major league baseball player, and she was just talking
like she was just talking like she was on FaceTime

(36:39):
with her best friends, but she's on a TikTok live
and she was just basically saying like he wouldn't post
photos of her on his Instagram, Like they went to
a wedding and he put he posts like they took
a bunch of photos together and he posted just a
photo of himself, and she was like, what the heck,
Like why won't he posts me? And I think he
he had she she mentioned like he had a hard
time with like the social media world like her blowing

(37:02):
up so fast, and and then all these people are
now like dragging this guy who probably was just like
I don't know what his story is, but she and
so she releases it and she like, don't be mean
to him. Like I'm still getting used to this world
of like being having these this mini So are you
saying that I should ut to emulate my like I

(37:24):
would like Alex Earle? Yeah, very different by what y'all
will be doing, but like I think the same tone
of just like it being your just your experience and
not making it too aesthetic or whatever. I'm not an
athe I know that about you, So I don't have
an aesthetic. Let me tell you. I think you'll do

(37:45):
really well with that. Wow, Like the unabridged is that
the right word? Unfil varnished, unfiltered? Did you know unfiltered
was my word for last year? I didn't remember that. Yeah,
I didn't remember. I went back and listened to a
podcast what's yours renaissance? Reissance? Um, I think that mine.

(38:11):
I don't have a word just no direction. Well, I
just didn't have lessly living through. Yeah. But I also
I think if a word comes up where I'm like,
that's my word, it doesn't have to be like right now,
like it can. I don't want to just throw out
a word, to throw out a word to know it? Though?
Do you know what I think you do? Do you

(38:32):
know one? For me? Is that you're thinking about? No,
I think in your gut you know one right now?
I really don't have I think you do. Okay, Well,
if it comes to me like it's come to you,
like think about like that water works that you were doing,
paint by numbers. You're in this. You're in a very

(38:53):
content place. I like contentment. That was like one word
I was thinking about the whole time I was in
Joshua Tree. Were you in contentment? It's like I'm a
a word swizard, word smithy. I just know you. Yeah,
I told him, Oh, I'll save it for next week.
I don't. Well, that's a tease. I'm curious. What is it? Well,

(39:15):
because I haven't given you your Christmas gift yet? Your
Christmas gift was not ready in time, but the word
on it for me. So what I did this year
for like my best friends, is I thought of a
word that I I saw for them in um the
word that I want like that I saw for them
like in their lives. And I spent a lot of

(39:37):
time thinking about these words for them and so I got, well,
I don't wanna tell you what it is, but it
has the word on it the time. This is the
New Year's Show. Shouldn't you tell her? You want me
tell you what it is? The word that I tooked
for harmony. Oh wow, I love that. That's a great word.
Maybe that's maybe I should just take your thought for
me and and I would be honored if you took

(39:58):
it harmony. I love that, I know, because it's just
like really embodies I feel like where you're at. But
also your goal, like your goal is just like harmony,
everybody getting along, everybody like yeah, wow, I love that.
I can't wait to see what Robbie helped a lot
with that one, because I was like I had like
the essence I just couldn't think of, Like I couldn't

(40:19):
condense it down. You know. That's what we are, A team, team,
team t E a M. Team, partners, partners. He's a partner,
he's a partner. What are things you're leaving behind in
that's a great question, Beck, I'm leaving gluten behind yeah yeah, yeah, um.

(40:43):
I'm also trying to be less stressy. I get very
stressy about stuff, like even when we were driving back
from Tahoe. I was like the roads were all closed
and took us eleven hours, and I was like panicking
that We're going to spend the night. And then I'm
going through my brain of like I'm going to have
to send my trending reports to Sam to type up
and send into Mark, and like I'm going just so
far down the line. And we ended up getting home

(41:05):
the same day, you know what I mean. So I
was just like panicking, and I got mad at Robbie.
And this is the thing about this book I'm reading.
That's what I'm saying. I tell me, what is it?
What's talking about? How that inner voice is just like
always like it's always there and you can't like once
you're able to separate it from yourself and go like
you're not real Like what you're what you're doing is

(41:26):
not actually happening right now. It's let me tell you, guys,
this is the Okay, I'm gonna set the scene for you.
We pull up and there's about a hundred cars stopped
right and there's like a little police um, I don't know,
it's not a car, it's like a little police stop.
And one by one, the first car in the row
is stopping at the police man stop and then turning
right around and going back, so basically meaning we'd have
to go back to the two and a half hours

(41:46):
we already drove back into town. And I'm sitting here
and we're like a hundred cars deep. So I'm like,
and Robbie's like, should we just turn around now? And
why why are we waiting to get to the front
and then turn around, you know, And he's like, no,
let's just wait it out. Let's just see because they're
was like one car that went, We're like one out
of a hundred. And then we roll up, roll down
the window and and uh. Robbie's like, tell me the

(42:09):
good news first. And he's like, where are you guys heading?
And we're like l A, and he goes go on,
lets us through, And I was like this whole time,
that whole weight in that line. I'm sitting here thinking
how stressed I am. I have to like all this
stuff with Sonny. You have to can't talk to her babysitter,
make sure that they're you know, like I'm going through
all these things. We're not getting home. We're not getting home.

(42:29):
And I didn't need to do any of it, and
I was getting mad at him. I was like, We're
never coming up to the mountains mountains again, Like this
is so dumb, and I could have saved myself twenty
minutes of the like panic, and I just been chill.
I need more chill in my life. It's like kind
of like letting go of control really because like you

(42:51):
didn't have control over the situation regardless of what happened.
So it's kind of like you don't have control. Like
everything that's going to happen is going to happen, whether
you're you're like ready for it or wrong. Yeah, but
I think my mind was in like I said, we
should just go to Santa Barbara, and I'm like, if
we would have gone to Santa Barbara would have had
this problem. I would have been snowed in and you

(43:13):
know what I mean, not where like my mind goes.
But it's again, it's not a good place to be
because like we're here, you know, Yeah, it's interesting, it's
interesting our little leaving you're leaving behind. I'm trying, Okay,
she's trying. She's got a tight, gross really hold. I
lived my life being high strung, so this is gonna
be tough on clench. Well, I have something for us

(43:38):
that might be a nice way to wrap up the
New Year's show. This from Caitlin Shippy, who sent this
to me as a d M on Instagram just before Christmas.
She said, I just wanted to email in to say
that the podcast had to mention in my wedding speech yesterday,
I i as the South African Tanya stood by myself

(44:00):
with African Becca as she said I do. I thank
you for being the becket to my Tania in my
wedding speech. I just wanted to say thank you for
touching our hearts on a weekly basis. We have often
discussed how we listen to your podcast if we're having
a bad day. Here is the audio from the actual
wedding speech in South Africa. And also, thank you for
always being made me. Your friendship does mean a lot

(44:20):
to me and lost and not East Margets. Thank you
for being the bigger Tania. You are the most selfless
person on this planet. I don't know what I would
do without you. He's also everyone to raise the glasses
to toast the new couple. Congratulations ship and congratulations. I

(44:44):
think that's so sweet. It is just the best. And
you can almost hear the crowd going, who Mark, that
doesn't matter? Mark, that was so unnecessary, Like what a
blow to the end of the show. It's so sweet.
I'm very out of our s. That was really nice.
The effect that you two have had on your listeners

(45:06):
all over the world. Have you ever been to South Africa,
either one of you. Well, look at that there are
South Africans praising you. Guys is the inspiration for their relationship.
And I love that South African action so nice. It's
just so peaceful, so sweet. I love that so much. Um,
you know what, scrubbing in or scrubbers we are going

(45:26):
to deliver in. We are going to deliver. Yeah, we are.
We're going to deliver. Speaking of, one thing I'm leaving
behind in is not getting fast food delivered. Like if
I want to have fast food, then I have to
get up and go get it. And I just think,
thank you, because I think that if it's not fast
enough for me to get in my car and sit

(45:46):
in a drive through to get it, then I don't
need it. Good for you, Thank you so much. You're
gonna save money, You're gonna save calories in the long term,
I like it. It tastes better when it's fresh. Bye yeah,
saw your fries or by lame. So that was just

(46:10):
you've set me up with the delivery delivering. I mean,
what a great goal. Thank you so much. Other goals too,
but that was just one that I felt. What are
you all leaving behind? Mark and Easton? What's one thing
you're leaving behind and one thing you're wanting to do
in I am leaving behind doing saying yes to everything

(46:32):
um that has comes across my desk because I don't
need to. And uh, you know, I said no to
someone this morning and it felt so good. It may
have involved another podcast that we do, and I was
very happy to say no to that. Um And what
is something I'm bringing into as I'm going to bed
earlier daying it? I'm getting mostly I went to bed
early last night. I felt so good when I woke

(46:54):
up at four am today and getting sleep is number
one baby. You know what's so funny? I had that
like giddy feeling last night because we've been off for
like two weeks and so I like get I get
that giddy like first day back at school thing. Like
last night, I couldn't go to sleep to like eleven pm,
and like Robbie was like, you need to go to sleep.
We're waking up. Really, I was like I can't, Like
but what if it's what if the roads are you know,

(47:16):
still wet in the morning and there's gonna be more traffics.
I set my alarm earlier, like I'm like, like, I've
never done this before. It was so funny. I love
that that means you're doing something you love. Yeah, I
was very giddy last night, but now I'm tired because
I imagine most people had like the well Monday scary
of like going back, you know, imagine most people felt that.
But I love that you were giddy. Yeah, I was

(47:37):
like packed all my stuff if you know, like my
normally my clothes in the bathrooms that I could like change,
you know. I did my whole routine. It's fun. Mark.
I'm looking for simplicity in a little bit more calmness,
because having two teenagers is very hectic, especially when one
they're both performers and they've got shows and rehearsals and
fittings and all this kind of crazy stuff going on.

(47:58):
It can be very hectic and the house. So I
want things to be simple calm. I tend to be
the eye of the storm, and I want to maintain that.
I want to be even bring it down a little more.
No raised voices. That's what I'm shooting for a lot
of people. That's what I'm leaving behind. People are wanting

(48:18):
a lot more peace and calmness in the year. I
find that to be a theme. Yeah, it was a
lovely break, very relaxing. We had lots of fun stuff
in Wisconsin. It was really fun. We went duck pin bowling.
You probably don't even know what that is. Nobody seems too.
It's like bowling, but miniature. It's like miniature bowling. No,
no ducks involved. Really tiny ball right like a shot put.
Tiny ball like a shot put, tiny pins, short lane

(48:40):
and actual teenagers behind the pins setting them back up
for you. It was so fun. A lot of time
went slatting. We built a snow man. We have really
fun stuff. We watched about a hundred episodes of Family Food,
because my god, there's never a time of day family
food is not on television. It's that secual. We should
make that a goal of if they do, not that
they do some sort of family but like show style,

(49:01):
we should get on it. I feel like that's a
that's an achievable you think so, Yeah, I think it
would be so fun, like the podcast, Yeah, it would
be so fun. Steve Harvey is very good. Yeah, he's
really Yeah. So timing is just like perfect. Yeah. A
lot of family feud, a lot of crossroad puzzles, very chill,

(49:22):
and I want to pull that chill into the new year. Yeah.
That's how I felt too, of like the like because
Haley and I both said, it's just been so nice
to rest. I can do nothing, and I was like,
we should do this more like I feel like it's
so we jam pack our schedule. Why it's like that
you can't say no, but you really can, Like it's

(49:43):
but you can't, so then you do, and then you
run yourself tired, and then you're running on empty. Then
you have strapped throat. On the Christmas Day, you know,
to go to the Digy gas station. Yeah, just a
cycle dingy rickety chickety what rickety rick rickety slickety well,
rinkitty dick. I don't think we have time for emails.

(50:05):
It's okay. I mean to do whatever we want. If
we want emails, we'd have to take another break up
to you, guys, but it's twenty three I don't know
one of the rules. The scribers would like an email.
We'll take another break and we'll be back with you
right back, all right, we can't. In the first episode

(50:38):
of the year without an email, Anonymous says advice needed.
Should I break up with my boyfriend? Well, honestly, if
just the fact that you're asking us that question is
probably a yes. But let's look at the evidence. I've
been dating my boyfriend two and a half years. We
moved in together the last year into a new house
that he bought. We haven't had the most stable relationship.

(50:59):
We've had fight where we've said mean things to each
other when we were drunk. Other than that, I'm starting
to realize we have nothing in common. I love to
watch movies and TV shows and read books. He can't
stand movies or TV shows and is not interested in reading.
Our typical night looks like me watching TV alone. My
boyfriend's in the other room gaming there it is Additionally,

(51:21):
he does not know how to communicate with me, whether
it's planning things or expressing his feelings. He cannot communicate
with me. I feel like he'll never say I love
you first, or show me any affection. These are things
I don't think I would need, but now that I'm
getting older, I feel like it's non negotiable for me.
I have a lot of self esteem issues where I
think that I will never have anyone else like me physically,
and worried that his relationship and this relationship is the

(51:42):
best I can do. A couple of things, and they
were thing, I don't know how old you are, but
you mentioned that you're older, but that could be in
anything from twenty to sixty, honestly, And I will never
have anyone else like me physically. What does that mean? Like,
she says she has low self esteem, so she doesn't
feel maybe she don't desirable seeking out other fours. But

(52:05):
you are not a four to somebody else, You're an eight. Well,
It's also like I think the thing is not having
things in common isn't a deal breaker to me because
I think having different interests. To be honest, Haley and
I have a lot of similar interests, but we also
have a lot of different interests and it's only opened
me up to liking new things and same for her.
But I think if he's not willing. The problem that

(52:27):
I'm saying is that he's not willing to meet you.
And I think I really have seen like so much
improvement with couples therapy in this area of like communication
and like meaning each other in the middle. But I
think that he has to be willing to do that.
And I think that you know that you're settling for
a relationship that's not great because you're worried you can't

(52:50):
do better, But you can do better. This is the
gas station analogies. This is liter gas station analogy because
you don't think you can get better, but that's the thing,
Like you can. And the thing is you don't want
the rinkity dickitty station the forest and you could be yes,

(53:16):
but no, in all honesty, I don't think having some
different interests is that big of a deal, because yeah,
like you can kind of me in the middle, and
you can do different things, and like you're never going
to find somebody that is exactly like you like to
spend their time doing exactly what you like to do,
you know what I mean? Like the same with me
and Robbie, Like we don't necessarily when we were driving up,
we wanted to listen to different things, and we've met
in the middle and we found me we both liked.

(53:38):
But so it's not so much of the different interests
to me, it's the fighting and like if you're questioning
it so much, like I just to me, why would
you settle and marry this person now and then spend
the rest of your life in this miserable type of relationship?
Like wouldn't you rather be single? Like doing what you
want all the time, and like getting to enjoy your

(53:59):
time and or space, and like not having to deal
with that, Like I would rather be single then in
a relationship like that. Picture yourself in five years. This
is an exercise married. When I did this, I pictured
myself in five years married to her, I pictured myself
in five years. We were totally not part of each
other's lives, and the idea of not being part of

(54:20):
each other's lives are not seeing her on a daily basis,
was ludicrous to me. It was laughable. That's when I
knew it's time to propose. So think about that, your
life in five years married to him, kids with him,
or your life in five years and you don't even
know him, which sounds more appealing, Which sounds more ludicrous.
Just think about that, because I I don't love this.
I mean, maybe you can make a compromise. You know,

(54:42):
you watch White Lotus together and then he teaches you
one of the games that he likes, and you can
do it each other together. I mean, I wouldn't want
to play any gaming games, but that's important to him,
I think. But but he has to be willing to
do that for her too. And I just the non affection,
not saying I love you, like that's a big deal.
I mean, that's like, if that's important to you, then

(55:04):
I think that you need to be with someone who's
able to fulfill those things that you need. And I
think right off the bat Mark said, the fact that
you're emailing asking I think you know the answer. I
think you know the answer to and you're ceramic what
is it? Ceramic? Porcelain thrown is right around the corner.
It really is. And you have to believe what was

(55:25):
her name is anonymous? Anonymous, beautiful name, and you have
to believe it for yourself, like you really really do.
I think a lot of people struggle with self esteem issues,
and it's like, because I think you're just constantly comparing
to this these perfect, like I think it happens a
lot on social media unfortunately, because you're just bombarded with
these like beautiful perfect images, but none of its reality.

(55:48):
And it's like it's really causing people to have, you know,
insecurity and self worth issues when it's just not the
reality and it's not the case. So I think you're
gonna meet an amazing match. You sound like an awesome
girl if you this podcast, you're cool, so agreed, and
you are not. I don't know what you think about
yourself physically, not that. I hope this gives you the

(56:09):
courage or the empowerment that you need to make the
right step. I also think the last thing I'll say
with the self esteem thing, you really have to learn
to love the person that you are before you can
expect someone else to do that for you. And I
think that preach Becca, No. I think it's so important,
Like I don't think people realize, like, you can go

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from the next relationship to relationship a relationship and you're
always gonna have that same issue of feeling like you're
not good enough if you don't love yourself. So I
think you learn to be alone and enjoy the things
that you love and learn to love who you are
and find someone who can make you feel that way. Yeah,
raise the bar for yourself and for the person you

(56:51):
want to be with you. Raise. This is a lighter
one from page. My husband refuses to do anything sexual
with me when we stay at either of our parents homes.
We're both very close with each other's family, spent a
lot of them visiting, staying over multiple nights in a
row suntimes, up to a week for holidays or vacation.
We're both twenty six. We have a lot of respect
for our parents, but doesn't being married mean it's okay

(57:11):
and almost encouraged. I've tried to sneak in the shower
with him or get spicy at bedtime, but he always
refuses and says he's trying to be respectful. It's nice,
but I want to bang. How do you feel about
being sexual under your parents were in law's roof? I
get it, like, I get it, I get it, I

(57:31):
get both sides. So that's the thing, Like, if it
makes him that uncomfortable, there's obviously a reason for it.
He maybe doesn't want his parents to hear him orgasm,
or your parents to hear him orgasm, which I think
is perfectly acceptable and understandable. And then I also see
your side of like wanting to just like Romp no
matter where you are, and like if it's a big house,

(57:52):
they probably won't hear you. Chances are good, but like,
I don't know, you're both in the right and so
in my opinion, I would just respect that of him
unless you're living there for in perpetuity. But it's like,
it's how often are you staying with each other's parents,
Like just not don't do it on those nights, that's
my suggestion. And if it's a longer trip, maybe one

(58:13):
of the couple of nights you'll get a hotel or
something and have like a date night or something like
as the Romp queen. You know, Like I understand your feelings,
but I feel like I also understand his, and I
think you just need to respect that. That's always awkward.
There isn't that a little awkward to say to your
parents who you're staying with, because we've had this would
be like, Hey, Saturday night, we're gonna go out, We're
gonna stand in Airbnb. You just announced that we're gonna

(58:33):
go have sex, but we don't want to do it
in your home, So we're being respectful comfortable for me.
I mean, but if he's not, if he won't do
it in the house, then what's the other option? If
she has needs? Yeah, girls got needs. Girls got needs.
But I'm also like, you know, if it's just a
week or so, and it's a couple of times a year, right,

(58:56):
Like I would just let him. But it's a compromise
to be had here. Is there's something they can do
ily that he would be on board with. No, I mean,
nothing's quiet to me, so I don't know, yeah, tan yet, No, no, Yeah,
we won't dive into that. Yeah, but I feel like anyway,
whatever you're saying, you know, you know, someone whose parents

(59:18):
to hear him orgasm, you can do that quietly, especially
guys I was gonna say, I don't know, worry about him. Yeah,
maybe he knows. He's like, listen, you're dead giveaway. Yeah,
like a howling cat over there. And I'm not having

(59:39):
my parents here that. Yeah, my parents cannot know you're
a howling hyena. I'm on, I gotta respect him. Got
to be on the side of this one, all right. Well,
on that note, happy excited for this year going into
our sixth year coming up, sweet six Yeah you know

(01:00:04):
what they say. Six. Um, all right, here's to a
new scrubbing in era. She here's everybody, We love you.
Wait we can keep going. Okay, wow, just kidding. When

(01:00:28):
we say bye doesn't mean by. We're still here. Wait,
so don't forget to watch the easts go ahead easton.
Thank You Awards are in a word show I do
every year on Instagram Live. There's Sunday, January eight, five pm.
Everyone in this room has done awards before, so kind
of present. We have a lot of really fun celebrity
guests this year. We were not asked back. Yeah, we
were do a great job. I don't want to bug

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you guys. Oh my gosh, that's the place, yea se
a lot of viewers there. Thank you. Good morning America.
If you want to do it the room. Why was
it moved off from New Year's for the first time ever?
New Year's is always really hectic. I just wanted to
move it up in wine to move it, and I
always forget to. So this is a specific person who

(01:01:12):
couldn't do it on New Year's and that's why you
moved it to accommodate that person. No, I'm doing it.
I decided to do it on a Sunday, which is
when other awards shows do it. We're doing it at
night like other awards shows. It's a real award show. Uh.
And all the celebrity things are prerecorded, so I don't
have to worry about the Yeah, nothing's live. But got
some really big names. I got some big musical numbers

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planned performed by me, and I'm really excited. I did
a lot of extra stuff this year I don't normally do.
We should rent out like the iHeart Studio or iHeart
Theater one day and like sell like literally do like
a raffle cell tickets and stuff and and like have
do a full thing. I would love. I mean, but like,
who's going to come up to accept the award for

(01:01:55):
like Fruit of the Year. We'll have the fruit decorated
or someone holding us like someone yeah, yeah, hand probably
could be your hand model. Oh yeah. I did this
at the Here It Kiss one time and there was
so much fun. I wanted to do it. You know,
maybe we will do this that hasn't been that hasn't

(01:02:16):
been announced yet. Maybe maybe it will come fun. If
you're a scarboard, you want to come let me know
we can happen. But um yeah, it's gonna be a
lot of fun. And uh again, I just want to
thank all you guys. You guys have all done and
beg in times multiple times and it means so much
to me. It's when I call it all the favors
from everyone we do podcasts with them. They're also kind.

(01:02:38):
But I'm really excited and it thinks to me a
lot of fun. Can you tease any celebrity involvement umses?
You know, here's way I can tease icons from the
nineties too. I have an idea. I have an idea
Stars Blind potentially. Do they do they meet anything? Yes? Yes?

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Do they work in coffee shops? No? Okay? At the
Jackets like Tanya has on right now. I think that's
the same person. I don't even know. No, tune in
enough spoilers alright. On that note, we're officially out.