Dating Is Nuts

Dating Is Nuts

Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent 10 years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. Adapted from For Love Or Peanut Butter, the beloved dating column on Slackjaw, Dating Is Nuts = Nobody Wants This + How I Met Your Mother, only in a first person podcast performed by a comedian that feels like an audiobook but in short, deliciously bingeable episodes. .

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November 19, 2025 18 mins

Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in Los Angeles. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly finally reveals the identity of the man she gave up peanut butter for and how they finally figured it out together. Check it out to hear about the seemingly impossible happy ending. And brace yourselves, there might actually be some romance and fuzzy feelings in this one...

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Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Carter tells Kelly every single thing that he think is wrong with her. To her face? Of course not! Via text. Like the grown ass man that he is. This is the fifteenth full episode of season 2 (#215) #DatingPodcast #ModernLove #breakup #breakuptext #textmessages #Situationships #DatingR...

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Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly finally takes some steps with Dex that take her out of the friend zone (yay!), only to take two steps backwards soon after (boo).This is the fourteenth full episode of season 2 (#214) #DatingPodcast #ModernLove #friendzone #Situationships #toosoon #DatingRegret #RelationshipTalk ...

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September 13, 2025 10 mins

Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly screws up and invites Carter to stop by... but he severely overstays his welcome. What happens when the hot guy just won't leave? This is the thirteenth full episode of season 2 (#213) #DatingPodcast #ModernLove #girlsweekend #Situationships #takeahint #DatingRegret #Relation...

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August 13, 2025 11 mins

Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly has to breakup with Andrew. But she really likes him and he's done nothing wrong, plus she's never had to dump someone before. So how does she handle it? Not well. There is definitely a text message involved. If you need to dump somebody, don't do what she did.This is...

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July 30, 2025 9 mins

Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly finally acknowledges that, much like "Fetch" for Gretchen from Mean Girls, when it comes to being Brooks' girlfriend, it's just not going to happen.This is the eleventh full episode of season 2 (#211) Join us on Patreon for behind the scenes making the podcast a...

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Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly goes on her third and fourth dates with Andrew. Things are getting serious, right? Her head, heart, and mom are all on board. Now she just needs her libido to join the squad.This is the tenth full episode of season 2 (#210) Join us on Patreon for behind the scenes making the podc...

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June 18, 2025 10 mins

Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories.

On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly details her second "not a date" hangout with surfer dude Dex, and how she has feelings for him even though she shouldn't...This is the ninth full episode of season 2 (#209)

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Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories.

On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly goes on a second date with Carter that pales in comparison to the first. Why did the vibes die mid date?!

This is the eighth full episode of season 2 (#208)SHOW NOTES:Based on the beloved dating column For Love Or Peanut Butter, Dating Is Nuts stars comedian Kelly Shanley recount...

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Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories.

On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly hopes to go on her second date with her dreamy childhood crush, Brooks, who keeps her hopes up with daily deep talk phone calls.

This is the seventh full episode of season 2 (#207)

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Based on the beloved syndicated dating column from Slackjaw; For Love Or Peanut Butter, Dat...

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Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories.

On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly shares her sweet second date with Andrew, a lake front sunset viewing. Too bad Kelly's neuroses won't just relax and let her enjoy herself.This is the sixth full episode of season 2 (#206)


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Based on the beloved syndicated dating column from Slackjaw; For Love...

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April 23, 2025 12 mins

Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories.


On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly introduces suitor number 4 from her accidental summer of love Dex. Dick pics may have played a surprising role in their courtship...

This is the fifth full episode of season 2 (#205)


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Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories.


On this episode of the FLOPB dating podcast, Kelly shares her first date with suitor number three, Carter. Hard to believe what a great wingwoman her neighborhood bear turned out to be!

This is the fourth full episode of season 2 (#204)


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Based on the syndicated column of the same name, FLOPB stars comedian Kelly Sh...

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Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the FLOPB dating podcast, Kelly can't believe it when she runs into the dreamboat from her childhood, and he's actually interested in her!This is the third full episode of season 2 (#203) SHOW NOTES:Based on the syndicated column of the same name, FLOPB stars comedian Kelly Shanley recounting some of her worst da...

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Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who's been living in LA for 16 years and spent 10 of them on the dating apps.

On this episode of the FLOPB dating podcast, Kelly shares how the universe seemed to have a clear favorite of the four guys she dated that summer...

For Love Or Peanut Butter (FLOPB) is a true life, humorous dating podcast in which a seemingly eligible (yet perpetually single) woman finally delves into the WHY and the HO...

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February 26, 2025 12 mins

On this episode of the FLOPB dating podcast, Kelly introduces four guys she dated in the same summer. Follow along for the How I Met Your Mother style reveal of which one she ends up with!

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Based on the syndicated column of the same name, FLOPB stars comedian Kelly Shanley recounting some of her worst dates, heartbreaks, and lessons learned during her 10 years of being single in LA. An endless supply of dating app disaster...

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February 14, 2025 4 mins

After a healthy hiatus, your favorite dating podcast is BACK! Season 2 is getting a makeover for its February 26th, 2025 debut. Not only are we starting a new adventure that results in actual romance (shocking but true), but we're also adding video!

If you're new here... for Love Or Peanut Butter (FLOPB) is a true life, humorous dating podcast in which a seemingly eligible (yet perpetually single) woman finally delves into the WHY a...

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This week on FLOPB dating pod, we're talking about height and dating. So controversial! Kelly shares how she went from height snob (over 6' please) to falling for a short king.


SHOW NOTES: For Love or Peanut Butter (FLOPB) is a true life, humorous dating column turned podcast in which a seemingly eligible bachelorette who can’t find love finally delves into the WHY and the HOW she has remained single into her mid-thirties, and chang...

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September 18, 2024 15 mins

FLOPB dating podcast is back after a summer break! On this week's episode, Kelly flips the script. Instead of another tale about a random dude who ruined her shot at love, this time SHE's the asshole.


SHOW NOTES: For Love or Peanut Butter (FLOPB) is a true life, humorous dating column turned podcast in which a seemingly eligible bachelorette who can’t find love finally delves into the WHY and the HOW she has remained single into her...

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July 17, 2024 12 mins

Have you ever been on a date that you couldn't wait to be over, only to find out your date was SUPER into it? In this episode of the FLOPB dating pod, Kelly talks about the many times this has happened to her, and her theory as to what the F is happening...


SHOW NOTES: For Love or Peanut Butter (FLOPB) is a true life, humorous dating column turned podcast in which a seemingly eligible bachelorette who can’t find love finally delves...

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