May 7, 2025 • 26 mins
Welcome to Unbreakable! A mental wealth podcast hosted by Fox NFL Insider Jay Glazer. Jay is currently out on his first wedding anniversary trip with his wife Rosie Glazer. So, no better time for us to bring back Part 1 of Jay and Rosie’s podcast from one year ago. It is never too late to find love!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
This is Unbreakable with Jay Glacier, a mental wealth podcast
build you from the inside out. Now here's Jay Glacier.
Welcome into Unbreakable mental Wealth podcast with Jay Glazer. I'm
Jay Glazer and I'm on my first wedding anniversary trip
(00:22):
with my wife Rosie Glazer right now, and I think
it was a great time for us to bring back
our podcast of a year ago. When Rosie and I
got married, we listed twenty things on our honeymoon that
we used to find love later in life. So this
is part one. If whatever age you are, Rosie and
(00:43):
I had to do an awful lot of work. We
did a lot of things to figure out how to
find this love later in life. And recently we actually
ran into some of the NFL owners meeting where a
women just walked up to us and said, excuse me,
are you the couple that talks about love later in life?
So we said, man, we're onto something here. This is
great and as we're here on our honeymore our first anniversary,
we thought we'd go back. This is part one with
(01:05):
Rosie Glazer never too late to find Love. A lot
of hard work went into this for the two of
us to find love later on life. I never knew
I was capable of feeling this level of joy until Rosie.
Until this, I always thought that i'd sabotage everything. I
always thought that I would grow alone. And I think
(01:25):
you also had kind of made it almost a decision,
right that, like, yeah, it's not gonna happen, and that's good.
I'm just gonna take care everybody else in the world
except for you. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
I had always been looking for it, but I just
was like I was waiting. I was waiting for the
right person. But meanwhile I kept getting like older and older,
and then at some point I was like, oh my gosh,
I'm like, you know, my fifties and I still haven't
found it.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
So it was really nice when I was found you,
and I was just preparing myself.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
All right, So let's dive in here, right, We're gonna
go back and forth here. I think i'll kind of
you want me to read back and forth? Yeah, right?
So this is this is a no order, okay of
how we fell in love.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
This is the one that I used for the principles
that I used when I was single and looking for love.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
So first one here, good Rosie's.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Okay, So when you're single, it's the perfect time to
work on yourself so you could present the best version
of yourself.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
To him or her.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Nothing would be worse than meeting mister Wright or meeting
the right person at the wrong time. So change your
situation by working on your body, your mind, your spirit,
work on your self confidence so that when the right
person does come along, you're a more confident and well
rounded person. So you can attract your soul.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Name right now. So let's kind of expand on that here.
I think a lot of people. Look again, Rosie and
I what she's talking about here. In the past, I
would have sabotaged everything, but I went and did so
much work, and Rosie and I broke up at one
point early on. She was you know, Rosie's for people
who don't know, she's an entrepreneur. She's owned thirty clothing
stores brick and mortar, and during COVID that was a
(02:58):
really hard time and you know, go save a lot
of brick and mortar stores. And at the time it
was really hard for me. But the best thing that
ever happened was because I wasn't the best version of myself,
I had to go work on myself become this version
that could accept this love when it was right. So
you did come into my life and save me at
that point, but I was still up to my old
(03:18):
tricks where I was sabotaging I was worthy, I was
pushing you away. And for people like me who my
mental health tells me you're not worthy of it, you
tend to sabotage because you know it's gonna end. The
living in question of when it's going to end is
more painful than an ending, so you force it to
(03:40):
end on your timeline.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Exactly. It's sabotaged, sabotage.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
So I had to work do an awful lot of
work on myself to make sure when this time came
back around, we were in such a much better position
were it's.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Gonna be a forever love exactly and so.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
But some of the stuff that you worked on also point.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
And yeah, and at that time, when because my situation was,
you know, I was dealing with my business and COVID,
so I just like I finally had fell in love,
but then I had all these other outside circumstances that
I just had to go take care of. And so
when we did break up, that's what I was just
working on you know, my company and all these drama
(04:21):
with that.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
So I did that.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
But during that time, you did a lot of work
on yourself, which helped us when we got back together.
Speaker 4 (04:29):
Yes, you started doing as well, gratitude lest you started
doing a whole bunch of your soul. Right you you
really worked on different things. You made sure you worked
on I mean, you're always working on your body, but
but you kind of ramped it up and you know,
to help. I think the physical part helps between the
years also, but over time, Right, you have all these
little notebooks to you know that you would write these
lists to help prepare you to get yourself ready for
(04:52):
that day.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Yeah, I was always preparing myself for when I met
the right person so I can be the best version
of myself, so that I didn't have con over when
I was going to meet that person. But what I
did have control over was my actions and what I
could choose to focus on, because sometimes you get discouraged
because you're like waiting and wanting, and that's what you
experienced when you're looking for your mister Wright. You're experiencing
(05:14):
wanting and waiting and all these things you have no
control over of when you're going to meet that person.
But you do have control over what you can choose
to focus on, which is like the stuff I had
control on, which is my you know, mind, my body,
my spirit, my career, the things I had control over,
so that.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
You know your own podcast is good. Right, So my
first one was be Vulnerable. And you know, for years
I created this character the Good Women, right, but it
was a character wasn't real, so nothing was sustainable for
me on TV. It was a mask. I wore, a mask.
I created this character so no one saw the pain
that I was in. Once I started opening up to
(05:54):
people about my depression anxiety, that's when relationships begot and
that's the biggest thing. It's even happening. Like in football,
I know of coach is saying to me, I want
players who are vulnerable. I want a team, a team full.
So this is football players. I want a team full
of vulnerable people. But these are badasses. So once I
started doing that, and then you know, when I first
(06:15):
met you, I was the glades and I just come
from this big meeting and I was trying to show
off about all the things I had done, and you
didn't really give a shit about that. You could care
less about that. Again, Rosie's done it all. Rosie had
a very very very successful career modeling. She was a
pioneer as a black model. She broke the color barrier
(06:36):
for Fredericks of Hollywood for the first black model Fredericks
of Hollywood Step thirty national ad campaigns. She was a
playboy's Price is Right and then she had a very
successful retail clothing company. So she didn't care about my businesses,
my television, and she did care about She saw me
(06:56):
life coaching veterans and players, and the vulnerability is what
got you.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Yeah, that's what I first saw you, and that's what
I really like noticed. I was like, wow, this you
were doing something with MVP and you were helping all
these people and.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
You were like just doing what you normally do.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
But I was like, wow, this guy is out there
helping so many people, Like he's taking care of so
many people. But who's taking care of him? Is what
I wanted to know because you're so you've always done
that and that's what attracted me the most to you
and really like got my attention.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
So the point is be real and vulnerable and raw
and let that person like, let the person sitting on
the other side of that table at whatever date or
a bar or gay whatever you're aut let them see
that person, let them like and love that person, because
that's sustainable. And then you don't got to fake it,
you don't got to show off. It can be real,
(07:49):
right Yeah, Okay, number three here is well I love
this one too.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Oh this one was.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Yeah, this is one that I really This is why
I'm still used to this day. And it's just your
one away. But you're just one way, one one away
from meeting that person who can change your life forever.
You're one person away from one loved way, one meeting away,
one dinner away, when conversation away from changing your life.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
So yeah, yeah, absolutely love that, right, Like you never know,
And if I could just jump in here because just
you know, Rosie and I are kind of reading down
in our notes from from our honeymoon, so we're kind
of going back, so a lot of it is, you know, gibberous,
we just kind of see, but like we didn't know
that that night all of a sudden and we met.
It's gonna change your lives And that's.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Me and that's exactly it could be.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
Like, just you're just like that one evening, and that
one night was something that changed my life.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
I was just one away from meeting this night, from
meeting you.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
And that's what like, you have to always remember so
you don't get discouraged, because it's easy to get discouraged
when things aren't going your way and you're feeling like
it seems so far away, so far away, but you're
just literally one one chance encounter away that you're going
to meet that person and it all of a sudden
your life changes. So instead of getting discouraged, just think
that you know and you want to prepare yourself, which
I talked about earlier, so when you do meet your
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one away, you're actually you got the best presentation of yourself.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
I love that when you said that to me, like
just went away, and I'm like, you're right because I
used to look good. I'm like, so far you got
to meet someone and then you got to court them,
and then you got to have everything fall in place,
and you know, it's just bam, my life changing. It
was one conversation. You and I have a conversation about God.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
Yeah yeah, and we're.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
Both very spiritual book, but God people and you see
religion or anything like that. We're just we're vulner and
we just talked about I talked about how God's my
best friend and it took me a long time to
get to where I am. And I just wouldn't ask
God to help get me a job or get me money,
or make me rich, or make this happen and make that.
It's just like, hey, I got it. Just I'm willing
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to get knocked out more than but the plan, pip
me up, brush me off, and just let's keep walking
this walk together because just how our numbers. And she's like,
oh my God, that's that's great. And I said, I
wake up every day, said I love you God, because
easier to go about life and you have love, and
it just changed everything. Has one conversation.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
It was we were to start one to wait one
conversation by meeting, one run one night away.
Speaker 4 (10:10):
From our lives changing. Okay, here's my second one. Both
people have to change, you know. They say, oh, you
don't mean anybody who's.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
Going to change you. That's garbage. You've got to change.
You both have to change right now, the core you.
You don't want anybody changing the core you. But you've
got to change, Like, you know, if Rosie and I
both had to h what do they call it?
Speaker 4 (10:29):
Now?
Speaker 1 (10:29):
You give it your your you meet in the middle. Compromise,
Compromising is changing. But people are like, I don't want this.
I'm not going to change with this person. You gotta change.
It's two different lots, So I don't want to be
hard at it. So I realized, Okay, I've got to
change a lot of things to make it fit Rosie's life,
and Rosie has to change a lot of things to
fit my life. And that's okay, So don't be hard
aaded about that. So many of us we stand firm
(10:53):
on that, and a lot of it is ego. If
I didn't compromise, I wouldn't be here with Rosie right now.
She didn't compromise, she wouldn't be here right now. And
I think we're both happier.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
And we have to change for each other exactly and
compromise and communicate, which is really good so you both
can get what you need out.
Speaker 3 (11:10):
Of the relationship.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
All right, here's your number three.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
So this is when you know I was. This is
the third one is just say yes to opportunities.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
Opportunities instead of saying no, even if it doesn't sound
like seting you normally want to do.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Just do it.
Speaker 3 (11:24):
If you don't have.
Speaker 2 (11:27):
The only people to meet her who the FedEx guy
in the ups. That's if you don't get out of
your house and you don't just get out there could
you never know like where it could be, You could
be you know, wherever, but you have exactly you have to.
Speaker 3 (11:40):
To get out.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
So you put yourself in situations that you normally wouldn't
be in so you can meet other people. Because when
you're alone, it's it's easy to isolate. Then you're like, oh,
I'm just going to stay here and watch TV and
hang out with my dog. But if you're doing that,
you're really your chances really go down. So it's always
even if you're not the nude, you know, fight that
(12:01):
isolation like your life love life depends on it, because
it I want you to say that again. So fight
the isolation like your love life depends on it, because
it actually does.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
That's great, and that's yeah, a lot of us sit here.
I'm gonna sit home and I'm not going to go
out and nobody's gonna like me. I don't want to
deal with it at all. And then we just the
isolation man just more depressed, and then it seems so
much further away. So as Rosie saying, yeah, just there
was a time I said, how do you mean guys?
He said, I talked to the FedEx guy. That's what
I said, you date the kindest guys, goes No, it's
(12:33):
really the only guy I see though, because he comes
to my business every day he drop off packages. I said,
how are you supposed to meet the guys? She's like, well,
that's why how to change? Yeah, that's why you came
over that time ready to start.
Speaker 2 (12:42):
Coding exactly, because that was something I normally may not
have done because I had drive all the way across town,
but I did, and so by doing so, that's what like,
you know, I ended up meeting you because we don't
run into the same circles, we don't hang around the
same people, So I never would have met you had
I not did something different out of the norm that
I normal, that I wouldn't do.
Speaker 3 (13:01):
So that's that's what you have.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
By the way, people are like, oh, of course she's
with your europe television this and that. Rosie does not
watch sports. She had no idea who I was, and
Rosie had her own money and nothing to do with it.
In fact, one of the things one of her business
was going through with COVID. My gay bab, I'm gonna
jump in. She's like, absolutely not. I'm not going to
be like every other girl who's taken from you. If anything,
(13:26):
I'll help you. You're not gonna help me, right.
Speaker 2 (13:30):
You were operating and stuff. But I was like, you
know what, I got myself into this mess. I'll get
myself out, which I did and that felt good to work.
Speaker 3 (13:35):
And you know, like do what I have to do.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
And by the way, the message, you know, Rose again
had these clothing stories in COVID. Here in California, nothing
open and rent she gotta pay your rent. Really, nothing's opening.
It was just it was hard for us. I'm breakable
everywhere intown. Okay, So here's my next one. This is
our six point yere be reassuring without having to be
asked for a shirt. So, in other words, like a
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lot of times, a lot of us have these insecurities, right,
and the only time a lot of us and we
get the reassurance after we melt down about it, after
we do something about it. So be proactive when you
are with that person, reassure, let them know how much you.
Speaker 3 (14:15):
Love I tell you, yeah, yeah, we both do that.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
Yeah. And you also come to me, how you doing today?
What's going on with you today? And if you see
them off, Hey, what's going on with you today? You don't.
You won't wait for me to melt down. If we're
assure me, hey, hey, what's what's going on? Hey, let's
go do something together. Hey, I got you today. So
even if Rosie has something else going on, she reassures
me everything is going to be okay with us. And
that was me. I had abandonment issues, which is weird.
(14:42):
I don't know why. I look, it's not my folks.
My folks didn't leave or anything like that. And I
think I kind of know why, but but she constantly
reassures me. And I think you never get tired of it, right,
And that's all. Don't make me feel like I'm tired
of always reassuring you. A lot of us are in
a place where, again, we're never felt that we're worthy
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of being loved, So it's odd for us, and we
always think it's going to go away and get taken away.
So spend your life where you're ssuring the next person.
Speaker 3 (15:10):
Yeah, you're really good at that.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
Right, spend your life doing that. And also the kind
of part of that is you're on the same team. Okay,
So the reassuring thing is we don't even win arguments, right,
we give each other multiple get out of.
Speaker 2 (15:25):
Jail for you, and you know what, we don't hold
I don't hold a grudge at all. If we have
a disagreement or whatever, I shake it off.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
I don't.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
I don't carry it on.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
I'm just like, you know what, I forget and forget
and that's how it should be so your relationship can
can move on. Because if you're always keeping score and
always holding a grudge and always coming out at that angle,
then it's really hard for the other person to get
off the hook.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
And that's one of the grest things. You don't try
and win arguments. I do sometimes and then at the
end of it, I'm like, I'm an idiot. I'm sorry,
And no matter what, I make sure she's good. We
never go to bed angry any show like, we always
make sure we talk it up, because that's part of
the reassurance. I can't have a night living in question
of oh my gonna wake up and she's gonna be gone.
(16:08):
Like we just make sure it ends there. That's one
of the things Rosie does for me. She goes, hey,
I'm not going anywhere. I got you, even if she's angry,
so angry with me, she does it. And that's the
part of again not keeping score right, and so you'll
try and break up situations for me, but at the
same time with you also, like you've had some rough things,
you know, with your dog passing or your business something.
(16:29):
I always made sure that I made everything else in
your life great.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
Yea, So we can't enough.
Speaker 2 (16:35):
You're sure, you're definitely that's where sure, yeah, very very
supportive and reassuring.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
So if you're your husband or wife are struggling with
work or something like that, just reassure them with your
words but also with your actions and make it every
day and every night thing.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
And sometimes the person just needs to communicate and talk
and just get it all out and then you can
move on from there point here.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
Baby.
Speaker 2 (16:57):
So so yeah, and then like when when I was,
when I did get my opportunity to find date or whatever,
you just have to get really interested in the person
that's sitting across from you. That's one of the biggest
turn ons is showing interest in everything you know that's you,
so share the real stuff and not what you think
that people want to hear. Just really, you know, get
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to know them and you know, listen just as much
as you talk. So then that way they can get
to know you. You can get to know them, but
really be interested in getting to know them. I think
that's a turn on too.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
I think the biggest takeaway from that bit is when
we go on dates, we tend to lead with our
highlights and like us. So instead of talking about the
other person, you're trying to lead what's so great about
you to the person who like you? Well, Rosie's saying
the thing that she loved the most is again she
didn't know anything about sports or footballer and then that
(17:50):
although crazy part is what real here's my addin. Rosie
actually graduated UCLA with broadcast journalism and in turn at
Fox Sports. And then I means before I ever got there,
I'm like, hey, we didn't have anybody was when you
were doing Playboy. You don't have everybody in the research
department Playboy like you got to kidd me, but oh
my god, But so even with that she knows nothing
(18:11):
about sports. She so the biggest thing I could do
with hers, hey tell me about you, telling about your life.
And she still says to me, hey, ask more about
me because I get self absorbed. I'm in my football
world that ask more about me. Now we're a point
where then we know everything about each other for the
most part, but if something does come up, I know
what she turns around the most is for me to
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ask more about her, her family, her upbringing, her journey,
her story. So instead of leaving with all your highlights,
the highlights should be that person.
Speaker 3 (18:41):
Across from you exactly.
Speaker 2 (18:42):
And that's that's and that's a turnout for there or
just and it's like it's attractive to if someone's really
interested in you and they want to find out where
you you know, how your family was and growing up
and just just anything that's it's very right, it's it's
really good quality.
Speaker 1 (18:57):
Next one here, shower your partner with compliments.
Speaker 3 (19:01):
You're really good at that.
Speaker 1 (19:02):
You do it every day every day. My job is
and lift are up. My friend jac Blick is is saying,
we lift while we climb, and you know that's what
you're doing together where you're a partner you got are
climbing together. You're climbing these mountains, you're climbing these hurdles.
You don't need guidebooks when things are great.
Speaker 3 (19:17):
Yeah, it's when things aren't so great that you really
wanted you have to do the work, So we got
to climb over together, exactly.
Speaker 1 (19:23):
So if you're constantly building your partner up, when the
rough stuff happens, you're both at a higher level to
jump over those, to hurdle them. If you're both sitting
there in this pit, you got a much higher level.
You got much more room to go to jump in. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:41):
And sometimes you're like, when one person's life is good
at that time, the other one's not. So it's like,
you know, it's always like it's very rare that both
partners everything's going great at the same time.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
So it's good.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
If another person's you know, a little weak, then you
can be strong. And it's it's given a.
Speaker 1 (19:57):
Take, right, all right?
Speaker 3 (19:58):
So number ten here, Oh I think this might be yours,
but I think this is yours. This is yours.
Speaker 5 (20:03):
Yeah, okay, well okay, because yes, this is not like
how I would talk about Yeah, I think I wrote
it down for it, but it was your thing like
those well, it's the two of them. The old rules
like there.
Speaker 3 (20:16):
Used to be oh yes, yes, the book.
Speaker 1 (20:19):
There's a book basically about how to date. And it
was like if they text, don't text back. Wait two days, wait,
three day. That rules have change totally.
Speaker 2 (20:27):
Yeah, you can't because if you're if you're playing hard
to get and you're like not if someone you know,
I think those rules have changed. So if someone texts
you and or text you and you want to text
them back, text them back and respond, don't be like, oh,
they always have to be the one to make the move,
because then the guy or the girl might be like, oh,
they're not interested because there's so.
Speaker 1 (20:45):
Many there's tender in this and that, and then mumble
in whatever, right, well, you can just it's it's your turnerships.
Like back in the day, you could afford to do it,
even though I don't agree with it. Then even back then,
Like I'm gonna express a person and be like I
like this person I'm gonna call man like oh no,
this person called too.
Speaker 3 (21:02):
Soon exactly exactly.
Speaker 1 (21:04):
You know.
Speaker 3 (21:04):
Sometimes it's nice to sit of thinking of you or whoever.
Speaker 2 (21:07):
So the person they're on the mind because if you're
just making the other person do all the work that
it really appears like they're maybe are not interested, and
you play too hard to get, then they give up.
So that's a really important one is that, Yeah, don't
play games by not texting back right away or playing
you know, hard to get, show interest in that you're
genuinely interested. If you have fun, express it, put out
(21:30):
enough to where the person is filled with hope that
you want to they want you, guys want to see
each other again. Then if you're playing too hard to
get and you're waiting for them to do all the work,
then they just give up because it's like, oh, she's
not interested.
Speaker 1 (21:40):
So that's like I would, I would find reasons to
reach out to you now. Again, like Rosie's very successful
business career, So I was at that point, I'm like, hey,
do you have an attorney for this or do you
have some different so for my business pass unbreakable and
I would just kind of come up with excuses to
to just stay and then what I would ask her
about it. We just talked for a little bit, we
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got to know each other, so I didn't and I understand, Look,
there's a balance of people going, oh my gosh, this
person's crazy. But also how about this for for something,
if someone's texting calling, maybe they're not needy. Maybe they
just really like you.
Speaker 2 (22:15):
Exactly, and that's like you If they don't call, then
you're like, wait, they're not calling. But when they do,
you have to like be you know, it goes, it
goes a ping pong. If you so, then you can
get you know, the relationship going.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
But also like if someone is needy and you guys
kind of meet in this middle here, like I was
very neat, but you're not so much now turned into
away from that.
Speaker 2 (22:37):
Yeah exactly, but you've changed because I've reassured you that
you know, I'm not going anywhere, and it's something that
you know through time, Like it's not you're not that
way at all.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
Right, But like my mental health issues, the depression tells
me that like a lot of times I wake up
in the morning like everybody hates me. Yeah, everybody hates me.
All my friends hate me, and it sucks, like can
I didn't sign up for this, Like I don't want
to live life like this. I don't mean to. And
here I'm fifty turning fifty four, and I still have it.
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So if I control it, I would, but I can't.
And it's just how I wake up. And it's like
it could be in the middle of a day or
someone doesn't call me back. A lot of times somebody
doesn't going back. I'm like, ah, the business. But sometimes
they I'm calling back and I just think that, oh,
this person just hates me here, this person's angry. So
it's something that's still there. So that's the whole thing
of like I was very needy, but she constantly was like, Okay,
(23:35):
I'm going to work on that with him. And now
look what you got.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
Yeah, and you're way more sure, You're right, more confident,
and it's something that it built over time and now
you know that.
Speaker 1 (23:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (23:46):
Sometimes it's just right down in the moment.
Speaker 1 (23:49):
And part of this and I'm going to jump in again.
The playing field is different now, yeah than always ask
me right. So there's apps, there's social media, there's I
said it playing for you. Different is people are constantly
posting their highlights or what they think you want to hear.
We brought that up before, where they think you want
to hear, and that isn't a connection. But also because
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this world is so immediate. There's so many things that
we get so wrapped up. Data takes up so much
of our brain that we might get blown off or
pushed away. It may have nothing to do with us whatsoever.
Speaker 2 (24:26):
Yeah, don't take things personal, because sometimes you do, and
you like think that there's something wrong with you or
why you know, what's what's the matter with me?
Speaker 3 (24:33):
But it's not.
Speaker 2 (24:34):
Sometimes it's not. So just that's a good advice. They
could get someone who just don't take things personal, right, and.
Speaker 1 (24:39):
Then it just hey, thing's good. And like for Rose again,
in the early days, it was hard for her to
come see me a lot because she had all these
stores and in COVID she had everybody her roundages off
and everybody off, so she had a bounce around all
over this but from Stuart to store to store, and
she didn't have the time for me.
Speaker 3 (24:55):
And I liked you. I just I was in a
situation where like during that.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
W like me, yes, and you're like, look, I like you.
It's not you. I just have all these responsibilities. So really, again,
over communicate, I really do like you. I know what's
going to seem like I don't want to see you,
but hey, I know she would over communicate. Here's my schedule. Yeah,
I'm working eighteen hour days here I have, but also
you make the effort like I have one hour on
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this day and I'm one free hour and if you
can get over here, I'd love to spend it with you. Right,
do it and would sacrificed too. You'd be like, well,
I'm exhausted, but no, but I've got to put I've
got to work on this right.
Speaker 2 (25:32):
And sometimes life's like that. It never happens when you're
thinking it's going to happen like that. When we met,
it was, you know, in awper, like the timing was
a little off, but we made it work.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
I hope you enjoyed Part one of It's Never too
Late to Find Love. Sorry my wife Rosie Glazer. Part
two will come up next week and we're here on
our first year anniversary. I hope we're able to share
things with you. I can help you and you find
that person. No matter what point you are in life,
someone's out there for you.
This is Unbreakable with Jay Glacier, a mental wealth podcast
build you from the inside out. Now here's Jay Glacier.
Welcome into Unbreakable mental Wealth podcast with Jay Glazer. I'm
Jay Glazer and I'm on my first wedding anniversary trip
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with my wife Rosie Glazer right now, and I think
it was a great time for us to bring back
our podcast of a year ago. When Rosie and I
got married, we listed twenty things on our honeymoon that
we used to find love later in life. So this
is part one. If whatever age you are, Rosie and
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I had to do an awful lot of work. We
did a lot of things to figure out how to
find this love later in life. And recently we actually
ran into some of the NFL owners meeting where a
women just walked up to us and said, excuse me,
are you the couple that talks about love later in life?
So we said, man, we're onto something here. This is
great and as we're here on our honeymore our first anniversary,
we thought we'd go back. This is part one with
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Rosie Glazer never too late to find Love. A lot
of hard work went into this for the two of
us to find love later on life. I never knew
I was capable of feeling this level of joy until Rosie.
Until this, I always thought that i'd sabotage everything. I
always thought that I would grow alone. And I think
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you also had kind of made it almost a decision,
right that, like, yeah, it's not gonna happen, and that's good.
I'm just gonna take care everybody else in the world
except for you. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
I had always been looking for it, but I just
was like I was waiting. I was waiting for the
right person. But meanwhile I kept getting like older and older,
and then at some point I was like, oh my gosh,
I'm like, you know, my fifties and I still haven't
found it.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
So it was really nice when I was found you,
and I was just preparing myself.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
All right, So let's dive in here, right, We're gonna
go back and forth here. I think i'll kind of
you want me to read back and forth? Yeah, right?
So this is this is a no order, okay of
how we fell in love.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
This is the one that I used for the principles
that I used when I was single and looking for love.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
So first one here, good Rosie's.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Okay, So when you're single, it's the perfect time to
work on yourself so you could present the best version
of yourself.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
To him or her.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Nothing would be worse than meeting mister Wright or meeting
the right person at the wrong time. So change your
situation by working on your body, your mind, your spirit,
work on your self confidence so that when the right
person does come along, you're a more confident and well
rounded person. So you can attract your soul.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Name right now. So let's kind of expand on that here.
I think a lot of people. Look again, Rosie and
I what she's talking about here. In the past, I
would have sabotaged everything, but I went and did so
much work, and Rosie and I broke up at one
point early on. She was you know, Rosie's for people
who don't know, she's an entrepreneur. She's owned thirty clothing
stores brick and mortar, and during COVID that was a
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really hard time and you know, go save a lot
of brick and mortar stores. And at the time it
was really hard for me. But the best thing that
ever happened was because I wasn't the best version of myself,
I had to go work on myself become this version
that could accept this love when it was right. So
you did come into my life and save me at
that point, but I was still up to my old
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tricks where I was sabotaging I was worthy, I was
pushing you away. And for people like me who my
mental health tells me you're not worthy of it, you
tend to sabotage because you know it's gonna end. The
living in question of when it's going to end is
more painful than an ending, so you force it to
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end on your timeline.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Exactly. It's sabotaged, sabotage.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
So I had to work do an awful lot of
work on myself to make sure when this time came
back around, we were in such a much better position
were it's.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Gonna be a forever love exactly and so.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
But some of the stuff that you worked on also point.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
And yeah, and at that time, when because my situation was,
you know, I was dealing with my business and COVID,
so I just like I finally had fell in love,
but then I had all these other outside circumstances that
I just had to go take care of. And so
when we did break up, that's what I was just
working on you know, my company and all these drama
(04:21):
with that.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
So I did that.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
But during that time, you did a lot of work
on yourself, which helped us when we got back together.
Speaker 4 (04:29):
Yes, you started doing as well, gratitude lest you started
doing a whole bunch of your soul. Right you you
really worked on different things. You made sure you worked
on I mean, you're always working on your body, but
but you kind of ramped it up and you know,
to help. I think the physical part helps between the
years also, but over time, Right, you have all these
little notebooks to you know that you would write these
lists to help prepare you to get yourself ready for
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that day.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Yeah, I was always preparing myself for when I met
the right person so I can be the best version
of myself, so that I didn't have con over when
I was going to meet that person. But what I
did have control over was my actions and what I
could choose to focus on, because sometimes you get discouraged
because you're like waiting and wanting, and that's what you
experienced when you're looking for your mister Wright. You're experiencing
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wanting and waiting and all these things you have no
control over of when you're going to meet that person.
But you do have control over what you can choose
to focus on, which is like the stuff I had
control on, which is my you know, mind, my body,
my spirit, my career, the things I had control over,
so that.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
You know your own podcast is good. Right, So my
first one was be Vulnerable. And you know, for years
I created this character the Good Women, right, but it
was a character wasn't real, so nothing was sustainable for
me on TV. It was a mask. I wore, a mask.
I created this character so no one saw the pain
that I was in. Once I started opening up to
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people about my depression anxiety, that's when relationships begot and
that's the biggest thing. It's even happening. Like in football,
I know of coach is saying to me, I want
players who are vulnerable. I want a team, a team full.
So this is football players. I want a team full
of vulnerable people. But these are badasses. So once I
started doing that, and then you know, when I first
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met you, I was the glades and I just come
from this big meeting and I was trying to show
off about all the things I had done, and you
didn't really give a shit about that. You could care
less about that. Again, Rosie's done it all. Rosie had
a very very very successful career modeling. She was a
pioneer as a black model. She broke the color barrier
(06:36):
for Fredericks of Hollywood for the first black model Fredericks
of Hollywood Step thirty national ad campaigns. She was a
playboy's Price is Right and then she had a very
successful retail clothing company. So she didn't care about my businesses,
my television, and she did care about She saw me
(06:56):
life coaching veterans and players, and the vulnerability is what
got you.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Yeah, that's what I first saw you, and that's what
I really like noticed. I was like, wow, this you
were doing something with MVP and you were helping all
these people and.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
You were like just doing what you normally do.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
But I was like, wow, this guy is out there
helping so many people, Like he's taking care of so
many people. But who's taking care of him? Is what
I wanted to know because you're so you've always done
that and that's what attracted me the most to you
and really like got my attention.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
So the point is be real and vulnerable and raw
and let that person like, let the person sitting on
the other side of that table at whatever date or
a bar or gay whatever you're aut let them see
that person, let them like and love that person, because
that's sustainable. And then you don't got to fake it,
you don't got to show off. It can be real,
(07:49):
right Yeah, Okay, number three here is well I love
this one too.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Oh this one was.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Yeah, this is one that I really This is why
I'm still used to this day. And it's just your
one away. But you're just one way, one one away
from meeting that person who can change your life forever.
You're one person away from one loved way, one meeting away,
one dinner away, when conversation away from changing your life.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
So yeah, yeah, absolutely love that, right, Like you never know,
And if I could just jump in here because just
you know, Rosie and I are kind of reading down
in our notes from from our honeymoon, so we're kind
of going back, so a lot of it is, you know, gibberous,
we just kind of see, but like we didn't know
that that night all of a sudden and we met.
It's gonna change your lives And that's.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Me and that's exactly it could be.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
Like, just you're just like that one evening, and that
one night was something that changed my life.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
I was just one away from meeting this night, from
meeting you.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
And that's what like, you have to always remember so
you don't get discouraged, because it's easy to get discouraged
when things aren't going your way and you're feeling like
it seems so far away, so far away, but you're
just literally one one chance encounter away that you're going
to meet that person and it all of a sudden
your life changes. So instead of getting discouraged, just think
that you know and you want to prepare yourself, which
I talked about earlier, so when you do meet your
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one away, you're actually you got the best presentation of yourself.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
I love that when you said that to me, like
just went away, and I'm like, you're right because I
used to look good. I'm like, so far you got
to meet someone and then you got to court them,
and then you got to have everything fall in place,
and you know, it's just bam, my life changing. It
was one conversation. You and I have a conversation about God.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
Yeah yeah, and we're.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
Both very spiritual book, but God people and you see
religion or anything like that. We're just we're vulner and
we just talked about I talked about how God's my
best friend and it took me a long time to
get to where I am. And I just wouldn't ask
God to help get me a job or get me money,
or make me rich, or make this happen and make that.
It's just like, hey, I got it. Just I'm willing
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to get knocked out more than but the plan, pip
me up, brush me off, and just let's keep walking
this walk together because just how our numbers. And she's like,
oh my God, that's that's great. And I said, I
wake up every day, said I love you God, because
easier to go about life and you have love, and
it just changed everything. Has one conversation.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
It was we were to start one to wait one
conversation by meeting, one run one night away.
Speaker 4 (10:10):
From our lives changing. Okay, here's my second one. Both
people have to change, you know. They say, oh, you
don't mean anybody who's.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
Going to change you. That's garbage. You've got to change.
You both have to change right now, the core you.
You don't want anybody changing the core you. But you've
got to change, Like, you know, if Rosie and I
both had to h what do they call it?
Speaker 4 (10:29):
Now?
Speaker 1 (10:29):
You give it your your you meet in the middle. Compromise,
Compromising is changing. But people are like, I don't want this.
I'm not going to change with this person. You gotta change.
It's two different lots, So I don't want to be
hard at it. So I realized, Okay, I've got to
change a lot of things to make it fit Rosie's life,
and Rosie has to change a lot of things to
fit my life. And that's okay, So don't be hard
aaded about that. So many of us we stand firm
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on that, and a lot of it is ego. If
I didn't compromise, I wouldn't be here with Rosie right now.
She didn't compromise, she wouldn't be here right now. And
I think we're both happier.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
And we have to change for each other exactly and
compromise and communicate, which is really good so you both
can get what you need out.
Speaker 3 (11:10):
Of the relationship.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
All right, here's your number three.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
So this is when you know I was. This is
the third one is just say yes to opportunities.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
Opportunities instead of saying no, even if it doesn't sound
like seting you normally want to do.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Just do it.
Speaker 3 (11:24):
If you don't have.
Speaker 2 (11:27):
The only people to meet her who the FedEx guy
in the ups. That's if you don't get out of
your house and you don't just get out there could
you never know like where it could be, You could
be you know, wherever, but you have exactly you have to.
Speaker 3 (11:40):
To get out.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
So you put yourself in situations that you normally wouldn't
be in so you can meet other people. Because when
you're alone, it's it's easy to isolate. Then you're like, oh,
I'm just going to stay here and watch TV and
hang out with my dog. But if you're doing that,
you're really your chances really go down. So it's always
even if you're not the nude, you know, fight that
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isolation like your life love life depends on it, because
it I want you to say that again. So fight
the isolation like your love life depends on it, because
it actually does.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
That's great, and that's yeah, a lot of us sit here.
I'm gonna sit home and I'm not going to go
out and nobody's gonna like me. I don't want to
deal with it at all. And then we just the
isolation man just more depressed, and then it seems so
much further away. So as Rosie saying, yeah, just there
was a time I said, how do you mean guys?
He said, I talked to the FedEx guy. That's what
I said, you date the kindest guys, goes No, it's
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really the only guy I see though, because he comes
to my business every day he drop off packages. I said,
how are you supposed to meet the guys? She's like, well,
that's why how to change? Yeah, that's why you came
over that time ready to start.
Speaker 2 (12:42):
Coding exactly, because that was something I normally may not
have done because I had drive all the way across town,
but I did, and so by doing so, that's what like,
you know, I ended up meeting you because we don't
run into the same circles, we don't hang around the
same people, So I never would have met you had
I not did something different out of the norm that
I normal, that I wouldn't do.
Speaker 3 (13:01):
So that's that's what you have.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
By the way, people are like, oh, of course she's
with your europe television this and that. Rosie does not
watch sports. She had no idea who I was, and
Rosie had her own money and nothing to do with it.
In fact, one of the things one of her business
was going through with COVID. My gay bab, I'm gonna
jump in. She's like, absolutely not. I'm not going to
be like every other girl who's taken from you. If anything,
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I'll help you. You're not gonna help me, right.
Speaker 2 (13:30):
You were operating and stuff. But I was like, you
know what, I got myself into this mess. I'll get
myself out, which I did and that felt good to work.
Speaker 3 (13:35):
And you know, like do what I have to do.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
And by the way, the message, you know, Rose again
had these clothing stories in COVID. Here in California, nothing
open and rent she gotta pay your rent. Really, nothing's opening.
It was just it was hard for us. I'm breakable
everywhere intown. Okay, So here's my next one. This is
our six point yere be reassuring without having to be
asked for a shirt. So, in other words, like a
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lot of times, a lot of us have these insecurities, right,
and the only time a lot of us and we
get the reassurance after we melt down about it, after
we do something about it. So be proactive when you
are with that person, reassure, let them know how much you.
Speaker 3 (14:15):
Love I tell you, yeah, yeah, we both do that.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
Yeah. And you also come to me, how you doing today?
What's going on with you today? And if you see
them off, Hey, what's going on with you today? You don't.
You won't wait for me to melt down. If we're
assure me, hey, hey, what's what's going on? Hey, let's
go do something together. Hey, I got you today. So
even if Rosie has something else going on, she reassures
me everything is going to be okay with us. And
that was me. I had abandonment issues, which is weird.
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I don't know why. I look, it's not my folks.
My folks didn't leave or anything like that. And I
think I kind of know why, but but she constantly
reassures me. And I think you never get tired of it, right,
And that's all. Don't make me feel like I'm tired
of always reassuring you. A lot of us are in
a place where, again, we're never felt that we're worthy
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of being loved, So it's odd for us, and we
always think it's going to go away and get taken away.
So spend your life where you're ssuring the next person.
Speaker 3 (15:10):
Yeah, you're really good at that.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
Right, spend your life doing that. And also the kind
of part of that is you're on the same team. Okay,
So the reassuring thing is we don't even win arguments, right,
we give each other multiple get out of.
Speaker 2 (15:25):
Jail for you, and you know what, we don't hold
I don't hold a grudge at all. If we have
a disagreement or whatever, I shake it off.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
I don't.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
I don't carry it on.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
I'm just like, you know what, I forget and forget
and that's how it should be so your relationship can
can move on. Because if you're always keeping score and
always holding a grudge and always coming out at that angle,
then it's really hard for the other person to get
off the hook.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
And that's one of the grest things. You don't try
and win arguments. I do sometimes and then at the
end of it, I'm like, I'm an idiot. I'm sorry,
And no matter what, I make sure she's good. We
never go to bed angry any show like, we always
make sure we talk it up, because that's part of
the reassurance. I can't have a night living in question
of oh my gonna wake up and she's gonna be gone.
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Like we just make sure it ends there. That's one
of the things Rosie does for me. She goes, hey,
I'm not going anywhere. I got you, even if she's angry,
so angry with me, she does it. And that's the
part of again not keeping score right, and so you'll
try and break up situations for me, but at the
same time with you also, like you've had some rough things,
you know, with your dog passing or your business something.
(16:29):
I always made sure that I made everything else in
your life great.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
Yea, So we can't enough.
Speaker 2 (16:35):
You're sure, you're definitely that's where sure, yeah, very very
supportive and reassuring.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
So if you're your husband or wife are struggling with
work or something like that, just reassure them with your
words but also with your actions and make it every
day and every night thing.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
And sometimes the person just needs to communicate and talk
and just get it all out and then you can
move on from there point here.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
Baby.
Speaker 2 (16:57):
So so yeah, and then like when when I was,
when I did get my opportunity to find date or whatever,
you just have to get really interested in the person
that's sitting across from you. That's one of the biggest
turn ons is showing interest in everything you know that's you,
so share the real stuff and not what you think
that people want to hear. Just really, you know, get
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to know them and you know, listen just as much
as you talk. So then that way they can get
to know you. You can get to know them, but
really be interested in getting to know them. I think
that's a turn on too.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
I think the biggest takeaway from that bit is when
we go on dates, we tend to lead with our
highlights and like us. So instead of talking about the
other person, you're trying to lead what's so great about
you to the person who like you? Well, Rosie's saying
the thing that she loved the most is again she
didn't know anything about sports or footballer and then that
(17:50):
although crazy part is what real here's my addin. Rosie
actually graduated UCLA with broadcast journalism and in turn at
Fox Sports. And then I means before I ever got there,
I'm like, hey, we didn't have anybody was when you
were doing Playboy. You don't have everybody in the research
department Playboy like you got to kidd me, but oh
my god, But so even with that she knows nothing
(18:11):
about sports. She so the biggest thing I could do
with hers, hey tell me about you, telling about your life.
And she still says to me, hey, ask more about
me because I get self absorbed. I'm in my football
world that ask more about me. Now we're a point
where then we know everything about each other for the
most part, but if something does come up, I know
what she turns around the most is for me to
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ask more about her, her family, her upbringing, her journey,
her story. So instead of leaving with all your highlights,
the highlights should be that person.
Speaker 3 (18:41):
Across from you exactly.
Speaker 2 (18:42):
And that's that's and that's a turnout for there or
just and it's like it's attractive to if someone's really
interested in you and they want to find out where
you you know, how your family was and growing up
and just just anything that's it's very right, it's it's
really good quality.
Speaker 1 (18:57):
Next one here, shower your partner with compliments.
Speaker 3 (19:01):
You're really good at that.
Speaker 1 (19:02):
You do it every day every day. My job is
and lift are up. My friend jac Blick is is saying,
we lift while we climb, and you know that's what
you're doing together where you're a partner you got are
climbing together. You're climbing these mountains, you're climbing these hurdles.
You don't need guidebooks when things are great.
Speaker 3 (19:17):
Yeah, it's when things aren't so great that you really
wanted you have to do the work, So we got
to climb over together, exactly.
Speaker 1 (19:23):
So if you're constantly building your partner up, when the
rough stuff happens, you're both at a higher level to
jump over those, to hurdle them. If you're both sitting
there in this pit, you got a much higher level.
You got much more room to go to jump in. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:41):
And sometimes you're like, when one person's life is good
at that time, the other one's not. So it's like,
you know, it's always like it's very rare that both
partners everything's going great at the same time.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
So it's good.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
If another person's you know, a little weak, then you
can be strong. And it's it's given a.
Speaker 1 (19:57):
Take, right, all right?
Speaker 3 (19:58):
So number ten here, Oh I think this might be yours,
but I think this is yours. This is yours.
Speaker 5 (20:03):
Yeah, okay, well okay, because yes, this is not like
how I would talk about Yeah, I think I wrote
it down for it, but it was your thing like
those well, it's the two of them. The old rules
like there.
Speaker 3 (20:16):
Used to be oh yes, yes, the book.
Speaker 1 (20:19):
There's a book basically about how to date. And it
was like if they text, don't text back. Wait two days, wait,
three day. That rules have change totally.
Speaker 2 (20:27):
Yeah, you can't because if you're if you're playing hard
to get and you're like not if someone you know,
I think those rules have changed. So if someone texts
you and or text you and you want to text
them back, text them back and respond, don't be like, oh,
they always have to be the one to make the move,
because then the guy or the girl might be like, oh,
they're not interested because there's so.
Speaker 1 (20:45):
Many there's tender in this and that, and then mumble
in whatever, right, well, you can just it's it's your turnerships.
Like back in the day, you could afford to do it,
even though I don't agree with it. Then even back then,
Like I'm gonna express a person and be like I
like this person I'm gonna call man like oh no,
this person called too.
Speaker 3 (21:02):
Soon exactly exactly.
Speaker 1 (21:04):
You know.
Speaker 3 (21:04):
Sometimes it's nice to sit of thinking of you or whoever.
Speaker 2 (21:07):
So the person they're on the mind because if you're
just making the other person do all the work that
it really appears like they're maybe are not interested, and
you play too hard to get, then they give up.
So that's a really important one is that, Yeah, don't
play games by not texting back right away or playing
you know, hard to get, show interest in that you're
genuinely interested. If you have fun, express it, put out
(21:30):
enough to where the person is filled with hope that
you want to they want you, guys want to see
each other again. Then if you're playing too hard to
get and you're waiting for them to do all the work,
then they just give up because it's like, oh, she's
not interested.
Speaker 1 (21:40):
So that's like I would, I would find reasons to
reach out to you now. Again, like Rosie's very successful
business career, So I was at that point, I'm like, hey,
do you have an attorney for this or do you
have some different so for my business pass unbreakable and
I would just kind of come up with excuses to
to just stay and then what I would ask her
about it. We just talked for a little bit, we
(22:01):
got to know each other, so I didn't and I understand, Look,
there's a balance of people going, oh my gosh, this
person's crazy. But also how about this for for something,
if someone's texting calling, maybe they're not needy. Maybe they
just really like you.
Speaker 2 (22:15):
Exactly, and that's like you If they don't call, then
you're like, wait, they're not calling. But when they do,
you have to like be you know, it goes, it
goes a ping pong. If you so, then you can
get you know, the relationship going.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
But also like if someone is needy and you guys
kind of meet in this middle here, like I was
very neat, but you're not so much now turned into
away from that.
Speaker 2 (22:37):
Yeah exactly, but you've changed because I've reassured you that
you know, I'm not going anywhere, and it's something that
you know through time, Like it's not you're not that
way at all.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
Right, But like my mental health issues, the depression tells
me that like a lot of times I wake up
in the morning like everybody hates me. Yeah, everybody hates me.
All my friends hate me, and it sucks, like can
I didn't sign up for this, Like I don't want
to live life like this. I don't mean to. And
here I'm fifty turning fifty four, and I still have it.
(23:12):
So if I control it, I would, but I can't.
And it's just how I wake up. And it's like
it could be in the middle of a day or
someone doesn't call me back. A lot of times somebody
doesn't going back. I'm like, ah, the business. But sometimes
they I'm calling back and I just think that, oh,
this person just hates me here, this person's angry. So
it's something that's still there. So that's the whole thing
of like I was very needy, but she constantly was like, Okay,
(23:35):
I'm going to work on that with him. And now
look what you got.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
Yeah, and you're way more sure, You're right, more confident,
and it's something that it built over time and now
you know that.
Speaker 1 (23:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (23:46):
Sometimes it's just right down in the moment.
Speaker 1 (23:49):
And part of this and I'm going to jump in again.
The playing field is different now, yeah than always ask
me right. So there's apps, there's social media, there's I
said it playing for you. Different is people are constantly
posting their highlights or what they think you want to hear.
We brought that up before, where they think you want
to hear, and that isn't a connection. But also because
(24:14):
this world is so immediate. There's so many things that
we get so wrapped up. Data takes up so much
of our brain that we might get blown off or
pushed away. It may have nothing to do with us whatsoever.
Speaker 2 (24:26):
Yeah, don't take things personal, because sometimes you do, and
you like think that there's something wrong with you or
why you know, what's what's the matter with me?
Speaker 3 (24:33):
But it's not.
Speaker 2 (24:34):
Sometimes it's not. So just that's a good advice. They
could get someone who just don't take things personal, right, and.
Speaker 1 (24:39):
Then it just hey, thing's good. And like for Rose again,
in the early days, it was hard for her to
come see me a lot because she had all these
stores and in COVID she had everybody her roundages off
and everybody off, so she had a bounce around all
over this but from Stuart to store to store, and
she didn't have the time for me.
Speaker 3 (24:55):
And I liked you. I just I was in a
situation where like during that.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
W like me, yes, and you're like, look, I like you.
It's not you. I just have all these responsibilities. So really, again,
over communicate, I really do like you. I know what's
going to seem like I don't want to see you,
but hey, I know she would over communicate. Here's my schedule. Yeah,
I'm working eighteen hour days here I have, but also
you make the effort like I have one hour on
(25:20):
this day and I'm one free hour and if you
can get over here, I'd love to spend it with you. Right,
do it and would sacrificed too. You'd be like, well,
I'm exhausted, but no, but I've got to put I've
got to work on this right.
Speaker 2 (25:32):
And sometimes life's like that. It never happens when you're
thinking it's going to happen like that. When we met,
it was, you know, in awper, like the timing was
a little off, but we made it work.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
I hope you enjoyed Part one of It's Never too
Late to Find Love. Sorry my wife Rosie Glazer. Part
two will come up next week and we're here on
our first year anniversary. I hope we're able to share
things with you. I can help you and you find
that person. No matter what point you are in life,
someone's out there for you.
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