February 20, 2025 • 38 mins
A Valentine's Day Update
Im solo again, just gonna talk from the heart and share my experience in making my first music video, now out on YouTube, Apple Music + All streaming platforms!! xo Jenna
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Im solo again, just gonna talk from the heart and share my experience in making my first music video, now out on YouTube, Apple Music + All streaming platforms!! xo Jenna
https://youtu.be/ktG3pWaPtJ8?si=p4wJqKay1p1kOOla
( LINK TO MY VIDEO) �
Jennalobos.com
"Love Your Body Love Your Life"
Love Your Body, Love Your Life is broadcast live Thursdays at 4PM ET and Music on W4HC Radio – Health Café Live (www.w4hc.com) part of Talk 4 Radio (www.talk4radio.com) on the Talk 4 Media Network (www.talk4media.com). Love Your Body, Love Your Life TV Show is viewed on Talk 4 TV (www.talk4tv.com).
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:25):
Hello, welcome to Love Your Body, Love Your Life. My
name is Jenna. I am the host of the show,
and I'm also the author of the book titled Love
Your Body, Love Your Life, Fifty two Tips that will
Radically Change your health, and that's available on Amazon and
on Barnes Andnoble dot com. And I'm live today again,
you guys solo, and it seems like this is my
(00:47):
new jam because this is I think my fourth solo show,
So I think this is going to be it for
a little bit. I do have some guests that are
lined up or I'm talking to some people that I'd
love to have on the show, so stay tuned for that.
But yeah, so I am going to be last time. Well,
(01:09):
a couple of times that I've done the show, I've
been telling you guys some just some personal stuff and
sharing what's been going on in my life. And I'm
excited to say and announce that I just dropped my
first music video, so it's very exciting for me. It's
(01:30):
a Valentine's Day themed music video based on one of
my original songs called real Me back in which I
wrote about about toxic relationships. To be honest, it's you
know when you when you write a song, it's it's
kind of a story, right, and then you get into
(01:50):
the studio and you break it down and you put
it to the melody, and sometimes all of that story
that you wrote can't fit into a three minutes song.
So there's a lot, a lot that goes behind the
scenes in regards to writing a song first of all,
and then doing a music video. But so I wanted
(02:12):
to kind of share the experience with you guys in
doing the music video. But before that, I think it's
really important to share where this all comes from, right,
Like I didn't just wake up yesterday or two weeks
ago and say, hey, I want to do a music video. No,
(02:34):
I think it's important to kind of share the backstory
on me evolving as a person, first of all, and
finding my voice and finding that voice that can write
the song. Right. So for me, it's been quite quite
the journey. As you guys know, if you've been following
(02:54):
my shows, I've been a realtor for a long, long time,
selling realism. Eight I got my license right out of
high school because I moved out of the house at eighteen.
So I was trying to go to college full time
and do I was an assistant to a realtor at
that time. I was trying to work full time, go
to college full time, pay my rent, pay my bills,
(03:15):
pay my car payment, all of that. And at some
point I just said I can't do both. I had
to stop going to college. So I made a decision
when I was, you know, eighteen, nineteen years old, that
I was going to just go get my real estate
license and see where that was going to take me.
Since I was already working for a realtor at that time. So,
(03:38):
and we're going to get into the video and everything,
but I'm giving you some backstory. So I did. I
struggled obviously in the beginning, you know, I got my license,
I didn't know where to start. I was just kind of,
you know, pounding the pavement and learning from mentors around me.
At the time. I was always the youngest one in
(03:59):
my office, and so I was always put in like
the middle desk or like the center area on purpose
because they all knew that I needed to like soak
up their knowledge. So I was just trying to, you know,
figure it out. And so long story short, you guys,
(04:22):
I I ended up being very successful in real estate
and mortgage, and I rode that success way for a
long long time, many years, just making really good money.
You know, I'll just be really frank and honest with
you guys. You know, just the financial aspect of it
(04:42):
was just amazing. Where I was able to buy a home,
you know, eventually by the beach in Corona Del Mar
on my own as a single young girl. I was
helping my mom financially, you know, I was I was
just living from the outer world. I was living a
(05:04):
really good life and I was very grateful. I'm very
grateful for that time. But you know, in all transparency,
I was very stressed out. I had a lot of
weight on me at the time. I had about fifteen
pounds more weight on me. My skin was like breaking
(05:25):
out a lot because the stress level of keeping that
that level of success up took a lot. You know.
I was always on the road. I was eating out,
you know, coming home late, sleep, not sleeping that much.
I did have a little dog at the time that
I was caring for, so it was just it was
(05:46):
a lot on the body. So in twenty oh seven,
I knew that I had met my well my ex
husband now but my soon to be husband. At that time.
We had met and I knew we were going to
be probably getting married. He was in the business as well,
doing real estate, and I told him, I'm like, I
(06:09):
don't think that I can just I can keep this
up for very much longer, you know. So when we
got married, he said, just hang my license under hang
your license under my brokerage, and then you can kind
of take a break, and then when you want to work,
you can work under my brokerage. And when you want to,
(06:29):
you know, do something else, you can do something else.
So I had a little bit more freedom. I'm a
really good saver, so I had a lot of you know,
backup money in the bank, and so I did that
and that kind of catapulted my creative journey, which leads
me to hear to be honest, I started going to
(06:52):
acting classes. I started to model again. I did some
modeling as a teenager. I got re signed with an
agency at that time, and I was just really trying
to find my passion again. So lo and behold that
same husband, my ex husband. Now he's a musician as well,
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and he used to sing and play guitar in our house,
and I just remember feeling kind of left out almost
and a little bit like I would feel like jealousy,
like like it was something inside of me thought like
I should be doing that, I could be doing that.
And you know, he has a very big ego, and
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even he would say that about himself now, so I
feel comfortable saying that. But at the time, you know,
it was it was he was the star, and we
would go and he would have gigs and eventually he
would let me get up on stage and sing some
backup vocals and and honestly, I mean I sucked. I
(08:02):
didn't know what I was doing. I just knew that
when I got up on the stage there was something
there for me. I felt my body, And at this
point of my journey, I had been already working, like
doing some deep, deep inner work, right, so I was
(08:22):
more aware of my intuition, my gut feelings, you know,
when my body was kind of talking to me and
saying yes. And so I was listening and you know,
I'll just say this, it's hard for women to listen
to that gut feeling, you know, because I had a
lot of pushback from him. I had a lot of
(08:44):
pushback saying, you know, just making little remarks here here
and there, saying you know, like I remember him telling
me like you act like you want to be Celine
Dion and like just kind of putting me down and
trying to put me in my place, I guess, you know.
And thank god we had a group of musician people
(09:06):
around us that, you know, these other men musicians were
really really good talented would actually come up to me
and encourage me and say, like we really hear something
in your voice. Don't give up. And I'm going to
tell you guys, that was like all I needed, Like
those little pieces of just encouragement was what I needed.
(09:29):
And I trusted these other musicians because they were really talented,
well known almost you know. So fast forward, I continue
my healing journey, my inner work working. So if you
guys don't know what I when, i'd stay inner work.
I've been doing what's called best for many many years.
(09:51):
It stands for bio energetic synchronization technique, which is a
form of therapy. We can say, I write all about
it in my book, but basically what it does is
it clears interferences from childhood, from past experiences that no
(10:13):
longer serve you, and it brings your subconscious mind to
present time. So there are times like if you have
traumatic experience in your childhood, that subconscious memory may still
be running the show today. Okay, so a little parentheses
on my inner work when that's what I mean when
I say inner work. So I continue to do that today.
(10:35):
I've been doing it for years and with that healing,
I started to do some deep inner child work, inner
child healing, and when I started to unravel that piece
of me, I can do not This is not exaggerated
at all. I was still married. I would wake up
(10:57):
at three am in the morning for months and I literally,
you guys, would get up because I couldn't sleep. I
was wide awake three to three, three thirty four o'clock
in the morning somewhere around there, and I would write
poetry like poetry would just be pouring out of my system,
like I didn't know where it was coming from. I
(11:17):
just knew I had tapped into a more authentic and
truthful part of my voice, and even my husband at
the time would say, like, who are you? You know,
like where's this coming from? You know? And I didn't know, really.
I just knew that I was healing a lot of
(11:40):
my childhood wounds and that was the only thing that
I could relate it to. And I didn't even have
the language at that point to explain it to him
on a level that he could understand, because I was
really just not understanding it too much. I just trust
my mentor at that time, and I knew that there
(12:03):
were parts of me that were opening up, and this
poetry writing was just another sign that I was just
on the right path. So I say all this because
it has really led me to today. And what ended
up happening is I ended up, you know, leaving the marriage.
(12:27):
It just honestly wasn't serving me or him anymore. I
don't feel there was tons of love there, and there
still is. I think that we both will always care
and love each other in some way, but it just
wasn't growing anymore. There's there's something that just happened where,
(12:48):
you know, we hit a ceiling and I was going
this way and he was going this way. But the
one thing that I will say that I'm thankful and
grateful for. One of the things that I'm thankful and
grateful for for that relationship is that it really showed
me another level, another side of me that I needed
to birth, you know, that needed to come to fruition
(13:09):
for my for my soulful journey. You know, because music
and songwriting and singing lights me up like no tomorrow.
So what I did was I kept going on my
my singing journey. I have taken many vocal lessons. I'm
still not the best, but it doesn't matter because I
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love the way I feel when I'm around music, when
I'm singing, when poetry is just flowing out of me,
I feel like there's something that just kind of takes
over and I hear this voice and I just you
know what I have. Let's so back up. I'll tell
you guys, I have. Let's see four original songs on
(13:53):
Spotify and one cover that I learned. It's a Spanish
song that I learned from my dad. It's called savodam,
which means the taste of me. It's a very beautiful
love song in Spanish. That were That was my grandparents'
love song to each other. So that's my one original
(14:13):
song that's on Spotify. So I have four original songs
in one cover. And yeah, so so I want to
fix the camera a little bit really quick there. So
my point is is that what I'm what I'm trying
to get at here is I just kept showing up
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for myself, right, So I knew that I knew that
that lit me up a lot. I would get on stage,
I would have little opportunities to sing backup vocals. Then
it turned into having opportunities to do lead singing. And
again I was not perfect. I bombed a lot of times,
(14:58):
but there was still something inside to me that knew
that I wanted to be on stage. I wanted to
find this other part of my voice. I just there
was just I don't know. I felt lit up, I
felt vulnerable, I felt seen, I felt heard, and I
felt like there was actually nowhere to run in those
moments when I was on stage. So meaning like, you know,
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how like we try to hide from ourselves sometimes or
we run to like a vice like alcohol or eating,
or shopping or men or or women if you're a
man or you know, like whatever the vices there was,
just there was nowhere for me to run in those
(15:41):
moments on stage. So I knew that there are all
those elements were there, that there was just something my gut,
something in my heart that I needed to listen to.
So I just kept showing up for myself. I kept
taking vocal lessons. Obviously, I kept writing, and as an artist,
as is somebody that writes, I need to be inspired.
(16:04):
So there was another relationship that entered my life, and
I wrote a couple stories I guess that are that
were inspired by this relationship. And one of the songs
that now is my video, it's called real Me back In,
was inspired by this other relationship and it's actually about
(16:27):
a toxic relationship, which I've talked about on the show
many times. But yeah, so let's see we have a questions. Yay,
thank you guys, Jesse. Are you playing live shows? I
did a live gig, Yeah, a live gig in September
(16:47):
this past year where I sang this song real Me
back In, and I sang the Savona Me song, the
Spanish song I don't Know. Thank you for asking. I
One of my girls friends just called me yesterday and
asked if I was available to do a gig. I
think it's coming up in the next couple of months,
(17:08):
So if I'm available then I will definitely still I
will definitely say yes, but I don't have anything like
solid lined up right now, just that one call I
got yesterday, so we'll see where that goes. So Paul asked,
what types of things inspired you? Like, Oh gosh, okay,
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so mainly, Paul, I, I wrote, I've been writing it
just about my relationships. I feel like that's been my
kind of my work, you know, like work meaning I've
had to really hone in on, I guess, redefining the
(17:50):
kind of person that I need in my life romantically
because I wasn't shown really about a good relationship when
I was a kid, and I've always picked the guy
that I have had to caretake in a way. And
thank God for my music and my art and my
(18:11):
poetry and my writing songs because I can express my
feelings through my music. And so mainly what's inspired me
up to this point are my romantic relationships. So thank
you for that question. But yeah, I just want to
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encourage you guys to feel into what inspires you, what
lights you up because I could have easily listened to
all of my ex husband's kind of digs and you know,
kind of shut myself down. And then you know, I
had these shows back in the day where I bomb
(18:54):
and it was hard. You know, it was like, you know,
of course, you go into like what am I doing?
You know kind of thing and second guessing yourself and
just asking yourself, you know, just doubting yourself. But I
think it's just about showing up for yourself and listening
to your heart and your gut and every day just
(19:15):
showing up for yourself. And it doesn't have to be
this type of showing up for yourself. Everyone's different. So
I guess the question is, whoever's on the call or
the show, is how do you guys show up for yourself?
You know, like showing up for yourself could be getting
up and taking a shower and washing your hair and
getting ready for the day, you know, making a call
(19:37):
that you need to make, you know, eating healthy, going
to the gym. So I just kind of want to
throw that in there, because you know, showing up for
myself was doing this music video, but it also came
with a lot of a lot of back let's say,
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decisions and and going back and forth with a videographer.
She really pushed my buttons at times, and like, I'll
tell you guys this story. So I decided to do
so basically, okay, so let me tell you the story.
In September of this past twenty twenty four, I'm talking
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about relationships, I finally said no to the toxic relationships. Okay.
So over the holidays, to keep my spirit up, I
started to record a cover song, dream a Little Dream
by the Mamas and the Papas, and that was really fun.
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I had one of my friends come over and we just,
you know, we just started practicing the song. We recorded it,
and I told him, I said, you know, I really
want to do a music video just for fun. And
I thought, low budget, you know, something fun, something easy.
I'll just do a low budget video on this song,
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dream a Little Dream. So he was like, yeah, encouragement, right,
encouraging me to do that. And so then I started
to ask my musician friends, like who who do you
guys know to do music video? So I got a
really good referral and I talked to the videographer and
I knew she was really talented and I wanted to
(21:25):
work with her, and we kind of went back and
forth with price. She kept changing the price on me,
and you know, and then again the little doubt, doubtful
voice would come in, like what am I doing? Why
am I doing this? You know? Is this for me
kind of thing? Should I spend the money on a
music video? All these little you know voices that you hear,
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and so finally it just said, okay, I'm doing this
no matter what, I'm doing it. So we set the
date for January something I don't know, it was like
mid to late January. And then I find out that
to do a music video on a cover song, you
have to pay for licensing. So not only was I
(22:11):
paying for the videographer, now I've found out that I
would have to pay for extra licensing to do the
cover song the video music video. So you don't have
to pay extra licensing to put a cover song out,
but you do have to pay extra licensing to put
a music video based on a cover song out. So
I was just like, oh my god, it's a no.
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I was like, no, I'm not doing that. It's done right.
So I thought, okay, there's that idea. Just put it
to rest. I almost felt like relieved, like Okay, I
don't have to do this. I'm not going to pay her.
It was done, and then one of my mentors said
to me, She's like, I feel like it's not about
not doing the music video. It's more about you claiming
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your own voice and doing the music video based on
one of your original songs. And I was like, oh no,
I don't want to do it all my original song.
Like I don't know what I was thinking, like I
felt maybe too vulnerable or something, but I just was
my heart was set on Dream a Little Dream, and
I was wanted to do a Valentine's Day theme and
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I wanted to like roll it out for Valentine's Day
and I had all this vision in my head and
so lowebold I talked to the videographer again and I
told her we can't do the dream a Little Dream.
She's like, that's fine, Jenna, you can do your original song.
We could still do a Valentine's Day theme. It'll be fine, Okay.
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So I said, okay, let's do it done. I'm set
on it, and she's like, okay, I have a makeup
and hair person. She's going to be this much and
I said, okay, let's do it. Pay more money. Got
to get the makeup and hair. It was really fun. Yle,
it was super fun. You guys got to check it out.
It's such a fun video. We did Valentine's a theme.
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It was just awesome. It ended up being awesome. But
I'm telling you, like the backstory. So the day of
she gets the makeup and hair person. The day before
the video shoot, she texted me and said, oh, sorry,
the makeup and hair person backed out of the video
because I didn't want to go to dramatic on my
(24:24):
makeup and hair. I wanted it to look like me.
And she's like, the makeup and hair person backed out
because you don't want to do a dramatic look. I'm like,
oh my god, really, like the day before you're going
to tell me this, and just because I want to
have some say in my own music video, like, it
just didn't sit with me, right, you know what I mean?
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So I was like, oh my god, I panicked. I
texted all of my makeup artists, people that I know
in the area. Thank god, one of my favorite makeup
artists was available that that morning at ten am, so
it worked out. But it's just like you, guys. I mean,
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the videographer, blest her heart. I love her. She did
an amazing, amazing job. She just gave me some really
big stress right before the video. I mean the other
thing she texted me like the day before, which was
for me to go get the USB chord from the
(25:25):
from best Buy. And I was like, wait a second,
isn't that your job, Like I'm paying you to do this,
Like I'm the talent. I'm the artist here, not to
be a diva or anything. But I'm like trying to work,
trying to, you know, get my outfits all together. Now
I have to go drive to get my makeup done.
It was just it was stressful, Lonnie. Do you maintain
(25:46):
creative control of your work? Yes? I do. Yeah, I do,
Thank you. Yeah. I distribute through Distro Kid, which is
a big distributor of music, and I have all of
my songs on distro Kid or distributed through them. And
now my music video is distributed through distro Kid, and
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you guys can check it out on on YouTube. It's
on the Vivo channel YouTube. It's you can just google
my name Jenna Lobos and the song is called real Me.
Back in real me back in so anyways, you guys,
this is just my life, you know. Yeah, So anyways,
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but the day of the shoot, it was it was good.
I had all my outfits together, My makeup looked amazing.
My hair I ended up going to drybar like the
night before and just slept on my hair. It worked.
The the color theme was red and pink, so it
was fun. We filled my bathtub with like tons of
(26:58):
roses and did a whole candle like tons of candles
around it. That was one scene, and then we went
to the beach for another scene, which I loved, and
then we came back to my house and we like
we turned my whole living room into like a like
(27:18):
a full on like production scene, which were one scene.
I was like in like kind of like in this
red fabric and I was like dancing in it because
one of the uh lyrics in the in the song
called they I say that I ignore red flags in relationships,
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So the red was kind of like, you know, like
talking about red flags. So we had like the red
drapery around me. That was fun. And then the other
scene where I was just like laying down and this
I was like in the middle of like all kinds
of rose petals. So it was so much fun, you guys.
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I loved it. I love creative work. It's a lot
takes a lot of energy. We started shooting at one
o'clock and we didn't cut. It wasn't a rap until
nine thirty PM, and we didn't eat until like seven,
so you can imagine. I think I had like like
(28:24):
a bar or something on my way to the beach
because I drove myself. I had like a half of
a like an energy bar, and that was it. And
then we didn't have like real dinner till like seven,
and then we wrapped around nine point thirty. So, yeah,
it was good. It was a good day. I'm hoping
that maybe I can, Yeah, thank you, Rebel put it up.
(28:49):
I can do another music video. Maybe I do have
another cover song that I'm going to release, the dream,
a little dream one that I never released, so that
one's going to come out soon. But yeah, so Benny asked,
did the tough barter? Yes? It did it? Did it? Did?
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It got cold? I put like my my bathtub's really big,
so it takes a long time to fill it. So
we filled it like I don't know, fifteen twenty minutes
prior to me getting in. It was just like ah,
so I had to really put on my acting hat
because it got cold. But thank god, I've been taking
(29:31):
cold showers or cold baths since December. If you guys
want to check out one of the other shows I did,
I talk about the cold baths that I was taking,
so I think that it helped because my body was
like kind of acclimated to cold. But yeah, I did,
and it got cold. So Claire asked, what was the
production cost of this video? I think for I want
(29:56):
to answer that for you, Claire, but I think for privacy,
I don't feel like I should answer that. I'm so
sorry because if the videographer every ever listens, I don't
want her to think that I was, you know, talking
numbers with my audience. So I'm sorry. I just want
to I feel like I need to keep that kind
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of private. But it wasn't like a cheap video. It
didn't end up being low budget, I'll just say that,
so I kind of went all in on it. But
we did, you know, we did most of the production
from my house and then the other piece of it
was at the beach, So that was really helpful that
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I had the space to kind of turn my house
into a music video. So it's something that I'll never forget,
which is nice. I feel like, you know, life is short,
you guys, so continue to show up for yourself, continue
to listen to your heart, listen to your gut, and
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don't let anybody talk you out of what you really
want to do. You know, I shared the backstory I
could have easily given up on myself. And obviously music
is just part of my brand. This podcast is a
big part of my brand. My book Love Your Body,
Love Your Life is a big part of my brand.
(31:25):
I got certified as a life coach in twenty nineteen
and I am just now opening up one on one
sessions or people to work with me as a life coach.
So that's part of my brand. So Claire, understandable. Thank you.
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Would you say people need to plan ahead for a
music video like people plan for a TV show production? Absolutely,
one hundred percent. Yeah, there's a lot that goes on.
You cannot just wake up one day and do a
music video. There's just no way, especially if you wanted
to be interesting and dynamic, and you know, I took
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pretty much all of January to like every week, I
was working on one thing, you know, every week, my costumes,
my look, you know, the all of the back, like
the scenery, all the props and stuff like that. So
hundred percent you have to plan, Claire. Or do you
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like music? Is that what it is? Do you want
to do a music video? I'm just curious because if
you do, I highly encourage you to do one. It's
really it's exhilarating, especially like when you put it out
like I was. I wanted to put it out on
February fourteenth, that was the goal. But then I went
back and forth with editing because there was somebody else
(32:49):
that I hired to do editing for me, so the
videographer person did not do my editing. I actually took
the usb B production all of the footage and I
gave it to somebody else, so he took a little bit.
We went back and forth with storyline and what we
really wanted to put out because what you see in
the music video is really just a blip of the
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whole day because we just we filmed for so many hours,
there was so much footage. So we ended up launching
the video on to sixteen, which was the Sunday after
Valentine's Day, and you guys, it was such a high,
you know, like to finally like put it out in
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the world and to be well received is awesome feeling.
I've had over three hundred views on the video since
the sixteenth, which was I think last week, so it's
been it's been a really good been received really well,
(33:55):
so happy about that. So anyways, you guys, I think
I'm gonna wrap up. I think I've said everything I
need to say. Thank you for listening to my music
video story. I think what I think the underlining messages
here for you guys and my audience is again you know,
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I know I've been saying this the whole show, but
just continue to show up for yourself, you know, listen
to your body, listen to your gut feelings. Don't let
anybody around you, especially you know, even your loved ones,
deter you from what lights you up, what you want
to do, and just keep doing it and just keep
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taking little steps, you know, every day, and and just
because you can't do something now doesn't mean you can't
do something in the future. So I'll take one more question, pen,
what was your inspiration for the clothing choices in the video.
Do you have a cloth clothing line in view? Oh?
(35:02):
Thank you, pen, Oh my gosh, I love this question
because so the inspiration for the clothing choice was the
Valentine's Day theme. So if you watch the video, it's
all pink and red, and so I wanted to kind
of really go with the pink and red theme. And
the videographer that I've been talking about, she has a
(35:24):
really good eye, so she helped me pick out costumes
and dresses that would stand out in video because it's
not like normal like camera. It's you have to be
kind of dramatic. So if you watch it, you'll see
the costumes that were very dramatic. So, but the inspiration
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was Valentine's Day and you have a clothing line in view?
Oh my gosh, thank you so much for this question, Penn,
Because you know, I talk about my brand and I'm
opening up one on one sessions for life coaching, primarily
with women from ages thirty to fifty five, and I
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want to help people, or I want to help women
find that inspiration, find that little voice, and find their
own glow and their own spiritual and soulful path. And
so I'm opening up that as part of my brand.
But I've always said out loud pen that I see
a product in the future for me, and I don't
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know what that product is. So I have definitely gone
back and forth with that idea of a clothing line,
especially going back to the beginning of this show when
I talked about leaving the mortgage industry and kind of
taking a hiatus to see where my creative path was
leading me to. I really I honestly try to do
(36:54):
a bikini line at that point, and I teamed up
with a Russian woman and then she ended up moving
back to Russia, so that didn't happen. But I love
the idea of a clothing line. I just don't know
when and where and if that's going to be my product,
but maybe maybe shirts or T shirts or I don't know,
(37:17):
tease to start, but that would be super fun to
do that and I appreciate your question. So anyways, Yeah,
you guys want to connect with me, you can email
me at Jenna Lobos eight the number eight at gmail
dot com. I am taking one on one coaching clients.
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Now watch my video. I'd love to get an email
and let me know any kind of feedback, or you
can actually just comment on the YouTube video online. And yeah,
you guys, I think the solo situation is going to
happen more often than not. I wasn't signing on that
(38:01):
I've always had guests on, but it's fun to connect
with you guys one on one. I do have a
couple of people that I'd love to come on and
talk about their what they do, so that might be
in the works. But yeah, until next time, you guys,
keep showing up for yourself self, show up for your
soulful self, listen to your inner voice, listen to what
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lights you up. And yeah, love your body, love your life.
Take care Bye,
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Speaker 2 (00:25):
Hello, welcome to Love Your Body, Love Your Life. My
name is Jenna. I am the host of the show,
and I'm also the author of the book titled Love
Your Body, Love Your Life, Fifty two Tips that will
Radically Change your health, and that's available on Amazon and
on Barnes Andnoble dot com. And I'm live today again,
you guys solo, and it seems like this is my
(00:47):
new jam because this is I think my fourth solo show,
So I think this is going to be it for
a little bit. I do have some guests that are
lined up or I'm talking to some people that I'd
love to have on the show, so stay tuned for that.
But yeah, so I am going to be last time. Well,
(01:09):
a couple of times that I've done the show, I've
been telling you guys some just some personal stuff and
sharing what's been going on in my life. And I'm
excited to say and announce that I just dropped my
first music video, so it's very exciting for me. It's
(01:30):
a Valentine's Day themed music video based on one of
my original songs called real Me back in which I
wrote about about toxic relationships. To be honest, it's you
know when you when you write a song, it's it's
kind of a story, right, and then you get into
(01:50):
the studio and you break it down and you put
it to the melody, and sometimes all of that story
that you wrote can't fit into a three minutes song.
So there's a lot, a lot that goes behind the
scenes in regards to writing a song first of all,
and then doing a music video. But so I wanted
(02:12):
to kind of share the experience with you guys in
doing the music video. But before that, I think it's
really important to share where this all comes from, right,
Like I didn't just wake up yesterday or two weeks
ago and say, hey, I want to do a music video. No,
(02:34):
I think it's important to kind of share the backstory
on me evolving as a person, first of all, and
finding my voice and finding that voice that can write
the song. Right. So for me, it's been quite quite
the journey. As you guys know, if you've been following
(02:54):
my shows, I've been a realtor for a long, long time,
selling realism. Eight I got my license right out of
high school because I moved out of the house at eighteen.
So I was trying to go to college full time
and do I was an assistant to a realtor at
that time. I was trying to work full time, go
to college full time, pay my rent, pay my bills,
(03:15):
pay my car payment, all of that. And at some
point I just said I can't do both. I had
to stop going to college. So I made a decision
when I was, you know, eighteen, nineteen years old, that
I was going to just go get my real estate
license and see where that was going to take me.
Since I was already working for a realtor at that time. So,
(03:38):
and we're going to get into the video and everything,
but I'm giving you some backstory. So I did. I
struggled obviously in the beginning, you know, I got my license,
I didn't know where to start. I was just kind of,
you know, pounding the pavement and learning from mentors around me.
At the time. I was always the youngest one in
(03:59):
my office, and so I was always put in like
the middle desk or like the center area on purpose
because they all knew that I needed to like soak
up their knowledge. So I was just trying to, you know,
figure it out. And so long story short, you guys,
(04:22):
I I ended up being very successful in real estate
and mortgage, and I rode that success way for a
long long time, many years, just making really good money.
You know, I'll just be really frank and honest with
you guys. You know, just the financial aspect of it
(04:42):
was just amazing. Where I was able to buy a home,
you know, eventually by the beach in Corona Del Mar
on my own as a single young girl. I was
helping my mom financially, you know, I was I was
just living from the outer world. I was living a
(05:04):
really good life and I was very grateful. I'm very
grateful for that time. But you know, in all transparency,
I was very stressed out. I had a lot of
weight on me at the time. I had about fifteen
pounds more weight on me. My skin was like breaking
(05:25):
out a lot because the stress level of keeping that
that level of success up took a lot. You know.
I was always on the road. I was eating out,
you know, coming home late, sleep, not sleeping that much.
I did have a little dog at the time that
I was caring for, so it was just it was
(05:46):
a lot on the body. So in twenty oh seven,
I knew that I had met my well my ex
husband now but my soon to be husband. At that time.
We had met and I knew we were going to
be probably getting married. He was in the business as well,
doing real estate, and I told him, I'm like, I
(06:09):
don't think that I can just I can keep this
up for very much longer, you know. So when we
got married, he said, just hang my license under hang
your license under my brokerage, and then you can kind
of take a break, and then when you want to work,
you can work under my brokerage. And when you want to,
(06:29):
you know, do something else, you can do something else.
So I had a little bit more freedom. I'm a
really good saver, so I had a lot of you know,
backup money in the bank, and so I did that
and that kind of catapulted my creative journey, which leads
me to hear to be honest, I started going to
(06:52):
acting classes. I started to model again. I did some
modeling as a teenager. I got re signed with an
agency at that time, and I was just really trying
to find my passion again. So lo and behold that
same husband, my ex husband. Now he's a musician as well,
(07:16):
and he used to sing and play guitar in our house,
and I just remember feeling kind of left out almost
and a little bit like I would feel like jealousy,
like like it was something inside of me thought like
I should be doing that, I could be doing that.
And you know, he has a very big ego, and
(07:38):
even he would say that about himself now, so I
feel comfortable saying that. But at the time, you know,
it was it was he was the star, and we
would go and he would have gigs and eventually he
would let me get up on stage and sing some
backup vocals and and honestly, I mean I sucked. I
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didn't know what I was doing. I just knew that
when I got up on the stage there was something
there for me. I felt my body, And at this
point of my journey, I had been already working, like
doing some deep, deep inner work, right, so I was
(08:22):
more aware of my intuition, my gut feelings, you know,
when my body was kind of talking to me and
saying yes. And so I was listening and you know,
I'll just say this, it's hard for women to listen
to that gut feeling, you know, because I had a
lot of pushback from him. I had a lot of
(08:44):
pushback saying, you know, just making little remarks here here
and there, saying you know, like I remember him telling
me like you act like you want to be Celine
Dion and like just kind of putting me down and
trying to put me in my place, I guess, you know.
And thank god we had a group of musician people
(09:06):
around us that, you know, these other men musicians were
really really good talented would actually come up to me
and encourage me and say, like we really hear something
in your voice. Don't give up. And I'm going to
tell you guys, that was like all I needed, Like
those little pieces of just encouragement was what I needed.
(09:29):
And I trusted these other musicians because they were really talented,
well known almost you know. So fast forward, I continue
my healing journey, my inner work working. So if you
guys don't know what I when, i'd stay inner work.
I've been doing what's called best for many many years.
(09:51):
It stands for bio energetic synchronization technique, which is a
form of therapy. We can say, I write all about
it in my book, but basically what it does is
it clears interferences from childhood, from past experiences that no
(10:13):
longer serve you, and it brings your subconscious mind to
present time. So there are times like if you have
traumatic experience in your childhood, that subconscious memory may still
be running the show today. Okay, so a little parentheses
on my inner work when that's what I mean when
I say inner work. So I continue to do that today.
(10:35):
I've been doing it for years and with that healing,
I started to do some deep inner child work, inner
child healing, and when I started to unravel that piece
of me, I can do not This is not exaggerated
at all. I was still married. I would wake up
(10:57):
at three am in the morning for months and I literally,
you guys, would get up because I couldn't sleep. I
was wide awake three to three, three thirty four o'clock
in the morning somewhere around there, and I would write
poetry like poetry would just be pouring out of my system,
like I didn't know where it was coming from. I
(11:17):
just knew I had tapped into a more authentic and
truthful part of my voice, and even my husband at
the time would say, like, who are you? You know,
like where's this coming from? You know? And I didn't know, really.
I just knew that I was healing a lot of
(11:40):
my childhood wounds and that was the only thing that
I could relate it to. And I didn't even have
the language at that point to explain it to him
on a level that he could understand, because I was
really just not understanding it too much. I just trust
my mentor at that time, and I knew that there
(12:03):
were parts of me that were opening up, and this
poetry writing was just another sign that I was just
on the right path. So I say all this because
it has really led me to today. And what ended
up happening is I ended up, you know, leaving the marriage.
(12:27):
It just honestly wasn't serving me or him anymore. I
don't feel there was tons of love there, and there
still is. I think that we both will always care
and love each other in some way, but it just
wasn't growing anymore. There's there's something that just happened where,
(12:48):
you know, we hit a ceiling and I was going
this way and he was going this way. But the
one thing that I will say that I'm thankful and
grateful for. One of the things that I'm thankful and
grateful for for that relationship is that it really showed
me another level, another side of me that I needed
to birth, you know, that needed to come to fruition
(13:09):
for my for my soulful journey. You know, because music
and songwriting and singing lights me up like no tomorrow.
So what I did was I kept going on my
my singing journey. I have taken many vocal lessons. I'm
still not the best, but it doesn't matter because I
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love the way I feel when I'm around music, when
I'm singing, when poetry is just flowing out of me,
I feel like there's something that just kind of takes
over and I hear this voice and I just you
know what I have. Let's so back up. I'll tell
you guys, I have. Let's see four original songs on
(13:53):
Spotify and one cover that I learned. It's a Spanish
song that I learned from my dad. It's called savodam,
which means the taste of me. It's a very beautiful
love song in Spanish. That were That was my grandparents'
love song to each other. So that's my one original
(14:13):
song that's on Spotify. So I have four original songs
in one cover. And yeah, so so I want to
fix the camera a little bit really quick there. So
my point is is that what I'm what I'm trying
to get at here is I just kept showing up
(14:35):
for myself, right, So I knew that I knew that
that lit me up a lot. I would get on stage,
I would have little opportunities to sing backup vocals. Then
it turned into having opportunities to do lead singing. And
again I was not perfect. I bombed a lot of times,
(14:58):
but there was still something inside to me that knew
that I wanted to be on stage. I wanted to
find this other part of my voice. I just there
was just I don't know. I felt lit up, I
felt vulnerable, I felt seen, I felt heard, and I
felt like there was actually nowhere to run in those
moments when I was on stage. So meaning like, you know,
(15:21):
how like we try to hide from ourselves sometimes or
we run to like a vice like alcohol or eating,
or shopping or men or or women if you're a
man or you know, like whatever the vices there was,
just there was nowhere for me to run in those
(15:41):
moments on stage. So I knew that there are all
those elements were there, that there was just something my gut,
something in my heart that I needed to listen to.
So I just kept showing up for myself. I kept
taking vocal lessons. Obviously, I kept writing, and as an artist,
as is somebody that writes, I need to be inspired.
(16:04):
So there was another relationship that entered my life, and
I wrote a couple stories I guess that are that
were inspired by this relationship. And one of the songs
that now is my video, it's called real Me back In,
was inspired by this other relationship and it's actually about
(16:27):
a toxic relationship, which I've talked about on the show
many times. But yeah, so let's see we have a questions. Yay,
thank you guys, Jesse. Are you playing live shows? I
did a live gig, Yeah, a live gig in September
(16:47):
this past year where I sang this song real Me
back In, and I sang the Savona Me song, the
Spanish song I don't Know. Thank you for asking. I
One of my girls friends just called me yesterday and
asked if I was available to do a gig. I
think it's coming up in the next couple of months,
(17:08):
So if I'm available then I will definitely still I
will definitely say yes, but I don't have anything like
solid lined up right now, just that one call I
got yesterday, so we'll see where that goes. So Paul asked,
what types of things inspired you? Like, Oh gosh, okay,
(17:29):
so mainly, Paul, I, I wrote, I've been writing it
just about my relationships. I feel like that's been my
kind of my work, you know, like work meaning I've
had to really hone in on, I guess, redefining the
(17:50):
kind of person that I need in my life romantically
because I wasn't shown really about a good relationship when
I was a kid, and I've always picked the guy
that I have had to caretake in a way. And
thank God for my music and my art and my
(18:11):
poetry and my writing songs because I can express my
feelings through my music. And so mainly what's inspired me
up to this point are my romantic relationships. So thank
you for that question. But yeah, I just want to
(18:31):
encourage you guys to feel into what inspires you, what
lights you up because I could have easily listened to
all of my ex husband's kind of digs and you know,
kind of shut myself down. And then you know, I
had these shows back in the day where I bomb
(18:54):
and it was hard. You know, it was like, you know,
of course, you go into like what am I doing?
You know kind of thing and second guessing yourself and
just asking yourself, you know, just doubting yourself. But I
think it's just about showing up for yourself and listening
to your heart and your gut and every day just
(19:15):
showing up for yourself. And it doesn't have to be
this type of showing up for yourself. Everyone's different. So
I guess the question is, whoever's on the call or
the show, is how do you guys show up for yourself?
You know, like showing up for yourself could be getting
up and taking a shower and washing your hair and
getting ready for the day, you know, making a call
(19:37):
that you need to make, you know, eating healthy, going
to the gym. So I just kind of want to
throw that in there, because you know, showing up for
myself was doing this music video, but it also came
with a lot of a lot of back let's say,
(19:58):
decisions and and going back and forth with a videographer.
She really pushed my buttons at times, and like, I'll
tell you guys this story. So I decided to do
so basically, okay, so let me tell you the story.
In September of this past twenty twenty four, I'm talking
(20:19):
about relationships, I finally said no to the toxic relationships. Okay.
So over the holidays, to keep my spirit up, I
started to record a cover song, dream a Little Dream
by the Mamas and the Papas, and that was really fun.
(20:39):
I had one of my friends come over and we just,
you know, we just started practicing the song. We recorded it,
and I told him, I said, you know, I really
want to do a music video just for fun. And
I thought, low budget, you know, something fun, something easy.
I'll just do a low budget video on this song,
(21:04):
dream a Little Dream. So he was like, yeah, encouragement, right,
encouraging me to do that. And so then I started
to ask my musician friends, like who who do you
guys know to do music video? So I got a
really good referral and I talked to the videographer and
I knew she was really talented and I wanted to
(21:25):
work with her, and we kind of went back and
forth with price. She kept changing the price on me,
and you know, and then again the little doubt, doubtful
voice would come in, like what am I doing? Why
am I doing this? You know? Is this for me
kind of thing? Should I spend the money on a
music video? All these little you know voices that you hear,
(21:48):
and so finally it just said, okay, I'm doing this
no matter what, I'm doing it. So we set the
date for January something I don't know, it was like
mid to late January. And then I find out that
to do a music video on a cover song, you
have to pay for licensing. So not only was I
(22:11):
paying for the videographer, now I've found out that I
would have to pay for extra licensing to do the
cover song the video music video. So you don't have
to pay extra licensing to put a cover song out,
but you do have to pay extra licensing to put
a music video based on a cover song out. So
I was just like, oh my god, it's a no.
(22:33):
I was like, no, I'm not doing that. It's done right.
So I thought, okay, there's that idea. Just put it
to rest. I almost felt like relieved, like Okay, I
don't have to do this. I'm not going to pay her.
It was done, and then one of my mentors said
to me, She's like, I feel like it's not about
not doing the music video. It's more about you claiming
(22:56):
your own voice and doing the music video based on
one of your original songs. And I was like, oh no,
I don't want to do it all my original song.
Like I don't know what I was thinking, like I
felt maybe too vulnerable or something, but I just was
my heart was set on Dream a Little Dream, and
I was wanted to do a Valentine's Day theme and
(23:18):
I wanted to like roll it out for Valentine's Day
and I had all this vision in my head and
so lowebold I talked to the videographer again and I
told her we can't do the dream a Little Dream.
She's like, that's fine, Jenna, you can do your original song.
We could still do a Valentine's Day theme. It'll be fine, Okay.
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So I said, okay, let's do it done. I'm set
on it, and she's like, okay, I have a makeup
and hair person. She's going to be this much and
I said, okay, let's do it. Pay more money. Got
to get the makeup and hair. It was really fun. Yle,
it was super fun. You guys got to check it out.
It's such a fun video. We did Valentine's a theme.
(24:00):
It was just awesome. It ended up being awesome. But
I'm telling you, like the backstory. So the day of
she gets the makeup and hair person. The day before
the video shoot, she texted me and said, oh, sorry,
the makeup and hair person backed out of the video
because I didn't want to go to dramatic on my
(24:24):
makeup and hair. I wanted it to look like me.
And she's like, the makeup and hair person backed out
because you don't want to do a dramatic look. I'm like,
oh my god, really, like the day before you're going
to tell me this, and just because I want to
have some say in my own music video, like, it
just didn't sit with me, right, you know what I mean?
(24:45):
So I was like, oh my god, I panicked. I
texted all of my makeup artists, people that I know
in the area. Thank god, one of my favorite makeup
artists was available that that morning at ten am, so
it worked out. But it's just like you, guys. I mean,
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the videographer, blest her heart. I love her. She did
an amazing, amazing job. She just gave me some really
big stress right before the video. I mean the other
thing she texted me like the day before, which was
for me to go get the USB chord from the
(25:25):
from best Buy. And I was like, wait a second,
isn't that your job, Like I'm paying you to do this,
Like I'm the talent. I'm the artist here, not to
be a diva or anything. But I'm like trying to work,
trying to, you know, get my outfits all together. Now
I have to go drive to get my makeup done.
It was just it was stressful, Lonnie. Do you maintain
(25:46):
creative control of your work? Yes? I do. Yeah, I do,
Thank you. Yeah. I distribute through Distro Kid, which is
a big distributor of music, and I have all of
my songs on distro Kid or distributed through them. And
now my music video is distributed through distro Kid, and
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you guys can check it out on on YouTube. It's
on the Vivo channel YouTube. It's you can just google
my name Jenna Lobos and the song is called real Me.
Back in real me back in so anyways, you guys,
this is just my life, you know. Yeah, So anyways,
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but the day of the shoot, it was it was good.
I had all my outfits together, My makeup looked amazing.
My hair I ended up going to drybar like the
night before and just slept on my hair. It worked.
The the color theme was red and pink, so it
was fun. We filled my bathtub with like tons of
(26:58):
roses and did a whole candle like tons of candles
around it. That was one scene, and then we went
to the beach for another scene, which I loved, and
then we came back to my house and we like
we turned my whole living room into like a like
(27:18):
a full on like production scene, which were one scene.
I was like in like kind of like in this
red fabric and I was like dancing in it because
one of the uh lyrics in the in the song
called they I say that I ignore red flags in relationships,
(27:40):
So the red was kind of like, you know, like
talking about red flags. So we had like the red
drapery around me. That was fun. And then the other
scene where I was just like laying down and this
I was like in the middle of like all kinds
of rose petals. So it was so much fun, you guys.
(28:03):
I loved it. I love creative work. It's a lot
takes a lot of energy. We started shooting at one
o'clock and we didn't cut. It wasn't a rap until
nine thirty PM, and we didn't eat until like seven,
so you can imagine. I think I had like like
(28:24):
a bar or something on my way to the beach
because I drove myself. I had like a half of
a like an energy bar, and that was it. And
then we didn't have like real dinner till like seven,
and then we wrapped around nine point thirty. So, yeah,
it was good. It was a good day. I'm hoping
that maybe I can, Yeah, thank you, Rebel put it up.
(28:49):
I can do another music video. Maybe I do have
another cover song that I'm going to release, the dream,
a little dream one that I never released, so that
one's going to come out soon. But yeah, so Benny asked,
did the tough barter? Yes? It did it? Did it? Did?
(29:09):
It got cold? I put like my my bathtub's really big,
so it takes a long time to fill it. So
we filled it like I don't know, fifteen twenty minutes
prior to me getting in. It was just like ah,
so I had to really put on my acting hat
because it got cold. But thank god, I've been taking
(29:31):
cold showers or cold baths since December. If you guys
want to check out one of the other shows I did,
I talk about the cold baths that I was taking,
so I think that it helped because my body was
like kind of acclimated to cold. But yeah, I did,
and it got cold. So Claire asked, what was the
production cost of this video? I think for I want
(29:56):
to answer that for you, Claire, but I think for privacy,
I don't feel like I should answer that. I'm so
sorry because if the videographer every ever listens, I don't
want her to think that I was, you know, talking
numbers with my audience. So I'm sorry. I just want
to I feel like I need to keep that kind
(30:18):
of private. But it wasn't like a cheap video. It
didn't end up being low budget, I'll just say that,
so I kind of went all in on it. But
we did, you know, we did most of the production
from my house and then the other piece of it
was at the beach, So that was really helpful that
(30:41):
I had the space to kind of turn my house
into a music video. So it's something that I'll never forget,
which is nice. I feel like, you know, life is short,
you guys, so continue to show up for yourself, continue
to listen to your heart, listen to your gut, and
(31:02):
don't let anybody talk you out of what you really
want to do. You know, I shared the backstory I
could have easily given up on myself. And obviously music
is just part of my brand. This podcast is a
big part of my brand. My book Love Your Body,
Love Your Life is a big part of my brand.
(31:25):
I got certified as a life coach in twenty nineteen
and I am just now opening up one on one
sessions or people to work with me as a life coach.
So that's part of my brand. So Claire, understandable. Thank you.
(31:46):
Would you say people need to plan ahead for a
music video like people plan for a TV show production? Absolutely,
one hundred percent. Yeah, there's a lot that goes on.
You cannot just wake up one day and do a
music video. There's just no way, especially if you wanted
to be interesting and dynamic, and you know, I took
(32:06):
pretty much all of January to like every week, I
was working on one thing, you know, every week, my costumes,
my look, you know, the all of the back, like
the scenery, all the props and stuff like that. So
hundred percent you have to plan, Claire. Or do you
(32:27):
like music? Is that what it is? Do you want
to do a music video? I'm just curious because if
you do, I highly encourage you to do one. It's
really it's exhilarating, especially like when you put it out
like I was. I wanted to put it out on
February fourteenth, that was the goal. But then I went
back and forth with editing because there was somebody else
(32:49):
that I hired to do editing for me, so the
videographer person did not do my editing. I actually took
the usb B production all of the footage and I
gave it to somebody else, so he took a little bit.
We went back and forth with storyline and what we
really wanted to put out because what you see in
the music video is really just a blip of the
(33:12):
whole day because we just we filmed for so many hours,
there was so much footage. So we ended up launching
the video on to sixteen, which was the Sunday after
Valentine's Day, and you guys, it was such a high,
you know, like to finally like put it out in
(33:35):
the world and to be well received is awesome feeling.
I've had over three hundred views on the video since
the sixteenth, which was I think last week, so it's
been it's been a really good been received really well,
(33:55):
so happy about that. So anyways, you guys, I think
I'm gonna wrap up. I think I've said everything I
need to say. Thank you for listening to my music
video story. I think what I think the underlining messages
here for you guys and my audience is again you know,
(34:19):
I know I've been saying this the whole show, but
just continue to show up for yourself, you know, listen
to your body, listen to your gut feelings. Don't let
anybody around you, especially you know, even your loved ones,
deter you from what lights you up, what you want
to do, and just keep doing it and just keep
(34:40):
taking little steps, you know, every day, and and just
because you can't do something now doesn't mean you can't
do something in the future. So I'll take one more question, pen,
what was your inspiration for the clothing choices in the video.
Do you have a cloth clothing line in view? Oh?
(35:02):
Thank you, pen, Oh my gosh, I love this question
because so the inspiration for the clothing choice was the
Valentine's Day theme. So if you watch the video, it's
all pink and red, and so I wanted to kind
of really go with the pink and red theme. And
the videographer that I've been talking about, she has a
(35:24):
really good eye, so she helped me pick out costumes
and dresses that would stand out in video because it's
not like normal like camera. It's you have to be
kind of dramatic. So if you watch it, you'll see
the costumes that were very dramatic. So, but the inspiration
(35:46):
was Valentine's Day and you have a clothing line in view?
Oh my gosh, thank you so much for this question, Penn,
Because you know, I talk about my brand and I'm
opening up one on one sessions for life coaching, primarily
with women from ages thirty to fifty five, and I
(36:07):
want to help people, or I want to help women
find that inspiration, find that little voice, and find their
own glow and their own spiritual and soulful path. And
so I'm opening up that as part of my brand.
But I've always said out loud pen that I see
a product in the future for me, and I don't
(36:30):
know what that product is. So I have definitely gone
back and forth with that idea of a clothing line,
especially going back to the beginning of this show when
I talked about leaving the mortgage industry and kind of
taking a hiatus to see where my creative path was
leading me to. I really I honestly try to do
(36:54):
a bikini line at that point, and I teamed up
with a Russian woman and then she ended up moving
back to Russia, so that didn't happen. But I love
the idea of a clothing line. I just don't know
when and where and if that's going to be my product,
but maybe maybe shirts or T shirts or I don't know,
(37:17):
tease to start, but that would be super fun to
do that and I appreciate your question. So anyways, Yeah,
you guys want to connect with me, you can email
me at Jenna Lobos eight the number eight at gmail
dot com. I am taking one on one coaching clients.
(37:38):
Now watch my video. I'd love to get an email
and let me know any kind of feedback, or you
can actually just comment on the YouTube video online. And yeah,
you guys, I think the solo situation is going to
happen more often than not. I wasn't signing on that
(38:01):
I've always had guests on, but it's fun to connect
with you guys one on one. I do have a
couple of people that I'd love to come on and
talk about their what they do, so that might be
in the works. But yeah, until next time, you guys,
keep showing up for yourself self, show up for your
soulful self, listen to your inner voice, listen to what
(38:22):
lights you up. And yeah, love your body, love your life.
Take care Bye,
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