Episode 414: She Said Yes! (Feat. Roy Woods & Mahalia)

OVO Artist, Roy Woods and UK Singer, Mahalia join the ladies of Lip Service this week, Roy to promote his upcoming album 'Mixed Emotions,' and Mahalia promoting her latest album, 'IRL.' The crew discuss a range of topics including how to tell your partner you got someone else pregnant, cheating out spite, feeling pressure to have kids, and much more. Gigi even shares her story about getting engaged! CONGRATS GIGI!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:02):
What up this slip service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm Jji Maguire, I'm.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
Laura Mora, I'm Roy Woods, and I'm Ahavia.

Speaker 1 (00:08):
Okay, yeah, I DIY great And look, this is the
first time we started the show off like this. But
we all have a cup, right, and what I want
to do is and we'll end with you, Gigi. We're
all going to go around the room to toast to
something that we're grateful for. Okay, So Laura will start
on the side. I'm grateful for life. I'm grateful for
great friends, family and a job.

Speaker 3 (00:30):
You'll be Mihelia.

Speaker 2 (00:33):
I think today I am grateful for my mom and dad. Okay,
I arrived in New York last night. I always get
a bit homesick on the first day, and my parents
always just are there at all times, so I think
today it's them all right.

Speaker 1 (00:47):
Well, I would say that I'm really grateful for my
show way up with Angela Yee. You know, we started
in February and is doing extremely well. So I was
nervous when I first started, so I'm excited that things
have definitely and way up. Yes, it got a lot
of great things happening.

Speaker 3 (01:05):
I'm just grateful to even be here doing what I
do because it's been a little while, right, So now
I'm glad that I'm here being able to still do
what I do. That's I'm officially for my family, for Father,
God guided me. I know, all the little things that
I never really got to appreciated, you know, when I
was younger going to toy man.

Speaker 4 (01:22):
Now I'm seeing things different, so very appreciate it.

Speaker 5 (01:25):
No, we're gonna talk about it, Okay, Well, you know, yeah,
little things, you know, Yeah, and g and last but
not least, of course, I am grateful for my man,
my man, my man, because it's a fiancee man and married.

Speaker 1 (01:47):
So we get to announce all of that here. So
we're glad that you guys are here to celebrate with us.
So everybody gotta do the shot or she's gonna have. Now, wait,
a badac. We have to explain the socio situation because
everybody knows that I haven't been drinking, right. I was
in Costa Rica this past week and I celebrated two
years of no liquor, and just because I just wanted to,

(02:09):
I just needed a lifestyle change, little cleans. I wasn't
ALCOHOLICQ or nothing bad happened. I just needed a break, right,
So this celebratory shot of nineteen forty two is the
first real liquor that I'm going to be having. Okay,
and well besides the half a shot we did a
long time ago, but that don't that's the only person
that could make me do something that I don't really
want to do. She's that friend. And but this is

(02:30):
a real shot. It's a red cup and cheers to
life to love to have this, which is yeah, anything
that we do and appreciation, Yeah that part. Pray from
y'all because her Man, her Man, I'm mad, not bad, right,

(02:51):
you know you're the only one that's reacting this.

Speaker 3 (02:53):
Yeah, it's the first time. I just woke up even
shaking with everybody did it.

Speaker 1 (03:00):
I don't have good memories my arms like that much.
The best of the best of the best. I'm so
glad that we're all here to talk about this because
this is a fun time. And has anybody in here

(03:21):
I ever been engaged? I was. He was engaged to
me and somebody else to the same damn time. Yeah
that's spicy. He had like five other lives outside of me. Wow. Yeah,
he was a busy man, very busy, different area code. Well,

(03:45):
there you go. My situation is very unique. Yeah, that's
what we got to get into, because you guys got
to hear this. So, so, he is a entrepreneur. I
live in Atlanta. He owns clubs and a franchise of
soul food restaurants in Atlanta. I was love soul food

(04:08):
and I was it's called the Peach compla cafe actually,
and he was. And I was in one of his
clubs on July fifth, the day after fourth of July,
and he actually had security come get me out of
the section because he wanted to meet me. So to
be clear, today's July twenty fourth. This happened July fifth, right,
three weeks ago. Yes, so ten days later, ten days later,

(04:31):
we went on our first date. Very soon within the
first you know, part of the conversation, he said that
you are the woman I prayed for. God sent you
to me and I want you to be my woman.
And I'm like already, and he's like, yeah, I'm a
grown ass man. I know what I want and that's you.
So I'm like, okay, He's like, I am not a

(04:51):
grown ass. He's so he's like, what's today's date, and
I'm like July fifteen, and he's like, so if you
say yes, and today's O anniversary and I'm like, well,
I guess today's our anniversary because I say yes. So
we went to both of his clubs and we're like
holding hands the whole time and like making now in

(05:12):
front of everybody so much PDA, like all night. By
the end of the night, we were exchanging I love
yous And three days later there's an engagement. He'll believe
I went, And so of course it all hapn't really fast,
so I know everybody's looking for the ring. There's no
r you got a tattoo, did get attack? But I
did get a tattoo across here and it says his

(05:34):
name missus bleep read it.

Speaker 3 (05:37):
I'll tell y'all.

Speaker 1 (05:38):
I'll tell y'all later. But yeah, so there will be
a wedding. I don't want to give too much of
the details, but it's happening, and I honestly just feel
like I'm in a dream, like it's like a fairy tale.
Because we my friends know that I'm not this girl,
like I'm not the Oh my god, I don't want
to get married. I'm okay like this, Yeah, but me
being a grown ass woman and that and one of

(06:00):
the things that he loves about me. I know that
I trust my gut instincts and in my heart and
my soul, and I just feel like he is my person.
Like I've spent the last nine days with him, and
we wake up every day six am and just talk
and have those heart hearts and talk for hours, and
We've gotten to know each other on such a spiritual
and deep level that I know that I'm making the

(06:23):
right decision and I know that it's real. My man,
my man, you love it. Let me ask you, does
this how do you feel about this story like this?
Because does it scare you?

Speaker 2 (06:40):
I think it probably scares me slightly. Yeah, I'm kind
of like it scares me.

Speaker 1 (06:50):
Love is scary.

Speaker 2 (06:54):
It scares me only because I mean, does it like,
I don't know if I just scare me me personally,
that's the kind of thing that I imagine would happen to me,
because I think that I just I don't. I am
very much a lover girl, and everybody who knows me
knows me. Yeah, And I don't think that you should

(07:14):
ever be scared for anything like that. I think it's lovely. Listen,
I've been with my mom for three years and sometimes
I look at him like, are you gonna already?

Speaker 1 (07:26):
When here you'll be like so I was going to
say we're happy today. I did an interview in What.

Speaker 2 (07:36):
I Will say though my so, my mom and dad
they met in Leicester, where I'm from, and after like
I think it was like three months, they got pregnant
and my mom I think my mom was like, I
want to have the baby and my dad was like,
I'm not sure.

Speaker 1 (07:51):
They were like.

Speaker 2 (07:52):
Twenty six, I think, so my dad was like, I'm
not sure, and she was like, well, I'm going to
have this baby if you stay or you don't stay.
And I think he might have gone away for a
little bit, like he might have been like, you know,
I need a minute. And that's my older brother. So
my parents have been together for all that time, still
together for five years.

Speaker 1 (08:10):
The person love and sometimes people be a little nervous,
but they came through in it and and that's and
that's fair.

Speaker 2 (08:19):
You know, I love it for you.

Speaker 1 (08:21):
And they say, you know, when you meet your person,
you know you know, and they say you're gonna like
you're gonna know I'm waiting like that said, I would,
as the only male over here, I would love to
hear your thoughts on something like this because as a
person who has songs like don't love Me, I want to,

(08:42):
and you are younger, so I just want to get
your take on it. As a man, have you ever
felt like, oh my god, so overwhelmed with love really
really early on? And if you have, did it last?
Do you feel like this is something that you could
envision for yourself?

Speaker 3 (08:56):
Well, I would say from young I've been a hard lover, right,
So like I never and son to shill and love.
It's just that when I was younger, I never really
got back to love. I gave back even after. Actually
I'm not gonna lie even after. So you know this girl,
I just I just went through something like that. I
was just like, you know what, we're just gonna go

(09:18):
through it, right.

Speaker 4 (09:19):
But it didn't work.

Speaker 3 (09:20):
Okay, But it was okay, right because she just wasn't
for me, right, I knew exactly and I have that
now right honestly because it's a long story, but because
also basically I had to. I have a lover I've
been like talking to for like about a year now,
but I've known her since like high school. We went
to the same high school, right, and you know our lives.

(09:43):
I feel like if we just met at a different time,
we've been perfect. But we just came back into each
other's lives the worst time possible. So that's why may
don't love me, because I was like, yo, I don't
want love right now, I'm still my young boy trying
to you know what I'm saying. So I got to
wean out of that, right. I'm still trying to find
myself and trying to find what being a man is
right for me, right because I already do a lot

(10:05):
of shit that a lot of men don't do.

Speaker 4 (10:08):
Well.

Speaker 3 (10:08):
I take care of minds. I've always been. I stand
on that. You know, I've been responsible. I had to
take home my mom when I was eight, right because
she how fabu miyologia If you know what that is.
It's a it's a pain conditions of pain condition where
it leaves you with spasms and your muscles and you
can't walk.

Speaker 4 (10:24):
My mom couldn't walk me to school. Yeah, like that's
how bad it was. So and that was a young age.

Speaker 3 (10:28):
So and I got my little sister too, So I
know responsibility and when I see it, you know, so
I hold certain people accountable, especially my father.

Speaker 4 (10:36):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (10:36):
We're good, Everything good. But I know the kind of
man that I am compared to a lot of older
men that.

Speaker 1 (10:41):
I see what you had to do.

Speaker 3 (10:43):
Basically, and I still do hands down till this day, right,
Like I take care of every trust me.

Speaker 4 (10:48):
I'm that guy.

Speaker 3 (10:49):
I want to come down to that and I don't
play with that, you know. So I know the kind
of man I am in that sense, but I'm still
young last I don't really have a lot of direction,
like the direction I'm getting from people that I've allowed
into my life and I'm learning them, you know.

Speaker 4 (11:01):
So you know, I know how to.

Speaker 3 (11:02):
Always be a lover, but now being a man and
that with responsibilities and I just had to realize and
nobody cared about what you got going on.

Speaker 4 (11:09):
You just got to keep doing it, you know.

Speaker 1 (11:10):
That's just what a man want to have some fun
because you really had been houlding things down for so long.
I had, yeah, and I had to when I was younger, right,
But do you do boyfriend things for her but then
say that don't love me though?

Speaker 3 (11:24):
No, no, no, no, no now because we've we've gotten through that.
So you know, we said there was a point in
time where we said, you know what, we're getting too
toxic for each other. We got to kind of separate,
and you know, she left. She blocked me on everything.

Speaker 4 (11:35):
I was like, damn, what's that.

Speaker 1 (11:36):
Happening you have? I was like, you have to block quick,
listen my peace of mind. I'm going to block it.

Speaker 3 (11:46):
But I understood that, dude. Then I dropped the song too, right,
So she was like, I got the block. I can't
be seeing you everywhere. We just said, you know what
I'm saying. So that's when I may touch what I
know my new single, right, and because I tried to
moving on.

Speaker 1 (12:01):
So that you're writing it and it's from a real place, right.
You need to know the stories behind the music, both
of you. But when you're writing these songs, it helps
so much because you're like, oh my god, I went
through that same thing. It feels so much more very relatable.

Speaker 3 (12:14):
Yeah, yeah, we all go through it, right, And that's
what I love just putting my life out, putting my
story out, because not a lot of people will think, oh,
like he feels the same he's going through the same
ship on that level, like, yeah, I'm human that party problems.

Speaker 1 (12:28):
Yeah, my girl, I'm trying to figure it out here.
I feel like it feels like he wants to be
in love and be in a relationship, but at the
same time not wants to figure it out. But that
is but that is kind of like life.

Speaker 3 (12:43):
Yeah, yeah, I'm trying to figure it out. I'm still
a young man. Well, but now I don't even want
nobody else because we figured it out, so making it No,
she my rock, that's my girl. That's that's what I'm
rolling with. I've known it for years and I don't
trust a lot of people. Knew people like you know,
she saw me everything Like I was like, listen, basically
it was like this, you got this.

Speaker 4 (13:04):
One problem, but you got everything else. I was like,
I'm gonna do this one problem.

Speaker 3 (13:07):
You know what I'm saying. You everybody got them right,
So I'll take that. It's not that stressful for me.

Speaker 4 (13:13):
I'll deal with it.

Speaker 3 (13:14):
And that's you know what I'm saying. She's perfect for me.

Speaker 1 (13:16):
Now let's talk about your situation. So three years, three years,
three years, Okay, So this is Natura Maty you broke
up with and got back together with.

Speaker 2 (13:23):
No, Okay, no, this was a new guy. This was
this this guy was It was really an accident. I
I kind of I went into the pandemic with my ex,
and I think the pandemic basically we just shouldn't have
been together all that.

Speaker 1 (13:43):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (13:43):
Yeah, like my dad, I remember my dad saying to
me that he felt like we were like we were
like a summer fling that went on for too long
because your step together exactly. And then the pandemic happened.
And I think I think most of us, if if
any of us, were in kind of like situationships. I
think a lot of people pushed together so that you
could not be apart for like months. So me and him,

(14:05):
me and him stuck together, and then it just fell apart,
like it didn't even like it, like it literally crumbling crumbled.

Speaker 3 (14:14):
Yeah, and.

Speaker 2 (14:16):
Falling and crumbling is two very different things. Just didn't
like break this little like it was just crumbling everywhere.
So we eventually, well I say we called it quits.
That's me trying to make it sound better. He just
he just left. I came back one day. He was gone, Wow, Yeah, I.

Speaker 1 (14:32):
Feel like that he said, you didnt even say goodbye. Yeah,
it made you go into the I was really bad.

Speaker 2 (14:41):
I think it was. I think I'm I'm quite an
optimistic person. I think I've always kind of been. I
think I'm an optimistic pessimist, if that makes any sense.
So I and I've also I think I've seen a
lot of I've seen a lot of mental health illness
in my life with family, with my brothers, and so

(15:02):
I think I've always had to kind of not like,
not dissimilar to you, Roy, but I think I've just
had to kind of keep it together. And when my
ex left, I think it was the first time that
I've really allowed myself to fall apart. I don't think
I ever thought that I could be a low feeling person,

(15:22):
but I think that was the first time that I
really experienced depression, to be honest. So it was about
two months and then I started therapy. Therapy definitely pulled
me out of it. I think just being able to
like work through it and figure out like what the
hell happened. I never really got closure from him. I
kind of we had we kind of had one conversation

(15:42):
and tried to I tried to understand his reasoning. I
didn't really get it.

Speaker 1 (15:47):
Did something happen?

Speaker 2 (15:49):
I was crumbling?

Speaker 1 (15:51):
So have you spoken to him since? Once? Once?

Speaker 2 (15:55):
And it was it was kind of okay. I think
I'd done and by that point I think I was
about it out of it.

Speaker 1 (16:01):
Oh we have been there long.

Speaker 2 (16:02):
It's been a long long time.

Speaker 1 (16:03):
Sometimes that's the best. You gotta wait.

Speaker 2 (16:05):
Yeah, emotional, but then within that time this is like
so in the UK, there was a period of time
towards the end of twenty twenty when they started this
initiative called eat out to help Out. I don't know
if you guys you didn't have that hair, will.

Speaker 1 (16:20):
It'll be different? Okay? Yeah, maybe if you eat out
it's going to help you out. You be.

Speaker 3 (16:33):
To help you out.

Speaker 2 (16:34):
Obviously, because so many businesses were like taking a huge
hit from the pandemic, they were trying to get something
in the business. Yeah yeah, to help them out.

Speaker 3 (16:42):
Yeah yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 (16:42):
It's so they opened up, they like reopened up outside
areas of restaurants.

Speaker 1 (16:47):
We got the streeries right right right.

Speaker 2 (16:49):
So we would go out and there was this one
night where I was out. I had had some dinner
and then I went to get a drink with my
friend all outside and then a friend of mine walked
in with this guy and then that's mine.

Speaker 1 (17:03):
Now, partner, did you have an instant attraction? Was it?

Speaker 2 (17:09):
Yes? I did, But I should I say, I don't
know if I had an instant I think I had
an instant emotional attraction. I thought he was very funny.
He was also a songwriter. I was kind of interested
by him. He was a songwriter who was studying law.

Speaker 1 (17:26):
Creative. Yeah, he's like I like him for it.

Speaker 2 (17:35):
Hundred percent, and I think I I it made me
realize that I've never dated a guy who reads reading.

Speaker 3 (17:45):
Amazing he I mean.

Speaker 2 (17:47):
He reads nonfiction like he reads into it, like books
that I would never read. Uh, Like, he'll read books
about politics. There's a book actually that he that he
gave me called like politics, sex and something else.

Speaker 3 (18:00):
I love type books like that, Like that's why that's
what I'm into, Like the minding.

Speaker 2 (18:04):
Sit I'm into like mystery novels.

Speaker 1 (18:08):
But you know, but that is something so interesting guys
who read books.

Speaker 4 (18:13):
I just got back into it.

Speaker 1 (18:14):
Yeah, he's like, I'm about to go read some books
and buying all the time. But that but that's amazing, right,
and even for you dating women who read books, you know,
because people in general don't don't read as much as
they should. And you have a book club, and how
many men do you have that are within It's mostly women, huh.
It is mostly women because guys I read you like,

(18:35):
and I read alat because of what I do. Angela
has a library in her house, but I yeah, intertwined,
intertwined with the bar into her the bar and a
whole library. To me, books and booths go perfect together, absolutely,
you know. It's like when I first bought my house,
one of the main things I envisioned was like being
able to sit down with some tequila, read a book, relax.

(18:57):
I think that's the best feeling, like to lose yourself
in a book. And depending on the vibe, I feel,
I could read a nonfiction book. But then I also
sometimes like to just read like a trashy book if
I'm just like you know, it's it's just it's just
kind of like watching a movie and you get to
say your own vision of it in your head. That's
the thing I like about. But you have a whole.

Speaker 2 (19:18):
Image of what everything and it's very personal to yourself.

Speaker 1 (19:22):
But it is very sexy somebody who reads. I would
say that like to imagine being able to like lay
in bed with your person and you're both reading a
book and stuff like that, or you know, when you're
reading and he's practicing that eat out out out to
help out. I love that we got to set an initiative.

(19:46):
But here I kind of like that's the hashtag.

Speaker 3 (19:51):
For us.

Speaker 1 (19:53):
Started. All right, So then when did how did things
progress from there? Like how did you guys hook up?
Initially we became friends.

Speaker 2 (20:07):
He was still involved with somebody, yeah, which I which,
which I knew, but I don't think because we were
because I was so fresh out of this like sadness.
I was kind of grateful that he was still figuring
something out. And then him and her I think they
they had split up and we were friends. We became friends.

(20:28):
I for the first time ever saying I'm a lover girl.
Actually earlier, for the first time ever, I was scared.

Speaker 6 (20:34):
I was.

Speaker 2 (20:34):
I was. I was incredibly scared of having the feeling
that my ex gave me. Incredibly I've never had that
before ever. Yeah, I've never been fearful of, like, you know,
just kind of jumping in. But this time I think
just kind of knowing that it could take me that far.
I was like, hmm, I need to hold off a bit.
So we were friends and then we and then I

(20:57):
don't remember, actually I think it was like there was
one evening where there are a bunch of us hanging
out and I remember kind of coming in late because
I've been working and him and him telling me that
he missed me that day, and I remember kind of
looking at my girl like, oh my god, he just
said that to say that, and then that kind of
being the thing. But we've we've had a real lovely time.

Speaker 1 (21:22):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (21:23):
The first year was difficult. I think I was like,
I think I had like things or certain behaviors that
I'd learned from my ex that I was trying to
like kind of rewire my brain out of. But he's
he's a really really patient man.

Speaker 1 (21:36):
That's one thing too. You cannot let your ex affect
your new relationship. You know. That's because sometimes we feel
like I don't want to be in love again. I'm
never doing this again. I'm not trying to do X,
Y and Z, I'm never getting married. But yeah, used
to say that, why am I going to let my
ex dictate what I have you know amazing going on

(21:56):
in my life.

Speaker 3 (21:57):
I felt victim to that you want me to, Well,
that's how I have my daughter. You know, I was
on my this was actually doing COVID too. I was
lonely and I was in I was actually in something too.
So the fact that I was lonely, I was like,
why am I even feeling like this? So I acted out,
saying when I knew I shouldn't write, signed some slam

(22:18):
bag ship to my girl that I was in a
relationship with at the time, right, so boom. Now a
couple of nine months later, baby to break on. I
have to break it down every time.

Speaker 1 (22:29):
I was too.

Speaker 3 (22:32):
Right, my master because d drake me to the Bahamas.
So I have to tell her on the phone and
the Bahamas like yeah, I got.

Speaker 1 (22:39):
My You told her why she was gonna tell.

Speaker 3 (22:45):
Her No, no, no, just the conversation just came to
that point.

Speaker 4 (22:49):
There was no aboording.

Speaker 3 (22:50):
It's like, I'm just gonna lie to talk about it
in person, or we just deal with it.

Speaker 4 (22:53):
I'm as I just do with it now.

Speaker 3 (22:55):
I rather not later.

Speaker 1 (22:57):
Exactly, Like how does she respond?

Speaker 4 (22:59):
Like? How?

Speaker 3 (23:00):
Because I was honest about it? Obviously she was upset
but she was like, Okay, well just try to work
through this. And we did try to work through it,
but she couldn't. She had too many things in her
life that now I started learning about her that she
kept behind doors that I was like, okay, yeah, we
can't do this.

Speaker 4 (23:15):
You don't even have the strength for this.

Speaker 1 (23:17):
I mean, that's a lot of strength though, of course
you're telling me.

Speaker 3 (23:23):
I know, right, That's why I gave her kudos, like
you tried. She tried, right, But even then she wasn't
for me either. She's had so many other things she
was doing. So now I saw you. I felt super
victim to that until my new girl, you.

Speaker 1 (23:36):
Know right, Yeah, how did you guys meet?

Speaker 4 (23:38):
Well, we already we already knew ech other form hig school.

Speaker 3 (23:41):
I actually new my baby high school too, but we
didn't go to the same school, me and my girl.
So I had a party in like Mississauga is like
the city beside my son, Mississauga.

Speaker 1 (23:52):
All the West Indies and everything.

Speaker 4 (23:54):
You don't know.

Speaker 1 (23:57):
Laura lived in Toronto for oh yeah, hello, random fucked
up engagement Toronto across the street. Well he was in
from Toronto but for.

Speaker 3 (24:06):
Work, for work, Yeah, it was across the.

Speaker 1 (24:10):
Street from the when when what's his name going? Briskly Rosky,
the hollekey player.

Speaker 3 (24:18):
Yes, that was the Crush.

Speaker 1 (24:20):
We lived at the Metropolitan right Town.

Speaker 4 (24:22):
Okay, see yeah, okay, in downtown.

Speaker 1 (24:25):
His whole ass. Wow, damn, I love it. There's a
lot of women in surroundo though. That's yes. Toronto is
definitely known for like the bad Yeah. Yeah, and it
was only gonna be caravan if your man go to
caravan exactly and listen, they.

Speaker 3 (24:40):
Don't care anybody, anybody women and not even if you're
not singing like women.

Speaker 1 (24:45):
I felt like women, well back then, I don't know
about now, but my experience like I would be standing
next and with my ring on and they didn't care,
like they'll walk up to him, and then when I snapped,
I'm crazy what you mean? And they didn't care.

Speaker 3 (25:01):
They didn't care.

Speaker 1 (25:01):
And it's great, and there was back then there was
a crew. There was like a crew of women that
would flock to them. And there's like this one ring
leader who would you know, do parties and invite all
her girls and have the I crash a couple of
them ships me and my friends because they weren't you know,
his coworkers, So it was like, how do you deal

(25:27):
with in your line of work jealousy and security, because
that's also you're it's not easy to deal with an artist,
you know, somebody that women like you. You're going to
be on the road, you're hanging out, you're probably at
drake parties too, and we all, but how do you
handle that because sometimes you also have to be very
sensitive to a woman you're dating, just making sure that

(25:49):
she feels comfortable and reassured.

Speaker 3 (25:51):
Of course, it's honesty, you know, That's all I've always been.
That's why I don't love me a song, because I'm
just straight up honest with it. This is how I am,
is what it is right now, Rock with it.

Speaker 1 (26:00):
Or don't love me?

Speaker 3 (26:01):
Pretty much, rock to leave or stay here and don't
love them. Yeah, that's it right because you know you
want what you want. I know, the kind of nigga
I am.

Speaker 4 (26:09):
That's why you're so hooked.

Speaker 3 (26:10):
But at the end of the day, I'm I have
goals and things that I'm trying to go after and
I'm still young, I'm living my life. So if you're
going to slow me down, how can a woman slow
you down? Because look, well, First of all, I already it.
Women when they're not, they're not like how even y'all are.

Speaker 4 (26:28):
In my era.

Speaker 3 (26:29):
Women are so lost just like the men, right, so
no one has guidance and direction because everybody's just worried
about the expectations let upon them, right, So then they're
the good doors to rebellion. It goes to listen, I'm
not even nobody's in hearing me and listening to my problems,
all right, So I'm acting out now, I'm gonna do
what I want to do, and I'm living young. They
live while living fast, right, That's all my generation is.

Speaker 4 (26:49):
So it's easy to stay away.

Speaker 3 (26:51):
Because you see what's going on, but it's easier to
also to see what's going on. It's so right in
your face, right. So for me, yeah, it was just
I just I just stay honest. I'm not trying to
have nobody slow down what I got going on. I'm
not trying to slow down anything else somebody else got.

Speaker 4 (27:03):
Going on, right there. I'm not in that.

Speaker 6 (27:06):
Yeah, I'm not.

Speaker 4 (27:06):
I'm not trying to do that. If we're gonna go forward,
that's not put no feeling, no feelings attached. Let's go
with that. But because honestly, that's what it is.

Speaker 1 (27:14):
That's what it's really hard to have no feelings. Yeah,
even when you're eating someone, because that's hard.

Speaker 3 (27:21):
It didn't work because because I caught so much feelings,
I'm like, I'm treating her, let my girl, even though I'm.

Speaker 1 (27:27):
Telling you don't love me right right, So it's like,
because I just can't help, you're misleading you know what?
I feel like You guys always nead with this whole like, look,
I'm not trying to do this, I'm not trying to
do that, and then they treat you like they are
trying to ye, yeah, and they can't get canfusing and
then they don't really mean it. You try to put
that up as a safety guard. It's yes, I don't

(27:48):
want to I'm gonna tell you I don't want this, Yes,
but it gets to no way where the actions and
the words aren't matching. Yeah, it was like what are
we doing here? Then try to make you feel like
you're crazy because what you with you because the word
but the actions are something else. And I'm going with
these actions and you're going with these words. I think
he I think it's it's like spirit when you let

(28:17):
it like it's like, but you know, but I was
honest with you from the beginning. Your words were but
not your actions.

Speaker 3 (28:23):
And that's what that's why I became that too, right,
whereas it led into lies because it's like, Yo, we're
supposed to be on this level, and then you say
you understand that, but now you doing stuff that's trying
to be like you're not keeping up to the same
levels that I'm at. You want more now, right, and
then I also may want more now, but you got
to stay here because I appreciate you so much for

(28:43):
even being that at that level. That's why I want
to give you more. That's why I want to do
so much more. I'm cheating on my girl because you're
actually respecting exactly what's going on in my life right now.
So when you want some more now and then you
say that was causing friction, that's when it starts lying.

Speaker 4 (28:57):
That's when it becomes toxic, you know what I'm saying, Really, how.

Speaker 1 (29:00):
Do you feel about bringing her around? Like when you
have events and when you're like, say you're in the studio,
when you know you're around at the artists and things
like that, how is that?

Speaker 3 (29:08):
I mean, I got to know shorty heart. And first
of all, I don't even bring people around like that.

Speaker 4 (29:12):
Yeah, because I have before and it says I've been through.

Speaker 1 (29:15):
The I was like, no, you got to tell me
what happened before, like you know, but tell me one
thing that has happened that. Yeah, one for one or
maybe two.

Speaker 6 (29:27):
Okay, maybe too.

Speaker 3 (29:29):
Listen, I've had girls on all the Homies what wait,
all the home Way.

Speaker 1 (29:37):
So you brought in and she ended up.

Speaker 4 (29:40):
Spieful. Yeah, right on spie Homies.

Speaker 1 (29:43):
Is like I'll do it. Yeah, them they could They
couldn't be your homies.

Speaker 3 (29:47):
They had to be doing no, no, no, I mean, well, well,
the first of all, people, I show my heart. But
as I said, like, listen, you I showed you what
I want and what I'm working for. If you can
stay here, keep up to that. If not, then keep
pretty much. And because I'm actually I improved people's life,
quality of life when you come into my life, that's
the only thing that's gonna happen.

Speaker 1 (30:07):
And it should be mutual. She should be improving yours.

Speaker 3 (30:10):
Yeah, right, But then people get spiteful when they don't
get their end of the deal based on what they feel, right,
which is like, what where are you looking at the
bigger picture right now? Pretty much even if it was
not even like a relationships more situationship.

Speaker 1 (30:21):
Right, it's not there yet.

Speaker 3 (30:22):
It's not not even there yet. We're just feeling these
things we're doing help you. I'm building you, you're building me.
But now you're getting spiteful because I'm still doing You
want more now?

Speaker 2 (30:32):
And it turns into the guys that she's working on
are your guys?

Speaker 3 (30:36):
I mean, I guess they're not friends, but they're not.
Like I went through it, I went veteran that no,
not like you're not going to see them every day?

Speaker 1 (30:44):
You know you now exactly? I was there. They aren't
even industry.

Speaker 3 (30:52):
Yeah right, well somebody first it was like at first
it was my niggas.

Speaker 4 (30:57):
Niggas.

Speaker 3 (30:58):
So I went through it like this is like it
was crazy. You cry? Yeah, of course of course I cried, Yeah,
because I need you through it before.

Speaker 1 (31:05):
Did you get your friends? Did you get a friend
with your friends?

Speaker 3 (31:09):
Years later when with my friend friend group, Yeah, we
cleared it and we got over that because we're all
you like nineteen.

Speaker 4 (31:20):
So I said it. That's all, y'all.

Speaker 1 (31:23):
What explanation does a guy have for doing that? Is
it that I didn't know you al was that serious?

Speaker 3 (31:27):
I wasn't even that he was, like he was hurt too,
because I was, oh, man, you talk about it like
I was taking something from him in the central. I
was actually trying to protect him because he's so he
was very at the time self destructive. So I'm playing
that role in the central like y'all got.

Speaker 4 (31:45):
To just move the piece, bro, because you're not.

Speaker 3 (31:47):
You're going to just destroy it, right, And I can't
have that around here. Now you're going to bring some
ship that can that cauld hurt all of us. I
don't need that around here, right. And it's my dog dog,
Like we grew up like clothes on his back type shit.
You know we're good now though, we're rolling now. But
he didn't understand the kind of person even he was
until she really hit the fact, and I had to
separate from him for her to really learn the kind
of person he was. Right, So when we were kindled,

(32:08):
he was like, yo, bro, like this is where I
came from. He can never give me that conversation when.

Speaker 4 (32:11):
We were younger.

Speaker 1 (32:11):
You know, she probably didn't know himself.

Speaker 4 (32:13):
No, he didn't two thousand percent. He did not know
none of us, did I mean it?

Speaker 3 (32:18):
Yeah, I ran away from home.

Speaker 4 (32:20):
He ran away from home, like.

Speaker 1 (32:22):
And figured it out exactly.

Speaker 3 (32:23):
We're just young, dumb, stupid, just trying to figure That's
the reason I knew, right. So it was just like, okay, like,
I respect you for that. Everybody lied to me, but
I respect you for coming to me and being honest
with me.

Speaker 4 (32:36):
She told me.

Speaker 3 (32:38):
Her friend to confronted so exactly, and I confronted everybody.

Speaker 1 (32:44):
My friends told you.

Speaker 3 (32:46):
Her friend told me what friends When I found out
her friend was trying to because.

Speaker 1 (32:52):
I'm not like that, I wanted telling y'all man that
you fucked him rightly, hairy especially.

Speaker 3 (33:04):
I let them deal with that with that on their
heart because I know the kind of person.

Speaker 4 (33:08):
I ain't trying to roll with that on my heart.

Speaker 1 (33:10):
How forgiving are you, Mahelia when it comes to your friends,
because we've all had situations with friends.

Speaker 2 (33:14):
Friend can never do that to me?

Speaker 1 (33:15):
Well, okay, friend, So that's what I thought that first.

Speaker 2 (33:19):
Yeah, none asked, but.

Speaker 4 (33:23):
Now that can happen.

Speaker 2 (33:24):
But yeah, my my friend can never do that to me.
Ninety but blah blah blah, I will say that I
think behaviors and reasonings with women and men. Not to generalize,
but I do think they are different. If my girl
did that to me, do you know what it is?
Is that with when I think about my girlfriends, I

(33:44):
think that that decision would be like, that decision would
be thought through, whereas I think a man is much
more likely to maybe act.

Speaker 4 (33:51):
On him it.

Speaker 1 (33:52):
Yeah, my girls.

Speaker 2 (33:54):
I'm like yeah, because because I can imagine that. Like,
just as a woman, I think there are we have
like markers where we question it. You know, from from
the moment we are you know, kissing, to when things
are coming off to when it goes. There are a few.

Speaker 1 (34:13):
But you know what I will say, people the way
that they're raised and trauma they have in their life.
Sometimes people do things and there's like they don't even
know why they do it, Like you were saying, they
may not even realize why they're doing something. You know. So,
have you ever fallen out with any of your really
good friends? Because I feel like the better friends you
are with somebody, there's you know, we've seen a lot

(34:35):
of things happening as of late with people exposing people
we were friends and now this person. Because that's one
rule if I fall out with you, I'm still not
going to put your business out there.

Speaker 3 (34:46):
The new generation they don't believe in that for some
for some reason.

Speaker 1 (34:50):
But I do feel like in certain situations, because no
friendships are always perfect, you know, and especially in a
business like this where so many things can potentially moving parts.
Have you ever had to like forgive a friend for
something that they've done to you and move on or
has everything been pretty smooth? So I don't.

Speaker 2 (35:11):
In truth, I don't have many friends. I think I had.
I had a particularly tough time in school, so I
think as an adult, I don't. I find it hard
to keep friends or just I find it hard to
let people in. Yeah, waiting, I find it very hard
my close friends. Nah, I don't think I've ever if

(35:33):
anything's ever happened, I haven't forgiven.

Speaker 1 (35:35):
Wow, So what that are you?

Speaker 2 (35:41):
Yeah, I'm trying to forgive anybody, because I've definitely had
friends do some crazy ship to me.

Speaker 1 (35:49):
I know you have dyes, yeah, yeah, but I'm so
forgiven to the point of my friends and I like, no,
you're stupid. I'm not thinking. I'm very like, I know,
feeling to you and I'm chopping and watching it roll
like you did it see yourself. Because there's certain people
you're like, why is this by definition? My friends, like
if you can't trust them around? Yeah, if you know that,

(36:13):
like they're talking about you behind, holding you down right,
you know, and things like that, and you're like, why
am I even wasting my I had to realize sometimes that,
like I have to just be like I can't do
that in separation myself, because if I can't trust you,
then I can't be friends with you.

Speaker 4 (36:29):
I have to look at myself and be like, did
I give you a reason.

Speaker 3 (36:32):
To It's never your fault, No, but you never things.

Speaker 4 (36:35):
You never know until you really analyze everything.

Speaker 3 (36:38):
Yeah, you're only looking at one perspective, at one side
and your size, and it's like you're only gonna worry
about and deal with them treated like that looking at
I always have. That's why I can forgive my boys
and in that situation, I'm all good now, because if.

Speaker 1 (36:52):
Something keeps them happening to you, at some point you're like, okay, yeah,
definitely have to look at and say who at least
that I'm choosing to be always take accountability. I always
look within and then I look at perspectives, and I
look at situations, I'm like, okay, but I always look
within first to make sure it's so easy for me

(37:13):
to do like okay, well maybe you could have set
this different, or maybe you can done this different, or
maybe you were acting on emotions and not rationality, like
you know, like I I fight myself. But that's just
everything like with me, that's in friendships, that's in relationships.
That that's when it comes to my family, my coworkers.

(37:34):
You know, an TONI always tell me, he's like you,
you're different, like you're able to that someone can do
something and you look at something that I would never
think like, oh maybe it was because of this that
like to understand and over uspathy, Yeah, I'm very empathetic
and I.

Speaker 3 (37:49):
Am very too.

Speaker 1 (37:54):
It is definitely hard.

Speaker 6 (37:55):
Now.

Speaker 1 (37:55):
I know y'all have been watching this story about Carlie
Russell Jesus Hustle let this woman and Alabama. She pretended,
she pretended basically that to get abducted. Yeah right, she
said she to a baby, was gonna signs And she
went missing for a forty eight hour for two days,
and we were she showed back up and it was

(38:17):
this whole story about how she got abducted, and now
she's admitted that she made about the thing. It was
national news like every well not everybody, like was really
supporting prayers, everybody. She got on the black Man got
updated where is young woman? Where she made the FBI
get involved, search party, everything, everything, and then showed up

(38:38):
held up at home like Okay, I'm bad, and she
had this elaborate story about getting kidnapped and pictures taken
and escaping. We didn't hear her say, well, we didn't that,
but it's what was you know, her family, they were
She said she saw a baby walking on the highway
and she got up and she could have the baby
and somebody who else was me When they put the

(39:00):
video out making for the baby and baby nobody saw
a baby. I'm like that, but yeah, you see it
is her car with the.

Speaker 2 (39:12):
Like every video released of her on the side of
the run.

Speaker 1 (39:14):
Of her car, Yes, of her car on the side
of the I was like minute finally had to admit
that the whole thing was a hope we never had
gotten There was no baby on behind, and some people
feel like and we don't know the motivation, but I
guess it had something to do with her with her
boyfriend or to get back together with him. And maybe
because then she unblocked him while she was while she

(39:37):
was abduct this. We don't know for sure she unblocked
him during that time. This right was I was praying
that it wasn't. I was like, please don't let this.
It was specially to me from day one, Like initially
he didn't want to say it. Initially I was like, okay, this,
you know, they're they're they're snatching us up and putting
us into the sex trade and for our melody. Right,

(40:00):
I'm like, okay, I understood that part of it. But
then the story about the baby, It's like, how come
if this baby is on a on a highway or
on a big road right a main road, how come
you're the only person driving downybody? Nobody else sees this baby,
Nobody else pulls over to try to help the baby.
That where I was.

Speaker 2 (40:16):
Like, laying right, is she talking about like a baby baby.

Speaker 1 (40:20):
Toddler tither on the side of the road and a
white baby at that it was a little white baby
on the side of the road. Crazy stir I gotta ask,
has anybody ever lied to you? Like in a crazy situation,
maybe to try to get some type of sympathy from you.

(40:41):
I mean, you look like you have a situation.

Speaker 3 (40:44):
I mean niggas always come with situations, always like a woman.

Speaker 1 (40:48):
Has she ever tried to woman done something crazy to
get your attention?

Speaker 4 (40:56):
Is that bad?

Speaker 1 (40:57):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (40:58):
It's pretty bad.

Speaker 1 (40:59):
I can tell you. I stought definitely, my god, I
want to know later.

Speaker 2 (41:07):
You know, anxiety, all the access trust, you know, to
get my attention.

Speaker 1 (41:12):
Yeah, but it was something that wasn't even true.

Speaker 2 (41:16):
No, I can't tell you on here, but because oh
my gosh, it was crazy.

Speaker 1 (41:22):
Let me see you need a joint brown night another
shotow So round two it's going to come with another announcement.
I can I share the other Are you pregnant?

Speaker 4 (41:35):
No?

Speaker 1 (41:35):
Girl, you know we ain't having no kids. Have you
ever had anybody tell you they were pregnant and they weren't.

Speaker 3 (41:46):
I've heard people. I heard other people like, oh, you
got to care, I said, And I said, I don't
even because I know my circle.

Speaker 4 (41:57):
Most of the times I'm like, yeah, that's that's.

Speaker 3 (42:00):
I ain't got no other kids here story you just
have one?

Speaker 4 (42:04):
Got my baby girl?

Speaker 1 (42:06):
How is co parenting for you?

Speaker 4 (42:08):
It's great?

Speaker 3 (42:08):
That it's your it's great, it's great.

Speaker 1 (42:10):
In the beginning. Was it a process or was it
automatically automatic?

Speaker 3 (42:14):
That's good based on because I was like, at first,
it was like I was talking about abortion and I
pulled up she called me in the studio, I'm pregnant.

Speaker 1 (42:24):
At the studio.

Speaker 3 (42:26):
Right there, Like, what are you talking about?

Speaker 4 (42:27):
Your pregnant?

Speaker 1 (42:29):
You having my baby?

Speaker 4 (42:34):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (42:34):
Yeah, it had been like your COVID right now you
have a baby, girl.

Speaker 4 (42:38):
Yeah, one is going my sister, one of my sisters
I was born. It's okay.

Speaker 6 (42:43):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (42:43):
And I got two half sisters, one here and one
in Saint Lucia.

Speaker 4 (42:48):
And then I got my younger sister.

Speaker 1 (42:50):
So you're surrounded by women.

Speaker 3 (42:52):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (42:53):
Then now don't stop.

Speaker 1 (42:55):
Said here's his daughter too, right.

Speaker 4 (42:57):
Hey already. But she much ham bro she might.

Speaker 3 (43:01):
She picked up I'm a football like I love a
medical football. I was at a barbecue with like the
family and ship. She picked up the football.

Speaker 6 (43:07):
She said, yes, trust amazing that. You know.

Speaker 1 (43:26):
What's something I realized for Mahelia Infra was that y'all
have in common, well, a couple of different things. First
of all, right, I want to talk about the difference
between EPs and like a full length project, right, because
you guys both put out amazing EPs, So how do
you know what makes it onto the EP? What's the
purpose of that? And then what's the difference between what

(43:48):
you would put on there and what you would put
on a full length project.

Speaker 2 (43:52):
It might be different for you, well for me. So
usually whenever I go into it, I'm probably in my
mind writing for my album, but then something will happen
where I kind of I might find a song or
like a couple of songs that feel like they're in
the same world, and I'll build something separate. So like
when I was making this album that's just come out,

(44:15):
all the songs from my last EP, which came out
last year, were all for the album. But then when
I made those songs, they all felt like they sat
perfectly together and maybe not with the album music, so
I separated them. That's how I've always done, okay, But
I don't know. Choosing is always difficult. I think sometimes
it's just about like for me, it's just about the
world that I want to create on either project, and

(44:38):
like and like maybe this world sits better in a
long form sense, and this world.

Speaker 1 (44:45):
As a consumer and a lover of music. I am
their girl who likes to listen to all albums, Like,
I want to hear your project the way you intend
it to see it. I'm not like a skip around
or a mixed you know, mixed playlist. Yeah, I want
to hear your.

Speaker 6 (45:03):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (45:03):
Yeah, yeah, So I can as a lover of music
and consumer, I can appreciate that process that you give
because I'm here for that. Yeah for sure. Yeah, Like yeah,
I'm a I'm a full album girl for you, but
you it was for you with your EP because I
know you put something, you put yours out and it
was pandemic time, So I understand the purpose of that.

Speaker 4 (45:20):
Yeah for sure.

Speaker 1 (45:21):
For sure.

Speaker 3 (45:22):
For me, it wass I mean EPs, I feel like
you just give me something out. At first, for me,
I didn't really know even what EPs was until I signed.
I'm like, like, even for my first few EPs, it
was all the songs I said, I like, I just
like these. The label like these, they even more put

(45:43):
it together, like this album I've put together myself more
right where I feel like every song I like, I
didn't just like it, there's messages behind that.

Speaker 4 (45:51):
I love these songs.

Speaker 3 (45:52):
I don't even stop listening to them every other EP
and stuff like that. I don't even go back and
listen to those. I don't really I liked them, but
those are just friends moment for me. You know, where
I go about it, I'm just making what I feel.
I don't even go about it thinking about it. This
is an album or EP.

Speaker 4 (46:06):
I kind of get there after I make the song
and I'm.

Speaker 3 (46:09):
Like, okay, this is for this is for that. I
know where to put it, right, Like I okay, this
is EP music.

Speaker 1 (46:13):
Perfect placement, right, and this is album music.

Speaker 4 (46:16):
You know, that's kind of how differentiate it.

Speaker 1 (46:18):
Yea, all right. I was just curious, both of you
and everybody, like your album's out now. Yours is going
to be out every Friday on Friday, and actually we
actually were privileged to have a preview. Thank you very much.
And I have to say that we were listening to
it earlier today and I really enjoyed everything. I can't
wait to listen to some more and then listen again.

Speaker 4 (46:38):
I'm excited that, like, thank you so much, bless.

Speaker 1 (46:42):
Just like we were talking about young boy, That's why
I brought that up, a young boy problem. I was like,
let's now I know I didn't see that video.

Speaker 3 (46:52):
That a video.

Speaker 4 (46:53):
Yeah, I got to go back and check that out
most definitely.

Speaker 1 (46:56):
Yeah, crazy young boy problems. I'm so glad we ain't
got to do it those. Yes, So we had a
conversation about that. What are what are some young boy
problems that you guys have experienced or have you dated
young and what is the youngest you would date when
we were younger, when we were younger.

Speaker 2 (47:18):
Yeah, some young boy problem.

Speaker 1 (47:21):
Yeah, lack of commitment would be one.

Speaker 2 (47:24):
And you say distractions definitely. I think I think need
a mother maybe, yes, yeah, but just needing me to
be that mom, right, I think that's the biggest thing.

Speaker 1 (47:36):
And being irresponsible sometimes, like younger guys can be so
irresponsible when it comes to like pretty attractive like why
don't you know how to do that? Ye? Figure it out?
Procrastinating that's the older people problem to Yeah, I find out, Yeah,
with younger people a lot of times, like if you
don't have that ambition and driving, you procrastinate, that can

(47:57):
be time will pass you by, Yes it will. And
young boys could you'll never be you won't be young
having those problems anymore. Now you have those problems could
be real jealous too, jealousy about that, very immature and jealous.

Speaker 6 (48:11):
So much.

Speaker 3 (48:13):
I'm the older brother compared to commit to commit to men.

Speaker 4 (48:17):
So insecure.

Speaker 1 (48:18):
Very but then I think I think, also, do you
think that like some guys when you're younger and we
don't have it like that, it can make guys insecure,
like financially, you know, even though we can say money
doesn't matter so much to us, I feel like guys
when they don't have it like that, they themselves. Yeah,

(48:40):
because broken. Yeah, I was definitely b b B. I
was definitely in a situation with a guy who I
think he was more he was more into impressing me,
and I'm like, yo, like I'm not like, I'm okay,
as long as you're doing with you got to do

(49:00):
to make your money and to get where you're going,
and you're hustling and you're out here really trying, Like
I'm okay, you don't have to have a whole like
we're going to put that. We're going to do that together.
Like that's where I men now, like, let's build together.
I think more women are accepting that if they can
see that you're ambitious.

Speaker 2 (49:19):
Yeah, no, no, no, I think it's a newer thing because
there was a long period of time. Well, I think
it's more of.

Speaker 1 (49:27):
A maturity thing.

Speaker 2 (49:27):
Yeah, yeah, that is because like that, I mean, I
was never brought up like that. So whenever I would
see the conversation about or like even just chatting to
my girlfriends, yeah, and all my girlfriends being like he
needs to have this, this, this, Yeah, I've never had that.
So but but also you think, I think if you're
an I think if you're an ambitious woman, you you

(49:49):
maybe expect you don't. I don't know how to explain it.
I feel like when you're okay, Like for me, I've
for for quite a long time now, always had ambition,
always been financially okay, not not financially fantastic, but like
I can look after myself. So I've never I've never
expected a man to look after me. I think, you know.

Speaker 1 (50:10):
It's crazy. One of my friends always says, I can't
wait till I get some money so I can date
who I want to want to day, That's what she says.
I want it, yeah, and.

Speaker 3 (50:19):
So yeah that might be scared.

Speaker 1 (50:22):
What is true too. It's like it's like how we
were speaking like a guy treats you how like, so
this girl had the Steve Madden bag and I loved
my Steve Mannen bag, and she's like, we're gonna have
to work on getting you your name or a bag
because when you meet him in if he sees you
with a Steve mannenbag, that's the level he's going to
treat you. And I was like, to me, it's kind
of like if a man got it and he sees

(50:43):
me and he likes me, and he's really want he's
gonna he's gonna level me up, Like I don't want
to be with no one, Like I can't be with you.
And you got a whole lot of money and you
see me out here working hard, you know, you see
me out here being ambitious all of this, and you're
not helping me out. I would do it for you
with money. Also, I find that come from money, they
don't really care about name brand things like.

Speaker 3 (51:04):
That because it's a raise of money.

Speaker 1 (51:07):
Yeah yeah, because they and they also like I just
could buy something because they like it, you know what
I'm saying, and they're not thinking like I got to
get to prove that right, yeah, you know, So it's
with the money that really be So I grew up
without money, so I like me too. But I find
to myself, I do like what I understand. If I

(51:28):
can't afford, I'm gonna get it. But even still, sometimes
I'm like sometimes when we go with Loves to shop,
I'm like, and you're really gonna pay five thousand dollars
for that bag?

Speaker 3 (51:39):
Are you sure?

Speaker 1 (51:40):
Are you sure? I can't do it no more now?
And I think I have responsibilities now. I think financially
I am responsible. Like when things are going really well
for me, I will like treat myself and buy something
really nice. But when I know, like when I have
a lot of investments out, I gotta stop doing that.
And I can you know what I mean, Like I

(52:00):
know when I have to stab and I know when
I have a goal of something financy that I need
to reach, I know, Okay, I can't. I'm not I
can't do this right now. And if I have a goal,
it's great. Like I like to set a goal for
myself and save up money and really make sacrifices until
I get to that.

Speaker 4 (52:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (52:16):
I think I just like a man that's aware and
like aware of himself and aware of what he wants
if and aware of what he wants to do. Like
even I remember when I when I first met my guy.
Obviously he was like fresh out of college. He was
studying to be a lawyer, but also doing music. That
in itself just like like I like him, right, Yeah,

(52:38):
he reads books, but he wasn't adding any money. And
it's really funny because when we finally came to the
discussion about moving in together, I remember saying to him, like,
you know, like you can come live with me. I
love this man. So this is the first man that
I said, you can come and be with me, and
he was like, I don't want to do that, not
until I can do that. I remember thinking, God, I've
never dated a man that's actually aware that like you know,

(53:01):
like being in my space and not being able to
afford to be there. So for me, it's not that
it's even about money. It's just about it's just about
having a man that's aware, because I definitely have had
men who have had money. I'm going to buy me
things and then it's just emotionally not been there.

Speaker 1 (53:19):
Yeah you know, yeah, time is the most important thing.

Speaker 7 (53:23):
Yeah, a lot of men just don't know a lot
of men just don't know real talk because like you
said something earlier, like most young men want their their
girls to be their moms.

Speaker 4 (53:34):
And it's a fact. It's all these we put. I
feel like all of our traumas on our partners very young,
very young, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (53:41):
And they're not the same thing for the girls though
they do it too, Like it's it's both parties realistically,
Like it doesn't matter what home you come from. If
you home is disrupted at a young age, you're going
to have problem. That's what I've seen, you know what
I'm saying. So it's it's just a mutting because we
don't know until you get older and then you go thing.
You look yourself like you're okay, Uh do I want

(54:03):
to keep living like this?

Speaker 4 (54:04):
You know? I won't change and tell them things happen.

Speaker 1 (54:07):
Let me ask you this. Can you have amazing sex
with somebody you don't love?

Speaker 3 (54:13):
Yeah, okay, I've done that, yes good, Yeah, but amazing
I've done that.

Speaker 4 (54:22):
Yeah, I'm way too passionate.

Speaker 1 (54:24):
So interesting. The one guy in the room says no,
So I wasn't in love with them, but after the sex,
I fell in love. You know, I know it was amazing,
you know, and that was amazing. I was like, I
think I'm in love with the dick that I've been
in love with the cool all right, so you said, yes,

(54:46):
you can have amazing sex with somebody that okay, or
you know so you have.

Speaker 2 (54:52):
Oh no, I know so okay.

Speaker 1 (54:53):
See see definitely I agree. I've done that.

Speaker 2 (54:57):
I think it was. It just depends what kind of
sexual partner you are. I think I am probably someone
who enjoys sex and like I can release all of
those emotions whilst having sex with something that I don't love.

Speaker 1 (55:15):
That is.

Speaker 4 (55:16):
I feel that because I used to be like that.

Speaker 1 (55:18):
So I feel that you said you said no, So
that's interesting.

Speaker 3 (55:21):
Because I'm too passionate now, like I can't have someone
you used to be able to.

Speaker 4 (55:25):
Well yeah, but I just love sex, right, I love love.

Speaker 3 (55:29):
I want to make love to you with and fuck
you crazy. You know what I'm saying, because but I
love you.

Speaker 4 (55:34):
That's what I want. I'm a while.

Speaker 1 (55:40):
I've had some make love and fuck me crazy. This
past week with my new fiance. Day two, I woke
up with two biggs and I walked around like that
for like four days. They were huge. Yes, I was
so proud that you can see them. We went to
dinner and I was just like, what what makes you

(56:02):
amazing and wild?

Speaker 3 (56:05):
You want to go here?

Speaker 1 (56:07):
Your one lip service?

Speaker 4 (56:08):
You?

Speaker 3 (56:09):
Well listen, I know how I know, just know, I
know exactly what I need to do with my partner initiative. Listen,
we ain't going there you you don't eat out even
talking about that, you don't eat.

Speaker 4 (56:22):
I'm just talking about what I know what to do,
and I know what to do, but you don't even
I ain't.

Speaker 1 (56:26):
Talking about it's not that.

Speaker 3 (56:27):
Initiative close saying yes to know.

Speaker 4 (56:30):
I'm just saying I know what to do, so you
need to listen.

Speaker 3 (56:35):
I'm saying I know what's to tell.

Speaker 2 (56:40):
I know it.

Speaker 3 (56:41):
All this is from one of the girl killing you.

Speaker 4 (56:51):
Wow nothing.

Speaker 6 (56:59):
You know?

Speaker 1 (56:59):
What have you don't have to answer to answer? You
already answered. But what's wild? Though? Like what's wild?

Speaker 3 (57:06):
I'm trying to.

Speaker 4 (57:07):
I'll pick you up.

Speaker 3 (57:08):
Come on, I'm doing that, like and what slapping like
all that, and then I'm just all this love and.

Speaker 4 (57:20):
Yes, okay, yes I do. It's all that advice.

Speaker 1 (57:23):
Have you ever had marks afterwards?

Speaker 6 (57:25):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (57:25):
Are like yes, like.

Speaker 3 (57:29):
Listen, pull off the toys.

Speaker 1 (57:30):
We're doing.

Speaker 3 (57:31):
We're doing tour the time. Yeah, toys at a time,
my toy and her to a wild boy like I'm
not I love different like positions like I'll go crazy,
like I just.

Speaker 1 (57:47):
What's the longest you've gone? Like all day?

Speaker 2 (57:50):
Yo?

Speaker 4 (57:51):
No days? Okay, it was like two whole three whole days.
This was my girl. It was like just days. Were
just going out and I said, oh, my.

Speaker 1 (58:04):
Things, what is the wildest place you ever had sex?
The wildest place?

Speaker 4 (58:12):
Oh, an economy.

Speaker 1 (58:15):
Flag on the economy flight, my spirit, Yeah, right in
the toilet in the seas.

Speaker 4 (58:23):
No, she was up, she was standing up on a flight. Yeah. Well, yeah,
we're in the bathroom. She stood up with the bathroom.

Speaker 1 (58:29):
How did y'all go in the bathroom together without people?

Speaker 4 (58:32):
Everybody's sleep is a long flight.

Speaker 1 (58:34):
Okay, that's smart. That's what I told my friends the bathroom.
The flat attendant just let them be yea, we know
how to fun quiet? How long did it last?

Speaker 4 (58:46):
That had to be a quick I can't remember.

Speaker 1 (58:48):
You are you're normally loud? If it if it's not?

Speaker 4 (58:51):
Like, yeah, because I know how to funk quiet like
the past?

Speaker 1 (58:54):
Are you like when you're able to let loose? Are
you loud when you're in the house. Yes, he's loud.

Speaker 3 (59:01):
Let me say, give us an exacle, whisper loud.

Speaker 1 (59:06):
I can whisper very loudly.

Speaker 4 (59:08):
Yeah, I know, I know how to whisper loud.

Speaker 3 (59:10):
But if somebody up and they hear, they will probably hear,
or if they like right there and they passed them
out the room. If you I like when guys are loud,
what do you think?

Speaker 1 (59:19):
Hell, when guys make a lot of noise, not too much,
but like no, but just.

Speaker 2 (59:23):
A little grunt, just something to make me know. Yeah,
it's good. When when when a man, I mean, listen,
let me just say now, sorry dad, but when a
man listen, my father will kill me. But when a
man is silent, it really doesn't do anything for me,
Like I need you to to.

Speaker 1 (59:39):
Let me know. Yeah, assurance. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (59:42):
And also because that's the only time that you really
hear a man make a noise like that.

Speaker 1 (59:47):
They're vulnerable. It's like a vulnerable time. It's making how
I feel like where you're into it and like they're
saying you're so into and they whisper and something you're like,
wait what you say? Oh my god, I hear you
like you guys, speak up. Doesn't that kill the mood

(01:00:07):
a little? Because I'm just like, I didn't hear you.
I'm sorry.

Speaker 3 (01:00:11):
There was a girl doing laughing they giggling during section ship.

Speaker 4 (01:00:16):
That like, I'm.

Speaker 1 (01:00:19):
Not gonna lie. I did laugh when I'm not doing sex.
When I was on shrooms before.

Speaker 4 (01:00:23):
What I laughed, It's not like a regular thing.

Speaker 1 (01:00:27):
I laughed when my pussy farted. Queen hilarious, you have
acknowledge it. I was like a moment's.

Speaker 3 (01:00:41):
Casual laugh, like you actually okay, like you know, let's
go okay.

Speaker 1 (01:00:46):
I don't know, Yeah, I don't know what are you doing.

Speaker 2 (01:00:52):
I had a girl say that that's an eck when
you're like if you're there and he whispers and then
you have to say yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:01:00):
Yeah, it's so annoying to me, and then I just yeah, louder.
It's like I said, I'm like, oh my god, let
it go nothing. Oh baby, this was good, Like you
could have just what about my guys dirty talk? But
then they say some ship and you're like, yeah, I
don't think it's doing what it's supposed to be doing,
giving but it's supposed to get me dry. So there

(01:01:26):
was a I don't know, was it like a meme
or something where there was like women when you're when
you re riding them from the top and like you're
laying on them and you grind in your click like
that that doesn't do nothing for the man, Like you
don't like that's not a good it's painful.

Speaker 4 (01:01:41):
Really yeah, waitful.

Speaker 1 (01:01:46):
I was like when I heard that, I was like, grinding.

Speaker 3 (01:01:49):
I love it.

Speaker 1 (01:01:57):
So that's why she lets me lift them up and grind,
You're like, and then just put the sitting up. That's
what I do.

Speaker 3 (01:02:04):
I mean, that's the niggas gotta be comfortable.

Speaker 1 (01:02:06):
You just grow. Yeah, Like I just lift him up,
lift his legs up. No, no, I'm on top, but
I make him come up, set up. Like we're saying,
oh yeah riding, I just set him up and fels
because like now I'm going up and down. But my clitters, yeah,

(01:02:27):
no they can. But they say that from us grinding
on the clip, that.

Speaker 4 (01:02:30):
That doesn't do nothing.

Speaker 3 (01:02:31):
But when you do not grinding, yeah, it's like doing nothing.
It's more like she said you have to do.

Speaker 1 (01:02:36):
But when you're right, isn't that getting the like you're
getting it all inside you? Don't They like that? Like
all the way. Yeah. Well no, it's like you're on
top of them, but you're laying and you you know
how you grind and you like to rub your glitters
like there's visuals. Yeah, I'm not doing it's just like
you're just betting it, like yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:03:00):
And I was like, so they don't like that.

Speaker 1 (01:03:02):
It feels so good to me, But I learned now.
I was like, I just make them come up and
I grind because I'm still going up and down. Listen.

Speaker 3 (01:03:15):
I don't know.

Speaker 6 (01:03:16):
It was great.

Speaker 3 (01:03:17):
I love that somebody is so sensual.

Speaker 1 (01:03:19):
Yeah, always a tutor. I said, you still believe that
I do. You don't think that people could cheat, make
mistakes and in that cheat anymore?

Speaker 2 (01:03:31):
Yes, okay, so I do think that, but I don't
think that. I didn't think that the statement is saying
if you cheat on me, you're going to cheat on
me again. I think the statement is saying you're a cheat,
so you'll always be a cheat. And I think that's
how I feel when I like, for me, if you
cheat it on me. The reason why I I personally
can't go any further is because that's that that deceiving,

(01:03:55):
lying nature.

Speaker 3 (01:03:57):
You'll always be to me yeahreat in your head.

Speaker 2 (01:04:00):
That's what I mean when I say I definitely think
that people can change. And I imagine that you know,
he could cheat on me and then they a new
girl and not cheat on her. Of course, that don't
mean that he didn't cheat on me.

Speaker 1 (01:04:09):
Okay, you're with the cheater, so you don't be spinning
the black and you don't give those second chances even
if the So that's a non negotiable, non negotiable deal breaker. Yeah,
you're probably they can keep it moving.

Speaker 3 (01:04:24):
I mean, I would like I also funk with you,
but I'm not fucking with you on that love because
I know that Okay, that's how you are. But what's
the point then, Well, in a sense, because I nobody perfect,
so how can how do I know I'm not going
to make a mistake and not want somebody to do.

Speaker 1 (01:04:38):
If you're never gonna message my dad level, then it
is kind of over because then you're.

Speaker 3 (01:04:42):
Still That's because I talk my men through it like okay,
for instance, like Surety who the gang and ship like okay,
yeah you you did that, and I keep, I keep
I'm not gonna this you and be like okay, fuck you,
but I'm not gonna let you be my girl.

Speaker 4 (01:04:58):
You're never getting that title.

Speaker 1 (01:04:59):
Just sex with her again? And do you think about that? Like, okay,
I always wanted this. When when a guy gets cheated
on and the girl comes back and you still do it,
do you think about it ever? Because I know if
you have sex with a guy who cheated on you, you
think about it.

Speaker 4 (01:05:12):
Yeah, yeah, you think about it. And that's why I
don't go back, because.

Speaker 3 (01:05:17):
It's like it depends on for me, Like I know,
everybody in perfect especially if you're young, everybody goes through ship.
So we're gonna make a mistake, You're gonna feel something.
I don't even know how I even played a part
into you feeling like that. I just can't be that
credle person for me, right, I just got to look
at every angle before I be like, okay, yeah, that's
you right. I don't know what I played, what position
I played, role I played, but it was I maybe

(01:05:39):
not giving you enough. Maybe you needed more and I couldn't,
and you didn't know how to communicate me that with me,
it's shipped like that that I have to just keep
the possibility open just to analyze and see what the
hell is going on and then okay, boom, I'm gonna
move on and keep you here.

Speaker 1 (01:05:51):
I'm gonna keep you here for whatever. Right, So now
I understand this mixed emotions, all right, because this Friday.

Speaker 2 (01:06:00):
They say like that. I think I used to be
more like that. I think I used to maybe try
and figure out the part I played.

Speaker 1 (01:06:06):
Yeah, you don't have time, but that ship I feel
you know, what do you consider cheating?

Speaker 3 (01:06:13):
Ah? And I mean it's are you entertaining somebody else's
feelings pleasures?

Speaker 1 (01:06:20):
I feel like anything in front of your partner.

Speaker 4 (01:06:23):
Is she didn't Yeah, like.

Speaker 1 (01:06:25):
On an emotional level, on a physical level, if you
feel like you can't say these things or do these
actions and it's okay to do and with your partner
besides you were in the room, then I feel like
then that's a violation to your relationship. Okay, Let's say
your ex text you I miss you and you just
say I miss you too. Is that cheating you miss
that's emotional emotional cheating just like they just sent me.

Speaker 3 (01:06:48):
Deal, but we might think something.

Speaker 1 (01:06:51):
We know it's not a big deal to you, But
casting that fishing rod to see if he if he
still got that miss you just be like even especially
when they know that you're gonna relations sure, but you
can't tell how that you can't tell. But if they
know that.

Speaker 3 (01:07:07):
Your friend, I do miss you, but you know or whatever.

Speaker 1 (01:07:10):
Like in front of me. Oh I got it. I
text somebody I miss you when they said back to
me as a friend, I do miss you as a friend. Someone.
If you are if you know that your your ex
is with in a new relationship, why are you telling
them you miss you? Be a messy? So if that's
the case, then that's not Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:07:28):
You need to go back. That's that's what you need
to go ready for here.

Speaker 1 (01:07:32):
Well, listen you guys in a real life I r
L is available now. So are you going on tour?
What's what's happening?

Speaker 2 (01:07:39):
So I'm going on I'm going on a UK europe
touray in October November, and then I'm there's a US
tour currently being planned for the start of next year.

Speaker 4 (01:07:50):
Toda.

Speaker 3 (01:07:51):
Of course I got to put if you put them
in Toronto.

Speaker 1 (01:07:54):
Listen, y'all two together. I'm just saying that I gotta
take you for real because she's really really amazing. You
can just even and look, I know that you can
stand alone on your own. But the co signs that
both of you have gotten are some of the biggest
in the business, and I know it means a lot.
I mean, you've gotten some huge, huge co signs, and

(01:08:16):
so I know that's always a special thing. And clearly
you have as well, you know, being our ovo getting
those co signs, and it sucks that, like people pay
attention to stuff like that, but it's also nice that
you both have at the same time. Yeah, it's kind
of like bang, and I know it must feel good. Yeah,
when you get certain you know, phone calls and when
certain people are reaching out like yo, what's good, like

(01:08:39):
let's get.

Speaker 2 (01:08:39):
On it, it definitely does. I think, Yeah, it's the first
one is always the like craziest or just I think
just the idea of the kind of coast sign thing.

Speaker 1 (01:08:49):
Is, what was your first coast sign?

Speaker 2 (01:08:51):
It was that cheering.

Speaker 3 (01:08:53):
Wow, a huge.

Speaker 7 (01:08:59):
No no for real.

Speaker 2 (01:09:04):
And it was crazy because I was I was thirteen,
So it was like sharing is the reason why I
got signed, That's the reason why everything started. And then
I don't know, but back then I was it was
just me and a guitar. So I think he like,
I think he's cool. Yeah, that's very cool.

Speaker 3 (01:09:21):
Yeah, I love it.

Speaker 1 (01:09:23):
Your first cloth.

Speaker 4 (01:09:23):
Sign, well, Drake.

Speaker 3 (01:09:31):
Taking me on tour, just you know, with the feature
and everything and just like just being a cool dude
like everybody. You know, he's so busy and I know
that just you know, from being around for so long,
even younger like you know, but there has been so
many there's been times where he just give me that
time to just talk, just understand what's going on. I
was lost, young and confused, and the time he gave

(01:09:52):
me that nice forever forever appreciated for that because it
helped me just feel a little bit better and going
forward and knowing, Okay, this is rare.

Speaker 1 (01:10:01):
We got lovable taking the Drake one last thing, one
last thing as he met your girlfriend.

Speaker 3 (01:10:07):
No, I mean no, no, nobody really has.

Speaker 4 (01:10:09):
Why don't I don't keep.

Speaker 1 (01:10:15):
Stupid.

Speaker 3 (01:10:16):
I love it, but I haven't even brought it out.
So you know, we're taking steps, baby, baby, Yeah, and you.

Speaker 1 (01:10:30):
Throw that back. You gotta know something in your cup
still because I was supposed to be taking announced. Okay, So,
speaking of Drake, I am a part of a docuseries
that his entertainment company is producing along with Jermaine Dupree
and some other investors, and that docuseries is about Magic City,

(01:10:52):
which is the famed, infamous strip club in Atlanda where
I actually got my rise to fame and the entertainment
industry right the snack pack. Yes, so I'm a part
of the Of course I'm a part of the docuseries.
I did an interview because of the status that I
had at the club. However, I was asked to narrate,
so I actually narrated and production has wrapped. Drake just

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finished his part of his interview right with production. So
production has rapped and we are now shopping the docuseries
to all of the major networks. And the big news
without giving the biggest news is that part of the
pitch team. Yes, I am a part of the pitch team.
So we have huge networks like Netflix, Hulu, BT and

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so forth for someone that are interested, and I will
be sitting in on these meetings. This come back to
pitch this amazing body of work that I'm so proud
to be a part of. Shout out to shout out
to Drake for being a part of this project, because
him being a part of this project really took it
to another level. We all know he loves all right,

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and more announcements to come. All right, Well, thank you
guys so much for joining us. Honestly, it's been a pleasure. Mahalia,
I r L in real life. Okay, Roy Woods or
as we called you earlier, mixed emotions, and now we
see why I like that.

Speaker 3 (01:12:25):
I'm gonna use that.

Speaker 1 (01:12:29):
Now you see what? All right, and congratulations again to
her name your last name? I am and when I
and when I do. Of course, you know, Maguire is
my entertainment name. A lot of people don't notice, even
though I weard around my neck and diamonds. My real
name is Kaffee. So without telling my fiance his full name,

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I will be changing my name to Coffee Austin so
that sounds like.

Speaker 3 (01:12:58):
Austin.

Speaker 1 (01:12:59):
Yeah, yeah, I'm here today. Well, we love to see
it will be at that wedding, yes, ya will, Okay,
it is