Episode 434: MILF Hunter (Malcolm Mays & London Brown)

Actors Malcom Mays and London Brown join the ladies this week to promote the hit show, 'Raising Kanan.' The crew discuss a range of wild topics! Malcolm opens up about the billboard a fan put up asking him to unblock her, London admits how he would handle circling the block with an ex, and much more. Malcolm even admits to banging an ex's mom (kinda, not really)...Enjoy! 

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
What's up. It's lip service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm Gg maguire,
I'm Stephanie Santiago.

Speaker 2 (00:06):
I'm London, Bro.

Speaker 3 (00:08):
Malcolm made Malcolm.

Speaker 1 (00:09):
Don't get all nervous.

Speaker 4 (00:13):
Crazy?

Speaker 1 (00:13):
Now did you see what Malcolm was on before?

Speaker 2 (00:16):
No?

Speaker 1 (00:16):
Okay, some things? All right, so good. I'm glad you didn't.

Speaker 3 (00:19):
You didn't see when I was on.

Speaker 1 (00:20):
Sometimes it's good to just jumping things and not know
what's going on.

Speaker 3 (00:23):
Oh they're gonna get you in trouble was essentially what
they said.

Speaker 2 (00:25):
I'm not sure.

Speaker 1 (00:27):
All right, Well, we have Marvin and Uncle Marvin and
Uncle Lou here. So this is really exciting because you know,
I'm a huge fan of Raising Kanaan, Like I do
not miss an episode, So it's exciting to have both
of y'all hair together. London. I was telling everybody before
you were on that show. We did a guest appearance
on when we when I was on The Breakfast Club
Hustle on Fuse TV. Wait back in the day.

Speaker 2 (00:50):
Yeah, absolutely, that's like twenty twelve. I think he came
on like twenty thirteen. Year shoutut to Princess Penny. Yeah
that was cool.

Speaker 1 (00:58):
Yeah, absolutely a lot of things transpired. We'll talk about
that in a second. But and Malcolm, I want to
say congratulations to you for having a Billboard charting song independently.

Speaker 3 (01:08):
Thank you, yeah, thank you. I appreciate that.

Speaker 1 (01:10):
That is a huge deal. Last time we saw you,
we were in LA and you were having a listening.
I went to that listening party. She did.

Speaker 3 (01:16):
She was the star of the listening party.

Speaker 5 (01:17):
I was the star.

Speaker 6 (01:19):
I don't drink, so you the only one who had
the bottles.

Speaker 1 (01:21):
Was like.

Speaker 6 (01:23):
It.

Speaker 3 (01:24):
It was a good night, it was a good time.
I appreciate you.

Speaker 1 (01:27):
I pulled up for you. I saw people on social
media talking about both of you because you guys are
both from Cali, from La, right, both of you are
from l A. But you play characters from New York.
That told the job at that you guys do because
the New York the New York man, and the accent
and the mannerisms of the New York man, it's very distinctive. Yeah,
very very distinctive. Not like it anywhere else. How did

(01:49):
you get that down, pad?

Speaker 2 (01:51):
Uh, you know, that's just that's just some actors work,
which is you know, the studying, the mannerisms, the voice stuff,
and uh, I think just trying to tap in and
lock into whatever the culture is. I mean, it'd be
different if we was playing these characters in living in Idaho.

Speaker 1 (02:09):
Right about saying this being here, help here being Yeah,
because people make fun of New Yorkers too, like it's
like a stereotypical way that they feel like New Yorkers
talking act like you know, people love Stephanie's New York accent.

Speaker 7 (02:25):
Yeah, they say that the New York accent, my accent
is the most on attractive.

Speaker 3 (02:33):
I did say that in disrespect.

Speaker 7 (02:34):
I love my accent though, and I promise you I
haven't gotten any complaints.

Speaker 1 (02:38):
And you had the Spanish girl accent, so it's just
not New York. But it's the I'm from New York,
but I'm also of a different descent.

Speaker 7 (02:45):
Yes, and I have like six different accents, so it
all depends on the mood and to be honest.

Speaker 6 (02:51):
And changing six different accents, you got accent to those, Yeah,
it was just super like yeah.

Speaker 3 (03:02):
And that's different.

Speaker 6 (03:03):
You know, I feel like every borough got a different,
every state got a different and then within the state
there's different. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (03:08):
Absolutely, So what.

Speaker 1 (03:09):
Do you do, Malcolm, Like when you're on set and
you got to talk New York at this point.

Speaker 3 (03:15):
First of all, talking New York sound was crazy, and
you got to do.

Speaker 6 (03:19):
When I have to access a nineties Queen, because that's
the thing, is like you got really lucky that Queens
is such a specific accent, like the Bronx, and everything
is different because like there's a transition to cultures, you know,
the Spanish people came in at some point and then
it changed the dialect with Queens, it's kind of like
it was. It's been what it is for like a
long time, Like the Black Queen's accent has sounded very

(03:39):
similar for like twenty years. I think so luckily, I
think we had a lot of easier references and easier
work that way. But every day it's just kind of
like you were blessed enough to live close by in
the city. I have homies from the section, and it's
just it's audio repeat, I guess. And at this point
we've been doing it for like all right, for long.

Speaker 2 (04:02):
Yeah, I feel like for I feel like that.

Speaker 3 (04:04):
Yeah, for like four years. It's almost harder to go back.

Speaker 6 (04:06):
And like when I go back to Cali, they be like, Nigga,
you sound like you' from New York. Now I'm like, fuck,
I gotta get it back never. You know what I'm saying,
but it's real, real.

Speaker 1 (04:15):
And another thing we were saying was how badly we
really want Uncle Luda to not leave the game, Like
why do we so badly want you to kill people
and stuff?

Speaker 6 (04:23):
But we really do.

Speaker 1 (04:24):
We don't want you to stop.

Speaker 6 (04:25):
I think everybody choo when they they in their room,
in their bedroom, everybody drug because like you know, when
I was on Snowfall, it was the same ship. Like
Nigga was like, I can't believe Kevin gave the recipe
to the Mexicans and why he shoot people?

Speaker 5 (04:38):
Cool?

Speaker 6 (04:38):
Be cool man, get this money. I'm like, y'all clearly
have never had a family member murdered. Y'all clearly have
never been in the street war before. But everybody thinks
that they ail Choppo. So they just kind of like
living out their drug fantasy. Like I'm sure y'all listen
to trap music when you go work out. It's the
same thing. They just want you all to you know,
fulfill that.

Speaker 1 (04:58):
We like love how Uncle mar is dedicated in Yeah,
like no matter what.

Speaker 2 (05:05):
Yeah, absolutely know. I think that's why, you know, when
it comes to our uncle Marvin, I think people are
realizing that he's not just one idea. It's not just
the uncle that's eating. But there's a lot of grounded
stuff to Marvin, as far as the law through to
the family. How he just he just pulls up, asks
questions later, that sort of stuff. That and I think

(05:27):
a lot of people that watch the show, especially the guys,
they can really relate to that side because sometimes it's
like that when you when you are committed to your
friends in the very grounded way, then it's like we
don't want to It's like going to the club and
somebody spill a drink. It's like, we gotta do this,
but let's just do what we gotta do, and then

(05:48):
we you know, I talked you off to the side later,
but you gotta just in situations like that time you
don't have time to be politicing in the club, somebody
you mess around get hit across the head, across the
face or something, so you gotta you gotta go ahead
and just move when you gotta move in and deal with
the politics later. So I think people see that and
they connect with that when it comes to Marvin, you know,
so shout out to people that have been watching watch

(06:09):
the show man, I.

Speaker 3 (06:09):
Don't know if you know that, you know you my
favorite character, right, and I.

Speaker 1 (06:14):
Appreciate that he's like so on there not.

Speaker 2 (06:25):
No, I love the role.

Speaker 6 (06:26):
I love the role that's created, but it gives me
range and emotional dexterity. But when it comes to like
on some real nigga shit, like I love your character,
like his character hard, like except for the choking out
of your daughter and ship.

Speaker 2 (06:37):
After that, he was it's kind of crazy for that
he was, but you're.

Speaker 1 (06:42):
Getting it back with her, right.

Speaker 2 (06:44):
I think that people can understand, you know. That's the
cool thing because when they first wrote that in first
I had to find out how legit that was. I
was like, are they trying to overdramatize it? But speaking
to people, you know, from that community, they took me
that's the real thing that they had to do it Also,
just like one, it wasn't so liberal then Marvin, you know,

(07:04):
he's the kind of guy who don't know nothing about that,
so it's new and he just reacted. But I think
people were able to to swing back around on having
Marvin's back because they realized Marvin's a really grounded person.

Speaker 1 (07:19):
And you were working on yourself, like you went to
anger management. Yeah, reluctantly, but he reluctantly And it was
cute to see a little bit of a maybe love
you know storyline there.

Speaker 2 (07:30):
Yeah, I know, I know people want to see that playoff.

Speaker 6 (07:32):
Away from very pissed that she was a good sister too.

Speaker 1 (07:38):
I was like, that might now that might have made
him leave the game alone, right right?

Speaker 2 (07:43):
Yeah, yeah, she would have impacted Mab a little bit more.
Yeah for sure, But you know that's all part of
the drama, right and shot the Sasha. They always put
a twist soon, you think, soon as the audience feels
like they understand the show.

Speaker 6 (07:56):
Plot twist, plot twist, it's there.

Speaker 2 (07:59):
So that makes I think keeps it exciting for the
audience and for us too, because we never we don't.
People think like we just get the script and we
know the story for all the season and we just
lay it out.

Speaker 3 (08:08):
We don't know we're filming right now.

Speaker 1 (08:10):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (08:10):
Ok, wait, can we say that that's.

Speaker 1 (08:12):
Why you're still filming?

Speaker 2 (08:13):
You're live, We're not see that.

Speaker 3 (08:16):
We're not supposed to say that.

Speaker 1 (08:17):
I mean, what episodes you're filming? It could be back
it could be flash Yeah, we don't pick.

Speaker 6 (08:27):
Ups first episode. It is kind of like we don't
even Yeah. It's the part is that we don't be knowing.

Speaker 2 (08:32):
We don't know. People think people to show people just
like you know, be asking for spoilers, but we really
don't know because they we shoot out of order, we
don't shoot together. So historyline is really brand new to me.
And then between the edits they cutted up out and
so it's new to us, like it's new to everybody.

Speaker 6 (08:47):
Else when I watch it because I show don't be
I don't be there when they shoot that happened, I
don't know what I'll be sitting there like damn yeah,
would be.

Speaker 1 (08:55):
So sad, like and it will be sad if one
of you dies, I'm gonna say that it's gonna be awful,
Like social media will go crazy if that ship it
will you know, it hasn't happened yet, so right from
what we've been watching, you know, but only up to
what episode to second episode of the third season.

Speaker 6 (09:12):
Listen, I'd love to stay, but at this you know,
they it's like I had such a good time, bro,
Like they such good people. It's like kind of like
how y'all are like, it's just I go to work
and it's not no stress, it's not no smoke.

Speaker 3 (09:22):
It's like we just be chilling. We just do great
work and go home.

Speaker 1 (09:25):
All right, Well, look this is webserver, so let's switch
gears a second. You put okay, Well, first of all,
I want to talk to you, Malcolm. I so that
billboard that somebody put up asking to be unblocked, was
that a real Yeah, Malcolm unblocked me.

Speaker 6 (09:44):
With the phone number?

Speaker 2 (09:45):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (09:46):
That was Did you think that I'm cute? Or was
that somebody put up a billboard?

Speaker 6 (09:49):
Did you know?

Speaker 1 (09:50):
Wear her phone number? It said it said quit playing
Malcolm a is and unblocked.

Speaker 6 (09:56):
La.

Speaker 1 (09:57):
So did that? Did you think that was cute or crazy?

Speaker 3 (10:00):
Both?

Speaker 5 (10:01):
How long did it stay up?

Speaker 1 (10:04):
Did you block her?

Speaker 3 (10:05):
Did I block her? This is? This is the thing
about that, man.

Speaker 2 (10:11):
I know it's just new to me.

Speaker 3 (10:14):
Don't you know?

Speaker 6 (10:15):
You didn't You didn't text me that. I think Hayley
Rikai they both saw it and was like, what the
fuck is this?

Speaker 1 (10:20):
We need some backstory?

Speaker 6 (10:22):
Man, It's not It ain't much of a backstory. It's
somebody who I knew for a long time. She's a
wonderful human being, but she had sucked up pretty bad.
And so I think that was her way of supporting
my music at the time and supporting me at the time.
And she thought that she did that she could she
could at least get me to get back talking, you know,
at least answer and response. The Funny Party. She wasn't
even blocked, bro.

Speaker 3 (10:42):
She wasn't even actually blocked.

Speaker 2 (10:44):
Like.

Speaker 3 (10:44):
It's not like I blocked her.

Speaker 6 (10:45):
I just didn't talked to her. Yeah, So after she
did that, I had to be like, you know, like hey,
like you got to chill like.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
So that was an attention grap.

Speaker 3 (10:53):
It was an attention grab and she did everything.

Speaker 1 (10:56):
But she caught your attention, and she caught the attention.
Because that's just one thing. She had to have done
a lot of other things as well, because if you
get to that extreme, that means this didn't work.

Speaker 2 (11:05):
This didn't work.

Speaker 6 (11:06):
It didn't work.

Speaker 5 (11:07):
That was like playing a few things.

Speaker 2 (11:08):
Man.

Speaker 3 (11:09):
She did a few things, but she pop up at
your house.

Speaker 6 (11:12):
The toughest part was No, ain't nobody man better than.

Speaker 2 (11:18):
This is listening you the worst.

Speaker 6 (11:20):
I don't even know why you sit here cheering, because
I'm about to let them know about your life next.
His lives are terrible anyway now.

Speaker 3 (11:27):
But no, she was cool.

Speaker 6 (11:28):
The thing the hardest part was figuring out who it
was because like, she didn't claim the body like a
couple of other females try to claim the body like
like they did it. So at first I didn't know
who it did it because three people had pretended like
they did it. But it was her phone number. Wow,
it wasn't her real fun like she had my songs
playing in the bay. She was doing too much, like
and I didn't call the number my uh my homeboy.

(11:52):
His girlfriend called the number and then she told me
and I was like, okay.

Speaker 1 (11:54):
Wow, interesting, you must have put it down.

Speaker 3 (11:59):
I was, I don't know, man, whatever this why don't
say ship?

Speaker 6 (12:06):
I'm like, no, what about you, London?

Speaker 1 (12:09):
What's the crazy thing our girl has done to get
your attention or try to get back.

Speaker 2 (12:14):
I remember, crazy thing, I tell you, Uh, that's a
crazy thing. I remember one time I was out the
country for the show and so I do stand up.
So I was out the country and uh, this woman
showed up. I was like, I was like, what are

(12:37):
you doing out the country? Out the country? You know,
I saw your shot. I just thought, you know, I
come and support your show?

Speaker 6 (12:45):
Wow?

Speaker 2 (12:45):
Who said I was gonna be? Oh, you know, I'm
not what didn't get married or someone got anything? Just
like what do you do? So that kind of irrational?
Baby man, I'd be like, I'm way too clandestine for
that kind of stuff.

Speaker 6 (12:59):
I'm super But that's real support.

Speaker 1 (13:01):
She flew out.

Speaker 2 (13:02):
That's real crazy. I don't know what I want to say.

Speaker 1 (13:08):
Shows that was local, it wouldn't have been as much
of an issue as she changed.

Speaker 2 (13:12):
People come to the show, you know, I mean people
if I if I post the show, you know, I
understand people gonna going to show up to the show.
But the whole the court, the undergird of that is
the fact that there was no no confirmation of anything,
Like what for someone to do that? That means you
had time, money, and energy to waste. How would you

(13:33):
gamble on going that far not knowing if I was
married on vacation or something, or if I if the
promoter said, hey, you know we're gonna cancel the show.
We're gonna bring you in next weekend, pick up the flight.

Speaker 1 (13:48):
Taking her going for it, Because I'm gonna tell you
what if you would have liked the girl. You would
have thought it was.

Speaker 2 (13:58):
Even if I like that without confirmation.

Speaker 1 (14:02):
Hadn't been since you spoke to her, or it had.

Speaker 2 (14:05):
Been had been over a year or something, it's been
a while.

Speaker 3 (14:08):
That's crazy.

Speaker 6 (14:09):
She came by herself by herself.

Speaker 1 (14:11):
Wow, it just she was searching for the ghost of
Christmas path was kind of So what happened after no
dinner or nothing.

Speaker 2 (14:18):
No, nothing else. Don't go for that because it wasn't
nothing anywhere. So when like, you know, no, shut that
stuff down. Man.

Speaker 6 (14:31):
That meaning that's why you said at the house, I'm like,
who's showing up to my house?

Speaker 1 (14:34):
If there was somebody you dealt with, you know, she
might she was. If she's doing a billboard, then she
might show up to your house.

Speaker 6 (14:40):
You showing up to my house, You're gonna get whatever
you get when you get to that dough. Oh my gosh,
showed up, showed up.

Speaker 1 (14:46):
Have you ever treated a girl badly? Like, let's I
know you have, but have you ever felt bad about
like right now, do you feel bad about anything that
she got in the past?

Speaker 6 (14:55):
Wait, hold on, hold onld on, what's the crazy ship
it happened y'all because y'all talk about this ship like
this is normal.

Speaker 1 (15:01):
The crazies are having to us.

Speaker 6 (15:02):
Yeah, craziest pop up or craziest act performed on y'all
behalf hmm, guys.

Speaker 1 (15:10):
You're just known for that.

Speaker 7 (15:12):
Yeah, I feel like wild ship just because y'all wild what?

Speaker 1 (15:17):
Yeah, I think guys, that kind of I found.

Speaker 5 (15:19):
I couldn't name a ton.

Speaker 7 (15:20):
I've had a guy come to the to my job
and pulled me out of my job just to argue
what about Remember I was arguing on the phone. We
were having trying to have dinner. Yeah, we were at
dinner on the phone. Yeah, but he pulled up. We
were broken up. He came, Remember he came.

Speaker 1 (15:40):
Oh my god, I definitely had a guy pull up.
I mean he saw where I was because I posted
on Instagram, you know whatever, the restaurant, and he tried
to show up and it didn't go well.

Speaker 3 (15:50):
Oh my goodness.

Speaker 5 (15:51):
It was bad.

Speaker 1 (15:51):
Like he would post pictures from outside my job, like waiting.
He would take a bus.

Speaker 3 (15:58):
Is that legal for you?

Speaker 1 (16:00):
I think you have a license.

Speaker 3 (16:02):
Y'all need to.

Speaker 6 (16:02):
Get licenses every single y'all ain't had no niggas take
you to the gun range, teach you how to strap up.

Speaker 1 (16:06):
I think when you grow up in New York, people
don't have guns like that though, because you know it was.

Speaker 5 (16:10):
So it's so illegual, you go to jail.

Speaker 1 (16:12):
I'm like when I would go to other states, Like
if I go to like Michigan or Florida and people
have guns, it will always feel weird to me. When
people just had a gun in Texas, Like we're not
used to just having a gun here.

Speaker 5 (16:23):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (16:24):
Well I'll say this.

Speaker 1 (16:25):
They just changed the law in Georgia, everybody got gun.
We kind of shift gears a little bit. But my
crazy pop, my crazy story was to pop up. What
it may he rest in peace. Y'all know that guy,
the one that died.

Speaker 3 (16:38):
So do you'all.

Speaker 5 (16:40):
Know the guy that died.

Speaker 1 (16:41):
Yeah, we know he had a heart attack during sex.

Speaker 5 (16:44):
Yes, that guy.

Speaker 1 (16:45):
So I had left him. I lied to him actually
and told him that I was in Maryland with my
family and all along.

Speaker 6 (16:53):
I was in Atlanta.

Speaker 1 (16:54):
Dancing at Magic City, and there was this one particular
Monday night when the Eagles was playing the Hawks. He
came to Atlanta and he walked in the club. That's crazy.

Speaker 6 (17:05):
I mean, some of those ain't gonna be lity that
shit crazy. But like, if it's a nigga, you just
fu once. I can understand this being crazy, but a
nigga that really with you.

Speaker 1 (17:11):
Now, we were in a relationship and I broke.

Speaker 3 (17:13):
Up with him, Oh so break up.

Speaker 6 (17:14):
It sounds like the breakup dudes hard.

Speaker 1 (17:17):
Yeah, breaking up because guys get crazy when they're trying
to get back together, like when they did.

Speaker 7 (17:22):
I feel like, man, just can't believe when we're done,
like I did all of that and yeah, bye, it's
where you're not going to forgive.

Speaker 6 (17:29):
Me for Yeah, I feel like it's the opposite of me.
Women be blowed that I don't want to talk to him.
What about you do.

Speaker 5 (17:35):
The breaking up?

Speaker 2 (17:36):
I mean, I mean, yeah, man, and.

Speaker 5 (17:46):
People need to understand that.

Speaker 2 (17:47):
I agree. I think it's I think my old thing.
At the end of the day, it should always just
be peace. It's just like, yo, if it don't work out,
and I've had women say you know, hey, we can't
do this no more, I'm super cool, cool, I respect that,
and I fall back. And then sometimes you know, in
those situations in the past, they'll they'll go try whatever

(18:10):
they thought they were gonna try, and they come back. Yo.
I was keeping nice and flat and just even I
don't want to know issues. Nor if I see a
person you with your dude, it's cool, I may hit
you with you know, acknowledge you if he ain't, you know,
I'm out the way.

Speaker 3 (18:24):
What if you didn't know she had a dude?

Speaker 2 (18:27):
Evil and I just what I see him or something?

Speaker 3 (18:29):
Do you keep a player always?

Speaker 2 (18:31):
I'm not. I'm not finna call no scene about nothing.
Absolutely not. You not give me out my off my square.

Speaker 1 (18:39):
That's good material.

Speaker 2 (18:41):
Yeah, I mean, you know, looks at the end of
the look, it's gonna be another one anyway. So it's
not even worth that whole thing. It's too weird. It's
like if the guy, if she if a woman I
was dealing with and she found somebody, look this, how this,
how this is how God should really do it. If
a guy love this? If a guy. If let's say

(19:04):
a guy is dealing with a woman, they decide to
kind of go their separate ways, and she dealing with
somebody else, but she still want to connect. He got
to keep it so g when he see her, Let's
say the dude is out of town and she's like, Yo,
my dude's out of town. Whatever, and that guy, the
old guy feeling some type of way that she got
a new guy, don't trip be he should be so cold,

(19:28):
he should knock her down with the with the nigga
shirt on shoes.

Speaker 6 (19:39):
That's so grat.

Speaker 1 (19:42):
We shirt shoes Cold's unnecessary.

Speaker 2 (19:48):
But that's what I'm saying. But if she's gonna go
there and she's gonna do it, he's like, Okay, he
got the dude gotta be so comfortable enough. He gotta
be comfortable enough put that that nigga shoes.

Speaker 1 (19:57):
On his bedroom flipping. But she likes it, and she's like,
and that's calling you by his name?

Speaker 2 (20:03):
What even that's if at the end of this, this
is again, this is you gotta because this happens. If
a god dealing with a woman and she is his one.
If a god's dealing with a woman she's just one,
but she does something that's out of pocket, he gonna
respond either two ways. He's gonna be real mad and
be why you do that to me? He's gonna do that,

(20:25):
or Usually what happens is if she was up there
and she decided to while out do something out of pocket,
he can still entertain her. She just get reduced down.
So at one point if it was flowers or something sweet,
it ain't no flowers no more. But he gonna knock
her down.

Speaker 6 (20:40):
You're wearing his Gucci flip flops.

Speaker 1 (20:45):
Do we have a moment of honesty here? Like have
you ever cried over a woman? Yes, in an attempt
to get her Malcolm has so the other.

Speaker 3 (20:52):
Way, an attempt to get her back.

Speaker 1 (20:53):
Yeah, or you know, just cried No, you said, all right,
so what you say?

Speaker 6 (21:00):
I know a woman because because I've been her, I've
I know, I've cried when I know I fucked up bad,
like when I did it, like and I know that
she didn't deserve that.

Speaker 3 (21:09):
You now, yeah, because I was wrong.

Speaker 5 (21:11):
I was wrong, is wrong, but do.

Speaker 6 (21:14):
It was more so like just a level of inconsideration
that I had because I was moving, Like I've always
been honest. You know, I'm gonna tell you, like, look,
I got other females.

Speaker 3 (21:23):
I do what I'm doing.

Speaker 6 (21:24):
But it was like I was when I find when
it finally dawned on me that I was moving without
consideration and I kind of realized it. It was like
too late, like and I wasn't crying because it was
too late because I couldn't get back with her.

Speaker 3 (21:37):
I could actually, it just was I don't know.

Speaker 6 (21:40):
I don't like hurt people for real, Like if I'm wrong,
I'm wrong, bro, Like I fucked up, and I'm like,
I really feel bad about that ship. Like she she
even told me when she was like, I don't ever
really have to do nothing to you because you you
go go eat yourself phone. Yeah, because I really I
did her. I did it wrong, man, I shouldn't have
done that, Like that was what did you do? I
just didn't understand that, Like, you know, I thought it
you tell a woman the truth, anything goes what I

(22:03):
thought that, Yeah, I thought that she's a thug, like
I once was a thug, but now I'm a human,
and when you become a human, you realize that I
had to learn because I thought, okay, if I told
you what it was, I told you what it was.

Speaker 3 (22:15):
But then there was things.

Speaker 6 (22:16):
There's certain things were like you know, there's still boundaries
and there's still like respect, respect, like you can't like
you can't expect somebody to be inhuman.

Speaker 3 (22:25):
And I was just driving such a hard line.

Speaker 6 (22:28):
I was like, yo, if I'm sitting here and doing
whatever I'm doing you better.

Speaker 3 (22:32):
You better hold it together and keep it quiet.

Speaker 1 (22:34):
You mean like talking to other girls in front of her.

Speaker 5 (22:37):
That's right?

Speaker 6 (22:37):
No, more like like I can't, I can't do that
her friends. Well, I fucked friends, but now without permission,
that's crazy.

Speaker 5 (22:44):
I mean without permission, without.

Speaker 6 (22:46):
Permission, I want to do that, you know, but I've
asked and been like, oh yeah, it's cool, run to play,
but never that.

Speaker 1 (22:51):
None of these things seem like you think they're that
out of packet. I would know what was out of mind?
Funking out with a family members?

Speaker 6 (23:03):
Yes, yes, yeah it was bad, but I didn't but
look was real, sister.

Speaker 2 (23:10):
Yeah it was bad.

Speaker 3 (23:11):
It was bad, Bro, it was bad.

Speaker 7 (23:13):
But I mean you said you have permission to fuck
the family members.

Speaker 3 (23:16):
Not that one.

Speaker 7 (23:18):
Also, that's what you did somebody's cousin, not her cousin,
her sister.

Speaker 1 (23:24):
Come on, now, y'all gonna get.

Speaker 5 (23:25):
His the mom it was I didn't say that.

Speaker 3 (23:35):
It wasn't.

Speaker 1 (23:35):
It wasn't like, can we try on this episode.

Speaker 2 (23:43):
Gucci slip flip flops and.

Speaker 6 (23:45):
Okay, so.

Speaker 2 (23:47):
Your own Gucci flip she was out of if the
woman was out of pocket, I'm saying, I'm saying being
able to be be that solid enough to be like, Yo,
it's cool. I didn't like that move you did. It's cool.
But now i'm you you you gotta pay for that.

Speaker 6 (24:02):
You see what I'm scared about this man. He don't
speak and when he says things. So let me ask you.

Speaker 1 (24:09):
Let's just say you dated a woman, she's moved on,
she's got a new man. Would you still go to
her house? Because I feel like that's also a little
bit I don't know if this guy.

Speaker 2 (24:18):
Is gonna up.

Speaker 1 (24:19):
You know. Sometimes it's not the move.

Speaker 2 (24:22):
I mean again, that's the thing to it's a level
of you know, guy's not getting it, getting that comfortable
in that in that sort of spaceman because it can't
get dangerous if that woman still got all these extra
tise to guys and yeah, it's best to kind of
stay out of that stuff.

Speaker 6 (24:40):
He gets clean on mind, I'm cleaning up my I
ain't saying nobody feeling. All I'm saying is you did.

Speaker 3 (24:45):
All I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (24:46):
Is he definitely said that he never did that.

Speaker 5 (24:52):
He masked with his this woman who was.

Speaker 6 (24:56):
Level I'm sorry, into a situation that fell. I'm saying
is Malcolm is a mother.

Speaker 1 (25:04):
That is not we did this last time, Malcolm.

Speaker 6 (25:12):
My brain, That's not what happened. I'm just saying that
I could have done better in that situation that Jesus Christ. Now,
people's moments and ship you come on here and it
was like, hey, should we doing?

Speaker 5 (25:31):
Like no, the mom must have been fine, But I'm not.

Speaker 6 (25:34):
I'm not entertaining that no more because I know don't say.

Speaker 3 (25:39):
The moment you know, Malcolm mays fox.

Speaker 6 (25:44):
Mom, and that's don't be like technically everybody.

Speaker 1 (25:47):
Trying a guy Malcolm is London.

Speaker 3 (25:48):
What London is clearly features brother because he just flip
flops on that. They not.

Speaker 2 (26:00):
If I'm just saying get them arms up, I'm telling
you women different when the job came off. I'm saying
when and women know this. It's not even no, it's
not even like I'm not even trying to say making
anything crazy, But I'm just saying, guys know, sometimes when
anytime I hear I'm on about and I see a

(26:21):
woman talking to dud reckless, I know, I know it's trash.
Women talk to you different when you when at the
end it's all said and done, when that guy is
putting it down. There's a different kind of respect. Now
that's one level of a steaked and you know if
you got the stuff together, got a job, and got
to caread all of all these things are layers to respect.

Speaker 1 (26:43):
If that's sex is trash, that's a good case. What
he's gonna stand onstand like.

Speaker 7 (26:54):
People saying, you talk in different tones to different kind
of I got be real.

Speaker 6 (27:02):
I didn't even know that women look really like like
when when men was talking about how like like you
know what it was Spanish dudes, Spanish dudes blew me
because I introduced.

Speaker 2 (27:11):
Some I got you, I got it back? What you
mean I got you? I got it. I'm not.

Speaker 6 (27:18):
See this one I got you. I'm just not gonna
say I got you because Spanish New York. This is
so thank you, bro. See how they're ready to next clip, Malcolm.

Speaker 5 (27:36):
It is wrong.

Speaker 6 (27:37):
It's crazy.

Speaker 3 (27:39):
I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (27:40):
My first interaction with Spanish women was how much they
used to complain about Spanish niggas came about how like
they used to argue and like get into real like
real like vivacious arguments. And my mom from the Deep
South and my people's is old, so they like they
like my Mama taught me very young, like you don't
go back and forth with no woman.

Speaker 3 (27:57):
Leave right now, as.

Speaker 6 (27:58):
I've got to escalate right not just not just leave
my I remember Mom was like, you don't never put
your hands in a wong, but don't let them put.

Speaker 2 (28:04):
Her hands on you.

Speaker 1 (28:05):
But that's my thing. When it gets to that level,
leave because just for the moment to things calm down,
because that's when you know. You don't want to get
in a situation where she's attacking you and then you're
defending yourself and the next thing you know, the cops
are there. Sometimes you got to just be like, let
me remove myself.

Speaker 6 (28:19):
From this situation. Well, also grew up in an environment
that was totally different from my mom and my grandma.
They grew up like in the fifties and shit like
thirties and shit like. It was like women were different.
So they was telling me this, But I'm growing up
in the environment where I had homegirls who was pretty
as hell and was going head up with niggas like
right sliding dudes, like beating them up, you know. So
I remember trying to apply that knowledge outside and quite frankly,

(28:40):
I always had a positive I never really had like
the homies fighting girls and shit. I never really had
an issue like that because I just feel like, like
you said, like if it's a certain way that you
respect and treat and touch and hold a woman, you
don't really have those when they get emotional. You know,
I've now, but now that I'm older, I do find
myself wanting to say stuff back. But they got the

(29:01):
new sassy ship, so now I really don't want to
say nothing back because they say, you say, if you have,
I don't say nothing back anyway, but like.

Speaker 1 (29:11):
It's hilarious, we don't have to have that. Then said
that guys, no kind of way. M yeah, no, I
get it. No, I understand.

Speaker 2 (29:23):
What you.

Speaker 6 (29:25):
Say.

Speaker 2 (29:26):
Guys, you said you were going to say that. He
said something.

Speaker 1 (29:29):
When guys express emotion, people call them sassy.

Speaker 6 (29:32):
Oh yeah, that's yeah, that's what he was saying. But
that's the nigga. That's what they do to you. That's
what you know.

Speaker 3 (29:36):
You can't do nothing.

Speaker 1 (29:37):
You have ever called the guy sassy.

Speaker 6 (29:39):
I don't give a I recently.

Speaker 5 (29:43):
Because he was I have to be honest.

Speaker 7 (29:45):
I wish man would express more emotion. I don't think it's.

Speaker 1 (29:50):
Even expressing emotion.

Speaker 7 (29:52):
Madly to say, what's bothering? You tell me what to do?

Speaker 3 (29:57):
What if you're what's bothering?

Speaker 5 (30:01):
Tell me? Tell me?

Speaker 1 (30:02):
That's great over talk things, though, Like I'm not the
type of person that every time any little thing happens,
let's talk about it.

Speaker 5 (30:09):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (30:09):
Yeah, you sound toxic.

Speaker 1 (30:13):
Every little thing. Sometimes it's like it could be small,
let's just move on.

Speaker 3 (30:17):
You sound like me.

Speaker 7 (30:18):
I feel like for myself, if something bothers me, I'm
going to address it now. I'm very good at a
time and a place, so I'm not gonna start something
while we're outside or something like that. But once we
get home and we're in a comfortable place and we're
winding down, I do want to talk about it, even
if it's something small.

Speaker 6 (30:38):
I think I respect women too much. That's my problem.
I believe what y'all say. Okay, but but but I'm
learning that's not that's not Sometimes y'all say what y'all
feel and not what you not what you mean, even
you saying like something emotionally not. I don't want to
get in trouble for saying that, but I'll say that

(30:59):
sometimes the first thing that comes out isn't exactly what
you mean, it's it's in the world moment and I
feel like I'm over here, like standing on whatever the
fuck first came out like, I'm like, oh, yeah, no,
you said that, so you meant that, so that's what
we're talking about, and then come to find out circumvent
later it's like that ain't shit to do with what
the fuck is actually the problem.

Speaker 1 (31:21):
That's why they always say, when you're talking about something,
instead of saying you did this, you're supposed to say
I felt like this.

Speaker 6 (31:27):
Correct and then be able to contextualize, even to me
as a man, I had to I'll tell you, like,
because things can escalate to a different level with men,
we know very well to choose how we speak to
each other. Even if Lennon pissed me off, I'm not
gonna comeup to him and be like you bitch as
unless I'm ready to fight him. I'm not coming up
to him and be like you got me fucked up
and doing all that unless I'm ready to line right,

(31:48):
I'm gonna be like, hey, bro, listen, you know this happened.
This happened.

Speaker 3 (31:51):
I appreciate that, so what's up, you know?

Speaker 6 (31:53):
And he gonna have to either he gonna engage respectfully
or he's gonna engage disrespectfully. But I gave him the
opportunity to communicate with a female. She'll be mad about
the toilet being open, but she's not mad about the
toilet seat. Shes mad about you not listening to her.
Put this seat down, right, she's talking about you not listening.

Speaker 1 (32:08):
I would rather leave it open, notre than pee on
the seat. Y'all also be so lazy. You don't put
the seat up and then lets on the seat, and
I'm like, come on, that's disgusting. But really, y'all think
your aim is so on point, like you could just
make it over the seat and now I'm like.

Speaker 3 (32:25):
With that, but see, you have an actual little grievance.

Speaker 6 (32:27):
But most of the time, but most of the time,
it's like, hey, broll, you're just not listening when I speak,
and that makes me feel unseen in her and I'm
and I'm I can address that, but it seems sometimes
it takes for error to get to.

Speaker 1 (32:38):
Like sometimes we don't express it to we're really annoyed, right,
blow up and it's like, oh my god, like you're
having a bad day. You say one little thing. Yeah,
now I want to get back to something you said
earlier when you were talking about how if a guy
you know can fuck a girl right, you know, take

(32:58):
it down in the the respect has a girl? I
ever told you that you were whacked because I feel
like every guy has a whack moment like that y'all
have had.

Speaker 2 (33:07):
I think they're whack moments. But okay, okay, Well, it
depends on what it is. For example, I saw I
heard a guy today. I saw clip today and the
woman said, what would you do if the woman you
was dealing with after two years she says to you
that she hasn't had an orgasm and she has to

(33:31):
do She said, what would you say? He was like, hey, man,
ask you you know, see what she wanted to do?
And she's like that said you would feel now? I
would't feel no type of way. That's all cat. I'm
gonna tell you what, No, nigga if if he's well,
the thing about it, it's true. It's true if you're
a guy who's dealing with a woman who didn't care

(33:53):
about her end results from the jump at I didn't
know this now, I'm new to this. I didn't know
there were guys out here really sleeping with women who
don't care if she finished at all, don't care she's
enjoying it. They get theirs and they leave. Now the
reason I never moved that way. I got way too
much of an ego for my dyed to be out
here and girl talking about all this. Niggas track on

(34:15):
some like let's get it right even if I don't finish, correct,
because a lot of them think that. Guys finished all
up plenty of.

Speaker 1 (34:21):
Times, plenty of times, you know, don't even finish.

Speaker 2 (34:26):
Don't even finish.

Speaker 5 (34:27):
What makes you not finish?

Speaker 2 (34:30):
It could be a couple of things. It could be
Sometimes it's just like it's just not if she's not
really what she needed to be.

Speaker 1 (34:39):
You know.

Speaker 2 (34:39):
Sometimes it's that. Sometimes it's like I just don't want to.

Speaker 1 (34:44):
Sometimes the condom can make you not finish too using it.
But I'm saying it's harder.

Speaker 7 (34:51):
You know, like like that come and then stopping yourself
because you want to keep.

Speaker 3 (34:58):
Yeah, I didn't that. Yeah, I probably that I didn't
even know what it was called.

Speaker 5 (35:01):
Yeah, And I can stop you from getting a full
good or guys not.

Speaker 6 (35:04):
But if I'm that's different. That might be a woman
who I want to come for and I'm stopping it because.

Speaker 5 (35:09):
I wanted to, Yeah exactly.

Speaker 6 (35:10):
But if we're talking about like like what you said, like, bro,
we don't really always want to like it'd be. Sometimes
it's like it's it doesn't happen as often I think
where women hear about men being like, hey, look bro,
like it wasn't really hitting for what I thought I
was gonna hit for, Like the pussy wasn't even really
like what I wanted it to be. And you'll never
know an instant cause a nigga gonna make himself nut.

Speaker 3 (35:30):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (35:30):
That you could always just not if you.

Speaker 3 (35:32):
Want, if he wants to.

Speaker 6 (35:33):
But but if there's no repeat, and he might even
and some niggas might repeat just because it's like they
low on inventory.

Speaker 3 (35:40):
You feel me, I'm.

Speaker 6 (35:44):
Not, but you know what I'm saying, I'm not really
a repeat customer if I didn't enjoy, you know what
I'm saying. But at the same time, there's there's times
where it's like it's low service.

Speaker 2 (35:54):
So a lot of guys are a lot of guys
into the uh hitting and quitting one situation. I mean like,
but if a lot of guys are into that movement. See,
I'm too I move. If you I moved too slow,
you're not don't like me because I got to size
you up and down so that I don't have billboards slow.

(36:15):
I don't care how long it takes. If the woman
is solid, she'ld I'm not concerned. I've had political You
move too slowly taking okay, well then you got the guy.
But if you stick around, it might be good almost good.
I'm Fun's not even talking about sax, but in general
I'm good company. So I'm easy going, relaxed, and no

(36:38):
pressure having to talk about sex. Solid guys know. It's
not a question of if they can, it's when. All
the nigga gotta do is make that woman feel comfortable
to do what she already wanted to. Yeah, that's different
with all of it.

Speaker 3 (36:55):
Make me feel comfortable.

Speaker 6 (36:57):
I need to feel comfortable.

Speaker 2 (37:00):
Man that ever trusts me too, don't trust me too fast.
But again it goes back to I'm real lax. And then,
like I said, if she if she's solid and she
check out, I'm like cool, we're gonna you know, it'll
be a good time.

Speaker 1 (37:13):
You know, you do your white tea talk, and you
didn't talk about aggressive women.

Speaker 2 (37:16):
Yeah, aggressive way aggressive light shout out to my my
home girl, precious comedian Precious. Uh, she got this joke
about her whole thing is you know girls Wild asked
well what that did do? Right? And it's like just
like damn, like chill, like why you gotta go? Why

(37:40):
are you this and the fact that I don't.

Speaker 5 (37:44):
Want to wait wait wait y'all, don't ask that.

Speaker 8 (37:48):
Y'all.

Speaker 1 (37:49):
I don't know said that in my life, but it sounds.

Speaker 6 (37:52):
Different girl, what I'm saying, like that if he was
on the buill, let me tell you shut the like
you know, I'm you just said I'm secretive, so you
know I didn't like that. I was like, what the
you know? But I would like it if someone that, honestly,

(38:13):
if someone that looked like Angela said it, because I
wouldn't expect it. That's what would be hot about it,
because like, you don't look like you say that ship.
You know what I'm saying. I've never said that exactly,
but to have a girl who wouldn't say that say that,
it's sexy to have a girl that you know says
that to everything.

Speaker 2 (38:27):
I agree.

Speaker 5 (38:28):
I don't want to they.

Speaker 2 (38:29):
Want those women the validation. The thirsty chicks that are
looking who didn't have that father and different and not
even just father but whatever whatever, who didn't have that?
This is this is no, this is true. This is
a basic psychology these women, and not all of them,
because it's not about necessarily having your biological but if
you don't have some sort of figure big brother, uncle, grandfather,

(38:53):
somebody that said, yo, you're specially you're somebody, these women
grow up to continue to change validation. So the only
only thing that helps them to feel valuable is like,
what can I offer these guys to keep them? Offer
them their bodies? And after after you do that, then
what is left? So if you if you so, Now

(39:14):
we got to a point where in society women like
forget what whatever value my body was. If you got
twelve hundred, if you got sixteen hundred, they got an
actual there's a number now these days, the bag, the trip,
the flight, first class, the vacation. If you got this amount,
you can have this. So now after after you move

(39:38):
like this ain't no judgment.

Speaker 3 (39:39):
Right, it's not like there's anything wrong.

Speaker 2 (39:41):
It's cool.

Speaker 6 (39:42):
I just don't want that for the person who's telling
me what.

Speaker 5 (39:46):
That did do what that dig did.

Speaker 6 (39:48):
Because if you're selling, that's just cheating you.

Speaker 3 (39:51):
If you don't sell it, just sell it.

Speaker 6 (39:52):
Don't don't be trying to make me feel special.

Speaker 2 (39:54):
But why now we're in a place where some you know,
the whole thing is like because a lot of women
when I do these long woman say y'all, honey, y'all
be talking about the holes and all of that. But
that's what the knicks be chasing. I'm like, they guys
have no problem entertaining that. That's cool. They'll they'll go
knock it down, put the money down, all of that.

(40:15):
But when we're talking about who is gonna go home
to and cuddle and try with and pay bills with
and build with, he not finna build with that?

Speaker 1 (40:27):
Well, you know somebody leave with money too, exactly. Some
guys you don't even do that and they leave with money, Like,
what can I do for you?

Speaker 2 (40:35):
What does that say about that dude? The nigga who
got the lead with that? That already let the woman
know what he's working with. Solid guys are not finna
ain't gotta do all of that?

Speaker 6 (40:45):
Well they need Well, let me ask this because you know,
I grew up in a culture of pension hose right,
I grew up in gangster shit, so I don't have
the same perspective, okay in that way where.

Speaker 3 (40:55):
Like you know, sometimes it just means when end. Sometimes
it's just.

Speaker 6 (40:58):
Like like you said, the broken his lead to like whatever.
But sure, I think some people it's just it's what
they do. And does that mean that those people are
excluded from true intimate relationships? And if so, you know
what I'm saying, Can they can a solid dude not
fall from somebody who may have participated in that.

Speaker 2 (41:13):
He can for sure fall for someone that moves like that.
But for him to fall into that idea, we got
to look at why is he not? How is he
what's allowing him to even feel comfortable to move that?
Because the whole thing about the guys guys into a chick,
there has to be some sort of exclusivity to her.

(41:34):
So if she ain't got no exclusivity, it's like, and
I won't say no names, but there's some celebrities who
have dated some chicks in the game and be like, bro,
why are you You got her court side? But she
was just with this nigga and that nigga. We know
how they keep doing it. The niggas keep doing it.

Speaker 1 (41:50):
Guys make attention to That's how I look at it.
They like to be Some guys do like to be
with the chick that's gonna get them on the blogs.
They like that.

Speaker 2 (42:00):
Those kind of those that says a lot about them
kind of dudes.

Speaker 7 (42:04):
And there's like a group chat with all the guys
in the industry, and they tell they talk about the
girls and who got good pussy try.

Speaker 5 (42:14):
It's the truth.

Speaker 7 (42:15):
That's why you might see a girl doubling back because
and like guys don't care because she and this group
chat her pictures in the group, chat her videos in
the group.

Speaker 6 (42:30):
With my eyes, I've heard of that ship you've heard
about heard about it?

Speaker 5 (42:36):
Huh.

Speaker 1 (42:36):
We need like a women's group.

Speaker 5 (42:43):
We don't be talking about Yeah, yeah, we don't care
about men.

Speaker 6 (42:47):
I've gotten I've gotten the screenshot of the group since me, Like, hey,
they talk about you.

Speaker 5 (42:55):
Come through trying to players real, keep doing that good work.

Speaker 3 (43:00):
Let me know what's going on.

Speaker 1 (43:02):
Well, London, have you ever tricked on a girl?

Speaker 6 (43:09):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (43:10):
But deep deep size, like yeah, is.

Speaker 2 (43:15):
What your version of chicken is versus like you know, just.

Speaker 1 (43:19):
Maybe it wasn't necessarily a deep relationship. But she wanted like,
can she ask you? I want this purse.

Speaker 2 (43:28):
In life?

Speaker 5 (43:31):
You guys, I'm buying no purses regularly.

Speaker 3 (43:33):
Just I'm gonna be real.

Speaker 6 (43:36):
The only woman I bought purses for a women I've
known ten plus years, who are really with.

Speaker 2 (43:39):
Who like if if you mess with I'll be real.

Speaker 6 (43:42):
I've bought things for women I don't even funk on
who are just like my friends, Like.

Speaker 5 (43:46):
You got to know a girl ten years to buy
her a purse.

Speaker 6 (43:49):
I was just talking about my whome girl who I
know ten years. I bought her a purse. It was her,
like events, the only person so I tricked all on her.

Speaker 1 (43:57):
Yeah that doesn't really count a girl that you would
sleep with. Yeah, your casually.

Speaker 5 (44:03):
Someone your will be doing.

Speaker 1 (44:06):
And she's like, hey, I really like this bag I
take up.

Speaker 6 (44:09):
I would rather be a partner with her on some
InKo property before I buy her a purse. Like a
lot of commitments, exactly, let me tell you why it's
not for real real, let me tell you why it's
not and put ten bans on the bag. Right you
can go get a property in fucking Des Moines or
Ile or Ohio right now for ten twenty down right,

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it's gonna kick you back enough interest ten percent interest
on that investment for the rest of the time.

Speaker 3 (44:35):
And all she gotta do is up keep it.

Speaker 1 (44:36):
Yeah, up keep it a lot.

Speaker 6 (44:38):
No, no, I'm it takes out ten percent of that
profit anyway, So you neither of you have.

Speaker 1 (44:47):
Now I got to pay taxes on the risk.

Speaker 6 (44:51):
Whoever you, whoever you blessed with it, has to pay
taxes on that. Motherfucker. That's what she's now.

Speaker 1 (44:57):
Left her with. Some things she got out.

Speaker 6 (45:00):
No, no, no, no, no, no no, we're not getting away
with this. No, we're going to bag. First of all,
if you give somebody, if you give somebody anything for
an income property, it covers itself.

Speaker 3 (45:12):
It's not a it's first of all, it's taxed right
off for whoever owns it. I'm talking about.

Speaker 6 (45:16):
If you buy her a purse, the money's gone, it's burned.
You all say, buying a Kelly bag for ten thousand dollars,
you're buying the bags that last long. First of all,
I love faster, So we're gonna do this for real.
Anything that you're purchasing is gonna last forever. A beautiful
bag is over ten bads know this.

Speaker 7 (45:34):
Stop but you said twenty down you can get a Kelly.

Speaker 3 (45:38):
That Kelly is not going. First of all, the Kellys
are already.

Speaker 5 (45:40):
A little but you can get a Burke.

Speaker 6 (45:46):
It's not going like it used to go because everybody's
got And by the way, if you don't get you
already know if you getting it on reseal or getting
it yeah. Yeah, But if I get you this property,
it will be yours till you are dead and it
will pay itself.

Speaker 1 (45:59):
All it's if you up keep it. But go ahead, Lindon.

Speaker 3 (46:02):
But that's why you're a property manager.

Speaker 5 (46:04):
What about a car?

Speaker 6 (46:06):
Another depreciating?

Speaker 3 (46:07):
Who are these niggas?

Speaker 2 (46:08):
Listen out here, I'm glad you got it's them niggas.
Them are the ones messing it up for the solid
ones because they are rewarding these women who don't and
not all. We already know that that's the gift. I
have to say that because people like it ain't all.
We know that we passed the surface. Those guys who

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are putting that kind of money with I know, real
return from these women with no real locked in. It's like, bro,
why are we doing this? The thing about the thing
about this.

Speaker 3 (46:41):
Is the stupidously rich.

Speaker 6 (46:43):
You know, they're like stupid. I feel like I feel
like if you if.

Speaker 7 (46:47):
You're a successful man, right, if you're a successful guy
and you're dating someone you like, it's someone you're someone,
it's someone you're spending time with. Sure you know, it's
someone who you can converse with. You is someone you enjoy,
all right, Right, and she needs things.

Speaker 2 (47:06):
But she lets let it go, Let it go.

Speaker 7 (47:11):
I'm talking about she needs things. She everyone needs things.
We all have bills, she all need things.

Speaker 2 (47:18):
Money.

Speaker 7 (47:21):
I'm getting there. I'm getting to that. I'm getting to
that now. This woman is a woman who takes care
of you. She is not just a woman that you
had dinner with and she's like how much money you
make her whatever jeweler you have on right, Okay, she's
someone you enjoy. Bottom line, you enjoy this woman. And

(47:45):
she needs things. She cooks for you, to give you
a massage. She's sucking you. She's sucking you the way
you like. You know, you guys are watching Netflix. You're
like sleeping feet touching, you know what I mean.

Speaker 5 (48:01):
And she needs it's the first of the month. You're
not gonna help her.

Speaker 2 (48:05):
Now, listen, here you go.

Speaker 5 (48:07):
Money, you're not gonna think. You don't think it's okay.

Speaker 2 (48:10):
The difference is something no problem at all. If she's
holding the guy down in the way where a guy
feels like he's getting whatever it is that he needs enjoying,
he's enjoying it, and he's getting whatever it is that
he's feeling fulfilled within the dynamic of their relationship, what
that guy do. If she's that one I got, he's
gonna offer. But if you got to get to the

(48:30):
point where that, if you're a woman, you gotta ask
that nigga for anything. You're not her, You're you're you there.
It's a good time.

Speaker 5 (48:38):
But I don't get fat. That's that's what I say.

Speaker 1 (48:42):
You have to ask.

Speaker 2 (48:45):
Her energy is enough.

Speaker 5 (48:47):
But that's what I'm saying for me. I don't ask
for anything. I don't ask. I don't like asking because
I don't like reject No, listen to what I'm saying.
I don't I don't like to ask. I don't like rejection. Right.

Speaker 7 (49:02):
But I I am that girl who gets intimate with
the person I'm dating. So we're having a lot of conversations.
You know what's going on.

Speaker 2 (49:10):
In my life? Okay, So exactly.

Speaker 5 (49:14):
You're picking up. You're picking up what I'm putting down.

Speaker 7 (49:16):
I'm not asking you for anything, though, So I'm just saying,
if you're with somebody and you enjoy her, you know all.

Speaker 5 (49:22):
Damn man, I'm so stressed out. My carnal is coming out.
I gotta pay my rent is seven thousand dollars. This ben,
I gotta play my exactly.

Speaker 3 (49:31):
You know what's wait?

Speaker 6 (49:32):
Wait, wait, what did you say with seven thousand dollars?

Speaker 5 (49:34):
The rent?

Speaker 3 (49:35):
The rent is seven.

Speaker 6 (49:36):
Thousand dollars, not the mortgage.

Speaker 5 (49:37):
This is New York City. This is New York City.
That's what I'm saying. I'm not gonna lie. I don't
ask for anything, but it gets done.

Speaker 1 (49:48):
It's done. It, you know, being asking for things. I
want to ask you guys right in the bedroom. There's
certain things that y'all like. So sometimes it might be
like a little like let's just say you like getting
your nipples. That's where I asked what you have that
you know, Let's just say there's certain things you like.
You know, you mentioned testicles earlier, so let's like that.

Speaker 2 (50:11):
We did sound so crazy? Wow doing? They said, do
a sound check? I said, one, two, three sounds like
the way you said.

Speaker 1 (50:25):
Okay, so let's just say you liked you know, hey,
can you play like do you ask for those things?

Speaker 6 (50:30):
If there's certain things that you like, I don't ask.

Speaker 2 (50:33):
If I'm going to whatever it is, I'm gonna demand
to do it like you do this.

Speaker 6 (50:37):
I don't.

Speaker 1 (50:38):
Yes, So give us an example of something you've demanded.
Ques not a question, it's not a question, but you
expected to like what do you like? That's like you
know that you tell a woman I want this, do this?

Speaker 2 (50:50):
Uh, I gotta see because because I never wanted, I
never want the thirst chapter then always told up that's
what he liked to do. I'm finna do. I'm like
in defending, but let's just say, hypothetically.

Speaker 1 (51:03):
Ympathetically, servants, if I were to.

Speaker 2 (51:06):
Say something like, uh, you know you run my back right,
let's just if that was the idea. I'm not saying,
can you you mind if it's okay, if you can
just like put your hands run.

Speaker 5 (51:19):
My back babe?

Speaker 6 (51:21):
Yeah, I never.

Speaker 2 (51:24):
You know, because it's a it's a different again, there's
a different kind of you say.

Speaker 5 (51:29):
You say, I feel like that's the manly way to do.

Speaker 7 (51:32):
Like I respect like when I'm in a relationship like
my man is like, babe, run my feet, Babe.

Speaker 5 (51:37):
Can you give me a water? Do this?

Speaker 1 (51:41):
Why? More like, hey, can you, you know, lick my nipples?

Speaker 8 (51:45):
Oh?

Speaker 5 (51:46):
No, talking about things that.

Speaker 1 (51:51):
Somebody do that. A lot of guys like.

Speaker 3 (51:55):
Nipples just crazy to be.

Speaker 1 (51:58):
How many men like?

Speaker 6 (52:00):
Yeah, No, I'm not surprised anymore because I talked to
y'all and y'all have surprised.

Speaker 1 (52:08):
You know, just like women like men. Yeah, nobody ever
let your nipples.

Speaker 6 (52:13):
I'm cool.

Speaker 3 (52:13):
I've had it happen. I'm cool.

Speaker 6 (52:14):
I don't know why.

Speaker 1 (52:14):
I guess it might just not be something.

Speaker 6 (52:16):
But some people do like it respect to them.

Speaker 1 (52:20):
To have their testicles like some people don't.

Speaker 5 (52:22):
You know, guys like to get them.

Speaker 1 (52:25):
Yeah, everybody likes different things.

Speaker 6 (52:28):
You know, stepped on, God bless stepped on.

Speaker 5 (52:32):
Yeah, I don't know who like.

Speaker 6 (52:37):
If I do this?

Speaker 5 (52:39):
That was like like you always had that customer that
wanted balls.

Speaker 3 (52:45):
Can I be honest?

Speaker 6 (52:46):
I could understand charging for for that kind of service,
like the premium that you should charge on the level
of inconvenience.

Speaker 3 (52:54):
Man is I understand that gap.

Speaker 6 (52:56):
But if the niggat him, I.

Speaker 1 (52:58):
Don't write my guy likes me to step on his ball.
What about strange things that women A woman has asked
you to do? Are you down to do whatever whatever
she wants to her?

Speaker 6 (53:13):
Yeah, that's but not to me.

Speaker 1 (53:15):
No, But like okay, so, what's something strange that woman
has asked you to do?

Speaker 3 (53:20):
To hit her, to hit physically?

Speaker 6 (53:22):
You hit her like.

Speaker 1 (53:28):
You know, she said she was sanish.

Speaker 2 (53:35):
Unless that woman is going through unless she's going through
some and this is this is real, unless they want
sometimes going through some real domestic violent situation times that
can be triggering for her. I've noticed that where sometimes
women don't want your hand. I've heard women talk about
how they don't they don't want to be choked, because
that's the whole other things for them. But if she

(53:55):
has been, you know, in some not perfect but decent really,
it's just where it ain't those serious psychological stuff going
on that they want to be slap, choked, handled, they
need they want.

Speaker 6 (54:10):
Yeah, bro, I accidentally became a dom for like two days,
like I was asked about, like I was a young
nigga at the time, and I'm no details at the
time because fuck y'all, y'all, y'all get me yeah, when
I was young, stupid. When I was younger, there was
an older woman I was dealing with and she was Caucasian,

(54:32):
and you know, they a little different, Like I was
purely from a black environment, so I didn't understand certain lingos,
certain statements, certain like trigger word. I'm just over here
being a young nigga trying to fuck her into a mattress.
And once that happened, I think she mistook the level
of aggression for someone who could be prepared to do more.
So at some point she was like, hey, listen, are

(54:55):
you are you? Are you a dominant? And I'm like
at the time, I'm just thinking, yeah, yeah, I'm a dominant.

Speaker 3 (55:02):
I'm a dominant.

Speaker 6 (55:03):
You know, ship no idea what she was really talking about,
like are you about that lifestyle? And I'm like, yeah,
I'm about that life, Like yeah about that? Yeah, I
didn't know. So what she had me do was so
what she did was she bought me this thing that

(55:24):
because she worked in the office but me. So what
she would do is she she buy me this thing
that I could trigger whenever she whenever I wanted to, Like,
I guess he shot her vagina. But I would like,
but you have to replace the batteries. You gotta charge
that bitch. Like, and I was young, I wasn't finna
do it. Just sounded like too much. So I would
forget to do all that, and then she could go

(55:44):
crazy on the text message. And I think that I
was supposed to like punish her for going crazy on
the text messages. But I would just be like, I'm sorry,
I'm sorry. I just wouldn't I be like, I want
to get like cool whatever. She tried like yeah, because
I'm worried about jail. I'm like, I ain't get me
too what you And so I would just ignore her.
But apparently it's supposed to be like they tripped, like

(56:07):
you're supposed to punish them. They're doing things to get punished.
They're doing things.

Speaker 3 (56:11):
It's a whole relationship. But I was like, this is
a lot of work. I don't want to do this anymore.

Speaker 6 (56:18):
I didn't know what was going on.

Speaker 3 (56:19):
It was a few days. If you just stopped, I
was like, you tripping. I was like, lady.

Speaker 1 (56:32):
Accidentally gives details, he said, I ain't telling y'all.

Speaker 6 (56:42):
Yes, you're right, I gotta damn because y'all y'all do
that ship good and.

Speaker 1 (56:47):
Now London, what about you. Have you ever had a
woman ask you to do something that was a little
out of the norm.

Speaker 2 (56:52):
Uh No, because I'm you know, as a guy, our
thinking is way over its way over there. So it's
I don't think I've ever been asked to do anything
that I felt was out of the norm. But I will, like,
it's just finding out what the line is. So they

(57:13):
go from like, you know, even just walking with if
a guy's like walking with his hand behind the woman's
like behind her neck, it's okay. Then even when he
kiss or grabbing her face, her throat, see what the
line is like you know, it's just like I forgot
that there's a term for but there's a term about
the pressures that animals have when they bite their young,

(57:35):
and they bite them enough just to carry them, strong
enough to keep them, but not to damage them. And
it's that sort of line where the woman can be like,
you know what, it's just enough. It's just like even
like spanking or he's going, god, going to the bathroom,
something grilling, the cooking and just to spank just sent
like oh oh, it's like a little that whatever.

Speaker 6 (57:54):
That chail is that just that thing of just like
anything else, too much work.

Speaker 1 (58:00):
It's too much work, like I'm not doing all that
I would, but like it's.

Speaker 3 (58:03):
Too much for like a consistent thing.

Speaker 2 (58:06):
I'm right, I'm right in there.

Speaker 6 (58:08):
Like he's like, look, look, you know like outfits and
ship like leather and first and you're not getting dressed up.

Speaker 2 (58:17):
Better dress up you?

Speaker 1 (58:18):
Okay, dress up like a dressed.

Speaker 6 (58:21):
Up like about perverts and ship not like that's crazy.

Speaker 2 (58:27):
I like clothes. I know a lot of guys that
like the whole, like trench coat and just heels. You like,
I want fits.

Speaker 1 (58:36):
You want with the.

Speaker 2 (58:40):
Secret isture. Secret is nice for other women. I don't
want nice. I want city I want.

Speaker 5 (58:53):
But you won't pay for that.

Speaker 2 (58:54):
You will pay for those that get that. The reasonable
If the woman says, hey, you know I want you
to buy this, and by that, I want you to
buy this and buy that, I'm like, Okay, you're don't
want me to buy it. Okay, this is the exchange. Okay,
I'll buy it. But if I buy it, it's stay

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at my place.

Speaker 1 (59:15):
Okay, fair enough, that's not Why.

Speaker 2 (59:18):
Is that you think I'm gonna buy you? That's pretty
smart you think I'm gonna build your closet for some
other nigga for you to stut around and wearing and
where your gucci flip It's cool, Well, I'm only wearing
it for you anyway, and then it shouldn't be no
problem for it to be here. And a lot of times,
what that does, if that if that is, if that's
ever a situation, that conversation that real quick and the woman.

Speaker 6 (59:41):
Probably been through some ship.

Speaker 1 (59:43):
I feel like, like, but it feels like the fact
that you want her to wear leave, It's where did
that come from?

Speaker 2 (59:55):
It comes from just knowing how some women operate and move.
Because I gotta look, guys have to realize, I'm like,
if that ain't your girl, and ya ain't committed and
locked in, that ain't your girl. Bro, she ain't your girl,
So you gotta the nigga has to really understand it.
Be like yo, See, guys have to I'm not saying
that all women cheating them. I said they all got

(01:00:17):
another side, nigga, But the guy, for the sake of
his emotional stability, he has to be able to entertain
the thought that this woman is entertain somebody. I'm not
saying that she is, but he got to play this
those scenarios in his mind to that nigga keep his collected.

Speaker 1 (01:00:35):
That's not keeping your walls up, though you get something.

Speaker 3 (01:00:41):
Is doing it safely.

Speaker 6 (01:00:42):
So if I like, look, every woman I've ever dealt with,
I do not presume that I am just master king
dick out here, even if they tell me, Even if
fifteen of them in a row if told me I'm
master king dick, it doesn't matter, because there may be
something that I'm shortcoming on emotionally or something that she
has going on with her that maybe I'm not there
for My ego's not mastering enough to think that there's
not a London out there, there's not a kp out there,

(01:01:02):
that there's not somebody out there that is exactly fit
for what she needs right now in this moment. And
if that exists, I have to be able to understand
and accept if things go left, did what I give
or what I paid for, whether it was a Kelly bag,
whether it was an apartment complex, whether it was anything
item lingerie, that I can let it go without no
malice in my heart because I already I've already given it.

(01:01:23):
That's you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (01:01:26):
No, No, if a god buys me a Kelly Bag
and we break up. You could take your Kelly bag
back here you go. You can't get it.

Speaker 1 (01:01:34):
You can have it. But if I mean.

Speaker 5 (01:01:37):
If it feels a way, and that's where it gets.

Speaker 2 (01:01:40):
And that's where it gets thinks, because it's like the
guy at the It's like they guy at the bar
who buys a girl to drink then trues to get
the number the girl says, you know, I'm cool for
the night, then to get tight. His intentions on how
he gave was out of pocket in the first place. Correct, nigga,
buy a drink and Aaron, Y'ALLBLI have some pretty sisters.

(01:02:00):
Y'all want to drink and you would take two hand
and seats. Okay, uh, just a little older. We'll take
some audios is okay, Here go your audios and walk walk, y'all.
You get done. It's not like I'm gonna buy you
a drink in exchange for And that's another that's the weeks.

Speaker 3 (01:02:14):
That's another thing.

Speaker 6 (01:02:15):
And if a nigga about you and Kelly Bag, if
a nigga really been out here like I've really been
outside their sizes, we're that bad going like I'm gonna
find enough size to get it back to Like who
likes you.

Speaker 7 (01:02:26):
I mean, if you feel a way about it, you
can take it and sell it and get some money back.

Speaker 6 (01:02:30):
I love your attitude for that most of the time.

Speaker 7 (01:02:32):
If you, I mean, if you feel if you if
you feel so bothered here, baby, God bless you to
take your.

Speaker 1 (01:02:36):
Back should have been value if you. If I'm the
guy right like my man, I don't think that he's
gonna I'm not thinking like, oh, there's gonna be another girl.
He's gonna da da da da day. Like said, if
I'm not around, he's gonna still be like wanting to
come home. Sure, I don't look at it like, oh,
he's got this girl that could be doing this or

(01:02:58):
that or this. I gotta prepare myself. I just live
for like where we are with each other. We don't
have any issues. I'm not like going through his phone.

Speaker 6 (01:03:06):
I'm not thinking that he's doing. That's different than like,
we're not saying that he should be preoccupied with what
you're doing. What we're saying is so he doesn't end
up at your job or pulling up at your food spot.

Speaker 5 (01:03:18):
Or trying to put you on a van right, Like.

Speaker 6 (01:03:20):
Because my thing is I'm so cool that you could
come tell me if you did some shit, we could
figure it out or not do it. We could either
not do it not because whatever it was, Like, it's.

Speaker 1 (01:03:29):
Cool, but woman cheated on you. You could still be
with her if.

Speaker 6 (01:03:31):
She It depends on what it was, and it depends
on the situation. It depends on how long, how much equity,
It depends on what I did. It depends on what
she did because the only reason I have an issue
with it is why you didn't come to me before.
So we could figure out something or an arrangement where
I could either make up for whatever your feeling is
lacking or whatever, because I've been blessed enough where and

(01:03:52):
I don't want to jink myself, thank God. But like
I've never had a woman I've had most women, I
don't really want to be monogamous and they want to be.
So it would be an interesting situation if it was
with a woman who wanted to be nomin argamist and
I wanted to be And if that was the case,
it depends on what she's bringing to my life. What
is it that you're contributing that would make me feel
cool with that, because it can't just be sucking dicking cooking,

(01:04:14):
because everybody wants to suck dicking cooks for me. It
has to be something else.

Speaker 2 (01:04:17):
What is it that.

Speaker 3 (01:04:21):
It has to be like?

Speaker 6 (01:04:22):
First, you have to have been like that before I
met you. It can't be you got like It has
to be like you are.

Speaker 7 (01:04:27):
I think that's smart. I feel like I feel like
you should take a girl for exactly what she is when.

Speaker 5 (01:04:32):
You meet her.

Speaker 7 (01:04:33):
If I met you like that, Yeah, if you're just
cooking for me and you're a lazy bitch and you
just started cooking.

Speaker 6 (01:04:39):
But if you was, but if you were an entertainer
and you was a magic city being the biggest boss
on the planet when I met you, I can't expect
you to not be that when I wife you. If
you are that, it may transition, you may change, you
may shift. We could work with that, But I gotta
know your baseline was I'm that bitch on that pole,
So I can't be acting weird that I got a
bitch on a pole.

Speaker 1 (01:05:00):
All you gotta get off. That's what he did, didn't work.

Speaker 2 (01:05:07):
Didn't work.

Speaker 6 (01:05:09):
I think that if you have a sure man and
that's what it is, and that's what it is.

Speaker 1 (01:05:12):
Just like me.

Speaker 6 (01:05:12):
If I meet a woman like that and she doing
all that for me to feel comfortable, there's you know,
I gotta be comfortable.

Speaker 3 (01:05:17):
Comfortable. You gotta be on some you got I gotta know,
like what's up? What's up?

Speaker 6 (01:05:21):
You got to be able to I ain't worried about ship.

Speaker 3 (01:05:24):
I'm the bad bitch in the relationship. If it's like that,
like that, if you want.

Speaker 6 (01:05:33):
To fuck London and and my guy right here and
do that and you got a big bag and you
the baddest bitch on the planet and you moving like Rihanna,
that's cool. Make sure I'm make sure I'm good.

Speaker 3 (01:05:43):
My mama gets sick with cancer. Who paying the bill?
You're paying the bill.

Speaker 1 (01:05:47):
If there was a young lady that Malcolm used to
deal with and then you met her, would that bother
you or would it be okay? Would you check with
Malcolm like, YO, is it cool?

Speaker 3 (01:05:55):
If I, oh, this is a good one.

Speaker 2 (01:05:57):
Yeah, this is a line. I've done shows and you
know the girl is trying to come say something to me.
I'm like, yo, but you with my man, don't I
ain't with him? And out of that, I said, YO,
bro yo a god gonna let you know where where
he's saying, hey, bro, that's you. Oh yeah, that's okay.

(01:06:18):
Even if they're not, that's enough to just say yo,
I fall back. So I don't. I don't really like
dealing with that line because it just gets just gets interesting,
you know, and and the and the male ego is
just one of those things. Now there. I've had shows
or events and a woman has been there to see
me and the guy say yo, I said, man, go ahead.

(01:06:41):
All the shutdown energy has to come from the woman.
She got all the power. It's not about me going
and trying to police every nigga. She is in her faith,
she has all power. That's why when when a woman
tries to come up and say, for god, hey you
know it's her dude, she say, hey, James, that guy
over there trying to talk can give me it's uber
he all of my dms. The first question is, well,

(01:07:02):
what what energy was you giving off that made the
nigga feel comfortable enough to even approach you? Because when
a woman want to shut something down, they y'all got
got a live, y'all got got a lit y'all got
a cold way of looking through a nigga around him,
Like if one woman, if she want to entertain them,
sh entertain them. That's why even with cheating, women like

(01:07:23):
to say that when a man, when a man cheats
and a woman cheese, it's you know, it works both ways.
It does not. It is not the same weight when
a woman cheats. It's a completely different weight on it.
For one, let's just go on a basic level. On
a basic level, women are plannings. We know that women

(01:07:45):
are planning the incredible plans.

Speaker 9 (01:07:46):
She made an escape artist plant right, So if she
made all the energy that it takes between getting her
nails done, hair is done, matching brals, getting wild, finding
a babysitter, moving the schedule around, still cooking her man
something to eat.

Speaker 2 (01:08:00):
When she's that.

Speaker 1 (01:08:03):
Girl, we're gonna take these pictures and then you don't
post nothing. I said, I'm with you.

Speaker 5 (01:08:11):
It's literally she because it just happened, it's that day.

Speaker 2 (01:08:14):
But she it don't need all of that. All the
woman has to be is legal, willing and breathing, breathing,
That is it. She don't have to have a name
to face, none of that.

Speaker 7 (01:08:27):
Just what about if if one of your what if
a girl you're interested in and got curved by one
of your friends. Like, what if you're one of your
friends trying to talk to times she was like, oh no, no, no,
I can't do this.

Speaker 2 (01:08:41):
Yes, she's open game.

Speaker 1 (01:08:45):
He curves her and she to him.

Speaker 7 (01:08:48):
What if she curved them and he was like like
super rich and had everything going every girl wants them,
and she still curved them.

Speaker 6 (01:08:54):
I don't know, because we curved like he cause niggas.
So if malcol had have all the money, yeah, and
it was a girl, which I don't.

Speaker 5 (01:09:02):
And him and he turned it down, yes, yes, no, no,
she turned him down.

Speaker 2 (01:09:10):
Oh no, she.

Speaker 3 (01:09:14):
And the way these niggas move, that might be a trophy.

Speaker 1 (01:09:18):
I would love that.

Speaker 3 (01:09:18):
Yeah, that makes him feel good.

Speaker 1 (01:09:19):
It would make him feel like she's picky.

Speaker 6 (01:09:21):
She's not just get away everybody. I don't tell me
my bits didn't suck you. That makes me happy, that's right.
I don't know how you did that, man. You know
she really boozy and stuck up. I'm like, nigga, she
paid my first ship.

Speaker 3 (01:09:33):
I don't know what you're talking about.

Speaker 6 (01:09:37):
Now that one gets back, Like, I will get a
bag from my woman. I'll get anything from my woman.
If that's mine if she mind.

Speaker 1 (01:09:45):
Okay, what if somebody got to a gift and you
didn't like it, would you be honest?

Speaker 2 (01:09:48):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:09:49):
Yeah, And that's probably part of the problem. I'll be like,
why do you do this?

Speaker 2 (01:09:55):
I wouldn't say that.

Speaker 6 (01:09:56):
I wouldn't.

Speaker 2 (01:09:58):
If I got a gift that I didn't like. Uh,
but let's go. Let's go before that though. This is
why if it comes to get took everybody, because the
Holly is coming up with a lot of women are
trying to figure out what to get the guy. They're
trying to figure out how to do it. This is
what you should do. If you don't know you're dealing
with a guy, you don't know how to give him
a gift, offer him five ideas out of those five.

(01:10:22):
This is called being a benevolent dictator, meaning you offer
that guy five ideas. You say, man, I don't know
if he like Jordans, he like he made me some
car seat covers, whatever it is. When you present those
five things out of the five, let him choose which
one of those things he wants with donut you you
don't have to choose it for him because you try
to surprise him and it might be the wrong size,
the wrong color. If he a sneaky guy like me,

(01:10:44):
he probably got the shoes eight months ago. Give him
five options. This way, he still you still have the
final say because you presented these things. But he still
gets the choice because you presented. It's like it's like
when a guy and woman to go out to dinner.

Speaker 3 (01:10:57):
Wait, hold on, GI.

Speaker 1 (01:10:59):
Used this absolutely here.

Speaker 2 (01:11:04):
Right here a woman. I don't want to say I
want to go I have dinner with a woman and
it's like, yo, I want Let's say I want Chinese
food and Mexican food. I can go with either one
of those tonight. But in order for me to control
the situation, but give her and lard to be included. Hey, babe,
what you want to you want Chinese? What you feel like?
Who had Italian other night? Let's go Chinese?

Speaker 5 (01:11:24):
Cool?

Speaker 2 (01:11:24):
I win, she win. It's all grounded. It's just I
like dealing from a place of logic and just soundness.
So it's not just take the emotions out, lock it up.
But it worked for a woman in the gifts. She
trying to figure, Damn, we get this, nigga, I don't know.

(01:11:45):
I know you like shoes. I know he let's say, Malcolm,
I know he's doing this music thing. Get him an
MP three, get him a keyboard, get him some whatever.
She presents those things, he's able to say, you know what,
I could use a keyboard hanging to keep I got George,
I got the microphone, and I think they can board.
Now he actually picked something that he wants, and she
ain't got to be figuring out in some place in
ambivalence about what to do. She set it up for him.

Speaker 1 (01:12:09):
Girl like her cash up on her birthday, Like.

Speaker 6 (01:12:11):
What I can't And once again you said, girl, right,
that's that's like wait, this this is the question I
want to ask. Have you ever borrowed money from your
man's friend? No, man's friend?

Speaker 1 (01:12:33):
How do you don't even borrow money from my man?

Speaker 2 (01:12:38):
Wait?

Speaker 1 (01:12:38):
Wait? Wait?

Speaker 5 (01:12:39):
This is this is this is not while we were together,
don't matter.

Speaker 7 (01:12:44):
No, okay, I was with somebody that I grew up with, right,
and so his best friend is also my best different
but let me make this very clear. It's my best friend.
But their boyfriends way stronger friends then, you know, like, no, lie,

(01:13:06):
my best friend. This is this is my guy and
I trust him and I love him to death. And
he listens to the show. He knows what I'm talking about.
He knows I'm talking about him. He would definitely choose
my ex man over me.

Speaker 5 (01:13:20):
Money.

Speaker 6 (01:13:22):
But when you asked for the money, did you tell
the other one that you did?

Speaker 3 (01:13:26):
Did he find out?

Speaker 6 (01:13:27):
Well?

Speaker 5 (01:13:28):
I needed I needed. I needed five bands quickly and.

Speaker 3 (01:13:34):
Quickly crazy.

Speaker 5 (01:13:36):
So this is what happened. I needed I needed the
five thousand.

Speaker 7 (01:13:38):
I was just casually talking to my best friend about it.
He was like, no problem, come and pick it up.

Speaker 5 (01:13:44):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 7 (01:13:44):
I didn't ask for it. He offered it to me.
So I took the five bands and whatever. I gave
it back to him in like four days.

Speaker 3 (01:13:52):
Okay, that's good. First of all, that's a great return.

Speaker 7 (01:13:54):
But like, did you Yeah, I gave it back. I
gave it right back to him. I actually didn't need it,
so I gave it back to him.

Speaker 3 (01:13:58):
I'm telling you, but money for my man would go up.

Speaker 1 (01:14:04):
I'm not even with friends but my like, we're cool,
but I don't like talk to my man's friends but
without him around.

Speaker 7 (01:14:12):
But but he and I hadn't been together yet at
that time, so after we were in a relationship, I
told him, like, yeah, I borrow money.

Speaker 2 (01:14:19):
From Okay, it's a little different.

Speaker 5 (01:14:21):
Do you know what I need? And he was like,
did you pay him back?

Speaker 1 (01:14:24):
And I was like, of course, yeah, you're important like
friends outside of her when she's not around.

Speaker 6 (01:14:33):
Well, it depends on the level of the relationship because
I know I have boundaries. So if like I do,
I've exercised them and I go like, I always put
the channel of communication through her, right, And if I
have talked to your friend outside of you, I'm going
to let you know that we had a communication outside
of you. Now if you condone, be like, why are
you telling me this thing? I know, y'all straight, you
know what I'm saying. Then that's different because I forged

(01:14:55):
real relationships with humans, so like I don't have one
of those things where like some of my some of
the women I've with, I become close with their family
members and to this day, like we cool, like I
pay for ship, like like if they need some help
or whatever, but they also know that I got them,
like like the person who introduced me will always whether
we end it good or not, going to always be straight.
Like that's why that's why I can't buy a bag
for everybody, because I'm buying bags for life.

Speaker 5 (01:15:17):
I think that's good. I don't think you should buy.

Speaker 6 (01:15:21):
What about you?

Speaker 1 (01:15:21):
Would you be cool? Have you ever been cool with
like you're a girl you were dating like her homegirls.

Speaker 2 (01:15:27):
I'm cool, but I stay I stay out of that,
out of the the the other female her, you know
her female situations like that. I don't believe in. I
don't believe like I don't even have a female best friend,
Like I don't even believe in that.

Speaker 1 (01:15:43):
Really, but you have female friends.

Speaker 2 (01:15:47):
There are that I speak to that I have no
plans on sleeping with. Yes, that's when I think, but
I'm description, no, no, no, you gotta be clear when
we think about when we think about the best friend thing,
I'm like, what, what possibly are we going to connect
on on something like every day and we're not We're

(01:16:10):
how close are we going to be? Where? Nothing? We're
not gonna do anything. What I need to talk to you.

Speaker 7 (01:16:15):
About if at this point, if you didn't grow up
with somebody who was your female and your best friend,
you guys can't really relate you guys and grow up together.

Speaker 2 (01:16:27):
Somebody like somebody ain't saying nothing.

Speaker 5 (01:16:29):
But this point, I can't make you can't have.

Speaker 1 (01:16:34):
I have plenty of friends that are just friends that I.

Speaker 7 (01:16:42):
Want to say that, with exception of maybe one or two,
which maybe one and a half, they all would fuck
me if I asked them, so nobody.

Speaker 1 (01:16:55):
That I would never sleep And then you know, I
don't want to sleep with me either. I don't think
they know.

Speaker 7 (01:17:00):
I'm not saying they want to, but I think if
I was like, man, I want to get fucked, are
you gonna come fuck me right now?

Speaker 5 (01:17:05):
They're gonna come.

Speaker 6 (01:17:06):
But that's like her friend.

Speaker 2 (01:17:13):
These guys, you guys have in your life, they're doing
an incredible job. They supposed to make you feel safe
and like they're not interested. That's how we operate. If
they smart no guy who would potentially do it, We'll
be like, yes, what you're doing Thursday. They're not gonna
say that the post defeat sit right up on you
getting nice and nestled and comfortable and all of that.

(01:17:33):
They're doing a good job. They know how to respect
the line. But at the end of the day, as
straight guys, straight guys, we don't. It's always something somewhere
back here. Even if they don't talk about it, they
don't act on it because they keeping it respectful. Yeah,
let's say people work together, but just to be like
best best friends somebody like somebody but ain't told nobody.

Speaker 1 (01:17:53):
I would to say, but I definitely have guy friends
who have never I don't considered.

Speaker 2 (01:17:58):
That they shouldn't do it. They respect you, that's those
are the guys. They respect you, they respect your line.

Speaker 7 (01:18:04):
And I have two male best friends. But these are
guys I grew up with. We made money together. They
taught me things like I wouldn't even know a lot
about my own culture if it wasn't.

Speaker 5 (01:18:17):
For one of my best friends.

Speaker 2 (01:18:19):
That's good.

Speaker 1 (01:18:21):
But I want you to get you a girl.

Speaker 7 (01:18:23):
But I want to say this one he did. He
did try me when we were kids at first.

Speaker 2 (01:18:30):
I'm telling you, I'm telling you there's a thing in
the back of guys. It's not saying it all.

Speaker 7 (01:18:36):
I like, if you don't want, you're not gonna win
a lot of if you don't play, you know, so
everybody's gonna take they chance on things.

Speaker 5 (01:18:42):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:18:43):
Even if even if the woman had made it clear
like yo, I'm not gonna go there, they know that.
They sometimes you know, there's there's those guys But then
there's also the guys who know they're probably not your type,
don't have the confidence to really approach, and they've seen
how you the kind of guys to day they feel like, man,
I'm falling under the radar of those guys. So they're

(01:19:04):
not going to really make that move because they say, man,
I'm out of her league. Some guys feel so those
guys will settle into whatever attention that they can get.
They'll take that from the woman.

Speaker 1 (01:19:12):
I'm gonna be friends and hopefully one day. Let me
ask you this, have you ever slept with the woman
that you didn't find attractive?

Speaker 2 (01:19:17):
Yes, that's it.

Speaker 1 (01:19:18):
All the time, I told her all the time.

Speaker 2 (01:19:23):
All women is legal, willing, and.

Speaker 5 (01:19:27):
Listen.

Speaker 3 (01:19:27):
My life is still I've slept with women.

Speaker 1 (01:19:29):
I need your dick a little more.

Speaker 2 (01:19:32):
Generally across the world. As far as the man.

Speaker 6 (01:19:34):
Cold, hey look, I know, I look, I know. To
take it, I would say this very quickly, I've slept
with the woman who I didn't find attractive but everybody
else found attractive.

Speaker 3 (01:19:41):
I haven't slept with the woman that I just thought
was ugly.

Speaker 6 (01:19:44):
It's just it's just someone who I didn't particularly get
while everybody thought she was fine, but she was cool,
so you just did it because.

Speaker 1 (01:19:49):
She was cool, and it was like the pair pressure.
Everybody liked her.

Speaker 6 (01:19:53):
She was It was one of those things when I
was younger, and it was like, but then I didn't
even tell abouty. I did it at the end of
the day she famous the ship and I still and
I won't because it's just not she was. She was
kind of vibe with her like that, like she was cool,
and then it turned out she wasn't. And then I
was like, I'm not proud.

Speaker 5 (01:20:08):
Of this, proud of it.

Speaker 2 (01:20:11):
But yeah, look, every guy has been with a woman
that they ain't none of their homies gonna see. Every
guy got one of all and he's like, I'm gonna
keep her, keep her in the basement, nobody is going
to see her. Everyone got one of those. But again,
this goes back, generally speaking, going back to the cheated thing.

(01:20:34):
That's why sometimes when a guy is in a relationship
and he cheats on this girl and the girl be
tearing herself down, I'm like, that woman has included herself,
she's giving That woman's giving herself way too much to
carry where a guy is like, because if you trying
to feel. Why is this nigga cheating on the girl
that don't even look half as what I do and
make what I'm like, because it's not even about in

(01:20:56):
comparison to you. That's just something different. Guys like change.
Vagina's just something strange. It's just something.

Speaker 5 (01:21:05):
God, you just taught me something. You I like strange.

Speaker 1 (01:21:19):
Women like strange Dick.

Speaker 3 (01:21:22):
They like familiar.

Speaker 5 (01:21:23):
You know, I like familiar Dick. I know how to
move and do everything.

Speaker 2 (01:21:28):
That's my point. This is why cheating is so different
for a guy. He don't even have to like her,
He don't have to be that mostly invested in anything.
It's just something to do something different. That's why the
cold part about this is that a lot of people
like to knock that side woman, but that side woman
be making sometimes can make a nigga go back home

(01:21:49):
and appreciate his real because in a different way, that's
way on another level. Everybody ready for that.

Speaker 6 (01:21:54):
No, this is this is this one's important because the
only thing better than good pussy is new pussy. The
only thing better or equivalent to new pussy is old
good pussy.

Speaker 3 (01:22:04):
When you go back, because I'm.

Speaker 2 (01:22:06):
Gonna be.

Speaker 6 (01:22:09):
It's true. It's true, spinning the block on some fire,
it might be equivalent.

Speaker 2 (01:22:15):
But sometimes what happened when you do that, you why
you left her though you'd be like you do like,
oh man, this is it.

Speaker 6 (01:22:21):
I'm not talking about her person I'm not talking no, no,
I'm but I'm not talking about her personality. I'm talking
about like you know how, yeah, just to put like
there's something you said it you said like there's sometimes
where a man gets invigorated by an outside situation, come
home and got a new pepping and step and you
don't know the funk why, Just like women when they cheat,
they come home and they happier than they usually are
and you're like, what the fuck.

Speaker 3 (01:22:41):
I've never had to happen, but I've seen it because
I've been on the other end.

Speaker 7 (01:22:44):
But better.

Speaker 2 (01:22:49):
Don't go back to that.

Speaker 3 (01:22:50):
He wasn't suck like that until I touched her.

Speaker 2 (01:22:53):
But you don't get that nigga back to energy. It's
already contelling.

Speaker 1 (01:22:55):
That's why London said he don't want somebody that could
do that too good.

Speaker 2 (01:23:00):
To trust me to to well. But I'm saying if
that woman come back to the house with a new
peppering step, the nigga's not getting that in it. It's
all the nigga. The other nigga got it. So she
cooked for you all her mind and her vaginas that
this other niggas.

Speaker 5 (01:23:18):
I feel like.

Speaker 7 (01:23:18):
Women for me, like I was in a relationship that
I cheated on the person that I was with and
he's tired of me talking about it on this show,
and I'm trying not to a part of my life
that it. But I cheated on him and I wasn't nice,
saying when I came home, I was torrible to him,
like every time I.

Speaker 5 (01:23:39):
Cheated on him, he was just.

Speaker 3 (01:23:42):
Then I feel bad for them niggas. I can't help them.

Speaker 8 (01:23:44):
I feel when he said, man, when they might appreciate
that woman me going outside, It's like I'm on the
phone with my friend, Like as soon as I get
my breast done, I'm leaving this.

Speaker 6 (01:23:57):
And women's cheap for different reasons, new bitch and then
come home and his bitch and feel very good.

Speaker 7 (01:24:02):
About feel happy about it now. Women will will go
outside and be with somebody else. It's like, don't touch me, bro,
leave me alone.

Speaker 3 (01:24:09):
You a bad day and you text that nigga, who's good?

Speaker 6 (01:24:11):
You get a little, a little happier.

Speaker 7 (01:24:14):
No, it's like, look at if I'm if I'm texting
the one that makes me happy and I'm sitting next
to the one I'm cheating.

Speaker 5 (01:24:20):
I'm I'm gonna be here with a screw face.

Speaker 6 (01:24:29):
That's what I always felt like I was the person
to look forward to, so I never I.

Speaker 2 (01:24:33):
Don't know what I thought.

Speaker 5 (01:24:35):
She was being.

Speaker 1 (01:24:38):
Given vacation.

Speaker 6 (01:24:39):
Yeah, it's great to be vacation.

Speaker 3 (01:24:41):
Don't nobody want to be the fucking.

Speaker 1 (01:24:42):
All right, but listen, unfortunately this has to come to see.
This wasn't so bad.

Speaker 6 (01:24:47):
Pretty bad.

Speaker 3 (01:24:48):
I'm going to go back at this.

Speaker 1 (01:24:49):
Stop it and London. Are you going to do a
stand up special? Because I know you come from stand
up You open for Chris Tucker early on in your career,
and you've.

Speaker 2 (01:25:00):
Yeah, I want to I want to do something, but
this show is just so demanding.

Speaker 8 (01:25:03):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:25:03):
So, I mean, you know, even just working clubs out here,
I got to clothes to try to you know, I
may get a call from my friend say, you know,
come pull up this, which I swapped our schedules around,
so it's kind of hard to work work the clubs here.
So but yeah, I like to do some stuff. Man.
I've been working on some material already, so I just
got to line it up and see, you know, because
this show, like I said's demanding and it's all over
the place. We don't even know it's just but yeah,

(01:25:25):
that's in the workstead of being.

Speaker 1 (01:25:26):
Works all right. Good and Malcolm, we got to talk about,
you know, congratulations and the success of your obviously the
song with Little Baby really went crazy though. Nice you
you know, so congratulations on that. It's not luck and
that's a fact. It's not luck. It's independent. You did
this on your own. How was Paris, by the way,
this was great.

Speaker 3 (01:25:46):
London was great.

Speaker 6 (01:25:47):
I spoke at Cambridge out there on on anti recidivism
and imprisonment and transformative justice, which is near and dear
to my heart. And they hosted it at Oxford as well,
so that was dope. And then Brent had a show
and you know, I worked on that album, so we
did the pair of show. We didn't on the show. Yeah,
so it was it was all good things, man, So
you know, I want to keep doing my work and

(01:26:08):
it's fun man, you know.

Speaker 1 (01:26:09):
And in the song I'm not like you talk about
how this is like you're living your dreams and sometimes
you have to feel like is this real?

Speaker 3 (01:26:17):
Damn, that's crazy.

Speaker 1 (01:26:18):
You know you might do this?

Speaker 6 (01:26:22):
That touched me a little bit.

Speaker 3 (01:26:23):
I ain't gonna lie, but it's.

Speaker 1 (01:26:24):
A fact like congratulations because you are really like honestly
from when we first met to see everything and all
of the success that you have. But just it keeps
going up and that's what we want in life, like
every year to do better than we did the year before.

Speaker 3 (01:26:37):
Yeah, that's more.

Speaker 6 (01:26:37):
I'm probably gonna do a feature soon, oh about probably
about you know, transformative justice and stuff. So that's that's
my next big thing.

Speaker 1 (01:26:44):
Yeah, okay, all right, good, Well we're here to support.
Hopefully they don't hear this and be like, no, kiddy,
you know, I'll.

Speaker 6 (01:26:53):
Be moving independence so I can say what the I
want to say.

Speaker 1 (01:26:55):
Yeah, absolutely, and we love that for you because I
don't think it could happen any other way. But Malcolm's underground.
Thank y'all so much for joining us. I know you
guys have so much fun when y'all are working on
raising Canaan, so it has to be here. Yeah, you
said any time, right, whenever you're avail.

Speaker 6 (01:27:11):
I hate that.

Speaker 3 (01:27:11):
I'm loyal to y'all niggas.

Speaker 6 (01:27:12):
But I'm here all right.

Speaker 1 (01:27:14):
We appreciate it. I feel like you're good today.

Speaker 6 (01:27:16):
Nothing too crazy, nothing crazy I learned.

Speaker 2 (01:27:24):
I like listen, But my life is this. This is
what I talk about ivena earlier.

Speaker 1 (01:27:29):
You see that you don't like a girl to hear
for the white two period.

Speaker 2 (01:27:32):
You know what it's not?

Speaker 1 (01:27:34):
You said, thinking like, why.

Speaker 6 (01:27:36):
Is she so good? You know what.

Speaker 1 (01:27:40):
I mean, she hasn't practice.

Speaker 7 (01:27:42):
I honestly, I mean to know we're closing out the show.
But I honestly think the more experience you have, the better.

Speaker 1 (01:27:49):
You think that about women, too, right, The more experienced
she has, the better.

Speaker 2 (01:27:52):
So the thing about it is when it comes to
even with that is a lot of times women don't
they don't want to be with a guy they're trying
to teach. They're already growing. They're not trying to show
the dude how to he would like the guy to
be ready. But for a guy, guys kindn't mind like
an amateur learning and getting there and showing her how
to do exactly.

Speaker 7 (01:28:13):
But I honestly, you know, for the women who are listening,
I think that that men find it sexy, and I
think it's sexy to to get directions like oh how
where Oh like that, I think everybody or even if.

Speaker 2 (01:28:27):
The woman plays like that to that guy's ego ego
because a lot of people again, a lot of times
women say, you know, I ain't playing no games. Were
too grown. I'm like, you better learn to play the games.
The game. One of the games is this. The woman
knows right, Women know that when they see a guy,

(01:28:48):
if she's gonna sleeve with him, if she gonna give
him a shot. And the women already got cool, we
give you that power. You got the power of saying
I'm gonna give that guy some But there's also something
within a woman that makes her when she knows how
to make that guy feel like whatever he whatever he
whipped up worked. That's just knowing how to stroke the
guy's ego. Ultimately, even when it comes to you know,

(01:29:10):
God suggesting things for women to wear, and a woman said,
I'm not gonna have a man control me. But I'm like,
this is the dope thing about that. I'm like when
the guy, he would say, hey, baby, you know what,
it'd be really nice if you showed up and you
wore this to dinner, really y'all like you in the
heels and that, and someone can appreciate a nigga telling
them like, yo, put this and put that, especially he
can dress right. But then also when she wears that

(01:29:31):
sexy fit, you know, if the guy can everybody, every
guy's not comfortable. He worried about the guys looking. But
if he's comfortable and he ever wear that sexy whatever,
that's your top and the lace whatever, I'm like, all
of that creates a nice night of tension, flirty energy.
And guess what, at the end of the night, all
that lust, full of bitterness energy that they've been exchanging

(01:29:51):
over dinner, it goes right back into her. So it's
not about him trying to control what she wears. She's
creating some energy that she's gonna be able to you
feel at the end of the night. It's for her.
But if but again, that guy has to be comfortable
because a lot of guys don't like the woman. I
like the woman be dulled up.

Speaker 7 (01:30:08):
Yes, And some girls will think that a man wants
them to dress a little sunny and and and the
guy wants him to be classy. So I feel like
having a man suggests what he likes for his woman
to wear is really nice.

Speaker 5 (01:30:24):
I love.

Speaker 7 (01:30:29):
When I'm in a relationship. I like for my man
to dictake my clothes so I don't bother you. You
don't got to give me no ship. You don't want
me to wear that?

Speaker 5 (01:30:35):
Cool? Thanks for telling me I won't wear it.

Speaker 2 (01:30:39):
That's why you better stop playing with her. I'm about
to her.

Speaker 5 (01:30:46):
Whatever.

Speaker 1 (01:30:48):
All right, but this is our second ending, all right?
My last question, do you believe it when a girl
tells you this is the guest I ever had? Your
is so big she's saying or you think she's just saying.

Speaker 5 (01:31:03):
Do you think she's lying?

Speaker 1 (01:31:05):
And that if the girl really likes the guy, she'll
say that, right, and do you believe it?

Speaker 7 (01:31:12):
You know what?

Speaker 2 (01:31:13):
What's interesting? The only thing a go this, only thing
a guy can really go off of, I think, is
how often he hears it and how often the return
is when he'll start to know. Like when he called,
does she start moving stuff around, she find a babysity
to get the house clear? Then you when he called,
she does she slid.

Speaker 5 (01:31:35):
But I don't think that has to do with size.
I think that has to do with the whole experience.

Speaker 2 (01:31:38):
If you're not.

Speaker 6 (01:31:42):
Remember, I don't care to make people feel like like
like certain niggas make women feel extra comfortable so that
you'll move around for them even if they're inadequate.

Speaker 3 (01:31:49):
In other ways, I'm very honest with you.

Speaker 6 (01:31:52):
I'm gonna treat you like regular human, So I don't
you're not moving it around for me unless the digs great, like,
and I make it that.

Speaker 1 (01:32:00):
That all the time.

Speaker 6 (01:32:01):
Well, I've been complimented in ways, and I feel like
it's just been unanimous in certain ways. But like women
who don't even like me as a human when I
was younger, like they didn't even like me, but they
so at some point that that's how That's the only
way I knew, right, because why else are you here?

Speaker 3 (01:32:17):
You don't even enjoy me as a human? You're not
these women they was not low.

Speaker 1 (01:32:27):
Human.

Speaker 3 (01:32:28):
Yeah, you don't even like me.

Speaker 5 (01:32:29):
As a human.

Speaker 7 (01:32:29):
You're here for I feel like if I'm gonna say
that the dick is big, it's because it's really big,
and it's like.

Speaker 4 (01:32:36):
I need you to chill, right, that's a that's another's
conversation after like like or the sex is too long, like, bro,
you're fucking me too long?

Speaker 6 (01:32:47):
Like we got to if I'm got so.

Speaker 5 (01:32:51):
Big, it's not because I like it, it's just much
I'm happy about this. It's because they're the problem, like crazy.

Speaker 2 (01:33:00):
Are having six by way of ego, and so they
just heard about I'm like, is it, bro? Do you
want to enjoy this or are you trying to?

Speaker 5 (01:33:09):
Because if it will die, it's like what you're.

Speaker 6 (01:33:12):
Trying to do.

Speaker 2 (01:33:13):
It's a fine balance of you making your mark but.

Speaker 1 (01:33:18):
Making your mark. When guys are younger, they like to
hurt you, but as you get older.

Speaker 6 (01:33:25):
This is why, this is why there are some forms
I think of mentorship from older people, like with women
that like I didn't learn like that. I learned the
different ways, so I don't be able to walk.

Speaker 1 (01:33:37):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:33:38):
Also, if a god doing that, you come out right.
If a guy's have a lot of times palls and
all this, but if the guys haven't rabbit six, then
that means he can't go with a slower stroke because
he's gonna be out. So he got to stay in
there and move if he got some eat you this

(01:34:01):
that's the truth.

Speaker 5 (01:34:04):
Never talked that. What you're saying, just saying guys like
they want to hear the sexy rap bow bow bow.

Speaker 3 (01:34:18):
You can hear that from moisture. You can hear that
from all types of things.

Speaker 7 (01:34:21):
Like but when a guy is trying to really hurt you,
he's trying to slam on your ship, it's horrible.

Speaker 1 (01:34:28):
Lapping the experience.

Speaker 6 (01:34:31):
That's that's right, it's crazy, Like I get it, But
like no ship you.

Speaker 7 (01:34:39):
Were talking about in the beginning, when when when you
start a problem, he's mad, he's trying to funk your
ship up, and it's like, bro, this is painful.

Speaker 6 (01:34:47):
There are instances where you where you slapped her a
little harder on the ass than you. That's good pain,
that's what you say.

Speaker 2 (01:34:53):
It's got to be pleasurable.

Speaker 6 (01:34:56):
In between the orgasms clitical stimulation, and then you know
you can't just be in here just fool.

Speaker 1 (01:35:02):
But if a girl slaps you.

Speaker 6 (01:35:04):
I had a girl like a fucking Dominican damn, I know.
But like Dominican women are fucking crazy, bro. I swear
to God, I love them dearly, but they are nuts.
That's the only woman I've ever had tried to choke me,
and I was like, what are you doing? Bro?

Speaker 5 (01:35:19):
I was when you were guys, but it was like
mid just sex.

Speaker 1 (01:35:26):
Or was it music.

Speaker 6 (01:35:26):
And by the way, I'm not like I can tell that.

Speaker 1 (01:35:30):
I was like, because restriction can air, restriction can increase
the intensity of it.

Speaker 6 (01:35:36):
I'm sure you.

Speaker 3 (01:35:38):
And you say it like something that should be done.

Speaker 1 (01:35:41):
And I hear that's what it's called. But I feel like,
in the heat of the moment, you're not supposed to
stop her from that.

Speaker 6 (01:35:51):
With it. No, I said, I'll do whatever you want
me to do. Don't be doing it to me.

Speaker 2 (01:35:56):
But that's what every experience with what a different partner
is new. That's why women would that's a ridiculous question.
And I don't not to knock them, but a lot
of women just don't know. They'll say, well, what's your
favorite position. I'm like, all that is different depending on
the body weight, how tall she is, and how she moved.
Doggy Star might work for this one, and then on
top may work for her. There's no set kit, because

(01:36:18):
if there's no set kit, if the guy has a
range of what he kind of deals with, if the
guy is only sticking to something like this, then he
might have us locked in. But that guy's dealing with
thicker women, shorter women, taller women, Asian in this and
that it's a different you can't you gotta adjust to
whatever that situation scenario. Yeah, because every woman can't take

(01:36:39):
what they heard. This other thing with somebody was like
they said, smaller women take.

Speaker 1 (01:36:48):
What you mean.

Speaker 2 (01:36:56):
I disagree, Short and high.

Speaker 1 (01:37:00):
We gotta go. We gotta go because we got the session.
We'll do this again. We need a part two because
we want to be on White Tea talk with you.
But again, Malcolm London, thank y'all so much as we
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