January 10, 2024 • 13 mins
Dear Steve and Shirley, I caught my husband on the phone with a female reminiscing about the sex they had earlier that day. I tried to control my laughter so he wouldn't hear me. I was cracking up inside because the girl was talking about how he put it down and it was the best she had in a long time. She sounded young, so I wondered how many men she'd been with. I was very relieved to hear that they used protection..............................
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time now for my Strawberry Letter. And if
you need advice and relationships, work, sex, parenting and more,
please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve BARVIFM dot com
and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your
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Speaker 2 (00:21):
It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.
We got it for you here it is Strawberry Letters.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Thank you, nep you subject the motion of the Ocean.
Dear Stephen Shirley. I caught my husband on the phone
with a female reminiscing about the sex they had earlier
that day. I tried to control my laughter so he
wouldn't hear me. I was cracking up inside because the
girl was talking about how he put it down and
it was the best she had in a long time.
(00:48):
She sounded young, so I wondered how many men she'd
been with. I was very relieved to hear that they
used protection. Yet I sat on the floor in the
hall to hear every word of it. Yes, I sat
in the hall on the floor to hear every word
of it. It was a FaceTime call, but I couldn't
see her face. I made it my mission to find
(01:08):
out who the lady was. I got her number from
his phone, and I FaceTime her from his phone when
he was asleep. She was shocked to see me. I
showed her how he looks asleep, lying there, fat and naked.
She opened up and told me everything and apologized. I
asked why she lied to him about his performance, because
it's only going to make him cheat even more. She says,
(01:30):
it's not the size for her, but it's the motion
of the ocean that has her turned on. I knew
that she was lying about that too, and then she
really opened up and told me that my husband pays
her for sex. What kind of marriage is this where
he's not just cheating on me, he's paying for it.
I can get past the cheating, but he has given
(01:53):
this woman close to two thousand dollars from our family's
pot of gold. I am finally ready to tell my
husband to get out, but the lady has stopped cooperating
with me. I guess the motion of the ocean is
better to her than doing what's right. Should I file
for divorce or tell him I know everything and see
what he has to say for himself. What is it
(02:15):
that you that you want him to say? I mean,
you have all the evidence you need to make a
rational decision. I agree with you that cheating is bad enough,
but yes, your husband is taking your family's money, your money,
money that you've worked for, and paying another woman for sex.
I mean he's violated so many marital rules. Then you
(02:35):
ask the question, should you file for divorce or let
him know that you know everything and see what he
has to say for himself. Sounds a little code like
you really don't want to divorce him or something, because
if you want out, I mean you're laughing, you know,
when you hear him talking about having sex with another woman,
you don't have to have to ask Steve and I
(02:56):
what to do. I mean, anyway, your husband already knows,
you know, the young girl told him everything. So does
it really matter what he says at this point? I mean,
once you file divorce papers. If you file, he'll have
a lot to say then for sure, and he'll start
with buy Steve.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Oh, I don't even know how the letter is titled
the Motion of the Ocean. I don't know what they
got to do with it, but I guess she tried
to make a point of it. I caught my husband
on the phone with a female. Now that right there,
that right there alone would be so damn detrimental. They
(03:41):
were reminiscing about the sex they had earlier that day.
I had to control my laughter so he wouldn't hear me.
I was cracking up inside because the girl was talking
about how he had put it down and it was
the best she's had in a long time. She sounded young,
so I wondered how many men she been with. I
was very relieved to hear that they used protection. Yes,
(04:04):
I sat on the floor in the hall to hear
every word of it, and it was a FaceTime called.
But I couldn't see her face. Wait a minute, what
I don't even understand this. This is how you reacted
to the news that your husband had just had sex
earlier that day with a woman, and they was on
the phone facetim and this was your reaction. You sat
(04:27):
in the flow laughing. Ain't but one thing obvious to me.
You don't give a damn about this man right here.
You stop caring about what he thought, said or felt
a long time ago. You hear they having sex and
you sitting in the floor laughing. Ha ha he yeah,
(04:49):
most women would have toe that damn doe down. It
would have been some hell to pay man anyway. I
guess you just don't care about the man anyway. But
I couldn't see her face, so I made it my
mission to find out who this lady was. Now we talking. See,
(05:12):
Now this is how normal people react to their spouse.
Cheek okay. I got her number from his phone and
I face timed her from his phone when he was asleep.
She was shocked to see me. I showed her how
he looks asleep, laying that fat and naked.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
God damp, oh God.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Then she opened up and told me everything and apologized what.
I asked her why she lied to him about his performing,
because it's only gonna make him cheat even more. She said,
it ain't the size for her, but it's the motion
of the ocean that has her turned on. I knew
she was lying about that too, and she really opened
up and told me that my husband pays her for sex.
(06:02):
You done had this whole conversation. Then guess what this
lady said? What kind of marriage is this? Well, he's
not just cheating on me? He's paying for it. You
got to get a side piece, some money. This has
how this worked, That's really what is you shocked about?
(06:26):
You shocked that he paying her money two thousand from
our family pot of gold.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
I hang on, Steve, I know this letter right here.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
I don't even know how to help.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
I know.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
All right.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at
twenty three minutes after the hour of today's Strawberry Letter,
subject the motion of the Ocean. We'll get back into
it right after this. You're listening morning show. All right, Steve,
here we go with this letter. Let's recap. All right,
let's all right.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Lady just been married to this man. She found out
she was cheating up. He was cheating on her because
she overheard a conversation he was having on the phone
with a girl he had just had sex with earlier
that day, and they were going over how it was.
The woman was listening to this sitting on the floor,
and was laughing at the whole thing because she thought
(07:21):
it was funny because the girl was lying to the
man talking about how good he was, and she know
he ain't that good, and it was funny to her.
And but now they was facetiming, so she couldn't see.
So she made it her mission to find out who
this young girl was. So while the man was sleep,
she picked up his phone called the girl. The girl
(07:42):
was shocked to see this woman on the other end
of the phone, but the woman showed her her husband
laying the fat and naked and asleep, and then asked
her why she cheated with her husband, he said, She said,
it ain't the size, it's the motion of the ocean
that has her turn. So she says she knowing about
the line too. So then the girl went on and
(08:04):
apologized and everything. But then they kept talking and the
girl finally informed the wife that he pays her for sex.
Now he would have let it get real interested, she says,
opened up and told me that her husband pays for sex.
What kind of marriage is this? Well, he's not just
cheating on me, he's paying for it. That's the part.
(08:31):
That's the part. You don't think the side he's supposed
to get, no, nothing, just and but it don't stop there.
Her next line was I can get past the cheating. Okay,
that's a good one. Right here, This is a good
(08:52):
wife right here, laughing when she found out about it,
sitting in the floor cracking up. And now she say
I can get past the sheat Really that's a new one.
But he has given this woman close to two thousand
from our family pot of gold. Now I'm finally ready
to tell my husband to get out, but the lady
(09:15):
has stopped cooperating with me. What you say you're close
to ready to telling your husband to get out, but
the lady has stopped cooperating with me? How much more
damn cooperation you need?
Speaker 1 (09:32):
What?
Speaker 2 (09:33):
What do you think she gonna make a good witness?
I mean, the lady doesn't stop cooperating. What they got
to do with anything? You ain't heard? You heard the conversation.
You the facetimed the woman. You know who she is.
She thene told you everything, and now she didn't told
you that your husband two thousand. You thinking about leaving,
(09:54):
But the girl doesn't stop cooperating with me, And Shirley
said it best. The young girl then told your husband
that he got a call from you. You can believe
that he on pins and needle. He can't believe me.
They saw so guess what he doing. He ain't saying nothing.
He just said the house scared to death. He's scared
(10:16):
to death. The fact that she said, I guess the
motion of the ocean is better to her than doing
what's right. Should I file for divorce or tell him
I know everything? He already know you know everything? See
here the crazy part in this letter. She know the
dude was cheating. She done talked to the girl that
he was cheating with. She done facetimed the girl. The
(10:39):
girl on the FaceTime he saw, she saw who the
girl was and showed her her fat naked husband sleep
in the bed while they discussed him. Wow, everybody, And
then the young girl hung up. And the next day
you better believe she called him and said, guess who
called me? Now he going simply you're wife, as she facetiming,
(11:08):
and she showed me you laying in the bedsleep nicked.
And I told her everything? What you told her? What?
Because right now he trying to figure out how he
gonna just weave the part that he don't even know her.
But now they done face timed and talked, so now
that I don't even know her what you told her? What?
(11:28):
I told her everything? What you mean you told her everything?
I told her that you paid for it. Do you
know this man ain't getting no sleep? So now she's saying,
should I file for divorce or tell him I know
everything and see what he has to say for himself. Lady,
that's gonna be the most uninteresting conversation you've ever had,
(11:51):
because you already know all the facts. Shirley's right, you're
not going nowhere because you done created any excuse as
to why you can't go. I don't know where because
you say the girl don't stop cooperating with you. I
don't know what they got to do with anything, what
that got to do with the price or rice. But
if that's your excuse for staying with him, then just
stay with your husband. You already said you can get
(12:12):
past the cheating. If you can get past the cheating,
you can get past the two thousand dollars. All he
gotta do is put it back. You the most go
long way person I don't ever met. I don't even
know why we talking to you. I ain't going nowhere.
You like fat boy. Everybody else like fat Boy, So
(12:33):
I don't know what to tell you, Lady dumb. I'm
so dumk and confused about this. Right here, y'all don't
have a real marriage. You think him sleeping with this
other girl's funny. Yeah, this letter is confusing.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
It is he did you care?
Speaker 2 (12:47):
You don't care.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
I don't think she cares.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
All right.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Leave your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram at
Steve HARBYFM, and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast and
the free iHeartRadio app. Coming up next, it is Sports
Talk with Junior. Junior, I know you have a lot
to talk about today. Uh huh, we'll get into it
right after this. You're listening Hard Morning Show
It is time now for my Strawberry Letter. And if
you need advice and relationships, work, sex, parenting and more,
please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve BARVIFM dot com
and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your
letter live on the air, just like we're going to
read this one right here, right now, and you never know,
it could be yours.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.
We got it for you here it is Strawberry Letters.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Thank you, nep you subject the motion of the Ocean.
Dear Stephen Shirley. I caught my husband on the phone
with a female reminiscing about the sex they had earlier
that day. I tried to control my laughter so he
wouldn't hear me. I was cracking up inside because the
girl was talking about how he put it down and
it was the best she had in a long time.
(00:48):
She sounded young, so I wondered how many men she'd
been with. I was very relieved to hear that they
used protection. Yet I sat on the floor in the
hall to hear every word of it. Yes, I sat
in the hall on the floor to hear every word
of it. It was a FaceTime call, but I couldn't
see her face. I made it my mission to find
(01:08):
out who the lady was. I got her number from
his phone, and I FaceTime her from his phone when
he was asleep. She was shocked to see me. I
showed her how he looks asleep, lying there, fat and naked.
She opened up and told me everything and apologized. I
asked why she lied to him about his performance, because
it's only going to make him cheat even more. She says,
(01:30):
it's not the size for her, but it's the motion
of the ocean that has her turned on. I knew
that she was lying about that too, and then she
really opened up and told me that my husband pays
her for sex. What kind of marriage is this where
he's not just cheating on me, he's paying for it.
I can get past the cheating, but he has given
(01:53):
this woman close to two thousand dollars from our family's
pot of gold. I am finally ready to tell my
husband to get out, but the lady has stopped cooperating
with me. I guess the motion of the ocean is
better to her than doing what's right. Should I file
for divorce or tell him I know everything and see
what he has to say for himself. What is it
(02:15):
that you that you want him to say? I mean,
you have all the evidence you need to make a
rational decision. I agree with you that cheating is bad enough,
but yes, your husband is taking your family's money, your money,
money that you've worked for, and paying another woman for sex.
I mean he's violated so many marital rules. Then you
(02:35):
ask the question, should you file for divorce or let
him know that you know everything and see what he
has to say for himself. Sounds a little code like
you really don't want to divorce him or something, because
if you want out, I mean you're laughing, you know,
when you hear him talking about having sex with another woman,
you don't have to have to ask Steve and I
(02:56):
what to do. I mean, anyway, your husband already knows,
you know, the young girl told him everything. So does
it really matter what he says at this point? I mean,
once you file divorce papers. If you file, he'll have
a lot to say then for sure, and he'll start
with buy Steve.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Oh, I don't even know how the letter is titled
the Motion of the Ocean. I don't know what they
got to do with it, but I guess she tried
to make a point of it. I caught my husband
on the phone with a female. Now that right there,
that right there alone would be so damn detrimental. They
(03:41):
were reminiscing about the sex they had earlier that day.
I had to control my laughter so he wouldn't hear me.
I was cracking up inside because the girl was talking
about how he had put it down and it was
the best she's had in a long time. She sounded young,
so I wondered how many men she been with. I
was very relieved to hear that they used protection. Yes,
(04:04):
I sat on the floor in the hall to hear
every word of it, and it was a FaceTime called.
But I couldn't see her face. Wait a minute, what
I don't even understand this. This is how you reacted
to the news that your husband had just had sex
earlier that day with a woman, and they was on
the phone facetim and this was your reaction. You sat
(04:27):
in the flow laughing. Ain't but one thing obvious to me.
You don't give a damn about this man right here.
You stop caring about what he thought, said or felt
a long time ago. You hear they having sex and
you sitting in the floor laughing. Ha ha he yeah,
(04:49):
most women would have toe that damn doe down. It
would have been some hell to pay man anyway. I
guess you just don't care about the man anyway. But
I couldn't see her face, so I made it my
mission to find out who this lady was. Now we talking. See,
(05:12):
Now this is how normal people react to their spouse.
Cheek okay. I got her number from his phone and
I face timed her from his phone when he was asleep.
She was shocked to see me. I showed her how
he looks asleep, laying that fat and naked.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
God damp, oh God.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Then she opened up and told me everything and apologized what.
I asked her why she lied to him about his performing,
because it's only gonna make him cheat even more. She said,
it ain't the size for her, but it's the motion
of the ocean that has her turned on. I knew
she was lying about that too, and she really opened
up and told me that my husband pays her for sex.
(06:02):
You done had this whole conversation. Then guess what this
lady said? What kind of marriage is this? Well, he's
not just cheating on me? He's paying for it. You
got to get a side piece, some money. This has
how this worked, That's really what is you shocked about?
(06:26):
You shocked that he paying her money two thousand from
our family pot of gold.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
I hang on, Steve, I know this letter right here.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
I don't even know how to help.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
I know.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
All right.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at
twenty three minutes after the hour of today's Strawberry Letter,
subject the motion of the Ocean. We'll get back into
it right after this. You're listening morning show. All right, Steve,
here we go with this letter. Let's recap. All right,
let's all right.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Lady just been married to this man. She found out
she was cheating up. He was cheating on her because
she overheard a conversation he was having on the phone
with a girl he had just had sex with earlier
that day, and they were going over how it was.
The woman was listening to this sitting on the floor,
and was laughing at the whole thing because she thought
(07:21):
it was funny because the girl was lying to the
man talking about how good he was, and she know
he ain't that good, and it was funny to her.
And but now they was facetiming, so she couldn't see.
So she made it her mission to find out who
this young girl was. So while the man was sleep,
she picked up his phone called the girl. The girl
(07:42):
was shocked to see this woman on the other end
of the phone, but the woman showed her her husband
laying the fat and naked and asleep, and then asked
her why she cheated with her husband, he said, She said,
it ain't the size, it's the motion of the ocean
that has her turn. So she says she knowing about
the line too. So then the girl went on and
(08:04):
apologized and everything. But then they kept talking and the
girl finally informed the wife that he pays her for sex.
Now he would have let it get real interested, she says,
opened up and told me that her husband pays for sex.
What kind of marriage is this? Well, he's not just
cheating on me, he's paying for it. That's the part.
(08:31):
That's the part. You don't think the side he's supposed
to get, no, nothing, just and but it don't stop there.
Her next line was I can get past the cheating. Okay,
that's a good one. Right here, This is a good
(08:52):
wife right here, laughing when she found out about it,
sitting in the floor cracking up. And now she say
I can get past the sheat Really that's a new one.
But he has given this woman close to two thousand
from our family pot of gold. Now I'm finally ready
to tell my husband to get out, but the lady
(09:15):
has stopped cooperating with me. What you say you're close
to ready to telling your husband to get out, but
the lady has stopped cooperating with me? How much more
damn cooperation you need?
Speaker 1 (09:32):
What?
Speaker 2 (09:33):
What do you think she gonna make a good witness?
I mean, the lady doesn't stop cooperating. What they got
to do with anything? You ain't heard? You heard the conversation.
You the facetimed the woman. You know who she is.
She thene told you everything, and now she didn't told
you that your husband two thousand. You thinking about leaving,
(09:54):
But the girl doesn't stop cooperating with me, And Shirley
said it best. The young girl then told your husband
that he got a call from you. You can believe
that he on pins and needle. He can't believe me.
They saw so guess what he doing. He ain't saying nothing.
He just said the house scared to death. He's scared
(10:16):
to death. The fact that she said, I guess the
motion of the ocean is better to her than doing
what's right. Should I file for divorce or tell him
I know everything? He already know you know everything? See
here the crazy part in this letter. She know the
dude was cheating. She done talked to the girl that
he was cheating with. She done facetimed the girl. The
(10:39):
girl on the FaceTime he saw, she saw who the
girl was and showed her her fat naked husband sleep
in the bed while they discussed him. Wow, everybody, And
then the young girl hung up. And the next day
you better believe she called him and said, guess who
called me? Now he going simply you're wife, as she facetiming,
(11:08):
and she showed me you laying in the bedsleep nicked.
And I told her everything? What you told her? What?
Because right now he trying to figure out how he
gonna just weave the part that he don't even know her.
But now they done face timed and talked, so now
that I don't even know her what you told her? What?
(11:28):
I told her everything? What you mean you told her everything?
I told her that you paid for it. Do you
know this man ain't getting no sleep? So now she's saying,
should I file for divorce or tell him I know
everything and see what he has to say for himself. Lady,
that's gonna be the most uninteresting conversation you've ever had,
(11:51):
because you already know all the facts. Shirley's right, you're
not going nowhere because you done created any excuse as
to why you can't go. I don't know where because
you say the girl don't stop cooperating with you. I
don't know what they got to do with anything, what
that got to do with the price or rice. But
if that's your excuse for staying with him, then just
stay with your husband. You already said you can get
(12:12):
past the cheating. If you can get past the cheating,
you can get past the two thousand dollars. All he
gotta do is put it back. You the most go
long way person I don't ever met. I don't even
know why we talking to you. I ain't going nowhere.
You like fat boy. Everybody else like fat Boy, So
(12:33):
I don't know what to tell you, Lady dumb. I'm
so dumk and confused about this. Right here, y'all don't
have a real marriage. You think him sleeping with this
other girl's funny. Yeah, this letter is confusing.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
It is he did you care?
Speaker 2 (12:47):
You don't care.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
I don't think she cares.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
All right.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Leave your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram at
Steve HARBYFM, and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast and
the free iHeartRadio app. Coming up next, it is Sports
Talk with Junior. Junior, I know you have a lot
to talk about today. Uh huh, we'll get into it
right after this. You're listening Hard Morning Show
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