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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 1 (00:28):
Thank you nephew. Subject why would he cheat on her?
And admit it? Dear Stephen Shirley. I started messing with
the man that lives next to me. He was in
a long distance relationship, so we started messing around out
of boredom. I'm separated from my husband, so it was
helping me out, and it was convenient. His girlfriend has
moved to town and she's always at his house, so
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we can't spend as much time together as we used to.
I went out and I met a man at karaoke
night and he came back to my place. One thing
led to another and we had sex, and I mean
it was good too. I must have been too loud
because I heard banging on the wall. I kept going
because I knew it was the guy next door, and
I had hoped it was making him jealous. The next day,
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my neighbor's girlfriend came up to me, and as I
was leaving, she told me that I was very loud
last night, and she politely asked if I could keep
it down. I asked her if it were her woke
her man up because she doesn't live there. She said
he was irritated even more than she was. I started
to tell her why he was irritated, but I didn't.
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My karaoke guy came over again, and I was as
loud as I needed to be. Again. I heard the
banging on the wall, but I didn't care because I
pay the rent in here. My neighbor's girl stuck a
note in my door saying that I was being rude again.
I knocked on their door and told her that she
doesn't live there. She said, if I keep disturbing them,
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she will tell my husband. That could affect my divorce.
So I was shocked. I was shook. No, I was shocked.
She was shook. She was shook and shocked it is
She said she knows all about me and the sloppy sex.
How could my neighbor cheat on her and then tell
her all about it? Should I find somewhere new to live? Yes? This, Yes,
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you need to move. No one told you to start
messing around with him in the first place. This is
not what the Lord meant when he said love thy neighbor. Okay,
this is not it. And don't ignore her threats, especially
if you don't want your husband to find out. Now
she politely asked you the first time. Don't think if
she's bold enough to confront you and then put a
note under your door and she doesn't even live there,
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that she won't tell. She knows you've been sleeping with
her man. She doesn't like you, and what you and
your neighbor had is over. You need to realize that
his girlfriend is here now, so let that go. You
need to sit down. Anyway, you're married, you've been sleeping
with your neighbor, and now you have a new boyfriend.
That's a whole lot. No judgment though, I'm not judging you.
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But you've got you've got a lot going on, okay,
and you've gotten away with a whole lot, so you
should be happy about that and sit down somewhere. Don't
be worried about what other people doing are doing. Figure
out your own life. Tommy, you gonna.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Quit all this holly Okay, you're gonna quit all this holly.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
Now.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Here's the first thing. You gotta understand that you've done
a great thing. You found you go to carry Okay,
Carryoki got you a man, a good man. That's where
you found him at You gotta look at the bright
side of what carryok has done for you. Do you
know from this from this letter? Do you know how
many people now gonna be going down there saying that carryoke?
They gonna be there because they think they gonna find
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them in It's gonna have them holling all night. Do
you know what I mean? People gonna be going to karaoke.
It's a lot of folks gonna be running down there
to carryokee Oh my lord, let me find me your song,
cause I'm finna find me missed right up in here.
It's gonna happen because they think because of listening to
your letter, that's where you find a good man who're
gonna make love all night and do all this.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Holland. Now, let's fix this, Holland. That's our problem.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
You're gonna have to sound proof your loving you really
are listen, I need you to get in the basement
somewhere with this. I need you to get a particular
room in the house and get it. Fix it, like
as a music studio. Let's just let's pass these rooms.
You need to be somewhere where there can't nobody to
hear you with all this holland. We got to stop that.
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Your holland is affecting a lot. And yes, the man
next door, you know what you was doing. You know
what you was doing. He was trying to get up
under his skin. And the more he beat on that wall,
the more holland you did. I've been in a situation
similar to this right here, so I understand what was
going on. Okay, wow, okay, okay, okay, you know what.
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I don't mind telling the story, even though I lose
at the end, I don't mind telling the story. But
this was this was calling you was It was one
of the week, one of those one of those New Year's.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
He's performing in.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Houston, right me, said daldoncle We're performing in Houston. So
me and Jackie decide we're gonna stay close to the venue.
This is on the other side of town in Houston.
We decide we're gonna stay in at a hotel close
to the venue. So, you know, it's New Year's Eve.
The show is, the show is. Oh, it's New Year's Eve.
You know what you do on New Year's e Okay.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
So so we get off the elevator. When we get
off the elevator, it's a young couple.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
He and his He about twenty three, twenty four, little
young dude, you know what I'm saying. So I speak
to him, what some young buck, how you doing? He hey, hey, hey,
it's a timing wow.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
So they going the boy.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
So they go in their room. They go in their room.
We go in our room, you know. And of course
it's New Year's Eve. Everybody getting busy, so you know,
I can hear them, they can hear us, you know,
and I'm hearing the head board. I'm like, hey, okay,
not no, young buck, ain't trying to outdo me.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Oh it's a competition. Now, it's a competition.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
So let's just say I tuckered out a little quicker
than the young guy.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Okay, loss, loss, Jackie laughing at me.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
You're trying to hang with this. What is going on here?
What is this competition? You trying to compete with the
young boy?
Speaker 2 (06:19):
And then the next morning we get ready to lead hotel,
we check it out and then uh, the little dude
gonna pay him?
Speaker 3 (06:24):
What's up? Old g I said, you go to hell?
You go straight to hell.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
It makes me look bad.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
Got me looking bad up in here. It's old he's been.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Moving all right, if you thank you, We're gonna have
part two of the Strawberry Letter coming up at twenty
three minutes after the hour. The subject is why would
he cheat on her? And admit it? We'll hear from
Junior right after this.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
But I'm getting better, though, I'm getting better.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
You're listening hard Morning Show. All right, it's time now
to recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject is why would
he cheat on her and admit it? This is from
a woman who wrote us and said that she started
messing around with the man who lives next door to her,
so her neighbor. He was in a long distance relationship,
so he had a lot of time on his hands.
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She's getting a divorce and she lives alone, so she
has a lot of time on her hands. They kind
of got together out of boredom. She separated from her
husband before the divorce, so she said it was convenient.
They were bored, it was convenient. But then his girlfriend
moved to town and she's always at his house. So
now miss neighbor can't get with her neighbor because his
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girlfriend is in town. Now she moved to town. So
she's a little salty about that. She's mad about that.
So she went out to karaoke and met a man,
and she brought him back home. One thing led to another,
and they eventually had sex, and she said it was
really good. And when they were doing it, it got
real loud, real loud, real loud, and the neighbors started
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banging on the wall because it was too loud. Keep that,
you know, calm it down, calm it down. So then
that only made her get louder because she was trying
to make her neighbor whose girlfriend just moved to town, jealous. Well,
the next day, the girlfriend just politely asked her, can
you keep it down? We could hear everything, you know,
if you don't mind. She was nice about it. That
made her even madder, so she went and did it
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again with the guy. They're banging on the wall telling
her stop. She got louder and louder. Girlfriend left a
note under the door this time, and she got mad
at the girlfriend, saying, you don't even live here, what
are you talking about? Anyway? Her question now is she's mad,
you know, she she's mad. She wants the man to
be jealous and all that. The neighbor, the neighbor's girlfriend said,
if you don't stop, I'm going to tell your husband.
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And she was upset because that could affect her divorce.
So she knows all about the sloppy sex, the girlfriend
and all that. So she's mad because now the neighbor
told the girlfriend what they were doing. So now she
wants to know should she find some place new to live?
Speaker 2 (09:00):
Junior?
Speaker 4 (09:00):
Yeah she should? She really should she should?
Speaker 3 (09:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (09:03):
Yeah, i'ma tell you right now. You know, I don't
know her husband name. I don't know what he does.
I have no idea, but if his name there or
we need to tell him because he needs to know
your divorce for to be affected.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
It's to make no sense. It's sex. Ain't this good?
Speaker 5 (09:16):
Now?
Speaker 4 (09:17):
Come on, now, you over doing it?
Speaker 5 (09:18):
Okay, you ain't got to be this loud Okay, this
don't make no sense. First of all, First of all,
people that need to live there know you too loud
because she was visiting her boyfriend. And yes he cheated
on you where you knew that. But now you want
revenge too. Now the revenge is in play. No, no, no, no,
it's you, you too lie. Ain't nobody doing that in
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twenty twenty four, an'ybody bringing the house down?
Speaker 4 (09:41):
No more, not in twenty twenty four.
Speaker 5 (09:43):
Ain't nobody I know bringing the house down in twenty
twenty four. Nobody I know bringing a house down in
twenty twenty four. There's nobody doing this. You ain't got
to be this loud. First of all, you're giving false
sister security that man think he's actually doing something he's not.
Speaker 4 (10:00):
You try to make somebody jealous.
Speaker 5 (10:01):
And the next door I don't know where y'all live at,
but the walls is very thin.
Speaker 4 (10:07):
We know that.
Speaker 5 (10:07):
For show, you got people bamming on doors in the
middle of the night. That's not neighborly. Is that neighborly?
Is that neighborly to be beating on the walls? Is
that neighborly? Because you try to prove a point.
Speaker 4 (10:19):
Nah, ain't nobody that's good a sex. No more than
twenty four were not doing that.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
I be now I've been there.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
No, no, no, it's like Tommy told you. But he
tried to keep up with that young boy. But that
young boys, hey man was having time. Tommy knew he
couldn't do that. Now he just all of a sudden,
you over here, like this man bringing the house down,
you're giving false and security. Now he think he could
do that to every woman. Nobody's doing that in twenty
twenty four. The last time somebody brought the house down
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had to be about ninety five. That we did nothing
since ninety five, we ain't did it.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
All that hollering, all.
Speaker 4 (10:54):
That hollered, that't hey, hey, hey, hey, everybody.
Speaker 5 (10:57):
Now you got people taking Tyler Noll in the middle
of the night because they got a headache because.
Speaker 4 (11:00):
You said it don't make no sense. I didn't.
Speaker 5 (11:02):
I didn't appreciate none of this. I don't know you're
gonna do that to people. You don't do that to me,
and period, because he is.
Speaker 4 (11:10):
How good he and we know he not. Shirley tell
you just a hollow, hollow speaking for yourself.
Speaker 5 (11:19):
I'm over here hollering, you know, come on hollering now,
I get, I get, I can get you know, you
know well we above center, but hollering.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
I'm over here? What do you You.
Speaker 4 (11:32):
Don't like my wife be here so quiet?
Speaker 5 (11:36):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (11:37):
Ain't nobody hollering?
Speaker 4 (11:43):
Well on me.
Speaker 5 (11:43):
I'm tired too. I ain't even want to do it.
I get up and you're newly. I don't care what
I get up at five? We got all night. That's
what I'm mad about, this whole letter. Like she's just
in there hollering.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
What. You're a hater.
Speaker 5 (12:01):
What?
Speaker 3 (12:02):
That's what it is.
Speaker 4 (12:03):
Yeah, I'm hating hell, yeah what? People knocking over up?
Speaker 5 (12:08):
I'm just giving this man this falseness and security like
he is everything.
Speaker 4 (12:12):
Ain't nobody bringing the house down in twenty twenty four?
Speaker 2 (12:14):
No more?
Speaker 4 (12:14):
Last time I told you, no one at.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
The time, Junior, No one's knocking on your door telling
you to keep it down.
Speaker 5 (12:20):
I haven't heard a peep on my door. I ain't
heard nobody scratch the front though at all. Ain't nobody
doing nothing over here my neighbors. My neighbor is next door,
but they never came over here.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
If they do, they check to see if you guys
are still doing it.
Speaker 5 (12:34):
I'm telling you, I don't even know when they home
because the lights never own over there. I don't know
what they're doing. But this is excessive. This letter is
so excessive.
Speaker 4 (12:46):
This man over here, he ain't doing all of that.
Speaker 3 (12:49):
You know what you need to work on?
Speaker 2 (12:51):
Then?
Speaker 3 (12:52):
You do know that road from me? Yeah, you need
to get some holland going on over there for what?
Speaker 4 (12:58):
But I need a quieting.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
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