May 6, 2022 • 13 mins
Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 30 year old engaged woman. I met my fiancé while in the miliary and we hung out for 2 years before I had sex with him. He had a girlfriend at the time and I was having fun being open, sexually. I shared my sex stories with my fiancé, who was my good friend at the time. He’d been begging to sleep with me, so I finally did it and I allowed him to record it too..........................
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
All right, guys, I want to tell you about something
special right before we get to the Strawberry letter. Mother's Day,
of course, is this Sunday, right, and I have a
special treat for you. I'm introducing my brand new candle line.
It is called the Love Connection, the Love Collections, that
is what is called the Love Collection. Just in time
for Mother's Day. If you're in the Atlanta area, please
(00:24):
join me this Saturday, May seventh, from one to four
pm at merge Co merge Cos the store in Phipps Plaza,
the big mall in Atlanta. It's called merge COO. It's
a black owned company. It's located directly above the Gucci
store on the second floor in Phipps Plaza. I want
to see you there. I definitely want to meet you.
(00:44):
Let you see my candles. Hopefully you'll like them. You'll
take one home for your mom, or for yourself, or
for your workplace, for your office, wherever you like candles.
They work everywhere. And I do want to say thank
you to everyone who's already gone online at Love Shirley
Strawberry dot com and purchase your candles. Thank you very
very much. They are on the way. They're on the way.
(01:08):
Thank you, all right, thank you, And I'll see you
on Saturday, Junior, to see you tomorrow. I will be there.
You will be there. It's gonna be a lot of fun. Yeah,
going to the mall. They told me, they told me
not to call. They asked me to call. Well, I mean,
(01:34):
I'm sure everyone is gonna want to see you, but
you know why, well, you know it'll be a little
different thing. They just asked me not to call. You
can't go to the mall, but I want you can't
go to the funerals. You can't go. Yeah, yeah, I
ain't gonna know, I can't get where. Kind of a
good thing, you know. Yeah, you're too famous. Yeah, but
(01:58):
I know you're gonna be there with me in spirit.
I know you are, and I know everybody if Carla,
I know you're gonna be there in spirit. Uh, Tommy Junior, Junior,
you'll be there, you guys. Yeah, Mississippi mine. I'm about Jackie.
Your candle might the fact that's your mother nice boy, boy,
(02:18):
boy boy, your wife. No damn candle for Mother's Day.
That's nice for somebody else, Tommy, but you're going there
that one damn candle. Yeah, think about it more than one. Okay, well,
I'm gonna going there with the six candles. Okay, go ahead.
So after she sniffed, that's it, because she's gonna be
(02:44):
looking upside your head. Okay, I got the candle. Thank you.
She's gonna love it. It'll be a great mother's day,
all right. Listen, let's get to this letter before we
run out of time. If you need advice and relationships, work, sex, parenting,
and more, please submit your strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM
dot com. You never know, we could be reading your
(03:05):
letter live on the air, just like we're going to
read this one right here, right now, and it might
be yours. You never know. Let's go buckle up. A
whole long time we got to put you is probably
subject a slap in the face. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm
a thirty year old engaged woman. I met my fiance
while in the military and we hung out for two
(03:26):
years before I had sex with him. He had a
girlfriend at the time, and I was having fun being
opened sexually. I shared my sex stories with my fiance,
who was my good friend at the time. He'd been
begging to sleep with me, so I finally did it,
and I allowed him to record it too. He got
a new assignment and he had to leave town right
(03:46):
after that, so we did a lot of sexting. Then
I had a bad car accident and my leg was
severely broken. My long distance lover slash friend moved back
to the city to take care of me. He proposed
and then moved in with me. He cooked, cleaned, and
gave me sponge bats. We even found a few sexual
(04:06):
positions that didn't hurt my leg. I was hit by
a major retail delivery truck and I was due for
a big settlement, so my fiance took me back and
forth to court. He was my everything, well until recently.
The other day, I was lying on the couch and
I overheard my fiance on the telephone with his brother.
(04:27):
He told his brother that I've got lots of miles
on me, but I have a good heart, so he's
going to stick beside me, especially since I'm about to
be rich. He said he doesn't love me, but our
friendship is great. Then he told his brother that he'll
probably never marry me because he would always wonder if
every man he sees had slept with his wife that
(04:49):
was a slap in the face. I thought he loved me.
He told me that that part of what he said
was true, that part of what he said was true,
but not all of it. He has begged for forge,
but I'm still very hurt by his words. If he
can't leave my past in the past, should I put
him out and cancel the wedding? Wow? Well, first of all,
(05:11):
sorry about your accident. And you asked if you should
put him out and cancel the wedding. I think you should.
I think you most definitely should cancel the wedding. Why
would you marry someone who you hurt with your own
ears say those things? He said, he doesn't love you.
He said, you know you've got a lot of miles
on you. He said, he's always gonna wonder if every
(05:32):
man he sees did you sleep with him or not.
I mean, love is essential to any marriage, and he
said it. He doesn't love you. I think he's with
you for all the wrong reasons now, because you know
you told him everything, which I don't know why you
did that. You told him you know about about the
men and all that, and you made movies of your
(05:55):
sex life. I don't know why you would do that.
He said, he's sticking around because you're gonna be rich.
You know, what more do you need to convince you
that he's not the one? You know, I think you should. Um,
you know, I don't know, move on with your life?
How about that, Steve? Um? I don't. I don't even
Why are we discussing this? This is a wrap Yeah,
on so many levels. When we come back, I'll tell
(06:17):
you how many levels. I'm gonna read the letter, and
every time I read the letter, I'll tell you what's wrong. Okay, okay,
all right, sounds good? Is that all right? We'll be
back with part two of Steve's response. Yeah, we'll be
back with Shelley. When we come back. I'm not only
gonna respond, I'm gonna clear it out for okay, all right,
(06:41):
all right. At at twenty three minutes after the hour,
we will have part two of Steve's response. He says
he's going to clear it out for you, ma'am. Subject
a slap in the face. We'll be back right after this.
You're listening, all right, Steve, Come on, let's recap today's
Strawberry letters. The subject is a slap in the faith. Well,
(07:03):
the slap in the face? Are you produced yourself? I
just want to say this, this slap in the face
was self induced and self produced. There was the mistakes
in this letter from the get goal. Let's just go
through all of them, and I'm just gonna read the
letter and then I'm just going to share with you
the mistakes and it's all gonna make sense. Shirley and Stephen. Shirley,
(07:25):
I'm a thirty year old engaged woman. I met my
fiance while in the military and we hung out for
two years before I had sex with him. Now you
think it's going okay, But here's the problem. He had
a girlfriend at the time, and I was having fun
being open sexually. Here's the problem. I shared my sex
(07:46):
stories with my fiance. Well, at the time, you didn't
know it was gonna be the fiance. Y'all was just
buddies hanging out. Well, women, you should never tell your
sexual escapade to a man. Never, and fellas you shouldn't
tell yours to a woman. It's no way, no way,
all right? And I shared my sexual stories with my fiance,
(08:09):
who was my good friend at the time. How many
times I got to tell y'all, women, stop thinking a
man it's just your good friend. I hadn't told y'all
that good friend. Now we fiance, I keep telling y'all. Anyway,
he had been begging to sleep with me, so I
(08:29):
finally did it and allowed him to record it too.
Now here's a problem. He's been begging to sleep at you.
Why I thought y'all was good friends. Now he was
begging to sleep at you because he heard about all
these freak stories and he wanted to join in on
the party. That's what that was. And then I allowed
him to record it too, because that's what you do.
He got to record an idea from you, because that's
(08:52):
the fun open sex you've been having. See. He got
a new assignment and had to leave town right after that,
so we did a lot of sexy. Then I had
a bad cocci and then my leg with leg was
severely broken. My long distance lover slash friend moved back
to my city to take care of me. He proposed
(09:12):
and then moved in with me. Now this is a
little bit out of order, young lady, and I know
it is because he moved back because he knew the accident,
how it happened, what caused it. He knew you in
court settlement. He knew all of this. Now he moves
back to take care of you. He cook clean, gave
(09:36):
me sponge baths. We even found a few sexual positions
that didn't hurt my leg. I was hit. Now here's
the information that you should have said before. You told
me that I was hit by a major retail delivery
truck and I was doing a big financial settlement. So
my fiance took me back and forth to court. He
did all that fo he proposed, He did all that's
(09:56):
reason you got the sponge baw And men ain't that nurturing.
Don't not make good ass nurses, We really really don't.
We got to you got to already be the wife,
and we got to already be in love for you
to get this treatment. We moved back in sponge baby wiping,
(10:16):
washing and all this year cooking and cleaning. Na. Hell No,
I was hit by a major retail delivery truck and
I was doing a big financial settlement. So my fiance
took me back and forth to court. He was my everything,
well into recently. We can't hear me go. The other day,
I was lying on the couch because you got that legsy,
(10:39):
and I overheard my fiance on the telephone with his brother.
He told his brother, I got a lot of miles
on him. Well, you haven't told him about all the miles.
Remember when you was telling him all your sex stories
and when you was having fun being opening sexually you
got you got a lot of miles on you. You
told him or the miles and you didn't even told
(11:00):
him all the miles. So he thrown in some other mile.
You got a lot of mileage on you, ladies. I
have told y'all when you first meet him. Man, the
maximum that you've ever slept within your life is three.
That's your max number. I don't care if it's thirty three.
Your number is three, because shut hit damn mom, it
(11:22):
ain't his business if he find out more. Letting him
go find out. The number is three, all right now?
He said, you got a lot of miles on you,
but I got a good heart. Then he told his brother,
so so he gonna stick beside me, especially since I'm
(11:43):
about to be rich. Get it chat change. He said,
he doesn't love me, but our friendship is great. Okay.
Then he told his brother that he will probably never
married me because he would always wonder if every man
he sees has slept with his wife. That was a
(12:05):
slap in the face. Once again, this is a self
induced slapping your face because he wouldn't know none of
this if you wasn't busy running your damn mouth thinking
y'all with just friends with y'all turn out to be
fiance And the only reason y'all turn out to be
fiance because you got hit by a large retail delivery truck. Wow,
So now you just a little cute ass, Tracy Morgan,
(12:26):
sitting over here? You just a little cute ass. Tracian Morgan. Oh,
you just sitting over here, old retail. A large retail
truck smashed into your ass. Now you just a little
cute ass. Tracian Mogen. Yeah, I thought he loved me.
He told me that part that he said was not
(12:47):
true at all. He begged for forgiveness, and I'm still
hurt by his words. He can't leave my pass into passion.
I put him out and cancel a winding. You have
no wedding. He just told you ain't gonna never marry you.
Thank you, lady, Thank you. Steve. Lead up to your
comments on today's Strawberry Letters on Instagram at Steve Harvey
at them. Also check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on
(13:10):
demand now coming up next to the Sports Talk with Junior.
Right after this, you're listening to The Stave Harvey Morning
Show
All right, guys, I want to tell you about something
special right before we get to the Strawberry letter. Mother's Day,
of course, is this Sunday, right, and I have a
special treat for you. I'm introducing my brand new candle line.
It is called the Love Connection, the Love Collections, that
is what is called the Love Collection. Just in time
for Mother's Day. If you're in the Atlanta area, please
(00:24):
join me this Saturday, May seventh, from one to four
pm at merge Co merge Cos the store in Phipps Plaza,
the big mall in Atlanta. It's called merge COO. It's
a black owned company. It's located directly above the Gucci
store on the second floor in Phipps Plaza. I want
to see you there. I definitely want to meet you.
(00:44):
Let you see my candles. Hopefully you'll like them. You'll
take one home for your mom, or for yourself, or
for your workplace, for your office, wherever you like candles.
They work everywhere. And I do want to say thank
you to everyone who's already gone online at Love Shirley
Strawberry dot com and purchase your candles. Thank you very
very much. They are on the way. They're on the way.
(01:08):
Thank you, all right, thank you, And I'll see you
on Saturday, Junior, to see you tomorrow. I will be there.
You will be there. It's gonna be a lot of fun. Yeah,
going to the mall. They told me, they told me
not to call. They asked me to call. Well, I mean,
(01:34):
I'm sure everyone is gonna want to see you, but
you know why, well, you know it'll be a little
different thing. They just asked me not to call. You
can't go to the mall, but I want you can't
go to the funerals. You can't go. Yeah, yeah, I
ain't gonna know, I can't get where. Kind of a
good thing, you know. Yeah, you're too famous. Yeah, but
(01:58):
I know you're gonna be there with me in spirit.
I know you are, and I know everybody if Carla,
I know you're gonna be there in spirit. Uh, Tommy Junior, Junior,
you'll be there, you guys. Yeah, Mississippi mine. I'm about Jackie.
Your candle might the fact that's your mother nice boy, boy,
(02:18):
boy boy, your wife. No damn candle for Mother's Day.
That's nice for somebody else, Tommy, but you're going there
that one damn candle. Yeah, think about it more than one. Okay, well,
I'm gonna going there with the six candles. Okay, go ahead.
So after she sniffed, that's it, because she's gonna be
(02:44):
looking upside your head. Okay, I got the candle. Thank you.
She's gonna love it. It'll be a great mother's day,
all right. Listen, let's get to this letter before we
run out of time. If you need advice and relationships, work, sex, parenting,
and more, please submit your strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM
dot com. You never know, we could be reading your
(03:05):
letter live on the air, just like we're going to
read this one right here, right now, and it might
be yours. You never know. Let's go buckle up. A
whole long time we got to put you is probably
subject a slap in the face. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm
a thirty year old engaged woman. I met my fiance
while in the military and we hung out for two
(03:26):
years before I had sex with him. He had a
girlfriend at the time, and I was having fun being
opened sexually. I shared my sex stories with my fiance,
who was my good friend at the time. He'd been
begging to sleep with me, so I finally did it,
and I allowed him to record it too. He got
a new assignment and he had to leave town right
(03:46):
after that, so we did a lot of sexting. Then
I had a bad car accident and my leg was
severely broken. My long distance lover slash friend moved back
to the city to take care of me. He proposed
and then moved in with me. He cooked, cleaned, and
gave me sponge bats. We even found a few sexual
(04:06):
positions that didn't hurt my leg. I was hit by
a major retail delivery truck and I was due for
a big settlement, so my fiance took me back and
forth to court. He was my everything, well until recently.
The other day, I was lying on the couch and
I overheard my fiance on the telephone with his brother.
(04:27):
He told his brother that I've got lots of miles
on me, but I have a good heart, so he's
going to stick beside me, especially since I'm about to
be rich. He said he doesn't love me, but our
friendship is great. Then he told his brother that he'll
probably never marry me because he would always wonder if
every man he sees had slept with his wife that
(04:49):
was a slap in the face. I thought he loved me.
He told me that that part of what he said
was true, that part of what he said was true,
but not all of it. He has begged for forge,
but I'm still very hurt by his words. If he
can't leave my past in the past, should I put
him out and cancel the wedding? Wow? Well, first of all,
(05:11):
sorry about your accident. And you asked if you should
put him out and cancel the wedding. I think you should.
I think you most definitely should cancel the wedding. Why
would you marry someone who you hurt with your own
ears say those things? He said, he doesn't love you.
He said, you know you've got a lot of miles
on you. He said, he's always gonna wonder if every
(05:32):
man he sees did you sleep with him or not.
I mean, love is essential to any marriage, and he
said it. He doesn't love you. I think he's with
you for all the wrong reasons now, because you know
you told him everything, which I don't know why you
did that. You told him you know about about the
men and all that, and you made movies of your
(05:55):
sex life. I don't know why you would do that.
He said, he's sticking around because you're gonna be rich.
You know, what more do you need to convince you
that he's not the one? You know, I think you should. Um,
you know, I don't know, move on with your life?
How about that, Steve? Um? I don't. I don't even
Why are we discussing this? This is a wrap Yeah,
on so many levels. When we come back, I'll tell
(06:17):
you how many levels. I'm gonna read the letter, and
every time I read the letter, I'll tell you what's wrong. Okay, okay,
all right, sounds good? Is that all right? We'll be
back with part two of Steve's response. Yeah, we'll be
back with Shelley. When we come back. I'm not only
gonna respond, I'm gonna clear it out for okay, all right,
(06:41):
all right. At at twenty three minutes after the hour,
we will have part two of Steve's response. He says
he's going to clear it out for you, ma'am. Subject
a slap in the face. We'll be back right after this.
You're listening, all right, Steve, Come on, let's recap today's
Strawberry letters. The subject is a slap in the faith. Well,
(07:03):
the slap in the face? Are you produced yourself? I
just want to say this, this slap in the face
was self induced and self produced. There was the mistakes
in this letter from the get goal. Let's just go
through all of them, and I'm just gonna read the
letter and then I'm just going to share with you
the mistakes and it's all gonna make sense. Shirley and Stephen. Shirley,
(07:25):
I'm a thirty year old engaged woman. I met my
fiance while in the military and we hung out for
two years before I had sex with him. Now you
think it's going okay, But here's the problem. He had
a girlfriend at the time, and I was having fun
being open sexually. Here's the problem. I shared my sex
(07:46):
stories with my fiance. Well, at the time, you didn't
know it was gonna be the fiance. Y'all was just
buddies hanging out. Well, women, you should never tell your
sexual escapade to a man. Never, and fellas you shouldn't
tell yours to a woman. It's no way, no way,
all right? And I shared my sexual stories with my fiance,
(08:09):
who was my good friend at the time. How many
times I got to tell y'all, women, stop thinking a
man it's just your good friend. I hadn't told y'all
that good friend. Now we fiance, I keep telling y'all. Anyway,
he had been begging to sleep with me, so I
(08:29):
finally did it and allowed him to record it too.
Now here's a problem. He's been begging to sleep at you.
Why I thought y'all was good friends. Now he was
begging to sleep at you because he heard about all
these freak stories and he wanted to join in on
the party. That's what that was. And then I allowed
him to record it too, because that's what you do.
He got to record an idea from you, because that's
(08:52):
the fun open sex you've been having. See. He got
a new assignment and had to leave town right after that,
so we did a lot of sexy. Then I had
a bad cocci and then my leg with leg was
severely broken. My long distance lover slash friend moved back
to my city to take care of me. He proposed
(09:12):
and then moved in with me. Now this is a
little bit out of order, young lady, and I know
it is because he moved back because he knew the accident,
how it happened, what caused it. He knew you in
court settlement. He knew all of this. Now he moves
back to take care of you. He cook clean, gave
(09:36):
me sponge baths. We even found a few sexual positions
that didn't hurt my leg. I was hit. Now here's
the information that you should have said before. You told
me that I was hit by a major retail delivery
truck and I was doing a big financial settlement. So
my fiance took me back and forth to court. He
did all that fo he proposed, He did all that's
(09:56):
reason you got the sponge baw And men ain't that nurturing.
Don't not make good ass nurses, We really really don't.
We got to you got to already be the wife,
and we got to already be in love for you
to get this treatment. We moved back in sponge baby wiping,
(10:16):
washing and all this year cooking and cleaning. Na. Hell No,
I was hit by a major retail delivery truck and
I was doing a big financial settlement. So my fiance
took me back and forth to court. He was my everything,
well into recently. We can't hear me go. The other day,
I was lying on the couch because you got that legsy,
(10:39):
and I overheard my fiance on the telephone with his brother.
He told his brother, I got a lot of miles
on him. Well, you haven't told him about all the miles.
Remember when you was telling him all your sex stories
and when you was having fun being opening sexually you
got you got a lot of miles on you. You
told him or the miles and you didn't even told
(11:00):
him all the miles. So he thrown in some other mile.
You got a lot of mileage on you, ladies. I
have told y'all when you first meet him. Man, the
maximum that you've ever slept within your life is three.
That's your max number. I don't care if it's thirty three.
Your number is three, because shut hit damn mom, it
(11:22):
ain't his business if he find out more. Letting him
go find out. The number is three, all right now?
He said, you got a lot of miles on you,
but I got a good heart. Then he told his brother,
so so he gonna stick beside me, especially since I'm
(11:43):
about to be rich. Get it chat change. He said,
he doesn't love me, but our friendship is great. Okay.
Then he told his brother that he will probably never
married me because he would always wonder if every man
he sees has slept with his wife. That was a
(12:05):
slap in the face. Once again, this is a self
induced slapping your face because he wouldn't know none of
this if you wasn't busy running your damn mouth thinking
y'all with just friends with y'all turn out to be
fiance And the only reason y'all turn out to be
fiance because you got hit by a large retail delivery truck. Wow,
So now you just a little cute ass, Tracy Morgan,
(12:26):
sitting over here? You just a little cute ass. Tracian Morgan. Oh,
you just sitting over here, old retail. A large retail
truck smashed into your ass. Now you just a little
cute ass. Tracian Mogen. Yeah, I thought he loved me.
He told me that part that he said was not
(12:47):
true at all. He begged for forgiveness, and I'm still
hurt by his words. He can't leave my pass into passion.
I put him out and cancel a winding. You have
no wedding. He just told you ain't gonna never marry you.
Thank you, lady, Thank you. Steve. Lead up to your
comments on today's Strawberry Letters on Instagram at Steve Harvey
at them. Also check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on
(13:10):
demand now coming up next to the Sports Talk with Junior.
Right after this, you're listening to The Stave Harvey Morning
Show
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