June 10, 2022 • 16 mins
Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 32 years old and I’ve been dating this guy for almost 8 months and we’ve had fun getting to know each other. He was honest in the beginning and told me he had some loose ends to tie up before we got serious and I appreciated that honesty. The fact that he didn’t hide his phone or turn his ringer off made me feel that he was ready to be in a relationship with me so I didn’t trip. We went out all over town and I stayed at his home all of the time...........................
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if
you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com
and we could be reading your letter live on the
air Pop Pop, just like we're gonna read this one
right here, right now, and you never know it could
be yours. You never know it could be hold on tight,
(00:24):
We got it for you. Here It is Strawberry Letter.
Thank you, nephew. Subject the jump off jumped on him.
Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty two years old and I've
been dating this guy for almost eight months, and We've
had fun getting to know each other. He was honest
in the beginning and told me he had some loose
ends to tie up before we got serious, and I
(00:45):
appreciated that honesty. The fact that he didn't hide his
phone or turned his ringer off made me feel that
he was ready to be in a relationship with me,
so I didn't trip. We went all we went out
all over town, and I stayed at his home all
of the time. The only thing that made me suspect
suspect he was up to something was a few nights
(01:08):
I couldn't reach him, but I let it go. I
invited him to visit my parents with me. My parents
live about two hours from us, so we went on
an overnight trip to visit them. They cooked dinner for us,
and after dinner, my man and I went out to
a hookah spot to unwind. My boyfriend got a phone
call and walked away to take it. He got upset
(01:30):
and he was ready to go back to my parents house.
We got to his car and there was a car
blocking us in. He asked the car to move and
the lady flipped him off. I didn't think anything of it.
When we got to my parents house, that same car
pulled up in the driveway. This same lady got out
and ran up and started hit started hitting on my man.
(01:52):
My dad heard the commotion and came outside to pull
her off my man. The lady said she's been seeing
my man for a few months and she followed us.
I was very embarrassed and reluctantly took him to the
er to get stitches. In her words, she told police
say she knew she was the jump off, but she
(02:14):
fell in love with him and he wouldn't leave me
for her. He said he got caught up slept with her.
But he wants me. Can I trust this man and
continue this relationship despite just what happened? What just happened? Well,
he certainly has no control over what crazy did. I mean,
(02:35):
she did that all on her own, gave him stitches
and all of that. But the crazy part is that
this really happened. I mean, she's fatal attraction crazy like
the movie. You do know that, right, And now she
knows where your parents live. She stopped you, guys from
the restaurant Beetra man so badly that he needed stitches,
and she's only been seeing him for a few months. Well,
(02:59):
I'm sure you're parents would tell you to run, and
I'm probably good. I'm gonna tell you the same thing.
I mean, your safety is way more important. Even though
she didn't do anything to you, She just did it
to your man, But you don't want to wait around
and see how crazy she really is. Again, I think
your safety is very important, and even if you were
to keep seeing him, you would always be looking over
(03:20):
your shoulder wondering if crazy could be lurking in a
corner somewhere. So you know, I'm gonna say it's a
no for me or you as far as this relationship goes.
Because this woman is too crazy. She's just too crazy. Steve, Well,
I don't have the letter in front of me because
of my whereabouts again, so we're going to have to
(03:41):
deal with this letter just a little bit differently. The
title of the letter again, Shirley, is the jump off
jumped on him. Steve jump Off jumped on him. The
jump off didn't jump on you. He didn't jump on you.
His daddy jumped on the jump off. It's just a
(04:04):
lot of jumping going on. I appreciate it, and none
to me like a good old ass whipping type letter
to deal. So I specialize in this because I have
been jumped home before by the jump off, the jumpie,
and the jumper. Wow, I've had all three ass whippers
(04:25):
in my life, the jumper, the jump ee, and the
jump off, and then I ended up as the jump
So it's all all so relative here. The wonderful thing
about having a sixty five year old famous radio show
holes with means it means that he has had a
(04:48):
full life. The beauty of the Steve Harvey Morning Shows
that I don't mind being transparent in my full life
now Can I tell everything? Absolutely not, But will I
share with you a lot? Of course it makes for
more interesting radio. I happen to be one of the
(05:11):
most compelling radio personalities on radio today. To Steve Harvey,
Martin Shaw's more compelling than most shows because I don't
really care about the damn issues more than I care
about myself. That's why all issues and make them about me.
(05:32):
That way you can understand from a personal standpoint. Wise,
So this letter right here is very easy for me
to do. I'm gonna wait the second half to give
you resolution, but I'm just giving you a little straw
letter history here. This letter is very simple for me
to do. The jump off jumped on him. Well, the
(05:54):
hall I can say is you're glad she didn't get
to your ass. You know what, it seemed like the
type that can handle much jumping. You appreciate your land,
your daddy in this lander for coming out and on
the porch and jumping on the jump fer to see
the jump off. Didn't know that the jump off you
(06:16):
was gonna come in there and get jumped. See. I
wrote a book called jump which Din that's me an
expert on this hill jump off. This it is amazing
how this works, don't you see it? Fans, friends, hate us, Internet, trolls, Internet. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
(06:39):
because because that's who listening to the show. We got fans,
we got friends, we got loyalty people, and then we
got hate us didn't listen to the show. So I'll
be giving out Internet advice when we come back on
the jump off jump on him? He got stitch. You're listening,
all right? Come on, Steve, let's ready. Today's Strawberry letter.
(07:01):
The subject the jump off jumped on him very quickly.
In recap, we've learned that this jump off jumped on him.
To set this letter up, you are dealing with someone
who has been jumped on by the jumper, the jump off,
and the jump eat. I have been all of it,
(07:22):
and I've written a book called jump So we are
dealing with an expert on this letter, right Hill, So
let us begin. Shirley, read the letter quickly and I'll
tell you the points I need for you to stop
because this is the letter in the nut shield. Okay,
there's Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty two years old and I've
been dating this guy for almost eight months and we've
(07:43):
had fun getting to know each other. He was honest
in the beginning and told me he had some loose
ends to tie up before we got serious, and I
appreciated that honesty. The loose ends is what jumped on
his ass, and the loose ends is the one that
jumped on his head. Go ahead, read all right. But
(08:07):
the fact that he didn't hide his phone or turn
his ringer off made me feel that he was ready
to be in a relationship with me, so I didn't
trip Stop right there. You can't cut your phone off
when your jumpie is crazy, because if they can't contact you,
that elevates the craziness. Read okay. We went out all
(08:29):
over town and I stayed at his home all of
the time. The only thing that made me suspect suspect
that he was up to something was a few nights
I couldn't reach him, but I let it go. Okay,
stop right there, once again, this is the loose ends.
(08:49):
He over there trying to tie a night in it,
and obviously it don't work. Read. I invited him to
visit my parents with me. My parents of about two
hours from us, so we went on an overnight trip
to visit them. They cooked dinner for us and after dinner,
my man and I went out to a hookah spot
to unwind. My boyfriend got a phone call and walked
(09:13):
away to take it. Stop. He got upset and he
was ready to stop right down. Okay, phone call, got
up from the table to take it once again. This
is the loose end, and the loose end is very
loose now cause it's calling at inappropriate moments. Read. He
(09:38):
got upset and he was ready to go back to
my parents' house. Stop right there. He far saw something
that the jumpie was about to do. To jump off
has discovered his location. He ready to go back to
your mama house right now because he knows what's coming. Read.
We got to his car and there was a car
(10:00):
blocking us in Stop right down. It's too late. The
damn jump off is hell and she's blocking the car.
He tried to get back to your mama's house in time.
She was circling the block. She found the car. Oh lord. Read.
(10:22):
He asked the car to move, and the lady flipped
him off. Stop right down. You can't ask the jump
off to do no favors when they let you jump
on them and became the jump off. That was all
the faver you get read. I didn't think anything of
(10:46):
it when we stop right down, you stupid. Read When
we got to my power here, you didn't think nothing
of a woman blocking the car flipping your bad off. Read.
When we got to my parents' house, that same her
pulled up in the driveway, stop right there to jump
off the loose ends all in one to jump off,
(11:06):
and the lucy end is ain't working. All this time
up the loose ends, it hasn't worked. The jump off
is loose. She at your mama house. Read this same
lady got out and ran up and started hitting on
my man. Stop right there. The loose end is as
(11:27):
loose as it can get. Right now. Read my dad
heard the commotion and came outside to pull her off
of my man. Stop right there, then down tend to
rescue it's underdog. He tried to come in and say
today it was too late. I ain't saying that the
loose hands is a problem, but this half forgot hands. Read.
(11:51):
The lady says she's been seeing my man for a
few months, and she followed us. I was very embarrassed
and reluctantly took him to the er to get stitches.
Stop right there after your daddy pulled her off. She
said she had been seeing him for a few months.
(12:16):
One thing I can tell you about this man right here,
this boy bringing it, yeah, and you're following him jumping
on him? He read quickly, sh all right, I was
very embarrassing and reluctantly took him to the ear to
get stitches. In her words, she told police that she
(12:38):
knew she was the jump off, but she fell in
love with him and he wouldn't leave me for her.
Stop right there. I know I'm the jump off, but
he bringing is so good. I'm in love with him now,
and he not giving the jumpy product to a new
jump off. I'm fitting the state to jump off. Read.
(12:59):
He said he got caught up slept with her, but
he wants me. Can I trust this man and continue
this relationship despite just what happened. What just happened. When
we come back, I will close it out very very quickly.
Here's the solution to this letter at the end. Right
after this, you're listening, all right, Steve, Here we go
(13:21):
with part three of today's Strawberry letter. The subject is
the jump off jumped on him. We all know that
this dude is he had some luciens when he started
dating the letter that wrote dating the lady that wrote
the letter, and he said, hey, listen, I'm gonna be honest,
which I got some loose ends. He was trying to
get these luciens tied up with the jump off chick,
(13:43):
but it didn't work out. The luciens was too less.
He's bringing it too good. I mean, this boy's doing
some things to people that's got them all twisted up.
You included in this letter to the point where she
then jumped on his ass and gave him stitches. That's
a ferocious because he doing something I'm talking about outstanding.
(14:05):
Let's do right, here's bringing him. Here's the problem line.
You want to know should you continue in this relationship
and Shirley told you to run. You want to know
if you should stay with him, and Shirley told you
to get out. Now, Shirley gave you good advice. My
take is different. Shirley was almost there with me, but
(14:27):
then she switched. He told you it was some problems
he had. The problem he dating a crazy. Now he's
probably a good man, but he dated a crazy and
he put it on the crazy person too good. See
when you're dating a crazy person. You can't give him
your all in all, but he don't know that because
(14:49):
he young, y'all in your thirties, he don't know that. See,
you have to portion it out. Are based on the sanity.
You can only what you have to portion it out
based on senate crazy people. You can't give them your all.
(15:11):
You have to wait until you meet a calm, sensible
woman for you start giving it your all. You give
it all to a crazy person, they're already crazy. Now
you in't here touching spots and calls and chemical reactions
and stuff, and and they're already crazy. Then you're not
set up here slept with this bipolar health of that
(15:32):
here comes hal That's how good it is. Or bust
you outside your head and give you stitches. Jasmine Sullivan
was breaking out car was and she was busting faces.
It's all the same. I bust through windows out your car.
I put some stitches on your head. I split open
(15:57):
your phone head. See you to the doctor. May cause
you to stay in bed. I'll put some stitches in
your head too much. Yes, based on what you saying?
All right today? Stubberry letter and Instagram and Steve Harvey
(16:21):
fm dot com. Check out the Subbary Letter podcast on demand.
Coming up, we'll find out what's happening at Apple at
the top of the hour. Right after this, you're listening
to The Stavey Morning Show
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if
you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com
and we could be reading your letter live on the
air Pop Pop, just like we're gonna read this one
right here, right now, and you never know it could
be yours. You never know it could be hold on tight,
(00:24):
We got it for you. Here It is Strawberry Letter.
Thank you, nephew. Subject the jump off jumped on him.
Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty two years old and I've
been dating this guy for almost eight months, and We've
had fun getting to know each other. He was honest
in the beginning and told me he had some loose
ends to tie up before we got serious, and I
(00:45):
appreciated that honesty. The fact that he didn't hide his
phone or turned his ringer off made me feel that
he was ready to be in a relationship with me,
so I didn't trip. We went all we went out
all over town, and I stayed at his home all
of the time. The only thing that made me suspect
suspect he was up to something was a few nights
(01:08):
I couldn't reach him, but I let it go. I
invited him to visit my parents with me. My parents
live about two hours from us, so we went on
an overnight trip to visit them. They cooked dinner for us,
and after dinner, my man and I went out to
a hookah spot to unwind. My boyfriend got a phone
call and walked away to take it. He got upset
(01:30):
and he was ready to go back to my parents house.
We got to his car and there was a car
blocking us in. He asked the car to move and
the lady flipped him off. I didn't think anything of it.
When we got to my parents house, that same car
pulled up in the driveway. This same lady got out
and ran up and started hit started hitting on my man.
(01:52):
My dad heard the commotion and came outside to pull
her off my man. The lady said she's been seeing
my man for a few months and she followed us.
I was very embarrassed and reluctantly took him to the
er to get stitches. In her words, she told police
say she knew she was the jump off, but she
(02:14):
fell in love with him and he wouldn't leave me
for her. He said he got caught up slept with her.
But he wants me. Can I trust this man and
continue this relationship despite just what happened? What just happened? Well,
he certainly has no control over what crazy did. I mean,
(02:35):
she did that all on her own, gave him stitches
and all of that. But the crazy part is that
this really happened. I mean, she's fatal attraction crazy like
the movie. You do know that, right, And now she
knows where your parents live. She stopped you, guys from
the restaurant Beetra man so badly that he needed stitches,
and she's only been seeing him for a few months. Well,
(02:59):
I'm sure you're parents would tell you to run, and
I'm probably good. I'm gonna tell you the same thing.
I mean, your safety is way more important. Even though
she didn't do anything to you, She just did it
to your man, But you don't want to wait around
and see how crazy she really is. Again, I think
your safety is very important, and even if you were
to keep seeing him, you would always be looking over
(03:20):
your shoulder wondering if crazy could be lurking in a
corner somewhere. So you know, I'm gonna say it's a
no for me or you as far as this relationship goes.
Because this woman is too crazy. She's just too crazy. Steve, Well,
I don't have the letter in front of me because
of my whereabouts again, so we're going to have to
(03:41):
deal with this letter just a little bit differently. The
title of the letter again, Shirley, is the jump off
jumped on him. Steve jump Off jumped on him. The
jump off didn't jump on you. He didn't jump on you.
His daddy jumped on the jump off. It's just a
(04:04):
lot of jumping going on. I appreciate it, and none
to me like a good old ass whipping type letter
to deal. So I specialize in this because I have
been jumped home before by the jump off, the jumpie,
and the jumper. Wow, I've had all three ass whippers
(04:25):
in my life, the jumper, the jump ee, and the
jump off, and then I ended up as the jump
So it's all all so relative here. The wonderful thing
about having a sixty five year old famous radio show
holes with means it means that he has had a
(04:48):
full life. The beauty of the Steve Harvey Morning Shows
that I don't mind being transparent in my full life
now Can I tell everything? Absolutely not, But will I
share with you a lot? Of course it makes for
more interesting radio. I happen to be one of the
(05:11):
most compelling radio personalities on radio today. To Steve Harvey,
Martin Shaw's more compelling than most shows because I don't
really care about the damn issues more than I care
about myself. That's why all issues and make them about me.
(05:32):
That way you can understand from a personal standpoint. Wise,
So this letter right here is very easy for me
to do. I'm gonna wait the second half to give
you resolution, but I'm just giving you a little straw
letter history here. This letter is very simple for me
to do. The jump off jumped on him. Well, the
(05:54):
hall I can say is you're glad she didn't get
to your ass. You know what, it seemed like the
type that can handle much jumping. You appreciate your land,
your daddy in this lander for coming out and on
the porch and jumping on the jump fer to see
the jump off. Didn't know that the jump off you
(06:16):
was gonna come in there and get jumped. See. I
wrote a book called jump which Din that's me an
expert on this hill jump off. This it is amazing
how this works, don't you see it? Fans, friends, hate us, Internet, trolls, Internet. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
(06:39):
because because that's who listening to the show. We got fans,
we got friends, we got loyalty people, and then we
got hate us didn't listen to the show. So I'll
be giving out Internet advice when we come back on
the jump off jump on him? He got stitch. You're listening,
all right? Come on, Steve, let's ready. Today's Strawberry letter.
(07:01):
The subject the jump off jumped on him very quickly.
In recap, we've learned that this jump off jumped on him.
To set this letter up, you are dealing with someone
who has been jumped on by the jumper, the jump off,
and the jump eat. I have been all of it,
(07:22):
and I've written a book called jump So we are
dealing with an expert on this letter, right Hill, So
let us begin. Shirley, read the letter quickly and I'll
tell you the points I need for you to stop
because this is the letter in the nut shield. Okay,
there's Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty two years old and I've
been dating this guy for almost eight months and we've
(07:43):
had fun getting to know each other. He was honest
in the beginning and told me he had some loose
ends to tie up before we got serious, and I
appreciated that honesty. The loose ends is what jumped on
his ass, and the loose ends is the one that
jumped on his head. Go ahead, read all right. But
(08:07):
the fact that he didn't hide his phone or turn
his ringer off made me feel that he was ready
to be in a relationship with me, so I didn't
trip Stop right there. You can't cut your phone off
when your jumpie is crazy, because if they can't contact you,
that elevates the craziness. Read okay. We went out all
(08:29):
over town and I stayed at his home all of
the time. The only thing that made me suspect suspect
that he was up to something was a few nights
I couldn't reach him, but I let it go. Okay,
stop right there, once again, this is the loose ends.
(08:49):
He over there trying to tie a night in it,
and obviously it don't work. Read. I invited him to
visit my parents with me. My parents of about two
hours from us, so we went on an overnight trip
to visit them. They cooked dinner for us and after dinner,
my man and I went out to a hookah spot
to unwind. My boyfriend got a phone call and walked
(09:13):
away to take it. Stop. He got upset and he
was ready to stop right down. Okay, phone call, got
up from the table to take it once again. This
is the loose end, and the loose end is very
loose now cause it's calling at inappropriate moments. Read. He
(09:38):
got upset and he was ready to go back to
my parents' house. Stop right there. He far saw something
that the jumpie was about to do. To jump off
has discovered his location. He ready to go back to
your mama house right now because he knows what's coming. Read.
We got to his car and there was a car
(10:00):
blocking us in Stop right down. It's too late. The
damn jump off is hell and she's blocking the car.
He tried to get back to your mama's house in time.
She was circling the block. She found the car. Oh lord. Read.
(10:22):
He asked the car to move, and the lady flipped
him off. Stop right down. You can't ask the jump
off to do no favors when they let you jump
on them and became the jump off. That was all
the faver you get read. I didn't think anything of
(10:46):
it when we stop right down, you stupid. Read When
we got to my power here, you didn't think nothing
of a woman blocking the car flipping your bad off. Read.
When we got to my parents' house, that same her
pulled up in the driveway, stop right there to jump
off the loose ends all in one to jump off,
(11:06):
and the lucy end is ain't working. All this time
up the loose ends, it hasn't worked. The jump off
is loose. She at your mama house. Read this same
lady got out and ran up and started hitting on
my man. Stop right there. The loose end is as
(11:27):
loose as it can get. Right now. Read my dad
heard the commotion and came outside to pull her off
of my man. Stop right there, then down tend to
rescue it's underdog. He tried to come in and say
today it was too late. I ain't saying that the
loose hands is a problem, but this half forgot hands. Read.
(11:51):
The lady says she's been seeing my man for a
few months, and she followed us. I was very embarrassed
and reluctantly took him to the er to get stitches.
Stop right there after your daddy pulled her off. She
said she had been seeing him for a few months.
(12:16):
One thing I can tell you about this man right here,
this boy bringing it, yeah, and you're following him jumping
on him? He read quickly, sh all right, I was
very embarrassing and reluctantly took him to the ear to
get stitches. In her words, she told police that she
(12:38):
knew she was the jump off, but she fell in
love with him and he wouldn't leave me for her.
Stop right there. I know I'm the jump off, but
he bringing is so good. I'm in love with him now,
and he not giving the jumpy product to a new
jump off. I'm fitting the state to jump off. Read.
(12:59):
He said he got caught up slept with her, but
he wants me. Can I trust this man and continue
this relationship despite just what happened. What just happened. When
we come back, I will close it out very very quickly.
Here's the solution to this letter at the end. Right
after this, you're listening, all right, Steve, Here we go
(13:21):
with part three of today's Strawberry letter. The subject is
the jump off jumped on him. We all know that
this dude is he had some luciens when he started
dating the letter that wrote dating the lady that wrote
the letter, and he said, hey, listen, I'm gonna be honest,
which I got some loose ends. He was trying to
get these luciens tied up with the jump off chick,
(13:43):
but it didn't work out. The luciens was too less.
He's bringing it too good. I mean, this boy's doing
some things to people that's got them all twisted up.
You included in this letter to the point where she
then jumped on his ass and gave him stitches. That's
a ferocious because he doing something I'm talking about outstanding.
(14:05):
Let's do right, here's bringing him. Here's the problem line.
You want to know should you continue in this relationship
and Shirley told you to run. You want to know
if you should stay with him, and Shirley told you
to get out. Now, Shirley gave you good advice. My
take is different. Shirley was almost there with me, but
(14:27):
then she switched. He told you it was some problems
he had. The problem he dating a crazy. Now he's
probably a good man, but he dated a crazy and
he put it on the crazy person too good. See
when you're dating a crazy person. You can't give him
your all in all, but he don't know that because
(14:49):
he young, y'all in your thirties, he don't know that. See,
you have to portion it out. Are based on the sanity.
You can only what you have to portion it out
based on senate crazy people. You can't give them your all.
(15:11):
You have to wait until you meet a calm, sensible
woman for you start giving it your all. You give
it all to a crazy person, they're already crazy. Now
you in't here touching spots and calls and chemical reactions
and stuff, and and they're already crazy. Then you're not
set up here slept with this bipolar health of that
(15:32):
here comes hal That's how good it is. Or bust
you outside your head and give you stitches. Jasmine Sullivan
was breaking out car was and she was busting faces.
It's all the same. I bust through windows out your car.
I put some stitches on your head. I split open
(15:57):
your phone head. See you to the doctor. May cause
you to stay in bed. I'll put some stitches in
your head too much. Yes, based on what you saying?
All right today? Stubberry letter and Instagram and Steve Harvey
(16:21):
fm dot com. Check out the Subbary Letter podcast on demand.
Coming up, we'll find out what's happening at Apple at
the top of the hour. Right after this, you're listening
to The Stavey Morning Show
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