June 14, 2022 • 13 mins
Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been together 14 years. He’s 60 and I’m 57 years old. We don’t have any children so we do a lot of activities together and we travel a lot. We’re in a vacation club and there’s one other couple that we enjoy meeting up with at different destinations. Mother’s Day weekend, we met the couple in Barcelona and we stayed in a vacation rental. When we got there, we went straight to the beach to relax.............................................
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Today's election day in Maine, Nevada, and South Carolina, and
we need you to vote to day, So go to
when We All Vote dot org to get all your
voting information. All right, Switching to today's Strawberry Letter, It
is that time. If you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,
(00:21):
and more, please submit your Strawberry letters to Steve HARVEFM
dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be
reading your letter live on the air, just like we're
gonna read this one right here, right now, and you
never know, it could be yours. Okay, everybody, ladies and gentlemen,
it's time for the Strawberry Letter with my good friend
Shirley Strawberry. Thank you, Junior. Subjects the rug shaker Go ahead,
(00:47):
huh say it again? That sounded weird. Get everybody, WelCom
Strawberry Letter, My deep free Shalley. We are friends, say Junior.
The rum shaker took my man is the subject, Dear
Stephen Shirley. My husband and I have been together fourteen
(01:10):
years and he's sixty and I'm fifty seven years old.
We don't have any children, so we do a lot
of activities together and we travel a lot. We're in
a vacation club and there's one other couple that we
enjoy meeting up with at different destinations. Mother's Day weekend,
we met the couple in Barcelona and we stayed in
a vacation rental. When we got there, we went straight
(01:32):
to the beach to relax. There was a black couple
at the beach bar, and my husband knew the guy,
so we invited the couple up to our house for dinner.
Me and my friend didn't want another couple in the
mix because the woman did not seem friendly. They came
and we had a great dinner by a private chef,
and we all sat outside after dinner. The other woman
(01:54):
could not sit still. She sashayed around and was very
expressive when she talked and touching on my husband. My
girlfriend and I were not feeling her, so we went
inside and left her with the men. I had already
heard my husband tell my girlfriend's husband that that woman
was built like a mustang. I let it slide because
(02:17):
she's got a big muscular butt and thighs, which isn't
my husband's type at all. I want to take a
shower and fell asleep unintentionally. My girlfriend woke me up
and told me to look outside. The woman had put
on a bikini and was in the hot tub twerking
and dropping it, and her husband was in a chair asleep.
(02:38):
My husband went over to her and grabbed her from
behind and started grinding on her. He was shocked as
hacked when I walked outside. He said he was just
having innocent fun with the rump shaker. He said he'd
never do anything stupid with me in the house. Should
I believe him or not? Well, what do you think?
(03:00):
Don't believe him? You saw it with your very own eyes.
What do you think grabbing her from behind and and
grinding on her can lead to what do you think
was getting ready to happen? He should have gotten out
the hot tub a long time ago. Right, this is
your husband, She is married. She was in the hot
tub twerking and dropping it like it's hot in front
(03:21):
of your husband. There was nothing innocent about that at all.
Your husband grabbed her from behind and grinding on her.
That was not innocent. Okay, that's how having sex starts. Okay,
that's how it starts. She was wrong. He was most
definitely out of order. Who does this and their spouses
(03:42):
are right there. Her husband could have woken up at
any time. You could have gone out there at any
given time like you did. Why did you leave her
out there anyway? I didn't understand that. And you know
your husband was again out of order, saying she was
built like a mustang. And then you said that she
wasn't your husband's type at all. Well, now you know
(04:04):
that's wrong as well. I don't understand why you left
her out there. You didn't like her, You shouldn't have
left her out there with your man. I don't trust him.
I don't trust her. It's a good thing you went
out there when you did, because guess what, it was
probably about to go down, all right, It was probably
about to go down. Should you believe him or not? No,
(04:25):
you should not believe him. Surprised us all you're asking us,
But no, all right, Steve, it's on you, now go.
The rump shaker took my man. I didn't see this
in the letter at all. I was thinking that someone
left somebody in all this here. I was a little
(04:45):
bit surprised. So that lets me know that this woman
right here fifty seven and sixty. They don't normally write
in two shows. They don't normally have problems, and this
was a bit of an extreme problem. So the room shaking,
(05:05):
he's sixty, unfit yourself, y'all, ain't got no kids, y'all
do a lot of activities. Y'all a member of a
vacation club. And you like this other couple because y'all
meet in different destination. Here's a problem. Mother's Day weekend.
We met the couple in Barcelona. We stayed in a
vacation rental. We got that. We went straight to the
(05:28):
beach to relax. That was a black couple at the
beach ball and my husband knew the guy. He knew
the guy. I want you to pay close attention to
this because this I'm gonna show you how this works.
(05:48):
He knew the guy. Put the star next to that.
He invited the couple up to our house for dinner.
Me and my friend didn't want to another couple in
the mix because the woman did not seem friendly. Well,
let's put that on though, burn it too, because obviously
(06:11):
you've run about a lot of stuff. They came. We
had a great dinner by a private chef, and we
all set outside after dinner. So see it worked out.
The other woman could not sit still. Though she sassed around.
It was very expressive when she talked, and she kept
(06:32):
touching my husband. Let's marked that right there, sash and
around touching. All right, hold it still. Oh, I'm gonna hold.
I have all the notes, I have a conclusion. Okay,
we'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at
twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letter, subject
(06:54):
the rump Shaker took my man. We'll get back into
it right after this. You're listening, stay morning show. All right,
Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject
the rump Shaker I took my man. Well, first of all,
let's start with the subject is completely deceiving, because that's
not what happened in the letter, The rump Shaker took
(07:16):
my man. He's sixty fifty seven. Y'all do a lot
of traveling together, y'all in the travel club. Y'all got
this one couple y'all like to hang out with. So
on Mother's Day weekend, y'all went to Barcelona. After you
travel to Barcelona, you got a house rental. You all
went out on the beach to relax. Now, y'allut on
the beach and relaxing, and your husband, who is sixty,
spots a guy that he knows. He knew the guy,
(07:40):
and he invited the couple up to the house for dinner.
You and the other woman did not want the woman
up at the house because she did not seem friendly. Oh,
how wrong you are? You're wrong now, Remember he knew
this guy. They came there at a great dinner by
(08:01):
a private chef. Y'all set outside. The other woman couldn't
sit still. Here we go. She saturated around and was
very expressive when she talked and kept touching on my husband.
My girlfriend and I were not feeling her, so we
went inside and left her with the men. Excuse me,
(08:21):
I'm a little confused. She sass her in around, touching
your husband. You and your girlfriend ain't feeling her, so
y'all go inside and leave her outside with your husband.
That's stupid. I had already heard my husband tell my
girlfriend's husband that the woman was built like a mustang?
Who does that? Who says to another man, man, your
(08:46):
wife built like a mustang? Who does that? I'm gonna
tell you who does that? A guy that knows the guy?
He know the guy. That's why he was comfortable to say, man,
girl built like a Mustang and didn't get knocked out.
And he's sixty, he already know better. Man. But he
(09:09):
said he's built like a Mustang. Then she said, I
let it slide because she's got a big muscular button thighs,
which isn't my husband's type at all. Well then, well
you're wrong about that, But let me ask you a question.
She had a big muscular button thighs, which isn't my type,
in which he lets me know you don't have a
big muscular button and you don't have strong sut it.
(09:32):
That's what that lets me know, because if you did,
you know that was his type. But you, little miss
thin mint pepmint patty, you sitting up in here, or
you one of them girls got cookies, you know, mint thins.
I don't know what you are, but you obviously ain't
the big, thick, muscular booty, strong thigh woman that was
(09:53):
with him. So I went to take a shower and
I fell asleep unintentionally. My girlfriend woke me up and
told me to look outside. This woman had put on
a bikini and was in the hot tub. Twerking and
dropping it and her husband was in the chair asleep.
(10:14):
You don't, you don't, You don't see what's happening, because
this is clear to me. You really think he over
there in that chair sleep. You think he don't know
she didn't put this bikini on. You think he don't
know his wife in the hot tell with another man.
Are you kidding me? My husband went over to her
and grabbed her. She was this woman had put on
(10:36):
a bikini, was in the hotel of Twerking, dropping it hot,
and her husband asleep. My husband went over to her
and grabbed her from behind and started grinding on her.
He was shot as heck when I walked outside. Hell yeah.
He said he was just having innocent fun with the
rump shaker. He said he'd never do anything stupid with
me in the house. Should I believe him or not? Well,
(10:59):
listen to me. He don't think he would do anything
stupid with you in the house. Here's the problem. The
other couple are swingers. They're swingers. Your husband knows the
man is a swinger. That's why he said she built
(11:23):
like a mustang, and he didn't knock him out. You
don't meet no man, just me. The man and you
know him overseas and see this woman she built like
a mustang. That didn't happen. Then he acts like he's
sleep in the chair. Put her in the hot tub
to do what she do, get the other couple involved.
(11:45):
She twerking in a hot tub. He goes and grabbled
from man how he grinded them. It's just innocent fun.
Well we all know that ain't innocent. We do understand
that part. Shirley's absolutely correct about that. And that's gonna
lead to something else. That was it gonna lead to
something that night? I doubted unless you were willing to participate.
(12:07):
But you too square for this because this ain't what
you do. And because you don't want to be a
swinger don't mean you square. You should be square. I'm
square when it comes to that, you ain't swinging with mine. Dog.
Now back in the day, you still wasn't swingling mine.
You just swing with me, but you wasn't swinging with mine.
That's difference. Thanks for the clarity. You can swing with me, Okay,
(12:35):
we'll do. We had rules on this here thing, but
that's all. This is day swingers. And she was out
there working even see what to what it's gonna be
with all y'all, because as soon as you have said
you were down with it, that's what that was gonna be.
All right. Thank you, Steve. Post your comments on today's
Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and gave
(12:57):
me check out the Strawberry Letter podcast done demand now
coming up at forty six minutes after the hour. It
is Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this, you're listening
to the Day Harvey Morning Show
Today's election day in Maine, Nevada, and South Carolina, and
we need you to vote to day, So go to
when We All Vote dot org to get all your
voting information. All right, Switching to today's Strawberry Letter, It
is that time. If you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,
(00:21):
and more, please submit your Strawberry letters to Steve HARVEFM
dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be
reading your letter live on the air, just like we're
gonna read this one right here, right now, and you
never know, it could be yours. Okay, everybody, ladies and gentlemen,
it's time for the Strawberry Letter with my good friend
Shirley Strawberry. Thank you, Junior. Subjects the rug shaker Go ahead,
(00:47):
huh say it again? That sounded weird. Get everybody, WelCom
Strawberry Letter, My deep free Shalley. We are friends, say Junior.
The rum shaker took my man is the subject, Dear
Stephen Shirley. My husband and I have been together fourteen
(01:10):
years and he's sixty and I'm fifty seven years old.
We don't have any children, so we do a lot
of activities together and we travel a lot. We're in
a vacation club and there's one other couple that we
enjoy meeting up with at different destinations. Mother's Day weekend,
we met the couple in Barcelona and we stayed in
a vacation rental. When we got there, we went straight
(01:32):
to the beach to relax. There was a black couple
at the beach bar, and my husband knew the guy,
so we invited the couple up to our house for dinner.
Me and my friend didn't want another couple in the
mix because the woman did not seem friendly. They came
and we had a great dinner by a private chef,
and we all sat outside after dinner. The other woman
(01:54):
could not sit still. She sashayed around and was very
expressive when she talked and touching on my husband. My
girlfriend and I were not feeling her, so we went
inside and left her with the men. I had already
heard my husband tell my girlfriend's husband that that woman
was built like a mustang. I let it slide because
(02:17):
she's got a big muscular butt and thighs, which isn't
my husband's type at all. I want to take a
shower and fell asleep unintentionally. My girlfriend woke me up
and told me to look outside. The woman had put
on a bikini and was in the hot tub twerking
and dropping it, and her husband was in a chair asleep.
(02:38):
My husband went over to her and grabbed her from
behind and started grinding on her. He was shocked as
hacked when I walked outside. He said he was just
having innocent fun with the rump shaker. He said he'd
never do anything stupid with me in the house. Should
I believe him or not? Well, what do you think?
(03:00):
Don't believe him? You saw it with your very own eyes.
What do you think grabbing her from behind and and
grinding on her can lead to what do you think
was getting ready to happen? He should have gotten out
the hot tub a long time ago. Right, this is
your husband, She is married. She was in the hot
tub twerking and dropping it like it's hot in front
(03:21):
of your husband. There was nothing innocent about that at all.
Your husband grabbed her from behind and grinding on her.
That was not innocent. Okay, that's how having sex starts. Okay,
that's how it starts. She was wrong. He was most
definitely out of order. Who does this and their spouses
(03:42):
are right there. Her husband could have woken up at
any time. You could have gone out there at any
given time like you did. Why did you leave her
out there anyway? I didn't understand that. And you know
your husband was again out of order, saying she was
built like a mustang. And then you said that she
wasn't your husband's type at all. Well, now you know
(04:04):
that's wrong as well. I don't understand why you left
her out there. You didn't like her, You shouldn't have
left her out there with your man. I don't trust him.
I don't trust her. It's a good thing you went
out there when you did, because guess what, it was
probably about to go down, all right, It was probably
about to go down. Should you believe him or not? No,
(04:25):
you should not believe him. Surprised us all you're asking us,
But no, all right, Steve, it's on you, now go.
The rump shaker took my man. I didn't see this
in the letter at all. I was thinking that someone
left somebody in all this here. I was a little
(04:45):
bit surprised. So that lets me know that this woman
right here fifty seven and sixty. They don't normally write
in two shows. They don't normally have problems, and this
was a bit of an extreme problem. So the room shaking,
(05:05):
he's sixty, unfit yourself, y'all, ain't got no kids, y'all
do a lot of activities. Y'all a member of a
vacation club. And you like this other couple because y'all
meet in different destination. Here's a problem. Mother's Day weekend.
We met the couple in Barcelona. We stayed in a
vacation rental. We got that. We went straight to the
(05:28):
beach to relax. That was a black couple at the
beach ball and my husband knew the guy. He knew
the guy. I want you to pay close attention to
this because this I'm gonna show you how this works.
(05:48):
He knew the guy. Put the star next to that.
He invited the couple up to our house for dinner.
Me and my friend didn't want to another couple in
the mix because the woman did not seem friendly. Well,
let's put that on though, burn it too, because obviously
(06:11):
you've run about a lot of stuff. They came. We
had a great dinner by a private chef, and we
all set outside after dinner. So see it worked out.
The other woman could not sit still. Though she sassed around.
It was very expressive when she talked, and she kept
(06:32):
touching my husband. Let's marked that right there, sash and
around touching. All right, hold it still. Oh, I'm gonna hold.
I have all the notes, I have a conclusion. Okay,
we'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at
twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letter, subject
(06:54):
the rump Shaker took my man. We'll get back into
it right after this. You're listening, stay morning show. All right,
Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject
the rump Shaker I took my man. Well, first of all,
let's start with the subject is completely deceiving, because that's
not what happened in the letter, The rump Shaker took
(07:16):
my man. He's sixty fifty seven. Y'all do a lot
of traveling together, y'all in the travel club. Y'all got
this one couple y'all like to hang out with. So
on Mother's Day weekend, y'all went to Barcelona. After you
travel to Barcelona, you got a house rental. You all
went out on the beach to relax. Now, y'allut on
the beach and relaxing, and your husband, who is sixty,
spots a guy that he knows. He knew the guy,
(07:40):
and he invited the couple up to the house for dinner.
You and the other woman did not want the woman
up at the house because she did not seem friendly. Oh,
how wrong you are? You're wrong now, Remember he knew
this guy. They came there at a great dinner by
(08:01):
a private chef. Y'all set outside. The other woman couldn't
sit still. Here we go. She saturated around and was
very expressive when she talked and kept touching on my husband.
My girlfriend and I were not feeling her, so we
went inside and left her with the men. Excuse me,
(08:21):
I'm a little confused. She sass her in around, touching
your husband. You and your girlfriend ain't feeling her, so
y'all go inside and leave her outside with your husband.
That's stupid. I had already heard my husband tell my
girlfriend's husband that the woman was built like a mustang?
Who does that? Who says to another man, man, your
(08:46):
wife built like a mustang? Who does that? I'm gonna
tell you who does that? A guy that knows the guy?
He know the guy. That's why he was comfortable to say, man,
girl built like a Mustang and didn't get knocked out.
And he's sixty, he already know better. Man. But he
(09:09):
said he's built like a Mustang. Then she said, I
let it slide because she's got a big muscular button thighs,
which isn't my husband's type at all. Well then, well
you're wrong about that, But let me ask you a question.
She had a big muscular button thighs, which isn't my type,
in which he lets me know you don't have a
big muscular button and you don't have strong sut it.
(09:32):
That's what that lets me know, because if you did,
you know that was his type. But you, little miss
thin mint pepmint patty, you sitting up in here, or
you one of them girls got cookies, you know, mint thins.
I don't know what you are, but you obviously ain't
the big, thick, muscular booty, strong thigh woman that was
(09:53):
with him. So I went to take a shower and
I fell asleep unintentionally. My girlfriend woke me up and
told me to look outside. This woman had put on
a bikini and was in the hot tub. Twerking and
dropping it and her husband was in the chair asleep.
(10:14):
You don't, you don't, You don't see what's happening, because
this is clear to me. You really think he over
there in that chair sleep. You think he don't know
she didn't put this bikini on. You think he don't
know his wife in the hot tell with another man.
Are you kidding me? My husband went over to her
and grabbed her. She was this woman had put on
(10:36):
a bikini, was in the hotel of Twerking, dropping it hot,
and her husband asleep. My husband went over to her
and grabbed her from behind and started grinding on her.
He was shot as heck when I walked outside. Hell yeah.
He said he was just having innocent fun with the
rump shaker. He said he'd never do anything stupid with
me in the house. Should I believe him or not? Well,
(10:59):
listen to me. He don't think he would do anything
stupid with you in the house. Here's the problem. The
other couple are swingers. They're swingers. Your husband knows the
man is a swinger. That's why he said she built
(11:23):
like a mustang, and he didn't knock him out. You
don't meet no man, just me. The man and you
know him overseas and see this woman she built like
a mustang. That didn't happen. Then he acts like he's
sleep in the chair. Put her in the hot tub
to do what she do, get the other couple involved.
(11:45):
She twerking in a hot tub. He goes and grabbled
from man how he grinded them. It's just innocent fun.
Well we all know that ain't innocent. We do understand
that part. Shirley's absolutely correct about that. And that's gonna
lead to something else. That was it gonna lead to
something that night? I doubted unless you were willing to participate.
(12:07):
But you too square for this because this ain't what
you do. And because you don't want to be a
swinger don't mean you square. You should be square. I'm
square when it comes to that, you ain't swinging with mine. Dog.
Now back in the day, you still wasn't swingling mine.
You just swing with me, but you wasn't swinging with mine.
That's difference. Thanks for the clarity. You can swing with me, Okay,
(12:35):
we'll do. We had rules on this here thing, but
that's all. This is day swingers. And she was out
there working even see what to what it's gonna be
with all y'all, because as soon as you have said
you were down with it, that's what that was gonna be.
All right. Thank you, Steve. Post your comments on today's
Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and gave
(12:57):
me check out the Strawberry Letter podcast done demand now
coming up at forty six minutes after the hour. It
is Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this, you're listening
to the Day Harvey Morning Show
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