February 7, 2025 • 37 mins
Amy is addicted to MAFS and stood up for Tim last week... she has now realised she was wrong! Plus we ask "Who have you misjudged?".
The clip that took everyone by storm this week, an Adelaide Mum confronts a bully in the classroom, Chris & Amy share their thoughts.
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Speaker 1 (00:04):
Chris Page and Amy Erard in the morning. Gooday, welcome
to the Chris Page and Any Girard Podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Hello.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Good on you for checking out this podcast. You've made
a fine choice. You won't be disappointed.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
No, we can to keep you entertained for a solid.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
It's not a long one.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
It's a short one. We're short and sweet.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
We're not rogan here. You can knock us over in
less than half an hour. Bad news though, the world
could be coming to an end in twenty thirty two.
What so we got about seven years left if nasa're right.
There's an asteroid that's floating around out there in orbit,
and they already had this asteroid on the radar and
they said there was a one point three percent chance
(00:48):
of it hitting Earth. And it's a it's a pretty
big one. It's about the size of a football field
the asteroid.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Which which side of the Earth is it going to hit?
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Well, we don't know yet because obviously everything's everything spinning
when it gets close. Remember the Movieedon, Yeah I do. Yeah,
as it gets closer, you get a better idea. Yeah, yeah,
Ben Affleck can live Tyler. Ben Affleck just defiling Bruce
Willis's daughter, yeap, what I'm moving?
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Yeah, so one point three chance and now what.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Now they've upped it. There's now a two point three
percent chance that this asteroid is going to mean.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
The odds are still pretty low, but two point three
there's like a ninety seven point seven chance that it won't.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
But I mean global destruction. Two point three percents a
little high for my liking. Yeah, it's done.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
I reckon.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
There's heaps of other shit floating around out there that
we're unaware of.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Well, you know what, there is some comfort in this.
The good news is, you know, NASA have been mucking
around with this will like the movie Armageddon, remember what
they did, because Deep Impact was the other one that
came out the same year was the asteroid movie year.
It's been a while, they've got to make a new asteroid. Yeah,
good in Armageddon. So they took off and they were
they were putting the nuclear bomb on the asteroid to
(02:03):
blow it to smith Reads, remember, and then the little
bits came to it. NASA have already done something that
they've crashed a spacecraft into an asteroid before and knocked
it off its course. So if this thing is going
to hit us, We're just Earth will just all the
countries will get together, the jets out launch ship at
it until we hit it and it just knocks it
(02:26):
off and it can crash into.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Miss into the sun or something. The sun will just melt.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
The sun will be all right. Yeah, I'm just going
to say no, we like the sun, but no the
sun will Yeah, fine, okay, cool. Anyway, there's your asteroid updates.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
That's our that's our astrology up there.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
The way you just glaze over and doesn't directly relate
to you.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Let's talk about star signs. See how interested you are about.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Them, crystals. Let's get into the podcast.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Can we talk mass?
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Sure?
Speaker 3 (02:56):
I feel like I really need to come back in
here into the studio and just unpack a few things
that have been going on.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Fill me in because I'm sort of well, everyone talks
to me about it. It seems everyone but me is
watching this.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
Well, you need to get onto it so that we
can start having some dialogue back and forth. So obviously,
last week I came out kind of slightly batting for Tim.
Now Tim got married to this lovely lady Katie last
week sometime or the week before, and Katie was quote
unquote not what he essentially asked for.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
You told me, he said, I like petite brunettes and blondes,
and they gave him a bigger girl who's a redhead.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Right, correct, Okay, And so he made some comments after
the wedding which he was obviously a little bit disappointed
in what he had received in the form of a wife,
And whilst I was a bit like, well, that's kind
of shallow, I did feel somewhat a little bit disappointed
for him, only because every other person on the show
(04:02):
seemed to have been matched with what they asked for, right,
So they've all said, oh, this is my type, this
is what I'm really into, and they've all essentially been
matched with exactly that.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
He's opened up his TMU package and gone, that's that's
not what it looked like at.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
All, yeah, kha.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
So and look, I was like, listen, he's a little
bit superficial right now because he's judging her purely based
off her looks. But if we're going just specifically off looks,
he's kind of got the raw edge of the deal,
Like he's drawn the short store and he's got like
somebody completely different to what he wants to see coming
(04:38):
down the article.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
Well, if you liked me and you didn't see the
original wedding, so this was when you were still defending
him at this point because you know, he asked for
something different. This was his reaction to the wedding back then.
If you didn't see it, Kay's, yeah, nothing what normally
i'd go for.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
I'm a shad it.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
I was just like, it's disappointing.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
You can't judge someone away from that two amount of time,
five minutes.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
I completely cut it's a woman off.
Speaker 5 (05:09):
But I just feel like I've wasted.
Speaker 6 (05:11):
My time from some of runaway.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Yeah, okay, so I still I'm going to stand by this.
I still at that point felt a little bit sorry
for him. You know, like if I had gone on
Masks because I was desperate to find love, which I'm
sure none of these people are, and I said, I
like a tall, dark, handsome man, and they sent a
you know, a small, a short king, a short king
(05:38):
with bright orange chair or something, Damielle, I absolutely would
have been disappointed too.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
I probably would.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Have played it smart and I would have actually put
a little bit of faith in the judges and seen
it through.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Right, But you turned on Tim big time. You weren't.
You were pretty am when you came in and said
I defended him on.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
The dinner party.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
I was like, I don't care what we've got on
Saturday morning, throw it out the window.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
We are bringing maths back, and I am falling on.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
My sword because he is a pig. I was so
mortified watching his behavior. It was gas lighting one oh one.
He was basically walking around the room and talking to people,
making out like he was the victim. Oh, Katie hasn't
even asked me anything. Katie hasn't asked me if I
want kids. Katie hasn't put in any of the effort,
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which I don't know.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
Are you an idiot? Have you forgotten that you're on
National TV?
Speaker 1 (06:33):
Idiots watching it? They're all idiots. So this is Tim
and Katie at the dinner party, right, Well.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
This maybe when they first walk in.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Yeah, yeah, I appreciate you getting up. I was worried beout.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
I approached him and kind of gave me an impression
he was scared of me, which was weird.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
It definitely shows a lot about who you are. So
you've definitely gone up in my.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Gone up in your books.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
So he's drip feeding her like little things like that,
because he knows that she's very insecure and.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
She's she's had no love for men, had no love.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
And she's very vulnerable on the show, and you just
want to take her out of it and wrap her
up and protect her from people like Tim. So he's
drip feeding her these little lines like oh, you've gone
up in my books because she made the right decision
and got up and said hello, and she was the
bigger person.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
He is vile. I cannot believe I defended him.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
I'm pretty sure all the women basically was trying to
call him out. There was a small pile on which
he absolutely deserved. He just kept deflecting. He didn't want
to answer anyone's questions. And then when the when it
got too hot in the kitchen for him, he just
walked out like a little bit.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
We talk about maths and people start ringing when you
talk about Tim, particularly on thirteen, to give us a called,
Nat has called in. What did you want to say
about this? Nat?
Speaker 4 (08:03):
I feel like he needs to take a good hard
look in the mirror and maybe lower his expectations. And
maybe this is the reason your.
Speaker 7 (08:10):
Single, babe, Yeah, because you're a horrible because don't go
on TV if you're one of those people.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
That's right, And then even him coming on TV being like,
I'm such a nice guy and I always get.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
Walked all over. Actually you're not.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
You're actually there, you're.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
Catfishing yourself and you're just like a full blown yeah, mistogynist.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
We wouldn't have reality TV without jerks. Though true, it
is the.
Speaker 8 (08:30):
Best, it is the best.
Speaker 4 (08:32):
It is so hard to watch without screaming at the team.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
I feel like every woman on that night on the
dinner party was just like curled up with their fists
like clenched in balls over Tim's behavior.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
Thirteen one of six. Five if you want to give
us a call on that, now, tell me about the
website on maps. Everything has gone on. They've taken every
mention of Tim offline.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
Yes, and I don't you.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
I did read a newspaper article everything, Like Tim has
disappeared from all social media.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
He's removed all the accounts. He's trying to just go
to ground.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
And but Channel nine have taken everything off as well.
Speaker 8 (09:07):
Well.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
Yeah, Channel nine maths social media. There is nothing scene
of Tim.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
See something's happened there, well, something to find the scenes,
you reckon, Well, the guy's getting slagged off by everyone.
I mean, it's going to be going well.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
But everybody.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
There's always every season, everyone always gets slagged off. There's
always a villain and whatnot. But yeah, maybe Tim's just
couldn't handle it.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
Is anyone going to stick up for him? Thirty one
oh six y five? If you actually say Tim's been
done dirty? It's the editing Chris.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
And.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Everyone wants to talk about Tim from maths, so you
mention his name and the phone lines going nuts on
thirty one oh six five. You misjudged him at first.
I stuck up for him.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
I absolutely misjudged him, and I hate myself for it.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Gave myself a few uppercuts.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
It happens. You tell you had a boyfriend that you
got her three months.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
Oh man, did I miss him? I thought he was
God's gift to me for the first three months, and
then turned out he was.
Speaker 2 (10:06):
Psychotic though the crazy ones are crazy.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
Nicknamed him Fritzel, you know, like Joseph Fritzel, you know
the guy who kept his daughter under his in his basement,
and that's tasteless, very very psychotic. That's yeah, all right,
misjudged that one.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
We're not saying Tim's that well, he's right up there
apparently thirty one o six ' five Tim from Maths.
Your thoughts, Jerry, you've been looking at TikTok about Tim?
What have you found?
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (10:37):
Oh my god, I can't get on the socials without
seeing so much stuff about him.
Speaker 5 (10:41):
He's such a repulsive, squeally little pig.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
He is.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
You know what I think this is Some people just
don't think before they go on reality TV shows, Like
every single cobweb, even if you think that you've like
vacuumed them up, they will come out to haunt you.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
It's worse than running for politics. People go through your past.
Speaker 7 (11:02):
Not only that, but like you know, you're on national TV,
like how have you not put on like a fake like, oh,
this is great and I'll just get out when the
time's right.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
Correct.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
I always think that as well, like just to save face,
like you know what fake it?
Speaker 2 (11:17):
Do? You have to?
Speaker 3 (11:18):
And then so you can leave with some sort of dignity,
Like surely you are aware that there's cameras everywhere and
you're saying these horrific things.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
What are people saying Jerry on TikTok oh that he.
Speaker 7 (11:31):
Is the biggest catfish I've seen. I'm like, the all
the like sissies, is your man? Or all these people
coming forward saying like they went on dates with him,
and they've posted pictures of his old like Tinder profiles
and stuff, and he was so much thinner and better
looking in them, the old catfish.
Speaker 6 (11:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (11:49):
So they're also saying he was like repulsive on dates too.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
Oh, Tim, you should have never gone on the show.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
I like to see his exes as well. I want
to know, do you even have any Well, I don't know,
probably no. I want to know if they really are
the petite blonde brunettes that he asked the producers for
or I don't know, Helen, I'm thirty one five.
Speaker 5 (12:10):
Hi, Hi guys, Hi.
Speaker 8 (12:14):
I think why every six's being taken down? Yeah, because
he's a teacher. Yeah, and it's just not a good look.
You can't be doing that on national television. You've got
copied parents watching, students watching.
Speaker 3 (12:29):
Yeah, And well that's what I was thinking. The parents
of the kids that he teaches. Surely if they're watching,
they're making complaints to the school. Like So I actually
got a message saying that he had been stood down
from his school.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
Is that actually something that would have.
Speaker 6 (12:42):
Happened quite possibly?
Speaker 8 (12:46):
Yeah, yeah, I was surprised.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
I don't know if a school a school. I know
in our in our contracts, amy it Kiss, there's a
clause called bringing the company rather into disrepute. So if
you do, if you did something horrific in your personal
life and like really bad, kiss went, you know what,
that's not what we're about. That's not our brands. We'll
get rid of you. But I wouldn't have thought schools
(13:09):
asmar government, right.
Speaker 8 (13:11):
Yeah, look, just been put gently to him, you know,
maybe offer him a transfer. I don't know. I don't know, but.
Speaker 6 (13:18):
I just think it's that.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
Yeah, it makes sense.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
I mean I've got friends who are school teachers and
they haven't even gone on reality shows and they have
nothing on the internet.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
They have they play it real safe.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
But there's something going on when nine and married at
first sight of taking him off because it's one thing
for him to go through and delete his digital footprint
for everything, but but the official sites Helen have taken
him down as well. So I reckon something's happening behind
the scenes. You know, maybe Tim's not going so great.
Speaker 3 (13:44):
I think that Tim isn't going to come back, and
I think everybody will be over him in a week's
time and they'll find somebody else that they're going to
not like.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
One of these is going to end badly. These yeah things,
it's not good for listen, humans, even if he is
a rotten bloke, it's the whole country hating you.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
Hylon is quite intense.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
Yeah, it's not a good feeling.
Speaker 3 (14:05):
Sometimes you do just have to go to ground and
wade out the storm.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
We had a teacher at school who was an actor
as well, so he'd pop up on Home and Away
And one time he was on water Rats. Remember water
Rats on Channel line. So our teacher was on water
Rats and in one scene and he swore in one
of the scenes he was screaming this line. I can't
remember exactly what it was, but it was the F
word or something screm So of course school the next
day everyone's like, oh my god, did you see mister
(14:29):
McNeil and water Rats? And so everyone was there quoting
that back to him at school, wasn't it?
Speaker 2 (14:35):
Yeah? Great, Wow, that's a that was a great story.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
Great story. Just shut up Chris Page and named Gerard
in the morning on Kiss thanks for the cause.
Speaker 5 (14:45):
Chris d.
Speaker 1 (14:48):
An Adelaide mother has apologized for her behavior, bursting into
her daughter's classroom, her thirteen year old daughter, and just
giving both barrels to a girl who was allegedly bullying
her daughter. This is what happened when the mum went
into the classroom. So, I mean sounds real bad, right.
Speaker 3 (15:35):
I mean that listening to that, that dead set makes
me emotional as a mum, Like you can hear it
in that mum's voice, like she is in full Mama
Bear protective mode. And yet you know what, she may
have said some choice words, and she may have not
gone about it in the right way, but I have
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I am literally backing her. I would do absolutely anything
for my children. And apparently this bullying had been going
on for over a year. She had done all the
right things, she'd contacted the school, she'd done she tried
to go about it the right way, and nothing was
being done about it.
Speaker 1 (16:14):
Yeah, I mean she lost a temper based I mean,
you know, she said I'll slit your f and throat
and she said I shouldn't have said that. That's not me,
and she's apologized for that, but I mean, yeah, she
lost a temper. I mean someone hurts Henry or Oscar
temper losing it. I'm probably slitting throats. I'm not threatening
(16:34):
to do it. So she's given the context of this.
She said, I was a mother that was distraught at
seeing a thirteen year old daughter being bullied for an
immense amount of time.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
She's thirteen, she's thirteen. The mom's pregnant.
Speaker 1 (16:49):
I was gonna say twenty months pregnant. Obviously she's not
twenty weeks pregnant at the moment, so she's got that
going on. She said. The daughter had come home upset
from school, crying, devastated, saying another child had told her
to hang herself.
Speaker 2 (17:04):
And there's already that they've had suicide attempts.
Speaker 1 (17:07):
Yeah, it's hard to say that she's done the wrong
thing here if that's really going on at school and
nothing's getting done about it.
Speaker 3 (17:16):
Oh and I could tell you stories about kids that
I've grown up with in the area that were bullied
and the school knew about it and nothing got done
about it, and the next minute they've they've killed themselves.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
And I feel like this mum may have saved her daughter.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
On thirteen, one of six y five do you stand
up for this, mum or I mean, are you against
did she go to far? Did she do the wrong thing?
If you want to say she's totally out of line,
you can tell us that thirty one of sixty five. Emily,
what do you think? Whose side are you on in this?
Speaker 4 (17:45):
I'm on mom's side. I think that she's done everything
that she could. Well, she's reached out to the school.
She says that she's reached out to the police. What
else can she do? That's right, she like, it's as
a parent, it's our job to protect our children. Of course,
and as I just heard, I didn't know that there
was suicide camps, So of course if that is already happening,
(18:08):
and then you have a child telling your child to
hang themselves, of course you're going to go into that
school and take madit into your own hands.
Speaker 2 (18:15):
Yeah, exactly right.
Speaker 3 (18:16):
And how are you going into the school and acting diplomatically?
Like I understand there were some choice words and the
threatening and whatnot, but like you have to understand that
it's coming from a just probably a place of just
feeling so scared.
Speaker 1 (18:32):
And Janey, I understand that you may have said this
to my daughter, and I mean, yeah, you're not going
to be calm, and you're right. It is a parent's
job to protect their kids at the end of the day. Yes,
you can complain to the school. It's not well, it's
the school's job, but it is the parent's number one job.
The buck stops with the parents. And what is annoying
is we have these days for everything we have are
(18:54):
you okay?
Speaker 8 (18:55):
Day?
Speaker 1 (18:55):
And I mean, and then there's white ribbon Day and
everyone wears a white ribbon and says domestic violence is bad,
and then we don't change the bail laws exactly changes
don't wear a white ribbon. Just lock these bastards up.
I mean, And this is what's happening. Nothing is actually
getting done, but there's lots of good talk about it,
and are you okay, dame, and good to remind us.
But if the school's not doing anything, the police aren't
(19:17):
doing anything.
Speaker 2 (19:18):
The mom stepped in to help.
Speaker 1 (19:20):
Yeah, all right, throw down, Emily. You're one hundred percent
with the mum.
Speaker 4 (19:24):
Yes, I am ye.
Speaker 1 (19:26):
I think a lot of.
Speaker 4 (19:26):
People with the school, they do need more help. They
need more funding. Like there's only so much we expect
teachers to teach. We expect them to watch our kids
at play time and then we expect them to stop bullying.
We need more funding as well as the government. Like
the teachers aren't to blame, the school is not to blame, Like, yes,
they do have part, but like the bigger picture, what's
(19:47):
being done. Nothing's being done.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Every school should have dedicated staffman to the school, dedicated
to deal with this.
Speaker 4 (19:55):
Yeah, that's it, exactly right, Like there's a bigger picture here,
and talking about that either, Like I'm sure the teachers
are feeling horrible that it's got to this point, like
they are with their kids every single day, like they're
watching our children grow into these young adults. I'm sure
they are just as upset watching this stuff happen and their.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
Jobs no teaching, you know what I mean about it.
That's why you need a counselor or like a bullying
warden in the school that every kid knows they can
go talk to and that's going to get dealt with
because teachers they're there to teach maths and English. You know,
they're not actually meant to deal with this correct usually
you know, back in the day, the teachers teach and
then out in the playground all this stuff that happened,
(20:35):
but now you got so much more with social.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
Media and it just follows you everywhere.
Speaker 1 (20:38):
It is nice. Look, we're talking about some heavy stuff here.
If you are experiencing problems in this, there is a
lot of help out there. Okay, Lifeline is just one
of those options on thirteen eleven fourteen, but there are
you know, a hundred ways you can reach out and
get help if you need it. We want to hear
from your parents. Does anyone want to maybe disagree, like
(20:59):
if you I think this mum's in the wrong bo.
Speaker 2 (21:01):
She could have done things differently.
Speaker 1 (21:08):
We're talking about the Adelaide mum who went into the
daughter's bullied classroom and just unloaded. Most of us have
seen the video or heard it by now. The mums
come out and apologize and said, look, that's not me,
and I said some things I shouldn't have said, like
I'll sleep your throat. But it's yeah, a lot of
(21:30):
people saying I understand it because of what the daughter
has and just to heads up obviously what we're talking
about here, there is going there's some references to suicide
because that's what we're dealing with. A thirteen year old
girl who was told to kill herself by a classmate
and went home and has apparently made attempts on her life.
So look, reach out if you're having trouble. There's a
(21:52):
lot of places you can go to. Amy, we were
on air right here when we were talking about bullying
in the social media band. We were talking about remember
and we got a call from the auntie of young
Charlotte O'Brien, Yes, Sydney school girl who took her own
life at twelve years off because of bullying, because of bullying.
So that the consequences here aren't hypothetically, no, not at all,
(22:13):
it's real. On thirteen one oh six ' five Are
you with the mother? What do you think of this, Sarah?
Speaker 2 (22:18):
What did you want to sell about Hi, Sarah?
Speaker 5 (22:21):
Yeah, I think this gets everyone. I think everyone has
got a story to tell about bullying.
Speaker 2 (22:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (22:26):
But my son when he went to school, you know,
when it happened to him, I was like, oh, you know,
I'm involved in something that I read about. You know
in Captain's Child, you have shocked and you do the
right thing, and you you go to school and you
you know, and then you feel helpless because you're sending
them off. So what I did with my sound he
got bullied a couple of times, and I did go
in and I did face the smaller incident that happened.
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I looked at the boy right in the eyes and
I said to him, you know, I know what you're doing. Yeah,
and I'm watching you. And I said it really low,
and the teacher didn't hear me, and that incant, you know,
didn't happen. And again, and that young boy was having
a hard time at home. I found out, you know,
there's always something going on with the bully. They're never happy.
And I said to my son, you know, you'll notice
(23:10):
that bully are never happy. They'll get the happy kids,
the ones that are laughing. They'll target them so they're
projected and then you're upset they're bullying you will you
didn't really care about what they think because they're not happy.
Speaker 6 (23:24):
You know, you're happy.
Speaker 5 (23:25):
So what I did with my son was I enrolled
him in jujitsu and I said him, I can't be
with you all the time. And the person at jujitsu
Williamstown in Melbourne, he dealt with bullying. He was his jam,
you know, and he thought he just spoke about it
at the beginning of the class, and he just enabled
them to deflect anything that came at them. He gave
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them the tools because you can't be there, you cannot
be there all the time, and they have to have
the tools. They have to be resilient. You can't send
them off and hope nothing happens. You have to be proactive,
I would say.
Speaker 1 (24:00):
Because it's obviously a self defense. You can deflect. It's
not saying, hey, here's how you chopped their wind pipe.
Speaker 2 (24:06):
No no, no no.
Speaker 3 (24:07):
It's all about wrestling and teaching them like self like
self defense. But it's in a controlled environment. So it's
really good.
Speaker 1 (24:17):
Thank you. Sarah Laughlin on thirty one oh six five.
What do you think?
Speaker 6 (24:20):
Heyo, how you going?
Speaker 3 (24:22):
So?
Speaker 6 (24:23):
I'm going to be honest, I'm already shaking over even
saying this. I'm not coming from the standpoint of the parent.
I'm coming from the kids that had the situation happened
to them. You were bullied at school, oh, heavily, not
even an understatement, heavily.
Speaker 2 (24:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (24:38):
So yeah, which I said before I came on that
I wasn't sure if I'll say it, I'll say you
what one of the incidents happened to me, I think
you four year five, I was held down on a
bus and two kids, two older kids from high school
held me down while the kid's younger brother that were
younger than me. But I can't do anything cause I
older tried to suss KP with plastic Oh my go,
(25:01):
which I know that might be a big graphic. That's
as a ten year old eleven year old kid on
the call, not Sarah, the call you had before that.
I don't cop that the kids that the school can't
do nothing, or when you guys are saying I've had
more death like still like people telling me to kill
myself than I can count when I was in school.
I'm now twenty six and a lot older. I still
(25:23):
have all the paranoia and all those sort of things
because of it. But like there's suspensive, there's expulsion.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
Yeah, if you get rid of me, there's different there's.
Speaker 6 (25:32):
Different varying degrees of obviously bullying, but like you can
expel the kid, and the school is lacking on that
because like all that happens is they get suspended for
two days, they come back.
Speaker 2 (25:43):
And they just have a kid.
Speaker 6 (25:44):
You can't go to a council line. You can't go
to a teacher, because you end up even getting bashed
why the same kid, or you get bullied twice as
hard Bulson is the only way to do it. Even
in some cases that doesn't work, like on Mylan, they
wouldn't suspend the kid either, they wouldn't expel the kid.
But even if the kid got expelled, there was high
schoolers that were like his brothers that would come and
(26:05):
do it anyway. But like the parents, not wrong in it.
Probably it's bad that it got to that point that
they had to go in and do that. Yeah, the
school should be bloody well ashamed that they let it
get to that point. Ye, But there's got to be
better systems in place because it's just like they don't
(26:25):
do anything about it.
Speaker 1 (26:26):
Would you ad Lachlin that that there needs to be
funding and every school should have a dedicated staff member
who's a trained counselor and you know, and have and
take it out of the teacher's hands, let them teach.
Speaker 6 (26:38):
No, So in essense, yes, the teachers fully agree, teachers
let them teach. But there's a principal that can expel
the kid. Yeah, yeah, and there's a vice principal and
in like eighty percent of schools. Now there's like six
vice principals and most schools have counselors. Really every school
like I went to, which if you can get the
name out of the school, so they don't know who
I am.
Speaker 1 (26:58):
Now, let that's right.
Speaker 6 (27:00):
Oh, anyway it was in bill War wasn't the best school.
Like they had a counselor, they had all sorts of stuff.
There was numerous things that came up of it. They
did nothing. Ever, this happened obviously in primary school, like
what I'm talking about happened to me, but like my
parents couldn't do anything about it, nothing because they wouldn't
suspend them.
Speaker 1 (27:20):
Mate, we've gone soft. You're right, that's gone stuff that
we don't do anything about it. You're right, there needs
to be expulsion. And it's the same thing I said
with White Ribbon Day and domestic violence, where we go,
Oh god, isn't it terrible. I'm wearing a white ribbon
because I'm against it.
Speaker 2 (27:30):
But they were not actually putting anything to place.
Speaker 1 (27:32):
No one goes to jail. All the men that are
out there who murder their partner have a history of
domestic violence and didn't get locked up for it in
the first place. All right, thank you very much for
the calls. Again a heavy one. If you're struggling, reach
out Lachlin, get help. Lifeline is thirteen eleven or fourteen,
or there's a million other places you can go as well.
Just reach out. Chris Morning like, everything right. I'm late
(27:56):
to the party on this, but I'm catching up quick.
I'm a good catcher up right. Yeah, justin Baldoni and
Blake Lively. It's dragging on, and I feel the longer
it drags on, the worse it gets for Blake Lively.
Speaker 3 (28:10):
And I'm interested to see how this is going to
play out and how it's going to end. I feel
like they may settle outside of court.
Speaker 1 (28:17):
Everyone said, they go, oh, look, I'm not guilty, but
I just want to I just want to wrap away
for everyone's sake and families and kids.
Speaker 3 (28:23):
I haven't done a huge deep dive into it, but
a girl friend of mine who is up with a
newborn quite often at nighttime, she has spent hours and
hours She's read even the court like.
Speaker 1 (28:39):
What's the thing, the court documents, everything, everything that has
all the charges that have been put pushed through, not charges.
Speaker 2 (28:47):
Like while she wat alligations and allegations.
Speaker 1 (28:49):
They're saying this could end up on TV though when
it goes to court, it could be like Johnny Depp
and Amber heard and they actually broadcast it becomes a
huge thing.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
But she's saying it is it does not look good
for her.
Speaker 3 (29:01):
Her text messages the way she's very very passive aggressive,
and it's almost like it's almost like she's softly bullying
him into certain situations but insinuating that she is this
powerhouse with so much backing behind her and don't dare
(29:21):
come up against her.
Speaker 1 (29:22):
Well, to be clear, so she well, she started the
legal she started it legally, so she put in a
formal thing about sexual harassment again set against him on
the set of It Ends with Us. So when they
were shooting that movie, now it's come out that there
were meetings about his behavior, and there was a meeting
that Ryan Reynolds went to with Blake Lively where there
were certain demands that all the staff agreed to, including
(29:45):
not describing his own genitalia anymore and also to be.
Speaker 2 (29:50):
Talking about his penis apparent.
Speaker 1 (29:52):
Well, I'm assuming so there had to be an intimacy
coordinator on set at all times if Blake Lively was
in any state of nudity and which I think is
pretty normal. Yeah, of course, and he said he was
addicted to porn. But it's I mean, look, it's not
I'm not saying that's okay in a workplace. But when
you've read about Harvey Weinstein and Hollywood, this is not
(30:12):
at the upper end of it.
Speaker 3 (30:14):
Yeah, I mean, I guess no one's ever going to
understand or know what truly went on, but it doesn't
look good. Four hundred million dollars he's trying to sue
them for.
Speaker 1 (30:26):
That's what he's suing back. So he won't get that,
but he'll be hoping for a chunk of it because
he's saying that's his that's what he feels he would
earn for the rest of his career, because he's saying
this is a career ender.
Speaker 2 (30:35):
Yeah, but you're right.
Speaker 3 (30:36):
The longer this plays out in the media, the more
people pay attention to it, the more people do their
own deep diving, and then people start making up their
own opinions, and it's not a good look for either
of them, to be honest.
Speaker 1 (30:47):
She was winning the pr battle straight away. She came
out and said he sexually asked me, he's a pig.
Ryan Reynolds missed a nice guy in Hollywood. He is
the new Tom Hanks.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
It's nice to go for it.
Speaker 1 (30:57):
I love him. But the power he has now with
Deadpool Disney, Deadpool made a billion dollars, so sequels to come.
He I mean, he's on his way to being a billionaire.
They are very, very powerful. And yeah, it's worse for
them if it goes on, because he was ruined straight away,
justin Baldoni. You Gough yuck. You hear that name, right,
But Blake Lively, Ryan Reynolds, you don't want to believe
(31:20):
it a list, But the longer it goes on, they're
just getting a bit stinkier. Yeah, she said what did
she say about Game of Thrones, which she.
Speaker 2 (31:29):
Said something that she's Kalisi.
Speaker 1 (31:30):
And she's got her dragon. Now. Taylor Swift was apparently
upset about that.
Speaker 2 (31:35):
Oh you reckon?
Speaker 1 (31:36):
Yeah, because that implies her dragons are Ryan Reynolds and
Taylor Swift.
Speaker 3 (31:40):
But I mean where where we're taking that? No, she
had she didn't say.
Speaker 1 (31:44):
That, but the internet said that must be right. The
Internet knows what. Taylor Swift never lies, guys. Yeah, it's just, yeah,
she might she might be a cow'stful one.
Speaker 8 (31:59):
You know.
Speaker 1 (31:59):
No one needs to sup with bad behavior on sets.
Speaker 2 (32:02):
That's not okay.
Speaker 1 (32:02):
But I'm just everything that's happened since I don't know.
She's just got that.
Speaker 3 (32:07):
Bit of a power tribe power trip vibe right from
the text.
Speaker 1 (32:10):
Yeah, follow that one, Okay, talk about Diddy and Kanye.
Speaker 3 (32:14):
I really don't again, and we are not talking about Trump. No, Yeah,
you've snuck in two American people already.
Speaker 1 (32:21):
Well, it's super Bowl weekend everyone, Monday morning, super Bowl.
It's the big, big weekend in America. Greats just about
time for us to get almost about time to go.
Speaker 2 (32:36):
Yeah, home to the fam.
Speaker 3 (32:37):
But I had an interesting conversation with my daughter during
the week, and it kind of got me thinking. I
didn't really know how to answer it. It was all very innocent.
I was sitting on the lounge with her and we
were just watching some TV. The Boys Has Gone to Bend.
She said, Mum, did you have any boyfriends before dad?
And I said no, no, Yeah, I said yeah. I
(32:58):
actually think it's really good to, you know, date a
few different guys and then you kind of, you know,
because everyone's different and then you work out what's really
important to you in a relationship and all of that
kind of stuff. And she goes, okay, did you did
you have sex with all of them? And I was
like what, sorry, why where is that question coming from?
Speaker 2 (33:21):
So how do you know about that word? Is?
Speaker 1 (33:24):
She nine?
Speaker 3 (33:25):
She's nine, right, And I think the thing here is
I don't think she actually understands what it is. I
don't think she understands the concept of what it entails.
But I she's obviously heard it in songs or whatever.
Speaker 2 (33:39):
We live in a street there's lots of kids, they're.
Speaker 3 (33:41):
A lot older, well you know, and it probably has
been passed around about boys and blah blah blah.
Speaker 1 (33:46):
She knows it's what grown ups end up doing.
Speaker 3 (33:48):
It's like, well, I don't even think I don't even
know if she knows that anyway. And I said, oh, listen,
you know, I don't.
Speaker 2 (33:54):
I don't. I mean I think that when you're I
was like, I don't.
Speaker 1 (33:59):
A flounder.
Speaker 3 (34:00):
I was floundering because in my head, I've always said
to myself, I'm going to be I want to be
really open and honest in my communication styles with my
daughter around all the kind of stuff, anything sex ed related.
I'm always I want it to be like an open
field where she can come to me and ask me anything.
Speaker 1 (34:17):
But I say, now these days, that's what you should do.
Use the proper words and everything.
Speaker 5 (34:21):
You know.
Speaker 1 (34:21):
When we were growing up, it was Willy, exactly right, It's.
Speaker 2 (34:25):
Correct, that's right.
Speaker 3 (34:27):
But I was also like, I don't want to be
having this conversation at nine and then she goes. So
if you're at the shops with like dad, and then
you bump into one of your ex'es and you're just
standing there with two men that you've slept with.
Speaker 1 (34:46):
Oh what look at that?
Speaker 2 (34:47):
It's eight o'clock. It's time for bed, dabe, it's time
to go. I just I was, I.
Speaker 3 (34:52):
Was kind of blindsided, and I want to revisit the
conversation potentially at a later date with her.
Speaker 2 (34:59):
And I don't know is nine too young? Is nine
too young?
Speaker 1 (35:04):
I want to revisit the conversation on this show. I
would love to tomorrow or next week maybe can we
will do this and talk about the age to have
the chat at or have you been forced?
Speaker 2 (35:15):
Have you been blindsided?
Speaker 3 (35:17):
And has the chat come abruptly and how did you
handle this situation. I don't think I handled it to
the best of my ability.
Speaker 1 (35:25):
I reckon that a tipen with most parents, though, that
they'd say, right, we'll do it at twelve, and then
they get forced into it earlier because the kid says
something and they go, oh god, we got to do
it now.
Speaker 8 (35:35):
Oh.
Speaker 3 (35:35):
Like, I've been asked by my youngest son and about
how babies and I'm like, oh, you know, mommy and
daddy do some kissing.
Speaker 1 (35:42):
And God, I got the video from the video store
you rent out. It's called where Do I Come From?
Speaker 2 (35:49):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (35:49):
Did you see that as a kid?
Speaker 2 (35:50):
No, I don't think so.
Speaker 1 (35:51):
My parents didn't bother having the chat. They got the
video out, so we went down the video It's easy
and got where Do I Come From? Out? And it's
a cartoon and explains it all explained talk going on.
But I still remember this scarred me for life. The
dad in the video gets up out of the bath
and his old fella goes down to his knees because
it's a cartoon.
Speaker 3 (36:12):
Okay, And I've just and then you were like, like,
is that is that?
Speaker 2 (36:17):
Is that the length that they're meant to be? Must
I'm deformed? Mom?
Speaker 1 (36:23):
Yeah, yeah, they shouldn't be showing that to kids off.
A bit of laying young man ruins there.
Speaker 3 (36:30):
Yeah, the self scularity, Yeah, okay, it's probably not on
the shelves anymore.
Speaker 1 (36:35):
Let's come back to that. Yeah, i'd like to sex
said thing when you should do the chat? All right,
we're back tomorrow. Em we'll prove the super Bowl, super
Bowl weekend, Budweiser happening Monday, buckets of bud and chicken wings.
Speaker 2 (36:46):
Yeah, great, more American crowd Saturday.
Speaker 8 (36:49):
All right?
Speaker 1 (36:49):
Oh yeah, well we'll check out Kanye's latest tweets as well.
You want to have a look at because he is unloading.
It may not go on much longer. I think he's
going to get kicked off Twitter. Enjoyed while at last
Speaker 3 (36:59):
Hope see here you guys, Chris Page and Amy Yerard
Chris Page and Amy Erard in the morning. Gooday, welcome
to the Chris Page and Any Girard Podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Hello.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Good on you for checking out this podcast. You've made
a fine choice. You won't be disappointed.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
No, we can to keep you entertained for a solid.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
It's not a long one.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
It's a short one. We're short and sweet.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
We're not rogan here. You can knock us over in
less than half an hour. Bad news though, the world
could be coming to an end in twenty thirty two.
What so we got about seven years left if nasa're right.
There's an asteroid that's floating around out there in orbit,
and they already had this asteroid on the radar and
they said there was a one point three percent chance
(00:48):
of it hitting Earth. And it's a it's a pretty
big one. It's about the size of a football field
the asteroid.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Which which side of the Earth is it going to hit?
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Well, we don't know yet because obviously everything's everything spinning
when it gets close. Remember the Movieedon, Yeah I do. Yeah,
as it gets closer, you get a better idea. Yeah, yeah,
Ben Affleck can live Tyler. Ben Affleck just defiling Bruce
Willis's daughter, yeap, what I'm moving?
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Yeah, so one point three chance and now what.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Now they've upped it. There's now a two point three
percent chance that this asteroid is going to mean.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
The odds are still pretty low, but two point three
there's like a ninety seven point seven chance that it won't.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
But I mean global destruction. Two point three percents a
little high for my liking. Yeah, it's done.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
I reckon.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
There's heaps of other shit floating around out there that
we're unaware of.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Well, you know what, there is some comfort in this.
The good news is, you know, NASA have been mucking
around with this will like the movie Armageddon, remember what
they did, because Deep Impact was the other one that
came out the same year was the asteroid movie year.
It's been a while, they've got to make a new asteroid. Yeah,
good in Armageddon. So they took off and they were
they were putting the nuclear bomb on the asteroid to
(02:03):
blow it to smith Reads, remember, and then the little
bits came to it. NASA have already done something that
they've crashed a spacecraft into an asteroid before and knocked
it off its course. So if this thing is going
to hit us, We're just Earth will just all the
countries will get together, the jets out launch ship at
it until we hit it and it just knocks it
(02:26):
off and it can crash into.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Miss into the sun or something. The sun will just melt.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
The sun will be all right. Yeah, I'm just going
to say no, we like the sun, but no the
sun will Yeah, fine, okay, cool. Anyway, there's your asteroid updates.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
That's our that's our astrology up there.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
The way you just glaze over and doesn't directly relate
to you.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Let's talk about star signs. See how interested you are about.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Them, crystals. Let's get into the podcast.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Can we talk mass?
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Sure?
Speaker 3 (02:56):
I feel like I really need to come back in
here into the studio and just unpack a few things
that have been going on.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Fill me in because I'm sort of well, everyone talks
to me about it. It seems everyone but me is
watching this.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
Well, you need to get onto it so that we
can start having some dialogue back and forth. So obviously,
last week I came out kind of slightly batting for Tim.
Now Tim got married to this lovely lady Katie last
week sometime or the week before, and Katie was quote
unquote not what he essentially asked for.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
You told me, he said, I like petite brunettes and blondes,
and they gave him a bigger girl who's a redhead.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Right, correct, Okay, And so he made some comments after
the wedding which he was obviously a little bit disappointed
in what he had received in the form of a wife,
And whilst I was a bit like, well, that's kind
of shallow, I did feel somewhat a little bit disappointed
for him, only because every other person on the show
(04:02):
seemed to have been matched with what they asked for, right,
So they've all said, oh, this is my type, this
is what I'm really into, and they've all essentially been
matched with exactly that.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
He's opened up his TMU package and gone, that's that's
not what it looked like at.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
All, yeah, kha.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
So and look, I was like, listen, he's a little
bit superficial right now because he's judging her purely based
off her looks. But if we're going just specifically off looks,
he's kind of got the raw edge of the deal,
Like he's drawn the short store and he's got like
somebody completely different to what he wants to see coming
(04:38):
down the article.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
Well, if you liked me and you didn't see the
original wedding, so this was when you were still defending
him at this point because you know, he asked for
something different. This was his reaction to the wedding back then.
If you didn't see it, Kay's, yeah, nothing what normally
i'd go for.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
I'm a shad it.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
I was just like, it's disappointing.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
You can't judge someone away from that two amount of time,
five minutes.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
I completely cut it's a woman off.
Speaker 5 (05:09):
But I just feel like I've wasted.
Speaker 6 (05:11):
My time from some of runaway.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Yeah, okay, so I still I'm going to stand by this.
I still at that point felt a little bit sorry
for him. You know, like if I had gone on
Masks because I was desperate to find love, which I'm
sure none of these people are, and I said, I
like a tall, dark, handsome man, and they sent a
you know, a small, a short king, a short king
(05:38):
with bright orange chair or something, Damielle, I absolutely would
have been disappointed too.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
I probably would.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Have played it smart and I would have actually put
a little bit of faith in the judges and seen
it through.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Right, But you turned on Tim big time. You weren't.
You were pretty am when you came in and said
I defended him on.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
The dinner party.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
I was like, I don't care what we've got on
Saturday morning, throw it out the window.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
We are bringing maths back, and I am falling on.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
My sword because he is a pig. I was so
mortified watching his behavior. It was gas lighting one oh one.
He was basically walking around the room and talking to people,
making out like he was the victim. Oh, Katie hasn't
even asked me anything. Katie hasn't asked me if I
want kids. Katie hasn't put in any of the effort,
(06:27):
which I don't know.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
Are you an idiot? Have you forgotten that you're on
National TV?
Speaker 1 (06:33):
Idiots watching it? They're all idiots. So this is Tim
and Katie at the dinner party, right, Well.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
This maybe when they first walk in.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Yeah, yeah, I appreciate you getting up. I was worried beout.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
I approached him and kind of gave me an impression
he was scared of me, which was weird.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
It definitely shows a lot about who you are. So
you've definitely gone up in my.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Gone up in your books.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
So he's drip feeding her like little things like that,
because he knows that she's very insecure and.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
She's she's had no love for men, had no love.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
And she's very vulnerable on the show, and you just
want to take her out of it and wrap her
up and protect her from people like Tim. So he's
drip feeding her these little lines like oh, you've gone
up in my books because she made the right decision
and got up and said hello, and she was the
bigger person.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
He is vile. I cannot believe I defended him.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
I'm pretty sure all the women basically was trying to
call him out. There was a small pile on which
he absolutely deserved. He just kept deflecting. He didn't want
to answer anyone's questions. And then when the when it
got too hot in the kitchen for him, he just
walked out like a little bit.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
We talk about maths and people start ringing when you
talk about Tim, particularly on thirteen, to give us a called,
Nat has called in. What did you want to say
about this? Nat?
Speaker 4 (08:03):
I feel like he needs to take a good hard
look in the mirror and maybe lower his expectations. And
maybe this is the reason your.
Speaker 7 (08:10):
Single, babe, Yeah, because you're a horrible because don't go
on TV if you're one of those people.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
That's right, And then even him coming on TV being like,
I'm such a nice guy and I always get.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
Walked all over. Actually you're not.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
You're actually there, you're.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
Catfishing yourself and you're just like a full blown yeah, mistogynist.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
We wouldn't have reality TV without jerks. Though true, it
is the.
Speaker 8 (08:30):
Best, it is the best.
Speaker 4 (08:32):
It is so hard to watch without screaming at the team.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
I feel like every woman on that night on the
dinner party was just like curled up with their fists
like clenched in balls over Tim's behavior.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
Thirteen one of six. Five if you want to give
us a call on that, now, tell me about the
website on maps. Everything has gone on. They've taken every
mention of Tim offline.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
Yes, and I don't you.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
I did read a newspaper article everything, Like Tim has
disappeared from all social media.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
He's removed all the accounts. He's trying to just go
to ground.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
And but Channel nine have taken everything off as well.
Speaker 8 (09:07):
Well.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
Yeah, Channel nine maths social media. There is nothing scene
of Tim.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
See something's happened there, well, something to find the scenes,
you reckon, Well, the guy's getting slagged off by everyone.
I mean, it's going to be going well.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
But everybody.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
There's always every season, everyone always gets slagged off. There's
always a villain and whatnot. But yeah, maybe Tim's just
couldn't handle it.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
Is anyone going to stick up for him? Thirty one
oh six y five? If you actually say Tim's been
done dirty? It's the editing Chris.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
And.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Everyone wants to talk about Tim from maths, so you
mention his name and the phone lines going nuts on
thirty one oh six five. You misjudged him at first.
I stuck up for him.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
I absolutely misjudged him, and I hate myself for it.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Gave myself a few uppercuts.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
It happens. You tell you had a boyfriend that you
got her three months.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
Oh man, did I miss him? I thought he was
God's gift to me for the first three months, and
then turned out he was.
Speaker 2 (10:06):
Psychotic though the crazy ones are crazy.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
Nicknamed him Fritzel, you know, like Joseph Fritzel, you know
the guy who kept his daughter under his in his basement,
and that's tasteless, very very psychotic. That's yeah, all right,
misjudged that one.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
We're not saying Tim's that well, he's right up there
apparently thirty one o six ' five Tim from Maths.
Your thoughts, Jerry, you've been looking at TikTok about Tim?
What have you found?
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (10:37):
Oh my god, I can't get on the socials without
seeing so much stuff about him.
Speaker 5 (10:41):
He's such a repulsive, squeally little pig.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
He is.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
You know what I think this is Some people just
don't think before they go on reality TV shows, Like
every single cobweb, even if you think that you've like
vacuumed them up, they will come out to haunt you.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
It's worse than running for politics. People go through your past.
Speaker 7 (11:02):
Not only that, but like you know, you're on national TV,
like how have you not put on like a fake like, oh,
this is great and I'll just get out when the
time's right.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
Correct.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
I always think that as well, like just to save face,
like you know what fake it?
Speaker 2 (11:17):
Do? You have to?
Speaker 3 (11:18):
And then so you can leave with some sort of dignity,
Like surely you are aware that there's cameras everywhere and
you're saying these horrific things.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
What are people saying Jerry on TikTok oh that he.
Speaker 7 (11:31):
Is the biggest catfish I've seen. I'm like, the all
the like sissies, is your man? Or all these people
coming forward saying like they went on dates with him,
and they've posted pictures of his old like Tinder profiles
and stuff, and he was so much thinner and better
looking in them, the old catfish.
Speaker 6 (11:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (11:49):
So they're also saying he was like repulsive on dates too.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
Oh, Tim, you should have never gone on the show.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
I like to see his exes as well. I want
to know, do you even have any Well, I don't know,
probably no. I want to know if they really are
the petite blonde brunettes that he asked the producers for
or I don't know, Helen, I'm thirty one five.
Speaker 5 (12:10):
Hi, Hi guys, Hi.
Speaker 8 (12:14):
I think why every six's being taken down? Yeah, because
he's a teacher. Yeah, and it's just not a good look.
You can't be doing that on national television. You've got
copied parents watching, students watching.
Speaker 3 (12:29):
Yeah, And well that's what I was thinking. The parents
of the kids that he teaches. Surely if they're watching,
they're making complaints to the school. Like So I actually
got a message saying that he had been stood down
from his school.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
Is that actually something that would have.
Speaker 6 (12:42):
Happened quite possibly?
Speaker 8 (12:46):
Yeah, yeah, I was surprised.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
I don't know if a school a school. I know
in our in our contracts, amy it Kiss, there's a
clause called bringing the company rather into disrepute. So if
you do, if you did something horrific in your personal
life and like really bad, kiss went, you know what,
that's not what we're about. That's not our brands. We'll
get rid of you. But I wouldn't have thought schools
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asmar government, right.
Speaker 8 (13:11):
Yeah, look, just been put gently to him, you know,
maybe offer him a transfer. I don't know. I don't know, but.
Speaker 6 (13:18):
I just think it's that.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
Yeah, it makes sense.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
I mean I've got friends who are school teachers and
they haven't even gone on reality shows and they have
nothing on the internet.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
They have they play it real safe.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
But there's something going on when nine and married at
first sight of taking him off because it's one thing
for him to go through and delete his digital footprint
for everything, but but the official sites Helen have taken
him down as well. So I reckon something's happening behind
the scenes. You know, maybe Tim's not going so great.
Speaker 3 (13:44):
I think that Tim isn't going to come back, and
I think everybody will be over him in a week's
time and they'll find somebody else that they're going to
not like.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
One of these is going to end badly. These yeah things,
it's not good for listen, humans, even if he is
a rotten bloke, it's the whole country hating you.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
Hylon is quite intense.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
Yeah, it's not a good feeling.
Speaker 3 (14:05):
Sometimes you do just have to go to ground and
wade out the storm.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
We had a teacher at school who was an actor
as well, so he'd pop up on Home and Away
And one time he was on water Rats. Remember water
Rats on Channel line. So our teacher was on water
Rats and in one scene and he swore in one
of the scenes he was screaming this line. I can't
remember exactly what it was, but it was the F
word or something screm So of course school the next
day everyone's like, oh my god, did you see mister
(14:29):
McNeil and water Rats? And so everyone was there quoting
that back to him at school, wasn't it?
Speaker 2 (14:35):
Yeah? Great, Wow, that's a that was a great story.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
Great story. Just shut up Chris Page and named Gerard
in the morning on Kiss thanks for the cause.
Speaker 5 (14:45):
Chris d.
Speaker 1 (14:48):
An Adelaide mother has apologized for her behavior, bursting into
her daughter's classroom, her thirteen year old daughter, and just
giving both barrels to a girl who was allegedly bullying
her daughter. This is what happened when the mum went
into the classroom. So, I mean sounds real bad, right.
Speaker 3 (15:35):
I mean that listening to that, that dead set makes
me emotional as a mum, Like you can hear it
in that mum's voice, like she is in full Mama
Bear protective mode. And yet you know what, she may
have said some choice words, and she may have not
gone about it in the right way, but I have
(15:57):
I am literally backing her. I would do absolutely anything
for my children. And apparently this bullying had been going
on for over a year. She had done all the
right things, she'd contacted the school, she'd done she tried
to go about it the right way, and nothing was
being done about it.
Speaker 1 (16:14):
Yeah, I mean she lost a temper based I mean,
you know, she said I'll slit your f and throat
and she said I shouldn't have said that. That's not me,
and she's apologized for that, but I mean, yeah, she
lost a temper. I mean someone hurts Henry or Oscar
temper losing it. I'm probably slitting throats. I'm not threatening
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to do it. So she's given the context of this.
She said, I was a mother that was distraught at
seeing a thirteen year old daughter being bullied for an
immense amount of time.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
She's thirteen, she's thirteen. The mom's pregnant.
Speaker 1 (16:49):
I was gonna say twenty months pregnant. Obviously she's not
twenty weeks pregnant at the moment, so she's got that
going on. She said. The daughter had come home upset
from school, crying, devastated, saying another child had told her
to hang herself.
Speaker 2 (17:04):
And there's already that they've had suicide attempts.
Speaker 1 (17:07):
Yeah, it's hard to say that she's done the wrong
thing here if that's really going on at school and
nothing's getting done about it.
Speaker 3 (17:16):
Oh and I could tell you stories about kids that
I've grown up with in the area that were bullied
and the school knew about it and nothing got done
about it, and the next minute they've they've killed themselves.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
And I feel like this mum may have saved her daughter.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
On thirteen, one of six y five do you stand
up for this, mum or I mean, are you against
did she go to far? Did she do the wrong thing?
If you want to say she's totally out of line,
you can tell us that thirty one of sixty five. Emily,
what do you think? Whose side are you on in this?
Speaker 4 (17:45):
I'm on mom's side. I think that she's done everything
that she could. Well, she's reached out to the school.
She says that she's reached out to the police. What
else can she do? That's right, she like, it's as
a parent, it's our job to protect our children. Of course,
and as I just heard, I didn't know that there
was suicide camps, So of course if that is already happening,
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and then you have a child telling your child to
hang themselves, of course you're going to go into that
school and take madit into your own hands.
Speaker 2 (18:15):
Yeah, exactly right.
Speaker 3 (18:16):
And how are you going into the school and acting diplomatically?
Like I understand there were some choice words and the
threatening and whatnot, but like you have to understand that
it's coming from a just probably a place of just
feeling so scared.
Speaker 1 (18:32):
And Janey, I understand that you may have said this
to my daughter, and I mean, yeah, you're not going
to be calm, and you're right. It is a parent's
job to protect their kids at the end of the day. Yes,
you can complain to the school. It's not well, it's
the school's job, but it is the parent's number one job.
The buck stops with the parents. And what is annoying
is we have these days for everything we have are
(18:54):
you okay?
Speaker 8 (18:55):
Day?
Speaker 1 (18:55):
And I mean, and then there's white ribbon Day and
everyone wears a white ribbon and says domestic violence is bad,
and then we don't change the bail laws exactly changes
don't wear a white ribbon. Just lock these bastards up.
I mean, And this is what's happening. Nothing is actually
getting done, but there's lots of good talk about it,
and are you okay, dame, and good to remind us.
But if the school's not doing anything, the police aren't
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doing anything.
Speaker 2 (19:18):
The mom stepped in to help.
Speaker 1 (19:20):
Yeah, all right, throw down, Emily. You're one hundred percent
with the mum.
Speaker 4 (19:24):
Yes, I am ye.
Speaker 1 (19:26):
I think a lot of.
Speaker 4 (19:26):
People with the school, they do need more help. They
need more funding. Like there's only so much we expect
teachers to teach. We expect them to watch our kids
at play time and then we expect them to stop bullying.
We need more funding as well as the government. Like
the teachers aren't to blame, the school is not to blame, Like, yes,
they do have part, but like the bigger picture, what's
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being done. Nothing's being done.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Every school should have dedicated staffman to the school, dedicated
to deal with this.
Speaker 4 (19:55):
Yeah, that's it, exactly right, Like there's a bigger picture here,
and talking about that either, Like I'm sure the teachers
are feeling horrible that it's got to this point, like
they are with their kids every single day, like they're
watching our children grow into these young adults. I'm sure
they are just as upset watching this stuff happen and their.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
Jobs no teaching, you know what I mean about it.
That's why you need a counselor or like a bullying
warden in the school that every kid knows they can
go talk to and that's going to get dealt with
because teachers they're there to teach maths and English. You know,
they're not actually meant to deal with this correct usually
you know, back in the day, the teachers teach and
then out in the playground all this stuff that happened,
(20:35):
but now you got so much more with social.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
Media and it just follows you everywhere.
Speaker 1 (20:38):
It is nice. Look, we're talking about some heavy stuff here.
If you are experiencing problems in this, there is a
lot of help out there. Okay, Lifeline is just one
of those options on thirteen eleven fourteen, but there are
you know, a hundred ways you can reach out and
get help if you need it. We want to hear
from your parents. Does anyone want to maybe disagree, like
(20:59):
if you I think this mum's in the wrong bo.
Speaker 2 (21:01):
She could have done things differently.
Speaker 1 (21:08):
We're talking about the Adelaide mum who went into the
daughter's bullied classroom and just unloaded. Most of us have
seen the video or heard it by now. The mums
come out and apologize and said, look, that's not me,
and I said some things I shouldn't have said, like
I'll sleep your throat. But it's yeah, a lot of
(21:30):
people saying I understand it because of what the daughter
has and just to heads up obviously what we're talking
about here, there is going there's some references to suicide
because that's what we're dealing with. A thirteen year old
girl who was told to kill herself by a classmate
and went home and has apparently made attempts on her life.
So look, reach out if you're having trouble. There's a
(21:52):
lot of places you can go to. Amy, we were
on air right here when we were talking about bullying
in the social media band. We were talking about remember
and we got a call from the auntie of young
Charlotte O'Brien, Yes, Sydney school girl who took her own
life at twelve years off because of bullying, because of bullying.
So that the consequences here aren't hypothetically, no, not at all,
(22:13):
it's real. On thirteen one oh six ' five Are
you with the mother? What do you think of this, Sarah?
Speaker 2 (22:18):
What did you want to sell about Hi, Sarah?
Speaker 5 (22:21):
Yeah, I think this gets everyone. I think everyone has
got a story to tell about bullying.
Speaker 2 (22:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (22:26):
But my son when he went to school, you know,
when it happened to him, I was like, oh, you know,
I'm involved in something that I read about. You know
in Captain's Child, you have shocked and you do the
right thing, and you you go to school and you
you know, and then you feel helpless because you're sending
them off. So what I did with my sound he
got bullied a couple of times, and I did go
in and I did face the smaller incident that happened.
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I looked at the boy right in the eyes and
I said to him, you know, I know what you're doing. Yeah,
and I'm watching you. And I said it really low,
and the teacher didn't hear me, and that incant, you know,
didn't happen. And again, and that young boy was having
a hard time at home. I found out, you know,
there's always something going on with the bully. They're never happy.
And I said to my son, you know, you'll notice
(23:10):
that bully are never happy. They'll get the happy kids,
the ones that are laughing. They'll target them so they're
projected and then you're upset they're bullying you will you
didn't really care about what they think because they're not happy.
Speaker 6 (23:24):
You know, you're happy.
Speaker 5 (23:25):
So what I did with my son was I enrolled
him in jujitsu and I said him, I can't be
with you all the time. And the person at jujitsu
Williamstown in Melbourne, he dealt with bullying. He was his jam,
you know, and he thought he just spoke about it
at the beginning of the class, and he just enabled
them to deflect anything that came at them. He gave
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them the tools because you can't be there, you cannot
be there all the time, and they have to have
the tools. They have to be resilient. You can't send
them off and hope nothing happens. You have to be proactive,
I would say.
Speaker 1 (24:00):
Because it's obviously a self defense. You can deflect. It's
not saying, hey, here's how you chopped their wind pipe.
Speaker 2 (24:06):
No no, no no.
Speaker 3 (24:07):
It's all about wrestling and teaching them like self like
self defense. But it's in a controlled environment. So it's
really good.
Speaker 1 (24:17):
Thank you. Sarah Laughlin on thirty one oh six five.
What do you think?
Speaker 6 (24:20):
Heyo, how you going?
Speaker 3 (24:22):
So?
Speaker 6 (24:23):
I'm going to be honest, I'm already shaking over even
saying this. I'm not coming from the standpoint of the parent.
I'm coming from the kids that had the situation happened
to them. You were bullied at school, oh, heavily, not
even an understatement, heavily.
Speaker 2 (24:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (24:38):
So yeah, which I said before I came on that
I wasn't sure if I'll say it, I'll say you
what one of the incidents happened to me, I think
you four year five, I was held down on a
bus and two kids, two older kids from high school
held me down while the kid's younger brother that were
younger than me. But I can't do anything cause I
older tried to suss KP with plastic Oh my go,
(25:01):
which I know that might be a big graphic. That's
as a ten year old eleven year old kid on
the call, not Sarah, the call you had before that.
I don't cop that the kids that the school can't
do nothing, or when you guys are saying I've had
more death like still like people telling me to kill
myself than I can count when I was in school.
I'm now twenty six and a lot older. I still
(25:23):
have all the paranoia and all those sort of things
because of it. But like there's suspensive, there's expulsion.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
Yeah, if you get rid of me, there's different there's.
Speaker 6 (25:32):
Different varying degrees of obviously bullying, but like you can
expel the kid, and the school is lacking on that
because like all that happens is they get suspended for
two days, they come back.
Speaker 2 (25:43):
And they just have a kid.
Speaker 6 (25:44):
You can't go to a council line. You can't go
to a teacher, because you end up even getting bashed
why the same kid, or you get bullied twice as
hard Bulson is the only way to do it. Even
in some cases that doesn't work, like on Mylan, they
wouldn't suspend the kid either, they wouldn't expel the kid.
But even if the kid got expelled, there was high
schoolers that were like his brothers that would come and
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do it anyway. But like the parents, not wrong in it.
Probably it's bad that it got to that point that
they had to go in and do that. Yeah, the
school should be bloody well ashamed that they let it
get to that point. Ye, But there's got to be
better systems in place because it's just like they don't
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do anything about it.
Speaker 1 (26:26):
Would you ad Lachlin that that there needs to be
funding and every school should have a dedicated staff member
who's a trained counselor and you know, and have and
take it out of the teacher's hands, let them teach.
Speaker 6 (26:38):
No, So in essense, yes, the teachers fully agree, teachers
let them teach. But there's a principal that can expel
the kid. Yeah, yeah, and there's a vice principal and
in like eighty percent of schools. Now there's like six
vice principals and most schools have counselors. Really every school
like I went to, which if you can get the
name out of the school, so they don't know who
I am.
Speaker 1 (26:58):
Now, let that's right.
Speaker 6 (27:00):
Oh, anyway it was in bill War wasn't the best school.
Like they had a counselor, they had all sorts of stuff.
There was numerous things that came up of it. They
did nothing. Ever, this happened obviously in primary school, like
what I'm talking about happened to me, but like my
parents couldn't do anything about it, nothing because they wouldn't
suspend them.
Speaker 1 (27:20):
Mate, we've gone soft. You're right, that's gone stuff that
we don't do anything about it. You're right, there needs
to be expulsion. And it's the same thing I said
with White Ribbon Day and domestic violence, where we go,
Oh god, isn't it terrible. I'm wearing a white ribbon
because I'm against it.
Speaker 2 (27:30):
But they were not actually putting anything to place.
Speaker 1 (27:32):
No one goes to jail. All the men that are
out there who murder their partner have a history of
domestic violence and didn't get locked up for it in
the first place. All right, thank you very much for
the calls. Again a heavy one. If you're struggling, reach
out Lachlin, get help. Lifeline is thirteen eleven or fourteen,
or there's a million other places you can go as well.
Just reach out. Chris Morning like, everything right. I'm late
(27:56):
to the party on this, but I'm catching up quick.
I'm a good catcher up right. Yeah, justin Baldoni and
Blake Lively. It's dragging on, and I feel the longer
it drags on, the worse it gets for Blake Lively.
Speaker 3 (28:10):
And I'm interested to see how this is going to
play out and how it's going to end. I feel
like they may settle outside of court.
Speaker 1 (28:17):
Everyone said, they go, oh, look, I'm not guilty, but
I just want to I just want to wrap away
for everyone's sake and families and kids.
Speaker 3 (28:23):
I haven't done a huge deep dive into it, but
a girl friend of mine who is up with a
newborn quite often at nighttime, she has spent hours and
hours She's read even the court like.
Speaker 1 (28:39):
What's the thing, the court documents, everything, everything that has
all the charges that have been put pushed through, not charges.
Speaker 2 (28:47):
Like while she wat alligations and allegations.
Speaker 1 (28:49):
They're saying this could end up on TV though when
it goes to court, it could be like Johnny Depp
and Amber heard and they actually broadcast it becomes a
huge thing.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
But she's saying it is it does not look good
for her.
Speaker 3 (29:01):
Her text messages the way she's very very passive aggressive,
and it's almost like it's almost like she's softly bullying
him into certain situations but insinuating that she is this
powerhouse with so much backing behind her and don't dare
(29:21):
come up against her.
Speaker 1 (29:22):
Well, to be clear, so she well, she started the
legal she started it legally, so she put in a
formal thing about sexual harassment again set against him on
the set of It Ends with Us. So when they
were shooting that movie, now it's come out that there
were meetings about his behavior, and there was a meeting
that Ryan Reynolds went to with Blake Lively where there
were certain demands that all the staff agreed to, including
(29:45):
not describing his own genitalia anymore and also to be.
Speaker 2 (29:50):
Talking about his penis apparent.
Speaker 1 (29:52):
Well, I'm assuming so there had to be an intimacy
coordinator on set at all times if Blake Lively was
in any state of nudity and which I think is
pretty normal. Yeah, of course, and he said he was
addicted to porn. But it's I mean, look, it's not
I'm not saying that's okay in a workplace. But when
you've read about Harvey Weinstein and Hollywood, this is not
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at the upper end of it.
Speaker 3 (30:14):
Yeah, I mean, I guess no one's ever going to
understand or know what truly went on, but it doesn't
look good. Four hundred million dollars he's trying to sue
them for.
Speaker 1 (30:26):
That's what he's suing back. So he won't get that,
but he'll be hoping for a chunk of it because
he's saying that's his that's what he feels he would
earn for the rest of his career, because he's saying
this is a career ender.
Speaker 2 (30:35):
Yeah, but you're right.
Speaker 3 (30:36):
The longer this plays out in the media, the more
people pay attention to it, the more people do their
own deep diving, and then people start making up their
own opinions, and it's not a good look for either
of them, to be honest.
Speaker 1 (30:47):
She was winning the pr battle straight away. She came
out and said he sexually asked me, he's a pig.
Ryan Reynolds missed a nice guy in Hollywood. He is
the new Tom Hanks.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
It's nice to go for it.
Speaker 1 (30:57):
I love him. But the power he has now with
Deadpool Disney, Deadpool made a billion dollars, so sequels to come.
He I mean, he's on his way to being a billionaire.
They are very, very powerful. And yeah, it's worse for
them if it goes on, because he was ruined straight away,
justin Baldoni. You Gough yuck. You hear that name, right,
But Blake Lively, Ryan Reynolds, you don't want to believe
(31:20):
it a list, But the longer it goes on, they're
just getting a bit stinkier. Yeah, she said what did
she say about Game of Thrones, which she.
Speaker 2 (31:29):
Said something that she's Kalisi.
Speaker 1 (31:30):
And she's got her dragon. Now. Taylor Swift was apparently
upset about that.
Speaker 2 (31:35):
Oh you reckon?
Speaker 1 (31:36):
Yeah, because that implies her dragons are Ryan Reynolds and
Taylor Swift.
Speaker 3 (31:40):
But I mean where where we're taking that? No, she
had she didn't say.
Speaker 1 (31:44):
That, but the internet said that must be right. The
Internet knows what. Taylor Swift never lies, guys. Yeah, it's just, yeah,
she might she might be a cow'stful one.
Speaker 8 (31:59):
You know.
Speaker 1 (31:59):
No one needs to sup with bad behavior on sets.
Speaker 2 (32:02):
That's not okay.
Speaker 1 (32:02):
But I'm just everything that's happened since I don't know.
She's just got that.
Speaker 3 (32:07):
Bit of a power tribe power trip vibe right from
the text.
Speaker 1 (32:10):
Yeah, follow that one, Okay, talk about Diddy and Kanye.
Speaker 3 (32:14):
I really don't again, and we are not talking about Trump. No, Yeah,
you've snuck in two American people already.
Speaker 1 (32:21):
Well, it's super Bowl weekend everyone, Monday morning, super Bowl.
It's the big, big weekend in America. Greats just about
time for us to get almost about time to go.
Speaker 2 (32:36):
Yeah, home to the fam.
Speaker 3 (32:37):
But I had an interesting conversation with my daughter during
the week, and it kind of got me thinking. I
didn't really know how to answer it. It was all very innocent.
I was sitting on the lounge with her and we
were just watching some TV. The Boys Has Gone to Bend.
She said, Mum, did you have any boyfriends before dad?
And I said no, no, Yeah, I said yeah. I
(32:58):
actually think it's really good to, you know, date a
few different guys and then you kind of, you know,
because everyone's different and then you work out what's really
important to you in a relationship and all of that
kind of stuff. And she goes, okay, did you did
you have sex with all of them? And I was
like what, sorry, why where is that question coming from?
Speaker 2 (33:21):
So how do you know about that word? Is?
Speaker 1 (33:24):
She nine?
Speaker 3 (33:25):
She's nine, right, And I think the thing here is
I don't think she actually understands what it is. I
don't think she understands the concept of what it entails.
But I she's obviously heard it in songs or whatever.
Speaker 2 (33:39):
We live in a street there's lots of kids, they're.
Speaker 3 (33:41):
A lot older, well you know, and it probably has
been passed around about boys and blah blah blah.
Speaker 1 (33:46):
She knows it's what grown ups end up doing.
Speaker 3 (33:48):
It's like, well, I don't even think I don't even
know if she knows that anyway. And I said, oh, listen,
you know, I don't.
Speaker 2 (33:54):
I don't. I mean I think that when you're I
was like, I don't.
Speaker 1 (33:59):
A flounder.
Speaker 3 (34:00):
I was floundering because in my head, I've always said
to myself, I'm going to be I want to be
really open and honest in my communication styles with my
daughter around all the kind of stuff, anything sex ed related.
I'm always I want it to be like an open
field where she can come to me and ask me anything.
Speaker 1 (34:17):
But I say, now these days, that's what you should do.
Use the proper words and everything.
Speaker 5 (34:21):
You know.
Speaker 1 (34:21):
When we were growing up, it was Willy, exactly right, It's.
Speaker 2 (34:25):
Correct, that's right.
Speaker 3 (34:27):
But I was also like, I don't want to be
having this conversation at nine and then she goes. So
if you're at the shops with like dad, and then
you bump into one of your ex'es and you're just
standing there with two men that you've slept with.
Speaker 1 (34:46):
Oh what look at that?
Speaker 2 (34:47):
It's eight o'clock. It's time for bed, dabe, it's time
to go. I just I was, I.
Speaker 3 (34:52):
Was kind of blindsided, and I want to revisit the
conversation potentially at a later date with her.
Speaker 2 (34:59):
And I don't know is nine too young? Is nine
too young?
Speaker 1 (35:04):
I want to revisit the conversation on this show. I
would love to tomorrow or next week maybe can we
will do this and talk about the age to have
the chat at or have you been forced?
Speaker 2 (35:15):
Have you been blindsided?
Speaker 3 (35:17):
And has the chat come abruptly and how did you
handle this situation. I don't think I handled it to
the best of my ability.
Speaker 1 (35:25):
I reckon that a tipen with most parents, though, that
they'd say, right, we'll do it at twelve, and then
they get forced into it earlier because the kid says
something and they go, oh god, we got to do
it now.
Speaker 8 (35:35):
Oh.
Speaker 3 (35:35):
Like, I've been asked by my youngest son and about
how babies and I'm like, oh, you know, mommy and
daddy do some kissing.
Speaker 1 (35:42):
And God, I got the video from the video store
you rent out. It's called where Do I Come From?
Speaker 2 (35:49):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (35:49):
Did you see that as a kid?
Speaker 2 (35:50):
No, I don't think so.
Speaker 1 (35:51):
My parents didn't bother having the chat. They got the
video out, so we went down the video It's easy
and got where Do I Come From? Out? And it's
a cartoon and explains it all explained talk going on.
But I still remember this scarred me for life. The
dad in the video gets up out of the bath
and his old fella goes down to his knees because
it's a cartoon.
Speaker 3 (36:12):
Okay, And I've just and then you were like, like,
is that is that?
Speaker 2 (36:17):
Is that the length that they're meant to be? Must
I'm deformed? Mom?
Speaker 1 (36:23):
Yeah, yeah, they shouldn't be showing that to kids off.
A bit of laying young man ruins there.
Speaker 3 (36:30):
Yeah, the self scularity, Yeah, okay, it's probably not on
the shelves anymore.
Speaker 1 (36:35):
Let's come back to that. Yeah, i'd like to sex
said thing when you should do the chat? All right,
we're back tomorrow. Em we'll prove the super Bowl, super
Bowl weekend, Budweiser happening Monday, buckets of bud and chicken wings.
Speaker 2 (36:46):
Yeah, great, more American crowd Saturday.
Speaker 8 (36:49):
All right?
Speaker 1 (36:49):
Oh yeah, well we'll check out Kanye's latest tweets as well.
You want to have a look at because he is unloading.
It may not go on much longer. I think he's
going to get kicked off Twitter. Enjoyed while at last
Speaker 3 (36:59):
Hope see here you guys, Chris Page and Amy Yerard
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