FULL SHOW #149: WE FIND ADELAIDE'S BEST BOGAN VOICES

FULL SHOW #149:

WHILE HAYLEY & MAX ARE STILL TRYING TO FIND ADELAIDE'S GREATEST VOICE, THEY MIGHT'VE FOUND ADELAIDE'S GREATEST...BOGANS.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:10):
I heard podcasts here more mixed one or two point
three podcasts, playlists and listen live on the Free. iHeart
app Haley and Max in the Morning.

Speaker 2 (00:18):
With these two together, anything can happen.

Speaker 3 (00:23):
This is Hailey and Max in the Morning, Adelaide's number
one for fun.

Speaker 1 (00:34):
Good morning Adelaide.

Speaker 4 (00:35):
Hump Day. I hate when people say that, and here
I am saying, Haley Pierson, Max perfect, hay.

Speaker 2 (00:39):
Hum day everyone.

Speaker 5 (00:41):
You know.

Speaker 1 (00:41):
I realized last night I didn't have Grand Final plans.
And this is usually a thing that for the last
thirty two years of my life, I've had it planned.

Speaker 2 (00:49):
What do you normally do?

Speaker 1 (00:50):
See friends and all this sort of stuff. But I
was speaking to Las last night and she said, remember
I'm going away this weekend to Sydney for a course,
so she.

Speaker 4 (00:57):
Won't be here.

Speaker 1 (00:58):
My wife. I was like, oh, what am I doing?
Have I a couple of mates and they ah, I
won't be an Adelaide, I won't be doing this. And
now all of a sudden, what a sad Grand Final?
You really know what I'm doing for the AFL Grand Final?
Do you do nothing?

Speaker 2 (01:11):
Do you know what you should do?

Speaker 6 (01:12):
You go shopping during the Grand Final it's great. No
one's about the shots. It's time to go shopping as
while the Grand Finals on. That's so you as well
just to go shopping and not watch the football.

Speaker 1 (01:20):
That is a very good suggestion, you know me, so well,
what do you can do?

Speaker 2 (01:24):
Barbecue for one?

Speaker 1 (01:25):
I mean my dog?

Speaker 2 (01:26):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:27):
Some friends?

Speaker 2 (01:29):
Does anyone really care though?

Speaker 1 (01:31):
Like fun?

Speaker 2 (01:31):
I mean I know, but do they care like you
would if it was an Adelaide team.

Speaker 1 (01:37):
You don't care about the teams in it as much,
but you care about Let's go and final beer and
let's all pick a player and whenever he gives away
free kicks, someone has to finish a beer.

Speaker 2 (01:47):
So you can do that with yourself. You don't drinking
games with yourself.

Speaker 6 (01:50):
Yeah, that's actually really funny.

Speaker 2 (01:52):
Film it and then there's that'll go viral.

Speaker 1 (01:55):
That's a cool thing for cool people to do. Drink
beers on the couch by themselves. I won't be.

Speaker 2 (02:00):
Watching the Grand Final, No, fortunately, going to see dad.

Speaker 1 (02:05):
Good. Yeah, good for you.

Speaker 2 (02:07):
I'm so excited. I don't know if anyone else feels
like this.

Speaker 6 (02:10):
School holidays are about to happen, so a lot of
parents are having a bit of time off or you know,
hopefully not, you're working through.

Speaker 2 (02:16):
The whole time.

Speaker 6 (02:17):
Do you ever feel like, right before holidays happen, you
are literally.

Speaker 2 (02:21):
Dragging your bum to the finish line like a dog
with worms?

Speaker 1 (02:25):
Absolutely?

Speaker 6 (02:26):
I just I feel like if I wasn't having a
tiny little break, I would have a full meltdown.

Speaker 1 (02:31):
See, I'm not going on a holiday over school holidays,
So I don't know if that is beneficial or detrimental,
because I would love a holiday. Yeah, But at the
same time, am I just persevering here and.

Speaker 6 (02:45):
They just needed I Do you know what I've just discovered,
which is just do a four day week, and then
we wouldn't be desperate for holidays. Four day weeks would
be the most amazing thing in the world.

Speaker 2 (02:55):
Three days off and.

Speaker 6 (02:56):
You're so refreshed you come back to work and I
would fit everything that I do in my four days.

Speaker 2 (03:00):
I don't care if they're longer days.

Speaker 1 (03:01):
You know what had happened though, You get used to that,
But then you'd be like, you know what, it'd be
great a three day week, three day week.

Speaker 2 (03:08):
So they work three days. I'm like, you are sorry, mucky.

Speaker 1 (03:10):
Hey, if you love what you do, you have work
a day in your life.

Speaker 6 (03:13):
I don't even work. What's worth anyway?

Speaker 1 (03:16):
Anyway?

Speaker 2 (03:16):
Do you know what when you win? When you win ten.

Speaker 6 (03:19):
Thousand dollars today at eight o'clock with our money minute.

Speaker 1 (03:22):
Yeah, I retire exactly. You will never have to work again.
Follow your flashback.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
All right, this is our favorite game so far. We're
fighting for a song that we love.

Speaker 6 (03:42):
Both of us have a banger from the past and
a story to go with it, and then you get
to decide which song we play.

Speaker 1 (03:48):
Yep, we're one all through this week and just for
you playing a part, you pick up the phone, you
dar thirteen and one O two three. Heck, do it
right now before you even know the songs. You can
win a fifty dollars six and da voucher so you
get your beer sorted for the weekend.

Speaker 2 (04:00):
Great, Okay, go for it. What's your song?

Speaker 1 (04:03):
We're doing a battle of pop queens from different eras today,
you and I. Yeah, I am going to the current
queen of pop. Sorry to Beyonce, shout out to her.
We're going to, of course, Taylor Swift.

Speaker 2 (04:17):
I wanted this song. This isn't much of a class
back here.

Speaker 1 (04:19):
This song came out on the twenty second of October
twenty twelve.

Speaker 2 (04:23):
Did it really is that old?

Speaker 1 (04:25):
No way that oldest? From the Red album? The song is,
of course twenty two.

Speaker 2 (04:30):
Okay, yeah, that's good, all right whatever.

Speaker 1 (04:32):
In twenty twelve, I was pretty close to twenty two,
so I was like, oh, I'm not allowed to like
Taylor Swift because I'm a twenty year old man. Yeah,
but also I secretly like this song.

Speaker 2 (04:44):
I love this song.

Speaker 1 (04:44):
And now that I'm an adult who's had comfortable saying
what he likes, God damn lock that song.

Speaker 6 (04:50):
Okay, your pick is twenty two Taylor Swift.

Speaker 2 (04:52):
My pick goes back a little bit further.

Speaker 6 (04:55):
It's the one banger that my best friend and I
wherever we are, as soon as we hear.

Speaker 2 (05:00):
This song, we are on the dance floor. You've seen me.
You've both been on the dance floor with me dancing
to this song. This just brings me so much joy.
It is Madonna.

Speaker 6 (05:11):
I don't feel so many emotions of my body when
this song plays, and it will lift us today.

Speaker 1 (05:18):
When they start playing this song and I'm standing next
to you, it's like when you watch those pasta videos
at the super churches in America and they're like exercising
the demons out of them. Something just comes over you
and you just like float towards the X.

Speaker 2 (05:32):
It's an exorcism.

Speaker 1 (05:33):
It's a four exorcism.

Speaker 6 (05:34):
Okay, So if you bought Madonna Like a Prayer, I
mean feel that, feel that song.

Speaker 2 (05:38):
Call us right now, thirteen one to teach me.

Speaker 1 (05:51):
Oh you're a flashback, all.

Speaker 4 (05:52):
Right, two people at very different stages in their lives
with very different music tastes and adelaide. You vote and
you decide which song it's played on the radio. Italia
Max is fucking lashback.

Speaker 2 (06:02):
All right, We're going head to head with some pop queens.
I'm going Madonna.

Speaker 6 (06:07):
This song Like a Prayer brings me and my best
friend to the dance floor every single time.

Speaker 2 (06:13):
It has such a deep meaning.

Speaker 6 (06:15):
This song in so many levels, and I just feel
all the fields when I hear it.

Speaker 1 (06:19):
I've gone twenty two by Taylor Swift because it came
out pretty much when I was twenty two, and I
wasn't really allowed to like it back then because I
was a twenty two year old male. But now that
I'm an adult and I can say it openly and
I'm comfortable with myself say it I love that damn song.

Speaker 2 (06:31):
You love Taylor Swift.

Speaker 1 (06:32):
It's an absolute bop.

Speaker 2 (06:34):
You're a pop boy, George and crawled apart. All right,
it's up to you, Adelaide. What are you picking?

Speaker 1 (06:39):
Georgie? Hey? You going?

Speaker 7 (06:40):
Guys?

Speaker 8 (06:41):
You've got to go like a prayer with a dona
surely that?

Speaker 9 (06:45):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (06:45):
Absolutely? Clossy all the way.

Speaker 2 (06:48):
Will you be turning it up and dancing in your car? George?

Speaker 4 (06:51):
You better believe it.

Speaker 10 (06:53):
Believe it.

Speaker 1 (06:54):
I'm winning, Matejay one to Haley, Ryan and Andrews Farm
Can we even the ledger? Who you're voting for?

Speaker 11 (07:00):
Ryan?

Speaker 8 (07:02):
Definitely Team Max at twenty two for Taylor Swift.

Speaker 5 (07:05):
You know more Biba gets the blood going more vibean.

Speaker 2 (07:09):
You don't get any more vibey than like a prayer.

Speaker 1 (07:11):
It doesn't like a prayer open with like an organ
or something.

Speaker 4 (07:17):
Weekday, Ryan, is your Spotify playlist reminiscent of a twelve
year old girl like Max.

Speaker 6 (07:22):
Burfets A couple of songs, A few in there one
Adriann in Brooklyn Park?

Speaker 2 (07:31):
What are you voting for?

Speaker 5 (07:33):
A Definitely Hailey and Madonna?

Speaker 2 (07:36):
Yes, do you love that song?

Speaker 12 (07:38):
Go girl?

Speaker 8 (07:39):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (07:39):
Go the sisters?

Speaker 1 (07:40):
All right?

Speaker 6 (07:41):
Well, when we play it because I'm gonna win. You're
gonna dance in your car, all.

Speaker 1 (07:44):
Right, you be Okay, let's take one more. Let's see
if can level it up. Trish in Hillbay, Ky, Trish,
are you voting for ay Going?

Speaker 5 (07:53):
I'm sorry, Max, definitely Madonna.

Speaker 1 (07:57):
I can't come back from this.

Speaker 8 (07:59):
Why I'm so sorry.

Speaker 5 (08:00):
I just love Madonna.

Speaker 6 (08:02):
Hope doesn't Trish, it's the best, all right, turn it up.
Thank you so much, Tush, you get the prize you want,
enjoy it.

Speaker 4 (08:10):
Fifty box at ship and say five your flashback. Madonna
like a prayer wins.

Speaker 1 (08:16):
Boring Hayleen.

Speaker 6 (08:19):
Right now we're looking for the greatest accent.

Speaker 10 (08:22):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (08:22):
Great accents can do all sorts of things to people.
I love Emma Watson. I could listen to her talk
all day in her posh British accents.

Speaker 6 (08:28):
Same Hey, Ledger, we love it. Michael from Canada.

Speaker 11 (08:32):
Hi, good warrenon how are you today?

Speaker 1 (08:36):
Michael? Do you say A all the time? From Canada? Eh?

Speaker 11 (08:39):
I try not to say it too much because you know,
you get teaking for a bit of a hoosiery.

Speaker 6 (08:44):
I love it so do do People like stop you
and just want you to talk because it's so intriguing.

Speaker 11 (08:50):
Well, you know, I have to apologize to a lot
of people because they're always asking me and stopping me saying, hey,
are you from Canada?

Speaker 2 (08:56):
Why do you say A all the time?

Speaker 11 (08:58):
Heh, cause you've got a bit of Nova Schools show.
That's where I'm from in Canada. So it's New Scotland.

Speaker 1 (09:02):
Can we get you to say something iconically Australian in
your Canadian accent? A mate?

Speaker 11 (09:06):
Good a mate?

Speaker 6 (09:07):
Yeah, okay, I like this Angela in Scotland Meadows.

Speaker 8 (09:14):
Hey, Angela, I'm Angela from Sacred Meadows and I certainly
do you have the best for stealing voice?

Speaker 1 (09:19):
Oh that's great, Angela?

Speaker 2 (09:22):
Oh tell me we have a brecky Angela this morning.

Speaker 8 (09:25):
I was actually be a bit of toast and Regie.

Speaker 1 (09:27):
Believe it or not, talking to a weird bit of
a guest.

Speaker 8 (09:31):
Not that's on the menu for tonight's dinner.

Speaker 2 (09:33):
Oh he love it?

Speaker 1 (09:34):
Okay for Angela? How long have you been here in Australia.

Speaker 8 (09:37):
Fifteen years now.

Speaker 1 (09:39):
And it's still this strong?

Speaker 8 (09:40):
Yeah, you'll never lose it.

Speaker 4 (09:41):
I don't saying can you just drop a Adelaide's mixed
one or two point three for us Adelaide.

Speaker 8 (09:46):
It's a mixed one or two point three.

Speaker 1 (09:49):
I like it very good. We need for European listeners.
Always said, Becky and Happy Valley, can you give us
your line?

Speaker 13 (09:55):
I'm Becky from Happy Valley and I have Adelaide's greatest voice.

Speaker 1 (09:59):
Oh you do, Becky? Originally maybe not from Happy Valley,
somewhere in the UK whereabouts climb Up and Devon.

Speaker 13 (10:06):
I sort of think you should pick me in the
The reason why is because last Friday was international talk
like a pirate day, right and and I think I
talk like a pirate because pirates are from the West Country.

Speaker 1 (10:18):
That's true actually when you think about the old like
the first pirates of the Caribbean, we're all British people
over there.

Speaker 6 (10:24):
Just we're not trying to find Adelaide's greatest pirate is
Adelaide's greatest voice.

Speaker 1 (10:30):
She does have a beautiful voice.

Speaker 13 (10:32):
That's very true. Yeah, I've been sometimes when I'm on
the telephone I have in my work, I have people
actually tell me that they actually call and say, your
voice is gorgeous? Can I ask where you come from?
So yeah, I do get that.

Speaker 1 (10:46):
Can you please say for us you're listening to Haley
and Max and Mix one oh two point three.

Speaker 13 (10:50):
You're listening to Haley Max on Mix one oh two
point three.

Speaker 4 (10:54):
I've got another one. I want because you always sound
so jolly with your accent. I want you to say,
I've just run over your cat and it's dead.

Speaker 13 (11:05):
I've just run over your cat and it's.

Speaker 6 (11:07):
Dead, so finely fine over it again and just tell me.

Speaker 1 (11:12):
Just make sure you tell me next time you run
over it.

Speaker 2 (11:15):
Eleanor, give us your line.

Speaker 8 (11:16):
Hello, I'm Eliana. I'm the greatest voice of adilador.

Speaker 1 (11:20):
Oh Eleanor or Eleanor? Is that a little bit Italian? Maybe?

Speaker 8 (11:24):
I come from Verona?

Speaker 1 (11:25):
Who has the best wine? Now that you're in Australia,
is it Australia Italy Italian?

Speaker 2 (11:31):
I'm supposed to say that.

Speaker 4 (11:33):
Because you might become the voice of Mix two point three.
Can you just say, Adelaide traffic now on Mix?

Speaker 8 (11:40):
I need the traffic now on Mix.

Speaker 1 (11:43):
Love it's the first some of that actually wanted to
listen to traffic.

Speaker 2 (11:46):
All right, let's go to George and Mount Barker. Give
us your line.

Speaker 14 (11:49):
I'm George from Singapore and I have Adelaide's greatest voice.

Speaker 2 (11:54):
What brings you to Adelaide, George, I was a natural
BIC controller. Can you say alert the plane is going down?

Speaker 8 (12:01):
Stingapore Aline is coming in for crench landing.

Speaker 1 (12:05):
Would just get this so it's just ready, no, not
get the services ready.

Speaker 15 (12:12):
You know, very good, he's tea.

Speaker 6 (12:25):
Snoop Dog has landed in Australia ahead of the AFL
Grand Final in a couple of days time.

Speaker 2 (12:33):
He's joined Collingwood.

Speaker 6 (12:34):
Players at the NCG for a pre weekend kick at
the field.

Speaker 1 (12:38):
Kick at the field kick at the field what we
say in the football.

Speaker 2 (12:41):
Yeah, and he's got a strong long leg kick. I
have a listen to this.

Speaker 1 (12:46):
Can you kick your head? What's a distance?

Speaker 6 (12:53):
And that's six points?

Speaker 1 (12:57):
So I've seen this video. Snoop dobs one from honestly
like thirty out just straight through the guts and then
he goes to the boundary line and stands there almost
in the crowd and somehow snaps a goal.

Speaker 2 (13:06):
Yeah, he's amazing, right, it's.

Speaker 1 (13:08):
Not he's tall as well. I mean fifty three i'd say, Snoop.

Speaker 6 (13:12):
But that's what you're seeing that he probably did like
a thousand takes of that, do you know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (13:16):
That didn't end up even.

Speaker 1 (13:17):
Can to be honest to do it once. It's pretty
impressive for a man who has put the substances that
he's put through his body.

Speaker 6 (13:25):
He's being a bit of a diva though, as per
he said, do you know what, I think I'd like
a replica of the mcg stage at Marble Stadium so
I can kind of practice Allegedly, No, but there's been
photos of like a mock up of it. Apparently, I
think it's true. I everything I say, snoop. Yeah, he's

(13:45):
been paid five million dollars. It's just an easy payday
for him.

Speaker 13 (13:49):
Now.

Speaker 2 (13:50):
Emma Watson, you're gonna love this.

Speaker 6 (13:51):
Hermione whe she was so like she was Hormiony.

Speaker 2 (13:55):
She was everything in our childhood.

Speaker 6 (13:57):
And then she kind of did a couple of movies
and then she kind of disappeared for a little bit.

Speaker 2 (14:03):
Obviously, we love Harry Potter. Yeah, we love Harry Potter.

Speaker 1 (14:08):
Don't we?

Speaker 8 (14:11):
Thank you?

Speaker 6 (14:11):
So I couldn't talk about Emma Watson without having Harry
Pottery play the Harry Potter yator anyway, So she said
she left acting because she didn't like the promotion. So
she loved doing the acting part, but hated the part
where she had to go and promote and do you know,
promo and talk about the show and the movie and all.

Speaker 1 (14:29):
That kind of those big promo to us that they
do look so intensive. I don't know how you see
them and they would appear on the project or whatever
our show has and now and they're just going around
there answering the same questions in every different part of
Australia in Southeast Asia.

Speaker 2 (14:43):
Then they're in Europe and you're like, I just want
to do my craft. I don't want to be a salesperson. Yeah, yeah,
I just acted in this. It sells itself.

Speaker 6 (14:50):
Instead, she's just studying at Oxford and she's just joined
a local rowing team.

Speaker 2 (14:54):
Good for her, you love her even more.

Speaker 1 (14:57):
It just makes it she is doing what her accent sounds.

Speaker 4 (15:00):
One.

Speaker 6 (15:01):
Now Dawson's Creek Reunion. It happened yesterday. The original cast
of the show read the pilot episode of the series.
He's live on stage to raise money for f cancer.
This is because James Van der Beek, who was Dawson,
has color rectal cancer. At the moment, he couldn't make
it on the night, but he did make an appearance
on stage thanking fans in a video.

Speaker 16 (15:24):
Believe the.

Speaker 10 (15:26):
Hardly cast means a beautiful cast in person. And I
wanted to sound on the stage and think every single
person in this theater today.

Speaker 6 (15:37):
It was sad seeing them all up there, like the
main forecast, but one of them not there, just seeing
them the main three on stage.

Speaker 1 (15:43):
Watched the show. Was the creek named after him?

Speaker 2 (15:45):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (15:46):
Yeah, because his name's Dawson. It was Dawson's Creek. Oh yeah,
he was the main character because he was Dawson mate,
I understand. And then he's actually got six kids in
real life. And they got on stage and they sung
the theme song.

Speaker 16 (16:01):
Oh oh that makes me hearing really yes, singing that
song and it's not.

Speaker 1 (16:18):
Well, you really loved the creek?

Speaker 2 (16:20):
I did. I love Dawson's Creak. Anyway, that's my hot
tea alright.

Speaker 17 (16:24):
Four little little lambas one big makes one of two
point threes, tin all.

Speaker 4 (16:35):
Thanks Capacady in the shopping the idealic place to show
up twenty five hours drive Pasaden. It really is like
under cover parking stuff. It's rainy, that's the worry.

Speaker 1 (16:43):
Four little numbers, that's what you've been collecting for the
last hour. You lock in those pin numbers you've called
us on thirty one O two three, you open the
vault if it's the correct numbers, one hundred and thirty six.

Speaker 2 (16:53):
Britney is here, Brittany. You have the four little numbers,
don't you.

Speaker 8 (16:58):
Yes, definitely.

Speaker 11 (16:59):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (16:59):
You've also got someone a little bit special who I
think we have to be quiet for.

Speaker 5 (17:03):
Yeah.

Speaker 12 (17:04):
Oh, when the car's running, it right, so the car
stop right now?

Speaker 1 (17:08):
Who've you got? Who've you got?

Speaker 18 (17:10):
My five week old baby Jemison?

Speaker 1 (17:13):
What's her name?

Speaker 5 (17:14):
Jameson?

Speaker 2 (17:15):
Jameson little bit five weeks? Oh my god, you're in
the thick of it at the moment.

Speaker 13 (17:19):
Oh, yes, and very broke.

Speaker 2 (17:22):
Oh my gosh.

Speaker 6 (17:23):
You have to get this money, okay, do you know what?
I'm gonna give it to you even if you got
it wrong. No, we need she's a new mum and
we win.

Speaker 1 (17:30):
So Brittany, give us your peek.

Speaker 13 (17:32):
Two seven nine three pen entered pin correct.

Speaker 5 (17:42):
Yes, thank you.

Speaker 6 (17:44):
We won't like scream, but yay, yay, yay, yay.

Speaker 2 (17:49):
Thank you.

Speaker 6 (17:50):
Hey, Brilly, you're in the pink of it at the moment.
You got this, okay, you're going to be okay, Yeah,
thank you.

Speaker 5 (17:56):
Okay, it's been a rough one first one, so you.

Speaker 6 (17:59):
Know one, just accept her when when it's off it Okay,
it's the biggest definitely, thank you, all.

Speaker 4 (18:06):
Right, Brittany, good luck with everything, and just remember it's
way harder as they become a toddler.

Speaker 1 (18:10):
Okay, good stuff, Brittany. How about you wanting to give
away the money there? Imagine just step into the vault.
I feel bad for you. Step into the vault. Have
what you want.

Speaker 2 (18:24):
That's why I don't work in a bank, mate. It's
so easy, dodgy.

Speaker 1 (18:28):
The money is so easy.

Speaker 6 (18:29):
You're going to take away money from a mother with
five week old baby.

Speaker 1 (18:32):
I trusted Brittany to have the numbers and what she did.
Have some faith in the sisters, I always do.

Speaker 4 (18:38):
You know, it's people like Brittany who have just recently
been pregnant and recently had a kid, who after the
news of Donald Trump linking Paracedamo with autism, are going,
oh my god.

Speaker 2 (18:48):
A lot of people were spiraling into panic. Yesterday.

Speaker 6 (18:50):
There was a lot of my mum friends sharing stuff
on social We're you going to talk about it next
and we want you to listen to this because we
don't want anyone panicking, because what he says quite often
is bs.

Speaker 1 (19:01):
I got the facts, Haley's got the feelings.

Speaker 4 (19:03):
All right, we'll do it next with Haley and Matchet
from Chet JPTO.

Speaker 6 (19:10):
There are a lot of confused mums and dads yesterday,
including myself, including Mazzie in the newsroom.

Speaker 2 (19:17):
Bergo was a dad.

Speaker 6 (19:18):
We're all talking about it where Donald Trump claimed that
pregnant women should tough it out and avoid having paracetamol,
saying that it's linked to autism. So this is something
that I think, as a parent, we've all been talking
about since forever because nobody knows what causes autism.

Speaker 2 (19:37):
Nobody knows.

Speaker 1 (19:38):
Yeah, there's a whole bunch of studies that have been
done on this, so I'll give you the facts real quick.
The facts on this are that medical groups, including the
Australian Medical Association have come out and said there are
absolutely zero studies that back up the US president's claim.
And then Trump's recent statements, he has apparently been citing
evidence that paracetamol in pregnancy links to autism because he

(20:01):
suggested that Amish and Cuban communities have virtually no autism
because they don't use the drug that's a it seems
to be where his side of it is coming from.

Speaker 2 (20:11):
Is opinion not medically supported?

Speaker 1 (20:14):
Yes, so again just confirming that the Australian Medical Association
say don't do this. If you have any concerns whatsoever,
go and speak to your medical professional. But you can
continue taking paracetamol tyler ol, which is what they call
it America. Continue taking that while you're pregnant in Australia
is the current advice.

Speaker 6 (20:31):
The thing, you know, the crappy thing is as a
mum and when we were first you know, trying for
a baby, and then you are pregnant, there's so much
talk of like, oh do we like immunize our children
because is that link to autism? There's all this like
hearsay stuff that nothing is proven and while you're while
you are pregnant, everything is so confusing as a woman,

(20:51):
and it's all if we feel, I know, we have
a baby with a partner, we need you to have
a baby. But it feels like it's all on us.
You can't have soft cheeses, you can't have sushi, you
can't do that. You can't you have to have follow
ca acid like all the things you can't do, and
then you feel like if something happens, it's your fault.
It's really really puts so much pressure on women. And

(21:12):
I know, Burjo, you're a dad.

Speaker 4 (21:13):
Yeah, I think the biggest thing for me when my
baby mama Lauren got pregnant, was just there's so much
already that you worry about. You know, there's all these
scans and at every scan, these big milestone scans, is
when you go, Okay, you're in the clear for this,
and you've passed that, and you've got that. Now you've
got a heartbeat, and there's all these different things that
you are constantly worrying about. And I don't think someone

(21:33):
coming out and saying something like this.

Speaker 1 (21:35):
So taking tail and oil is not good. I'll say it,
it's not good.

Speaker 4 (21:42):
And that doesn't help. And also we're trusting someone who
delivers that news like that.

Speaker 6 (21:46):
No, I him, at opinion is not fat And so
I think unless something is medically proven, someone like Donald Trump,
the President of America, should not be.

Speaker 2 (21:58):
Saying that out loud. So if you are a.

Speaker 6 (22:00):
Parent or you're thinking about having kids, just talk to
your doctor just and you know, nobody at this stage,
still no one knows what causes autism, and it's not
your fault.

Speaker 2 (22:10):
Whatever happens is not your fault.

Speaker 1 (22:11):
Hailey, When you look back at your pregnancy, when you
hear this, did you look back at your pregnancy and go, oh,
was I taking barizoutamol? Was I doing this? Like? Does
it give you an extra worry?

Speaker 2 (22:21):
Okay, yeah it does? Do you know what it does?

Speaker 6 (22:24):
It creates an element of doubt, which I hate because
it's I don't believe him and it's not medically proven,
but it.

Speaker 2 (22:29):
Does does make you go, did I did?

Speaker 6 (22:32):
I like because one in forty people are on the spectrum.
But also Donald's whole argument is like back in the day,
there was like there was only like one in twenty
thousand people had autism. It's because people weren't tested. Back
in the day when I went to school, the naughty
people actually had ADHD. But that wasn't like a thing
back there.

Speaker 4 (22:50):
When your baby has a fever, it's actually incredibly dangerous.
My daughter had fedbroll convulsions.

Speaker 2 (22:55):
Which is when they go over so scary and they.

Speaker 4 (22:58):
Essentially have some sort of seizure. There is baby panadole.
Baby panadole that you can give zero two three month
old baby to not have it. I mean, it just
it boggles the mind. It's unbelievable.

Speaker 6 (23:12):
So let's just make a deal. As in our little
family meeting right here. If you're listening to this, just
talk to your doctor. Don't stress. Try not to make
it stress you out. It's not factual. Talk to your
doctor at the moment. We're just talking about, just for
a little moment. Something serious. This is Donald Trump yesterday
is coming out saying that parasitamol is linked to autism
and that women should not be taking parasitmo well in all.

Speaker 19 (23:35):
During pregnancy can be associated with a very increased risk
of autism.

Speaker 1 (23:41):
So taking tail and all is not good.

Speaker 19 (23:45):
I'll say it.

Speaker 1 (23:46):
It's not good.

Speaker 12 (23:47):
For this reason. They are strongly recommending that women limit
tailer and all used during pregnancy unless medically necessary.

Speaker 6 (23:55):
I just want to say, sorry, Mack, if you just
put the radio on, just remember that is not medically proven.

Speaker 2 (24:00):
What he just said is not medically proven.

Speaker 1 (24:03):
That's what Trump's administration are recommending. The Australian Medical Association says,
don't do that. Continue taking pan at well if you like.
Alex in Claire has called in Alex how has this
resonated with you.

Speaker 20 (24:14):
I think Donald Trump's just the fearmonger. My ex and
her whole family absolutely love Donald Trump and swear on
everything he says, like it's the Bible, which is bad
because my nineteen month old daughter is unvaccinated because of

(24:35):
their beliefs. Because my ex threatened to break up with
me before our daughter was born if I ever discussed
getting Sophia vaccinated.

Speaker 6 (24:45):
Ah man, oh my goodness, and you guys aren't together anymore,
no where.

Speaker 1 (24:50):
I'm having to now go through family court to get
my daughter vaccinated, along with trying to get of my
daughter Alex. I don't understand how this works at all.
Can you just take your daughter to the doctor and
get her vaccinated without we need consent from both parents.
How does that work?

Speaker 20 (25:10):
So I had tried discussing this with my lawyer a
couple of weeks ago, and my lawyer essentially said to me,
we need to get a high court order to get
her vaccinated. A couple of weeks ago, my daughter actually
ended up in the hospital because my ex refuses to

(25:31):
take her to the doctors and she was turning blue
in her fleet on the way back up from craigmore
to Claire because she had RSV.

Speaker 6 (25:42):
Okay, that you are in a really, really tricky situation,
and I'm so sorry. Does she has she always been
a massive Trump support and believe whatever he says.

Speaker 20 (25:52):
Yeah, because of my dad?

Speaker 2 (25:55):
Right, Okay?

Speaker 6 (25:56):
Does she understand that he maybe not be like the
things that he said? Is that he says his opinion
only no.

Speaker 20 (26:04):
She swears on it like it's the Bible.

Speaker 2 (26:07):
This is annoying, my goodness.

Speaker 1 (26:09):
To be honest, a lot of people, you're welcome to
agree with a lot of what Donald says and a
lot of what he doesn't say. But when it comes
to medical things, the only person you should listen to
are your doctors. Only listen to your doctor. Go and
ask your doctor what the best thing to do is.
They're the one that have studied for like a decade.
I got to mate, who's thirty three. She studied since
she finished school. She's just finished studying in her specialty

(26:32):
so she can be a specialist.

Speaker 2 (26:33):
Yeah, I think Donald is not a doctor.

Speaker 4 (26:35):
No, you have to remember, and it's a real shame
that this has happened, But we do need to remember
that these vaccines, the COVID vaccine, these kids vaccines, they
have all been politicized and they don't need to be.
They shouldn't be politicized. It's about medical, not political. That's
what it comes down to.

Speaker 2 (26:50):
Yeah, that's so true.

Speaker 6 (26:51):
And also these vaccines that kids have are proven. You know,
that's why polio isn't around anymore.

Speaker 4 (26:57):
Correct.

Speaker 1 (26:57):
Yeah, look after yourself, Alex, Yeah, after your daughter.

Speaker 4 (26:59):
All right, we're going to shift gears a little bit.
Coming up next, Adelaide's Greatest Voice. You've got a good voice.
We want to hear from your and today it's Bogan edition.

Speaker 11 (27:08):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (27:08):
You know someone that maybe the next door neighbor. Next
door neighbors seem like a good Bogan option. They're always
in their thongs, they're flanny, they're going to bb in
their heads.

Speaker 2 (27:15):
They get a couch on their front porch.

Speaker 1 (27:17):
Yeah, they talk over the events to you like real,
like a Rossie Bogan Charlene. That's what we want, that's
what we need.

Speaker 4 (27:25):
On the way next with Haleum Max on mixing ten
thousand dollars at eight o'clock, the money minute voice.

Speaker 2 (27:32):
Can get out of my head.

Speaker 1 (27:33):
The voice is like a combination.

Speaker 15 (27:34):
Of Fergie and Jesus weeks and lads greatest Toys.

Speaker 4 (27:39):
So we're on the hunt for the greatest voice in
Adelaide and the prize is exceptional.

Speaker 6 (27:43):
Yeah, you get to be the voice of Mixed one
or two point three for an entire day. That means
you're doing a message on Hold more Audio.

Speaker 2 (27:50):
You're going to be doing the MINX what I two.

Speaker 1 (27:52):
Point three, You'll introduce our show, you'll say Michelle Murphy's
coming up next, all that sort of stuff.

Speaker 2 (27:57):
Yeah, this is a call.

Speaker 6 (27:58):
This is your starting platform to be a massive celebrity.

Speaker 1 (28:01):
Adelaide's greatest Voice comes in all shapes and sizes. We've
had deep voices, We've had beautiful accents. Today we're going
on a very specific accent, the Australian accent.

Speaker 6 (28:11):
Yeah, Oka full Bogan. We love We want to celebrate
that big time.

Speaker 1 (28:15):
Love it.

Speaker 2 (28:15):
We've all got to be a Bogan in us.

Speaker 1 (28:17):
The voice of the people.

Speaker 13 (28:18):
Braddles Game Brattles from Debbie part Coppers called me Bradley.

Speaker 1 (28:26):
I think I'm Australia's not Australia's Forradle is the best force.
Brattles sounds like he might be doing a Bogan accent,
which I don't mind. Braddles. Do you get called bogan
or do you self identify as a Bogan or what?

Speaker 5 (28:40):
I'm not Bogan, mane, I'm a hero.

Speaker 2 (28:43):
I'm on the local heroes. Did you be here for breakfast?

Speaker 21 (28:47):
Did I watch Siggi's for breakfast?

Speaker 7 (28:51):
Okay, I hear the traffic's too loud.

Speaker 5 (28:52):
I'm on on John rith Am now, just trying to
pick up a purchase my Siggi's before I head off
the primary store.

Speaker 1 (28:59):
I'm very confused right now, Bradles, what type of Cardie drive?

Speaker 11 (29:03):
Well?

Speaker 17 (29:03):
Kind of car would borrow?

Speaker 5 (29:05):
Borrow?

Speaker 13 (29:05):
Many cars?

Speaker 1 (29:06):
Am I borrow a car?

Speaker 22 (29:08):
Last went down a gla come back again?

Speaker 6 (29:13):
Dorris made sugares if you know.

Speaker 1 (29:20):
What I know? Okay, that's another Braddles Brattles. I think
he is putting it on. I want to hear the
actual Ossie accents, the accent.

Speaker 6 (29:28):
This is not a very Bogan name. Christine, that's not
a Bogan name, Christine and Williston.

Speaker 1 (29:35):
The accents that we love Christine. You're there, I am ye, yes, Christine.
We heard you last week, Christine, and we loved your
voice because it's it's just guttural feeling. Can you can
you say you're Christine and you're where you're from?

Speaker 14 (29:52):
Hello, my name is Christine and I'm from Williston. And
what was what was the rest of it?

Speaker 6 (30:00):
You don't sound a bogan, but you sound very uniquely rough,
you know, like a good voice.

Speaker 2 (30:09):
It's a really interesting deep voice.

Speaker 1 (30:11):
Christine just said that your voice sounded uniquely rough. Is
that a compliment to you?

Speaker 14 (30:16):
Yes?

Speaker 4 (30:16):
Yeah, Christine? How did you get the current voice that
you have?

Speaker 14 (30:21):
I don't know. I think I was a bit nervous
and I just it just will come out like that.

Speaker 2 (30:25):
Yeah, it's quite deep, isn't it.

Speaker 1 (30:26):
I like it. It's beautiful. Can you before I let
you go, Christine? Can you say you're listening to Haley
and Max I mixed one or two point three.

Speaker 14 (30:33):
I'm listening to Haley Max on one oh two point three.
It's pretty good and love them.

Speaker 6 (30:38):
Yeah, we love you to Christine, thanks for calling me right.

Speaker 1 (30:41):
More than we want to keep these coming people.

Speaker 17 (30:46):
Ten questions. It's still sixty seconds, but this week Halium
Max's money minute is worth ten thousand dollars.

Speaker 6 (30:55):
All right, Stephanie in Paradise already lives in Paradise. She
doesn't need to go on a Paradise holiday because she
lives in Paradise, doesn't malet a move Paradise, Stephanie, Are
you ready to win ten thousand dollars?

Speaker 1 (31:08):
I am.

Speaker 8 (31:08):
I'm so ready.

Speaker 1 (31:09):
Let's do it, Steph. Can you please describe for everyone
at home where you were sitting in who you are
sitting with at the moment.

Speaker 5 (31:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 23 (31:15):
So, I'm currently sitting on the floor with my one
year old twin girls. I'm trying to just feed them
a snack at the moment to keep them busy. But
there's just food going everywhere. But I guess that's a
later problem.

Speaker 2 (31:27):
The amount of snacks you have with twins is insane.

Speaker 23 (31:30):
Oh, there's an abundance, absolutely, ten thousand.

Speaker 2 (31:32):
Dollars worth of snacks. All right, I'm gonna give you
the rules.

Speaker 6 (31:34):
Sixty second hand dollars for every correct answer. We have
to accept your first answer, and if you pass on
a question, we'll come back to it at the end.

Speaker 2 (31:42):
Easy.

Speaker 1 (31:42):
Alright, all right, Steph. You're welcome to use the girls
as help if you need any help, but I don't.

Speaker 18 (31:48):
Amazing, all right, I appreciate that.

Speaker 1 (31:51):
In Paradise. Your ten thousand dollar money minute starts. Now,
what is the currency of Japan yen. Which decade did
Dawson's Creek begins? Gold Coast Sons are a team that
play which sport football? I felt bachelor's handbag is slang
for which supermarket staple, HA Flinder's medical centers located in

(32:13):
which suburb?

Speaker 8 (32:15):
Ah Pa?

Speaker 1 (32:18):
Who has hits dirty and fighter? What's singer?

Speaker 23 (32:22):
Pop star Pristina Aguilera.

Speaker 1 (32:24):
Millennia is the current wife of which world leader Pa
Mamuriel in Muriel's wedding is played by which ossie actress?
Oh name a member of the Young Divers pop group.
Malaria usually transferred to humans via which insect.

Speaker 5 (32:46):
Morquito?

Speaker 1 (32:47):
What decade did Dawson's Creek begin? Dawn ninety ninety eight nineties? Yep,
great bachelor's handbag? What is a bachelor's handbags? Stephanie? Have
you heard of that before?

Speaker 23 (32:59):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (33:02):
Shops? If you'd go to Woolies or Coal's and pick
up a bachelor's handbag because you're a single bloker can't
go cooking for himself in a bad smell A roast
chicken in time? Perish?

Speaker 2 (33:14):
Okay, that's a one twenty quiz, all right?

Speaker 6 (33:20):
The current the currency of Japan is Yen Dawson's Creek
started in the nineties.

Speaker 2 (33:25):
That's done gold coat.

Speaker 1 (33:28):
It does say gold his gold coach.

Speaker 2 (33:31):
Sons in front of me. Gold Coast sons play AFL.

Speaker 6 (33:37):
A bachelor's handbag is slang for a roast chook. Christina
Aguilera sung dirty and fighter Mosquitoes cause malaria, and that is.

Speaker 2 (33:48):
Where it ends for you, guys.

Speaker 1 (33:52):
Sixty ain't too bad.

Speaker 21 (33:54):
I'll take it.

Speaker 8 (33:55):
I'll take it.

Speaker 2 (33:56):
Know the answers or you want to move on now,
let's do it.

Speaker 21 (33:59):
Let's see the answers.

Speaker 6 (33:59):
Okay, Faus Medical Center is in Bedford Park.

Speaker 2 (34:03):
Oh my god. Yeah, Millennia is Trump's wife. I know, yeah, yeah.
Tony Collette played Muriel in Yeah and Near.

Speaker 6 (34:14):
The Young divas Ricky Lee, Paulini, Kate Deruge, Jess Malboy
or the one that Nobody knows.

Speaker 1 (34:21):
Yes, these we play so many young divas songs on
this station. Hey, with that sixty bucks, you can go
by a couple of their albums. Stephanie, well done, Thanks
for playing.

Speaker 2 (34:32):
The so much.

Speaker 8 (34:33):
Guys, Thank you all.

Speaker 4 (34:35):
If you can find a Young Divas album in store,
let us know we've got to produce it. Who would
be right behind you coming up next, DM Deliver a
heartbroken mum going through something with her daughter that she
is not ready to let go of.

Speaker 2 (34:48):
Letting go is the hardest part.

Speaker 4 (34:50):
Hate doing it while it's there. But when it's all over,
Oh my god, that means they're growing up, They're leaving
the nest here. What's happening next?

Speaker 2 (34:56):
School zones and now in operation? So please drive carefully.

Speaker 7 (34:59):
Are reminder if you've got problems, the you've got answers.
This is Haley and maxis DM LAS.

Speaker 6 (35:09):
Yeah, you can contact us anyway you like, can email us,
you can inbox us.

Speaker 2 (35:14):
We want to help you Adelaide.

Speaker 1 (35:16):
And we'll try best and maybe we'll fail, but the
people of Adelaide will certainly help us. So if this
will spark anything for you, thirty one or two three,
you've got to help out. Natalie in wind Veil, who's
on the line, Natalie, what is your DM dilemma?

Speaker 5 (35:28):
Hello? Well, my dilemma is my only child. My daughter
Jada is about to finish year twelve and I'm not
coping very well with all of this. Yes, so not
only that she got a l's and peas this year,
so I wave her off every morning and pack the

(35:50):
lunch box. I'm down to three lunch boxes to pack.

Speaker 2 (35:54):
Ohdi god, wow.

Speaker 5 (35:57):
Every tooth that's fallen out her mouth, I've kept every picture,
every you name it.

Speaker 2 (36:03):
You feel like she's leaving the nest.

Speaker 5 (36:06):
Oh yeah, she's not, but she's I'm just not coping
with the pea plates and the formal and the graduation
and the UNI dates, and I'm just like I can't breathe.
And then she's thrown it in that she's staying at
her boyfriends for the first time in about a month.

Speaker 1 (36:21):
Okay, so how does this all affect you? You say
you can't cope with it, but what does it What
does it leave you doing?

Speaker 5 (36:29):
I'm just like pacing. I just don't know what to do.
I'm just like is other mothers. I know, I've got
friends that have got two or three or more children.
So they're like, oh, yeah, now, all good there, and
I'm like, no, I'm not ready. The apron strings have
to be released and.

Speaker 2 (36:46):
What are you going to miss the most Natalie.

Speaker 5 (36:49):
Packing the lunches and all the work that she's doing,
like I've been. Yeah, so this year has just been though.
She's she's made the masterpieces. That's for sure, But I.

Speaker 6 (37:01):
Just love that you're still packing lunches. I was making
my own from year seven. I to pack my own
lunch You're a great yeah.

Speaker 5 (37:07):
And these are her lunchbox. These are like people are
actually hanging around her lunchbox to see what she has
every days. There's no veg might sandwich in this lunchbox.

Speaker 1 (37:18):
I'm telling you, Natalie, we have got Jada on the
line with this. Good morning, Jada, Hi Jada. I don't
think you knew why we were calling you this morning,
but you've just heard your mother. How do you feel?

Speaker 22 (37:31):
Oh?

Speaker 8 (37:33):
I mean with the lunch shops.

Speaker 21 (37:34):
She won't actually let me pack my own, so.

Speaker 1 (37:38):
She loves doing job.

Speaker 2 (37:40):
Are you feeling sad as well?

Speaker 18 (37:42):
No? I can't wait.

Speaker 2 (37:44):
Do you feel sad for your mom though?

Speaker 18 (37:46):
Yeah, just a little bit.

Speaker 6 (37:47):
But can you promise her that you're not just going
to leave and start your boyfriends all the time.

Speaker 2 (37:51):
Now, You're still going to stay with you her?

Speaker 6 (37:53):
And if she wants to, can she pack your lunch
box like on the weekend.

Speaker 18 (37:57):
I mean, and we've still got like eight days lift,
so she's got two weeks and then she's got another
week of packing. But I did say she can pack
my union lunch if she really want to do.

Speaker 1 (38:11):
Jada's rocking up to UNI with a Bento box and
her boyfriend's house with some packed lunch and wrapped sandwiches.
You don't know, how are oh girls? Okay? Well? I
reckon that there are a lot of people that have
been in this position around Adelaide, and they have packed
that last lunch and they might have some tips Natalie
on how to deal with this, and Jada on maybe

(38:32):
some tips on how to be nice and forgiving and
thought your mother, Thank.

Speaker 2 (38:36):
You for your mom.

Speaker 6 (38:37):
If you're in this position, or you know, we all
have these same kind of feelings at those pivotal moments
when they're going to school for the first time or
they're going.

Speaker 2 (38:45):
To high school.

Speaker 6 (38:47):
If you've got any advice for Natalie, please call us
thirteen one oh two three.

Speaker 2 (38:51):
I love this.

Speaker 6 (38:52):
Please don't stop making lunches. I think that's so beautiful.

Speaker 2 (38:55):
We are in the middle of a DM dilemma at
the moment. Natalie a beautiful emotional mom.

Speaker 6 (39:01):
She called us this week to say that her daughter Jada,
is about to finish year twelve. She's counting down the
days of her and putting the lunch box together in
the morning, and I get that gut wrenching feeling of
letting go when your kids.

Speaker 2 (39:13):
Go to that next stage. Massy a little Mazzie. I
know you're the same as me.

Speaker 9 (39:18):
Oh my god, Haley, whenever you talk about your son's
going for bike rides or whatever, like, I just can
relate so much. My son Jonah, he's only eleven and
on the weekends he went for his first unated bike
blocky so they've been talking about it for weeks and
I was like, oh no, you know, I just want
to make sure he knew the road rules, et cetera.

(39:39):
But I followed I let them go. I was like
half an hour and you guys, can you know. I said,
I'll just take Trinity for a bike ride. She's only seven,
my daughter, So I was like, I'll follow her. Macis
is just around the corner. But I followed them to
the path. Oh yes, and then Trinity screens at China
as they're getting him at Flurry and I was like, oh, no, no,

(40:01):
it's all right, it's just Trinity, do you know what. No,
he wasn't, but he came back from that ride and
he felt so like they heat achieved something and he
felt so proud and like I just saw the look
on his face and I thought, well, you know what,
I think you're ready, Like I'm not ready for you.

Speaker 6 (40:18):
Know, it's so scary. I've been caught following as well.
I still do it.

Speaker 2 (40:22):
This is the thing.

Speaker 6 (40:23):
We need, moms of Adelaide to wrap our arms around
Natalie and give us some advice.

Speaker 2 (40:27):
How do we let go of that next stage?

Speaker 1 (40:29):
Yeah, Adelaide's rallying around. As he's rallying around, have you
got any tips We've got to call her next to
he says, you just got to let him go, let
him go to grow No. Two three help. Our favorite
calls are getting Harvest Rock tickets.

Speaker 4 (40:41):
If you don't mind, absolutely all right, we'll take your
calls and help this mom.

Speaker 1 (40:45):
Right after Brian Adams are mixed.

Speaker 7 (40:50):
If you've got problems, the you've got answers. This is
Haley and maxis d M dilemma.

Speaker 1 (40:58):
So I don't do our DMS. We will help you out.
Adelaide will help you out. Nat did just that and
we spoke to her just before, and your little daughter
Jada as well.

Speaker 16 (41:05):
Well.

Speaker 5 (41:06):
My dilemma is my only child, my daughter Jada is
about to finish year twelve, and I'm not coping very
well with all of this, not only that she got
a l's and p's this year. So I'll waive her
off every morning and pack.

Speaker 2 (41:22):
The lunch box.

Speaker 5 (41:22):
I'm down to free lunch boxes to pack since kindy.

Speaker 1 (41:26):
So Jada is the only child, it's NAT's only link
to the school.

Speaker 2 (41:30):
And now she's riding off in the sunshet.

Speaker 1 (41:32):
She's staying with her boyfriend next time.

Speaker 6 (41:34):
You get it when they go to kindy, when they
finish primary school. And now she's at the very end
of this and it is so hard as a mom to.

Speaker 2 (41:40):
Let that go.

Speaker 1 (41:41):
How can we help Vanessa and Elizabeth East You've been
in this spot before. What do you reckon?

Speaker 22 (41:47):
I have my daughter moved to Townsville with their partner,
and I think even though we don't want them to go,
we need to let them spread their wings and find themselves.

Speaker 6 (41:59):
And you know what, do you think your daughter will
always come back like she's going to go away for
a bit, but she'll always come home.

Speaker 22 (42:04):
Yeah, she always comes back. And when they do come back,
to raid the fridge, the pantry or whatever they can
before they leave. So even though they're far away, there
are only a phone call or you know, video time,
so they're close by.

Speaker 6 (42:17):
Do you feel like that heart like gut wrenching thing
when you're not close? You know, that separation anxiety when
you're not when you know she's in another state.

Speaker 22 (42:25):
Yeah, and then knowing that her partner's been sent to
Papa New Guinea as well, so she's there alone. So
knowing that she's there, but knowing she's you know, spreading
her wings and finding her way in life by herself
is a good thing. And I know that I don't

(42:46):
have to worry about her. So yeah, just know that
your children at some stage do have to fly.

Speaker 6 (42:53):
And you're so right. Thank you so much for sharing that.
That's so true.

Speaker 2 (42:57):
Robin and Glenelle, what's your advice for Natalie?

Speaker 12 (43:00):
Continue to be as smother mother because that way they
always know you, dare.

Speaker 8 (43:07):
Yeah.

Speaker 12 (43:07):
Our we've got a twenty five year old and a
twenty one year old, and like the last caller, our
daughter decided two days before we were moving, I'm going
to stay with my boyfriend. We moved from Townsville to
Adelaide and we were like, oh, no, you're not. She
now lives back with us and we're moving to Victoria soon,

(43:31):
and she's I'm coming with you.

Speaker 4 (43:33):
Oh, you don't feel like you're holding your kids back
a little bit by doing that.

Speaker 12 (43:38):
No way, She's her choice, and we just offer them
a lifestyle, and she still does her own thing. We
do our thing. We've been caravaning for three months. She's
got the house to herself. But she knows that we
can have fights and the first person she'll call for
advice is on her phone. Mama bear.

Speaker 6 (44:00):
Can I say, just with the two boys in the studio,
Burgo and Max, you will never understand that bond that
a mum and a daughter have together.

Speaker 4 (44:09):
I'm unbreakable with my daughter.

Speaker 1 (44:10):
I love her.

Speaker 4 (44:11):
I'm a helicopter.

Speaker 2 (44:12):
I've said this to my dad recently.

Speaker 6 (44:13):
I was like, Dad, I love you so much, but
if I'm sick or I need a hug, I go
to my mum.

Speaker 2 (44:19):
It's just a mom thing. You can't break it. I'm sorry.
Doesn't take away from being a dad.

Speaker 1 (44:23):
We love our dad, good dad.

Speaker 4 (44:24):
But my point is is that, like I also need
to enable my daughter to individuate and be her own person.

Speaker 2 (44:29):
Mate.

Speaker 6 (44:29):
You're lying you would never let her go you're the
biggest helicopter parent.

Speaker 4 (44:33):
Going on to Kentucky with her when she goes.

Speaker 1 (44:35):
I know, all right, more here Melissa and Aberfoyle parking list.
You got any advice, fro.

Speaker 19 (44:40):
Nat absolutely, First of all, good luck going for all
of this. It is scary for us as parents, but
you've got this. All we can do is that we
can trust in ourselves that we did the best.

Speaker 16 (44:54):
We could with our kids.

Speaker 19 (44:55):
That they know they're always welcome home. They hear once
when they live, they with and when they choose to leave,
they're free to do so.

Speaker 24 (45:03):
Like I was worried with one of my kids and
he went down that wrong path for a little while,
but he pulled himself back into it and now he's
almost a full time concreteor.

Speaker 19 (45:14):
The youngest daughter, she's finishing school next term for good,
Like she's completely done. I'm absolutely freaked out for her.

Speaker 22 (45:25):
But the only thing we can do.

Speaker 24 (45:26):
Is trust that we've done the best job that we
have possibly be able to do. Exactly, they know that
we're always going to be here for them, regardless of
what happened.

Speaker 6 (45:35):
I mean, that's our job is to teach our children
to be able to fend for themselves. But then when
it comes to fending for themselves, we don't want them
to fend for themselves.

Speaker 2 (45:41):
We want them to need us.

Speaker 1 (45:42):
You're just going to trust that you've done the work.
You've done the work, and they're all going to be Okay,
let's go ange, let him fly from the nest. All right.
Up next, we're going to hear from Nat and see
if any of this advice has helped her out.

Speaker 7 (45:57):
If you've got problems, they've got answers. This is Haley
and maxis dem dilmma?

Speaker 6 (46:04):
All right, We've got and had a very emotional mum
Natalie on the phone with us today. A lot of
moms around South Australia are going through this this week
where their children are finishing year twelve. And she's been
counting down the last lunch boxes she has to make
in a sad way. She's really struggling, and I get it.
We've all been there when your kids go through that
next stage.

Speaker 1 (46:22):
She's only got one daughter, it's Jada, and she's graduating.
That's it. There are no no four lunchboxes, there are
no I need to iron my address for school, but
there are.

Speaker 2 (46:31):
You can still do that.

Speaker 6 (46:32):
And if I if my mom would still wait my lunch,
I would gladly accept it.

Speaker 1 (46:35):
Cerny wan I do three give us your advice, Emily
and port Wlanga. What do you want to say to Natalie.

Speaker 21 (46:42):
I want her to know, no matter how old her
kid is, don't stop doing it. My brother's twenty eight,
he lives out of home. He works with my dad
at the same place, and my mom sends a packed
lunch with my dad to work every day for him,
and she still does his washing.

Speaker 6 (47:02):
Okay, this is actually where I'm going to go against
what you're saying, Emily, because it's fine to do that
for girls, because we have we're wired differently. When a
mom still makes lunches for their adult children and does
everything for them, they then marry someone and expect their
wife will do the same thing.

Speaker 2 (47:19):
No, they do. I've seen it.

Speaker 6 (47:20):
I've seen it before. They just expect other woman in
the house, she's gonna make my lunch. No, you're a man,
you can make it yourself.

Speaker 21 (47:26):
It's funny you say that because he expects my sister
in law just to pick up his dirty washing or whatever,
and she will do it. But the thing is, my
partner and I still live at home and we're both
twenty two. My mum and will still send with me
and my partner to work every day with the patch lunch.
He still does all our washing and I've made it

(47:47):
very quite clear to my partner, do not expect me
to you when we move out.

Speaker 1 (47:53):
Right, there's the advice. Yeah, the advice is you keep
them in your life, but also let's have some boundaries.

Speaker 2 (47:58):
Yeah, baby boys too much?

Speaker 1 (48:00):
Okay, I like that from Emily. We've had it from
all angles from the people of Adelaide this morning, and
Natalie from Winbow has been listening to it all. Natalie,
now that you've heard all of the advices, any of
it hit home. Is any of it helping you cope
with Jada's impending graduation?

Speaker 5 (48:17):
Well, I'm just wiping the tears away listening, and I
also still pack my hubbies lumps too, she is. I'm
taking it all on board. Is it making it any easier?

Speaker 13 (48:33):
No?

Speaker 2 (48:33):
Natalie, what's he having for lunch today? You made him?

Speaker 16 (48:37):
Oh?

Speaker 5 (48:38):
No, he's a night shift worker.

Speaker 2 (48:40):
Yeah, it's dinner.

Speaker 5 (48:42):
Well, we have dinner and then I send him a
lunch off for night shift. So Spectator's got her grazing
plate and her homemade lasagna and salad.

Speaker 2 (48:52):
Do you know what when she grows up, And I'm
sure you're the same with your mom.

Speaker 6 (48:55):
Sometimes it's really nice to get home and you see
you open your fridge and there's something like a soup
or a pasta sauce from mum. So he doesn't stop.
You can still make things for her just because she's
not at school.

Speaker 1 (49:04):
I went to my mom and dad's house for dinner
last night, Natalie, because don't want to cook all those
ns week so that's not to hang out with them
every now and then.

Speaker 5 (49:11):
Yes, no, I actually don't have a relationship with my mother.
This is why I've gone on the other angle to
my daughter. So I've given her everything that I never received, Natalie.

Speaker 4 (49:24):
My parents are away and my ex he always cooks me.
She's going away this weekend, so I'll take a grazing
plate in the lasagna if you're offering.

Speaker 5 (49:33):
It's so easy. I know the address, the.

Speaker 1 (49:37):
Address at the station.

Speaker 6 (49:42):
Natalie, you're a beautiful mom, and I love that you're
breaking the cycle with your mom.

Speaker 5 (49:46):
So, oh, thank you. Guys. Think of me in a
few days.

Speaker 1 (49:49):
Thank you.

Speaker 4 (49:51):
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