FULL SHOW #17 - GOING INSIDE THE MIND OF A FORMER SCHOOL BULLY.

FULL SHOW #17:

HAYLEY & MAX GO INSIDE THE MIND OF A FORMER SCHOOL BULLY AS THEY TRY AND UNDERSTAND WHY BULLYING STILL OCCURS IN SCHOOLS TODAY.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Haley and Max in the morning.

Speaker 2 (00:01):
With these two together, anything can happen.

Speaker 3 (00:06):
Good morning and later we're together. Forty three degrees Wednesday, Hailey,
Pierce and Max perfect.

Speaker 1 (00:11):
Let's not complain straight off the bat, what a day.

Speaker 4 (00:14):
No, we're not complaining. It's a good day for a
hot day.

Speaker 1 (00:18):
It is hot. It's about stupid.

Speaker 4 (00:20):
Stay inside, don't.

Speaker 1 (00:22):
Go to school, like live under a tree today.

Speaker 4 (00:25):
Yeah. Do you know where I was yesterday? It was
really cold. The good thing where it's a hot days,
you walk inside shops.

Speaker 5 (00:29):
I makes such a difference thing. Ye the aircon could
be said at thirty three degrees day and you'd be like,
oh my god, it's freezing it here.

Speaker 4 (00:36):
I was at the nail bar yesterday and I can
talk about this at six you're at them.

Speaker 1 (00:40):
They're a nice orange, burnt orange.

Speaker 4 (00:42):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (00:43):
So I was at the nail bar getting my nails done.

Speaker 4 (00:45):
And I've got a thing with my friends and family
that I like to embarrass them on speakerphone. It's just
been my thing forever.

Speaker 1 (00:52):
But they call and they don't know they're on speaker.

Speaker 4 (00:54):
If they're on speakerphone, like if they're ordering something or whatever,
I'll always yell stuff out to embarrass them, and it
happened to me yesterday. So I'm I'm getting my nails
done and Jimmy and my husband calls. He's like, where
are you. I'm I'm just getting my nails done. I
can't talk. It was a bit frustrated, knowing that I
was just wanting to get him off the phone in
case he said anything.

Speaker 6 (01:12):
And he's like, but you got you nails on on Saturday.
I'm like, no, I didn't.

Speaker 4 (01:15):
He goes, I was looking at nails yesterday while I
was pounding. He's the word pounding. He knew I was
on speaking, That's why he said it. I'm like, Jimmy,
that's not funny. Good bye, thank you bye.

Speaker 1 (01:30):
It is funny.

Speaker 5 (01:31):
And the lady there is sitting there going God, it
must have been so. It must have been so average
that he was so distracted during the pounding to just
be staring at the mail.

Speaker 4 (01:39):
You know what. It was just me and her too.
There was nobody else at the nailbum It's just the
two of us. And I had to hang up on
him and then just die internally.

Speaker 1 (01:47):
He's the man, He's not time. Let me see those
nails now, hold on to something.

Speaker 4 (01:54):
Max, that's not funny. He was joking, by the way,
that didn't have me did that on purpose. But the
word power.

Speaker 3 (02:05):
All right, Hey, seven o'clock this morning, we're a thousand
dollars with the money minute, Haley and Max's money minute.
Get ten questions right in sixty seconds. Win the car drilling.

Speaker 7 (02:14):
I was just drilling yesterday. Three.

Speaker 1 (02:28):
It's so damn hot.

Speaker 4 (02:30):
We want you to call us. Where are you right now?
Are you in your car? Have you got no aircon
in your car? Have you woken up and walked outside
and gone It's like walking into an oven and they're
gone back inside.

Speaker 5 (02:39):
We need some tips from me today for our first
calls thirty one o two throere. We love to do
this every day. We'd like to hear who's up and
about nice and early in the morning with us. And
today obviously it's about the heat. We want to know
how you are beating the heat. We want some tips. Yeah,
for the rest of Adelaide. How can they beat the
heat today? What do you know that we don't know?

Speaker 4 (02:57):
And also the anxiety that comes with a hot day.
I have like childhood trauma, remembering I had a blue
school uniform and I remember on a hot day on
wake up sweaties. It was so embarrassing when you put
your hand up just to answer a question. I'm like,
oh my god, I've got the biggest sweaties. So how
I beat that? I used to get these little pad
things and put them under my arm pit so I
wouldn't get sweaty sads. Not pad pads. They're like actual

(03:19):
pads for under your arms.

Speaker 7 (03:20):
Under arm pair.

Speaker 4 (03:20):
Yeah. So if you are a little child and you're
working up this morning, worrid, you're gonna get sweaties. Oh
I had them too, It's okay, Yeah, it's pads.

Speaker 7 (03:27):
Under your arm.

Speaker 1 (03:28):
It's all right, just get some pads.

Speaker 5 (03:29):
It will be your suggestions on how we can beat
the heat. Maybe you're moving to Switzerland today.

Speaker 4 (03:34):
Oh I'd love to. Let's go to Switzerland.

Speaker 5 (03:36):
Yeah, if you're at the airport right now this I
knew it was going to be forty two, I'm off
to switzerland'.

Speaker 4 (03:41):
Go on a train through Swiss outs.

Speaker 1 (03:43):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (03:43):
Or maybe your suggestion is moved to Rope because it's
gonna be thirty one degrees in robes today, which is
pretty much winter, is it.

Speaker 4 (03:48):
It's always cold in Rope, But always cold and windy.

Speaker 5 (03:51):
Rope gets it. DNA data doesn't It's going to be forty.

Speaker 4 (03:54):
Nine Dada, how they even coping? This is okay? So
this is where you don't leave the house. Hopefully you
have haircorn, but if you don't, how do you beat it?
I always do the little flannel on my face and
my ankles and my back of my neck, and then
also have you got it the same flannel? I just
like flannel, you know, around my body, and then I
line under a fan.

Speaker 1 (04:12):
Sit under a fan.

Speaker 5 (04:12):
Yeah, it's good. There's an image for everyone at home.
Thirteen one O two three. How can we all beat
the heat today? It is our first calls. We love
to hear from you this early in the morning. We're
in this together.

Speaker 1 (04:24):
Help give us the ring.

Speaker 7 (04:30):
First call went three.

Speaker 1 (04:35):
It's hot baby, so we want to know from you.

Speaker 5 (04:37):
On thirty one O two three for our first calls
this morning. Everyone who's up nice and early. How can
we beat the heat today?

Speaker 4 (04:43):
Let's tips share the love because we all were all
going to be in this together. There's no escaping it.
Nikki in Tea tree Gully, our favorite girl. How are
you beating the heat today?

Speaker 8 (04:52):
Nikki Yai guys, good morning. I'm actually just walking past
Histree Gully golf Course and there's a bit of spread action,
so I'm actually feeling quite cool walking around the block.
But my heat tip is just to have lots of
ice in your wine.

Speaker 1 (05:11):
Too early, Nikki, it's never too early.

Speaker 9 (05:14):
It's twelve o'clock somewhere in the world.

Speaker 10 (05:16):
Baby home and get one.

Speaker 5 (05:18):
Of those little firmous cups a wey.

Speaker 8 (05:24):
I was doing it at five am at the airport
last week, so it's okay. You mean when you're at
the airport, it could be you know, you're overseas basically
there are Yeah, that's.

Speaker 5 (05:34):
A fantastic buddy, And walk past golfers have their sprinkles on.

Speaker 4 (05:38):
It's totally acceptable to rock up today having walked through
a sprinkler big time.

Speaker 1 (05:42):
Absolutely.

Speaker 8 (05:43):
Hopefully I'll find some balls to grab.

Speaker 1 (05:50):
Good morning.

Speaker 4 (05:52):
Morning.

Speaker 5 (05:53):
Oh my god, Nikki's already had one or two and
you're in Craig Moore, what is your tip for us
to beat their hair?

Speaker 11 (06:00):
Eat Well, today's actually my birthday, so my tips for
today would be bet as much time as you possibly
can in your birthday suit, as long as your neighbors
aren't watching.

Speaker 4 (06:09):
Yes, love our listeners. Mag This is brilliant.

Speaker 5 (06:12):
You know what, Andrew, it's a total five band. Like
every Wednesday? Can we light candles on a cake?

Speaker 4 (06:18):
Or maybe it small one? Maybe?

Speaker 7 (06:20):
Maybe?

Speaker 4 (06:20):
No, I'm going to say total five band. No, no
candles on a cake. You don't need a candle.

Speaker 11 (06:25):
No, I don't need a candle. No, no cakepe the
way it is.

Speaker 4 (06:29):
Are you currently in your birthday suit right now?

Speaker 11 (06:32):
No, I'm at work and I don't really think i'd
appreciate anything in my birthday suit at my.

Speaker 5 (06:36):
Bird plate, Andrew, they might, oh, give your seat, will
be surprised.

Speaker 4 (06:43):
I'd love someone to just rock up in their birthday
suit today. Yeah, you could you go outside to put
your birthday suit on and come back in one and
then it's like that show Dating Naked and they.

Speaker 1 (06:55):
Yeah, doing Radio naked. Thank you, Andrew. You've given us
lots to think about it.

Speaker 3 (07:02):
Forty three the top today and.

Speaker 1 (07:05):
Max is.

Speaker 4 (07:09):
Feels like forty five. Okay, we have tickets to the
most sought after weekend in Adelaide. People from around the
world are coming to this. All the golfers are swoon swooning.

Speaker 5 (07:19):
In, swooning in, swaning in and you were swooning over them.

Speaker 1 (07:23):
Yeah, yeah, all of that live golf.

Speaker 4 (07:24):
Yeah, everyone loves live golf. We've got tickets for you
and three mates on Sunday, which is really exciting to
get there.

Speaker 1 (07:29):
Yeah I lied, I said Saturday. I meant Sunday.

Speaker 5 (07:32):
And Someday is even bigger because Fish is playing and
it puts on that big DJ content Jay Fisher.

Speaker 4 (07:37):
Okay, So to get it, I'm putting a golf ball
in my mouth and I'm singing a banger. This spanger
that I'm singing is my ten year old Alfie's favorite
song and all of his friend's favorite song, and we
play it as he rocks up to school in the
morning as his anthem.

Speaker 5 (07:50):
Okay, and if you needed any extra information, any extra hints,
Alfie is the sort of guy his favorite movie is
like Die Hut. Yeah, he's into old school Stuffy loves
old school soul. All right, you put that golf ball
in Hayley's going to sing this a little bit more
of this song, and then we're going to the phones
and someone's winning tickets to live golf.

Speaker 4 (08:07):
Whoo whoo.

Speaker 1 (08:11):
Who Look, it's not the hardest song I ever had.
Let's be honest.

Speaker 4 (08:17):
Let's go two three singing It's good.

Speaker 5 (08:20):
Montana and Ingle Farmer's called in Montana. I'm gonna say,
you've got to.

Speaker 12 (08:24):
Get this Living on a Prayer by bon Jovi's.

Speaker 4 (08:35):
Go a Great song. Montana. Well, hey, you want to
go live golf?

Speaker 8 (08:40):
Yes?

Speaker 4 (08:41):
How old are you Montana?

Speaker 12 (08:43):
I'm twenty two?

Speaker 13 (08:44):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (08:44):
Who are you going to take? Montana?

Speaker 12 (08:46):
I take my boyfriend and his workmatee.

Speaker 4 (08:49):
Oh that sounds like the best day ever.

Speaker 1 (08:51):
Do you like golf, Montana?

Speaker 4 (08:53):
I don't mind it, mate. Live golf isn't about golf.

Speaker 1 (08:57):
I mean a bit of it is. It is in
the title live Golf.

Speaker 4 (08:59):
We're all going the goal.

Speaker 6 (09:00):
She's going for DJ Fisher, aren't you Montana?

Speaker 4 (09:02):
Yeah, yeah, sweet little voice, thank you. I thought you're
going to say you were twelve years old. We were
twenty two.

Speaker 5 (09:09):
I thought we'd move past that. Don't manage to get
but you went straight back here.

Speaker 4 (09:13):
I just want to say I don't normally ask adults
how old they are. That's why I asked you how
old you were?

Speaker 5 (09:18):
Okay, Montani, you make sure you take your ida on
Sunday or eyes Okay, thank you, enjoy liv God, have
the best time watching Fisher.

Speaker 4 (09:27):
Now, with all the recent headlines about bullying, you would
have seen the Adelaide mum that confronted her thirteen year
old girl's daughter's bully at eight twenty this morning. We're
going to go inside the mind of a bully. We've
got someone that's really brave that's sharing her story.

Speaker 6 (09:42):
What drove her to do it? Why didn't she stop?

Speaker 4 (09:45):
It's a really confronting conversation that we really want you
to be part of. It's important that you hear this.
A twenty this morning, the room was true. He's high
tea less. Just a couple of us this morning. No
tea mats is too hot, Like just yeah, that's so good.

(10:07):
Here's a cube for you mate. Okay, let's start with
some sporting news for you. You're like this. Matilda's captain
Sam Kerr has been found overnight not guilty by a
London jury of one count of aggravated racial harassment. So
the twelve person jury returned unanimous decision after twenty four hours.
Feels like it's been going on for a long time.
You would have seen it all over the news. A

(10:29):
few hours later, Sam posted a statement to her Instagram
thanking her friends, and family and committing to putting this
incident behind her. She's also apologized for expressing herself poorly,
but we don't know what happens with her role in
the Matilda's She's also got big deals with Nike MasterCard.
What happens with that?

Speaker 1 (10:47):
I think the Matilda stuff.

Speaker 5 (10:49):
I think that she's still the captain, but she hasn't
been playing for like nine months. She's done her ACL
she's come back from a knee injury, right, so we
haven't seen her. We've had Pillian captains. I don't think
it matters either way. If she comes back and they
capt than her again or if someone else takes over.

Speaker 4 (11:01):
It's maybe on principle they should say maybe have a
few weeks suspended, wouldn't that isn't that normally what happens.

Speaker 5 (11:08):
Courts have said she's fine, So what Football Australia are
going to say, you're not because they deal.

Speaker 4 (11:12):
With other players. But NFL players.

Speaker 1 (11:14):
Football Australia different to that are different.

Speaker 5 (11:17):
Oh yeah, okay, your captain whatever?

Speaker 7 (11:20):
All right?

Speaker 4 (11:20):
From Sam Kerr, We're going to Maths, your favorite show. Now,
there is a guy on Maths. Whether you watch it
or not, you've probably seen this pop up in the news.
There's this couple of maths. His name's Ryan. He's a
full alpha male, loves himself sick. He is married to Jackie.
She's the one that wants blonde hair, blue eyed baby.

Speaker 14 (11:37):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (11:38):
And Ryan's the one that was a little like modern
day warrior. Yes you said, I like, but I can
defend you.

Speaker 7 (11:43):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (11:44):
Loves himself, loves everything about himself anyway. He's been spotted
on set on a movie with Rachel McAdams, which shows
apparently he's an actor.

Speaker 1 (11:55):
Oh what a great surprise. Yes, more holes married at
first sight.

Speaker 4 (12:00):
Are they all.

Speaker 1 (12:01):
Actors, they're all idiots?

Speaker 4 (12:03):
Or is he just an actor? Maybe I know that,
But maybe he's just an actor that wants to be
famous and that's why he's on the show. I don't know.

Speaker 5 (12:08):
I hope he's getting some great Instagram engagement, because that's
what it's all about.

Speaker 4 (12:12):
It's all about that him and his big thick neck
on you Ryan. Okay, let's go to this person's never
been in our hot tea before. Welcome, Terry, Irwin Terry.
Apparently she's attempting to relocate. I'm a celebrity, Get me
out of here. From South Africa to Australia.

Speaker 1 (12:30):
That's no fun.

Speaker 4 (12:31):
She has said that she has like one hundred million
dollars worth of properties in Queensland and she's like, why
don't we just move the show to my backyard. I've
got lions and tigers and bears and all that kind
of stuff. What don't we do there? She's actually spot
on because think about all the money that ten would
spend to send all the celebrities to an actual jungle
when she has everything at Australia Zoo.

Speaker 5 (12:51):
I do love Channel ten and they do pay my wage,
but they don't pay me much because Channel ten has
no money.

Speaker 4 (12:57):
So well, do Terry Edwen would be doing you favor?

Speaker 5 (13:00):
Maybe you'll get a pay right, thank you, Terry. Terry,
you know she's not doing a favor. Son living it
up being like an eligible bachelor or whatever.

Speaker 1 (13:10):
He is on the cover of all those magazines.

Speaker 6 (13:12):
It's so weird because he's still a child to me.

Speaker 5 (13:14):
Yeah, but he's actually like a ripped adult. He's I'm
going on holidays, Well I'm not going back for a.

Speaker 1 (13:18):
Month, and she's like, no, no, you're filming it out.
I control you stop.

Speaker 4 (13:23):
Mom, You're so embarrassing. Alone, Mom.

Speaker 2 (13:27):
Just it's Millian maxessters.

Speaker 15 (13:34):
We guarantee your winner every week.

Speaker 1 (13:38):
Why did you buy?

Speaker 4 (13:39):
You can buy twenty blow up pools with a thousand bucks,
give them all to all your friends.

Speaker 1 (13:45):
You can favor more fifty pools. Yeah, let's go even
more real cheap ones. Let's go big.

Speaker 4 (13:50):
Oh yeah, they're like fifteen okay, done, all right? So
the deal is you get a thousand dollars. There's ten questions,
there's sixty seconds, sixty seconds. You can get them all right,
You in one thousand dollars?

Speaker 1 (14:03):
Yeah, money minute, that's how it works. We would love
to give it away again.

Speaker 5 (14:06):
We gave it Debria from Glengarry yesterday, but hey, we
could give it away again.

Speaker 1 (14:10):
Claire and hall att cove.

Speaker 5 (14:12):
He might be coming to you today, Claire, are we
in the moon to win a thousand dollars?

Speaker 13 (14:19):
I am as nervous as you know what?

Speaker 9 (14:22):
But you know it is what it is?

Speaker 4 (14:24):
Why my nerves are good?

Speaker 1 (14:25):
Why? Why are you nervous?

Speaker 16 (14:27):
Because I only just wake up by my alarm went
off at six forty six. So and I'm in the car.

Speaker 14 (14:33):
I've pulled over obviously, and I'm not driving.

Speaker 9 (14:35):
Because I'm on my way to work. So yeah, I'm awake.

Speaker 4 (14:39):
But you're also kind of not awake. You're kind of
in that weird limbo stage. That's all right, this might
work for you, Claire.

Speaker 9 (14:46):
I listened to you guys. I've been listening to you
guys for god forever.

Speaker 16 (14:51):
Loving you Hailey. Not that I don't like you Max,
because you're awesome, but I'm loving Haley.

Speaker 6 (14:55):
That's so nice, Claire, love you too.

Speaker 1 (14:59):
Be listening up four weeks of it.

Speaker 16 (15:01):
I mean Max is the port supporter and my husband's reports. Well,
I love my husband, but a port you know, Oh whatever,
I get.

Speaker 1 (15:08):
It, Claire, you know I get it. And this is
good for me.

Speaker 5 (15:11):
Because I'm either going to be happy that we gave
out one thousand dollars or I'm going to be okay
because you don't like Port Adelaide.

Speaker 1 (15:16):
So exactly the rules.

Speaker 5 (15:18):
We have to accept your first answer, and if you
don't know the question passing, it will come back to
it at the end. You just have a voice, now, Claire,
who do you want to read the questions?

Speaker 1 (15:26):
Me or Haley.

Speaker 4 (15:28):
I'm not offended by the way. I'm not very good
at reading. To choose Max.

Speaker 13 (15:31):
I am going to pick Hailey because I'm just really
she's really cool. I've been listening to the part I
was a massive fan of Ali because we share the
same birthday.

Speaker 9 (15:41):
But you know that you're amazing.

Speaker 13 (15:44):
I'm pretty I'm pretty stoke.

Speaker 5 (15:46):
So yeah, whatever, let's do what Let's stop putting each
other on the back of Let's win.

Speaker 1 (15:51):
A thousand dollars to people that are waiting.

Speaker 4 (15:54):
All right, let's you sister, all right? Ready, yep, set go.
What country does sushi come from?

Speaker 14 (16:00):
Japan?

Speaker 4 (16:01):
What kind of metal is made in Wayala? I feel
a popular house plant is a fiddle leaf?

Speaker 14 (16:08):
What fern?

Speaker 4 (16:11):
What is the center of an atom called.

Speaker 17 (16:15):
Or path?

Speaker 4 (16:16):
Which state is Bachus marsh in.

Speaker 14 (16:20):
Victoria?

Speaker 4 (16:20):
Which car company makes a Collias?

Speaker 8 (16:22):
And the cleoum pas not good on cars?

Speaker 4 (16:27):
How many weeks in two years?

Speaker 9 (16:31):
One hundred and four?

Speaker 4 (16:32):
Patty and Selma are characters in which TV show the
Simpson What animal is on the quantus logo?

Speaker 14 (16:40):
A kangaroo?

Speaker 4 (16:41):
Is dom dollar a cartoon character or a dj.

Speaker 14 (16:46):
U d Dam.

Speaker 4 (16:47):
I'm going to say, what is the center of an
atom called.

Speaker 14 (16:51):
The apex or access?

Speaker 16 (16:53):
I'm not no, I don't know.

Speaker 14 (16:55):
I'm gonna say apex.

Speaker 4 (16:56):
Which car company makes a Colius in the cleo.

Speaker 1 (17:00):
Great fucking oh god, that be good. That means we've
got all ten.

Speaker 4 (17:04):
You're really good. You're way better than I thought you'd
be clear.

Speaker 16 (17:06):
I do the chase a lot when I'm sitting with
a client, so and I read an awful lot, and
my husband goes, you read way too.

Speaker 4 (17:13):
Much, No, never enough.

Speaker 1 (17:15):
I love the chase.

Speaker 5 (17:16):
It does compete with Channel ten news at five o'clock
in the afternoon, though, so I personally never watch it.

Speaker 1 (17:21):
All right, let's go, and.

Speaker 17 (17:22):
That's why I watch the news.

Speaker 5 (17:24):
Through your answers here which country does so? She jumped
from Japan?

Speaker 1 (17:28):
Of course.

Speaker 5 (17:29):
Steel is the metal known to be made in Wayala.
Bachus Marsh is in Victoria, outside of Melbourne. One hundred
and four weeks in two years, Patty and Selma are
in the Simpsons. Mounts logo is a kangaroo. Dom Dollar,
not a cartoon character.

Speaker 1 (17:45):
He's a DJ. You nailed that, so good?

Speaker 4 (17:47):
So many dings?

Speaker 5 (17:47):
Yes, he's playing on Friday night at Liftgolf. Now, how
many things have we got there? That's seven seven dings.

Speaker 1 (17:54):
Let's go to the three which we could tell.

Speaker 5 (17:57):
Maybe you weren't so sure on definitely center of an atom.
You went with apex, which is, by the way, a
fantastic guess. Get a science he sounding wordy. Yeah, are
sure it is the nucleus.

Speaker 14 (18:14):
I was bad at science.

Speaker 4 (18:16):
Same, That's why we're sisters.

Speaker 1 (18:18):
We sucked at science.

Speaker 5 (18:19):
The car company that makes the colios and the Cleo
was not here and I was Reno. And the fiddle
leaf fig not the fiddle leaf ferm.

Speaker 16 (18:31):
Well, my husband's the gardener.

Speaker 9 (18:34):
I kill everything so they die.

Speaker 4 (18:36):
If you move a fiddle leaf plant like a centimeter,
it'll die. The worst plant to have.

Speaker 9 (18:42):
I kill everything.

Speaker 4 (18:43):
So you didn't kill that. You got seven out of
ten seventy bucks.

Speaker 1 (18:48):
Y enjoy, thanks for playing all right.

Speaker 4 (18:53):
Dog park drama. I am part of a WhatsApp group
with our dog park. It's so cool. It's just like
this really lovely little community and I don't ever engage,
but I read right and drama unfolded last week when
someone posted a photo of a fire truck outside our
dog park and people are like, what's going on anyway,

(19:13):
I'm going to read out some things that happened in
this little feet. So the firetruck is there, there's a photo.
People are like, oh, my god, what happened? Someone wrote
Phil was stuck in the toilet. The fire brigade had
to come and break the door down, not Phil, not
Phil how to get stuck in there? And then someone
writes it locks at eight pm and he was stuck
in there.

Speaker 1 (19:32):
Phil's just sit there with his pants around his ankles.

Speaker 4 (19:35):
And his dog's outside the toilet block. It's a public
toilet block, and he was stuck for it in there,
por Phil. I did feel for him, Little Phil for himself.

Speaker 5 (19:46):
So Phil was stuck in the toilet. How embarrassing for Phil?

Speaker 4 (19:50):
Okay, stressful because I don't know if he was there
by himself either, because at nighttime.

Speaker 5 (19:56):
What the fact that someone has posted this means that
Phil would have been there by himself with his dog.
Phil has realized he's locked in and he's had to go.

Speaker 1 (20:05):
I've got to do it, don't I? And Phil's sitting
there going hello Hello.

Speaker 4 (20:10):
That's the worst part.

Speaker 1 (20:11):
Anybody help?

Speaker 4 (20:12):
Are you there?

Speaker 1 (20:13):
It's me Phil from the dog park group.

Speaker 4 (20:15):
And I've just dropped the dolls, trying to like stay
calm at the same time, but also probably trying to
keep his dog close to the thing as well, because
like coming out. Well, I don't know.

Speaker 6 (20:29):
No, you just kind of go and quick do it
quick where you get out, it's fine.

Speaker 4 (20:32):
I don't even lock the door because I just don't
want to be too far away from the animals. Not
that I would ever use the public toilet anyway.

Speaker 1 (20:38):
What do you take me tolet my kids go in.

Speaker 4 (20:42):
There and do a number two? It's so disgusting anyway,
So it got me thinking, like those panicky moments where
you've been stuck somewhere and what are you doing? What
if you don't have your phone, What if you have
your phone, if have you got reception? How do you
get out? What do you do when you're stuck?

Speaker 5 (20:59):
We've been stuck in a lift. I always wondered about
people to get stuck in the lifts.

Speaker 4 (21:03):
It actually happened.

Speaker 5 (21:05):
Yeah, we were in Sydney a couple of years ago.
A whole bunch was went over to visit a friend.
There would have been six or seven of us in
quite a small lift. It was just an apartment lift
and we weren't over the weight limit, but we certainly didn't.

Speaker 1 (21:17):
Have heaps of space.

Speaker 5 (21:18):
And the lift I reckon got twenty centimeters off the
ground and was like that'll do.

Speaker 1 (21:24):
I'm fine here.

Speaker 5 (21:25):
We could tell that it's a little jolt. We got stuck, like, oh, did.

Speaker 4 (21:29):
The lights go out like they do with movies?

Speaker 5 (21:30):
Like it kind of click it a little bit and
then a hand just creeped in through the top. No,
it was like instantly we called the people and said,
can you come and get us out night?

Speaker 1 (21:38):
Yeah, technician will be there in like an hour.

Speaker 6 (21:41):
So you were in the.

Speaker 4 (21:42):
Lift for an hour with six people, six big boys.

Speaker 7 (21:46):
What did you do?

Speaker 4 (21:46):
You sit down and chat about life.

Speaker 5 (21:48):
Sat down, chatted about things, try to play games. It
took us, I kid you not sub forty five seconds
to work out who were going to eat.

Speaker 4 (21:56):
And who was it?

Speaker 1 (21:58):
Who was going to be the more row to the
more rotons of gentlemen.

Speaker 4 (22:04):
That's fair though, right, and they understood that and they
have to kill one of them.

Speaker 5 (22:08):
They were happy to put their bodies on the line
if we had ended up living in the lift for
the rest of our lives far out?

Speaker 4 (22:14):
Were you paddicky? Was anyone claustrophobic?

Speaker 2 (22:17):
No?

Speaker 7 (22:17):
It just sucked.

Speaker 1 (22:18):
It was hot and it was the same.

Speaker 4 (22:20):
Air smelly man breath air rose. Okay, where did you
get stuck?

Speaker 5 (22:27):
Thirteen one oh two three, give us a ring. We
want to know where you got stuck.

Speaker 4 (22:31):
Yeah, maybe he was in a pineapple tein. I reckon
that happened to dad. That's why he is claustrophobic. That's
a true Story's always told.

Speaker 1 (22:37):
Me Hailey's dad. Give us a ring. Everyone else, thirty
one o two three? Where have you been stuck?

Speaker 3 (22:42):
Haleu Max in the morning?

Speaker 4 (22:44):
Right, where were you stuck?

Speaker 5 (22:47):
We want to hear your stories. Stuck in the studio
with a negative Nancy the moment? Judging by that, did
you can hear his hello?

Speaker 4 (22:53):
It was not Mary?

Speaker 6 (22:56):
So we want to know where you got stuck.

Speaker 4 (22:58):
Because there was a guy at our dog park who
got stuck in the little public toilet and couldn't get
out and then had to call the fire people when
they had to come and get him out of there.

Speaker 5 (23:07):
Fire brigades rolled in and the sirens a big emergency.
And Phil, it's just with his pants around his ankles.

Speaker 4 (23:15):
So nice. I wonder if he went to the toilet. Yeah,
he would have gone to the toilet first and then realized.

Speaker 5 (23:20):
Yeah, hello, yeah, hell, can someone please let me out
of this toilet?

Speaker 7 (23:24):
All right?

Speaker 4 (23:25):
We want to know where you got stuck and we're
going to go to Beth in Mount Barker.

Speaker 5 (23:29):
What is he?

Speaker 4 (23:29):
Your story?

Speaker 1 (23:30):
Beth?

Speaker 18 (23:31):
So this was a few years ago.

Speaker 7 (23:33):
Now.

Speaker 18 (23:33):
We have a goods lift at work where we could
put palettes up to the top level and down. And
I got a phone call on one of the internal
phones one day from one of my friends saying, oh,
can you just come.

Speaker 14 (23:42):
To the lift?

Speaker 18 (23:43):
And I said, oh, why is that?

Speaker 14 (23:44):
And she goes, just come, just come.

Speaker 18 (23:46):
So I went out into the stock room and went
out the back and she'd gotten into the goods lift
with the palette and as she slid down the side
of the pallette between the palette and the wall, she'd
somehow got the back of her shirt caught in the
metal plate that was on the list, and she was
stuck in there.

Speaker 4 (24:04):
Oh no, brilliant, you have to take a shirt off, right.

Speaker 18 (24:07):
No, I'm not used to want to hook her. But
if she hadn't had a phone on her, I don't
know how long she would have been there for. I
mean I had a good laugh about it first, and
I got her out after.

Speaker 4 (24:16):
If anyone's died from being stuck, because no one's come.

Speaker 1 (24:19):
To hells, that's not what we're not getting too negatives though.

Speaker 7 (24:22):
We don't want to.

Speaker 18 (24:25):
Look like it wasn't on a daylight today, because if
it was as hot as as well it is right now,
there wouldn't have gone very well, like hope.

Speaker 5 (24:33):
She'd be good and well done for laughing at her.

Speaker 1 (24:37):
She deserves to be laughing.

Speaker 18 (24:38):
You have to give it.

Speaker 6 (24:40):
You got a laugh at your friends.

Speaker 5 (24:42):
Jane in Sutheran Park, Jane, where'd you get stuck?

Speaker 19 (24:47):
I was about thirteen and we were at Disneyland and
we got stuck on the ride, which sounds like fun,
except it was It's a small world?

Speaker 7 (24:57):
What is it? What is that?

Speaker 4 (24:59):
Right?

Speaker 18 (25:00):
Are you going?

Speaker 19 (25:00):
Like little boats and your cruise through like different countries
and nation? Puppet dolls are singing It's a small world,
but they're singing it on loop in their own language.

Speaker 5 (25:11):
And how long were you sitting there listening to this
loop of it's a smaller half an hour?

Speaker 4 (25:18):
So that song is triggering for you, isn't it? Jane?

Speaker 14 (25:21):
Very triggering?

Speaker 15 (25:22):
Yeah?

Speaker 10 (25:22):
Yeah, Jane's going bad.

Speaker 4 (25:29):
We're laughing at people's misfortunes today. Jane, welcome.

Speaker 5 (25:33):
Jane?

Speaker 4 (25:34):
All right? Eddie in Yuri tell us, where did you
get stuck?

Speaker 15 (25:39):
I'm stuck in the hearing booth while doing a hearing test.
It was late in the Friday afternoon and I was
in the hearing both concentrating on the tones, and then
I thought, after forty minutes, I thought the test would
have been over. I looked up, the lights were off.
I couldn't see anything because there's no windows. Then spent

(26:01):
twenty minutes trying to find my phone and then going
who do I call? So I was trying to call
the reception kind of thing in after hours, no one's
answering the phone.

Speaker 1 (26:10):
Bill going home there, Oh my god.

Speaker 15 (26:14):
And to make things worse, I couldn't find the light
switch in the room. So I'm leaving messages going where's
the light switch? I still here. So the last resort
was finally I was in case of a mercy break
glass I did.

Speaker 1 (26:31):
I had no other choice, and the alarms went off.

Speaker 15 (26:36):
Yeah, that's after two hours of me trying to find
how to get out.

Speaker 4 (26:40):
Okay, and how was the hearing test? Could you hear
in the end?

Speaker 15 (26:45):
I definitely with the alarm because it was actually in
the room.

Speaker 5 (26:48):
And he just did this booth for an hour hearing
the same beach Jesus comprehensive.

Speaker 7 (26:56):
But now.

Speaker 4 (26:59):
Is horrific. Do you know what you think? That's bad?
Eddie stick around. We've got someone that is going to
jump on the phone with us who was stuck in
the worst possible way and faced death. We are getting
the best calls right now. In thirty one oh two
three about where you got stuck? After a guide our
dog park was on a WhatsApp group which I'm part of,
and found out that he got stuck in the public

(27:22):
toilet inside our dog park. Fire brigade had to come
and get him out of there. It's so embarrassed.

Speaker 5 (27:28):
Bad luck, Phil Bill. He'll never go to the bathroom
there again. Nicola in Goodwoods called in Nicola, your story
sounds crazy.

Speaker 1 (27:36):
Where did you get stuck?

Speaker 9 (27:37):
Okay, guys, I went to this really cheap scene park
in Florida about twenty.

Speaker 14 (27:42):
Odd years ago.

Speaker 9 (27:43):
I was on this ride that had like a wooden component.
It was a wooden log ride and which expanded in
the humidity, leaving us stuck halfway down the drop. I
was dangling there for about an hour along with everybody
else in the Florida heat. My legs were sweaty, my
heart was racing. My thighs were chafing.

Speaker 6 (28:06):
Oh my god, it was.

Speaker 9 (28:07):
It was horrible. But to make things worse, there was
a woman behind me who just screamed for the entire time.
Now I held it together because I was freaking out,
but she was freaking out to the next level. She
was going crazy and I got it got too much.
I turned around and I politely asked her to shut up,
and then we got into an argument.

Speaker 1 (28:29):
God day, how speep are we talking?

Speaker 7 (28:32):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (28:32):
Are you dangling upside down?

Speaker 9 (28:34):
It wasn't upside down, but it was. It was a very,
very steep drop.

Speaker 4 (28:38):
Did you worry for your life?

Speaker 1 (28:39):
Did you?

Speaker 4 (28:40):
Was there a moment where You're like, I'm going to die?
This is how I'm going to die.

Speaker 9 (28:44):
I was. I was freaking out, like you know, when
you can feel your heart sinking out of your chest.

Speaker 18 (28:50):
It was like that.

Speaker 9 (28:51):
But to then like have this woman screaming in my
ear for an hour.

Speaker 14 (28:56):
She just did.

Speaker 9 (28:58):
So we got into a fight, and then they got
a sizzle lift to collect us and take us off
one by one.

Speaker 14 (29:05):
And when we.

Speaker 9 (29:06):
Got to the bottom of the ride, I bowed her.

Speaker 14 (29:09):
I was so happy to have two.

Speaker 9 (29:10):
Feet on the ground and I've never been back to
that same park. I will never go on a steep
ride like that again.

Speaker 4 (29:18):
Do you know what, You never know what you're going
to be like in an emergency situation, it's fight or flight.
So this woman probably had no idea that she would
be the crazy banshee person screaming and you just sat
there in silence.

Speaker 6 (29:28):
Yeah, oh man, did.

Speaker 4 (29:31):
You make the news?

Speaker 9 (29:33):
I'm not sure who made the news in America. We
left the next day, so more than likely, but yeah.

Speaker 5 (29:39):
We left, just picturing Nikola sitting there like halfway down
the thing, and it's just under the photo component. There's
a whole series of photos, one where they originally have
their hands up and now I realized they're stuck, and
she's turning around getting in a biff.

Speaker 1 (29:54):
With the behindbout to die. Nikola. Did you get any
compensation or anything?

Speaker 5 (29:58):
Did they give you some money or some vouch or well, yes.

Speaker 9 (30:02):
We got a free family pass to come back again.

Speaker 1 (30:06):
No, thank you?

Speaker 4 (30:07):
Oh my god, that's crazy, Nikola.

Speaker 5 (30:10):
Have you been on any rides since? Do you go
like on rides at the show here in Adelaide?

Speaker 20 (30:14):
I do?

Speaker 5 (30:14):
I do?

Speaker 9 (30:15):
I keep them? I keep them less scary, so I
go on you know, the share of planes and the
Dodgem car.

Speaker 6 (30:22):
Would you like a family pass to our mixed Ferris.

Speaker 9 (30:24):
Will as long as it's not going to get stuck.

Speaker 5 (30:30):
So far, so good, Nikola, incredible story, Thank you so much.

Speaker 9 (30:34):
Thanks guys.

Speaker 3 (30:35):
Coming up at eight twenty this morning.

Speaker 5 (30:37):
We've had a whole bunch of recent headlines about bullying.
We spoke to an Adelaide mother this week who confronted
her child's bullies in school.

Speaker 1 (30:45):
It was like crazy audio.

Speaker 4 (30:47):
What is even more crazy is we've got someone who's
willing to share with us her story about being a bully.

Speaker 5 (30:53):
Yeah, an adult now who was the bully when they
were in school.

Speaker 1 (30:56):
And they have many, many regrets.

Speaker 4 (31:00):
Twenty this morning, don't miss it all right.

Speaker 3 (31:01):
Here with haleum max on mixed one of two point three.

Speaker 2 (31:04):
Every number has a story, yours unloved account Hale MAXI
a magic number only.

Speaker 4 (31:15):
On Adelaide's one eighteen point three. All right, our vault
is sitting right next door to our qunchin our corn
flakes and our week fix bites. It's in our studio
with a little number inside there that I picked almost
a month ago. Now, a number between one and one
hundred and that number.

Speaker 6 (31:31):
If you guess it right, we'll win you five thousand dollars.

Speaker 5 (31:33):
We've had people guessing every day. All the incorrect guesses
are online mixed one or two to three dot com
dot au. We just needed you to call us with
a story about why a number means something to you, Kelly,
and Salisbury has done exactly that. Kelly, Why have you
got this as your lucky number?

Speaker 17 (31:50):
Oh wow?

Speaker 5 (31:51):
Hello, Hello.

Speaker 10 (31:52):
I I have this flucky number because it was my.

Speaker 5 (31:58):
Mum's lucky number.

Speaker 10 (31:59):
She was born on Friday the thirteenth and in her
tribute tatoo, I've actually got thirteen as the thirteenth number
on the clock for timeless. Yeah, my dad's lucky number
as well. You've played baseball for many many years here
in Adelaide and under the number thirteen. And then just
before COVID hit, he was actually over in America playing

(32:23):
in the Over sixty five's League representing Australia against Japan
and America under the number thirteen. And it just seems
to bring me luck.

Speaker 9 (32:35):
Got a black cat, My son's got a black cat.

Speaker 17 (32:39):
Yeah, I just don't see it as unlucky.

Speaker 10 (32:41):
I love Friday the thirteenth.

Speaker 4 (32:42):
It's your lucky number.

Speaker 7 (32:44):
This is food.

Speaker 4 (32:46):
Yeah, okay, everywhere?

Speaker 10 (32:48):
Is it your lucky number?

Speaker 20 (32:49):
Though?

Speaker 4 (32:49):
That is the question? Now, Kelly, have you been online
at all to check out all the previous guesses of
all the numbers?

Speaker 10 (32:57):
No, I'm usually at work at this time, but it's
way hot to be out gardening today.

Speaker 1 (33:01):
Absolutely.

Speaker 4 (33:02):
No, you stay indoors.

Speaker 10 (33:04):
So this is the first time calling in for this.
And when I heard that the incorrect guesses.

Speaker 17 (33:09):
Are online, I was like, oh, look, I'm going to
ring anyway.

Speaker 4 (33:12):
Thirteen my lucky number.

Speaker 1 (33:13):
You're taking a risk. You've got to take the rest. Kelly.

Speaker 4 (33:17):
That's right, and sometimes the risks, unfortunately, don't pay off
because thirteen has already been guessed.

Speaker 9 (33:25):
Oh no, it was also obvious, but not all at
the same time.

Speaker 6 (33:30):
Do you know what it doesn't mean it's an unlucky
number for you.

Speaker 4 (33:32):
It's just not my lucky number today.

Speaker 10 (33:34):
That's right, No worries, We're good luck everyone else.

Speaker 5 (33:37):
Kelly early tomorrow called in and already. But Kelly, we
can give you something. We're not letting you ride.

Speaker 4 (33:44):
What are we going to give him?

Speaker 5 (33:45):
I'm letting you right off high and dry here. You're
an interest in going to see Keith Urban.

Speaker 10 (33:50):
Yes, yes, I would, Yeah, you would.

Speaker 5 (33:53):
Well, we can give you a couple of tickets to
go and see Keith Urban is High and a Live
World tour, which I would say is just as good
as five thousand dollars.

Speaker 14 (34:00):
Oh fantastic. Thank you.

Speaker 17 (34:01):
My husband will not be through, but he'll be going.

Speaker 1 (34:05):
Get a cowgirl.

Speaker 4 (34:07):
Thank you, Kelly.

Speaker 1 (34:09):
It is Valentine's Day. With those tickets. Hey, Keith Urban's.

Speaker 3 (34:11):
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Tickets on sale now at Keith Urban dot com.

Speaker 1 (34:18):
Happy Valentines everyone, This is Keith Urban.

Speaker 4 (34:21):
Oh, thank you. That's nice. Early, but jame in you
just to say that that's so nice.

Speaker 1 (34:28):
You were joining the heat today, Keith was gone.

Speaker 4 (34:32):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (34:33):
One thing to say is wife, Nicole Torod, I'm just
not talking now.

Speaker 4 (34:36):
You may have heard on our show earlier this week
it's it's all over our social media jump on the
mixed Instagram and Facebook page. But we spoke about the
Adelaide woman who confronted her thirteen year old daughter's bullied.

Speaker 5 (34:47):
Yeah crazy, her kid was being bullied relentlessly. She went
into the classroom tried to have sort of a measured conversation.

Speaker 1 (34:53):
It escalated. There's video of that. She's going like crazy.

Speaker 4 (34:56):
Yeah, And we're loving reading and responding to all of
the comments on our social media pages about this. One
particular person commented, and this person was so brave to
put herself out there saying she was a bully. She
regrets it, but we're going to chat to her next
about what drove her to do it and why didn't
she stop. It's really important that you listen to this

(35:18):
if you're in the car, be late for work, because.

Speaker 6 (35:21):
This is something we all need to hear, all right.

Speaker 4 (35:23):
This is something both Max and I really passionate about.
Is Earlier this week, we spoke about the Adelaide mum
of a thirteen year old girl who was being severely bullied.
She walked inside the classroom and confronted her daughter's bully.
You would have seen the footage online, heard her on
the radio. It's quite confronting. She screamed at the bully.

(35:44):
Everyone's talking about it, and I explained, as a mum,
you have a monster inside you that comes out to
protect your child. So I totally understand where she came from.

Speaker 5 (35:53):
I didn't get it because I was like, wow, that
is just a crazy reaction for anyone to have in
any scenario.

Speaker 1 (35:58):
But I don't have kids, my opinion really matter.

Speaker 5 (36:00):
I just thought it was like, it's pretty aggressive, but
I had you had a whole lot of people saying I.

Speaker 1 (36:05):
Do anything for me.

Speaker 4 (36:05):
Yeah, And everyone's jumping online and having their opinion, and
we're absolutely loving reading that someone that jumped on our
Facebook page and was brave enough to do this. Her
name's Melissa in Abberfall Park, and she explained that she
was the bully in school.

Speaker 1 (36:20):
Melissa joins us on the line. Melissa tell us his story.

Speaker 14 (36:23):
In the early two thousands, when I started high school,
I actually turned into a bully. I was a horrible
human being back then. So I'm one hundred percent with
this mother. I believe the school favored me more than
anyone I'd started on or picked on or beat up.
Was she In fact, are was living in a extremely
abusive home environment, Like my mother was a horrible person,

(36:45):
and school was my only environment that I could control.
And it's taken so many years of in a searching
and help and therapy for me to come to realize
that school was my only control, and I just chose
to lash out at them instead of whom I should have.

Speaker 4 (37:03):
Well, thank you so much for being brave and writing
this on our Facebook and sharing this story for you.
If you could go back in time, would you have
wanted a mother to come in and yell in your
face to tell you to stop.

Speaker 7 (37:15):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (37:16):
Wow, it would have made a difference very much so.

Speaker 4 (37:18):
So not enough was done.

Speaker 14 (37:20):
No, not enough was done. Most of my suspensions were
internal suspension, so I was still at the school. I
was excluded once, meaning I was only away for about
six weeks at a learning school to try to help
control my temper and everything like that. And I was like,
straight back in, I've actually driven a girl out of
school before, and fortunately I've actually ran into her mum,

(37:44):
and I was able to apologize very sincerely, because I
feel like anytime I think about it, I cringe. I
feel so horrible. These people did not deserve that from
me in any way, shape or form.

Speaker 5 (37:55):
What did you used to do, Melissa, say you were
the bully? Were you a verbal bully? Or were you
bigger than the other girls?

Speaker 14 (38:02):
No, anyone could get it. I was verbal, I was physical.

Speaker 4 (38:05):
It didn't matter what was your goal? Were you jealous
of these other girls? Is that why you put them down?

Speaker 14 (38:11):
It just wasn't girls, mate, it was boys as well.
I took my home life out on everyone at that school.
Teachers included students, males, females. There was only one certain
type of student that I would never pick on, and
that was the special kids. I never picked on the
special kids. I just want to say that I do
have height. So the special kids in the special class,

(38:31):
they were okay. I wouldn't say anything or do anything
to them, but anyone else's free range for me. Just
because I was so angry.

Speaker 4 (38:40):
Well, that's so sad. I'm so sorry.

Speaker 14 (38:43):
I think it was a bit of jealousy because I
know what a lot of these people had much better
lives than I did. They had a mum and dad
that cared about them and everything and whatnot. Look, I
know every family dynamics are different, but for me, it
was a very negative experience for a family.

Speaker 5 (39:00):
Did you have a moment where, either during school or
after school, where you realized that you had to change
your ways and you've become the person right now where
you you know, are sorry for all of that.

Speaker 1 (39:10):
What was that moment?

Speaker 14 (39:11):
It was when my favorite teacher kicks me out of school.
Oh her name's Tania Wilson. So if you managed to listen,
you're amazing. You actually saved my life in a lot
of ways. I was a horrible person going through a
lot of mental problems, and no one really cared unless
it was just to keep their name out of the dirt.
No one ever really tried to help me. It was horrible.

Speaker 4 (39:35):
So I guess you need to get to the bottom
of why people are doing what they're doing, too, because, yeah,
there's a reason.

Speaker 14 (39:41):
More often than not, there's reasons behind it. Please, I'm
not excusing their behavior. There is no excuse for what
they're like. But more often than not, they've just come
from horrible backgrounds and their only control is school and
that's where they unleash that anger.

Speaker 5 (39:57):
Well, how did you change yourself saying it's something you've
been through a bit of reforming. How if anyone out
there is listening and might be going through the same
sort of thing, what can they do?

Speaker 14 (40:08):
I ended up homeless. I didn't have friends, I have
no family, I've got no one from high school like
I have nothing but horrible memories from back then and
all I can say to the people that I heard
is I'm really sorry. I really am. And if I
ever threw us or you just run into me, if
you want to have a goal with meat, that's fine,
that's okay. I deserve it. I will stand there and

(40:28):
take it, and I will apologize for it because I
was horrible.

Speaker 4 (40:32):
Melissa, thank you so much for being so brave. Do
you know what you should do as a mom of
kids of school aged kids? You should go round to
schools and share your story and help people.

Speaker 1 (40:42):
It is so powerful to impactful. Melissa, Well, I.

Speaker 14 (40:46):
Would like to, because like bullies, just they still hide
in the shadows even after they've changed. Yeah, because even
though a lot don't change, there are a small group
of us that do. Because of course, the guilt horrible.
I feel so anytime I run into someone from school,
I don't know if they should walk up to them
and apologize.

Speaker 4 (41:05):
It's just Yeah, I think it's powerful when you do apologize,
because not everyone remembers when they've been teased in school,
and so for you to say sorry, I think that
you're the bigger person for saying sorry. So I think
that's a good thing.

Speaker 14 (41:16):
I think it's a good thing too, but at the
same time, I completely understand that they want nothing to
do with me. Oh it's horrible.

Speaker 5 (41:22):
Wow, Melissa, thank you so much for sharing your story.
What a fantastic insight to the other side of the fence.

Speaker 12 (41:29):
Oh, not a.

Speaker 14 (41:29):
Problem anytime, anytime.

Speaker 4 (41:31):
Thank you, Melissa. Have a beautiful day.

Speaker 14 (41:33):
Are you two?

Speaker 3 (41:33):
Staycle all right, Adlaid The phone lines are open if
you've could have thought a feeling about that.

Speaker 1 (41:37):
Thirteen one oh two three jump on.

Speaker 4 (41:38):
Our socials as well, and we really appreciate an honest
opinion on things, So thank you for joining our little community.

Speaker 1 (41:44):
Yeah, we'd love to hear from you.

Speaker 4 (41:46):
We have just been talking about the topic of bullying.
I guess this is all unfolded after the Adelaide woman
stormed into her thirteen year old daughter's classroom and confronted
her daughter's bully. And then yesterday we got this comment
on our Facebook page from Melissa in Ablefall Park being
brave enough to say that she was a bully and
all the regrets that she has.

Speaker 5 (42:05):
I'm an adult now, but I have been a bully
my whole school and it's caused me so much to.

Speaker 4 (42:11):
Strength and saying now she's got no friends because of this,
and she really deeply regrets it, and we just like
thank her so much for jumping on our show and
sharing what needs to be done to bully.

Speaker 5 (42:22):
Andrea in Williamstown has been listening along. You heard that, Andrea,
You've called in. What did you want to say?

Speaker 17 (42:29):
I was blown away, but.

Speaker 1 (42:35):
We can't hear your phone.

Speaker 5 (42:36):
Hang on, little robot Andrea. Robot Andrea, Robot Andrea, more time,
Robot Andrea.

Speaker 17 (42:46):
Sorry about that. Yeah, I'm on my way. I'm on
my way into the city, so I've just pulled over
and it's.

Speaker 14 (42:53):
Just a bit easy here.

Speaker 17 (42:53):
But anyway, look, I just wanted to say that somebody
needs to pass Melissa's details onto the education apartment and
get that girl out there sharing that story with the kids,
because it's powerful. It actually stopped me in my tracks.
And I just want to say, as a lawyer who's
represented a family who has buried a loved one due

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to suicide, and this is this is suicide in the workplace.
You know we bullies, bullies, if they are allowed to
fester and develop, then you know it doesn't stop there.
And I think, I think if Little Dolly didn't teach
us anything. That's such a shame because it's it's a
world of pain for people to bury a child needlessly,

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one hundred percent needlessly. Get Melissa out there to talk
to the kids.

Speaker 4 (43:39):
Yeah, I'm going to say the damage. I know firsthand
as well.

Speaker 6 (43:43):
My brother was severely bullied as a child because he
was gay.

Speaker 4 (43:46):
He ended up an addict and he and he is
no along with us. So this is this is the
power that if we can stop these bullies now, you
never know, you can give somebody your whole life. People
don't have to die young, do you know what I mean? Mike,
So you're right, Melissa needs to go into schools to
help stop this.

Speaker 5 (44:07):
Now, some'tmue like Melissa can go in there and say
this to one person and a good mate all the
difference to one person.

Speaker 17 (44:12):
Yeah, and you know, I know what it's like to
bury a child, and it is a change.

Speaker 14 (44:19):
That happens forever.

Speaker 17 (44:20):
It absolutely circumvens your life and takes away any chance
of happiness. And I, frankly, I totally get that, mum,
and I get it. It's hard to listen to but
the reality is that that she you know, she just
at some point has gone, you know what, I'm not
having this. And I think most of them comments that

(44:41):
I've read about this, mums have been the one to
say I get it. I totally get it. You know,
she's cornered and she's trying to protect her child. And
I would hope that it shouldn't have to come to
that at school.

Speaker 14 (44:53):
Should have done more. End of story.

Speaker 6 (44:55):
Yeah, me too, I feel exactly the same way.

Speaker 4 (44:57):
Thank you so much for calling out now.

Speaker 1 (45:00):
Thanks Andrea Well.

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Speaker 4 (49:21):
Hey, we weren't going to talk about this today, but
it's just unfolded it. We've gotting a lot of people
talking about this topic, so we thought we'd continue the conversation.

Speaker 1 (49:28):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (49:28):
Melissa from abam Foyle Park, we spoke to her about
half an hour ago. She was a bully. She has
heard all of this chat about the Adelaide mum going
in to confront her kids.

Speaker 7 (49:39):
Bully.

Speaker 5 (49:39):
Melissa has written in on Facebook and we've just spoken
to her. She has had a lifetime of pain because
she was a school bully.

Speaker 4 (49:46):
Yeah, she wished that that had happened to her. She
said that would have been a good thing for her,
that not enough was done to the bully, and she
was the bully. So we're getting all these different people
calling us, and a really interesting perspective is hearing it
from what the teachers think.

Speaker 5 (50:01):
Yeah, Direnda is a teacher in Westlakes, Direnda, what.

Speaker 1 (50:05):
Do you think?

Speaker 21 (50:05):
I think that having people come out and speak about
personal experience is amazing, But as a teacher, I would
also really love to be able to talk to parents
about what's going on with their children and for them
to believe us, for them to trust us, and to
understand that as teachers, we love children. We're not trying
to make your child the bad guy. We just want

(50:28):
some personal responsibility happening.

Speaker 4 (50:30):
Are you saying that when you're telling a parent that
their child might be bullying another child and they get defensive.

Speaker 21 (50:36):
Absolutely, And I totally get that, Mama bear, like there's
no way my kid could. But like here, I am.
This is my job, and I love my job, and
I love my students and my kids, and I'm telling
you that this is the behavior I'm seeing and it's
fine if we can do something about.

Speaker 1 (50:53):
It, Dinda.

Speaker 5 (50:54):
I had a very interesting message which painted this in
a perspective that I hadn't previously thought about. When we
were talking about it yesterday, one of my friends, who
is a teacher said, Max, your mom was a teacher.
Can you imagine if your mom was there at the
front of this classroom and this mother comes in and
there's this big shouting match that goes on, Like, how

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would you feel about.

Speaker 1 (51:15):
Your mum being in that room?

Speaker 5 (51:17):
Is this something that you as a teacher you listen
to and you go, I get it as a mum,
but also it worries me to hear as a teacher.

Speaker 21 (51:25):
Absolutely, and again like there's a time and a place,
and it's hard because as a mom, absolutely am I
going to go to war for my children. Of course
I love them, but as a professional, and also having
that thought about the other kid, like the child is bullying,
they're still a child like and they're not making the

(51:47):
right choice. But again, like your previous caller said, there's
probably a lot of background things happening, so we have
to show the grace and the love for that child too.

Speaker 4 (51:57):
During you you're so right, like everything you're saying is right,
and I actually think every mum would agree with you.
But when this happens, all logic goes out the window
and the monster comes out in us and you just
can't help yourself, which is bad.

Speaker 21 (52:09):
I know that, yeah, And I mean I guess that's
where you really need to have that trust in the process.

Speaker 1 (52:16):
I know, But into the.

Speaker 21 (52:17):
Teacher, have you, have you escalated it, have you put
it in writing, set out a meeting, And if then
you're still being failed by whichever system or whichever you
know part of that system, then you take it further.
But I also know as a mum, if someone was
upset with my children and came in and screamed at them,
you would then have that same protective response exactly.

Speaker 4 (52:38):
I think you would be so ashamed if you had
a child that's a bully.

Speaker 1 (52:42):
Are you defended to though?

Speaker 4 (52:44):
Wouldn't you?

Speaker 8 (52:44):
No?

Speaker 4 (52:45):
I would be so ashamed. It's my biggest fear is
that my kids will be the bully more than be bullied. Yeah.

Speaker 21 (52:51):
But also you have to trust that the information you're
receiving is correct. So if someone's telling you your child's
showing bullying behavior and you don't believe them, so it
also comes down to that. You know, could you believe
that of your child because a lot of people, and
it's completely understandable, believe that their children could do no
wrong because they raise them and they see them, and

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they see them the home environment, which is very different
from here.

Speaker 1 (53:16):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (53:16):
Well, you're doing an amazing job as a teacher.

Speaker 4 (53:18):
De Render. Thank you for sharing your opinion my pleasure.

Speaker 3 (53:21):
All right, well, Haley Max out here, but you can
still keep the communication going with us.

Speaker 4 (53:25):
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Speaker 1 (53:32):
We are all Yeah, we'd love to hear from you.
I dare say this is probably won't be the last time
we talk.

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