FULL SHOW #59: WHAT HAPPENED TO YOUR FAMILY'S ASHES!?

FULL SHOW #59:

WHAT HAPPENED TO YOUR FAMILY'S ASHES!? WE HEAR UNBELIEVABLE STORIES FROM THE PEOPLE OF ADELAIDE.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hailey and Max in the morning.

Speaker 2 (00:01):
With these two together, anything can happen.

Speaker 1 (00:05):
This is Hailey and Max in the Morning. Lad Light's
number one, so fun. Just a welfare check morning the newsroom,
you're o.

Speaker 2 (00:20):
My goodness, just a little computer issue.

Speaker 3 (00:23):
It's not me blaming the computer. I like it classic
your money Classic is.

Speaker 2 (00:28):
Twenty twenty one. It's twenty crazy. It's happening. Look, it's
going to be sunny and lovely, and the weekend looks great.

Speaker 4 (00:35):
What temperature are we looking at? Money? Twenty one?

Speaker 5 (00:37):
Sunny and twenty one tomorrow at twenty twenty three, lovely.

Speaker 4 (00:41):
Twenty twenty three.

Speaker 2 (00:42):
It's gonna be twenty seven on Sunday. I can't wait.

Speaker 3 (00:45):
Back to the beach.

Speaker 2 (00:47):
I love it.

Speaker 5 (00:49):
Oh morning, everybody, Hailey, Maxie, really there we nearly there.

Speaker 4 (00:56):
Thursday's Thursday. We got this this.

Speaker 2 (00:58):
Guys, hey, I had I love sandwiches, probably more than
I love.

Speaker 4 (01:05):
Most people.

Speaker 3 (01:06):
Just say it most people. I've got a problem with
people that don't like sandwiches.

Speaker 2 (01:10):
Do you love a sandwich as much as I do?

Speaker 4 (01:12):
How could you not?

Speaker 2 (01:12):
Oh my god? What's your favorite?

Speaker 3 (01:14):
So diverse? There's so many things you can do with it. Fresh,
it depends what the meat is.

Speaker 2 (01:19):
Oh, you know those things that are all over Instagram
at the moment, like the big thick ones, like with
it's layers and layers and stuff. Oh, they do the
best tuna.

Speaker 4 (01:27):
Melts just behind Channel ten on GNS the roads so good.

Speaker 2 (01:31):
Okay, so that that is one of my favorites.

Speaker 1 (01:32):
On the road.

Speaker 5 (01:34):
Yes, their great too. I like their fresh ones. Yesday
I went to my Ponger. There's a place called You're
My Ponger, and they do like big thick babies.

Speaker 6 (01:44):
Like.

Speaker 5 (01:44):
I walked in there and there's like just like, oh
my god, just like thick layers of I was a
vegetarian one, so I was like eggplant and capsicum and
mushrooms and cheese and it was all melted and.

Speaker 2 (01:56):
Greasy and all.

Speaker 3 (01:58):
My one critique as someone who loves these sandwiches as
much as you, is that sometimes and I can't believe
that I'm saying this, sometimes you can have too much
in a sandwich.

Speaker 5 (02:08):
Yes, if I can't bite the sandwich, I can't enjoy
the sandwich. So that's what you have to eat in private.
I worked that out yesterday.

Speaker 2 (02:16):
Toaster ones. They flatten themselves fine, but when they are
big wads. You have to kind of hide so no
one can see big wads.

Speaker 3 (02:23):
It's like George Costanza's wallets and sign and you're sitting there.
It's just like, I just want to have a little
bit of bread and a little bit of filling in this,
but I can't get it all in.

Speaker 2 (02:31):
Oh my god, I love a good sanger. Adela's got
some good ones.

Speaker 3 (02:34):
What's called a good looking is. What we're doing right
now is first calls. We're no longer talking about again.
We're doing suburb based recipes here. Burgo is going to
cook up a little recipe for us. Haley and I
going head to head because there's Cheabo vouchers on the line.
I'm playing this morning for Laura in Ethelton. Good morning, Laura.
What are you doing awake at this hour?

Speaker 7 (02:55):
Morning?

Speaker 8 (02:56):
Home from the gym and getting ready for wear?

Speaker 3 (02:58):
Yes, you're jacked up. You need to go get your
protein coffee from t boat.

Speaker 5 (03:03):
That's right, the coffee is needed, perfect protein coffee, all right,
And I am playing for beautiful Michelle and Fridgeporter.

Speaker 9 (03:09):
Hi, Hi, Hailey, how are you good?

Speaker 10 (03:12):
Are you?

Speaker 2 (03:12):
Are you a school principal?

Speaker 11 (03:14):
I am? Yes, I am.

Speaker 2 (03:15):
Can you ste where in the Northern suburbs.

Speaker 5 (03:19):
Oh, thank you for doing what you're doing and leading
school out there in the Northern suburbs.

Speaker 4 (03:25):
Great, well done.

Speaker 3 (03:27):
I hope you lose. Sorry, Okay, let's play this game.
It is what's cooking? Good looking? Best two out of
three First Suburbs.

Speaker 6 (03:36):
First suburb is jack Watkins Reserve dog Park.

Speaker 5 (03:41):
I do like a dog park, so do I Jack
Watkins Merderwank.

Speaker 1 (03:47):
The Albion Hotel.

Speaker 2 (03:49):
Ah my, lendna.

Speaker 1 (03:53):
I don't have that CROs Play Center.

Speaker 3 (03:56):
Crocs as you have to wear the Crocs shoes before
someone at home.

Speaker 1 (04:01):
Right now, Momo, mates.

Speaker 2 (04:08):
You're saying all things I've never heard.

Speaker 1 (04:09):
Of you hear this one?

Speaker 2 (04:11):
Oh god, what cost Glint.

Speaker 4 (04:15):
Road? Oh my god, what is that suburb?

Speaker 2 (04:18):
Gold? Oh god, where can heark?

Speaker 4 (04:26):
Churchill Center?

Speaker 3 (04:28):
Prompted, No, that's too far, that's too far in Wi works.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
Oh my god, don't you Google? Get up a Google.
He's googling. Stop.

Speaker 4 (04:37):
I don't.

Speaker 1 (04:37):
I'm not.

Speaker 4 (04:38):
He doesn't have any more clues.

Speaker 1 (04:40):
Churchill Road was the next one.

Speaker 3 (04:41):
We would have got it by Churchill Road Agency Park.

Speaker 4 (04:46):
Oh my god, give us the next one.

Speaker 1 (04:48):
I'm an idiot. The next clue there are none. I
thought you would have got after Costco and Churchill Road.

Speaker 4 (04:53):
Where right Now, here's a clue.

Speaker 1 (04:57):
Do you want to help? Who was the one that knew?
Went on the phone?

Speaker 2 (04:59):
Michelle, I know it, I know it.

Speaker 1 (05:01):
Go on, Laura, what is it? Bear?

Speaker 4 (05:03):
Of course it bloody is.

Speaker 3 (05:05):
So dumb too, and.

Speaker 12 (05:10):
Just just kept quiet.

Speaker 4 (05:14):
Good school principal.

Speaker 1 (05:15):
That is a point to team Max.

Speaker 4 (05:17):
Okay, let's go, come on, we can do it, all right.

Speaker 1 (05:18):
Next one time and Tide Beach, Apartment.

Speaker 5 (05:21):
Beach, Henley Brighton Spore Christie's Beach.

Speaker 3 (05:27):
You only get one guess we need to change that,
all right, tiebreaker?

Speaker 1 (05:31):
Okay, here we go, Ma, you've got it. Thank you.
Next one, last one tiebreaker Maru Japanese and.

Speaker 5 (05:37):
Korean Adelaide City, Well City, Guie Street matel.

Speaker 1 (05:46):
Milky Way, Star of the Sea School, Henley Beach.

Speaker 3 (05:55):
Star of the Sea had an aquamarine science center, which my.

Speaker 6 (06:00):
School.

Speaker 4 (06:00):
We went down there. It was like an excursion and
we got to see that starfish.

Speaker 2 (06:03):
I don't care.

Speaker 4 (06:06):
Laura cares because Laura about Thank.

Speaker 7 (06:10):
You so much, good.

Speaker 4 (06:11):
Joe, thank you, Michelle.

Speaker 3 (06:13):
Put don't put any kids in the in the chokey
today because that's what's.

Speaker 1 (06:19):
The next births? Just the tips.

Speaker 4 (06:28):
But I've been promising an eight or nine for a
while now, we haven't been delivering.

Speaker 1 (06:32):
This is the week.

Speaker 4 (06:33):
We've warmed into it.

Speaker 3 (06:34):
We've got a good grasp of where all of the
AFL teams are saying it's you because we is me
and everyone who follows along with the tips.

Speaker 4 (06:42):
So at least three people. I was gonna say, there
are a few people that have stuck with me and
I thank you for doing that.

Speaker 3 (06:47):
I owe you one And this is the week. All right,
let's wing you're that office footy tipping comp. First up
tonight Essendon North Melbourne. Maybe the worst Thursday night primetime
game of the entire year, because who cares Essendon going
to win? So Kilda against Freemantle. Freemantle looked really good
last week when they beat the Crows, so I think
they are going to go pretty easy against and Kilda.

Speaker 2 (07:09):
I'm gonna say they're too tired after going against the Crows.
I'm going to go thinking it all the way. They're exhausted.
It was a big game, they smashed the Crows. Yeah,
they're tired, so they won't win this week.

Speaker 4 (07:18):
Tired from winning by too much. It was too easy
last week.

Speaker 2 (07:21):
Yes, they're getting ahead of themselves exactly.

Speaker 1 (07:24):
There you go.

Speaker 3 (07:25):
We do like a little Hailey interjection. Western Bulldogs against
Port Adelaide. This is going to be a great game.
Both teams have got awesome midfields. My heart, of course,
says Port Adelaide. My head sort of leaning towards the Bulldogs.
I really do hate to do it, but I think
that they're the safer bet this week.

Speaker 2 (07:40):
That's not a true fan. I think if you're a fan,
you have to always go with your team, no matter what.

Speaker 3 (07:45):
Just the tips is about trying to give people the
best chance of getting nine out of nine, not about
what I want to have, but you should always pick Port. No,
I'm picking the dogs and I hate to do it.
Adelaide versus Carlton very tough, Carlton the back and the
Crows are not back coin flip, but it is ad
Adelaide Oval. I think I'm going to just pick the
Crows to win that one. Collingwood against Gelong Pies are great.

(08:05):
I'm going to pick Collingwood to beat Geelong.

Speaker 5 (08:07):
No, everyone's like loving Collingwood at the moment. I know,
but no, it's going to be. Gelong Cats will win.
Cat fans are so passionate. They're like Port fans.

Speaker 4 (08:17):
Cat Man before.

Speaker 3 (08:19):
There's a guy named cat Man and he has got
he sharpened his nails, nails into claus and he's got
like these grills that he Oh yeah, cat Man as
a cat.

Speaker 4 (08:28):
You're gonna love cat Man.

Speaker 2 (08:29):
I love cat Man.

Speaker 3 (08:30):
It's only going to help you. Geelong tip even more.
West Coast against Melbourne. I think that the Demons will
win that West Coast to Woefule Sydney GWS. GWS are
going to win. It's the Battle of the Bridge. I
think you like that as a name, Hailey.

Speaker 4 (08:42):
Why do you think.

Speaker 2 (08:43):
GWS I don't have a bridge up there what we
do in Sydneydney.

Speaker 3 (08:47):
Harbor Bridge Battle of the Bridge, because it's not the
GWS bridge, the great Western Sydney Harbour Bridge.

Speaker 13 (08:53):
Do you like that?

Speaker 1 (08:54):
Well, there you go.

Speaker 4 (08:54):
There's another difference for us. But I'm picking the Giants
to win. Last two.

Speaker 3 (08:57):
Hawthorne Richmond Hawks will roll the Tigers. Brisbane Gold Coast.
Good game lines, there's another six out of ten.

Speaker 2 (09:04):
Well done.

Speaker 3 (09:04):
Oh no mate, b plus, this is our week. Guys,
call me on Monday morning.

Speaker 13 (09:09):
We're talking nice all right, Peely's Tea.

Speaker 5 (09:22):
I can't wait for this to be a documentary. And
I feel like there's going to be a murder at
the end of it or something. We're talking about the
recipe plageris and the scandal.

Speaker 4 (09:30):
You've gone early on the murder call.

Speaker 2 (09:32):
It's breaking the internet.

Speaker 5 (09:34):
So if you're just catching up with this recipe, Tin Eats,
the creator of that, Naggi has accused Brookie, another chef she.

Speaker 3 (09:42):
Does bake with Brookie. You've probably got both of the
cookbooks at home.

Speaker 1 (09:45):
I know that we do.

Speaker 5 (09:45):
Yeah, I accused her of plagarising. And this Brookie girl
is making millions from her book. And Naggie's like, this
is she's stealing my recipes.

Speaker 4 (09:53):
And we put him side by side yesterday and oh
those caramel sized recipes are identical.

Speaker 1 (09:57):
They are.

Speaker 5 (09:58):
But what I love even more yesterday, as the story
just got bigger and bigger is a US author Sally
McKenny has now come forth as well, saying that Brookie
has copied her best vanilla.

Speaker 4 (10:11):
Cake recipe, the best vanilla cake recipe what.

Speaker 5 (10:14):
So basically Naggie is actually putting it out on her
social media to contact her lawyer on socials and asking
creators to come forward and say that because it sounds
like if she's doing this, she's probably hand picking different
recipes from all different people, so nobody knows.

Speaker 3 (10:29):
I saw this Sally the vanilla Cake best vanilla Cake
Recipe Gal. She put up a thing and Naggi retweeted
it or red Instagram and said, you can see that
it first, because she's the only one that cooks this
vanilla cake with buttermilk instead of regular milk.

Speaker 4 (10:44):
Rookie era Rookie.

Speaker 5 (10:46):
If I was Brookie, I would be getting all my
books out of all the bookstores right now, Rookie, taking
all the things offline just in case. I also don't
want to like the whole world to hate this bookie girl,
because that's just not good for mental health.

Speaker 2 (10:58):
She should just come out and say, I'm.

Speaker 3 (10:59):
Sorry, made a little mistake. Yeah, it's some caramels slices delicious.

Speaker 1 (11:04):
Not for charmes.

Speaker 13 (11:05):
Great.

Speaker 4 (11:06):
Okay.

Speaker 5 (11:07):
For the first time I think since I've been on
this show, we've got the Tiger King Joe Exotic making
hot tea.

Speaker 2 (11:12):
So he's in jail.

Speaker 1 (11:14):
At the moment.

Speaker 4 (11:15):
Yeah, he's not having a good time.

Speaker 2 (11:16):
This is a very weird story.

Speaker 5 (11:18):
He has come out on his Instagram and how does
he have access to Instagram in jail?

Speaker 3 (11:22):
It's a low security jail. I don't think anyone thinks
Joe's going to do a whole lot to the population.

Speaker 2 (11:26):
Well he may.

Speaker 5 (11:27):
He's come out supporting Albow, saying keep Australia safe and awesome,
giving the Albow endorsement, which is everyone's like, hang on
has has Have they gone to him and paid him
to do this?

Speaker 2 (11:39):
How is that all working?

Speaker 5 (11:40):
Albow was then quizzed about this endorsement in a National
press club and he gave a little bit of a
confusing answer.

Speaker 13 (11:46):
I have a listen, good decision, Levity.

Speaker 14 (11:48):
I have a very passionate support for one particular animal, Tato,
and I'm looking forward to voting with her on Saturday.

Speaker 1 (11:57):
Thank you.

Speaker 4 (12:00):
Is Toto his dog? I don't know if Toto is
not an animal.

Speaker 3 (12:03):
That it is.

Speaker 4 (12:04):
Toto is a dog, And of course he's gone.

Speaker 5 (12:05):
He loves good stuff, Wizard of Oz, good clean fun,
that is happy voting everybody.

Speaker 2 (12:12):
Just my little juicy hot tea for you enough?

Speaker 13 (12:15):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (12:15):
Yeah like it on board now, so let's move.

Speaker 1 (12:17):
On dot com that I use ah.

Speaker 4 (12:27):
We're getting into the lion king the animal kingdom at
the moment.

Speaker 2 (12:30):
I'm so excited. This is all over the news at
the moment. If you love animals as much as Max
and I do, you're gonna love this story and maybe
the next one too. Maybe not the next one, just
this one.

Speaker 1 (12:40):
This one.

Speaker 2 (12:41):
So Manato Zoo, we love Manato. You're about to go
and stay there.

Speaker 4 (12:44):
I am going out there to their new little hotel
out there. Feed the giraffe.

Speaker 2 (12:49):
So cool.

Speaker 5 (12:49):
They have just welcomed some more baby, well not baby,
adult elephants.

Speaker 1 (12:55):
They're on their way.

Speaker 2 (12:56):
Yeah, they left on Tuesday.

Speaker 5 (12:57):
They've been actually spending a year creat train they're light
little dogs so that they could actually walk into these
big containers and they could travel to Minato Zoo. So
they're going to be at Nato Zoo and form this
new like social.

Speaker 3 (13:10):
Herd because we got we got one new elephant earlier
in the year, yes we.

Speaker 4 (13:15):
Did, and now we go three.

Speaker 2 (13:16):
And now we've got three. So we've got pack boone coming.

Speaker 4 (13:19):
Yeah, pack yep.

Speaker 5 (13:20):
She's twenty five and tang Mo's thirty one. Yeah, you know,
elephants live to about sixty seventy years old.

Speaker 4 (13:27):
Really Yeah, these guys are just gonna hang out. This
can be living their best lives.

Speaker 5 (13:30):
And I read that they recognize themselves in the mirror.
They're one of the only animals that can do that,
and they feel grief. They don't cry because they don't
have tea ducks, but they feel grief.

Speaker 2 (13:40):
So when an elephant dies.

Speaker 3 (13:42):
In the mirror and goes, oh my god, today, it's
got I look fat today a terrible day.

Speaker 4 (13:47):
I've been eating too much garrot or whatever elephants eat.

Speaker 2 (13:50):
Isn't that awesome? So there's another reason to go and
visit Nato Zoo. That's just a nice story.

Speaker 4 (13:54):
That's what Hayley's brought from the Animal Kingdom.

Speaker 3 (13:56):
And you're about to see how different our internet feeds
are because what I brought from the Animal Kingdom to
our meeting this morning was something that I'm sure a
lot of you may have seen online. It is a
debate that's taken over a lot of the Internet.

Speaker 4 (14:09):
For me, is would one hundred men, one hundred average
men beat one silver back gorilla in a fight?

Speaker 1 (14:18):
What is This?

Speaker 3 (14:19):
Is not huge debate on the internet, and people are
so passionate about their side.

Speaker 2 (14:25):
Okay, when you say beat them bringing them down to death.

Speaker 4 (14:28):
Is it a fight to death?

Speaker 3 (14:29):
It's a fight to death, and it's all hypothetical. It's
not going to happen because silver back guerrillas don't really
want to do that, and one hundred men.

Speaker 2 (14:34):
Don't want to silverback gorilla.

Speaker 13 (14:36):
They are built.

Speaker 3 (14:38):
Yeah, So the arguments for the men winning is there's
one hundred men, right, and if they all work together,
they can find a way, whether it's a you know,
ganging up, grab some grab the limbs, some do those exactly.
But I am so firmly of the belief that one
silver back gorilla beats one hundred men.

Speaker 2 (14:57):
In a fight, and it would happen so fast.

Speaker 3 (15:00):
They weigh like over two hundred kilos, they can lift
eight hundred kilos.

Speaker 4 (15:04):
I'm so deep on this. I've learnt so much about
silver back guerrillas in the last few days.

Speaker 1 (15:08):
Oh my.

Speaker 3 (15:08):
Their bite strength is nine times like the bite that
you and I can do. Their skin is so thick
that we can't puncture it without like a weapon, and
there's no weapons in this. The only way to win
is if the hundred men overwhelm it. But even then,
can you imagine being man number thirty and seeing twenty
nine of your dude's rolling and they're like, all right, guys,
we're doing the plan.

Speaker 4 (15:29):
We're all doing the plan. We know exactly what we're doing.
And you get in there and the silver back Grilla
just pops it off one of them straight away.

Speaker 3 (15:35):
Once we came, I'll be like, I'm out and dude,
but you know that, like number seventy five onwards is
just like.

Speaker 2 (15:42):
People, you can't do one by one. It has to
be a patch mentality. You have to all jump. Are
we playing the gorilla?

Speaker 13 (15:48):
The gorillas?

Speaker 4 (15:49):
This is the theme song is going to be playing.
Well they do is just popping heads off of the
one hundred men. There's no way one hundred men bet
a gorilla hundred per cent.

Speaker 1 (15:57):
I agree with you.

Speaker 4 (15:58):
I'm dying on that hill anyway. That's sounded Kingdom. From
Haley and Max's perspective that hey.

Speaker 6 (16:02):
Coming up the next wall Truth is back in Max's face,
in every man's eye, there real feelings. His brother George
has been taken over the walla Truth this week, and
he's going to make sure Maxy can't escape Kailey and.

Speaker 1 (16:14):
Max's as fall.

Speaker 3 (16:21):
Max's little brother is asking the questions here is the
wall of truth. If you've missed it, We've got a
whole bunch of envelopes stuck on our wall. We're asking
each other some deeply personal questions so that you can
get to know us a little bit better.

Speaker 5 (16:33):
All week, we've been getting George Burford, Max is better looking,
younger brother in the studio to ask him a bunch
of deeply personal questions.

Speaker 4 (16:41):
The introductions are getting worse and more offensive every day.

Speaker 5 (16:43):
But I just want to jump in here because I
feel like we're very similar. We're both massive hypochondriacs. I
feel like you're the emotional brother and he is the
non emotional brother. So I want to know George. Has
Max always been like this? He gets very uncomfortable talking
about emotions. He doesn't get compliments.

Speaker 2 (17:00):
He's very straighty one eighty I give compliment, never compliment me.

Speaker 14 (17:04):
He's never given me a compliment, non him for thirty years.

Speaker 2 (17:08):
Was he always like that? Or did he have some
form of trauma?

Speaker 14 (17:10):
I have been cold the more emotional Birfer brother, which
I used to think was a bad thing.

Speaker 2 (17:15):
But no emotional intelligence is everything.

Speaker 14 (17:17):
What's the difference with my brother Max?

Speaker 1 (17:19):
I don't know.

Speaker 14 (17:20):
Is there a soul inside of him.

Speaker 4 (17:21):
There is I care for my family. My family sees it.

Speaker 14 (17:24):
When you do get anything from Max very special.

Speaker 5 (17:27):
Do you ever talk about emotional things together, like if
you're going through a rough time?

Speaker 14 (17:31):
I have probed him on my end before, but have
I ever reciproca time to talk?

Speaker 4 (17:39):
Please?

Speaker 2 (17:39):
Thank you, George.

Speaker 3 (17:40):
We both give each other great advice just because we
don't talk about emotional things like love and loser emotions
like that lo or like that. We talk about George's
career and he's just looking at a buy in a house.

Speaker 14 (17:54):
Just you happy with my choice of I've never heard
you talk about you.

Speaker 4 (17:58):
That's why I said okay, and you said, can you
be my best man?

Speaker 14 (18:02):
Okay, I'll be there.

Speaker 2 (18:03):
Did he get emotional when you asked him to be
his best man?

Speaker 3 (18:08):
We're sitting on the couch with the football on, and
you're like, anyway, and what about you being my best man?

Speaker 4 (18:14):
And I was like, is that even a question?

Speaker 14 (18:16):
I set the scene hadn't been back for ages. Love's
good to see Mom and.

Speaker 2 (18:20):
Dad having your parents watch that moment.

Speaker 14 (18:23):
I want them to be a part of it because
they love their sons, one more than the other. And
then I asked him, and he's like, yeah, okay, let's
do this.

Speaker 2 (18:30):
And then I thought, oh, I.

Speaker 1 (18:32):
Don't know what to do with my hand.

Speaker 4 (18:35):
You should have popped a cork.

Speaker 14 (18:36):
You should have ordered a bucket a KFC.

Speaker 2 (18:38):
Can you be more like George? Please?

Speaker 5 (18:39):
This is not a therapy session in a nice emotional way,
because I know that you do feelings.

Speaker 2 (18:45):
What do you want to say to Max?

Speaker 14 (18:46):
I love you Max, best big brother ever, and I
don't want you to change at all.

Speaker 4 (18:51):
Thank you George as you are is perfect.

Speaker 3 (18:54):
I love our relationship and I don't want to change
it just because of what Hailey and Burgo and everyone
else is pushing for.

Speaker 2 (19:01):
I wanted this to be a nice moment. You just
can't help you.

Speaker 14 (19:03):
That might have been the nicest thing that we've ever
said to one another. So I'm pretty just to you.

Speaker 1 (19:09):
What do you want to say to George?

Speaker 14 (19:11):
Yeah, tell me good things. You are just so good
at business.

Speaker 4 (19:19):
I feel so uncomfortable.

Speaker 3 (19:21):
That's excellent point me saying to George, I love you
and your my favorite brother.

Speaker 14 (19:29):
That's awesome. Book it, record it for everyone, market transcript it,
chop the mic, We're out of here.

Speaker 1 (19:37):
Ten questions sixty second, one thousand dollars.

Speaker 4 (19:44):
Money minute.

Speaker 5 (19:45):
I have absolutely no idea why Luke in Norwood would
not choose Hailey to read the question.

Speaker 4 (19:51):
For the last few days.

Speaker 3 (19:52):
If you've been listening along, Luke, I think you've made
the right call. It is the money minute, ten question,
sixty seconds, get them all right, win a grand You've
chosen me, Luke. I hear you have maybe a helper
in the car with you.

Speaker 1 (20:03):
Yeah, I got a little boy in the back. We'll
see how we go, right. How old is he eb?

Speaker 4 (20:07):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (20:08):
Perfect?

Speaker 4 (20:08):
To be honest reading these questions, some of them are
made for.

Speaker 1 (20:11):
It your old.

Speaker 5 (20:12):
Yeah, I will say, though, don't get too cocky because
you must. We must accept your first answer, So just
think about it and then if your pass, we'll come
back to with the end.

Speaker 1 (20:20):
Or I have no worries.

Speaker 2 (20:21):
That's win a thousand bucks, Luky boy, let's do it.

Speaker 4 (20:24):
Let's type straight in, Luke. Your money minute starts.

Speaker 1 (20:29):
Now.

Speaker 3 (20:29):
What color is broccoli green? What is used to unlock
a car key? What is two times twenty? A northern
suburb in Adelaide is mono?

Speaker 1 (20:41):
What barah?

Speaker 4 (20:42):
What company made the iPod?

Speaker 1 (20:45):
Apple?

Speaker 4 (20:46):
Who is the leader of Pauline Hansen's One Nation Party,
Pauline Hampton.

Speaker 3 (20:51):
Name one of the artists who sings die with a Smile?
How many hours in a day eight twenty four? What
part of your body would you wear a watch on?

Speaker 1 (21:06):
Rick?

Speaker 4 (21:07):
What AFL team? Colors are black, teal and white?

Speaker 1 (21:12):
Old Adelaide?

Speaker 4 (21:13):
All right, who sings die with a smile? One of
the artists.

Speaker 12 (21:20):
Color?

Speaker 4 (21:20):
Two big famous artists?

Speaker 2 (21:22):
Name one just Lady Gaga?

Speaker 4 (21:23):
Great? Locked in?

Speaker 2 (21:24):
Okay, oh well, what do we think of this?

Speaker 13 (21:27):
Guys?

Speaker 1 (21:28):
Locked in?

Speaker 4 (21:28):
Did you know that in the end? Did you did
you have a bit of an idea? Was your eight
year old doing some research? Or is that a guest.

Speaker 1 (21:35):
Had had a bit of an idea?

Speaker 15 (21:37):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (21:37):
Cool, cool, Okay, let's just go through these just to
make sure. Okay, color is broccoli green?

Speaker 4 (21:43):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (21:44):
Keys unlock a car two times twenty forty?

Speaker 5 (21:48):
Nor the suburb in Adelaide Monoharah company that made the
iPod Apple leader of the Pauline Hanson's One Nation Party,
Pauline Hanson.

Speaker 4 (21:57):
We saw that was a bit of a layout that one.

Speaker 2 (21:59):
How many hours in a day twenty four? You wear
a watch on your wrists?

Speaker 14 (22:03):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (22:03):
Of so many dings? And which afl colors are black, teal,
and white. You said, port Adelaide.

Speaker 5 (22:07):
Now let's go the question that you have passed on
and went back to name one of the artists who
sings Die with a Smile. You said, Lady Gaga, Now
this is for one thousand dollars right here, because so
far you got nine out of ten.

Speaker 3 (22:20):
We play this song a well, yeah, it's actually extremely catchy.
You you wanna hear a bit of Die with a Smile?

Speaker 4 (22:26):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (22:27):
Why not? Because like my heart pounding and that could
happen right now.

Speaker 4 (22:32):
So that sounds a lot like Bruno Mars.

Speaker 2 (22:34):
Yeah, but is it, Lady Gaga?

Speaker 4 (22:37):
There are two artists on this song, Luke in.

Speaker 5 (22:40):
Norwood and your beautiful little eight year old son.

Speaker 4 (22:44):
You are not, are you?

Speaker 13 (22:53):
Okay? Yes?

Speaker 1 (23:00):
Oh what a way to start a Thursday.

Speaker 2 (23:03):
Yeah, what are you going to spend it on?

Speaker 10 (23:06):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (23:07):
My god, you know what.

Speaker 10 (23:08):
I don't know, but I got to get this little
worm a transformer because he has he was here helping.

Speaker 3 (23:16):
He got us that last gurgle. We appreciate that. That's
why we have an eight year old in the back seat.
You're allowed to you're old in the back seat. There
are no rules that stipulate against it.

Speaker 2 (23:24):
Oh my god, wow, oh look winner.

Speaker 10 (23:28):
Oh wow, yeah, I really I really need that right now.

Speaker 1 (23:31):
So that's that's fantastic. Luke.

Speaker 4 (23:33):
You know what, as Haley and I always say thousand
dollars to you, just retire, mate, don't bother going to
work today, don't yep quit.

Speaker 2 (23:40):
Actually go in there with a box and start to
gather things.

Speaker 1 (23:44):
Yeah. Yeah, go back on Monday.

Speaker 3 (23:46):
This is about two minutes. Notice, guys, I'm out of here.
I won the money minute this morning. Luke in Nord, congratulations, mate.

Speaker 1 (23:53):
Thank you, thank you both. That's amazing.

Speaker 2 (23:56):
Imagine this you haven't earned with your father's ashes.

Speaker 3 (24:00):
Yeah, it's respect. It sits at home. It just sits
sort of on the mantelpiece. It's a nice way to
remember dad.

Speaker 5 (24:06):
You just go into the kitchen to get a cuppa
and you come back out and your toddler is neck
deep eating your dad.

Speaker 16 (24:14):
Oh my god, when your son eats your dad ushers
my son hussy and my dad's lushyars.

Speaker 2 (24:22):
This on Instagram where it was just like.

Speaker 3 (24:26):
I've watched this so many times and Haley says, neck
deep in dad's ashes.

Speaker 4 (24:30):
The kid has the ashes.

Speaker 3 (24:32):
Like he's managed to take the top off, got ashes
all over both hands, all over the mouth, and it's
like wet at this point, Like clearly a lot of
ashes have been in the mouth.

Speaker 4 (24:43):
Taste like I wouldn't imagine.

Speaker 2 (24:45):
Great like cigarette ashes.

Speaker 3 (24:48):
Well, no, like if you have a really well done steak,
it's not that good. And this is just an extremely
well done This is a human.

Speaker 2 (24:54):
It's just like dust. It's such a like and as
the as the obviously you can't get angry. You keep
because it's a toddler. They don't know what they're doing.

Speaker 4 (25:03):
But you can make a funny video with your English accent.
Oh my god.

Speaker 2 (25:12):
When your son, when your son eats your dad eats.

Speaker 4 (25:16):
Your dad, what would you do? Are you going to
get are you going to get cremated? Or are you
going to get?

Speaker 1 (25:20):
Well?

Speaker 2 (25:20):
With my parents, I will keep them at my house.
There's no way.

Speaker 4 (25:24):
They will say to me, you would get them cremated,
but then keep them a home.

Speaker 6 (25:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (25:27):
They want to be spread over Nepal. They want to
be spread over like beautiful. Yeah, but no, but I
love my parents and I won't tell them. They sorry,
they're finding this out now. They will stay with me forever.

Speaker 4 (25:38):
That's their wishes.

Speaker 2 (25:39):
I don't care.

Speaker 4 (25:40):
I want them to be with me. Would you want
them in your house because I don't.

Speaker 2 (25:43):
Want them up in the top of your alms, being
the top by the birds.

Speaker 4 (25:48):
Where they in the house next to my bed? So weird, Hailey,
I love my mom and dad.

Speaker 2 (25:54):
What would you do?

Speaker 3 (25:55):
What if you and your husband Jimmy are having a
nice evening together and it moves to the bedroom and
mom and dad are just they're watching on Mum and.

Speaker 5 (26:01):
Dad's eyeballs are actually dust by now like the ashes.

Speaker 2 (26:06):
Do not aware of what ashes are?

Speaker 3 (26:08):
So are you saying the ashes don't really mean anything,
in which case there's no point in you keeping them
in your house?

Speaker 4 (26:13):
Is that what you're saying?

Speaker 2 (26:15):
You don't have the actual parts of their body watching you.

Speaker 4 (26:18):
Want very familiar with.

Speaker 2 (26:21):
That's how it works.

Speaker 3 (26:23):
You don't just have a hand of Dad over there
and Mum's support in the kitchen.

Speaker 4 (26:26):
I get how cremating works.

Speaker 2 (26:28):
As an Italian.

Speaker 4 (26:29):
Do you get cremated all of Mum's side? A lot
of them are in like paying them cemetery together.

Speaker 3 (26:35):
It's just like next to each other, and then like
Grandpa died first, and then there was just a plot
next to him for years, vacant.

Speaker 4 (26:41):
Because was going to go there.

Speaker 2 (26:43):
That's such a weird.

Speaker 4 (26:45):
I really do enjoy going.

Speaker 3 (26:46):
I don't enjoy it, but it's really nice going to
a cemetery and having peaceful and it does feel like
you are visiting them instead of there's an urn that
I look at when I'm watching an ad on TV.

Speaker 1 (26:58):
I don't anymore.

Speaker 2 (26:59):
I think this is what happens though.

Speaker 5 (27:01):
When you hold onto ashes for too long, you can't
let go of them, so it's almost like you have
to spread the ashes straight away, otherwise you'll never let
them go.

Speaker 4 (27:07):
Let them go to Nepal. Let your parents go to
the Paul. They don't want to watch you and Jimmy
getting into it.

Speaker 5 (27:10):
My mum actually said to me she actually wanted her
body to go on the top of Nepal so the
birds could eat and she'd be giving her body back.

Speaker 3 (27:20):
To the impractical Mom. I know, we have to pay
for a plane ticket and fly your dead body to
the top of.

Speaker 2 (27:25):
The ring, to the top. There's no attitude. I couldn't
breathe while I.

Speaker 4 (27:29):
Was We're berning you, mom, We're burning all right. Thirteen
one o two three.

Speaker 1 (27:33):
We want to know.

Speaker 3 (27:35):
We want to know what happened to the ashes? Did
your child eat them? Just like our good friend in
the UK, have you got god one?

Speaker 4 (27:43):
When your son?

Speaker 3 (27:45):
Have you got the ashes? What's happened to them? What
are your crazy ashes stories?

Speaker 12 (27:49):
Read it?

Speaker 2 (27:50):
Did it fly back in your face?

Speaker 4 (27:51):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (27:52):
Always an option.

Speaker 3 (27:54):
We're asking you on thirteen one O two three what
happened to the ashes? Because we've come across a video
we can't stop having a laugh of a UK woman
walking in on her little toddler chowing down on dad.

Speaker 4 (28:05):
Oh my god, when.

Speaker 16 (28:06):
Your son died as ushers, my son has he and
my dad's lush years.

Speaker 2 (28:12):
If you kind of flip it, it's kind of a
really nice thing. It's like Dad is part of him now.

Speaker 4 (28:19):
Yeah, he's going to pull out his grandpa.

Speaker 1 (28:23):
Think of that.

Speaker 4 (28:24):
Three Angelo and Happy Valley.

Speaker 3 (28:26):
What happened Your dad's friend died in a glider accident
is a good place to start.

Speaker 9 (28:32):
Oh God, yes, Bob it was his name. And they
brought his ashes back to Adelaide, or brought him back
to Adelaide, had him cremated. They just decided that maybe
Bob would like to be spread over the gaularea field
because he loves bliding so much. So Dad crafted a

(28:54):
tube to be able to pour the ashes down in
to down this tube and spread them over the airfield.

Speaker 4 (29:05):
In the sky while the glider's up in the sky.

Speaker 9 (29:08):
Yees, so they so they took him up for his
final flight. And when the time came, Dad opened the
urn and poured the ashes down the tube. Unfortunately, a
wind gust came the other way and put Bob back

(29:28):
up the tube and all into the cockpicure of the glider.
And when they landed, they're all standing there thinking what
do we do now? So they got out the club
fat came cleaner.

Speaker 5 (29:41):
Oh my god, they're choking on Bob as he's floating
around the insiders.

Speaker 4 (29:50):
As soon as you said Angela, Dad fashioned the tube.

Speaker 9 (29:53):
I was like, Dad was a brilliant man. He was
an architect, so he knew how to do these things.
It was just that wind.

Speaker 2 (30:05):
That's where you'll end up.

Speaker 4 (30:08):
I hope it is.

Speaker 2 (30:09):
I hope it's a dion stick.

Speaker 4 (30:13):
What happened to the ashes?

Speaker 15 (30:15):
So we were out in the pine forest spreading my
pop's ashes, and there was a couple of generations worth
all standing around and we're taking turns, staying our bit
and saying goodbye. And then I was like, okay, well
forty kilo man, there have a lot of ashes here.
So we go around again and I was like, okay,
we're still going. My cousin goes, there's still some in there,
but it's not coming out. You're shaking it viciously at

(30:36):
the ground. I'm going, I'm the oldest and composed enough.
Let me step forward. And I went, yeah, there's something there.
I really don't want to but I jammed my hand
up in the end, going water. My kinggle pool out
and pull out this little tag, which I'm assuming is
the toe tag, and that says it was my pop

(30:57):
in there. And my cousin's like, oh, thanks, it's and
the ashes. And I walk over my dad holding it out,
my hand covered in ash, going, Dad, what do I
do with this? He's like, what is it? I'm like,
I'm assuming it's Pops to tag and he's like, oh,
gets back with the urn stuff, and I went okay,
I put it down, and I looked at my hand
and went, sorry, Pop, as I brushed my hand across

(31:17):
my leg.

Speaker 4 (31:18):
Yeah, my god, leave. I thought they just did that
in movie in the Morgue, the towtag. It's like identifying
thank you, Meghan, well done for diving in that grenade
for your family and reaching into the urn.

Speaker 2 (31:31):
It's also weird.

Speaker 5 (31:31):
Can I just say because everybody spreads ashes, right, I've
spread ashes before and I've never found a toe tag.

Speaker 4 (31:36):
Yeah, I feel like the morg should take it off before.

Speaker 2 (31:39):
That was a bad move from them all.

Speaker 3 (31:40):
I don't want to tell them how to do their job,
but take it off. Take it off, Tanil in West Beach,
bring a time. What happened the ashes?

Speaker 17 (31:47):
So a bit of a story for you guys. My
brother passed away quite young and left a daughter behind,
and his ashes looked at my dad's house for some time.
My mother and I didn't get along with my father,
so when he passed away, he thought he would take
this fight to the grave and try and bury my
brother's ashes in his coffin with him.

Speaker 13 (32:07):
How does that work?

Speaker 17 (32:10):
He honestly, when he passed away, he had written notes
to people because he obviously he died of Kansas, so
he had time to prepare, and he had requested that
my brother's earn be placed in his coffin exactly firef
to the day he died. I tell you I had
an auntie on my dad's side who saw the reason

(32:33):
we one of the ashes was to give to my son,
my brother's daughter, my knees so that she could scatter
them in a place in New Zealand that was quite
special to hurt and obviously for that reason, taking the
differences aside, my auntie in her right mind stole the
stole the urn from the coffin before it was buried.

Speaker 4 (32:51):
So she hang on a second.

Speaker 3 (32:52):
They did get the urn into the coffin, and then
the auntie realized and reached in to the chad father
and pinched the urn.

Speaker 17 (33:01):
As it was coming out of the hearth a look,
not them themselves, but requested the people who you know,
the the organizers, requested that they quickly opened up, take
it out, and then it was returned to my niece
so that she could scatter them. So there was you know,

(33:21):
we were doing it to be fightful, we were doing
it for the right reason.

Speaker 2 (33:24):
No, that's not mission impossible, and it was amazing.

Speaker 17 (33:28):
Mission impossible, and we pulled it off.

Speaker 3 (33:30):
Oh that is so good that it's not all I
expected the ashes stories to go.

Speaker 4 (33:35):
Thank you so much for your story. Thanks guys.

Speaker 18 (33:40):
If you've got problems, these got answers. This is Haley
and maxis DM dilemma?

Speaker 2 (33:47):
All right, you have a little dilemma going on in
your life and you want us to sort you out.
You want Adelaide to help just dmos.

Speaker 4 (33:54):
Can be anything, relationships, whatever, anything in between.

Speaker 2 (33:58):
Send us a DM.

Speaker 3 (33:59):
We got someone by the name of Ethan in Redwood
Park who send us a little bit of a DM
and we called him back because we think that we
can help and Adelaide you can help.

Speaker 4 (34:08):
So Ethan in Redwood Park, what's your dilemma?

Speaker 19 (34:10):
My wife d you to give birth in the next
couple of weeks, and I'm obviously taking time off. It's
our first child. Very excited just to have sort of
us in the room, just just my wife and I
am the medical team. And she's mentioned she wants her
mom in there now as well.

Speaker 2 (34:26):
Oh that's nice, it's not Why is it okay? What's
her what's her reasons?

Speaker 19 (34:34):
I think she's just want someone else there to support
her and help her through.

Speaker 4 (34:38):
Ethan can do that, can I say? Though?

Speaker 2 (34:39):
It's not just someone else, it's your mom.

Speaker 5 (34:41):
And women have this really a lot of us have
a really beautiful connection to your mom and she might
need her.

Speaker 2 (34:47):
When you're sick, you want your mom. When you're sore,
you want your mom.

Speaker 1 (34:51):
No, that's what you know.

Speaker 3 (34:52):
I don't want to replace mum, but mom does sort
of get shifted to the back burner when you have
husband and soon to be father of your child's danny
right there, I would imagine.

Speaker 2 (35:01):
But this is a common thing. Women want their moms
there by their side as well.

Speaker 3 (35:05):
Mum will be there the second that it's finished. No,
but you want to be there to hold a head ethan.
Have you had this discussion with your wife? What has
said like desperate reasons?

Speaker 19 (35:16):
I think she just wants her there in case anything
goes wrong. But what am I there for then, just
just standing in the background now right.

Speaker 2 (35:22):
I don't think it's because if anything goes wrong. I'm
just speaking from how I would feel if I was
your wife. It's just a thing to have that motherly
support there, just to be there to tell her that
you can do this. Everything's going to be fine. Because
I tell you what, this.

Speaker 5 (35:36):
Mother in law is going to be a big part
of your life because she'll probably be babysitting the baby.

Speaker 2 (35:41):
She'd be a beautiful grandma.

Speaker 3 (35:42):
She's going to be a big part of life. Doesn't
it be a big part of the instant moment that
life comes into being.

Speaker 19 (35:48):
Though she'd be great for babysitting once the baby comes out.

Speaker 4 (35:52):
Does she need to be a part of the actual
process you would give her that?

Speaker 1 (35:55):
What did you have?

Speaker 4 (35:56):
What do you have?

Speaker 2 (35:56):
I didn't. I didn't have anyone who just had my
husband and I.

Speaker 3 (36:00):
But I didn't even exactly if a mother had said
I want to I want to be in there this,
I want this, I think that it will be beneficial
for both of us.

Speaker 2 (36:08):
I said, that's different. If I wanted it, then I
should be allowed to have it, do you know what
I mean?

Speaker 4 (36:14):
Yeah? But if a mom comes saying it and you
don't want it.

Speaker 2 (36:16):
Then you yeah, yeah, yeah, Well, okay, tell me about
this mother in law because it's my sway. Minds.

Speaker 19 (36:24):
Oh, she's nice and she'll be grateful when the baby comes.
But you know, when she's there, I think I might
get pushed to the background a lot.

Speaker 4 (36:32):
That has to be a big concern.

Speaker 1 (36:37):
I'm the bloke.

Speaker 4 (36:38):
I don't have a child on the way, but I'm
the bloke. I would like this to be a moment
between me and my wife.

Speaker 5 (36:41):
But what if Eliza said you, I really want my
mom there, and you love her mom, but I don't
want her mother to come in and then And I
don't think this would happen in our situation, but maybe
in Ethan's it would.

Speaker 3 (36:50):
I don't want the mother to come in and then
take control of that. I don't want her to be
the one that then nudges me out of the way.

Speaker 2 (36:55):
But you don't want that. But that's the.

Speaker 4 (36:57):
Concern that Ethan might have in the moment.

Speaker 2 (37:00):
Ethan, this is my opinion.

Speaker 5 (37:02):
I think you should if your wife really wants this,
then maybe you should let that happen. But the rules
are that obviously you are first, you are at that end,
and the mom is there to hold her hand and
support her and be there as her mother.

Speaker 19 (37:15):
Okay, Okay, So I just need to not get pushed
to the background.

Speaker 4 (37:19):
Stand up for myself.

Speaker 3 (37:20):
I was standing up for myself beforehand, Ethan. But you
know what, Aileen and I have slightly different opinions on this,
and the people of Adelaide are going to have different
opinions on this, and we would love to hear from you.

Speaker 4 (37:30):
We need to help Ethan out.

Speaker 1 (37:33):
This is Hailey and Max in the morning. All right,
we are in the middle of a TM dilemma. A
juicy one too, by the way.

Speaker 5 (37:40):
Yeah, so Ethan has sent us a DM saying his
wife they're about to have a baby, their first baby.

Speaker 2 (37:46):
Yeah, your mine's not on there.

Speaker 4 (37:48):
So first child, so excited, don't worry. This is the
Haly Show. I'll turn it off right now. You can
living my dream right now.

Speaker 5 (37:56):
All right, let me tell you Ethan his wife they're
about to have their firs by baby. The wife really
wants her mum in the birthing suite, and he's like,
I don't want that.

Speaker 4 (38:04):
No, it's a special moment between you and me.

Speaker 2 (38:07):
She is the one that is going to have a baby,
so cut out of her.

Speaker 1 (38:13):
You are so as.

Speaker 2 (38:16):
I'm on edge.

Speaker 4 (38:17):
I don't have a few right well, and I'm just
going to argue that.

Speaker 1 (38:21):
The veins actual popping out of beforehand.

Speaker 4 (38:24):
You're not having this child.

Speaker 2 (38:25):
It's relaxed.

Speaker 4 (38:26):
Thirty one O two three. What do you think around Adelaide?
Annie in South Blimpton? What do you reckon? Help out
our man, Ethan.

Speaker 12 (38:35):
My Athan, you need to stack back for Yes, if
you've got if you're a woman and you've got something
the size of a warnermelon coming out the side of
the golf ball man, she could have anything she wants.

Speaker 8 (38:50):
If she wants the post doing a script show, if
she wants everyone, if she wants, she needs.

Speaker 4 (38:58):
To have whatever.

Speaker 5 (39:00):
It is so true, Annie, tell me, did you have
anybody in the birthing sweet with you when you had children?

Speaker 3 (39:06):
I did.

Speaker 8 (39:06):
I had my mum in the birthing suit with me
and my husband. Then the obstetricians saying to me, you're
not pushing right. You need to push this way. And
my husband turned to me and he said, you need
to push right, knowing you're not pushing right, and step
away from me right now.

Speaker 2 (39:22):
I would have kicked.

Speaker 12 (39:25):
And then eventually we had to.

Speaker 8 (39:26):
Use like a bond tooth to remove the child from me.
But without having my mum there to be able to
back me. Yeah, all my husband could do was listening
to the you know, the doctors and.

Speaker 1 (39:39):
Just go with them.

Speaker 5 (39:40):
And to be fair, Annie, you might have experienced I
some men pass out and they don't they can't handle
what they said.

Speaker 4 (39:47):
Oh, they just then are very supportive husbands and.

Speaker 2 (39:51):
Do all of the right thing also pass out and
then you're left by yourself.

Speaker 3 (39:54):
An, thank you very much. I liked the strong opinion,
even though I disagree with it. That's what we want
more of those. Good luck getting the pope in the
birthing sweat at the moment as well would be my
other point. You're going to battle. Thank you give us
ring thirty one or two three. Help out Ethan on
his DM dilemma and he can.

Speaker 1 (40:09):
I just ask, was your mum there when you made
the child?

Speaker 8 (40:13):
No, unfortunately she wasn't available.

Speaker 4 (40:15):
No, yeah, you can always have another one.

Speaker 1 (40:18):
Annie not there when you make it, shouldn't be there
when it comes into the world. All right.

Speaker 18 (40:24):
If you've got problems, deeve God answers. This is Haley
and maxis d M dilemma.

Speaker 2 (40:32):
All right, you can DM us anytime. We will right
back and we will get you on the radio if
you want to help you Adelaide.

Speaker 5 (40:38):
Our beautiful listeners are so helpful. They jump on and
they help you solve your dilemma.

Speaker 3 (40:42):
Ethan in Redwood Park slid into our DMS and he
is about to have his first child with his lovely wife.
Congratulations and the wife just is a little bit keen
on having a mother in lawa in there, yeah, mum,
which is fair. He doesn't want it, but Hailey's all
on board with that, and I'm a little bit against it.
I think it's just the two of you, and Ethan
sort of tends to agree with me.

Speaker 1 (41:03):
But what do you think?

Speaker 4 (41:04):
Adelaide?

Speaker 2 (41:05):
Kelso and said, Agnes, what do you reckon?

Speaker 10 (41:08):
Thank you guys? How you doing?

Speaker 3 (41:09):
Look on with you?

Speaker 17 (41:10):
Holey?

Speaker 10 (41:10):
I was very much like Easton to start with. And
we had our first child twenty years ago. My wife
wanted my mother in law in there. I was dead
against it. I spoke a good friend of mine who
suggested that I let my wife have that support. It
was great advice. We then invited my mother in law
into the next two babies. We had the best friends,
and the more people you can share.

Speaker 1 (41:30):
That with, the better.

Speaker 4 (41:31):
Wellow, what was the support that you needed that you
couldn't have provided? Kelso? Take me inside. I haven't been there,
but myself mate.

Speaker 10 (41:39):
To be fair, I felt like I was watching the
best nature ten or ever, so I just could not
take it. Was just an amazing experience. And if Ethan's
wife wants more support and as the mother she wants.
I would say, Ethan, I don't think you regret it,
especially if you had a good relationship with your mother
in law. I think that you'll love it and you'll
share it with her and you'll talk about the rest

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of your life.

Speaker 5 (42:01):
It's also a beautiful gift to that mother as well,
because they will probably spend the rest of their lives
babysitting this child for you, and a bond between grandparents
so beautiful.

Speaker 4 (42:09):
They're going mum hanging out anyway to be there from the.

Speaker 1 (42:12):
Very moment they do.

Speaker 2 (42:13):
They want to see that give them that opportunity.

Speaker 4 (42:15):
I do like that.

Speaker 3 (42:16):
It was lovely for you, though, kel so thank you
for your call mate. Dawn in Gilberton.

Speaker 4 (42:21):
What do you reckon help us out with this damn dilemma?

Speaker 7 (42:23):
Well, my first grandchild was born in middle of COVID
in Melbourne.

Speaker 9 (42:28):
We couldn't get there.

Speaker 7 (42:29):
And but the mother in law did manage to get
there and she was in the birthday unit and all
went lovely and wonderful, And whilst my son was holding
his newborn child for the very first time, for however
long he was holding him for, she went up to
him and said, right, you've had enough. It's my turn now.

Speaker 16 (42:46):
No.

Speaker 4 (42:46):
See, we do not want that for ethings.

Speaker 2 (42:49):
Set rules.

Speaker 5 (42:50):
If it's going to happen, you've got to set rules.
If you've got a crazy mother in law, maybe that's still.

Speaker 17 (42:56):
Look the crazy is an interesting word.

Speaker 7 (42:58):
She's not when we all get on quite well.

Speaker 11 (43:00):
But let's put it this way.

Speaker 7 (43:01):
Now that they've moved back to Adelaide, they call her
an honor as well as me.

Speaker 11 (43:06):
She's not an honor entirely different.

Speaker 2 (43:09):
So let's just put it this way.

Speaker 11 (43:11):
Who does the bulk of the baby city?

Speaker 1 (43:12):
Okay?

Speaker 4 (43:14):
Not the arm ripper you love that. Ye can go wrong,
It can go wrong.

Speaker 2 (43:23):
Yeah, Maria in Hope Valley, what do you think can
you have the mother in law and the birthing? Sweet?

Speaker 11 (43:28):
Definitely, I don't think so. No, because like she wasn't
there when they made the baby. And when you're with
someone in a relationship, you're together for better for worse.
It's all about protecting each other, supporting each other through
life and anything you go through.

Speaker 4 (43:45):
Have you had a kid, Yeah?

Speaker 19 (43:46):
I have.

Speaker 3 (43:47):
And was there any point where you're like, I don't
have enough support from my partner?

Speaker 14 (43:52):
No?

Speaker 11 (43:53):
And you know what even if, even if Ethan passes out,
there's plenty of doctors and nurses in.

Speaker 4 (43:58):
There were like nine people in the room and I
was there.

Speaker 5 (44:00):
I don't think it's I don't think it's a matter
of being there for support. Whatever this woman wants her mom,
she's about to be cut open like either through whatever
hole it comes out of. Yes, she should have the
right to say, yes, I want my mom there. She
is going through so much. It's the most beautiful and
but traumatic thing you'll ever go through. And if you
want someone there, they should be able to be there.

Speaker 11 (44:22):
Or how about Ethan negotiates with his wife and says,
how about when you go into labor, we let your
mum know she can be there, and if you really
need her to come in, she can come in. Otherwise,
once the baby is born and we've had a moment
together with our newborn child, then your mum can come
in and celebrate with you.

Speaker 2 (44:38):
Us compromise. Maria just answered our question.

Speaker 4 (44:41):
It's very good, Maria, thank you very much.

Speaker 3 (44:43):
I think there would be nothing greater I would imagine
than that moment when it is just the two of
you and it is just the minutes afterwards. Sure, right. Well,
we've heard from people who've been there, people who've seen things,
people have opinions. But who better to give us a
bit of an insight into the birthing suite than a
GP obstetrician himself. My mate is one of those. Oh,

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doctor Alistair is on the line, mourning, doctor morning Mac.
But the family dynamic. But the mother's, the father's, the
step dads.

Speaker 4 (45:12):
Who do you want in there? Who don't you want
in there?

Speaker 3 (45:14):
What's it like when people are selecting and they're in
the heat of the moment, and you've got people who
want to get in there.

Speaker 20 (45:20):
The first thing to say is that every woman will
probably benefit from a different level of birthing support. I
think you're right. Sometimes, you know, it's natural for particularly
you know, the grandma's to be to really want to
be part of it all. But sometimes with these things,
fewer people is better and creates a bit more of

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a calm environment.

Speaker 5 (45:43):
Have you ever seen any fights going on between I'm
thinking maybe the father.

Speaker 2 (45:47):
Of the baby that's that to be born and a
mother in law.

Speaker 20 (45:50):
Sometimes the woman who's birthing, if there's a mother in
law that have involved, will often request to her partner
the mother in law sort of be asked to stay
out of the room when she's left, and sometimes the
blokes are not quite strong enough to stand up to
their mothers. That's the main issue that I'm aware of.

Speaker 3 (46:16):
So what's it like, Alie, When you're in there and
you get we keep keeping gloves on or whatever it
is you do, and you're about to catch the baby
that's coming out. Have you had someone maybe a mother
or something, sitting behind you before offering some advice.

Speaker 20 (46:29):
The one story that you know, some birth stories stick
with you forever, And the one story that I'll situation,
I'll never forget is you know, I had a supportive
partner at the head of the bed in the usual
spot holding is holding the woman's hands. The mother was
sort of flitting around the room making sure that she
had enough water and cool towels and all that sort

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of thing. And then there was another female relative i think,
floating around the back of the room. And so I've
sort of gone in assess situation, recommended we go ahead
with this assisted birth. And then you know, there's a
bit of setup to do, and we're sort of getting
ready and just before we start, while we're waiting for
the next contraction to build. There's usually this sort of

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quiet moment of anticipation that sort of settles over the
room as we as we wait, everyone sort of holds
their breath a little bit. And in that moment, I
hear this different female voice from over my right shoulder, go,
excuse me, but can you just move to the side
a little bit, because we can't see I've turned around

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and there's an iPad at the back of the room.
Facebook live streaming this woman's birth other viewers, and I
was so surprised and shot. Don't really know what to
do at first, and eventually I sort of had to
gently explain that the live stream might have to be
interrupted for a short moment while we got this next

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bit sorted. I was just so impressed at the confidence
of that viewer to be like, look, I know you're
doing something important, but actually we can't see you.

Speaker 3 (48:04):
The Waycian angle, one hand on the iPad, one in
the popcorn.

Speaker 2 (48:08):
What do they need to be facetiming? This is so weird.

Speaker 3 (48:11):
It is so weird to livestream. Imagine getting an oification.
Haley Pearsiness just started a live stream. There's all of
Hailey Pearsons.

Speaker 2 (48:20):
God, do I not realize that you poo at that
moment too?

Speaker 4 (48:25):
A lot can go right when you're giving birth to
a child out.

Speaker 20 (48:29):
Yeah, as we said, you know, every every family will
have as your friend to approach these things. And I
think it's incredibly brave to live stream your own birth,
but it's certainly not for everyone.

Speaker 4 (48:38):
Oh, Dtor Alistair, thank you so much. If you hear
any more ridiculousness from the birthing sweet please call us
any time.

Speaker 2 (48:45):
We would love to hear from you, our official doctor.

Speaker 1 (48:48):
I'll be sure to say to doctor Alistair, Hey, Haley,
Maxie out here for today.

Speaker 2 (48:51):
Bye bye bye guys, love you all.

Speaker 4 (48:53):
It's pretty much the weekend. Guys, I wouldn't go to
work today. You've got our permission.